**AVOID** 10 Reasons NEVER To Go Nightclubs as a Man 

When I worked at a nightclub a bartender told me, "Nightclubs are where men have to pay three hundred bucks to see the theory of natural selection in practice."

Guys who say “Just go to the club for fun bro! Don’t focus on women!” Are 99% likely to be going to the club strictly to get women. If there were no women at clubs, men would not go, let’s keep it real

I was a DJ, and occasionally a bouncer, in nightclubs and a strip club back in college. You have no idea what kind of insanity and vile behavior women are capable of. I could write a book.

If you want to go to a night club as a man then you should be: - Good looking - Be young - Have money and show it - Be charismatic - Have a group of friends with you to show that you are not a creepy loner Then you can have a lot of fun in night clubs as a man that can catch the attention of the women. Otherwise you will just get rejected which frustrates you and you'll just get drunk instead.

As a nightclub DJ, i concur! I do not even engage with female customers. They approach me constantly looking for attention, validation, control and a way into the dj box so that they can SAPPCHAT all of their “followers”. I am 6’ 3, in shape with a lot of ink. Id say im a entry level tyrone. But the status of being the man in control is what really gets their attention. In my 15 years of DJ experience, most girls at a club have an option outside of the club and enjoy the free, drinks, attention and validation. They break the rules for a chad/tyrone but it’s dangerous because they can wake up in the morning, remember they have a bf or option, make false allegations in order to avoid accountability for their actions, and thats the end of your career!!! Be careful out there fellas 👊🏾

Women have it so easy dating they’ve literally turned it into a game. Now as a zoomer, the only socially acceptable places to meet are bars and clubs. Yet women have now made “girls night” a game. Legit they are making quests on tik tok for going out.

As a 30 year old man from the US who has partied in many countries from England, to Japan and Thailand, everything this man is saying is true. Clubs do nothing for men and even in the small off chance you do leave with a girl, it is never fulfilling and leaves you empty in the long run. Us as men need to practice day game as most women are not expecting us to approach during the day and they will be less on guard as they aren’t being bombarded by a bunch of simps like in a club 👍💯 great video!!!

A man should only be in the nightclub for 3 reasons. As a DJ, bouncer/security, or club owner. These are the only 3 times a man should be in the club.

A woman at a club is like a kid in a video game store. And after dating a club girl (a whole 7 inches shorter than me, and out of shape) I can pretty much guarantee these women think they're some kind of protagonist in an rpg game. They live in a fantasy world. I ghosted that troglodyte faster than she swipes left on tinder.

I used to be a complete bar rat. I have moved past that in a huge way partly due to Covid. Let me tell you from experience, I almost got into a fight one out of every three nights I would go out. It was so not worth it looking back. I got it out of my system but I still cannot believe I wasted so much time / effort / money on going out to meet girls at these horrible places that treat men like dogs instead of just sitting at home and reading a book or watching Netflix. Anything is better than clubbing...

Have a 6'6" friend who looks almost just like me, only I'm 5'9," and in physically better shape. Every place we go when we hit the town (one time, a night club), he gets 95% of the attention, and even I get a bit more attention myself just by association. Us normies need to work on looksmaxing and farming (work on building something/being on a purpose and let it speak for itself), because it's not worth hunting/cold approach for us.

9/10 times if a woman is in a nightclub hanging out, dancing, grinding on guys, etc…. She’s not girlfriend / wife material. Women with class wouldn’t subject themselves to such a degenerate environment with alcohol, loads of men, ego’s, fights, sexual dancing, and more.

Ive ALWAYS hated night clubs. Loud, terrible music, expensive, hot, crowded. Whats to like? Ive always just seen it as a trap for mens money.

I remember this one time I went to a club. This girl as me to buy her a drink for her birthday for her and her friend. Next thing I know; just bought a drink for her and Chad....Lesson learned.

My mother going to the nightclub and having a one-night stand with a random stranger is the only reason that I exist . The 1980s were crazy .

I'm surprised hygiene wasn't brought up. So many times a girl or a group of girls are making moves on me, then I get a whiff of their breath or body odor and instantly enter a existential crisis: "these girls are gross, why am I even here? I'm going to politely gtfo now."

