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@amitgg2
@amitgg2 Год назад
This video deserve a crore likes. Arguably the best video of the channel. 4 hours work system for women is a mind blowing idea. This needs to be reached to the decision makers at the earliest.
@hindguy
@hindguy Год назад
abe yeh buddha bahut bada feminist hai sala
@atulkulve1
@atulkulve1 Год назад
Bhai sahab unpractical hai aise suggestions. And actually fertility has reduced bcoz women are marrying late bcoz their priorities have changed and by the time she wants to get married her age would be above 28-30 which you can ask any doctor or gynac or even pull out stats from web women is gone but in opposite to men fertility it lasts for more the age 40 if good care taken it can last till 50 age also. Unfair yes but this is nature women should get married utmost at Age 22 to be fertile and atleast have 2 children which is just replacement of current generation figures otherwise this is going to get worse.
@saumyapunekar8625
@saumyapunekar8625 Год назад
Awesome video 😊👍it's high time ! Govt needs to take serious measures on this matter Working hours should not be more than 4 to 6hrs with 5days working is must . Also baby sitting arrangement should be made mandatory in every locality ,so that can provide employment to all . Also dependency on inlaws will be nil. 😊👍💐🙏
@amitgg2
@amitgg2 Год назад
@@hindguy shame on you using such words
@vijaychadha7932
@vijaychadha7932 Год назад
Really good ,4hrs work is nice,difficulty is compratio with husband .in no way she likes less salary when can get more by working 8hrs .There is no satisfaction that is problem .Balance is must. Female in no way is less then men but now she wants to show she is not less then man competion make family life worse. I feel so please Commet.
@gunjanchandra4212
@gunjanchandra4212 Год назад
Tears in my eyes. This is so relatable. I have a 3 year old son with no help from family. Everybody expects us to be perfect everywhere both at work and at home.
@priyankapattanaik5414
@priyankapattanaik5414 Год назад
😒😒😒oh..we can't hire maid also..they don't work or dot work acc to us
@ankittikariha7419
@ankittikariha7419 Год назад
True
@sober_soul_1
@sober_soul_1 Год назад
Ab yeh sir ko bolo sambhal ne..
@yashsharaf9717
@yashsharaf9717 Год назад
Kon bola tha fir itne bache karne ko? Dimag use kiya karo thoda. Now that you have had a kid love him and don't hate him take care of him.
@RahulYadav-nk6wp
@RahulYadav-nk6wp Год назад
Nobody said you to be perfect, the moment you decided what's well for "your" family and "your" Son... You are sorted. I live like this, without any admission of peer pressure from society I am sleeping well, can travel, can save a lot on finances.
@ushathombre6878
@ushathombre6878 Год назад
Women breakdown because of insensitive family and society. Less educated have more children and are not in favour of educated. You have understood the plight of women very well
@roshinitoenlightenment
@roshinitoenlightenment 4 дня назад
Nowdays girls had 2 boyfriend before marriage and in office they had 10 boyfriend
@awanijasharma8816
@awanijasharma8816 Год назад
"Naukariyaan kam hain, KAAM kam nahi hai." That was Best. Clap clap. 👍
@Raythelightlife
@Raythelightlife 4 месяца назад
Because men don't work. Why they cannot work at home?
@anurag040891
@anurag040891 Год назад
I can relate. We are a parent of 10 months kid. But I am lucky that her office is very supportive, she has an option if she wants she can work for 4 hrs with half salary, but we supported her to go for full time job. Yes there is challenges but i am a happy and proud husband. My family is supportive
@Sohayaluv
@Sohayaluv Год назад
Bhai ye banda kitna frank hai. The way he is adding value to people's thoughts is Commendable. He is teaching us just like a father. We must listen to his observations and then ponder upon. I am going to be his fan now.
@Sohayaluv
@Sohayaluv Год назад
Love this idea of having ladies work for 4 hours a day. This shall make them independent.
@ScrorpionBlood
@ScrorpionBlood 11 месяцев назад
Pehli baat ye banda nhi he....atleast try to show some respect in your language for the minimum that he is an aged man. Pkka Delh ke aspas ke hi hoge - 100% -- Kya hogya he ajkal ke generation ko....😓
@berserker9747
@berserker9747 6 месяцев назад
​​@@ScrorpionBloodbhai 40s mai hai ye uncle Aur jisko tumne comment kra hai wo bhi 30s mai hai. To wo uncle ko banda bol skta hai.
@mp47753
@mp47753 Год назад
Sir, I lived in California and worked in tech company from last 10 years. Had 3 kids with in 2.5 yrs( twins). It was so hard to work in office as you mentioned- my WFH was pointed in my year end review . Not promoted being smartest in the group but my kids were discussed by ex boss. It’s just hard here with only 16 weeks of maternity leave. You just touched my ❤. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
@princeofheaven19
@princeofheaven19 Год назад
Hats off to you to give birth to 3 kids and raising them while working
@sreyanshuchaterjee3962
@sreyanshuchaterjee3962 Год назад
You are a pro. Let go of short term promotions. Raise kids well. Job can be switched but future can't be. Family wealth and health is more important.
@mp47753
@mp47753 Год назад
@@sreyanshuchaterjee3962 ❤️
@mp47753
@mp47753 Год назад
@@princeofheaven19 ❤️
@princeofheaven19
@princeofheaven19 Год назад
@@mp47753 will show your comments to my wife, nice to know about superwomen among us
@ananyadeshmukh6513
@ananyadeshmukh6513 Год назад
Namaste sir! If all the men in India starts thinking and analysing like you. India would really become a role model for rest of the world. Also we will become a much better society. Thank you🙏
@thepassionseed
@thepassionseed Год назад
Sir i have not seen a single man talking about women issues in so much depth and understanding women's problems with so much empathy ! My highest regards and respect to you , keep doing this great work .
