Are Intelligent People More Lonely? 

The School of Life But like most of the people on earth; I don't have iPhone, I have android

Yeah, I use android phone too

Why isn't there an Android option?

ASamson123 Because it will be released in 2018 on Android.

Please do a video on people who prefer to read non-fiction as opposed to fiction. Because as a child growing up I always seemed to prefer reading non-fiction material especially chemistry, physics and biology books twice. Over reading fiction for english class which was just so painful and insipid. Where my young brother was the complete polar opposite when it came to reading habits.

Not necessarily sometimes what they do it isn't what you like to do

@@eddycolon1986 You are actually replying to a quote by Nikola Tesla and not an original comment.

@@johndonwood4305 Thank you, that was my personal belief, i'm glad that my way of thinking reminds you him. But is hard sometimes "swing against river" i don't how to say that in English😂😂😂😂.

I would have Been Nikola Tesla but were bien in an undeveloped country

I didn't say that ~ Nikola Tesla

Thank you. So many people came here just to find comfort in the fact that they are lonely. They think “At least I am smarter and loneliness is just a trade off.” People need to learn not to look for appealing qualities in suffering. If you are smart and lonely then you will still be lonely so much so that you’d wish to be stupid. If you are not as intelligent then you may still be on the receiving end of a similar loneliness. People here are using this video to justify antisocial behaviour.🤦🏾‍♂️

I think this is the most intelligent comment I've seen here

@@10tuntongue Out of the comments here, it is one of the more aware ones.

This needs more likes than the rest of the comments

I have no Friends lol

That quote is so true

@@armyshope hey, my sisters love bts too

@@enigmatheinfj5346 That's nice but I really prefer sometimes to not be perceived just as their fan because I have found so much light in the fandom, strong love and support, but also lot of childlishness.For example a girl who found or maybe followed and knew their place-to-go schedule (Which would be fun to do breaking the rules of society,you know) said hello to them was defined by their fans as creepy.They sound more like some overprotective people too. I notice so many things my spiritual energy gets drained often.I swear,I'm extremely extroverted to the level that I insist to bother some people to be my friends and they find it often annoying.

@@armyshope yeah, I understand. My sisters also dislike those kind of fans. They never been to their concert btw.

@@enigmatheinfj5346 which type of fans?

I love this quote ..do you know who said it?

Just get some prescription medication, I now fall asleep within 1 hour. Greatest sleep ever

Insomnia is caused by spending to much time thinking.

Or too much caffeine

Maria Zelekova the dude in the video

dmed Wow. someone wasn’t smart enough to understand the video.

Usually, it does.

dmed Dude that's not the point of the video.

Someone just read the tittle of the video, right?!

It seems like he/she put this comment up for people who think just because they are lonely, they assume they are too smart for those around them. And no wants to deal with them because of it. Take this comment as a warning people so you don't fool yourselves.

I feel you! I can only talk about those things with 2 or 3 people. Btw I'm so sorry for your loss🤍

"Everybody has armour on" is the absolute perfect way to describe encounters with most people.

Same... But sometimes I think to myself are people really this shallow? Like maybe that's what they only want to talk about and on the other side there are also people like us who want to go deeper than that.... Idk I kind of accepted it, bc not all people are the same... U just have to find some kinds of yourself and then your good

I'm so sorry you've lost that kind of person. I know it hurts but that's good you've had one and have nice memories about them. I really feel you and you put it in such an accurate phrase about the armor. I'm going through a quite depressive period now and yes, unfortunately not many people around are interested in our minds, thoughts and emotional conditions (especially when we feel blue). I can't really open up to anyone too, so it's the first time I've told a living being about my depression. Sorry I've spited it out on you like this. All in all, I'm glad you have people you can talk to. There're not many, yes, but that's one of the things that makes them so valuable

same thing happened to me. even those who listen to you prefer the company of unconscious and numb minds.

what does winning someone even mean if they aren't there for your honest self. There is truely nothing rewarding about that.

