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Today, we have 2 hearings with a couple where dad is
attempting to hold mom in contempt, for the third time,
on 3 different issues including info about preschool,
missing visitation, and info about a bank account. Dad
insists that mom isn’t accommodating him when he wants
her to but mom says she follows the parenting plan and
does her best.
Let’s see what the judge thinks...
Please tell me your thoughts in the comments below...
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@thebookofgenises
@thebookofgenises 8 месяцев назад
the father wants the mother to bend over backwards to make sure he gets parenting time with his own child. good for her for not playing that game. he is frustrated he cant control her anymore.
@jackwardrop4994
@jackwardrop4994 8 месяцев назад
keep that man away from the kid's bank account
@beckyd712
@beckyd712 8 месяцев назад
Sounds like he has a problem with his own family, his lack of extra caregivers is NOT his EX-Wife's problem.
@AuntieKim
@AuntieKim 8 месяцев назад
He is hell-bent on getting into that bank account.
@JP_IN_TX
@JP_IN_TX 7 месяцев назад
Due to the Per Capita Laws, the Per Capita payments would be deposited into a trust account, and when the minor reaches majority (18), they're able to receive the funds. He may just want to assure their child is receiving the payments.
@lisamariedooley2045
@lisamariedooley2045 4 месяца назад
@@JP_IN_TXdoubtful. He probably doesn’t realize no one can withdraw it
@ThatOneBitch69
@ThatOneBitch69 8 месяцев назад
This man does not care about their child. He only wants to control the situation.
@North_West1
@North_West1 8 месяцев назад
And the money.
@susanengel-ix8bl
@susanengel-ix8bl 8 месяцев назад
The way he keeps bringing it up , he wants that money.
@bobbisteele9264
@bobbisteele9264 8 месяцев назад
And his son’s Tribal money. The Cowlitz’s casino is the closest to Portland and does EXTREMELY well.
@jabberdouche
@jabberdouche 8 месяцев назад
That's an unfair assumption. There might be some history of the mother doing that, which is exactly why he needs access to that information.
@ladyliberty5771
@ladyliberty5771 8 месяцев назад
​@jabberdouche again, access to information is different. Seems he had been provided access to info, but is not receiving access to the account, meaning he can withdraw $$$. My bff's e.x would show he deposited $$$ child support, then take it out claiming it was for the child when they were in his care! That wasn't how it worked, so judge dissolved this and went directly to 3rd party payments, and finally to garnishment.
@MrsKravitzz
@MrsKravitzz 8 месяцев назад
He really thinks he should be able to access his son’s money? Riiiiight.
@spuriouseffect
@spuriouseffect 8 месяцев назад
In most cases the money in a child's tribal account cannot be accessed by anyone until the child can access it themselves when they turn 18. So I have no idea what this is about. Everything else in his contempt charge is ridiculous as well, so it's probably his I.Q. that's the problem, and it just cost him 500 dollars in attorney fees.
@ladyliberty5771
@ladyliberty5771 8 месяцев назад
​@@spuriouseffect So neither parent has access, so then ya, he is just harassing Mom thru Court.
@JP_IN_TX
@JP_IN_TX 7 месяцев назад
Due to the Per Capita Laws, the Per Capita payments would be deposited into a trust account, and when the minor reaches majority (18), they're able to receive the funds. He may just want to assure their child is receiving the payments.
@JadeAkelaONeal
@JadeAkelaONeal 7 месяцев назад
You obviously didn't watch this. Either that or you're a wife beater.​@@JP_IN_TX
@lisamariedooley2045
@lisamariedooley2045 4 месяца назад
@@spuriouseffecthe probably didn’t realize that
@karlat7880
@karlat7880 8 месяцев назад
“I don’t harass her. I just get really frustrated when im talking with her. “🙄🙄🙄
@dianecheney4141
@dianecheney4141 8 месяцев назад
When a man’s own family says, sorry can’t help you have to wonder, but when this guy is allowed to talk every one goes, yep there it is
@thebardslament5337
@thebardslament5337 8 месяцев назад
It sounds like the father wants to be able to take his son's money.
@workinprogress3942
@workinprogress3942 8 месяцев назад
Yeah, I agree. He wants to use our money for his needs. Still think this country is giving money away to those who can work.
@bobbisteele9264
@bobbisteele9264 8 месяцев назад
BINGO-he wants that Tribal money. In my Tribe it’s in a trust account until they’re 18. And the Cowlitz have a LOT of money. Their casino is 30 miles north of Portland and is the closest to Portland.
@gwenstone9685
@gwenstone9685 7 месяцев назад
Or doesn’t want the mom too.
@JP_IN_TX
@JP_IN_TX 7 месяцев назад
Due to the Per Capita Laws, the Per Capita payments would be deposited into a trust account, and when the minor reaches majority (18), they're able to receive the funds. He may just want to assure their child is receiving the payments. I'm an optimistic person, lol but humans continually make this difficult. 😊
@tangerinebabe1118
@tangerinebabe1118 7 месяцев назад
@gwenstone9685 the second judge says that she has sent the dad photos of the statements from the bank, so he can see via thoes that she isn't taking any money out. That's why the judge is happy and doesn't fine contempt. It's very odd how he's so focused on the bank account, when he is getting photos of the bank account. Seems like he wants control of it.
@user-dd5zw6tw4r
@user-dd5zw6tw4r 8 месяцев назад
He's horrible, even his family won't help him with info on the kid or pick the kid up for him. That speaks volumes
@saltinawenchito898
@saltinawenchito898 8 месяцев назад
He is not the custodial parent and does not have a right to access the child's bank account. He might be able to see monthly or yearly statements at his request, but certainly not have access to the child's bank account.