@sandeepsuri7515
@sandeepsuri7515 Год назад
Pichle janam me amit peerit[ opressed] aurat tha🤔
@uditraj6518
@uditraj6518 Год назад
@@sandeepsuri7515 kaise bhai???
@subhadipbiswas5537
@subhadipbiswas5537 Год назад
Because there are infinite number of opportunist feminist who think of women there's no need for a man to think about women's problem..
@MohitSingh-gv3gf
@MohitSingh-gv3gf 8 месяцев назад
Either you are lying or you have not observed a single thing in the society .. Because now a days everyone is only talking about the problems that women are facing .. Not only the women but the men also showing concern about this .. But phir bhi tum jaisi ladkiyon ko problem complaints hamesha he rahengi jo rela problem hai naa ki ehat men are facing ? So I think rarely someone is concerned about this and talk on this.. Aacha ye batao gii ki tum ladkiyaan itni nafrat kyu karti ho hum ladko ke parents se ? Problem kya hai tum logo ko aisi ?
@nirupamasharma4389
@nirupamasharma4389 7 месяцев назад
​@@MohitSingh-gv3gfkoi pbm nahi hai ji, bas sath rehna nahi chahte!! Ab tum reason puchoge to i have another question for you. Are you ready to live in woman's house with her parents?? Agar iska jawab apki taraf se naa hai to ladies se bhi yehi jawaab expect karo, yes nahi!!
@destinychild937
@destinychild937 Год назад
My wife was pregnant and she was working in Good MNC, so she got 6 month of maternity leave. Her coworkers and specially manager behaviour was very bad and not at all coperative. They were jealous of the fact that she is getting 6 month leave. Surprisingly he was married also but couldn't understand what it takes to give birth to a child and what it means to society and country.
@Raythelightlife
@Raythelightlife 4 месяца назад
Right it happened with me too
@suravibehera2246
@suravibehera2246 Год назад
You are absolutely right sir.. Society don't care about working women in India.. India is busy in glorifying housewives only and treating working women as selfish.. Society needs to change their mindset.. Especially men needs to participate in household chores and to support their wives to do a job... What you are saying is also said by sudha murty.. Thank you for raising this topic 🌸🙏🌸
@avinandadutta1030
@avinandadutta1030 Год назад
Completely agree
@HVShruthiBhaskar
@HVShruthiBhaskar Год назад
@@bhadwamuhammad979s is how men escape from responsibilities. Most men are lazy.. that’s the main problem. They are ready to live in poverty but not help women. Then men should marry uneducated women only. Why they want all benefits of marrying educated women? Uneducated women are also treated like slave and degraded by men by denying her even basic facilities and finally they too are forced to do some maid work. This is the reality
@varadpatil4926
@varadpatil4926 Год назад
Working women should consider plumbing,brick laying, electric lines maintenance,road construction,coolie,Uber driver as professions then they will find ample amount of opportunities.
@suvch5842
@suvch5842 Год назад
@@varadpatil4926 Y nhi Bolenge ise
@varadpatil4926
@varadpatil4926 Год назад
@@SSCCGL-ph9eb first of all its about men and women & not me and women, secondly the derogatory tone in your question sums up your attitude towards labour class And to answer your question i have worked with these people as श्रमदान and have also got some friends still working there. Create some content and get some followers. Cheers
@DrShalviSinghVlogs
@DrShalviSinghVlogs Год назад
Every word spoken by you is 100% true…I spent 10yrs of my life to become a specialist…but neither my own parents nor my in laws supported me during most crucial phase of my life ..i.e childbirth….as a result my career suffered…though I have resumed my work but I won’t be able to forget that phase and behaviour of my family
@roshinitoenlightenment
@roshinitoenlightenment 4 дня назад
I met one women who had 2 boyfriend after married
@shraddhajoshi1535
@shraddhajoshi1535 Год назад
All my friends are having only 1 kid and simply not ready for second child due to high education, medication and real estate cost in Mumbai. I shared the example of china's one child policy and how it is backfiring them but still no one wants 2 children. Today's young parents in 30s are having a tough time emotionally and financially to raise kids.
@varshasindhu5672
@varshasindhu5672 Год назад
Exactly, very high costs in Hyderabad are dissuading people from having 2 kids.
@shraddhajoshi1535
@shraddhajoshi1535 Год назад
@@rohitsoni9325 it may be practical financially but at a emotional level one child feels very lonely especially after parents death.
@anuraglakhera2159
@anuraglakhera2159 Год назад
The onus is on government. Kal ko log hi nahi bachenge to desh kaise chalega? It is their responsibility that Japan-like situation never arises in Bharat.
@shraddhajoshi1535
@shraddhajoshi1535 Год назад
@@Love-dz1um yes i have seen such issues in many homes, but here parents usually have favorite child and hence they are partial in upbriging. Child who stays with parents gets somewhat less respect and the son staying abroad or doing well in career gets more love and respect. Children understand the partial nature right from childhood so the onus is on the parents that there is love care between siblings. On a lighter note your life seems to be like a saas bahu hindi serials with such environment.
@shraddhajoshi1535
@shraddhajoshi1535 Год назад
@@bourbon646 marrying is difficult today as both girls and guys are very demanding in terms of materialist stuff, they expect the other person should do most of the stuff. true people below 20 may not even like to get married in future, my relatives who are in school have already declared not to get married as they see their parents mostly mother's working a lot. Many see marriage as a burden bits that's just a perspective and it changes with time and life experience.
