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5 Ways To STOP Being a Simp | Courtney Ryan 

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In this video, I go over some things you might be doing that are making you a "simp"...aka, you have no self respect. I want you all to respect yourselves and that can't be possible if you're doing these 5 things. I hope you all find this helpful.. leave a comment down below and let me know what you think or if you've done any of these!
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@justody1
@justody1 3 года назад
Quick and easy scheme but do enjoy the full video 1: Unsubscribe to only fan. 2: Unfollow on social media (Instagram). 3: Stop chasing (find a hobby and build urself). 4: Stop always saying yes. 5: Don't put people on pedestal. (Don't idolized them).
@leoclips2179
@leoclips2179 3 года назад
Ia would give you a thumbs up but I got superstitions but thanks for the summary
@NsIX3
@NsIX3 3 года назад
MVP
@batdude811
@batdude811 3 года назад
Join MGTOW.
@travis6694
@travis6694 2 года назад
@@batdude811 that’s who guys who can’t get girls or have been screwed over
@batdude811
@batdude811 2 года назад
@@travis6694 Yes, to guys who have been screwed over but not those that can't get girls, oh nooo. There's a different word for those types of guys
@LEVIAHAN
@LEVIAHAN 3 года назад
Courtney doesn`t like doing "simp" videos, but she still makes a video to prevent it. Now that is pure dedication!
@kuschizu1280
@kuschizu1280 3 года назад
@surprisedpikachu Wow can you pls stop simping around ? ... jk ^^ just wanted to call somebody in the comments a simp :D
@arifsenpai1495
@arifsenpai1495 3 года назад
@surprisedpikachu No joke Even girls nowadays turns 18 on their birthday and starts doing Onlyfans. 😬😬😬 Dying food [Dyfo] and swish sniper was right.
@gwanza
@gwanza 3 года назад
@surprisedpikachu preach😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@arifsenpai1495
@arifsenpai1495 3 года назад
@surprisedpikachu Simp changed the beauty’s of men by accident. No way. Must’ve simp has special trades towards men’s
@harrym859
@harrym859 2 года назад
No she was just clarifying WHAT a sumo is bc red pill community snd guys have taken out of context. It’s not what u so that makes u a simp, it’s WHY you do it. If u buy ur wife flowers when she’s being amazing to you, doesn’t make u a simp. But if u send a girl flowers when she’s rejected you, to win her over… that’s what makes u a simp.
@jag9981
@jag9981 3 года назад
I learned the hard way to stop simping: heartbreak 🙃
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
Ugh sometimes we have to learn the hard way lol at least you learned!
@mynamedoesntreallymatter9153
@mynamedoesntreallymatter9153 3 года назад
Most of us had to learn it that way, but at the end of the day, knowledge is power. Cheers!
@Aerojet01
@Aerojet01 2 месяца назад
I fell into that trap during early 20's. I fell head over hills in love with a French woman, who treated me like crap. She always put me down, made me feel worthless and got me to do odd jobs around her flat, which I later found out she was dating other men. 20 years later, we're still in contact and she chases after me with the same manipulation tactics, and she has hopes of winning me back. I'm a lot wiser in my old age (too long in the tooth for all that) and 'respect' is a very important aspect of life, which determines how people will treat you!
@kathom67
@kathom67 3 года назад
In addition to 4: Stop being available all the time. If you do, you will end in the friendzone, even worse, in the category of a "convenient friend". Been there, done that, suffered from it.
@therisingsun4828
@therisingsun4828 2 года назад
I love her for telling the simps to unsubscribe from OF. And telling folks to unfollow people on social media. Take the power back, y’all. Wake up.
@cjw6659
@cjw6659 Год назад
Only Fans is 🤮
@mjsteward5508
@mjsteward5508 4 месяца назад
I agree 👍
@roddokyan96
@roddokyan96 3 года назад
Courtney is the friend we all need
@roningaming_1
@roningaming_1 2 года назад
Update: I just deactivated all social media like Instagram, Facebook and Twitter to focus on myself and better myself. I’ve been able to identify feelings I’ve been numbing from focusing on the fantasy world of social media. I’m starting to see my worth.
