We are all here brother. That's why we read these. It's 3 a.m. right now and I'm in tears because I just want to get the chance to show someone what I can show them. I'm here bro
You’re not alone , you better believe there’s good peoples that really cares about you on this earth , I’ve been there man , I still have a lot of struggles , but hope exist , don’t give up , the world deserve your soul
I don’t think anyone likes loneliness but after a certain time u probably forgot what it was like to be happy like the old days so u think it’s normal now and accepted it but it shouldn’t be a permanent lifestyle
@@bobblimpsr.3955 He's right tho, I've grown alone since I was like 10 with a problematic family. I firstly isolated myself, then thought being alone is better, but now that I'm in my early 20s Im slowly deteriorating while grinding for my future. But I can't change anymore, I've grown up like this and to change this I would just have to change all over to another person, and now it's not the time anymore. I swear I even lost the ability to cry... Please, don't fall into this cycle. Being alone is not fine, you'll regret it like hell in future.
@@bobblimpsr.3955I’m not saying he’s right but, as someone who has been through that the feeling of liking loneliness goes away with time. Humans are social creatures and require social interaction. Liking loneliness is probably a misdiagnosed distrust of people and the result of being hurt causing you to not want to let anyone in TO be able to hurt you. Obviously I don’t know you personally but that is 99 times out of 100 what it is
@@tristangriswell2034 I disagree. Think of the people who went off to live in solitude in the wilderness and say it was the happiest they’ve ever been and gave them peace being totally alone
Something that i used to do but not anymore was look up and watch relationship tiktok compilations, now i realize how lonely i was, i still am tho. 1:50 is me i feel like.
I don’t want to live no more since 2022 I lost my brother…no matter how much money or beautiful things you own/ have seen…. Sometimes your life gets ruined by one day…I won’t end my life cause I got 2 other brothers and my mom. but shit. Life got so bad… just one day can fckk your hole life…brothers I am with you…
@@Flixfuzzym so sorry you lost your brother. It's still to soon . They say time heals all wounds, but it's really you just think about it less. You still have 2 brothers and a Mom, which is more than I ever had( my Mom died when I was 4 and I'm an only child) But I still thank God for the blessings in my life.. ❤🙏🇺🇸
@@chrisp.9172 I feel so sorry for you...But You are right! and my Brother lives on in our hearts. I hope youre doing "well" and be as happy as possible. Being happy is worth so much nowadays...God will always be with us! Amen!
Its 3 a.m. 6 days before Christmas and im at my limit not having someone to show how much love i have to share. This kinda feels like a journal entry. I say how i feel, but its real. I wake up and nobody is there. Why suffer ???? Then 6 days from now you see all these people happy opening presents and beilng loved
@@kobiwarren4549 That's the thing. I'm not here to worsen my depression. I'm here to wake my mind that there are people who has in an exact situation like me. I'm not alone at LEAST.
I’m really sorry to hear about what you’re going through bro, I genuinely hope everything gets better! I read you’re taking care of your mom, is there anyway you two can celebrate together or is she not well enough?
Even if you forgot how a hug feels like, even if you are facing loneliness, stay strong my king, stay advancing through life, i hope ya'll have a good life, a good day. ❤
I'm 28, never had a girlfriend, never held hands or even kissed a woman. No one ever told me i love you except maybe my parents when i was little. But it's fine i have myself. True days tend to always look the same and it feels like i'm wasting my life but the only time i felt i had a real meaningful connection with a woman and most importantly a best friend, they removed me from their lives after 7 years with no explanation and that hurts way more than loneliness to me (She is heavily mentally ill and physically aswell so i hold no grudges of course).