No such thing as somebody who can be friends with everybody. Not everybody is gonna like u, no matter how friendly/social u are. Nice made up story tho.

That's me

He has two sides

It’s actually a coping mechanism. Chances are he was deeply insecure and studied like ability and socialization from a skill set point of view. He’s great at it But only on a skin deep level.

False. This clever comment disproves your alleged dumbness.

Anyone self-aware enough to recognize that, say, they may be emotionally flawed or even slightly below average in terms of intelligence is by no means a _dumb_ human being.

- TheElectricOwl - Could be socially dumb which is the worse kind of dumbness

Same

i feel you bro

yesssss

He also knew when to use "to".

Voltaire is the man

You can be lonely yet have many friends

*to

Being alone and lonely is different. What you described is being alone. If you enjoy your company then there's no loneliness.

I bet you "enjoy your own company" several times a day.

@@moderoy bruh🤦

Oh

@@moderoy yes

There's more wisdom in that book than some would like to think

"Siendo estúpido serás feliz" (being stupid you'll be happy) Jorge Gonzalez -chilean artist

wisdom is not the same as intelligence tho, to be wise you have to be intelligent but some people pretend to be wise using the wisdom of others to look intelligent my point is that everyone can be wise nowadays but not everyone is intelligent

Joyner Maidana I resonate with this verse, the more you gain understanding to the world the more burden it will bring you as Tame impala once said “The Less I know the better “

That is true

Yeah... So true 😇

Didn't Mark Twain say that -.-

I laughed so hard after reading this.

I had an imaginary friend and he just moved from home.

I was talking about the quote@Saurav Sharma

You just explained me.

Good deduction

I feel arrogant saying this about myself but this really hits home. In all honesty I just want to understand myself and the things I need to work on to be a better version of me. I feel like being sociable and being a good conversationalist is an acquired skill but I don't want to put forth someone that just isn't mean so that I don't end up lonely and that's what I feel like I have to do to be a good conversationalist. Unfortunately the things I enjoy doing, talking about, and contemplating aren't things that most people find enjoyable. I've noticed an uncanny resemblance between me and my friend whom I regard as an ignorant asshole whenever I get put into a situation where I need to connect with people in the room. Unsurprisingly it works, with the exception that I've added my own personality and spice to not come across as a total jerk. Unfortunately it's his ability to connect and my inability to find others like me or connect that keeps me from removing him from my life entirely. I've talked to multiple people who know him and even though they all enjoy his company tremendously they all think he's a total asshole, this seems totally contradictory and I understand it but I just can't believe it sometimes. I keep hoping that I'll find more like minded people when I transfer to a better school since I didn't really pay my dues when it counted before but it seems like a lifetime away. That's not to say emotionally intelligent people don't exist at more modest colleges but I haven't had much luck lately. To me it seems like everyone just wants to get their shit done and leave so so they can be one step closer to transferring themselves. Life gets really lonely sometimes, and it doesn't feel like something that anyone can help me cope with. If this connects with anyone else who feels the same please tell me, have you overcome it, are you still going through it, what have you done to help yourself, or what do you think I should do even if none of this is applicable?

Average Joe Bro, My advice is to not dwell on the lonely feeling because in reality you're not really alone, there's people just around the corner or in the next house, etc. I think if you're ok with being alone, and keep trying, that mindset will help. Everyone in this world is trying, life is about trying and failing, and trying to succeed. Don't be mad or sad you failed, because failing is more normal than succeeding, you're also learning each time you fail.

Average Joe Bro I’m in the exact situation as you man, except my friend who is an “extreme” extrovert is very emotionally intelligent and one of the few people I can have a deep conversation with. As you, I’m waiting to get out of school in order to meet new people (my friend doesn’t go to my school). My advice would be that you try to find a career in your school/college/university that connects with your personality or mindset and you will very likely meet with people like you there. For example, I very probably will follow the Visual Arts career (not sure how you call it in English) because as the video says, I feel like art is an open-secret Diary where people like us can truly express ourselves, and hopefully that belief will be common among the people I will meet there. Hope you found my comment helpful :)

The world is not overcrowded.

