My sister always used to say that parents are most over rated and selfish people on the earth.... they give everything n do everything when we are child...but when it's comes to marriage they put all that long list in front of children and break them emotionally...,and take that most important decision in their hand...
When a girl marry her surname, her family culture all dies with it. Girls aren't baby producing machine. But I have seen there is no way that legacy of girl's family is carried on. Also in case of inter linguistic community, and in interfaith marriage, women's religion, native tongue nothing is passed on to next generation. That's why everyone is crazy to have boy child.
Ye hai asli mard ! You are very wise, give a balanced perspective, can think beyond the usual social conditioning, are a great observer, and are bringing about topics in discussion that most people would not even want to think about forget having the courage to talk about and take a stand for... I usually don't say this but, this is for you guruji - Charan sparsh...
I simply don't understand why Indian parents want to spend a fortune on the girls wedding instead of spending just on basics and giving her the reminder as security for a lifetime And yes the final aim is ALWAYS TO MARRY OFF THE GIRLS instead of making her self reliant
As a girl I know our indian parants don't want to give anything to us. But always says we love you most and give everything to the brother saying Everything is for your brother.
हमारे साथ उल्टा हुआ है। जीवन भर सहा हमने, भुगता हमनें। सोना बेटियों ने समेट लिया सारा। भाई से मदद भी खूब लेती रहीं। जायदाद में हिस्सा से ज्यादा खर्च कर चुके। विश्वास करके मकान अपने नाम नहीँ कराया। अब पीछे से हिस्से के लिए कोर्ट केस करके बैठी हैं।
with due respect, I have question sir. why everyone always talks about right of girls but never talks about their responsibilities? I have seen in my family when I was called by my bua's for making payment in hospitals for her own mother? why it is always responsibility of soon to look after parents? why just divide the rights equally not responsibilities ?
U r a fattu man. Better take Sanyas ,live alone n start making food for urself ,clean ur living place n wash ur own clothes. These will b much less responsibilities than women of a house as u will b doing these things just for urself n nobody else. N chill.
Kyunki ldkiyo ko ung responsibility layk bnaya hi nhi jata h parents k dwara. Pehle jb hak doge tbhi to smaaj mai change aayega or jb hak milega or vo phir responsibility k layk bhi bnegi. Aap ye umeed nhi kr skte ki Haan pehle responsibility phir hak kyunki ldko ko hak diya gya h unka tbhi responsibility bhi unke upr h. Or sirf pdhane se kuchh nhi hota mentally bhi ldkiyo ko bahut dependent, drpok bnaya jata h taki vo kbhi khud se koi decision le hi na ske or jb ye nhi hoga to bina hak k responsibility dena to misuse krna hota h. Or ldkiyo k upr responsibility totally hoti h except finical maximum responsibility ki umeede ldkiyo se hi hoti h. Ki vo apne future, career, psnd ko sacrifice krde or pehle maa baap bhai ki kre or baad mai in-laws ki. Aap thoda unbiased hokr socho. Ldkiya isliye help nhi kr pati h apne family ki kyunki unhe use husband or in-laws dwara control kiya jata h ki ab to tu heart nokrani h yhan kr. Aapko pehle kisi insaan ko independent bnana pdta h not just financially but also mentally, emotionally jo bahut sari ldkiyo ko nhi bnaya jata.
Mindblowing video sir... Finally someone has the courage to address these sensitive issues of society .. Hopefully this video may contribute to improve the condition of girls
No they are not same. Biologically, physically, mentally in every way. It's not about being equal but about embracing differences because that is how nature has made us, different and complementary to each other.