It was the same in the 80s. If you weren't chasing girls, you were nothing. Of course the guys saying that were generally broke from spending money on dates, in clubs, on clothes and cars to attract girls, etc. Most of the time they didn't even "seal the deal" even after a full day taking her to a theme park or whatever. It also isn't just in clubs where guys, or even grown men turn into cavemen. I've seen many other occasions where a group of men were getting along fine, then an attractive woman shows up, and it is all competition for her attention. This is even with married men. I just sit back and laugh at them, and lose some respect for them.

Nightclubs are tinder in real life for girls. Maybe she comes across a chad and goes home with him but it's mostly for the ego boost and free stuff

I very much agree with the hostile environment. Nights clubs are extremely aggressive here in Australia with young men regularly dying from injuries relating to fights. I myself have been in fights and could have ended up dead or in a coma several times and it was all over competition for women. There's also always the biggest douchebags at clubs, some are legit criminals so you have to be careful you don't piss off some of them. Honestly its not really worth it all for a shallow ons that rarely happen if ever.

Nightclubs are where I learned pick up so I'd like to add a few things. 1) the most beautiful women don't get approached as much as you might think. 2) being a VERY good Dancer helps alot. 3) if you are really good looking you will have a much easiar time than most. 4) if you go with girls already in your group, more random women will be willing to talk to you 5) a good body and height matter almost as much as a nice face

I used to be a bouncer at a night club. My buddy and I would always laugh at women dressed to the 9s. They never left with anyone, they never found their Chad and they continued to come night after night. They never danced, they never seemed to have fun. Ironically the coolest women that came in were strippers. We had mirrors everywhere so they could see themselves and practice, they were the nicest people and they had fun. This was on our off nights. They did know how to party. No we didn't go home with them

The types of women going to clubs are already busted down. If that’s what you’re pursuing, you get what you deserve

It's the same with many other things in life. You crave something that other people have for years, but when you finally get it, there's only short-term joy that quickly fades away, and you're left feeling empty. The only way to feel fulfillment in your life is to develop skills and put those skills to use. Work on a project that will take you weeks or months to complete. Realize your weaknesses and work on them. Become a better person, and look back at how pathetic you used to be a few years ago. This will bring you much longer-lasting satisfaction than chasing after things you're jealous of.

Don't approach, period. Make them approach you, instead. Ignore them at the nightclub and just enjoy yourself. The women who go to the nightclubs WANT to be the centre of attention.

I'm glad the pendulum is swinging, more and more I see people self improving and ridiculing this kind of behavior, the behavior we were taught growing up was " cool" glad we all becoming adults together. The mid 2010s felt like a experiment.

The idea of a helping women sustain the illusion that they are more attractive than they really are was enough of a reason for me to stop going to clubs.

I noticed 2 things on the last clubs i went to: -One Club had a "singles party" where women/men that were single had green bands and women/men that were taken had red bands which probably serves to make it easier to not get rejected by not knowing their status and what they want -One club had 50/50 split tickets for men and women. If all mens/womens tickets were sold, no more additional men/women could get in This shows that there are actually people noticing these issues and working on them

This is so freaking true. I'm a 4-5. The hot girls don't give me a 2nd look and a lot of the uggos don't either because of their boosted ego. But I never go below my number because even when drunk I can tell an uggo so I won't look at them. But I legitimately am not going to clubs anymore for literally every reason you mentioned

I got angry and stopped going to clubs, when i realized I am paying to be treated like shit. Women enter for free, skipp the line, get free drinks. And I as the paying customer, have to pay entrance, wait in line, get rejected/accepted entrance of not by some grumpy doorguy asif it's a privillige, end up paying the (expensive) drinks, and get rejected a shitton etc... And i'm paying good money, to get above shit treatment. When i realized that, I refused to gve them my money any longer. I am not paying anyone, so to be treated like shit. Imagine if you were treated like this, in a restaurant.

I pulled the last time I went clubbing. I’m 6’1” with a wide frame and I’m arguably a chadlite at best. The girl approached me and made it obvious. There was another girl who rejected me and my mate and apparently got with someone who was around 6’4”. When a girl finds you attractive, she’ll make shit easy. There’s no game in a nightclub. Just try to look like you’re having fun and give off a decent vibe. Looks, height, frame and style will do all the work.