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The more intelligent and aware you are, the more you are disgusted by the facade that society puts up.

Sadly all the worlds a stage, and all the men and women merely players.

Sharp Thorne Films And I feel I have been forced into a role I didn’t audition for.

But no matter how much you fret this act/chapter, there's an audience member that loves the part you play in their life.

yea but if you are all alone with your own thoughts all the time you have none to bounce those ideas with none to separate the wheat from the chaff so you might end up with a distorted view of reality. none is so smart as to never have a wrong idea. and it is helpful if you have someone you trust to point out errors, like a best friend for example or your wife.

Especially when you can understand your alone because you have depth and the majority of people either don't have depth or reject it to fit in with the "Banter"

"Happy to be alone"??? Come back when life has 'experienced' you, and see if you feel the same??!!!

@@erikmehl2150 very true. Hence why Isolation is Dangerous.

Exactly. Once i stopped adapting to normies just to blend in (because i was always taught socializing is "normal"), i learned so much about myself. And once you get to know yourself, you realize socializing is just a chore, like vacuuming or doing laundry.

i consider art and literature as authentic works of HISTORY, too, as the history which is curriculum approved is so heavily censored and whitewashed and cut corners to make it easily digestible.

Couldn't agree more.

Elijah Shewell I said “often” not “always”

agree

For me socializing is not only an empty experience, but furthermore, a waste of time. The only interactions I enjoy are with people who are more intelligent than me, from whom I can learn and grow. Small talk, or worse, gossip, are dreadful. But I am autistic.

@@elsaaforges But don't you think that the more intelligent people that interact with you may feel the same towards you as do the ignorant and blissful world that thrives on small talk and gossip to be [socially] acceptable or "admissible," as the video put it? Also, I can't explain how painful it is, for me at least, to inevitably and repeatedly realize that people will, unfortunately, find this school of thought pretentious or arrogant since it turns them away from a rather interesting conversation. Lastly, why did you mention you were autistic if you don't mind me asking? I hope that doesn't make my comment vain, implying that you may only, or at least, mainly, feel this way because you are autistic.

This is not true. Socializing is how you meet other intelligent people. All it takes is one friend for an introvert not to feel lonely. You just need to be brave and not criticize yourself too much about the failure to connect to those you suspect are intelligent.

I like pie.

exactly

i'd like to know you

Just felt that today.

So true for me

mephistopheles the silent chief Spot on. They dismiss it, trying to live life only as they see others do. But what we see is very different from the truth no one ever dares to admit.

mephistopheles the silent chief ah no, that just means they are blissfully happy!

mephistopheles the silent chief ignorance is bliss

thats deep

Im a cunt to other people and still know im lonely.

this specific line reminds me of the movie, 'midnight in paris' where the protagonist is obsessed with the past 'golden age' era of Paris & wished if he could live in that time!

This line reminds me of classical era composers and artist who I really admired but never met

I deeply admire Chuck Schuldiner, hes the pioneer of death metal. I started playing guitar because of his music, he died in 2001. I am forever grateful for his music.

I really admire miyamoto musashi for his philosophy (dokkodo) and I wish people were more like him but maybe that's why he was great because he differs from the masses.

hahahahahha good shit right there

This should be top comment 😂😂

I have moved to France. My GP is kind and intelligent and agrees with you.

Oh

Definitely lol

The sarcasm and the cynicism comes from being hurt too many times and becoming jaded. Or, at least that’s how it is for me.

I really love your comment. Only one tip from someone who lived as you tell not being an artist. People will hate you or envy and reject you. To me, it is weird, but worthy because one single great soul connection makes me forget - mostly- human misery. Take care, you are one genuine person. Keep in mind all that is worthy has a high cost to achieve. I wish you the very best. P.