@KerrRobinson
@KerrRobinson 3 года назад
I remember being guilty of a few of these things. The road to self respect is not easy, but its so worth it. It's like being free'd from the prison in your own mind.
@vandalosalvaje9957
@vandalosalvaje9957 3 года назад
This video is pure gold. We often forget to love and respect ourselves, just because we think that a random person will do it for us.
@joshing_
@joshing_ 3 года назад
Summary: 1. Unsubscribe from OnlyFans 2. Unfollow her 3. Stop Chasing 4. Learn to say no 5. Don't put her on a pedestal
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
Yes sir!
@bjwkusgxjdks
@bjwkusgxjdks 3 года назад
You just saved me 10 mins. Thank you.
@AmritSingh-nk5qm
@AmritSingh-nk5qm 3 года назад
I get you're trying to help out, but Courtney puts a lot of time and effort into her videos. If you don't have the time to watch videos, simply watch them later when you do have the time.
@blakemolina9419
@blakemolina9419 3 года назад
Thanks bro
@jambajoby32
@jambajoby32 3 года назад
@@CourtneyRyan I see a few cats like Alexander Grace who give up the goods & that gets me to stay tuned for the whole episode as they elaborate on their points!
@moolis
@moolis 3 года назад
Most YT girls offering men word of advice are honestly pretty trashy and basic, like "be yourself." Glad to see a gal finally offering advice that's based and legit.
@asianmasculinity3811
@asianmasculinity3811 3 года назад
True that 💯
@ilikepancakes2368
@ilikepancakes2368 3 года назад
Be yourself is necessary advice though. You just become a shell of yourself if you change yourself to try and impress women.
@KingDayDayDay00
@KingDayDayDay00 3 года назад
@@ilikepancakes2368 disagree. sometimes you need to hear the truth and realize that your current self needs to be built up. "be yourself" tells you to stay stagnant. You have to grow, especially when you aren't getting the results you want in life
@batdude811
@batdude811 3 года назад
@@ilikepancakes2368 Just be yourself..is bad advice. Be the person you would like to be... is better. Because the strongest version of yourself...is the best advice.
@adamcrookedsmile
@adamcrookedsmile 3 года назад
@@ilikepancakes2368 if "be yourself" is necessary advice, that's what I will tell the next woman who talks about her problems in life.
@sebastianziernicki8641
@sebastianziernicki8641 3 года назад
Really great advice. As someone who spent his teen years trying to please everyone, these words can save men out there a world of hurt.
@jtstill423still8
@jtstill423still8 3 года назад
When Courtney talked about Onlyfans, she had a face that looked like “I really gotta tell these dudes twice.”
@bartdegryse9345
@bartdegryse9345 2 года назад
I'd really had to search up what this "only fans thing was" and i'm 25. I'd shoulda known that by that point, but since i'm not the "active social media guy" i'm not even on IG, snap etc..... just some quick few min on fb daily. For not missing events to go out to with friends etc.
@shady_the_one
@shady_the_one Год назад
@@bartdegryse9345 eh, you ain't missing much, I wish I didn't know what it was.
@mevinlettchernongkynrih5914
@mevinlettchernongkynrih5914 3 года назад
Courtney is officially my favorite female RU-vidr🙏🏼 She imparts very useful information to us.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
You guys are the best!!! ❤️ thank you!
@fedor6595
@fedor6595 3 года назад
Simp
@Mogamishu
@Mogamishu 3 года назад
She is my least favorite.