Reasons for not visiting nightclubs, or leaving shortly after entering - 1. Waiting for half and hour outside in a queue. 2. Waiting to be served at the bar that is 3 rows deep 3. Paying for overpriced drinks. 4. Where the men outnumber women 2 to 1 or more - called a 'sausage fest'. 5. Music so loud you can't hear yourself speak. Not all nightclubs are like this. You just have to be picky. Most important piece of advice is don't buy women drinks.

I can't wait to see all these clubs going bankrupt. Many of these clubs have also their habitual visitors who know each other and also befriend the guards because of their frequent visits. So as an outsider it's very dangerous to visit these places as these people get drunk and team up to fight outsiders together with the guards.

My first kiss was in a nightclub. I was drunk, so I kissed a very fat woman. 🤮🤮🤮

The thing is, men stopped going to clubs a long time ago. That's why they all shut down. Without men paying entrance fees, buying their own drinks and buying the women drinks, the business model crashed. Now, there may still be a few in the largest cities, but the days where there were all kinds of them with people lined up to get in are over.

Reason 4 is so fucking true. I've hooked up with girls in nightclubs who I thought were like 7, 8s. Then when I would meet them in another setting without being drunk, low lights and excessive make up... Oh sweet Lord have mercy on my soul. I was ashamed of myself for going that low. Fuck nightclubs, focus on yourself kings. We are all gonna make it.

I've been telling people for years that this is why I won't go to clubs! Finally have some back up. I wish I had realized sooner that online dating sucks.

The girl pulling away from kissing all those dudes as a "prank" gonna come across the wrong one some night. Some Drunk guys don't have the same self-control girls do

Not going to Nightclubs means: Start to take control of you life. Most guys are saving their money for the Nightclubbing, getting heavily drunk and end up with medium-low class women. As this is there only way to approach women, life becomes a sad routine of bad weekends and desperate working days. Step out of this rat race.

Man you really hit the nail on the head with this video. Couldn't agree any more. Quit nightclubing over 6 years ago now and am much happier.

5:00 is My biggest issue with nightclubs! I used to club in the late 90s and up to 2006 and I can honestly say those were the golden Age of nightlife for me, especially 1999 and 2004. We went to nightclubs to have a GREAT TIME and leave our worries behind with not a single ego in sight! I made lifelong friends from the club scene back in the day and everyone was friendly and cool. Now we have this hostel trash scene. The nightclub scene died after Gen X left the club scene. I feel so sorry for the Millennials & GenZ! Yall have no idea what you're missing. Look up old nightclub videos from the 90s and you see.

Back in the day when I used to buy PUA books they would always stress having to go to clubs to meet women and it never felt right to me. All the points you make are spot on.

I just avoid dating altogether since it never began.

Older man here. I'd add another one to your list. Occasionally used to go to clubs in big cities. They seemed to be full of women with a race fetish. They went there specifically to hook up with black men. There used to be clubs entirely known to take care of this kink. Very good for a few black guys but sort of a reverse r--ism, but of course nobody can talk about this one can they?

I’ve Worked as a floor bouncer and a Door bouncer in Bars, Clubs, Nightclubs and Sportsbars all over New York and New Jersey and I can tell you that this is true. As far as the ratio we literally pick hot women off line an pull them in, the more attractive women the more popular the club an the more men buy drinks for the women AND eventually the woman’s friends because he doesn’t want to look cheap or poor. And I can tell you firsthand through hearing conversations of women online at the club that most of them are there specifically to get people to buy drinks for them, party with her female friends and post on Instagram, snap and Twitter. I’ve also seen a ton of fights break out of women and as one of the bouncers the guys never come out on top they usually get the crap beat out of them by us and then get arrested. I remember one time a bouncer was trying to remove a guy and he swung on the bouncer and we ended up trying to get him out the back door and he fell down the stairs and broke his leg an lost his gold chain & watch when he fell, the got charges pressed on him for attacking our staff

I wasted so much time and money in nightclubs in my early 20's. Wish I had this wisdom back then.

Yea the looks thing is spot on. i’ve had women straight up come up to me in a nightclub and say they liked how I look. some have even started off by initiating physical touch first to get my attention. this literally never happens anywhere else

Some of my worst memories in life are from nightclubs, getting rejected endlessly and getting into fights with dick heads over nothing. Thankfully I didn't waste to much of my life going to them, once I figured it out in my mid-20's I was done with them.

Unless going out with a mixed group I have always found nightclubs as you have described. It is interesting to see it spelled out as you have done with your analysis. Keep up the good work. And if the woman concerned is trying to make someone else jealous that could work out very bad for you, no matter how 'handy' you either are or think you are.