Well said. Thx for sharing

Such a brilliant observation

Fantastic comment, and you fill the hole that the speaker/video producer failed to

It’s not so easy for me to find in others small bits I can relate with. The best I can do is randomly share bits about myself and hope others relate to that.

A very good point!

That's an excellent point and I totally agree with you.

Thanks!

I agree with you

Same

kind of profound and admirable to be able to write those words.

Same:/

Slm

Then find a reason why you are lonely, look and observe the people and what makes them all the same, then you'll know the reason why you should be lonely and why it is something worth to live for.

I'm a fart.

It's Candy: that y U lonely?

@@jilliansmith7123 Actually, I'm tired of being popular. I WANT SOME DAMN PEACE, OH GOD!

It's Candy: LOL!

@@jilliansmith7123 The fate of farts.

You're still lonely, don't you?

Yes the people who blame their loneliness on their high intellect are only harming themselves

My IQ tests at 135. I spend allot of time alone by choice. Allot of people try to interact with me. I usually blow them off.

@@Crazywaffle5150 same here

Deus Ex you have a completely valid point, cognitive level and social level are two differentes stages of lifes, when cognitive level is so high that social level gets deeply damaged or you don't even have social skills to start with, it requires to apply some of that intelligenge to fix the social side of our lifes, and it's no sense in blaming our high intelligence for our poor social lifes. Actually I think it's a duty for that intelligent people to be able to project themselves in society, because nowadays our biggest problem is society is full of people who don't even know where their nose is.

Nice cope. But most ppl are lonely and want to have a genuine romantic connection, but can't because they are unable to meet somebody who shares the same views or likes them enough to be attracted to them.

@@CommandoMaster you're completely right, and I think that's an unfortunate truth of the world. Destined to an impossible chase of love. I don't dwell on it because love exists everywhere else besides relationships as well.

Adelino Denzel So many dumb people in my school thats why i hang with teachers alot

The worst part us they love you but don't understand you.

Yup. Intelligent people think before they do or say anything. They don't say or do pointless things. So they're not very good conversationalists unless its with other intelligent people. But there aren't many intelligent people so they are mostly alone.

Righteous1 there are also intelligent but young people who let their emotions come until you stop thinking cause ur mad cause theyre still young

Yup :(

Lol

I hope ypu are ok, keep some friends and make sure you get some alone time

SAaaame

U are already smarter than 99% of people in this comm section just for admitting it

Very intelligent of you

They don't sit around quoting people though. Those people do something for the masses. Something will never change, but that doesn't mean a lot of other thing shouldn't happen

Wow,you must be so smart quoting other peoples thoughts,so unique

"RU-vid is like horse shit: it stinks but everybody likes to watch it." - It's Candy Time Boys and Girls 2018

You cannot think surrounded of people.

Thisissomethingelse that happens a lot when I try to have intelligent conversation they just spout other peoples thoughts

By far the very best comment&even better then the video!❤😍user-friendly...thanks.

Lmk if u wanna talk.. I can relate 100%

I relate to this a ton....

Sortttt of Brodie if you’re used to being highly aware of your emotions eventually it becomes a natural state of being

Relatable

Very few ppl value real life interactions in this modern day. Everybody is on social media, and busy consuming content online. Interactions these days are through text, and shallow/pointless. Most guys are lonelier than ever because girls don't take most men seriously anymore due to the vast amount of attentions/DMs/simps they receive on IG.

Why I feel you?! :(

Boring because you don't do the same that they do the thing is how happy do you feel i say happy becase is the only feeling that everyone is looking for even alone or with someone

Boring or just too exotic/different from them? If I met a dude who loves football, I would also turn 180 degrees and walk in the other direction, because I have absolutely no interest in sport freaks. Not that there is anything wrong with the dude, it is just personal taste. Perhaps your hobbies are not in the norm and so less people will find you interesting, maybe weird if they have no sense of acceptance or understanding.