@tallking7777
@tallking7777 3 года назад
@@Mogamishu Why are you on her channel then? Now get lost boy
@unstablerupture6983
@unstablerupture6983 3 года назад
*Cocks shotgun* Smells like SIMP in here! I'm just playing around, I didn't get whooshed by the point of the video
@joeuchiha1342
@joeuchiha1342 3 года назад
Ngl, that sigh Courtney gave after saying “unsub from Onlyfans” really got me. You could feel the disappointment in that sigh 😂 My friends and I have been rewinding time to see if we’ve been simps at some point in time and unfortunately, we’ve all been guilty (except onlyfans. Not there in my country hallelujah). Though quitting all social media except RU-vid to study has actually been a huge blessing lol. Great video Courtney.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
Lol it was the “i’m not mad... just disappointed” sigh 😂 As long as you learn from it you’re fine.. glad you’re here! ❤️
@oliverarrow8431
@oliverarrow8431 3 года назад
@joe Uchiha where are you from?
@connerkryscio3527
@connerkryscio3527 3 года назад
Onlyfans+ adult content😂+ social media+ people= a lot of social problems
@Tyler-gq7on
@Tyler-gq7on 3 года назад
I got burned before for not knowing this stuff. I made myself so vulnerable. Its so refreshing to hear this and be reminded that I have come so far. Thank you Courtney.
@DariusLong
@DariusLong 3 года назад
The people pleasing part stood out to me, and that's been my hurdle. Great advice Courtney, thank you
@self-helpnathan6557
@self-helpnathan6557 3 года назад
For years I’ve been scared to be seen as argumentative and disagreeable so I would agree with everything that was said. Now I realize that having my unique opinions and sticking to them is not being a jerk
@DariusLong
@DariusLong 3 года назад
@@self-helpnathan6557 yeah exactly, that's how I am too. And I'm noticing that people respect me for being genuine and saying no, to this or that. I like to keep the peace so I totally feel you on that.
@rburbr0171
@rburbr0171 3 года назад
Courtney gives such great, real advice! So appreciative for the guidance. Sometimes you know what you need to do, you just need someone to sit you down and tell you how it is. Letting go is hard, man. Thanks!
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
That’s my goal! Telling what you need to hear instead of what you want to hear is important lol thanks for being here! 🥰
@nickcox1408
@nickcox1408 3 года назад
@@CourtneyRyan let me ask you something? What exactly makes you so different than the woman you speak out against? How do I know the person you present yourself as is the real you? Or are you just another salesman? What do you care whether men succeed or not?
@jbRoma
@jbRoma 3 года назад
Courtney thank God you decided to start this channel i love it it's so peaceful and honest at the same time this is how girls should help guys out
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
🥰🥰🥰 thanks for being here!
@Firesword534
@Firesword534 3 года назад
Courtney once again coming through with not exactly tough love, but real love. Great way to talk about this and still encourage guys to be the best versions of themselves.
@rohitrnaidu
@rohitrnaidu 3 года назад
Your videos hit hard. Real words. Painful truths. All we remember is how many times we have settled for less. Also reminds us of our own value. I'm owning more these days. Thank you for your videos
@reyesaldaojoseemilio4854
@reyesaldaojoseemilio4854 3 года назад
When i stopped saying yes to everything, my confidence became bigger and i started feeling better with myself
@hotsaucemtkb575
@hotsaucemtkb575 3 года назад
Speaking this clearly is such an attractive thing So many people mumble and are too lazy to worry about being heard and understood
@IceHibiscus
@IceHibiscus 3 года назад
It is because Courtney actually has skills to succeed in the real world. It really is that simple and it sets her content apart by leagues. A lot of advice influencers don't exactly have a proven track record on that account. And usually it shows, eventually if not immediately.
@mediasawdust2458
@mediasawdust2458 3 года назад
Get hobbies, they become like a drug. No time to simp when you’re focused on something else.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
Exactly 👏🏼👏🏼
@ilikepancakes2368
@ilikepancakes2368 3 года назад
You need hobbies that actually interest women though. Movies and video games aren’t going to cut it.
@davidh5101
@davidh5101 3 года назад
hobbies are just a distraction from your problems or just your hum drum life.
@mushroomsteve
@mushroomsteve 3 года назад
Get drugs. They become like a hobby. No time to simp when there's a fractal movie playing on the backs of your eyelids.
@mushroomsteve
@mushroomsteve 3 года назад
@@ilikepancakes2368 Lots of women are interested in movies and video games.