@hotsoup1001
@hotsoup1001 8 месяцев назад
I don't think either parent should be able to unilaterally withdraw funds from their son's bank account.
@bikerkat01
@bikerkat01 8 месяцев назад
@@hotsoup1001 The custodial parent can, that is how mine were set up.
@ChiliCattt
@ChiliCattt 8 месяцев назад
I find it very suspicious how intensely focused he is on having full access to the account, not just being able to view it
@magi267
@magi267 8 месяцев назад
Why does a kid have a bank account? And if he does shouldn't it be in trust for him?
@saltinawenchito898
@saltinawenchito898 8 месяцев назад
@@magi267 child is Native American, same tribe as his father. Natives qualify for certain federal benefits and often each tribe has a common source of money that pays dividends to it's members. In Alaska, they get benefit checks from natural resources mined on their lands. In Oklahoma, they get dividend checks from Native run casinos. The child needs a bank account to keep track of his benefits and checks received on his behalf. It is the right way for a nontribal member to keep the tribal benefits for the child separately from the parent's income.
@nvangel2073
@nvangel2073 8 месяцев назад
Wait, he's working the weird hours and he wants her get a 3rd party to bring the child. And work around him. Forget get him. The man child needs to grow up.
@spackelskrapan
@spackelskrapan 8 месяцев назад
So funny when the dude opens by saying he is representing himself because its such an easy matter then immediately proceeds to reveal that he has done everything so far the incorrect way.
@mariahillenbrand8396
@mariahillenbrand8396 8 месяцев назад
Yep!! He said it would be "no problem" getting the documents submitted to the court - but he doesn't do that!! Then he wants mom to accommodate him whenever he wants visitation. Dad needs to get someone to pick up the kid - she doesn't have to "accommodate you dude!! YOU need to figure out how to make this work!!
@Shylade
@Shylade 8 месяцев назад
Or not at all!
@mariahillenbrand8396
@mariahillenbrand8396 8 месяцев назад
Ok - dad says he would have no problem submitting the documents to the court, but he didn't do it?? Why?? If this is supposed to be "super easy" and you want it settled, then you needed to get those documents submitted to the court!! Get it together dad!!!
@KansasCityScientologyAudit
@KansasCityScientologyAudit 8 месяцев назад
She's doing what she is supposed to do, & he just wants access to his son's bank account so he can drain it!
@JP_IN_TX
@JP_IN_TX 7 месяцев назад
Due to the Per Capita Laws, the Per Capita payments would be deposited into a trust account, and when the minor reaches majority (18), they're able to receive the funds. He may just want to assure their child is receiving the payments.
@KansasCityScientologyAudit
@KansasCityScientologyAudit 7 месяцев назад
@@JP_IN_TX But he's getting copies of the bank statements. He is saying he wants access to the account.
@JP_IN_TX
@JP_IN_TX 7 месяцев назад
@@KansasCityScientologyAudit Totally agree with you. Him having access to the account doesn't allow him or the mother to withdraw funds. It's a trust account and the minor will be able to receive when they're 18. The federal government thought about that scenario because parents were doing what you're suggesting. It's call 'Per Capita Law'. I work as a hedge fund manager and the Father should be able to receive information regarding the transactions any time, not just when the Mother decides to forward a statement.
@lisamariedooley2045
@lisamariedooley2045 4 месяца назад
@@JP_IN_TXexcept he gets those statements so he knows the balance. He does not understand he doesn’t have other access
@Fyestyfem-dr3qh
@Fyestyfem-dr3qh 8 месяцев назад
Also, kudos to the second judge for being able to closely follow the rapid speech of mom's attorney
@ladyliberty5771
@ladyliberty5771 8 месяцев назад
😂 right! I had to lean in!
@JP_IN_TX
@JP_IN_TX 7 месяцев назад
Lol it's all that coffee she's drinking. 💯 Agree with you.
@OrphanAnnie681
@OrphanAnnie681 7 месяцев назад
I just want to know whets in or on the judge's mouth?!
@cloudysideupp
@cloudysideupp 6 месяцев назад
@@OrphanAnnie681 it’s a microphone with a super thin arm on it. Took me a minute to figure it out
@cindy7817
@cindy7817 8 месяцев назад
Have your girlfriend take you to work on Fridays. Pick up your son, and pick you up from work. Having a 1yr old child is no excuse that she can't do that for you. Obviously he is supporting her!
@rabidemu1280
@rabidemu1280 8 месяцев назад
You’re right. His ex has a young child she is taking care of well but he doesn’t mind inconveniencing her.
@Babelfroggy
@Babelfroggy 6 месяцев назад
That's abuse to the new wife, that she has no access to the car during the day when it's just sitting and not being used while he's at work. Looks like he will have divorce number 2 in another year or so.
@bluemoonofky8468
@bluemoonofky8468 8 месяцев назад
Why is he so focused on his SONS bank account!! Unless he thinks she's withdrawing money from it, which he never one time mentions that as a concern, he has no rights nor should she to take money from the childs account!! They should both be making deposits to their childs account for his future!
@danielmccarthy3672
@danielmccarthy3672 8 месяцев назад
I have heard so many men complain about the mothers of their children , blaming them for never seeing the children. When they have the chance to be a father , however , they come up with every excuse in the book to avoid spending time or find every single vindictive avenue legally to try to hurt the family . I know that many men face unfair treatment from the mothers of their children, and i have nothing against those guys...but these kinds of dirtbags? I have no respect at all for them.