Like seeks like for that sense of a connection. I’m the same - but I also like weird. I have friends with the same and opposing views and different idiosyncrasies. Too much of this life is like an echo chamber, (especially now that social media etc has algorithms, so that you only see supposedly tailored content). It’s harder to learn, grow and develop around sameness. Bring on the weird and eccentric! The world is better and more colourful with them in it! ;)

SoundCloud.com/maine_ent you will like some of my songs then

You can buy company but not friends

😂

No, no way to buy genuine friends or love.

Nah just buy some hoes, they’re not genuine anyway

That's what I used to do too

lmao

Some of the truest words ever spoken

Define "bliss".

It's Candy Time Boys and Girls thanks for making me laugh

Untrue. While being ingnorant you still have problems, problems that seem to be big problems and so that makes you unhappy,eventhoug they aren't usually problems we would even take into account,because you are ignorant and don't see that your problems aren't a big deal

I’ve seen you twice today

Klaus Hoxha I've seen you once today

lol

When presented with the truth, you will first be sad or angry. Later the truth will set you free.

No, its not. There's nothing wrong with being alone if you like to be so.

You've articulated what I've wanted to say to my friends for years. Thank you. The world is not black and white we are not black and white everything is color, and every color has billions of more colors. That's how I like to see the world at least. I want to develop some sort of community eventually in my life where I can have likeminded people coming together not for money, religion, or politics but better global human understanding of everything.

Dank Weegee I feel this comment on another level. I feel like I'm just picky...

Dank Weegee You be living in a 3017 life than us in 2017

Dank Weegee same

You do not like a lot of people and that's the reason you're lonely. They don't exclude each other.

I don't like alot of people, and that makes me lonely

Ok have fun making fun of people simply stating something smart sounding

I'm gonna farm for some karma because of comment section

That's why I came here. Haha. Need some karma.

Hi! I am very smart and you are very stupid. You just act like a usual human creature who can't accept the fact that some are smarter than you. Because I don't care about normal people like you and my time and attention is not worth wasting time on you I am not even bother to answer your comment. BTW my facebook tells me that my IQ is 160 so you can kindly fuck off, my mind doesn't care about your comments because for me you are just like a grain of sand in the sea of quantum physics. I AM JUST JOKING OKAY? CALM DOWN.

I find it interesting that there is a need for many to belittle those who have the audacity to label themselves as "smart" or "intelligent". Do we dislike the fact that they are intelligent? Do we not believe their claims of intelligence? Or do we simply dislike that there are people who are comfortable enough with themselves to self-identify as being intelligent?

Somnolent verve You just 100 percent described me in any social interaction. I hardly can't keep up the conversation other than just formal greetings and get straight to the point. People think i'm cold but i can be entirely different, be empathetic and understanding if i wanted to. I'm very great at listening but the problem with me is i always see things in a total different way than they do and i always been anxious if i open up and be honest about my view how it appears to be better solution people will get upset with me and considered me to be even worse when it contradicts with their core beliefs so i would just avoid talking to them in a respectful manner

I'm just like you deep down but throughout my life I've been shamed/chided for being my true introverted self. I've been called "snobby" and "arrogant" for being what I only knew how to be. Now that I'm older and have reluctantly drank society's spiked kool aid in order to "fit in" and live up to social standards (If you're a rebellious introvert with an aversion to society's norms you had better be wealthy) lest I be made to feel an inferior, maladaptive failure, I feel I have betrayed myself. Everytime I shake the hand of a client or a colleague accompanied by my faux, manufactured smile and equally pretentious suit, I feel like throwing up. It's just an act. A facade.

I can relate to a lot of what you say - I think it's ironic that people often crave to be popular and have many friends, but that says nothing about the quality of those friendships. I think many shallow people have many similarly shallow 'friends'.

What you're describing - that certain perceptiveness - is the kind of intelligence being described in this video.

Out of all the top comments on this video, yours was truly intelligent.

