@@jessikaaustin2638 what i mean is that u can say something like “ight guys im gonna go early my mom is in the hospital gotta visit her” and that one guy will say “simp lol”
0:36 You're courteous or kind to them but only because you expect something in return 1:19 You often defend them online only in hopes they'll notice you 2:03 They don't like you back but you continue to simp 2:31 Constantly trying to impress them 3:08 You're buying them things, doing favours, even though you're not close friends or partners 3:54 You put their needs way above yours, only because you want them to like you back Hope this was helpful
Everyone clowning on simps until they're single mothers, nearing 40, and start sagging and putting on weight lol Then it's like: "WhErE aRe ThE GoOd GuYs (simps/nice guys) at!?"
You can't find Love without first making a friend. And you can't have friends without Respect. And if you can't respect your Crush, you will never have the Love you seek.
Simp -> obsession -> sadboi -> depression -> personal growth/learn from mistakes -> maturity -> not a simp anymore This is the process of my simp journey
omg this brought back so much memories xD really cute drawing of Pewds , Marzia , Edgar and Maya! well done on informative video too. you are awesome :D
I'm a simp for fictional characters, but I know someone irl who is a simp for me even though he said that he "only likes me". All of these apply to this person of interest
Person of interest first time I've heard that by somebody not talking about somebody wanted for committing a crime but there could be more to this story I just don't know and it's none of my business.
Never really been called a simp, but when "simp" first came around my mates and I called eachother simps for the jokes, although one has a *small* case of monomania on a feminine shark... But I don't think there would be many of the 9 million who would mind "simping" for this saintly voice and this channel. Nice video as always with a 10/10 rating. :D
Thank you to make this clear! People used this word so easily in almost anything that it makes other people mislead and misunderstood to an extent when people showing genuine love for someone, they become a simp according to this simpleton, it's really annoying...
I'm simpin' for the animation style. Super adorable. Otherwise, I wouldn't be able to handle even a fraction of the attention that they get, and with all the real simps out there I would have a hard time trusting people unless I've know them for years
Man, I made a lot of these mistakes in past relationships but I grew up without a father in my life and my Mom played both roles as the mother & father so I really lacked in the confidence department and that's why its mandatory that I get my life together and come back & rise above all of it.
the worst thing about social media and the "simping" is that you can't give a single compliment online to anybody without being called a simp... eg.: "nice dress" "SIIIIIMPPPPPPPP"
Depends on the community for sure, the only time I've been called a simp was entirely joking around, no actual assumptions that I was one. Also, in those cases of being truly called a simp just for giving actual honest compliments, it may just be the actual simp projecting their own behavior onto you.
IMHO I think one aspect of simping is the feeling of wanting to experience love and romance to it's fullest rather than genuinely having feelings for the other person. It's like being altruistic because we feel good so rather than the cause itself. There's a lot of high quality, good people out there but we don't go 'simping' to everyone. We like to simp and pursue someone particularly because it's fun. The total opposite would be to make no effort and get things served to you which is boring. That's why a lot of people who simp, when they succeed at getting what they want, they're no longer interested. The act of pursuing is the fun. The prize might not be so.
Sadly some do win over their crush in the end and some end up simpers. We don’t need to do favours for others and being called a simp does not justify people showing ingratitude. Simps are also people with feelings and dignity and do deserve some help and guidance as well so that they can succeed in winning the heart of someone
Yes I agree. About your first sentence, it mostly happens because of social influence and pressure, mostly from friends and sometimes some people who gives not carefully thought crush advices.
@@TheEarlyAstrotype1024 And lets not forget triangulation and negative impression management whereby some unpleasant people with some unpleasant motives triangulate the crush and the poor simp. In short, their black flag operations are just simply them projecting their fears , bias (bigotry even) and insecurities on simp and the crush or a potential relationship
I religiously follow Psych2go and PewDiePie only...Watching Animation of Maya, Edgar, PewDiePie and Marzia makes me soooo happy...Never thought that Psych2go is a bro...