Hello respected sir🙏 In September, I lost my father due to COVID I am 20 year old female student and I have a 10 year old sister, my mother as well as I are under tremendous stress as we lost the only man of our family.. She is worried for debt of medical loans, her children society, her health, fear of loneliness in the old age, difficulties being faced by a wife without a husband's; support and all the future issues.. I, myself am very disturbed as to how should I independently handle this society and work without a father's shelter, how should I safeguard and build my younger sister's future... PLEASE make a guidance video on this situation... Many ladies face this dark phase of losing the man of the house and not having a son as well It's my humble request to shed light on this issue and express your valuable guidance THANKYOU 🙏🌼🌼
You're on the track of struggle... Keep hustling, I know it's not gonna too easy as pretending, it'll definitely take some time but your hardwork will break all the barriers. Ye din bhi gujar jayenge... One day there'll be lustrine on your face, remembering this tough time 💙
Thank you for sharing your story. I think you’re a mature,strong and sensible girl already. Yes life is difficult at the moment for you. But this too shall pass and you will emerge stronger for it. Always remember your father is watching and guiding you and family. You have his blessings always. Study and work hard and also take time out to enjoy the little and big joys of life. Stay ever blessed ❤stay strong ❤keep smiling 😊
MAG!!!!! Maza aa gaya Sir.. Very true... Log ladka ladki barabar bolte jarur hai par barabar ka haq nahi dete.. Society is hypocritical for both genders.. Hope people will stop pretending to be an equalist ...
Property sharing between children on 50-50 basis is an eye opener which needs to be followed by everyone, thank you the wonderful perspective 🙏🙏🙏 Amit Ji, I salute you for your videos which gives new perspectives for life. I can't understand Hindi, sorry for that. I am 60 years old and from south india, Bengaluru Karnataka. I only wish that your videos were in English which will reach for many people like me, thanks a lot 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you Sir. When we have these conversations within our families, we are termed 'too much', aggressive, 'churail' etc... Wise तो हम को कभी नहीं bola गया.... Thank you for validating our wisdom. By 'our' I mean so many of my friends and me who are now at a stage where property division has to happen....
Yeah, they always tell apne bhaiyo k bare M nhi sochti ldkiya Kya Kya nhi krti apne bhaiyo k liye . Thda sa bhi boldo ki aisa hona chaiye the moment we say this parents ko sanp sungh jata h.
I have started watching your videos recently.Aap bahut suljhe hue insaan hain.aapki baton se main relate kar paati hun .after my husband's death 2 years ago,I am living alone.neighbours say go and live with them(son).I want to live by myself.i visit them whenever I feel like.I want them to live their life.but relatives don't like this.they don't understand that I have wonderful equation with my daughter in law.I don't take money from them,but they bear all cost when we go on vacations.I am happy they are happy.in fact my daughter in law respects me a lot.she says mummiji toh bahut smart hain,she can manage on her own,unlike my mother who is dependent on my brother for every small things . I take extra care of my health.have kept my house and other assets.i am very open about my finance.apne bachchon se kya chhipana.you have to learn to trust your children.unlike earlier generation who did not trust anyone.
Awesome Sir.. I am that girl who does not want share in father's property as he doesn't have much.. also I have this feeling that he already gave us too much.. by giving us equal education with our brothers.. MAG..
Sir pitaji ne mujhe sirf yahi bolke padhaya ki apna shadi ka karcha khud uthana hai.. aur maine kiya bhi.. Bhai padhne me achhe the nahi..papa ne jaha admission karaya waha drop kar diya.. maine shadi k baad khud se ghar kharida , sab kuch apne se joda.. uske baad bhi Bhai bolta hai ki hamari help nahi karti.. papa ne life long uske liye zameen ghar gadi commercial plots aur complex bhi bana ke Diya.. par mujhe di toh sirf education wo bhi condition pe.. mere saath itna bhed bhav kiya..phr bhi umeed mujhse rakhte hein ki mai paise du unko.. baht gussa aya hai kabhi kabhi.. sir property me hissa toh Qayamat waali baat ho jayegi..
I liked the parts where you advise everyone to treat son/ daughter(s) alike. I have daughters. And I feel they should live their life the way they want. We would always be there to support them come what may. I have two elder sisters too. Our eldest sister is not well to do and its painful to see that. we are ok for her to have lions share in what our parents have to offer. Quite hilarious but true that we should not expect kids for sewa. They already have too much in their life.
Recently started viewing your videos on RU-vid.In general they are highly interesting,superb,analytical, practical, thought provoking, and offer various views and perspective on career,friendship family etc. Also they are casually having humour without losing sight of the main subject of video.They cater to various age groups which is added plus point. Really your words are very valueable in today's world.
Why always ONLY father takes decision of property division? Just because he ears money doesnt mean he only have rigths to decide whom to give property. Society should first give equal rights to mother to decide about property division..then talk about giving equal property to daughters...we indian women want decision making power first.