Only sometimes?

ruoweii it's hard for intelligent people to form a genuine connection with most people, most people are incredibly stupid and ignorant, you can only play with children for a while and then go back to hang out with friends. Unfortunately, most humans are ignorant children. Most of them don't even care about learning things as they grow up. I find it impossible to connect with most humans

abhishek chatterjee If you really were smart, you wouldn't be bragging about your intelligence. You're making a fool out of yourself, shut up.

@@e.t.theextraterristrial837 agreed. My problem is i dont have any friends to go back to. Just myself.

ruoweii sometimes intelligent people - even intellectually - are just meant to be alone. No one appreciates intellect; rather they USE it for their own ends.

Intelligent or not being alone is not dangerous or sad. Sad and dangerous is the crazy desire for attention and interaction with people while feeling self pity and worthless. Being alone and feeling loneliness is an art. Once master they longing for interactions and the desire for affection cease to be and left is a cold, empty, peaceful, and calm feeling.

We all are very stupid in so many ways. But I always tell myself this: if I have to live with myself till the end of my life, then I better be kind and compassionate with myself. I understand what I understand from this world and that's fine...May be this approach helps you too. Have a nice evening :- )

School grades and book smarts does not truly show how smart an individual is.

Emmanuel Cadet I agree. I do have some interesting conversations on RU-vid sometimes with people. I wish some people weren’t always idiots talking about stupid memes all the time though.

"I have a hard time verbalizing how I feel or what i'm thinking... " Your post is very clear.

No I never felt loneliness. At least I don't experience it negatively.

Disagree. Yes, you need an information to start, but it's all around. The main process - thinking. Which is quite secluded, too.

Nope, sorry. Anyone who's done enough reading knows that not only do you form a deeper understanding when the words are physically on paper and you read it to yourself, you also retain the information longer.

reading is not a lonely practice. You read someone else's work. It's and inherently social practice. Social interaction is what tremendously helps development of intelligence. Not only in humans, but also tons of animals.

When you're collecting information from certain events irl you're into them emotionally - delight, fear etc. Memory connected to the feelings is far more stronger, that should be obvious. It's just a counterargument. As a whole, I didn't get what you were saying. Were you implying like school learning? Remembering facts won't make your life much easier. Remembering your first friendship experience, or decisions out of them, will.

I'm talking specifically about intelligence, not only having the information but applying it in daily life. Friendships and social experiences give you insights into just that - social behaviour. As for emotional intelligence, psychological intelligence, spiritual intelligence, academic intelligence and overall wisdom, only reading well thought-out works by others can make you more "intelligent".

+This Girl This might not help you, but we're all dumb. VERY dumb. 😀 It's true: even the smartest person in the world can know the tiniest of the tiny part of what can be known by humans. So you're not lonely at least one way. 😉 But I understand you can feel lonely. For me, that's a sign that you haven't found something you're passionate about. If you're depressed, that's the last thing you want to hear: "What are you passionate about?" My guess is that you are not passionate about anything. I know because that's what happened to me. During my worst depression, I forced myself to think of things I enjoyed as a kid. Also, of things I did outside my work and family. I've always loved reading and learning new things. So I went back to reading books and magazines on topics that interested me. I wasn't doing it to find my passion. I was doing it because it brought me joy. In the end, it led me to finding my passion. Now, I'm very passionate about spreading encouragement and helping people see the beauty and kindness in the world. So, I hope you'll feel a little better about being dumb (trust me, I'm at least as dumb as you), but also a little less lonely. Have a wonderful day. 💜

Bianca Aguglia Reading your comment brought me so much joy! Thank you so much for this!!😊❤️

cheer up

+This Girl I'm very glad to hear that. 😊❤️

Cool : )