I remember I tried too impressed this boy, I literally gave him gifts and gave him extra lunch😭 he told me thank you but I'm not interested. I was heartbroken but hey I was 5🤷🏽♀️
its has tiers bro if you dont talk to a girl thats below a simp if you casually talking to girls youre a chad and if you are some girls bff while having feelings for her youve reached simp tier (this comment is a joke)
It took watching this video for me to realize the term Simp has largely replaced the "Nice Guy" label for this behavior and thank goodness it has. I like to think I'm a genuinely nice person but I'd hesitate to say I'm a nice guy when the "Nice Guy" definition's floating around. Giving it a name that doesn't rely on contextual irony and sarcasm feels much clearer.
wait, so you’re telling me i’m NOT a simp for showering my boyfriend with gifts and paying for his needs like a sugar mama? i freaking love to show him a lot of attention and give him stuff or help him out with the stuff he needs because it makes me happy to help him and giving him gifts is my way of showing my love.
What you're doing is fine but just let him know you support him and have faith in him... Men take their pride seriously they don't like getting help that's just the way we are.
@@Sina-cg9oo yeah, he usually doesn’t accept the help unless he’s ready to “whore” himself out for cash lol, or if he’s coming over i’ll send him more gas money than needed just to make sure he has enough since he works part time and still goes to school. (when i say whore, i mean do car or manual work for people he knows)
@@Sina-cg9oo Everybody is different. Even men. That's not just the way they are, that's the way society expects them to be, and the way they are constantly pressured to act. Many men do like getting complements, support, faith, etc but not always because they need to have their egos stroked. Society tends to treat men like monsters, so I imagine most of the newer generations of men actually have little pride or sense of self worth. Those compliments aren't always fueling inflated egos and pride, they may instead be rekindling a man's sense of self worth.
My best friend is in full Simp mode. Even though this girl told him twice that she doesn't want a relationship, and she slept with another guy they know mutually (but he has excuses for that). He makes excuses for her all the time, ignores the glaring red flags, invites her to hang with him constantly. How can you want someone so badly, that you're willing to give up your self respect and dignity to try and get them to like you. It's just.. Disgusting.
I will admit that I used to be like this.... As a 15 year old. I'm 20 now and I've definitely grown out of that. If I like someone I'd just tell them and if they're not into me, I'll just move on and not waste my time trying anything. Not that I've "given up on love and life" though. I just see no reason to go out of my way. If the feelings mutual I'm glad. If it isn't, it doesn't bother me the way it used to.
~ There was a boy who lived across the road from me nearly all my life. This boy simped for me for years.. I'm talking all through late Elementary school to adult years, even though he knew he had no chance with me. I did not return his feelings, yet he still simped to a pathetic level. That thing that he wanted in return was obviously physical intimacy.. Trust me, that wasn't going to happen.. He cried to every one because he couldn't get my affection and would get very jealous of *anyone* I romantically liked.. ~ When I did like someone, he would want to know everything about this person, and try to find ways to get me to hate the object of my affection.. and when I finally got a boyfriend, he tried all sorts of sneaky ways to try and break me and my boyfriend up, while trying to act like he was the "innocent victim".. He would constantly wanna know who I was talking to, who I liked, and he felt that he needed to be up under my a** 24/7.. A Simp can be very annoying to deal with, guys.. 🙄
I really thought I was, but I just match the energy of one. I kinda just spread it every direction. Which apparently is not simp behavior. (And I have my limits too.) So this was actually relieving and not depressing.
My brother called me a simp after I gave a female friend a water bottle after she forgot it. Didn't know it was her bottle. She smiled at me when I went up to her with it and I asked her if it was because she likes me or was it just a 'I like you as a friend smile'. Unfortunately it was the latter, but at least I asked her about it before I turned into a simp.
Bro I get called a simp every single day- I don’t even need this video T-T I know this already- (although it’s kinda both for crushing on someone and a simp at the same time)
I somewhat relate because validation from others is key for me because I see no value in myself. Not whether to laugh or cry. See the funny side or feel attacked and guilty... although I do try to be kind to others in general because it could save a life.
Had to double take on whether this was a Psych2Go video or a Pewdiepie video. I watch both channels all the time. Now if this video also featured Sive and Belle Dalphene I’d be twice as impressed. If you know you know.
"Clear they are not into you", thats where the Problem begins.. Not the people who like others are the Problem.. the people who are afraid of conflict not speaking their mind, ghosting you and later in blame you for the fact they ignored you are the Problem.. If someone is denied in getting clear signals how can you impove for your next approach? Ah and nice quote always on these topics.. "be yourself, there ist someone Out for you".. as far as i can tell beeing myself ist the reaseon people dont like me.. very funny!