@ladyliberty5771
@ladyliberty5771 8 месяцев назад
My ex claimed I was withholding. I brought proof he was "too tired", or "had other plans." I was moving to Canada (no geographical limits on court order), but I knew he would take me to court. Judgexadmonished him, told him to "man up!" This was when I showed the Court over the past year, he had seen our daughter for only 4 days (yet only 2-4 hrs each of those days). The parenting plan provided him Every other weekend from Friday after school to Sunday 7pm, and Wednesday evenings. There were days he didn't bother to show up or communicate! His wife, (woman he cheated with) was suddenly stay at home, but didn't want to be involved with our daughter. Judge allowed the move.
@danielmccarthy3672
@danielmccarthy3672 8 месяцев назад
@@ladyliberty5771 Good , I am Glad to hear that the judge saw what was going on.I cannot understand that kind of person...I have always said that if the time ever comes for my wife and I to go our own ways , we have to do so with respect for each other as parents. I cannot imagine seeing my daughter so rarely...I am sorry that you guys have had to go through that, but I am happy to know that you were able to make that move.
@North_West1
@North_West1 8 месяцев назад
She put the child on multiple pre-school wait lists. Not really much decision be made. Mom needs to be able to plan also.
@lisagrafton2529
@lisagrafton2529 8 месяцев назад
Is he trying to get the money from his son's bank account? That sounds fishy!
@JP_IN_TX
@JP_IN_TX 7 месяцев назад
Due to the Per Capita Laws, the Per Capita payments would be deposited into a trust account, and when the minor reaches majority (18), they're able to receive the funds. He may just want to assure their child is receiving the payments.
@emilyk6510
@emilyk6510 7 месяцев назад
@@JP_IN_TX it was said he gets regular statements though
@JP_IN_TX
@JP_IN_TX 7 месяцев назад
@@emilyk6510 True Emily. But you're not taking in consideration that statements may come monthly, quarterly, bi-annual, and annual. Per the Capita Law, all parents shall have access. So his point is very understandable and valid. I'm a hedge fund manager, and deal with these frequently. Thanks for your comment.
@truthspeaker1269
@truthspeaker1269 7 месяцев назад
What are the funds for and who's paying it and why?
@mkxv
@mkxv 7 месяцев назад
​@JP_IN_TX if that's the law, why doesn't he have access?
@barstad-9591
@barstad-9591 8 месяцев назад
He allegedly has a whole tribe of family members, but no one will help him? Can’t he borrow a car from a family member on those days, so his girlfriend can go pick up his kid at the agreed upon time? Dad should have to pay for attorneys’ fees incurred by mom on this third bogus contempt.
@susanengel-ix8bl
@susanengel-ix8bl 8 месяцев назад
If the father is allowed to pick his son up that doesn't mean the girlfriend should be allowed to.
@talas4670
@talas4670 8 месяцев назад
This was a total waste of the courts time. Glad he has to pay $500. Maybe that will teach him to stop being foolish and to grow up. All he has to do is ask for a time change to pick up his son. Bless his little heart...smh
@michaelafisher8198
@michaelafisher8198 8 месяцев назад
Hang on a minute, he wants the "quality time" with his son which he wouldn't get them 3 hours of "quality time" anyway as dad would be at work?! How's he getting that time at when he's at work?!
@Wildcat221
@Wildcat221 8 месяцев назад
Why does he need access to the money? Seems like he can just let it be.
@bookbug4life
@bookbug4life 8 месяцев назад
The father's obsession with the son's bank account sends up major red flags. None of his business unless he is putting money into the account. In that case, all he needs is a deposit receipt. Also, found it interesting that neither the lawyer or judge caught his argument that his girlfriend is a full time mom so can't pick up his kid - however, so is his ex. They are both at home with babies. He needs to grow up and solve his own problems w/o help from his ex.
@erinmccormick9979
@erinmccormick9979 8 месяцев назад
The kid is probably getting issued per cap payments from the tribe and its held in trust only the parents have access to for funds for the child. These can be significant.
@bobbisteele9264
@bobbisteele9264 8 месяцев назад
Or his son’s tribal checks.
@faithahenakew5802
@faithahenakew5802 8 месяцев назад
I am a Cree Woman from Canada Treaty 6. I can understand why the father would want to know how much is in the bank. Some of the settlements can be substantial! I totally get it if my Band (Tribe) was paying anything to my child that was not in my care I would definitely have them hold it and put it into a trust that I open myself. I imagine somethings a different from Canada to the US.
@ladyliberty5771
@ladyliberty5771 8 месяцев назад
The custodial parent would gave access, and perhaps an accounting for how the money is used for the child, since it goes to child's account, and not custodial parent. I agree with account info vs access. The Parenting agreement says he is to have INFORMATION concerning account but his wording is "ACCESS to the account"... 2 different things. IMO
@MrsKravitzz
@MrsKravitzz 8 месяцев назад
The poor mother is facing 15 more years of dealing with this fool. Poor lady. Good lesson to be more selective when procreating. This guy is a pedantic baby.
@milanamughal
@milanamughal 8 месяцев назад
I have a feeling they both are. They created a conflict where both are flexing - who has more power. When my son wanted to go see his Dad, and I had my daughter from birth till she went to pre-school, we simply worked out the ways to get this done - regardless of the parent lung plan language. Our issue was my son’s Dad used to travel for work, and when he’d be out of town - he’d end up missing his time. But when we were developing the parenting plan, his travel was almost non-existent. If she’s able to bring the child at 3 - she should be able to bring him at 6 to the meeting point. Instead, she sticks to the language of the parenting plan, while knowing his father is at work. This is not a frivolous change of time. Same for the Dad - she makes a snap of the screen, showing the account. There is not point in him having separate access to that bank account. Now - he’s flexing. So, instead of making things happen for their kid - they both create a ridiculous contention over smallest things as if they can’t share a pile and a shovel in a sandbox. I see no difference between the two of those parents
@ryanscott961
@ryanscott961 8 месяцев назад
​@@milanamughalif you don't see a difference between the two, you didn't watch the hearing. Dad's playing games and making demands, mom is doing what they agreed to. It's a night and day difference.