Marvin I have come to great conclusions by thinking alone, I'll give you that. But most times my loneliness gives me too much time to think. Anda that's where it becames dangerous (at least in my case). I start going way outside racionality. My main thing is question EVERY single thing, most times related to people and weather or not I like them at all. I always end up questioning if I even like living at all... I mean, I got it all. I havent got a thing missing in my life, but I still seam to not have much interest for it. The think that makes me sick the most is how fake people can be. But on the other hand, the thing that makes me feel better is knowing someone genuine. It's so rare. It's very refreshing! I just felt like writting a little... Sorry if this was crap. And I'm sure there's plenty of english grammar mistakes all over

Tesla was always alone... In a barely lit room ... He preferred it.. And he was one of the smartest humans to ever live : )

aka Amy Thid is stupid, yes you do have more time to think when you are more lonely, but most of the time you at a lose. This is because not only are you isolating yourself when humans naturally are supposed to interact with each other, but your limiting yourself by not listening to other ideas. 2 is better than 1, no?

You should read The Enigma of Reason: A New Theory of Human Understanding by Mercier & Sperber. Reason is a social tool and is poorly equipped for lone use. You will, in fact, learn more and reason far better if you find someone who is interested in discussing the kinds of things you like thinking about.

Me too

Haha see above.

♡

dude that's not introverted that's agoraphobia

Si mon or just laziness like me..

You're my type! Where have you been all these years ? Ofcourse home !

Im an introvert but i love travelling solo. I think behaviour to scared leaving house is not an introvert trait

So basically,you are an introvert.😂

#metoo :D

The Daydreamer me 3

Same

I am a socially awkward introvert. My conversations are really awkward, and it makes me want to die....!sdfHwroAfwjk.,TfoE

The Art of Happiness not. Take a real philosophy class. Read Descartes. Understand Plato and Aristotle and their contribution to millennia of thought. Read Camus and Satre.. de decide if you agree with one of the other or neither and why. Those things are meaningful and deep. . Shoot, watch Crash Course; at least it presents ideas in as n unbiased manner and doesn't pretend to be something it's not

Very few ppl value real life interactions in this modern day. Everybody is on social media, and busy consuming content online. Interactions these days are through text, and shallow/pointless. Most guys are lonelier than ever because girls don't take most men seriously anymore due to the vast amount of attentions/DMs/simps they receive on IG.

sysyxjwjBurritoushdix eusuduBURRITO Perhaps he can write and speak more fluently than you, and is more interesting.

there is distinction between "smart" and "intelligent". book smart vs emotional intelligence.

@@kathleensmith644 true tbh im pretty uninteresting

You could learn to detect *that* and *why* smart people might be lonely. Maybe just slightly more intelligent people. This then could help you to steer conversation into a mutual pleasure. If you might ever be in - and want that position.

you're curious. A lot of times that all it takes to be "smart"

selective can lead to loneliness, no?

Alex has a point

Alexander Richmond what kind of loneliness

Definitely need to be careful of who you attract into your circle

How 'bout introvert?

It's the inability for smart guys to socialize with girls in a funny/charismatic way, where the girls are gonna be attracted to the guy. So he comes across as too logical/boring, and the girls are not interested in hanging out with him, and he feels lonelier than ever.

Pranoy Dutta I can relate to this lol

To be fair...

Pranoy Dutta He didn't say they were.

Don't confuse being alone with being lonely. One can be surrounded by loved-ones and still be lonely.

you must be a real genius for stating that *sarcasm*

Most people are miserable on their own, maybe its your job to help them out a bit.

Then don’t talk to people eventually they will go away. People eventually move on.

Bobby Diat no it’s by their job to help them those people need to help themselves

Buy or rent something with walls and a lock. 😉

Tht makes no sense

VIGILANT 7 TALENT MANAGEMENT lmao yeah

​@@fluffcake3124 It only makes no sense to those without wisdom.

@@fluffcake3124 It only makes no sense to those without wisdom.

@@fluffcake3124 its does. Knowledge/Intelligence is different from wisdom.

lol

It ain't a bad thing to love and respect yourself IMO

it's also filled with the kind of people that post and comment r/iamverysmart

Harry stones That's probably true, how does that make you feel?

Or people defaming them