I had a wife treat me like you do your husband. She passed away eight years ago. I still really miss her. We were together for thirty years and it seems like just a moment in time.
Sorry for your loss, Eric. My wife and I are heading toward our 30th. Unfortunately, she is struggling with a terrible disease. I keep telling her, no matter what happens, we've already won. We've had almost 30 years with our soulmate in a world surrounded by millions who never felt such companionship and love for 1 day. You too won the game of life. And soon all of us will be on to the next adventure, possibly reunited for more great times. Nothing is ever lost. Peace be with you, brother.
I Speak for ALL Single Men! We are jealous of your husband, but truly heart felt by your wholesomeness marriage, and you are a beautiful wife. God bless you and your marriage.
No it’s actually easy 🙄 JK my mom is a stay at home mom too. And it’s NOT easy, even 16 year old me knows that. Not that I make it easier 😅lots of people say it’s easy tho
It is hard work. She only has time to put on make up, pick out outfits, write video scripts, film herself with multiple takes, edit the videos, uploads and read the comments for several videos a day. She is flat out busy.
As a retired female trucker I need girls like you to help snap me out of this mind frame that "I have to work to be worth anything" to my husband, and family. 😊 You have inspired me to be more at home, thank you, hunnybear!
I’m the cook in the family, my wife tries her best when I’m out till 6 or so at work but cooking is one of the ways I serve her and love her as her taking care of the home and schooling the children is one of the ways she serves me. God bless your home Estee!
@@TheTruthKiwiLittle known fact, home schooled children, on average, out rank publicly schooled children on all objective scholastic measures. Are you sure you shouldn't instead be stalking the public schools and asking why they watch so many only marginally educational movies all day?
@@_SimpleSam Did I say that homeschooling wasn't a good thing when done properly? The American education system is screwed so I'm not surprised that homeschoolers rank higher.
I've seen videos speaking positively about the trad wife trend without actually watching them until now and now that I've actually seen a few videos, It's just so refreshing to see something so light hearted, wholesome, and traditional. It just fills my heart with joy :)
I was a stay at home mom, but when the last of my 4 sons when to school I started working (pressure from the world. I should have been stronger). I should have stayed home and enjoyed everything my husband and I worked so hard for. I am 50 now and I quit my job last year because I was sick of management people treating me like crap (mostly women). I am loved and appreciated at home. I am also a grandma now and dang it, I’m not missing any of their darling lives. I am happier then I’ve ever been in my life. We love this girl she is an inspiration to me and my daughter in-laws who stay home as “Trad” wife’s and mothers.
@@tammylovett5044 Highly unfortunately so. I even be wary of super religious women who like to have other women in a Catch-22, and even backing up men who are not upright. I believe in the Lord, but I am a spiritual believer in the Lord instead of religious. Yes, I believe in the verse about submission, and respect husband, but I also do not go straight to calling a woman a feminist, Jezebel, or Eve without knowing her story on why she does not submit and respect husband. Some women have honest reasons, some don't. I do not pretend men are infallible. Some men are upright, others are not upright and not worthy of a Proverbs 31. A good upright spouse is someone you earn by being upright yourself. You are not above sowing into what you want to reap. I don't put men on pedestals, as they are equal to women and not superior.
I regret going back to work as my children became teens also. I loved doting on my husband & kids, cooking more thoughtfully (rather than quick) and being home to take care of things on a sane schedule rather than trying to fit it around work with 40 hours less to do it in.
That looked so good! Makes me want to try pasta making. I'm 30+ and just learned homemade biscuits. I'm learning one thing at a time. You're an inspiration, Estee.
My biggest regret is that I didn’t stay home and raise my daughters and care for my family full time instead of chasing all the things out side of the home. One of my daughters chose the stay home path and even tho I’m proud of both of my girls, I admire her for her choice!💖
@@tjongejongeman8153The females who say that are usually the ones who have to work because their husband's don't make enough for them to stay home. Don't let it bother you.. So many people live life being jealous of everything.