I only saw the title and my only thought is that this is a late April Fools day video. Haven't watched a second of it yet, it's paused on an ad, but I just know it is.
Same here. I feel like I only have one true friend at my course which is why when they had a party without me and it was all a fat misunderstanding that I felt so hurt and offended. We've been friends since. I still can't trust them like I used to though to be honest.
Agree to disagree.. simps are the most kind and genuine people.. only seeking friendship.. a manipulating person does what you're saying.. buy you things.. say things they don't mean to get what they want..
As much as I fought against my intent being to just doing it, I always had a hope to have it reciprocated/recieved back. Yup have definitely been simping. Especially when I had simped I simply wanted simpathy which is a simptom.
I didn't simp to anyone. When I have a crush to someone, I usually am interested to what they're doing, following them simply because they shared my interests. Now, I have a crush, but I wouldn't go that far for them. 🙂
Following as in Twitter or some other social media or creepy stalker type follow. Not for one of those choices it would probably be best if you didn't follow them. Your freedom depends on it
Does that friend show any signs of simping? Sometimes people project their behavior onto others. I have a few ex-friends that I eventually figured out were simping on me & they sometimes tried to make things sound like I was the one with a toxic behavior.
I tried to be simp with my beautiful crush. My crush wanted my attention. So I gave my attention to her. It took forever for me to play mind games with her. But I ended up sleeping with her every night because we genuinely fell in love each other.
I'm in the same situation too but my crush has a bf and I haven't hung out with her for 2 months now after telling her how I fell about her. I know she likes me too but i guess she ain't tryna cheat/leave the bf.
I realize now that I was a huge simp for my last crush. Whoops! Good thing I got rejected though. It got me to take a minute to cool off. Glad that happened because it turns out he's incredibly sexist, homophobic, and has an ego the size of the sun! And the weird part is, there were so many red flags that I mistook for personality traits I find attractive. Big yikes!
I hate the word "simp". It tends to be used far more broadly than the context of this video, which basically refers to what I'd describe as a white knight, a doormat, and a Nice Guyᵀᴹ. In online discourse, "simp" is basically slapped onto _any_ guy who's nice to a woman, regardless of whether or not his overtures are excessive.
I know a guy like this, there’s this woman he’s had “feelings for”, for years. Supposedly it started back before high school, they were friends and he caught feelings. Well something almost happened between the two of them but they ended up going separate ways. Life went on, they married other people. End of of story right? Nope as luck, fate, whatever you want to call it, had it; they met up again after they both were divorced. Old feelings came up, mostly on his part and he took it as a sign that it was fate. So they started hanging out, not sure about what happened from there because I’m not sure I got the whole story but I’m pretty sure nothing happened. Fast forward a year or two, he got a job where she worked. He constantly talked about her. Liked, commented, and tagged her in everything on Facebook. I asked him from time to time about how it was going and if he’d asked her out yet. He’d say stuff like “Ooooh…no I haven’t yet. Besides I think she’s seeing somebody.” He once told me he thought she was getting back with her ex, I asked him what made him think that and he says “I know it sounds creepy but I’ve been stalking her in Facebook, found out she has another account and she has a pic of the two of them there.” I was like “Ooooh” gradually I began to suspect this was a one sided deal and maybe that was something she wanted him to believe so he’d leave her alone. Fast forward a few months to recently, he invited her to go out with us to see Spider-Man. She was enthusiastic about it at first then she changed her mind and backed out. He eventually quit his job and got a new one, he talked about her less and less. Then one day he asks me “What would do about that situation? Is this obsession?” I eventually told him the truth I said “Yeah I think it is and I think you’ve been friend zoned. If it were me, I’d move on because clearly she doesn’t want to be with you. I know it sucks but sometimes that’s just the way it goes. So if I were you I’d back off and see what happens. See if she noticed your absence, it’s not like she doesn’t know how to get in touch with you. My advice is just to let it go and move on.” He took that pretty well but around Christmas he informed me, “I’m gonna do something stupid. I’m going to go give her, her and son Christmas presents.” I was like ooook. And that was that, I don’t think anything came out of that. He still tags her in stuff and comments here and there, but nearly as much as he used to. Hopefully he has moved on from that but I don’t know for sure. I’m pretty sure he’s depressed and stuff but it’s just something he’s going to have to work through.