The Gym is the opposite of Nightclubs. One makes you fulfilled and helps your health and the other destroys your soul

At school, the movie, Saturday Night Fever came out. I wanted to go to a Night club. When I turned 18, I discovered Night clubs were disgusting. In one incident I got a unjustifed slapped by a woman. She got a huge shock when she got a punch back.

I used to do some auditing for a guy that owned a nightclub as a side project, and we actually spent a lot of time talking about the ins and outs of the business and he believed (and I'm inclined to agree) that his main asset as a nightclub owner were low self-esteem women, they are free because they are begging to come in but they are also the cannon fodder that lures in the real whales. What really stuck to me was his reasoning behind thinking female nightclub goers had, for the most part, low self-esteem issues. He laughed at the idea that some women just go to have "fun" and dance with their friends, that all women go to nightclubs to wiggle their asses to strangers and either bang them, or to get some validation and feel attractive since you can have the same fun for cheaper in some other place or at a houseparty but nightclubs were designed as hunting grounds, not a place you go to develop human relationships.

You've put it all better than I ever could. Thank you for articulating it all, respect

Nightclubs if you're going there just to enjoy the alcohol and 'music' or to 'hang out' with your friends so be it. It's costly. The atmosphere is ...whatever. if you're going there for the attempt at meeting women....better try elsewhere save your more money for more productive purposes. It's no different than door to door sales if you get the analogy your roi will be terrible.

Things to NEVER do as a man: 1. Never use online dating 2. Never go to nightclubs 3. Never chase & give attention to women 4. Never marry a single mom over 30 5. Never stare at women in the gym or public (don’t give free attention) 6. Never workout for women, only work out for yourself 7. Never put yourself down because of rejections, some people reject others because they want to feel good about themselves 8. Never use tiktok 9. Never date a woman who won’t pay for their dinner 10. Always avoid tattoo women 11. Always avoid women who smoke a lot 12. Always avoid women who are addicted to social media 13. Always avoid women who wear a lot of make-up and have multiple piercings 14. Always avoid fat women and feminists. (There’s a lot of more things which I can mention but the comment would be too long)

This video need to reach the 1M. I never seen something so true than this video. This guy breaking down the game so well, it’s funny to watch 🤣

i'm going in clubs with female friends at least once a week (for different reasons than wanting to get women, more for experiencing and socializing) and these points are extremely accurate. I would never go alone in these kind of places.

Before I even watch, completely agree. It's dark, its loud, women are out there for free drinks and they are looking for men they know or giga Chad. Night club game is like the takeaway afterwards, the beer goggles are well and truly on and you need to go home, not eating kebab. Or like trying to get a taxi afterwards, you'll be queuing for a driver who's gonna over charge you and take you the long way home.

Nice work. Night clubs for most men are a waste of time. A lot of work for little reward. If you don't drink night clubs can be painfully boring

Love the depth of analysis on all these videos, keep them up on RU-vid as long as possible.

Here are my top ten reasons for not approaching: 1/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS. 2/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS. 3/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS. 4/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS. 5/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS. 6/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS. 7/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS. 8/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS. 9/ Because they're fucking NIGHTCLUBS. 10/ *see the previous 9 reasons I'd rather have root canal surgery than put myself through that mess again in my 40's.

Great video as always. I used to be a Chippendales dancer, so I actually made money from women. But other than that, I didn't go to nightclubs for fun. I wasn't gonna spend the money I made there. It was business only. Unless you're making money, nightclubs are a complete waste of time.

I been stopped going to nightclubs to pick up women. This is well said. Meeting women in clubs and on dating apps sux (most the time). I met women online and in clubs but they usually wasn't quality women. They were bottom of the barrel one night stands usually. It's much better to meet a quality woman at a gas station, grocery store, or somewhere you usually go anyway. And first dates should always be at a park, coffee shop or somewhere cheap. If you don't know her, why spend money on here. If she demands money being spent on here before you know her, she probably doesn't have much of a personality and she thinks you will leave her alone once you figure that out so she wants you to pay before you know you don't like her

This video is so spot on. I honestly thought nightclubs worked great for casual hookups. But this is actually so accurate; like the facts are right on our faces but we tend to look past it.

