@@SunShine-iy4ik How's that nasty? Some people don't feel the need to wash their hair everyday or shower/bathe everyday. Most people shower/bathe when they're sweaty or smelly. Everyone's body is different. I take showers/baths twice a week and wash my hair after every 3 days cause it becomes very oily.
The Prophet ﷺ said, “Perhaps a man will say what he did in his house? Perhaps a woman will tell what she did with her husband?” The people sat in embarrassed silence, so I said, “By Allah, the women say so and the men do so.” The Prophet said, “Do not do so. Verily, that is like a male devil and female devil fornicating in the street while people watch.” Source: Musnad Aḥmad 27036 Grade: Sahih li ghayrihi (authentic due to external evidence) according to Al-Albani
I truly truly pray that Allah keeps u guys in a healthy relationship and may Allah protect you guys from evil eyes.. the way you guys communicate and understand each other's point is very healthy Allhamdulillah... May Allah bless you with success of both worlds ameen
especially if we want to do it at night.. i wont shower before fajr 😂 But its okay if its not more than once a day and sometimes a day or two break, i think the struggle is more if you have to shower at night times or before fajr
@@Smiley-yk7vw This is such a silly comment and belief. Angels don’t curse you if you have a valid reason to refuse (which, valid reason = simple not feeling like it). 😑
@@SooBeautyFull That’s not a valid reason. Idk what you talking about 🤣 valid reason is feeling sick, being on your period etc. Refusing to sleep with your hubby because you don’t want to wash your hair over and over again is not a valid reason sis.
The thing that scares me the most about having a baby is pregnancy weight gain and visible changes in my body. I really think it should be the wife's decision on when to have a baby cuz she's the one who's body is going through changes. If a woman wants to wait a few years before having a kid or doesn't want kids at all, her husband has zero rights to pressure her into having a kid sooner or having one at all.
@@linaa4076 that’s me. I don’t think i want kids bc i’m very scared of pregnancy. I just want kids without getting pregnant. My periods make me want to kill myself, and each time it hurts so much that even medication cannot help me. So I always think, since my periods hurts so much what will pregnancy look like? I’m scared that i’ll be pressured to make kids although i deep down don’t want to do it.
@@user-bv1qt6cd4g make dua that the pain is eased, Allah answers all duas so ask him sincerely for help and he will help, trust Allah and know he is always there in your times of hardship
The scariest thing about having a child is the possibility of failing as a parent. It’s a commitment and a responsibility. Elon Musk says “your children owe you nothing whilst you owe your children everything.” If having kids is a deliberate choice we make, we owe them the right of safety, security and freedom. Most criminals and those suffering in many ways are proof results of their parents’ actions and how they were raised. I don’t know if I’m getting my point across but it’s scary thinking your child could grow up to be a dangerous person with intentions of violence and revenge and it’s even more terrifying knowing you, as a parent, are responsible. If your biggest concern is the visible changes in your body, I suggest you start thinking carefully. Your body will change in time regardless of having kids or not.
@@coconat5359 if you are giving birth either in excruciating pain or high on pain relief there is a very high change you won't know if you pooped 🤷🏻♀️ they are very quick to take it away as well. The midwife in my prenatal classes said they always tell mothers they didn't pooped even if they did.
As a student midwife i can tell you that you won’t even smell it or know because we are so fast at cleaning it trust me you won’t even know😊. And for the second part, you guy’s communication is so good mashallah i feel like the baby will be so loved and that inshallah you will be able to communicate your needs because you understand each other❤. I was scared too and still am but i just think about Allah’s timing now and i’m like if it happens it’s fine because i’ve got a supporting ass husband so we can get through it. It will be tough but your relationship is what will make it worth it inshallah😊
Y’all are so cute mashaAllah tabarakallah! Also I’ll tell you something about having children - they come with their own barakah InshaAllah khair and just like Allah SWT built women to birth, Allah also doesn’t give u what u cannot bear so u too will be able to parent them when they come in to the world ❤ oh also the fact that you’re so worried about it just shows how much you care - I think you’ll be better parents because of this. It is hard and it is a test but again every hardship comes with ease and the reward is always better the harder it is ❤
I just randomly came across this video on RU-vid and since I am a Muslim I was intrigued to watch it. I must say that the annoying habits segment was adorable! Also, I understand your plight over having a baby. I had it too. But trust me, you won’t even realise or remember if you pooped while having contractions 😂😂… I don’t remember it at all and honestly I didn’t care a damn about it then 😊 Good luck to you with it ❤
Ngl, sometimes I find ways to avoid "doing the deed" just because I don't want to do ghusl. ^^; It's so much easier for guys because their hair dries so fast.