@milanamughal
@milanamughal 8 месяцев назад
@@ryanscott961 I watched this hearing. I don’t hear him being aggressive. I don’t hear him making threats or making nasty remarks to the parties. I can tell a difference from a person who makes up empty accusations and/or make up accusations to “punish” the other party and a person who is frustrated, has zero understanding of the law and trying to push a square into a triangle, so-to-speak. My graduate thesis was on parenting evaluations in light of cultural/ethnic differences in perception of parenting. I’ve worked as a child and youth psychologist for two years and in addition, because of the research for that particular thesis, I have worked with a number of GALs in WA state, and I have read through hundreds of reports and was present in the interviews and psych pathology testing of the parents contending for their kids’ custody. I’ve seen it all. Accusations of abuse, physical, emotional, etc (RU-vid won’t like the write up). Accusations of neglect, mistreatment. Manipulative people would do it all to get what they want. And a good percentage of divorcing couples use their kids as a bone of contention. They are not aiming at making their kids’ life better. They contend for “who is a better parent” or to spite their ex - where a child ends up being hurt, if a GAL is not appointed for the child(ren)’s protection at the first site of those manipulative behaviors. Here, however, I saw none of that. If not cut in it’s inception - this couple has a full potential of becoming one of such manipulative couple I described above. Yet at this point they are nothing but two flexing youngsters, immature adults who produced a child into the world, continue procreating without much thought (still) about the consequences of said procreation. I will tell you what a manipulative “other parent” abusing his parental rights and using court system for malice: if this dad was one, he’d have an attorney, he’d have CPS checking out her household at least monthly. We’d see a number of filed complaints with the CPS, courts, accusing her of being unfit parent. He’d accuse her of being unable to parent, and he - you can be sure, - would long ago have an attorney and go for parenting plan modification. And he’d win it. His work hours changed. He maintains his parental rights. Legally he has as much right to see his child as she does. And such a minor modification as putting in a wording “between 3 and 6 pm, depending on the father”/ work schedule”, or whatever else, would have been done. What judge told him - all he needs to do is to file a modification motion, because the original plan they signed on is too rigid and doesn’t work for the best interest of the child. And the best interest of the child is ALWAYS to maintain close relationship with BOTH parents. But instead of going all force and hiring an attorney to go after his ex, he googled what he could and figured out to file a motion for contempt. Google “what do if the other parent refuses to bring a child to visit with me” - motion for contempt will be up there in the search results. By how he went about it - clearly he doesn’t know what to do, and googles his options, because he cannot afford a family law attny. She, hiding behind the PP written a couple years ago, using it to flex at the father of her child. ALL attnys, judges, GALs and child psychologists will tell you that any PP is NOT written in stone, and can be changed by the parents, without courts and judges, if they want to parent, instead of fighting with each other using a kid for it. Her attny is very clear and straight forward too. It’s not her place to teach him how to go about it. But look at her manner in his hearing - clearly she knows he’s filed the wrong motion, to the wrong part of the court, and this is all solvable. But it’s not her place to solve this for him. She will only follow what her client wants. Your view of this is stereotypical, and added by the title of this video. If there was a GAL assigned, this pick up time issue would have already been resolved. However, this will continue. And she will have a ride awakening - when she would need some changes in the present PP and he will stick by the current one. But she - has a lawyer to consult. He - does not. All there is to it. There is no malice here. Yet. But both these parents have great potential to turn into those manipulative monsters. And mommy dearest is well on the way too. Pick up time change due to a change in work pattern is a small thing that can be written into PP, signed and filed in court without the hearing. He doesn’t know. She doesn’t know. Her attorney knows, but she doesn’t tell - she charges $300 or so an hour for a court appearance. So, she will continue taking advantage of two immature youngsters who produced a child and now use him for their petty squabbles. Her attorney will not advise the mom. The judge hinted to the dad - but dad is clueless too. And this is not his place to educate the parties. So the kid will continue missing out on good stuff in life and will live in this soup of contention till he turns into a teen and starts acting out. And guess what, his mom will accuse the father, who “wasn’t there”. And she will not remember that she fully contributed to him not being there as much as he wanted. Simply truth.
@bobbisteele9264
@bobbisteele9264 8 месяцев назад
Stories like these make for excellent birth control.
@ThePonyaS
@ThePonyaS 8 месяцев назад
So thankful for my parents…be careful who you have kids with‼️
@ladyliberty5771
@ladyliberty5771 8 месяцев назад
Too late for me!
@ThePonyaS
@ThePonyaS 8 месяцев назад
@@ladyliberty5771 🙏
@wendycampingmom7510
@wendycampingmom7510 8 месяцев назад
This man is very much like my ex. He won't bend or change the schedule for anyone but himself. But when he needs or wants a change I'm supposed to bend over backwards to accommodate him.
@dianebegay8288
@dianebegay8288 7 месяцев назад
This dad is terrible. He says it’s his responsibility to pick up the kid, no one else’s, but wants mom to provide a third party. What a mess
@julieaucoin9980
@julieaucoin9980 8 месяцев назад
Why is he so hell bent on having access to the bank account? Motion's denied!