Im a guy that turned 20 not too long ago, and I’m just trying to find my way in the world. I’ve been learning a lot from you recently, one day I hope to have a really strong and healthy marriage with whoever becomes my wife in the future. Although I’ve got a long way to go before that happens, it’s still nice to learn whatever I can from time to time beforehand. You’ve taught me a bunch in some of your other videos about some of what a healthy relationship entails, and it really stuck with me. Maybe in the future I can also try to pitch in and make some special surprise occasions for her too. Anyways I just wanted to say thanks, I’m sure I’m not the only one learning some cool stuff from you. Hope you and your family live long, healthy and happy lives, Keep up the great work!
Hello Robbie, this is Robby ! Good luck young man, traditional women are rare in these parts. I wish you well , and take it from a 52 year old Robby , don't waste your time with anybody else. If you find her , treat her well ! I'm still looking , and I've been down some roads .
I'm 31 and I've dated for a bit. Women like this are unicorns, I haven't found one yet in the over decade that I've dated. Most are not worth dating long term but maybe you'll win the lottery and find a girl like her.
Most women who live this way don't look like this...The best advice that any honest, married person could give you would be to stop watching Estee and go to a modest small town church to see real women. Estee is selling her image (and her sexuality) to men like you. Real trad wives will save their beauty for your viewing, not all of the men on the internet.
Homemade is ALWAYS the way to go!! People always think I’m crazy for making bread instead of store bought since “it’s so cheap!” But the taste 🤤🤤 not to mention so much better for you when you know all the ingredients!!
That is so deep and profound! I miss my late precious Wife so much! We both prepared meals together! Keep up the great work! God bless you Estee and your Husband!
Aww thank you so much! My methods aren’t always the most conventional but they work 😂 I told myself I didn’t need to invest in fancy cookware and just figure out a way to get it done 😊
Betty Crocker 1950’s picture book is the best! I just learned how to have confidence in the kitchen with it. Then I got the newer version as a compliment.
reason number one: he married a childish half a brain who doesn't want to grow up and be responsible for herself, so he can do whatever the hell he wants to do to her, if he ever feels like it
As a woman, this video sort of triggered me because I think having gendered roles growing up in a very traditional, patriarchal family was difficult for me-I often found it unfair that my father was able to sit around and wait to be served, criticize me for not being a “good enough” daughter (by way of helping and supporting him) while my mother took care of the majority of the cleaning, cooking, child rearing all while working a full time job. My father was also incredibly controlling over the way money was spent, and lost the money my sister earned during her internship to a investment scheme. He held all of the power and failed to provide any of the emotional nurturance, was incredibly controlling about the way family money was spent, and was either completely emotionally absent, critical and judgmental, or volatile while I was growing up. I guess I have a very different perspective about gendered roles than many others. Edit: I guess I should also note my dad was physically abusive. I was terrified and often felt unsafe around him. I still have trouble feeling safe around men in general because of my childhood experiences.
There’s so much more I’d love to see from your channel: more recipes you cook for you and your husband, fashion, and maybe a day in the life of videos. I love how unapologetic you are about your values and your lifestyle. It’s a beautiful thing. Hope to see more!
My son found a kids cookbook at the library so the children took charge of dinner yesterday and my son made French toast and we all helped make fully loaded frittata muffins for dinner. Everyone got to put their ingredients in and they were delicious.
Looks wonderful Estee. I'm sure hubby appreciates all your efforts down to the presentation of the food and your lovely self. Dinner dates at home is the best! I also love cooking special meals like these. Thanks for sharing.
I love how you inspire women to pour more into the home! I wish people would stop trying to compare men and women's jobs. Both are of value, just different! It's not about whose job is harder. What a beautiful thing for a husband to invest in his wife so she can create a beautiful nurturing environment for him and their children to thrive in!
What's sad alot of people look down on those who stay home I'm one of those who is a stay at home mom. But others judge even older people from the time era that did stay home.
@@missgrim4646 I think it's not so much of looking down on you and it's more of projecting. Everyone is different and many people would hate not having their career life at all, so when they hear your situation they might react negatively because it's hard for them to imagine being happy in your situation. I respect that you live like this, I just don't like when people are forced into unwanted roles by ignorant and stereotypical thinking. If its your choice, then that's great and what you're doing is incredibly valuable.
@@albertcornett7408 you should try reading the Bible. I challenge you to give me the chapter and verse where the Lord says anything other than marriage is between one man and one woman.