@sunitasuraj7569
@sunitasuraj7569 Год назад
I have seen my male colleagues staying in office to have Pizza on office expenses n claiming traveling expenses.I have seen them Playing cards or share market during office hours/Saturday.They try to impress seniors and avoid household responsibility even when their spouse is working too.I had a female team member when she was doing job, house hold work,kids homework n family refused for part time cook as they wanted to eat food cooked only by her
@GurleenKaur-gr3wu
@GurleenKaur-gr3wu 3 месяца назад
Rightly said 💯
@priyajaseja1945
@priyajaseja1945 Год назад
Sir, i am the example of this problem, i went to so many organisations and asked them any part time work, but they said do fulltime or no work, i gave them reason of productivity and potentials, but they all refused. I asked in schools also, that why so long time for teachers, keep it alternate days for subject teachers or less time for them or it could be only definite periods,they come and take class, But principal said that is not the way school works, you can't change the system. Management does not want to bring change then how they will retain quality. Thank you that you brought this subject,need for an hour .
@innersoul454
@innersoul454 Год назад
I completely agree with you. Same happened with me
@priyajaseja1945
@priyajaseja1945 Год назад
@@chandan4156 already taking economics and Math tuitions at home.
@lawanyaarvind2810
@lawanyaarvind2810 Год назад
I have faced this same issue
@SangoLifeSutras
@SangoLifeSutras Год назад
I will do webinars on this to tell what all can be done
@Newbutold
@Newbutold Год назад
It's a choice of plenty in India. There's so many people to take up your role that they don't care about these situations.
@theairwaydocdrmanisha
@theairwaydocdrmanisha Год назад
Uncle this is such a revolutionary thought video you have made. Definitely ppl have to understand why they are making girls study if they have to sit at home only. I being Specialized doctor, worked in best institute of India, had to leave my job as no one was there to support me. My parents had washed off their hands, in laws very conveniently said we are traveling and no support from husband at all. 10 years I sulked at home, seeing my batchmates becoming HODs and gaining professional highs. Now after my husband's death I am back to work but it pinches the amount of precious time I lost in between. But it is really hood video everyone should watch as actually female need support else there won't be next generation. Females will either do kids in case of support or won't but they will not sit back. 4 hours job system can solve so many problems of females plus Government too. Great ideas uncle. I am your big fan
@suchandrabhattacharjee7503
@suchandrabhattacharjee7503 Год назад
Same here madam. I am also a specialised doctor not able to provide my service as l am unable to join any transferable job for the schooling of my kids and no support from my family. There is also no scope in my town to provide my service. Extremely depressing.
@suchandrabhattacharjee7503
@suchandrabhattacharjee7503 Год назад
Same here madam. I am also a specialised doctor not able to provide my service as l am unable to join any transferable job for the schooling of my kids and no support from my family. There is also no scope in my town to provide my service. Extremely depressing.
@rashmimanchanda6603
@rashmimanchanda6603 Год назад
So sad to learn. And happy that u r back on track. All the best 🎉
@ananthaswath5543
@ananthaswath5543 Год назад
All the best to you maam
@sonaliv1489
@sonaliv1489 7 месяцев назад
Ma'am, I don't understand why you're complaining, think about the lovely time you had with children and husband. Think about what your last memories will be after you retire- will it be about how well you worked or the beautiful moments you got to spend with family. We ladies need to appreciate the lovely moments with our children, they fly by so fast and kids grow up before we realize. And then we sit and whine our children are too busy to spend time with us. Appreciate it.
@shivamagrawal521
@shivamagrawal521 Год назад
I was fresher at corporate & observed one thing : one day in office call (online WFH) a child (2-4 age) was calling mother (our team-mate) ,she was saying something in meeting . That time I realized it's a mother whom child calls for every problem . I messaged her appreciating her and every other mothers efforts just to make her feel good .
@Maya_gamer269
@Maya_gamer269 Год назад
I can relate to this video. I left my job when I was pregnant because I didn't get any support from mother and mother-in-law was busy supporting her own daughters. Now I'm inspired by your videos and starting to look for WFH job. What a brilliant idea of half day job options, Sir 🙏🏻 Hope companies introduce such opportunities.
@shivaleelapatil9688
@shivaleelapatil9688 Год назад
Same case with me,,,but instead of leaving job,,, I took help of maid,,, now both my kids are grown up and I am still in job,,,,,find someone else from relatives who can help you when you need and help them back in other ways later ,,,,,some company has half day work with half salary,,,I guess Infosys has it,,,but not 100%sure,,,
@hello-zn8fd
@hello-zn8fd Год назад
Wfh job is there, just inform
@diauser3327
@diauser3327 Год назад
be careful while choosing your next job, some say half day with half pay, but still work assigned is for full day...simlar thing happenned with my friend's wife and she had to again resign.
@arpanmadrecha946
@arpanmadrecha946 Год назад
@@Shadesofwhite_ then forget about kids or you stay at home
@Maya_gamer269
@Maya_gamer269 Год назад
​@@Shadesofwhite_ I get your point. Daycare is an option but I wasn't comfortable leaving my little child with strangers. It's a very difficult choice but you are right. Daycare option is available.
@stanay6580
@stanay6580 Год назад
Sir Ji... If we want women to work then men must contribute to household work. As a men, we must support our women.
@nawandeepkalra4319
@nawandeepkalra4319 Год назад
Sir I am lady. Eyes r non stop watering. Working and worked a lot . Just got support from mother and in token got so many bad rewards. Only thing just worked and worked as I build my carrier with lot of hardship since grade. But u r very sensitive and sensible person try to put the india in right direction. May GOD bless u
@supersago970
@supersago970 Год назад
I left my job for my kid because I was underperforming at office and at home too. I felt guilty as a mother. My husband didn't want me to leave my job but I still did. Best decision of my life.
@AartiRathod
@AartiRathod Год назад
I hope your videos reach HR heads, policy makers and CEOs
@bhagyashriverma6064
@bhagyashriverma6064 Год назад
As a working mother I can relate with each word of you. Pressure is high on working moms. Very good idea on part time jobs for women so that they can also contribute while having family and children. In real a woman wants everything - a family, children, home , relations, a meaningful job for her own identity and independence. Man and woman are not equal. Pressure in on women. Women are doing a lot and at the end leaving their job or family means leaving her own identity for the family which is making her empty from inside. This part time solution is great. Also there are cases of suicide or suicidal thoughts in women after baby. This is because of lack of support system at home and work Its become impossible to balance everything on own.