@barcuh23
@barcuh23 3 года назад
You don’t need a relationship to be fulfilled. I try to treat people by seeing them as human and not focusing on their genders. Just be a genuine human being that’s what the world needs.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
Exactly!
@barcuh23
@barcuh23 3 года назад
@Richard Schiffman great mentality buddy, show them that you’re better because you have more money than them, pathetic. This is why you’ll never win the lottery. Be humble man and treat everyone with respect
@mcpartridgeboy
@mcpartridgeboy Год назад
You do need a relationship to be fullfilled, women who have had loads of boyfriends and are often with people say this dumb shit, you wouldnt be looking up dating advice if you didnt want a gf, the other thing is your comment is very uch like a simp, your saying what everyone else needs you to be withut looking after your own needs, and courney who said dont do that liked your comment , lol.
@ericv5435
@ericv5435 3 года назад
I already don't do these. #5 was the one that I had the most trouble stopping but I've learned to stop putting her on a pedestal.
@ahmed2527
@ahmed2527 3 года назад
Thanks a lotttt sis. I am doing these things for past 3 years and gradually everyone started hating me and now I am all alone. No friends, no girlfriends, no family member but still I am happy. Because I found my true self and I am embracing it.
@xT4K3x4x5HiTx
@xT4K3x4x5HiTx Год назад
Over time the red flags I didn't see or stand up to in my current relationship wore me down over time. Once a young, moderately confident man at the beginning, slowly became the simp I have been for the past year or so.. My eyes are slowly opening.. Thank you for what you do Courtney 💕
@ryangilley8764
@ryangilley8764 3 года назад
Me, gives Courtney's video a like. Everyone else: "SIMP!"
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
Hahaha everytime 🥲
@ultimateownsz
@ultimateownsz 3 года назад
It is what It is I guess🤔
@brachiosaurus6541
@brachiosaurus6541 3 года назад
I liked your comment, so I'm now your simp!
@Raymond-rr5iv
@Raymond-rr5iv 3 года назад
Lol !! Kiss my..... ;-) !!
@donkeykong1234
@donkeykong1234 3 года назад
so, if i click on Courtney's video I'm a simp and if I click on Tucker Carlson's perpetual scowling face - i'm an alpha? k.
@lestendsouza9395
@lestendsouza9395 3 года назад
Courtney is what I needed in my life. She just gives her honest opinion and tells us the things in terms of Female perspective. Love ya babe
@martinslevin7226
@martinslevin7226 2 года назад
I have been following your chats for a short while now, and I must say you do deliver sound and sensible advice. Thank you Courtney, keep up the good work. Greetings from the UK.
@eaglesfan109
@eaglesfan109 2 года назад
So much truth in this video, especially the bit about chasing. Anyone who gets off on people chasing them isn't worth your time. The internet needs more content like this.
@suliashraf8046
@suliashraf8046 3 года назад
Wow, the first point of unsubscribing from OnlyFans had me for a while... I know it's 2021 but to think that so many guys are subscribing to that stuff shows how behind we are as a society. Our morals and values as men are diminishing, for what? To get some sort of gratification from such girls? It's disgusting, glad that you have bought it up, keep up the good work.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
Agreed... 😬 and thank you! ❤️
@suliashraf8046
@suliashraf8046 3 года назад
@@CourtneyRyan You're welcome, could you possibly cover the topic of 'high value' men in a future video please?
@tallking7777
@tallking7777 3 года назад
It's so dope to have a woman giving men advice on fashion and dating switching things up then just hearing it from another dude.
@jackarrington3293
@jackarrington3293 3 года назад
Courtney, honestly you are one of the most mature and understanding girls I have ever seen, especially for how young you are. That will serve you well in life as I'm sure it has already have a good day
@halfpastblog
@halfpastblog 3 года назад
I clicked on this to find out what a simp is and kept watching because you make some extremely insightful observations. Kudos on having the courage to state things plainly but gently.