Sach kahun to aajkal ulta hota hai Sir, agar beta acha kama raha ho aur beti housewife bani ho, to beti ko jyada share dete hain kyunki woh kamaati nahi aur jo ladka kabhi kabhaar kuch ghar ke kharch kliye de bhi de to bhi uski koi kimmat nahi hoti but beti ko hi jyada poojha jata hai
Very touching line,haath se chhodkar jane me jo sukh h,chhoot jane me nahi ,so true.Every video of yours gives a new perspective of life, awakening content.👍
Thank u sir for all ur expertise knowledge, experience n advices....it's very very useful for better n peaceful future...today's topic I'm a bit confused....i believe in equality but if any child disrespects u n does not take decent care n responsibility of parents when required...i personally feel they shd be fined proportional n thebone who irrespective of other sibling is taking care n giving time shd be rewarded accordingly .....please throw some light on my view🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
inspite of being spiritual you are very practical.if people like you come forward and talk with people the things which were ruining life will be wiped out.and our society will be healthy and happy.
Content is good and relevant to middle class and higher middle class. It is good that one should be objective enough to decide the division of his assets during his life time but actual passing of major assets must take effect after his death. Eventually the assets of parents are not so precious for लायक children and they are not very much careful for that. पूत सपूत तो का धन संचय, पूत कपूत तो का धन संचय। लेकिन यह बात सही है कि लड़के और लड़की के बीच बराबर से ही प्रापर्टी दी जानी चाहिए।
Extremely progressive and practical take on sons and daughter's. Can we as a society be more fair between them? When will we drop the ineqity of patriarcal mindset and give girls equal share in property, general treatment so that they can be more confident & secure. A societal reform long overdue.. Let's begin today.
Yah baat Sahi hai chahe koi Mane ya Na Mane ladkiyon ka koi Ghar nahin hota vah Puri life insecure hi rahti hai agar ladki property bhi mang lena to Bhai bolenge baat nahi bana koi aapko bulaega nahin koi aapko puchega nahin kahane Ko sab Apne Hain per apna koi nahin individual life hi nahin padati hai always
Kaha se laate ho ye sab topics sir..... seriously bahut alag aur sahi prospective de diya hai zindgi ko samjhne ka.... Hamesha lagta hai isse zaada kya aayega but Hats off..... Thank you so much....
What if in laws where taking monthly money for 17yrs only from elder son,additionally made him pay bills nearly 7-8 lac Rs for hospitalization. Now when it comes property rights their daughter and other son they are giving maximum share. How to handle this?
I am that elder son who is giving money every month to my parents since 10 years continuously without even a single failure. Still I don't get my due respect. 🥺
MAG. Sir Today after listening your video i am remembering my father. He is no more but his thoughts were exactly like yours. I like to hear your videos with great great msgs. May God bless you with long happy healthy life. 🙏🙏
Thank you sir.. Aajkl ki hectic life and nuclear families me esa ho rha h ki hme family/society ke aged logo ( senior citizens) ke pas baithne ka time hi nhi hai jisse unke knowledge/ experience ko nhi le paa rhe ... Lekin aap ke videos dekhte hain, Ek different level ki thought process dekhne ko milti hai ... Thanks
MAG sir you r absolutely right. My father was thinking like you and wanted to do also but my brother was a real bully and he had to succumb to him lot because he loved his son . Can you imagine he had to write his house in his son's name only ,and said as long as he is getting His Railway Pension his son will not throw him out 😭 . He got a good pension not a poor one . Because of society he could not decide to stay with his daughter in his last year's. .🙏 Keep going sir for society.👍
One of the best videos and must be watched and followed by every parent. Govt though has issued laws to give equal share to daughters but most parents bypass these laws by Writing Will in favor of their sons only. This wrong mind set of parents give birth many family disputes and discrimination. If the concept of equal share among all children is followed, many evils shall vanish. Congrats and Thanks for preparing such eye opening video.
Not only in property , this ladka ladki discrimination happen in every part of life , be it is education and finding the right partner for girls , food , love etc. Family me to mother ki hi chati he aur mother ke liye beta is priority.
My parents.... Unhone kaha hi nahi kiya aur mana bhi.. Meri shadi ke 7 years ho rahen... In every situation wo humesha sath rahte hain papa bolte hain mera sher hai😄equal respect, share sab kuch diya hai.... I m blessed enough...sari betiyon ko mere jaise ma-baap milen...