@subhrajitgupta5535
@subhrajitgupta5535 Год назад
When you get married, or other women get married, at that time itself you need to make us understand this position because we men don't think second hand. Men can help in daily grocery and cleaning. You need to communicate that clearly, because we although we understand, we don't think second hand. We act like captain of a ship but coal workers work more.
@nirupamasharma4389
@nirupamasharma4389 7 месяцев назад
​@@subhrajitgupta5535its not called 'not able to understand'. Its called being ignorant and insensitive, and also being inhuman towards your wife. Sorry if my words hurt you, but try to think about this objectively.
@subhrajitgupta5535
@subhrajitgupta5535 7 месяцев назад
@@nirupamasharma4389 Most men are atypical when it comes to their work model. They do whats in hand, and other things get left out. We follow day to day routine straight line work and deviations aren't our strength. You need to tell us a little what you want, if neglect of some become insensitive. Nobody's words hurt me. Why would it hurt!
@nirupamasharma4389
@nirupamasharma4389 7 месяцев назад
@@subhrajitgupta5535 again i don't get it. What's there to tell? Isn't it a fact that a woman is also a human being and she also needs rest after coming back from work like men do? And even if I agree to your point, that 'men needs to be told as they don't understand by themselves', then also i dont think that your point fits here as most men fail to support their wives even when they are clearly told about it. They just say manage your way out or leave job if you can't handle. That's the point being discussed in this video and comment section as well.
@subhrajitgupta5535
@subhrajitgupta5535 7 месяцев назад
@@nirupamasharma4389 Well Ill gift her and take care of her. She will be amazing.
@meghnasengupta2000
@meghnasengupta2000 Год назад
Absolutely agree! We need a huge change in society. If the woman in a family is happy and fulfilled the family will be happy too. Support while raising children, flexible work, support for work at home will really help.
@06musicfan
@06musicfan Год назад
I want to make an honest confession: I have worked with mainstream print media and top publishing companies. Too many hard deadlines and lack of social support at home, need for rest, made me give up my career. I am very happy today as a home maker, because at least I can rest whenever I want to.
@nirupamasharma4389
@nirupamasharma4389 7 месяцев назад
Instead you could have tried switching to less stressful job. Everybody wants break and rest in life. But lifelong rest, i just dont get it.
@06musicfan
@06musicfan 6 месяцев назад
@@nirupamasharma4389 I did switch to publishing and then freelancing from home for a good 15 years, after giving up my full time job in media and publishing, but it didn't work out well for me. I have lower spine problems because of long hours of freelancing. Now I am taking care of my pets, and resting. I have a dog walker and groomer, also I have a maid and cook.
@berserker9747
@berserker9747 6 месяцев назад
​@@nirupamasharma4389How miserable of you to think that her job as a homemaker is full of rest for her whole life. Didn't your mother worked hard to raise you or did she just rested.
@nirupamasharma4389
@nirupamasharma4389 6 месяцев назад
@@berserker9747 my mother was a working woman. So no, i just don't get the idea of being a homemaker. I absolutely don't support financial dependency at all. In this era of having luxury of machines to do so many household tasks much faster than before, and also having maids, i do consider homemaker job, not a job. And i can say that with confidence because I am also married and also have a child. I also have a home to take care of. I still don't consider homemaker as a full time job. May be it all depends on how you are raised.
@somachakrabarty1634
@somachakrabarty1634 Год назад
So true Sir. I have been working continuously from the day I finished my education. I got married early so I completed education after my marriage. Initially I got support from my Maa and MIL but now they are either old or have gone to the other world so I have been struggling now. My day starts at 4.30 in the morning and I crash out at 10pm. I raised 2 kids and now my son is working. I feel like giving up. But financial independence is like drugs. Can't quit. I feel I couldn't enjoy my life. It has been a journey of work and only work.
@manikapandey60
@manikapandey60 Год назад
But that's great you see. This addiction is nice. Isn't it?
@shatakshiism
@shatakshiism Год назад
Hats off to you
@nirupamasharma4389
@nirupamasharma4389 7 месяцев назад
Its a good addiction dear. People get addiction of resting all the time. Its much better than that. Keep taking, breaks from work, like a week long leave sometimes. And try having great time with friends and family. Or may be just a good me time. Jiske paas jo nahi hota wo hi khalta hai, so don't worry i would say. Just be grateful and enjoy life.
@sadhanabist7454
@sadhanabist7454 Год назад
Lots of Respect for telling out loud the extra mental pressures of women at workplace.
@vaijoyantakundu9670
@vaijoyantakundu9670 Год назад
This video is a must watch for all indians...such clarity on a sensitive issue presented with such compassion....a social reform has been initiated with this video ..hope the msg reaches everyone..mass and policy makers
@parulc85
@parulc85 Год назад
2011 census data showed a more than 115% increase in the numbers of never married women age 35 and more. We have missed a decadal census but from my observation the rate of growth in this number will be exponential in the coming decades. I agree with you Sangwan ji, we need public policy intervention for ensuring sharing of women's care burden.
@nikhitasequeira355
@nikhitasequeira355 Год назад
Thank you sir for discussing such a relevant topic. I'm blessed with the best of parents who are extremely supportive regarding my job. Though at office I have come across women who are going through a lot just to keep a job, it's a sad situation for women indeed.
@rohinidhanwade1874
@rohinidhanwade1874 Год назад
Thank you so much for the topic Sir. this is a story of every educated girl who studied and worked passionately to achieve something in life.. got married in a family who never realised her potential or worth.. they just want her be at home and be a servant for them.. I am really thankful to you for bringing out this topic. I am so lucky that my parents specially my father always supported and encouraged me to work.. I have been watching your videos and they are bringing in so much clarity.. looking forward to start my career again..