@liptongtr
@liptongtr 3 года назад
4:50 , this part really spoke to me not even just in regards to women. When you put your self worth in the hands of others your inevitably going to be dissapointed and open yourself up to depression.
@susovanchakraborty4486
@susovanchakraborty4486 3 года назад
You are the sister I never had.
@GeneralGnn
@GeneralGnn 3 года назад
Spot on Courtney! Props to you for guiding us to self actualization
@NYKgjl10
@NYKgjl10 3 года назад
There is a big difference from being a nice guy and simp and this video explained it all. Thank you for this vid Courtney.
@willfrancis6941
@willfrancis6941 3 года назад
It’s funny because when I started watching this channel,I didn’t think Courtney would be this blunt.So many you tubers say things like be yourself and the friend zone doesn’t exist.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
😎
@willfrancis6941
@willfrancis6941 3 года назад
@Cmndr Roy Fokker Female you tubers I mean.
@15blackshirt
@15blackshirt 2 года назад
I'm guilty of doing most of the things on this list, and I paid a heavy price for it; I've learned to put myself first, focus on my own well being and not let anyone or anything distract me; my life has vastly improved, and I've been able to focus on achieving my personal and fitness goals
@kevinhuheey1261
@kevinhuheey1261 3 года назад
Thanks for hooking us up with the facts. You’re the best Courtney. 👊🏻👊🏻
@oliverrodriguez5481
@oliverrodriguez5481 2 года назад
I must say I am a new fan, Courtney seems like she genuinely cares and gives a different point of view from some other content makers I follow. Good job
@KingDayDayDay00
@KingDayDayDay00 3 года назад
First one is the biggest. Invest that money in yourself. Buy some quality jeans or chinos that can last you for years or some gym equipment.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
Exactly..... 🥲
@johnnythekid4601
@johnnythekid4601 3 года назад
Day 1 People don't understand that in some cases no matter what amount of self improvement a guy does it wont help his cause. Women have a way of spinning anything an unattractive man does towards the negative. IE oh hes not trying to improve his wardrobe or physique because he truly wants to look better. hes just trying to so he can try to get laid
@keithscommunityanddomestic9513
@keithscommunityanddomestic9513 3 года назад
or cheese cake, with extra dipping sauce, awwwwwww yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeah jks
@thegrandstory5186
@thegrandstory5186 3 года назад
Maybe you could do a video on how to know if a girl is using you or taking advantage of you. I’ve had a few instances where girls act interested to get free dinners, drinks, trips, etc but never want to be exclusive and pull the trigger on dating.
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
I actually did a video about this already! It’s called “How To Tell She’s Using You!” 🥲
@jdr6128
@jdr6128 2 года назад
Very good video Courtney, thank you. You're simple sincerity and calm demeanor are very refreshing. I wish there were more women like you, you are a diamond in a sea of broken glass. Sadly I know many "men" (I use the term loosely) that could take a chill pill and learn the value of honesty. Keep up the good work.
@arnbeyaz6801
@arnbeyaz6801 3 года назад
I'm glad i found that i'm a nice and a respectful guy both to myself and to the girls and not a simp. Lots of thanks Courtney.👏👏
@josuemiamire
@josuemiamire 3 года назад
Courtney: hey Teddy let’s cuddle and chill Teddy: I can’t, I’m hanging out with KEVIN O’LEARY
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
😂😂😂 I’m laughing so hard
@DavidZMH
@DavidZMH 3 года назад
I respond back to women so little that they think I don’t like them. They always tell me how sad they feel when I don’t text them back. So I don’t ever over pursue the way its mentioned here by Christine. I rather have them feel sad I don’t respond then to be annoyed I text too much.
@matto6019
@matto6019 3 года назад
I love it
@habsom1406
@habsom1406 3 года назад
Psychologically healthy authentic advice delivered in a non judgemental way, very refreshing.
@Guardian49811
@Guardian49811 3 года назад
Great video Courtney. One of the best pieces of advice I read in a book many years ago even before "SIMP" was a common thing is that the most important person in a guys life is himself, then someone he is seeing/with, then everyone else. The example he gave was if there is only one seat on the subway the jerk will take the seat and make the girl stand, the simp will give up the seat for the girl but the best approach is to take the seat yourself and have her sit in your lap.