Jasmine when you’re in labor pooping is not even on your mind! Trust me you’ll poop thousand times just to have that baby out and healthy! I have no idea if I pooped when I gave birth and I honestly don’t care 😅 it’s so common anyway
Lol so true. I remember telling the nurses while pushing, that I might poop and they were like it doesn't matter. It's definitely so common and the nurses and doctors have seen it a million times. And the most important thing at that time is to get that baby OUT!!! LOL
12:20 Don't worry he won't even know cas it gets messy (fluid blood etc) but midwives clean so fast like you won't even know. Honestly like they keep moving the disposable sheets after each contraction push and that's probably the time when someone would have a mistake n they don't tell you either so 💁🏻♀️ 13:10 I think it brought more reason to love each other.... like a new chapter of love ❤️ It's Our little person.. with abit of both characteristics 🤣🤣 We have to plan some things around her nap (like sitting out in the pouch watching the rain with hot chai ) she runs out in the garden or even putting her earlier to nap or skips the nap so we can spend more time in the evening/night.. lots of munchies 🍿🍫🍬🥤and buddy time الحمدلله for gifting us offspring
Jasmine I feel you about giving birth I had the same fear... Honestly I was thinking prior to falling pregnant that the last trimester I'll be having a liquid diet just so I don't poop while pushing baby... That didn't happen. Thank God I had diarrhoea when I stated getting contractions and by the time I gave birth I was all cleared up.. maybe it was because I had Nando's literally 2 days in a row prior.
@@momnahyasin3126 yeah I read about that but I heard so many stories that and how common it is so I was petrified of the possibility my hubby and midwives would see it...
Jasmin,do you know that fear of pooping during the delivery easily could be resolved😅In many countries they doing enema before delivery so you can demand one😊
@@momnahyasin3126 not True at all. My laborpain started and it was so painful, like a hard wooden kubus trying to pass my birth canal ans it want go down but it cant, because of the pain I couldnt lay down, walk, move side while laying down
What she's says at 8:19. I HATE BARE FEET. especially like floors are always dirty. No matter how many times you sweep, vacuum, mop ect there's always some type the of dust on the floor that accumulates under over some time under your feet. like, why would anybody like that feeling?
You don’t have to think a lot of what is going to happen during the giving birth you only have to pray and ask god to help you. I am agree with you that Having a baby is truly a challenge to your relationship because unfortunately if you will have a difficult child it can definitely cause loads problems in the couple unless you put efforts to handle it . God bless you
Yes about the fard- ghusal, the women hair, you only need to wash the whole head- hanafhi school of thought, you can live the rest of hair plaited. Option
I know that my country is not advance but highly recommend to visit Bangladesh. Especially in my city Chittagong. Our city has largest Sea beach in the world Cox's Bazzar and some hill in east part.
Umar was responsible for hijab - Ibn Umar reported Umar as saying: My lord concorded with (my judgments) on three occasions. In case of the Station of Ibrahim, in case of the observance of veil and in case of the prisoners of Badr. Sahih Muslim 31:5903
Watch doulas giving tips on laboring at home before you decide to go to a hospital. There are different stages of labor. Active labor is when you need a midwife or to go to a hospital. As women we are designed to birth children naturally, the hospitals make pregnancy like a sickness because they are in the business of making money. The longer they keep you in the hospital the more money they make. Btw, don’t watch any documentary on this topic with your spouse, there might be unnecessary graphic exposure in them. I regret having my husband in the room every time, doulas are more helpful, especially if the husband can’t understand how to help with pain relief or not to freak out himself.
I feel like if the baby comes, a couples relationship becomes stronger if they pass it like you said , if you love each other you’ll do just fine , the fact that I’m not even married or with children, it’s just absurd lol 😂 ❤ may allah bless
I love you Jasmine. You are so beautiful. Its the first time l see your veideo and you take place in my heart. Perfect couple. Lots of love frome Afghanistan🇦🇫