@Riddhi_Siddhi21
@Riddhi_Siddhi21 Год назад
Sir ,lost my father in my childhood.. see you as my father . actually you are father of nation
@drnirjasheth
@drnirjasheth Год назад
Women are very focused. They know what they want to do and what not to. But it is happening in only one community. Some communities want to just reproduce,nothing else
@ssw7323
@ssw7323 Год назад
Thank God Females like you, exists on this Land...
@slimeforyou2750
@slimeforyou2750 Год назад
They have been doing same from last 1400 years And they will keep doing it for Next 1400 Years
@ssw7323
@ssw7323 Год назад
@@slimeforyou2750 Ofc 🤣
@adash7841
@adash7841 Год назад
True I am A doctor worked in periphery I have seen muslim women really don't get education they literally marry at 16/15 to 30 yr men and read up to class 7 that's why their fertility rate so high sadly here not a single feminist have raised this question because it's against the narrative 🤡.
@adash7841
@adash7841 Год назад
@@nmo3148 muslim women education is so low they marry at 16 that's main reason.
@shikhasharma6064
@shikhasharma6064 Год назад
Very true. The irony is that when one used to go for school admission of daughters, the school management would frown on working women saying that they have no time for children.
@homeofy
@homeofy Год назад
Being a homeopathic doctor ,I always practiced for 2, 3 hours daily. Private practice is good in terms of 3 4 hours ka kaam.
@sonikadhiman3805
@sonikadhiman3805 Год назад
Amit ji no one supports working women, due to their self interest. But my experience bosses are more supporting than immediate family
@SangoLifeSutras
@SangoLifeSutras Год назад
Yes
@Sabari862
@Sabari862 Год назад
This happened with me too . I left my job after second child 😢😢
@pokeman86
@pokeman86 Год назад
Means?
@nidhiagarwal5002
@nidhiagarwal5002 Год назад
Very very well said , you have described a mother ' s condition absolutely correct.🙏
@dahliajaji9547
@dahliajaji9547 Год назад
Very sensible vdo. You are absolutely true. Because of the support of my mother and mother in law, I could manage my job as a specialist doctor in all India transferable job and retired after completing 25 yrs. They looked after my children throughout. I worked day and night attending emergencies and went for out station duties without worrying about my kids as they were looked after by their grand parents. Now I am getting handsome pension and my both children are pursuing professional courses. Daily I remember my in laws and parents for their immense support.
@diauser3327
@diauser3327 Год назад
you are very lucky to have so much of blessing & support from elders
@varunmittal3617
@varunmittal3617 Год назад
Very lucky now a days nobody willing to care for children upbringing neither parents nor in laws. They say that we cared for our Jobs and for you now your child please leave us
@dahliajaji9547
@dahliajaji9547 Год назад
True. I am blessed. I looked after my mom in law till her death ( at the age of 94 yrs ) . She was with me for 14 yrs. I looked after her during her illness. Got her 3 major surgeries during those 14 yrs. Left my good paying job to look after her when her health started deteriorating. I feel , in every family, if ladies understand each other's problems and help each other, there won't be any KLESH as Sangili says. Life will be Jinga Lala
@matildamaher1505
@matildamaher1505 8 месяцев назад
I'm from Kolkata, married to an Australian, we have two children and I work part-time. Here there are more options for part-time jobs. India should give more options for part-time employment.
@vibha-ff1ee
@vibha-ff1ee 4 месяца назад
Population dekho bhai😂😂
@heenachauhan5476
@heenachauhan5476 Год назад
Sir....what you said in the video is absolutely true. !! But there is other side as well. There so many men who support their wives but they have to go through so much abuse from their own family members. In my case, my husband has gone through panic attacks because of physical and mental abuse from his own family members. His family members are deadly against his support for me in household chores..!! He has always supported with me in everything..But he has gone through so much..i feel bad for him.. 😢😢😢😢
@varshasindhu5672
@varshasindhu5672 Год назад
This is a good point. With a 4 year old child I’ve tried to find part time jobs and work from home jobs but they are too hard to find. It’s better to stay home and pursue my hobbies.
@diauser3327
@diauser3327 Год назад
if you are doing ok financially, better to spend time with your kid and start doing what you enjoy like hobbies/ join woman groups and have good time. some of us got so occupied in work that we missed out totally on family part and now no family and golden time is also gone
@varunmittal3617
@varunmittal3617 Год назад
@@diauser3327 Inflation keeps kicking its luxury to have non working partner.
@kirtijangwal3619
@kirtijangwal3619 Год назад
Sir I think I really needed this to hear today. Running to and fro from work . Listening to you is not less than an appreciation for all women .. your words are such a relief to all tired souls
@846blast
@846blast Год назад
You hit the nail sir Matlab sidhi baat no bakwaas. Your ability to find pain points and express it so well is so amazing 👏
@veenadobhal2310
@veenadobhal2310 Год назад
Another way in which working women are pressurized is by blaming her and making her guilty whenever the kids are unwell or if they fall back in studies
@subhadipbiswas5537
@subhadipbiswas5537 Год назад
Working women doesn't marry a non-working man or a working man with lower salary than her... Does the society blame or pressurized the women for that 😂😂😂😂
@shipragarg321
@shipragarg321 Год назад
Very true sir..i was also suffering this situation...and i stopped my job after 40 because of 14 hours working time
@DipBhadra
@DipBhadra Год назад
I have always talked about it with my family friends and my parents.. salute sir to bring this up
@SangoLifeSutras
@SangoLifeSutras Год назад
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@annubhogal
@annubhogal Год назад
Very true.....my husband left me n daughter for a younger girl.......I asked this question in court...if I also leave child who in society take care...if all women stop taking care of children what will happen to future population.