I know but hey read this ok? You make ppl feel happy even when there down You make ppl want to live but if not then hey its ok and I want you to know your loved even though ppl don't know the others on here but you deserve love and you know what if your day is down remember YOU will find someone just as loveing as others
I wish this was in German so I can show thin to my girlfriend couse she doesn't speak English... I do not have enough strength left to tell her how I feel... I feel worn out, like the color of your favorite peace of clothing. Once bright and present but now after years of neglect weak and grayish😢
Aber vergiss nicht, Du würdest das gleiche von deiner Freundin erwarten um ihr zu helfen. Wenn sie dir nicht hilft, ist sie nicht die richtige. Tut mir leid wenn ich das so sagen muss, aber du musst ehrlich und direkt sein, nur dann kann sie dir helfen !!
The only friends I have ever truly had are my siblings. You don't have to be alone to be lonely. People see me all the time but I always put on a mask because no one wants to hear the pain someone else has. No one really knows how bad it can hurt more than yourself.
I have three friends left and one of them I’ve started to hate even though he’s like my brother since I’ve known him for over half my life but he’s been so angry lately and he’s been a jerk and he can’t even see it even though I’ve tried to explain it and the other two just don’t ever really make much of an effort to hang out with me unless it’s at my first friends house because they don’t know where else to hang out but even when I’m around them I’m just hollow. I’m quiet, I don’t say anything much anymore I’m just there and if they ask if I’m okay I just say I’m tired when I’m really dying and I don’t even know if I’m going to make it past the end of this month. These past two years have been the hardest of my life. And now I’m losing my job and I’m about to go into bad debt and I just want to end it. I’m so tired of everything. I just want someone to really understand. Just once, I just need someone to truly sit by my side and help me.
I don't ever have any problem in family, and i was taken care everybody likes me I always got what i want but damn , i really always feel that black hole inside of me man. Really need a hug.
You know when I was younger I only had 1 friend but when I became 10 I had a lot of friends but when I became 11 I just felt like all my friends never talked to me no one remembers my birthday I have to tell them every time life is toff and the only ones who remembers my birthday is my mom my dad and my 1 friend from the beginning
I've been in one relationship my whole life and it only lasted about a month. It's been 4 months since it ended and i have yet to get over her and i have never felt so lonely in my life. Everyday I wish I could just skip ahead to the future when I finally find someone for me. 2023 was a terrible year for me towards the end and 2024 has not had a single good day. I just wish I could be happy again.
You are never alone you always have god on your side so dont say your alone when you have god ive been by myself improving every day so pray to jesus christ and he will change you he will help you in the darkest moments and hill help you be the best version of your self keep on praying for faith in the lord and he will help you
I'm in France with my family for Christmas, i'm 17, i have good friends, and a girlfriend that i love a lot. But even if this should be good for me, i still feel like a deep and cold sadness that i can't explain... My family and my friends wouldn't understand if i said that. I hate going to school, i'm so lonely in my class, i talk to nobody. I'm a ghost, it feel like i'm invisible... I need something to feel better. But i don't think i deserve to feel better i'm so pathetic bro... Nobody will read that shit or care about it but i needed it. I love you all my friends even if we not sharing the same language or the same country, we need to be united ❤
Presque pareil pour moi... Au début je parlais pas à grand monde, je me sentais un peu seul. Du coup j'ai commencé à parler à plus de personnes, et à être plus lâche socialement. Toujours rien. Je leur parle en cours, mais en dehors de ça, on ne me parle pas à l'extérieur. Depuis le début des vacances, je suis seul, et je vais passer le nouvel an seul aussi.
I know that there's so many people in my life that probably care about me, the only issue, I can't trust them, I can't even trust myself, I feel like I've just lost who I am, nothing that used to seem fun is fun anymore, and I try to explain how I feel, yet everyone just says, oh just get over it. I feel like there's no true sympathy for those who silently suffer.
Seven years no affection (bad enough)? How about twenty years and counting? Heartbreak was always in my cards despite having my share of relationships and ok happy moments. It has always been the "undercurrent". We are living in a very unloving society that isn't present.
Their was a time I spent my birthday alone at the same restaurant that I used to take my GF before she slept with my best friend to remind me about the good time. I ended up crying at the restaurant 😢
I don’t know how to feel if I’m depressed ive been alone for over 8+ yrs and searching for the purpose of why I’m still alive and realistically im just floating around I believe I won’t make it past the age of 35 and I’m 31 now.