What a wonderful and delicious meal! I've been wanting to try making homemade pasta. My wonderful husband got me a stand mixer for Christmas, and I really want to get the pasta attachment. It will flatten the dough and cut the pasta for you! Thanks for sharing!!!
Making pasta really is much easier than it looks. The first couple times it will take a while, but once you get used to how the dough should feel in your hands you can whip up a batch in 30 min with 2 ingredients, and it's so much better. Best of luck!
@@DavidLodgeclassof Thanks! I am gluten intolerant, so I'm a little nervous to attempt a gluten free version, but I really want to give it a try! It looks like fun 😊
Y’all, find a cute woman at church, then be good to her. But please have something to offer her. Don’t expect her to offer the world, and you offer nothing.
Yes it is ! She’s amazing. As a stay at home mother and wife myself, I love watching these to know I’m not alone in embracing my husbands masculinity, raising my own children exc.
I would love a collaborative video with your husband with an honest look at a traditional marriage. Address what a standard work weekday looks like. Lay it out. I think young women need to have a clear choice.
@@Asme1111-t8h I have heard she makes what he likes. That makes sense. My guess is she’ll make suggestions. Unfortunately many guys are picky eaters. I eat everything and I have the figure to prove it.
@@Asme1111-t8h Right, I just want to eat ribeye steak every day. We're not evolved to eat plants, grains or creme brulee. We evolved as carnivores, that's the optimal human diet.
@@Asme1111-t8h Exactly, pasta is empty calories. Our ancestors didn't eat that, they got all their calories from animal fat and protein, and only very little carbs from the glycogen in animal blood or milk. Fiber is also a scam, not only is it unnecessary, it's harmful and causes constipation and other digestive issues. We're not hindgut fermenters, we're carnivores.
This is my husband and my fav thing now…just staying at home having a home cooked dinner. Whether it’s a date night or not, staying at home is our fav place to be anymore ❤
I mean this in the nicest way (as a stay at home mom with 3 kids 3 and under), but I’m interested to see what your cooking looks like after kids. I only get to make all out dinners like this every once in a while now. I miss it. I’m glad that you find value in a traditional life and that you spread that message and what it can look like for others that might not realize that it’s still an option.
I have 6 kids ages 15-1 and it's hard when they a little,it gets a lot easier once they are older. I cook all 3 meals every day and they help, I want them to learn a love for cooking. Just do your best!! That's all anyone can ask! ❤️
It's ok. When you have kids you dont always have time for home cooked meals from scratch I have 2 and I dont always have the time or I do get tired. I do everything around the house and there are nights I dont feel like it. It's ok. Some people can say otherwise but they're wrong.
I love that you made homemade pasta! I recently made a few batches myself and had a blast with my fiancé taking turns rolling it out with the pasta attachments from kitchen aid. It definitely is something to be proud of! ❤
Rock on girl! 20 years ago I couldn’t figure out why I felt so out of place. But I get it now. The 90s was a terrible time for girls. Thank you for promoting what’s true and good.
To have a Godly wife who is loyal and desires to fullfill the feminine role as all that any man wants, your husband is blessed by Jesus Christ and I pray he thanks him everyday for it
Hi, Estee! Your dinner looked delicious! Also, you may want to take a look at a half moon knife or mezzaluna knife. It helps tremendously with chopping ingredients - including the leaves if you want them smaller than scissors can give. AND it avoids chopping your fingertips with the rest of the food! 😂
I love that you glorify the 50s the way you do. Sure, there were imperfections like any other time. But the 50s truly were such a beautiful, fabulous time. ❤
You two are one of the most adorable couples on the entire planet! You deserve all the happiness and love you can find together! Cpl. Bryant Vreeland USMC (Ret.)
NEVER LEAVE HER AND PROTECT HER AT ALL COSTS. I wish happiness and to have mutual respect to each other to both of you. Traditional couples should show themselves a bit more so that younger people can see that there are other options of lifestyle as well.