@MeenaJuneja
@MeenaJuneja Год назад
Am amazed 👏 the kind of topics you come up with.. !! So relevant..!! So much needed !! Bang on you target !! 👏 I have almost seen all your videos.. !! And forwarded too.. !! Aankhen..Dil..Dimaag..Aap sab kholte ho.. !! Highly impressed !! :) Regards !!
@shailjasharma1081
@shailjasharma1081 Год назад
Sir I was a civil servant. Each and every word uttered by you is 200 percent true
@reenaupadhyay2615
@reenaupadhyay2615 Год назад
You are telling my own story sir, I wish I would have got support from my parents and husband
@alok09dec
@alok09dec Год назад
Absolutely Correct Guidance as always from your Sirji! Love your stunning content!
@TA-cy9yp
@TA-cy9yp Год назад
7:12 - 7:25, you explained it all. My mother used to be most educated one in her so called sasural. But after having kids, she left working and became housewife. After looking at her, I decided I don't want my life to be like her. Thank God I am not the one who think this way. I used to thought, I am weird.
@sheelamallya4988
@sheelamallya4988 Год назад
Perhaps one of your best videos! You have a unique talent of selecting a very relevant issue and explain very beautifully so that everybody understands and start thinking over it. Since my childhood I have fought for the welfare of working women because I used to take care of my working aunt's little children during my holidays. All my aunts were working and I know the pain and it is deep rooted in my mind. I am glad that now somebody like you has raised this issue of problems faced by a working woman! Hats off to you 🙏🙏
@P.Sarate
@P.Sarate Год назад
Very good perspective. The society has to change its outlook
@bhavsaraniket
@bhavsaraniket Год назад
Perfect analysis sir! Keep going please.
@BALVINDER-Singh
@BALVINDER-Singh Год назад
100 % Agreed. I have 100 % same situation My wife wake up at 5 give tea to my parents. Then prepare some lunch for herself and sabji for others. Comeback at 4:30 then her mother in law give tea to him. Then she just sit for dinner planning. Then she prepare dinner do some school work as she is a teacher. Where I get a chance to help her i try to help her like some dusting and kapde sukhne dalna kind of. But seriously i have a so so soft corner for her as you said ki vo kissi bhi boy se 3 Guna kaam karti hai. Love you as you are saying this thing socially. ❤️
@arpanmadrecha946
@arpanmadrecha946 Год назад
@balvinder- this is Indian problem those who want to drink tea/coffee should make it themselves and not trouble others else do not drink t ea
@arpanmadrecha946
@arpanmadrecha946 Год назад
This is an Indian problem those who want to drink tea/coffee should make it on their own not trouble others else they should stop drinking anyways it does not do any good
@jv96p59
@jv96p59 Год назад
I think each of the family members should contribute to the housework.
@BALVINDER-Singh
@BALVINDER-Singh Год назад
@@arpanmadrecha946 As a wife she is giving Tea and other members are taking care our 5 year child through out the day and giving breakfast and lunch to me. I am washing clothes and taking care of other household work. So that she can take a rest after coming back to the office. Then she also does some dinner stuff and all. So it's easy to say ki jisko chai pine ho vo khud bnaye.. But not a good ethics.
@royphilip8486
@royphilip8486 Год назад
Parents after attaining a certain age becomes insensitive or in other words cruel and sadists.
@arpanmadrecha946
@arpanmadrecha946 Год назад
@Roy - because they realized they could have lived life full without their own kids and travelled the world
@wowser2153
@wowser2153 Год назад
@@arpanmadrecha946 they realize they wasted their time and money raising ungrateful children
@priyankapattanaik5414
@priyankapattanaik5414 Год назад
Very true..but some attain it by birth
@vibha-ff1ee
@vibha-ff1ee 4 месяца назад
​@@wowser2153bada to unhone Kiya hai na To unhe sochna chahiye ki hamne kaise sanskaar diye jo bacche ungrateful hain?
@wowser2153
@wowser2153 4 месяца назад
@@vibha-ff1ee children make their own decisions when they become adults.
@KavsYouTube
@KavsYouTube Год назад
Nice topic sir and very true..there should be balance between having kids and also work, both extremes are not going to beneficial in long run. Women who have kids and leave job later feel depressed and same with women who decides to not have kids for career later regrets. This idea would be win-win situation
@lawanyaarvind2810
@lawanyaarvind2810 Год назад
Such wisdom, Sir. Koti Koti pranaams to you
@manishasharma3058
@manishasharma3058 Год назад
Sir, you're very ahead of your generation! I wonder how blessed your family members would be to have a mature and learned person as you.
@dollyjhaom
@dollyjhaom Год назад
You nailed it sir👍😍 ek aur angle bhi hai in problems ka, sarkar ne taxation itni heavy kar rakhi hai ki logon ka jeena muhaal ho raha hai. Survival ke liye lar rahe hain to baby planning dimaag me aata hi nahin. UK me bhi yahi hua tha. Senior citizens zyada ho gae the aur working population khatm hone laga tha
@MrAJDurrani
@MrAJDurrani Год назад
Zabardast topic again, mein aapki videos family groups mein aksar share karta hun. Thought provoking topics, thanks for sharing 🙏🏼
@GaganDeepSingh-mw6cj
@GaganDeepSingh-mw6cj Год назад
Sir, Your videos are really thought provoking. Hats off to you 👍🏼
@findingkarma
@findingkarma Год назад
I absolutely agree. My male co workers take credit for my work while I'm expected to be humble and polite. When I come home, the nature of my work changes but my working hours don't end. I'm overburdened and have developed insomnia and now I'm thinking of quitting my job 😭
@shekhar301
@shekhar301 Год назад
Don't quit try and take it easy
@indidesitourer585
@indidesitourer585 Год назад
It's same with men or women. It's mostly in indian workplace politics, I have also faced many times. People pretend to working are more favoured than people actually doing the job. If humble then more pain. Better find a balance or work at a place where we are favoured.
@Professionaladvisorandcoach
Thinking that nothing is permanent, you can delay your decision.