@Shylade
@Shylade 8 месяцев назад
He was hoping to get ahold of his sons tribal money. Don’t think he banked on the custodial parent being the only one with access to the child’s accounts. Especially when it’s he who is the tribal member too. Bummer for him lol
@JP_IN_TX
@JP_IN_TX 7 месяцев назад
Due to the Per Capita Laws, the Per Capita payments would be deposited into a trust account, and when the minor reaches majority (18), they're able to receive the funds. He may just want to assure their child is receiving the payments.
@b.g.5965
@b.g.5965 8 месяцев назад
He lost me at "the tribe won't give me info cause she told me not to...but i'm the member of the tribe."
@debrakleid5752
@debrakleid5752 8 месяцев назад
Those who work in legal always tell you to have a lawyer and to not represent yourself. Even lawyers get lawyers. He thought this would be an easy win and that his wife would be held in contempt and that he can do as he pleases
@joyloft7418
@joyloft7418 8 месяцев назад
He is used to being in control and getting his own way. That's why he thought it would be easy. Kinda makes you wonder about the marriage and why the ex follows the Plan to the letter. She's giving him no leeway
@lisamariedooley2045
@lisamariedooley2045 4 месяца назад
Yup was explaining that the other day, lawyers hire lawyers. They don’t go pro se
@kimmaried.7313
@kimmaried.7313 8 месяцев назад
There is no way they are working him 12 hours with no breaks . It’s not even legal. You want access to your son’s bank account? For what reason ? Doesn’t follow court procedure to file papers. Again why ? Is this about control or the child ?
@SurvivingDaily2
@SurvivingDaily2 8 месяцев назад
By no means am I defending this guy but sounds typical for a refining or other manufacturing type job. They get short breaks on site but don't have access to phones & generally are not allowed to leave site during 30min lunch break
@kimmaried.7313
@kimmaried.7313 8 месяцев назад
@@SurvivingDaily2 That sounds more like it to be honest.
@susanengel-ix8bl
@susanengel-ix8bl 8 месяцев назад
Well, that's a break.
@winstonwolf6791
@winstonwolf6791 8 месяцев назад
There are no federal laws that require breaks and only 21 states have laws requiring breaks. Even states that have laws requiring breaks have exemptions for salary employees. Most people don't realize that companies give breaks because it is a smart business practice, even if not required by law.
@bobbisteele9264
@bobbisteele9264 8 месяцев назад
Certain jobs, yes you go 12 hours without a break.
@gayledrewry3727
@gayledrewry3727 8 месяцев назад
So,my first question is WHY does he want access to his sons bank account
@1776Tammy
@1776Tammy 8 месяцев назад
I can see him wanting and being able to see how much is in the bank account, I guess BUT he shouldnt have ACCESS to it. Sounds like he wants that money
@KansasCityScientologyAudit
@KansasCityScientologyAudit 8 месяцев назад
He can see what's in the bank account. He wants to be a signatory on the account. That would be a hard NO!
@maryanne2224
@maryanne2224 8 месяцев назад
She sends him statements
@Chrissy85308
@Chrissy85308 7 месяцев назад
I get the feeling the father's obsession with the bank account is so he can have access to the money. The mother sent him a screenshot of the account statement showing the money is being desposited. The parenting plan didn't give him access. He doesn't need it. Seems he is trying to control his ex through contempt motions.
@North_West1
@North_West1 8 месяцев назад
If he would have come to the court request a time modification to 6pm at same location…he might have gotten that. Or simply ask mom politely & directly to change time to xxxx. Not telling mom what she should do.
@oaklandmade007
@oaklandmade007 8 месяцев назад
Yeh, I'm not buying it 😒 for the fact that he didn't think he even needed a lawyer because this was "easy" says a whole lot about him💯 arrogant....
@StephanieSwan666
@StephanieSwan666 8 месяцев назад
It's not his family's or girlfriend's responsibility to pick up his son but it his ex partner's responsibility to go out of her way so that he can exercise his responsibility. That seems totally fair.
@Fyestyfem-dr3qh
@Fyestyfem-dr3qh 8 месяцев назад
Dad is the one playing games and trying to control and inconvenience his ex
@peggyguyer7058
@peggyguyer7058 8 месяцев назад
Praying hey get this sorted out. He is costing her money every time he brings her to court and THAT is not fair!!!!
@LeftieLoosie
@LeftieLoosie 7 месяцев назад
Whyyyy would he need access to his son’s bank accounts? Like what motive would he possibly have, besides having access to his son’s money!?
@marieriddel5915
@marieriddel5915 8 месяцев назад
Why does he need access to the kids bank account he gets statements he can see the baby’s money is going into the account. Why should mum give dad allowance for pick up time, if he has one car get his partner to drop him off at work that day so she can go pick your son up. Seriously he needs to grow up & take care off his responsibilities
@w.a3670
@w.a3670 8 месяцев назад
Stop filing time wasting contempt apps dude and get your act together, you have access to the bank information you don't need to be added to it as a signatory, it is your responsibility to meet your requirements of the parenting plan, sounds like you want to be the one calling the shots even though you aren't in a relationship anymore, you need to organise your relationship with family or a trusted person to pick up your son and stop with the expectations that your ex has to do everything to accommodate you. When you have a child , you need to stop acting like one, yourself!!!