Why can’t I find a woman like you in the 90s when I was marrying age, your husband is so lucky I get a tear every time I see your videos gives me hope for the future of mankind
The fact that the majority of men are commenting "your husband is so lucky" and even one comment which read...."id work 100 hours to come home to that" I mean, THAT! She is playing up to the camera massively, this is about anything BUT being wholesome.....its about getting in front of the camera in a Marilyn Monroe like fashion appealing to the fact that lots, not all, men think with their other heads! I call complete BS!
I think I speak for a lot of people when I say your channel is unique and amazing because you DON'T make contant videos bashing others. You just TEACH what a good wife is. No yelling, no hate, just love and learning. If people want to make a real difference that's how they're going to do it!
I don’t think a lot of women understand what this means when your wife prepares good food for you!! I’ve been married 20something years and she ain’t going nowhere!!!
They seem really sweet. She is a doll. Education is never a waste! Teaches discipline & time management if nothing else, both of which she has in spades♠️❤
@@Houndsunite She claims to hold very traditional principles but her videos present an image that seems quite contrary to those same principles. And sure, I'll admit I'm very jealous of her boobs. I'd love to have them, but I'm not willing to risk implant sickness just to get them. All the gross men here can unfortunately enjoy them as well even though she claims to want to avoid bad situations in regards to male attention.
@@marshmallow7640 read my previous comment. She is a beautiful woman, to be sure. But what she says she believes and how she presents herself online seem pretty contradictory to me.
Im gonna be a stay at home mom in about two weeks... I just had my third lil baby and im going to be able to quit my job... Feeling blessed to stay home and home school my kids in these freaky times
She is soo cool! This is freaking awesome. With a wife like this, I bet her husband has to watch his speed going home, to keep from getting a speeding ticket! Her mother and father brought her up right. I know no matter what kind of day I have had, this what it's all about. Kudos to you, lady! Not only does she know how to cook, it is she knows how to keep her man. I know a lot of ladies could learn how to what it is to be a wife!😉
You are beautiful and show such respect and love your husband ! Asking for a friend, Why is your lucky husband just wearing an old t-shirt on this special dinner date in return?
Oh my yesss I'm gonna try that creme brulee! I need to use up my eggs this week and I wanted to try making meringues so I know what to do with the leftover yolks now! Thanks 🥰
I think any “hate” you get is because there’s a stigma that traditional wives are mistreated by some overly toxic masculine man that takes advantage of them. When in reality, both partners can be respectful, have their roles and it doesn’t have to be so extreme. Men can help with kids, cleaning and cooking if a woman feels overwhelmed. I think a lot of women that claim to be feminists would rather a marriage like this instead of being ghosted, cheated on, abused and a guy who just wants to hook up. But unfortunately in our culture feminism is “in” right now. Again, not being a feminist doesn’t mean you think women should be dummies and cater to some abusive dominant males needs. It really can be a mutually respectful relationship where both partners have their roles.
So stoked to see this! I wish I did more homemaking before we had our baby because it’s so hard to find the time to do these things. I kept working while pregnant to make sure we could build our savings to get by on one income after I gave birth. I love being a stay at home wife and mom, it truly is the best job (and personally the hardest) in the world. That’s coming from someone who was in the military and was in school to be a nurse… way to represent Estee! God bless you and yours! 🙏🏽
Question: have you ever fallen way behind on all the homemaking duties and thus have advice on getting caught up? Feeling overwhelmed and like I’ve lost the joy and pride in homemaking that you so clearly have.❤ I’m new to this channel, but I love your personality.
Fallen behind 😂. She stays at home all day- no job no kids. Only has time make 5 videos a day! I live alone and have 3 jobs and dont ‘fall behind’ on house duties.
People absolutly fall behind. I'm a stay at home, homeschool mother of two, and we recently all had a nasty bug for about a week. There's no one to cover for us when we are ill! Plus there's the added duty of caring for a sick family (making tea, extra laundry, etc.) It's hard to catch up after something like that, and it takes time, but I just try to do a few extra things a day until things are right again. AND (this is a shocker to people with funny ideas about a traditional marrige) my husband steps in to help. I try to simplify meals during times like that too. Lots of crock pot meals. Nobody makes pasta from scratch everyday. Don't let the internet fool you. You'll fall behind sometimes. Illness, appliances breaking, teething babies, unexpected responsibilities for family, just LIFE stuff. Unfortunately, life doesn't care about a super well thought out cleaning schedule. It sounds like youre burnt out. It happens when you've been at this for more than four months. That can be really hard to deal with, because like I said, no one covers for us. When I feel that way, I do what I can to rest and my husband supports me in that. Getting away for an afternoon or two helps me. It will be okay if you have sandwiches and canned soup for a few dinners. Take a bath, send the kids to be early and do something you enjoy. If you go to church, see if there's a women's retreat coming up. Sometimes we have to just push through the burn out, but we also need rest. If anyone wants to give you crap for it, remind yourself that men take vacations from their jobs. We may not get vacations like that, but we can find ways to make do.