@sober_soul_1
@sober_soul_1 Год назад
Mam, star finding others opportunity n make sure you take the hike.. staying under this kind of environment is toxic for mind.
@sober_soul_1
@sober_soul_1 Год назад
@@Professionaladvisorandcoach 😂sabse bada maska hai yeh khud k mind ko excuse batane ka..
@opensesame6816
@opensesame6816 Год назад
Reasons for less kids: 1. Late wedding 2. Living without parents so problem in raising kids 3. Fertility issues due to stress, toxins. 4. People don't want to take responsibility. 5. Middle class think they are doing a favour by having less kid- which uncle ji said.
@LoveYourself-my9nz
@LoveYourself-my9nz 6 дней назад
Not really these are not the issues except the 2nd one. The main problem is not having a supportive husband, in-laws or parents and inflation. Late shadi krne se bche hone mai koi problem nhi ho rhi h or na hi esa h ki log environment k liye bche peda nhi kr rhe. Kuchh log kbhi krna hi nhi chahte the or ab unless bs azaadi h na krne ki or ye kafi km log h maximum bs time na hone k karn or mehgayi k karn nhi kr rhe.
@LoveYourself-my9nz
@LoveYourself-my9nz 6 дней назад
Population km hona problem nhi h pr ekdm se bahut km ho jana problem create krta h. Isliye govt ko parents k liye or women k liye scheme nikalne ki zrurt h... Jisse vo ye overwork km ho.
@shanthigandhi6625
@shanthigandhi6625 Год назад
Superb thought provoking video ,must share this with as many people as possible.
@innersoul454
@innersoul454 Год назад
Correct analysis Sir. The same happened with me. Could completely relate
@feel_the_bliss8092
@feel_the_bliss8092 Год назад
Absolutely Sir. There is no support for working women. I am professional qualified. But as I got married, my mother in law expected me to cook 3 times a day and take care of when cushions are changed or poocha ache se lga...if me and my husband are sick, she expects me to cook but serves food to his son...it hurts you mentally and this ultimately reduces your productivity. I never wanted to live alone and came from a loving and supportive joint family but the way I get treated by my mother in law has led me to depression
@kaminipatil5195
@kaminipatil5195 Год назад
Stay away from her.
@feel_the_bliss8092
@feel_the_bliss8092 Год назад
@@kaminipatil5195 I so wish I could
@vibha-ff1ee
@vibha-ff1ee 4 месяца назад
Women is women's worst enemy
@nilinimagupta5311
@nilinimagupta5311 Год назад
Eye opener video. This issue should be talked at top priority in our society as nowadays working women r necessary but to make them work comfortably we need to learn these points u described in video. I'm also a highly qualified lady of 90s but couldn't do job with non supportive sasural . If this 4 hour job get started in india % of working women will increase tremendously. I also could work for 4 hours .Queen honey bee example was mind blowing to show the importance of a mother.
@ilovefood9465
@ilovefood9465 Год назад
Ek video aisa bhi banaiye Kaise women apane married hone ka, mother hone ka fayda leti hai aur jin women ki shadi nahi hui hai jinke bacche nahi hai unpe injustice karati hai. This is just another side of coin you may not be aware of. And I am a girl / woman.
@shashisharma5623
@shashisharma5623 Год назад
Thank you sir,you have high lighted absolutely necessary topic of concern for our society.I appreciate your efforts.you have given important point to ponder upon.
@Travelandmore11927
@Travelandmore11927 Год назад
Nowadays companies are providing this concept of reduced hours in Germany, hope this will also start in India soon
@diauser3327
@diauser3327 Год назад
here they are not granting us to use our own leaves, they are gettign lapsed... we feel so bad when our team in other countries take back to back off while we are idiots working day-day... hope this toxic work culture changes,
@arpanmadrecha946
@arpanmadrecha946 Год назад
@Seema - that is Germany where everyone pays tax and also Germany makes higher technology products which they can sell to all countries and hence they have a free very good school and even college education Germany is a unique country with good and sensible politicians while our politicians cannot make India even economically like china in a 1000 years
@mousumimishra9321
@mousumimishra9321 Год назад
Sir, This is very true.. Its really tough for female.Even many time we are not considered for onsite opportunity and good position bcz they think we have always excuses for family responsibilities
@dr.neetisharma161
@dr.neetisharma161 Год назад
very nice. this thought process is much needed. Thank you for making this.
@arunpant5577
@arunpant5577 Год назад
Your knowledge is out of par sir. You are great!
@jsincro7119
@jsincro7119 Год назад
My sister and I both dont have kids because we have no support system. Both of us are handling our lives independantly, and that in itself is a lot of work. Plus both of us are into social welfare projects, outside of our regular work life. We rescue animals, create content to bring about awareness on waste management etc. We could have had kids, if and only if the older generation stood like pillars for us. We don't want maids to bring up kids. The only other option was to stop doing what we love to do- i.e work and be independant. We dont want to end up being dependant on other people. So we are in a way forced to choose to not have children.
@swatiparekhji
@swatiparekhji Год назад
I can very much relate to this. I had to leave my govt job to take care of my son and aged ailing parents and mother in law also!
@user-nq5hy7vn9k
@user-nq5hy7vn9k Год назад
Were you people forced to work on social projects and jobs and not have children? Why blame others for your own choices? You people totally had the option to continue with your "projects", "hobbies" and whatever else after the child is at least 6-7yrs old?