Hey man, it's okay. I know it might sound dumb but chase new things in life. Look for that purpose man. Go to a boxing gym and learn how to fight and get in shape if you're not
My friend. I'm female but always grew up around boys and I totally get it. Hang in there. We will be okay. This is how I've been feeling since my teenage years. It's painful and I wish more people would open up about this so people who get it can help someone else. Tell yourself "I'll be alive tomorrow" every morning. This is the way I've made it through. We are gonna make it.
0:30 basically me cos I’m not the most intelligent in the family I have problems im the one who ends up being by myself my family never really asked how I am that’s why it’s hard for me that I’m 23 can’t even say how I feel
That’s ok and that’s normal you’re super young and still learning from your mistakes and that’s makes you stronger. We brother and sisters have so much power all we have to do keep trying life never meant to be easy because we have to build everything Trust me the only friend you have will be God all you have to do ask just talk to him and thank him every day for what you have and see the blessing remember we need you in this life to build and protect you’re the man
@@Now8080 thx appreciate it even till now wen things go wrong my family is always quick to blame me n then wen they realise it’s not me I don’t hear nothing from like n apology
I feel what you’re sayin…my 21 year old brother has his life more going on then me…I’m 23 too… although our lives turned into hell since last year when our brother died…I can’t recover from that. Shit I fuckin miss him daily and used to smoke pot to make me work…now that I’m quitting pot again I can’t sleep. I cry the hole time. Rethinking the situation. I know addictions are not good. But somehow dope helps me to feel close to my brother…it makes me feel like he is around me. I am to damn stupid and scared talking to doctors and stuff… my life turned into a complete mess… yes I know all my fault I’m old enough… but damn I’d never chose my youngest brother to die…it should had been me…just because he was only 16. Fck this world… there is no worse pain.
My mental health is low yet i keep it together being the funny friend you cant be serious with so people dont think im feeling lonely yet i feel like commiting suicide most of the time im alone No matter how many friends i have no matter how many people know me the never ending feeling of loneliness doesnt go away.I say "Happy birthday" to my friends yet those same friends forget my birthday and not even try to ask me 99% of the times.Dont try reaching out to me or trying to make me open up,it wont work,im better off keeping my feelings and real thoughts to myself instead of letting people know too much......
Hello who ever is reading this message : I hope you get the help you need. I will not be around to ever know if you get help. I will wrap my car around a tree tonight. I have decided that is what I want to do and that is what I’m going to. I finally have the guts to go. I hope God brings peace among all of you.
This comment was genuinely heartbreaking. I hope the original poster finds help or some kind of help or escape that will change their minds on this. Life is the most valuable thing in this world, period.
@@Iamrealdav I’m not planning on getting help. I’ve tried. My plan is tonight and it won’t be the first time I’ve wanted to, but it will be the last. The only thing I want to leave off with is hope that other men, and people, who feel like me will seek help and that the help will be more successful than mine.
@@potaitoh69 I'm really sorry you went through that, and even if it's not the first time there's always another way you can deal with your problems. Please, don't do this.
