Aunties recount their experience of Arranged Marriages | The Bradford Aunties - BBC

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The Aunties recount their experience of arranged marriages as the group explores relationships, today. #TheBradfordAunties #iPlayer
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@helenbartoszek243 14 дней назад

Her uncle's brother? That makes him her uncle as well.

@RyuuMakato42 14 дней назад

Probably her uncle through marriage, so her mother or father’s sister’s husband’s brother.

@Kalak78Hussain 6 дней назад

Disability allowance lol

@jhunt5578 15 дней назад

Cousin marriage is common with the religious culture. In Pakistan its as high as 68% for 1st and 2nd cousins and ither relations. Throughout countries who have this as the majority faith it is common.

@annacroixx 14 дней назад

She says she’s was married to her uncle’s brother, not his son. Her uncle’s son would be her cousin. Her uncle’s brother would simply be another uncle, or at worst, her own father.

@jhunt5578 14 дней назад

@annacroixx I did write "and other relations". But it just so happens that most related marriages with the religious culture are cousin marriages. There's large amounts of cousin marriages even in the UK community. I think its relevant.

@annacroixx 14 дней назад

@@jhunt5578 The Adam and Eve story starts the human race with incest. Goes back to Ancient Egyptian mythology and essentially permeates most cultures in their creation myths. The “Original Sin” is incest. That’s why the Catholics baptize babies.

@Oasis194 12 дней назад

@@jhunt5578common denominator does not equate causation.

@jhunt5578 12 дней назад

@@Oasis194 Mo is to be emulated within the religion, the 1st generation are considered to be the best. Mo and many of the early leaders practiced cousin marriage. Add to that the motivation to marry within the family as it kept inheritance from “going to another family” in the eyes of practicers. Cousins are Halal, this is why women are to cover in front of their cousins. This is the causation. Go and look at the rates throughout countries that follow the faith.

@aethellstan 15 дней назад

what do you expect from a culture mired in the twelth century

@sianplatt9913 15 дней назад

Wow, judgy! About a cultural practice prevalent across a lot the world.

@aethellstan 15 дней назад

@@sianplatt9913 sad isn't it? wonder when they will join the 21st century. and yes i do understand you're judging me rather than patriarchal cultures which are stuck in the past.

@kevinstatham9242 15 дней назад

Watched this, loved it.

@susannepinheirobartolo 14 дней назад

I think she can still become a teacher!!!

@SS-sg4eg 15 дней назад

It's the norm in Muslim countries, since dating is difficult and Haram. But it's slowly decreasing.

@meeme5965 14 дней назад

Not in my country 🇱🇾🔥🔥

@Trapper_Creek_2024 15 дней назад

To the young lady who is divorced: I’m so sorry you went through that and I’m glad you got away from him. Stay strong and know there is NOTHING wrong with you. The right man will come along, in the meantime be happy with who you are!

@jhunt5578 14 дней назад

Quran 4:34 "Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], *strike them.* But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand." According to the inerrant word of God, it is a man's right to do so. That is what the noble and peaceful faith says.

@melodymoon5768 15 дней назад

Thank you.

@annacroixx 14 дней назад

To “her uncle’s brother”, she said. That would be an arranged marriage her father or another uncle. Yet not one other person is mentions this in the comments. Someone wrote that cousin marriage is common in their culture, but a cousin would be her uncle’s son, not his brother.

@Kalak78Hussain 6 дней назад

Feel sorry for the guy who married that x

@thomasfy4 14 дней назад

I don’t know why culture is an excuse to cover up abhorrent practices

@jhunt5578 14 дней назад

It's shouldn't be. An appeal to culture is a logical fallacy

@reezdog 15 дней назад

I hope Hasan finds a nice husband. 😅

@clevereagle1911 15 дней назад

Huh?

@clevereagle1911 15 дней назад

Wait? He's that?

@reezdog 14 дней назад

He is the only guy there among the women. They are talking about things from a women's perspective. This is what I am getting from this video only. I would need to see the whole thing. But yeah he is definitely flaming. 😅

@reezdog 14 дней назад

@clevereagle1911 maybe not but why is he there with all the women?

@DrJams 15 дней назад

Helps people find partners. BBC will spin everything

@Tao_Tology 15 дней назад

"....and I couldn't say no"

@chunli99 15 дней назад

All that matters is someone’s experience. The people saying they went through it have a right to feel however they feel. At this point, after being married, they wish they had a chance to do something different. That’s not a spin, that’s first-hand perspective.

@skymanifest8339 15 дней назад

@@chunli99Everyone's experience is first hand, the issue is why certain experiences are cherry-picked by the media over others. If this gathering, which to be fare, seemed pretty benign and positive, had taken place in a white working-class community, the BBC would've given it a different tonal rendering. Sinister music would by playing over the top of the visuals.

@nailartguy3363 15 дней назад

⁠⁠@@skymanifest8339What are you trying to say? That if there were white working-class people talking about arranged marriages the BBC would make it seem more sinister than they do here?