@varunmittal3617
@varunmittal3617 Год назад
@@user-nq5hy7vn9k bhai age nikal jati hai and utna kam ki capacity decrease. You can't live alone your 6-7yr old child as well. 14-15yr old ka child ko akele chod sakte ho independently vo bhi jab usko Sansarik gyan ache se diya gya ho. Aur vo kisiko blame nhi kar rhe apni baat bta rhe hai
@user-nq5hy7vn9k
@user-nq5hy7vn9k Год назад
@@varunmittal3617 6-7yrs old ke child ko at least apne Grandparents ke saath chora ja sakta hai, can confirm this myself. Kaun bol rha hai, ki akele hi choor do. Agar nanny/caretaker/babysitter wala option bhi rakhna hai toh 6-7yrs of age is is viable to start from. Kaun bol rha hai akele chorne? Baas starting ke kuch crucial years ko baby ke saath bitane bol rha tha, jo ki kaafi crucial hote hai, especially for mother-child bonding
@varunmittal3617
@varunmittal3617 Год назад
@@user-nq5hy7vn9k Jesa sir ne btay Grandparents janajt nhi lena chate. Wife and husband ko tane marne lagte hai bhai sara jeevan bache palne mae laga diya. Maid ka trust issue rhta hai. Ek hi galti karegi Maid vo tho bhag jaygi problem hame hogi. Kidnap, kitchen mishap, scolding/beating, not giving food, stale food dena, toilet ka karna pade tho extra pese ye sab issue hai Maid ke sath.
@shekhar301
@shekhar301 Год назад
Thanks for bringing this up...Thousands of women are suffering on account of this. Absolutely right, Govt will have to intervene!!!
@aryantb
@aryantb Год назад
Highly appreciable, I was thinking on same lines.
@archanaverma9976
@archanaverma9976 Год назад
Very nice video sir. Aap apne videos mein hamesha aise subjects late hain jo samaj ko ek nai disha dene mein saksham hain.Really aaj hamare desh ko aise hi changes ki zaroorat hai.Aur sabse badhkar ye hai ki aap inhe analyse kar rahe ho,jo shayad abhi tak nahi hua hai.I just wish aapke prayaas safal ho aur hamara desh nai vichardhara ko apnakar aage badhe.👍
@anitasahu1675
@anitasahu1675 Год назад
Sir..same story..I had to leave my job after 13 years coz I was in a 9 to 9 job framework and was not able to give time to my two kids of 7 yrs and 3 yrs.. although I had support of my husband but felt bad for my kids...I totally relate to what you say that my male colleagues used to comment if I left early from office and I was v good at work..due to inflexible work conditions I had to leave my job
@soniyagupta3198
@soniyagupta3198 11 месяцев назад
U can take break for couple of years and start again..
@sudhasingh5574
@sudhasingh5574 Год назад
Sir you have touched every topic very deeply and closely .Those who are watching these videos regularly will certainly bring changes in the Society.Your efforts in making these video on different issues is really appreciable.👌👏👏
@swatisharma4559
@swatisharma4559 Год назад
Superb idea sir !! Four hour working schedule for ladies is a path breaking approach
@oops262686
@oops262686 Год назад
Very good video Sir.. Its amazing the content you are coming out with so regularly
@asmitadahiya
@asmitadahiya Год назад
Thank you sir you describe all the problems 😊 which are genuinely facing these days.Thank you again 👏 Kavita Ahlawat from Rohtak
@RealTalkWithSSG
@RealTalkWithSSG Год назад
I would add something here, workplaces should be made child friendly. If there is a baby/toddler care area in the work building or next door, then women won't have to depend on their senior parents, maid, elderly in laws, or call the house multiple times to ask if their kid is okay.
@philomath1212
@philomath1212 Год назад
Gr8 vdos. Ur channel is so addictive. Astrology, society, so many topics! Pls make a vdo on upcoming recession too
@sabysengupta3218
@sabysengupta3218 Год назад
Brilliant thoughts...give a proper direction to society
@shalinisrivastava4236
@shalinisrivastava4236 Год назад
I would be so happy if we could work for 4-5 hours. It would be so satisfying. Working in school was an option earlier but, nowadays working in private schools are horrible. They make you work for 12-13 hrs a day with no weekends. That too at a pittance.
@simpleliving3505
@simpleliving3505 Год назад
You are right. Sir I was working and earning high salary as software engineer, my mother who was working in school used to take care of my daughter as her timings were fixed but mine was not. But I suffered a lot can't even write here. Now I have no interest in my daughters marriage and her kids at all.
@sahilhanda12
@sahilhanda12 Год назад
Very interesting perspective given.. and far sighted...!!
@neelamdeswal2521
@neelamdeswal2521 Год назад
Thank God & Thanks to you......Kisi ne to ye issue raise kiya......seriously your topics are relevant to society ,to us,to every woman ,to me.....🙏Again thanks ...Sir
@rsocialawareness3744
@rsocialawareness3744 Год назад
Sir could you please throw some light on taboo topics of our society like physical relationships before marriage and concern of virginity. What are the impacts of it on our society if the people engages in any above mentioned scenario.
@rahulsinghjosan10
@rahulsinghjosan10 Год назад
Sir marriage failing as an institution in Indian society and globally, it's a burning topic.. Request you to discuss about it
@thushmat
@thushmat 10 месяцев назад
What is so worrying about it?
@ArtificiallySmart
@ArtificiallySmart Год назад
Brilliant awesome Idea. This is what clarity of thought can do. Must watch video
@dvsdubey4098
@dvsdubey4098 Год назад
I love, I like each and every word narrated by you. Salute to you Sir 🙏🏽🙏🏽
@PlantiFy
@PlantiFy Год назад
I left my job thrice😥 now again working...joined after covid since after covid work from home aa gya.... With two sons and a corporate job I felt could not do justice to anything... Thank you for bringing this topic.
@vinazbro
@vinazbro Год назад
Eye opener Only elderly can impart these type of knowledge But many elderly arn't on RU-vid Thanks for bieng a info giver 🔥🔥
@majormohommedalishahveteran
Jai Hind sir...Brilliant video sir...
@pragyanpanda5719
@pragyanpanda5719 Год назад
The most beautiful & urgent video so far. God bless you sir.Ghar me bethi Ladies agar workforce me agayi to desh hi badal jayega, kyunki max % educated ladies to ghar bethi hen.
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