@@potaitoh69i get it. I know how it feels. This is a late comment but reading your comment genuinely made me cry. I hope you are still with us. I understand the feeling I've been in the same situation. Hang on a little longer my friend. Eventually we may both find peace without having to die. Know you are loved if not by anyone else, by me. Suicide is NEVER a good path to go down because when you're dead, you're dead and it's not time yet. It's okay yo nit be okay. ❤
@@Iamrealdav hello I had quite the struggle this last week. But I admitted myself to the hospital through the police. Thank you for your comment. I think you helped me decide to call the police
She might leave me and I truly loved her man and I don’t know what to do anymore literally no one checks on me I’m just slowly dying and I’m basically nonexistent so I’m honestly done so if you’re reading this I hope you keep going don’t give up like me and please I know it’s hard to talk to somebody but please do Goodbye (January 13th) 👍🏽
Since two years, I experienced extreme social Isolation. I'm the one, that distanced himself from his current social environment, because I figured out, that everybody there hated me or tried to play tricks on me to use me for some dumb selfproving shit. I went to college, studying Music. Musicians and especially academic people in these circles are fucking assholes all around. They behave like you are best friends with them and suddenly you have 1000 of people around you, that you don't rven really like and somewhere deep down you also know that, so in reality you are the lonliest person on earth. I went through severe depression, wanted to end my life, had a burnout, couldn't do a damn thing anymore, I felt almost like a retard. Nobody cared about that. Instead they tried to mock me down, when I was at my weakest, they tried to humble me on stage and talked shit about me behind my back, because all they care about is competition. I just did finish studying, because to finally have it done, but after that hell nothing worked anymore. I was burned out felt an urge for remorse and was bitter. Since two years it's like that and I can't find a way to break out of that, I lost the connection to life. What shall I do, how can I make it better? I don't see a decent perspective for me anymore or an alternative....Try to find a new job, make a new start, I don't know...I don't want to go under people anymore, because they just don't seem to understand, where I went through. Once I felt a real Passion, for what I was striving for, but now, I just hate beeing a musician and I hate making music. I should have done something different, when I was younger. Nowadays, I'm just wasting my time, don't know what to do... Nobody takes me serious anymore. I don't wanna end up bitter, without any pride or dignity left...
I feel like I am just dying inside and I just act happy so no one is saying stuff about me that I do not like and I feel like I am never happy and people make jokes about me and I do not like then I fake laugh but when I make a joke it is not funny and when I was a kid I did not see my parents most of the time forever I feel like I just want to cry but I can’t because people will probably make fun of me and every time someone says are you ok I say I am ok even though I am not ok and I feel like I am just a failure and my only good friend moved and I can’t talk with him anymore 3:43
Please don't say that. I know you need to hear this right now but there is always hope in the world. Get into something give your life to Jesus and make the most of your life. If you ever need to talk to someone I'll be your friend if you want if you add me on something. Work hard start meditation work on yours and self improve because I know you probably think nobody cares but I do. If a stranger on the Internet does then someone else probably does. Love man hope the best for you ❤🙏✝️
Nothing feels real Its all forced, school, work, sports all of the relationships feel so fucking fake AND EVEN THEN I STILL FUCK THEM UP. No matter what i still find a way to say the weong thing at the wrong timeand now everyone fucking hates me. They call me a pedophile because of the way i run. THE WAY I FUCKING RUN!! is it fair? No of course not but they don't care, they never will it feels like im just the punching bag for everyone. Like "you meed a quick laugh? Go bully Wil, he wont do anything to you, and if he yells at yiu just tell a teacher that he started it." I am starting to hate everything, the only peace i feel is when i am at home, away from everyone.
I appreciate you and that you must be awsome and wonderful ok? It's ok to cry here and then but hey you want a hug then here's a hug bud 🫂 even though I'm a random person that just kinda makes it better but I want you to know you are awsome you are wonderful even when times are hard it's ok to cry its ok to scream into a pillow and eat ice cream while watching a movie im a person who wants to feel loved to but sometimes wishes don't come true go out side and take a walk breath some air go camping with someone make smores make memories your wonderful no matter the cost ok?
you’re not useless man because everyone and I mean EVERYONE is useful in his own life and way and there’re no useless people. So Mr @idk_man-go9re you are not useless and you’re loved and you know because god loves you. And this message is to everyone that is struggling right now.
Same I’m 14 most of family is dead and last week I buried my dog I had since I was 8, life is lonely I am lonely but that’s ok. It takes a long time to realize how miserable your life can be but it takes even longer to realize it doesn’t need to be like. What ever your going through I understand but I don’t know if you are, or just feeling sad but don’t kill yourself it is a permeant solution to a temporary problem.
@@roninanderson2494 it’s not to late for you, I waited til to far along in my life and maybe if I had gotten help when I was your age I wouldn’t be taking everything that’s going wrong in my life as hard. Please don’t let yourself end up like me