@kristopherkuper5176
@kristopherkuper5176 8 месяцев назад
The father opened with, "I'm doing this without a lawyer cause it's simple". Then, he didn't file the thing(s) most important to his case and has it dismissed and he gets admonished for bringing contempt with no evidence. I imagine the reason his family doesn't want anything to do with pickups has more to do with the father. He was probably using his family as free taxi/day care. If he expects his ex to bend over backwards, can only imagine what he expects from his parents.
@susanengel-ix8bl
@susanengel-ix8bl 8 месяцев назад
Why is this guy trying to get into that account?
@LeftieLoosie
@LeftieLoosie 7 месяцев назад
And why is SHE responsible for providing a third party to drive the child? Why can’t dad do that?
@estemeiring3705
@estemeiring3705 2 месяца назад
He doesn't file a motion of declaration with the court!
@vivaldi1948
@vivaldi1948 8 месяцев назад
A bit of a "I want everything my way" kind of person?
@valerie362
@valerie362 8 месяцев назад
I'm a housewife and we've been down to one car for almost 2 years. I get up at 4:30 on the days I need the car and drop my husband off at work. We make plans in advance for those situations.
@Mewse1203
@Mewse1203 8 месяцев назад
He doesn't get breaks? As a former manager in Washington, that's not only illegal but unlikely. Even in agricultural industries, which are exempt from a lot of general labor laws, they are still required to give breaks that can't be waived.
@nobodyaskedfortwitterhandles
@nobodyaskedfortwitterhandles 8 месяцев назад
the only time I'm aware that breaks aren't required are shifts less than or equal to 8 hours
@susanengel-ix8bl
@susanengel-ix8bl 8 месяцев назад
I'm having a hard time believing anything this guy says.
@JadeAkelaONeal
@JadeAkelaONeal 7 месяцев назад
​​@Wheeler63I mean I think he's lying too but I worked at Subway for a total of 3 years and had literally 0 breaks. I worked from open to close most days and if I so much as had to lock the door to use the restroom one time they would try to write me up. Plenty of businesses violate labor laws. In fact I don't think it would be inaccurate to say MOST businesses violate labor laws
@klippitykloppity
@klippitykloppity 8 месяцев назад
He seems very controlling and wants his ex to bend to his wants and needs and also wants to get a hold of his sons money. He was very quick to say "as far as I'm aware, money can only be deposited, not withdrawn." and his ex gives him bank statements, what more does he need other than the knowledge money is there for his son?
@lauracarlson8759
@lauracarlson8759 8 месяцев назад
This child isn’t even in preschool and he wants access to his money. Wtf
@marcipalin9917
@marcipalin9917 8 месяцев назад
It's not the mother's problem that he can't pick his kid up at the time he's supposed to. He's a professional victim and wants everyone to cater to him. He needs to make a motion to change the time. He's a baby.
@julieaucoin9980
@julieaucoin9980 8 месяцев назад
Why is he so fixated on the bank account? I hope I'm wrong, but, he seems more interested in this bank accounts, more than anything. This father has to realize how this bank acct. seems to be his main focus. I agree with him. He does need to spend time with his son. If he wants parenting time changed, he should file a motion.
@julieaucoin9980
@julieaucoin9980 8 месяцев назад
If mother is following the parenting plan, I do not think she can be held in contempt. And she shouldn't be. Mother has a good attorney!
@emmymegify
@emmymegify 8 месяцев назад
“Fustrating”? The amount of people who mispronounce “frustrating” is FRUSTRATING! Hahaha. But really…!
@ryanmcclosky3312
@ryanmcclosky3312 8 месяцев назад
Absolutely
@bobbisteele9264
@bobbisteele9264 8 месяцев назад
It’s obviously the longest word he thinks he knows.
@corinnesullivan8769
@corinnesullivan8769 8 месяцев назад
If you didn't know, he's very "fustrated"
@jaredkeith53
@jaredkeith53 8 месяцев назад
Judge too Nice Not Making Him Pay the Full 1K. I Not a Fan of Nice Judges.
@mrsangelafisher
@mrsangelafisher 8 месяцев назад
If he is the one working these 12 hr shifts, why should the mother have to supply a 3rd party or meet him halfway to accommodate him? He should be doing that? They're his visits. How are you planning to work 12 hrs and visit your son atv the same time? If you're home to spend "good quality time" with him then you're not at work. You should be picking him up.
@Wildcat221
@Wildcat221 8 месяцев назад
Judge Evan’s(the first guy) is so professional and respectful, it’s almost suspicious 😂😂
@leahw2124
@leahw2124 7 месяцев назад
I saw one yesterday where an angry dad (who was withholding a child from his mother) hung up on him and he went ope, well in that case I'll recind the offer of visitation given how volatile he seems to be even over the phone.
@jenallen5202
@jenallen5202 8 месяцев назад
The person representing themselves has a fool for a client.
@patron2022
@patron2022 3 месяца назад
Sounds to me the father is more concerned with his son’s money than anything else.
@katies7708
@katies7708 8 месяцев назад
Its all about control...
@Sammiemyami
@Sammiemyami 8 месяцев назад
So will the child support get changed since the fathers work hours have been 12 hr days for 6 to 7 months?
@HonestTakeOnStupid
@HonestTakeOnStupid 8 месяцев назад
The mom will have to petition the court to consider that.
@Sammiemyami
@Sammiemyami 8 месяцев назад
@@HonestTakeOnStupid I know. I was just thinking that it should be re-evaluated if possible.
@w.a3670
@w.a3670 8 месяцев назад
Good point!
@regallylola5673
@regallylola5673 8 месяцев назад
@@Sammiemyamiin some states you can only motion the court to reevaluate the support every set amount of years like every 2 or 3 years for example so she may not be able to but I hope that’s not the case for her
@janmcclure551
@janmcclure551 8 месяцев назад
Not sure why dad doesn't leave the car with girlfriend with the car on Friday,.pick up the child and GF can go get him afterwork. He.could ride share hime that day.