@roningaming_1
@roningaming_1 2 года назад
🤦🏾‍♂️This video was so truthful it hurt really really badly but I needed this. I literally unsubscribed to all the girls and deleted my onlyfans account. I’m currently deleting all the girls aka Instagram models I gave too much attention too it’s a lot of accounts so it’s going to take some time sadly. Feeling ashamed that I fell for it all but better that it’s going to be gone and I learned from this. thank you😌
@billhuss
@billhuss 3 года назад
Being a simp is not simple at all. Nice video courtney!
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
👏🏼
@hola3514
@hola3514 3 года назад
Courtney thank you so much for your videos. I just watched my self on the mirror with this video, regarding about my last relation. It had a terrible end. I am still coursing the duel. Has just a few days. The worst of it was I just started that kind of relation, I put myself on it. Keep being an angel, I love your videos and your soul. Thanks again.
@jimtart4271
@jimtart4271 3 года назад
I didn't like Courtney video's at first. Now, I've got new respect for her.
@haggs2014
@haggs2014 3 года назад
“Unsubscribe from onlyfans” and stop following their Instagram accounts that are the soft core version of their accounts
@chuckstemm443
@chuckstemm443 3 года назад
I prefer these videos as opposed to the ones with the other girls
@sahilsachdeva72
@sahilsachdeva72 2 года назад
Thank you Courtney for posting such great content ❤️ I really appreciate your work👍
@parrottsstudio2924
@parrottsstudio2924 3 года назад
Great and very true points that need to be noted. As a teenager I think made some of these mistakes and didn't really understand it as I didn't have many role models or any one to tell me. Now 24 and learning self confidence and passion comes from within and through this learning self respect and if the women in your life or anyone to be honest who doesn't respect you they are not worth your time and you should not be afraid to stand up for yourself even if that inner voice always says keep the peace. Anyways, great video keep up the good work.
@SoldierPoet
@SoldierPoet 3 года назад
And it's on to 100K! You're a hard worker with your channel and you deserve it. Have a wonderful weekend and God bless you. 🤠👍
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
Thank you so much! 🥰 you too!
@thomasedwardpatrickbradyjr
@thomasedwardpatrickbradyjr 3 года назад
SIMP! Just kidding
@Kami84
@Kami84 2 года назад
I was afraid that I might be a Simp, but I'm not even close. I used to chase girls but I don't do that anymore. I also never let girls get away with disrespecting me. It has leg to breakups but I feel like respect is like a bare minimum requirement for a relationship. I'm not going to put up with being belittled by my own girlfriend.
@shady_the_one
@shady_the_one Год назад
Yeah, them's the words of the opposite of a simp. You pass the test. +100 Respect
@DJSmith575
@DJSmith575 3 года назад
Great advice as always. Your voice sounds like a warm hug with a pat on the back. Thank you. 🤗
@rarissime7
@rarissime7 3 года назад
After.. some hard mindset.. I became what I want.... And ever one can be........ Thanks Courtney❤️
@g.banderas1242
@g.banderas1242 3 года назад
Really appreciate your advice. Been chasing a girl for couple of years. At one time it was awesome but then she moved away to another state and I tried to rekindle what we once had. Never really could get that back. Had her on a pedestal thinking she would be the one 🙄. So I'm glad you have opened my eyes and realized I was chasing a dream🤔. Thanks for sharing your advice. Need to move on. Really tell it like it is.👍😮
@thatboringblenderguy
@thatboringblenderguy 2 года назад
I had a similar, well quite similar issue with a girl from Target...
@Halpin2006
@Halpin2006 3 года назад
Courtney, I wish I had this video when I was a child. But in the 1980s, this advice was written in a certain book that was hard to find!
@user-fm3tu6gu4r
@user-fm3tu6gu4r 5 месяцев назад
Don't be a simp when you simp she doesn't respect yourself.this video was very powerful.courtney tells it like it is.