Ask for help. There are times where I’m so burnt out, I’ll call my sister to help me clean. It’s not often but having your family help is a great thing.
Thank you so much for the kindness in your comment ❤ I too fall behind I think we all do to be honest and it’s okay! Take a little bit of time on each task until you feel caught up. No matter what week I always end up falling behind and slowly get caught back up. There are times when I do struggle to get motivated to clean and cook and I always put on a pretty dress and apron and get some sunlight… then I feel much better and get into the day. Gratitude is my word for the year and I try and feel that daily ❤ I hope this makes sense and doesn’t sound scrambled 🥰
Reject modernity, embrace tradition… refreshing to see wholesomeness instead of the trashiness that has permeated throughout most of society …may God bless u and ur household dearly 😊
The kitchen is where I struggle. I can cook a good meal from scratch, but my husband is so picky!!!! It’s even more difficult when he’s on his keto diet phase, but I learn to adapt to his needs. 😅
My husband is a chef so I'm put to shame until he got me an instant pot and a mixer. I'm cooking up a storm now and rarely burn anything in the instant pot. I saute first or I broil last. I'll cook anything in instant pot then crisp it up in fryer or broiler if I don't saute first. My cook time cut way down. Less burnt food. And if I'm late taking it out of the freezer it's still OK I'm not late with dinner anymore. Now my chef husband is drooling over my dinners. Took me 8 yrs lolol but if he growls when he walks in that's a good sign lolol. I was never a cook. I even pickle onions and peppers now they are so delicious on sandwiches, salad, baked potatoes and more. I do lots of large cold salads especially if my husband grills we make extra to eat on for 3 days. Chicken salad, fruit salad, broccoli salads and pasta salads. Super easy for summer or with lots of guests in town, for busy times of year or odd schedules.
I'm 31 and it's really tough to find a nice man with traditional values these days. I've pretty much given up on dating. The next man I want to be with intimately, I also want him to be my partner and husband and maybe the father to my children. But we live in a world where it's really hard to find that one who is perfect for you. I'm happy I have my brother in my life to remind me to respect myself and not settle. Family values are so important. Much love to you and your husband. I wish you all the best❤
Reminds me of my mom and both my grandmothers I was so content when I was young having a real women at home and my grand fathers and fathers I'm sure enjoyed it very much
Your one hell of a woman !!! Beautiful and a great cook ! That’s so nice to see these days ! And u take good care of yourself ! I hope your hubby treats u well !
Everything looks so delicious and I know that when you have a passion for cooking, cooking is fun! It's not just slaving away when you really enjoy what you're doing! I would love to try that maple syrup creme brulee. I still have been meaning to make a lavender creme brulee
I personally couldn’t be a stay at home wife. I like working, always have always will. However, there’s nothing wrong with being a stay at home wife. I do enjoy cooking for my husband. He’s currently deployed, but love learning new recipes for us to try. Your vodka sauce looks awesome.
I love Maple syrup and Creme Brulee is my fault pudding of all time but I never thought about the two together....You might have just invented the perfect match! Hello from England we love you over here 👍
You mean there's food that you don't just dump out of a box? Wow! 😮 Just kidding! I'm a avid cook myself, and for the last 20 years I've done 99% of the cooking. I pray that your closeness remains all the years of your life. Y'all should be a inspiration to young couples everywhere!
Pretty sure a traditional wife wouldn't be in a perpetual state of attention seeking.... EDIT: it's onlyfans with an apron! 😄 "Yeah, baby, cook that pie. Make daddy a sammich." 😂