@hotsoup1001
@hotsoup1001 8 месяцев назад
Wow, his employer makes him work 12hrs a day without breaks. I'm pretty sure that violates some state and federal laws.
@vortec2k2
@vortec2k2 8 месяцев назад
Depends on the State. Federal law has no lunch/break provisions for adults that I am aware of.
@vortec2k2
@vortec2k2 8 месяцев назад
​@@MarySmith-bc7mfOSHA has nothing to do with breaks and lunches. That would fall under the Dept. Of Labor. Federally, there are no laws for breaks or lunches for adults.
@lauracarlson8759
@lauracarlson8759 8 месяцев назад
Why he want his sons money
@JP_IN_TX
@JP_IN_TX 7 месяцев назад
The Father really should hire an Attorney. I admire individuals that can navigate through the legal process pro se, but he's struggling and his motions aren't resonating.
@katespina8037
@katespina8037 7 месяцев назад
Why does this guy think it’s up to his ex to accommodate him? His ex is trying to juggle a newborn but his current girlfriends excuse is having a toddler? The ex doesn’t have to do anything but what is in the parenting plan- which is meeting him (or someone else) at 3PM at the Y on Fridays. This guy is so entitled. And it also sounds like he is trying to have access to his sons money. He literally said that the account doesn’t allow withdrawals only deposits. Why would he want to change that?
@susanengel-ix8bl
@susanengel-ix8bl 8 месяцев назад
He says he doesnt get breaks at work? Well h s on one now during this hearing, and before when he was speaking at the hearing, so he's lying about his breaks.
@freddielind5282
@freddielind5282 8 месяцев назад
Wanting proof the correct $ is in the bank is one thing. Access is another!
@mw6346
@mw6346 6 месяцев назад
Im glad mom has an attorney because dad is unreasonable
@amanda_215
@amanda_215 8 месяцев назад
You can't take on Megan Gilmore pro se. You're going to lose 😅
@janetmoquin7828
@janetmoquin7828 8 месяцев назад
No breaks? Isnt that illegal? Ive always had breaks and lunch
@undecidedmiddleground5633
@undecidedmiddleground5633 8 месяцев назад
By federal law, you must get 15 minutes of a paid break for every four hours of work and a 30 minute unpaid lunch for every 8 hours of work. But, unless someone can prove it and turns in the employer, illegal is nothing but a sick bird.
@oaklandmade007
@oaklandmade007 8 месяцев назад
He is lying 🤥
@undecidedmiddleground5633
@undecidedmiddleground5633 8 месяцев назад
@@oaklandmade007 Perhaps, but why? There's just no reason to lie here. A break, or even lunch, most likely isn't enough time to get the child from mom.
@ladyliberty5771
@ladyliberty5771 8 месяцев назад
So he has info, as ordered, but hasn't got access? So he weekly dictates she is to be flexible to him and his work hours, has a stay at home gf who can pick up child at 3pm (I was picking up and dropping off for my now ex-husband) and he has no friends or family members? So change his pick-up time to 6pm. He's harassed her with court appearance! She hasn't withheld, she is doing what she is responsible to do and being slammed with 'contempt.' She now has to pay her attorney for all of this because HE can't make it to pick up the child. Again, NO contempt on her part. This is 'power & control' move and is harassing in nature which equates to abuse! This isn't a 'mom' problem, but a 'dad' problem! All that was required was for him to request a change in pick up time to 6pm! He SHOULD reimburse her $$$$ as legal fees, and a 'Contempt' hearing being used as a weapon is unconscionable.
@scypsylock9402
@scypsylock9402 8 месяцев назад
Tribal??? Native American sure which is what we call ourselves, or indigenous. We are a part of our Tribal Nations too, but to call us Tribal is pretty dumb. I'm Pawnee, not Tribal LMAO!
@JustTheClerk
@JustTheClerk 4 месяца назад
He’s actually the one that’s in contempt. 😂
@guccilady1017
@guccilady1017 7 месяцев назад
He’s delusional. WOW I really wish the courts would bring some type of punishment for people who repeatedly waste time and cause the other parent undo hardship. He’s insufferable. “I don’t know why she shows up at the time and place designated in the parenting plan” mf because she’s supposed to! He should be responsible for her attorney fees. I’ve seen it ordered in a similar case where one parent was weaponizing the courts and trying to disadvantage the other parent. Ridiculous Edit: I see the judge order him to cover $500 in fees. Booooo should’ve done the whole 1k
@melanieryan128
@melanieryan128 7 месяцев назад
I love this Judge... he looks like DeNiro and sounds like Casey Kasem. That said, this father is a complete control freak.
@suelawson7273
@suelawson7273 7 месяцев назад
How about this? Cut your hours if possible, on the days that you're supposed to have your child. Make them the priority. Stop acting astonished that co-parenting is difficult, and that everyone has to bend round you, even your child. And seeing statements as proof of where the money is, should be enough.
@tgshark1
@tgshark1 6 месяцев назад
he shouldnt have to go through the mom to get information for anything related to the child, period. it wont give him access to remove the money. A mom being the gate keeper on the sons account is insane...its like saying the dad cant access his childs school records without going through the mom.