@TheHornet1fan
@TheHornet1fan 3 года назад
Very helpful, I used to do a lot of what you list years ago, minus the social media component, thank you Courtney. Btw I'm a widower going on 2 years now and just wanted to find ways to work on myself. Your videos are a lot of help.
@vinblack85
@vinblack85 3 года назад
"You have to stop dm"ing her 20 times a day" Sooo how about 19??😁
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
😂 you guys kill me lol
@johnjuarez8005
@johnjuarez8005 3 года назад
LOL
@dakshc3540
@dakshc3540 3 года назад
lmfao
@gordonjamesedward1639
@gordonjamesedward1639 3 года назад
@@CourtneyRyan 😜😜😝
@Honestandtruth
@Honestandtruth 3 года назад
Courtney is directing to people who don't have Common senses
@rijubhatt8366
@rijubhatt8366 3 года назад
Typically, people have limited, if not absent, sense of personal boundaries. Saying no to them is an exercise of caution. They feel their personal right to being "RIGHT" every time is being taken advantage of. Yes, this actually happens.
@rickybernales3147
@rickybernales3147 2 года назад
Thank you Courtney for this video....lesson learned..this really hit me hard..I need to be more mature when it comes to knowing someone who knows my worth.
@michael-dy8tz
@michael-dy8tz 2 месяца назад
I needed to hear this, this has been me, thank you Courtney!
@MrCanadiansingh
@MrCanadiansingh 3 года назад
You boost so much confidence in me that i have blocked a model having 3 million followers on insta
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
I’m so proud!!!
@MrCanadiansingh
@MrCanadiansingh 3 года назад
@@CourtneyRyan you should be ! 🚨my beacon of hope
@halfers83
@halfers83 3 года назад
I will remain single FOREVER!!!
@mynamedoesntreallymatter9153
@mynamedoesntreallymatter9153 3 года назад
I think that one of, if not the most important thing to do to avoid behaving like this is to be in control of yourself, both physically and mentally. Is not easy and it you won't see results quickly, but you have to put on the work. Patience always pays off, gentlemen, always.
@reddevilparatrooper
@reddevilparatrooper 3 года назад
Thank you for making me self evaluate my current situation now. I went through 2 bad divorces and a dozen near marriage situations which all were all horrible. Currently I have what I see an Angel walk into my life. With my background of bad choices. I feel a pattern of uneasiness coming. I shall see what she says when I start to say NO!
@machupikachu1085
@machupikachu1085 3 года назад
my experience : no should do. It should rarely - if ever - get to NO! Also - this may be useful on your new journey www.livingbetterlivesnwa.com/blog/2020/3/2/15-how-to-identify-toxic-relationships Hope this helps. Best of luck, my dude. Cheers!
@JoeMercersWay
@JoeMercersWay 3 года назад
why do you need to pay to talk to a girl when Courtney talks to you for free every day?
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
Exactly???? 😂
@strongholds12
@strongholds12 3 года назад
Simps is the comments "you're beautiful. Your content really helped me alot"
@herbertfeuerstein4513
@herbertfeuerstein4513 3 года назад
Thank you Courtney. You are doing a great job!
@hugoyuugo1300
@hugoyuugo1300 10 месяцев назад
I was so happy to see that I got a long way with the 2 first advices which are now far behind me 😂 So true Courtney what you say about s!mping! I also think it's not respectful to the woman a guy will eventually date. For this reason I unfollowed every NSFW girl on instagram. And another point, if a girl interested in a man sees that he follows such profiles, oh wow this is such a turn off... I'd even say a small red flag... Basically, s!mping is self sabotage in a very destructive way.
@aseman84
@aseman84 3 года назад
You have a soothing voice. If I were you, I would try to read audiobooks or even produce a podcast. Would be a waste of talent/ blessings, if you would not go for it. Greetings from Germany
@AriDeleuze
@AriDeleuze 3 года назад
Notifcation Squad !!!!😎😎😎Where yall at?? Anyways Courtney recognizes me now 😏
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
You rock!!