@sukiwatson
@sukiwatson 8 месяцев назад
Why would he want access to the account. He also needs to get it together and stop taking the mom to court. It is his responsibility to pick up his own child. Not the mother to drop what she is doing and take the child wherever the dad wants her too. He may work all the time, but his girlfriend can drive him to work go pick up the son at 3pm then pick him up when he got off work. He is making this harder for himself then it needs to be. If this guy gets no breaks at work, then there really is no reason for him to have the one car. If he really cared about his child, he would find a way to see the child. Not make excuses and then turn around and blame the mother. All I can say is good luck to the mother he will not make this easy for her he will continue to blame her every chance he gets.
@gptable
@gptable 7 месяцев назад
Can we pause in amazement at this both judges' patience?
@PrettyPettyMara
@PrettyPettyMara 7 месяцев назад
This father.... is really really infuriating. He says its nobodys responsibility but his.own, precisely sir! Thats exactly the issue. Also, his gf is a full time mom? And ex gf isnt? Are you serious?! He needs to get his head outta his ass and not blame anyone but his own darn self. Jfc.
@bikerkat01
@bikerkat01 8 месяцев назад
You cannot pull out money if you are not on the account. It is for the care of the child who is in the custody of the mother, it sounds like.
@JustTheClerk
@JustTheClerk 4 месяца назад
Why can’t he just go pick the kid up at mom’s later on?
@kmac0001
@kmac0001 8 месяцев назад
So why cant they change the pickup time from 3pm to 6pm?
@henrysmith180
@henrysmith180 8 месяцев назад
He says he asked her to drop off the child at his house, yet her lawyer says he's asked her to stay away. He's creating his own problems.
@nobodyaskedfortwitterhandles
@nobodyaskedfortwitterhandles 8 месяцев назад
the time set in the parenting plan is 3pm but he wants to do it at 6 without modifying the parenting plan
@maryanne2224
@maryanne2224 8 месяцев назад
He needs to join a union. No breaks on a twelve hour shift. Thats illegal in UK
@emilyk6510
@emilyk6510 7 месяцев назад
He said he was at work during this call so he is on a break while talking to the judge. 😂
@dianecheney4141
@dianecheney4141 8 месяцев назад
I like dads reindeer games. I don’t want to take my sons money, I just don’t want her to take his money
@apacheflower
@apacheflower 8 месяцев назад
If he needed to submit documents, could he not file and submitted the documents online?
@LordDustinDeWynd
@LordDustinDeWynd 8 месяцев назад
29:02 The tribe are all blood relatives, but none of his uncles aunts nieces nephews step-relations want to help him out? Aw, poor boo-boo.
@KansasCityScientologyAudit
@KansasCityScientologyAudit 8 месяцев назад
Does sound very sketchy that NONE of his relatives want to help him! That screams he's a douchecanoe!
@bobbisteele9264
@bobbisteele9264 8 месяцев назад
The tribe doesn’t have to be told NOT to release any information, they’re not going to give any non-tribal non-custodial parents any information. His mother is the tribal member and frankly we’re all a little fed up with non-custodial, non-tribal parents thinking they’ve got rights over the juvenile’s trust accounts.
@bobbisteele9264
@bobbisteele9264 8 месяцев назад
So he’s the tribal member, she’s the custodial parent.
@maryholden3136
@maryholden3136 5 месяцев назад
​@@bobbisteele9264I thought mum is the tribal member
@gpasgrl1017
@gpasgrl1017 8 месяцев назад
Why don’t they change the pick up time to 630pm
@nancygodsey8312
@nancygodsey8312 8 месяцев назад
The original parenting time remains until, or if, he files a motion that is agreed upon by the court and the custodial parent. If he's working so much and only has one vehicle, he should be able to afford an uber ride for his live in girlfriend to pick up his son that he wants to co parent so much. Otherwise, the mother is in compliance and he's not.
@henrysmith180
@henrysmith180 8 месяцев назад
​@nancygodsey8312 I bet he has no idea what forms he has to fill out. So many people don't understand the legal process and then they blame the other party
@bikerkat01
@bikerkat01 8 месяцев назад
I work 6 to 6 with no breaks, that is a Labor and Industry issue. Illegal as heck. SO HE MAY BE LYING ABOUT THAT
@freddielind5282
@freddielind5282 8 месяцев назад
Yup and lie to the court once you will not be believed again.
@Capkirk
@Capkirk 8 месяцев назад
He expects her to drop everything and do his bidding. They are not together. She’s not his wife. She doesn’t have to do a damn thing he wants her to do other than follow the court order and it sounds like that’s exactly what she’s doing. Why should she continually move her life around his! Get a job that doesn’t cause you to miss time with your son. We can see what’s more important
@twitchiewitch1
@twitchiewitch1 8 месяцев назад
Where in the United States does this father work for 12 hours without a break??? It is federal law that an employee gets 2- 30 min breaks in an 8 hr shift & 15 mins for every hour worked over 8 hrs. By my calculations this man should be getting 2 full hours worth of breaks in a 12 hr shift! If he gets no breaks it has to be by choice for whatever reason, perhaps he does not get paid for breaks so he chooses not to take them, but if those breaks are not offered then everyone working for that company needs to report this slave driving company to the feds!
@tieerraanicolee
@tieerraanicolee 3 месяца назад
He doesn’t need access to the CHILDS account. Once the child is of age they will be able to use THEIR money. He just wants to get ahold of it. My sister, nephew and nieces all get payments from their tribes my sister can use hers freely since she is an adult BUT her children’s money is strictly locked up for them when they are 18-20 I forgot the age.
@Rustyspoonssssss
@Rustyspoonssssss 7 месяцев назад
why is he so concerned with his bank account ??
@deannablais5845
@deannablais5845 2 месяца назад
What is that on the Judge's face?
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