@AriDeleuze
@AriDeleuze 3 года назад
@@CourtneyRyan you rule!!
@mohammedfaraaz6949
@mohammedfaraaz6949 3 года назад
Siíiiiiiiiimppppp 😉
@universalcitizen7544
@universalcitizen7544 3 года назад
spot ON! THANK YOU COURTNEY
@raylemar2386
@raylemar2386 2 года назад
Thank you for the valuable information. It all starts with self respect.
@Joe.Brown2120
@Joe.Brown2120 3 года назад
THANK YOU!! I was at work kicking it with my male coworkers and here’s there logic... “If I buy my guy friend a snack from a vending machine, I’m a bro 😎. If I buy my girl friend a snack from a vending machine, I’m a simp.” I looked at them like they were thee DUMBEST individuals there 😂
@renemontenegro6143
@renemontenegro6143 3 года назад
Im a Sigma Male my Colombian woman loves it 😎
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
👏🏼👏🏼
@jleano609
@jleano609 3 года назад
South American girls are pretty special. I worked it out a few years ago with a Peruvian girl who was a mate's squeeze. And I've noticed it with Brazilian girls too. When they talk to you they look directly into your eyes and focus all their attention on you. Are they taught this in childhood? It is really captivating.
@guitarman813
@guitarman813 3 года назад
You say it how it is Courtney! Credit to you girl! Like what others have said, I wish other RU-vidrs would give advice based on reality. Not fantasy.
@raiderlove5923
@raiderlove5923 3 года назад
I love your videos Courtney. They are very helpful for day to day life.
@davidj.espino2435
@davidj.espino2435 3 года назад
I don't even know what an only fans is🇵🇭
@omotayosatuyi252
@omotayosatuyi252 3 года назад
Ways to not be a simp: don’t be a simp
@CourtneyRyan
@CourtneyRyan 3 года назад
If only it was that easy right lol
@omotayosatuyi252
@omotayosatuyi252 3 года назад
@@CourtneyRyan Haha
@NCICRESQ
@NCICRESQ 3 года назад
Hey guys, STOP being a door mat, respect YOURSELF, learn “boundaries.” Thank you Miss Courtney excellent video, as usual. Jeff
@ayroneman34
@ayroneman34 3 года назад
Yes to being a gentleman, aka a man with masculine frame and self-respect. No to simping! Thank you Courtney
@kokotheclown2588
@kokotheclown2588 3 года назад
She's like the female version of alpha m someone who's looking out for u while being honest
@reyesaldaojoseemilio4854
@reyesaldaojoseemilio4854 3 года назад
With the differences that she's not very intense, and she doesn't put many sponsors on her videos 😂😂😂
@kokotheclown2588
@kokotheclown2588 3 года назад
@@reyesaldaojoseemilio4854 true but alpha it's the right amount of intense but yeah the sponsorship it's a bit on your face
@immanuelkh
@immanuelkh 3 года назад
There are a million people on RU-vid who give advice on how to attract the opposite sex (exaggerating, but only by a little bit), and you are one of the best I have seen. Keep up the great work
@stephenhadiwibowo7557
@stephenhadiwibowo7557 3 года назад
Thanks for this video, Courtney. 👍 Sometimes, you just have to hit someone on the head to get them to know that they are being taken advantage of. I am sharing this video to a friend hopefully hearing this from you will change his mind about this so called "girlfriend" of him. 🙏
@paulleyva5076
@paulleyva5076 2 года назад
Thank you. I needed this
@BriGuy1914
@BriGuy1914 3 года назад
Courtney’s voice is so soothing
@jasonhorton4778
@jasonhorton4778 3 года назад
Much appreciate Courtney, thank you for the effort you put it🤘🏾
@AquasJuggernoid
@AquasJuggernoid 2 года назад
Thanks for telling it like it is, Courtney! Good luck out there fellas.
@joealley0
@joealley0 3 года назад
Loving the consistency of the vids, good stuff
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