Not going to lie. I've had one night stands and after the interaction, you just feel guilty. Empty, Ashamed. Thanks for this video. We all need to keep reminding ourselves that stuff like this is bad because the world will try and indoctrinate you into this stuff time and time again.

This is greatly timed. I was recently invited to a club around thirty min from my house I’ve never been to, but I turned it down after the coworker who invited me explained that he would usually get box. However, the catch22 is that he’d be dumping a portion of his money into drinks first and get milked for essentially legal prostitution. Keep in mind he’s not a bad looking guy either-that just seems to be the culture/happened to another friend where it became “pay to play” with a girl he was with

I'm older than the target audience for this channel, but it still resonates. I've only been in clubs a few times in my life and each time has left me feeling "This is _really_ not for me". I'm not a good-looking guy and while I like to think I have a 'positive' or two to somewhat offset that huge 'negative', a club is not a setting for them to be showcased. My son has a completely 180° experience of clubs. He *is* a good-looking guy. That's not just me being his Dad. It's the pair of us walking down the street and me seeing him checked out by every female we pass. It's a girlfriend of his telling me that he can "just enter a club and have girls hanging off him". He once had a part-time bartending job in a popular club, so he was being paid to be handed numbers and get propositioned all night. I have tried to tell him what it is like at the other end of the curve, but there are few common points of reference.

As someone who's been messed about in mind and soul with night life I say THANK YOU for making me fully realise how waste of money, time and effort clubs are. I will never go to one again and rather be single for however long it takes than make a fool out of myself again in club culture.

hi from Kazan, Russia. you're absolutely right. nightclubs are just ego boost stations for women. I know this first hand and from my ex with whom we're still friends.

Since the #MeToo movement it is extremely dangerous to try to get action by going out clubbing, especially if you're not Chad. All she needs to do is wake up the next morning after being drunk and not care for the way you look and you can be in loads of trouble. Maybe it's still worth a shot in other countries but in Western "woke" countries you are really rolling the dice.

I was going to clubs in the late 80's, and honestly, nothing has changed. It's the same thing... never buy chicks drinks.. they're their to "dance and be with friends." I went there with a mindset that knew these things, so I didn't base the entire night on getting laid. The only way I'd go to any club these days, if I was younger, would be with a date.

This was the best summarise of why I don't enjoy nightclubs, and I didn't know all the reasons listed in the video - but I wholeheartedly agree with them. Solid!

You be saying stuff I can’t say to the people around me. Love it

As a women, I couldn't agree more with this. Cold approach is completely useless and nightclubs are the worst.

11) is sooo true! In 2019 I visited quite a few night clubs here in Germany and I HARDLY saw anyone making out or even flirting. It seems like Club Game nowadays only exists to inflate women's egos, since it's easier and more comfortable for them to find a Chad via Online Dating. My prediction for the future of Night Game: Only VERY high Chads and VERY desperate Normies/Sub5 will be in the Night Game.

You guys have it wrong. Going to the nightclub is for listening to the dj and dancing. Everything else that might occur is a bonus. Targeted places with specific events. Go out, learn what you like and enjoy the music. Stop obsessing about getting laid because that's when it doesn't happen.

I have heard this guy getting mocked by other content creators - but if this is an example of what he's putting out,I'm impressed. Pretty much all of his points are valid.Great stuff.

Lmao the amount of women who are in "serious relationship" yet they sleep with random guys in the nightclub is sad and funny at the same time!

As a person who worked behind the bar at a small club. I can tell you that all these points raised are spot on. Its like watching a National Geographic Documentary. * Fights - You better know how to fight and win or else you will end up looking like a push over and no woman likes a push over * Expensive - As a guy you are paying an entrance fee and paying for drinks. You might as well invest in some YOLO stock * False accusations - Even if you land a landwhale and you do the deed, her friends can accuse you * Chads - This is a losing battle Stick to warm approaches, or try park runs, group hikes

#11 Nightclubs are the worst places to search for a serious relationship

Thanks u for the video i apperciate it a lot im glad we have ytbers like this

As a male entertainer, here’s my take on night clubs… 1.) Most people (men & chicks) there are not that interesting and don’t stand out. How can you make yourself fun, exciting, yet mysterious? My friends and I run every club we go to bec we created a system. You have to be fun, witty and not afraid to put your ego aside. Dress up, don’t be afraid to show some skin, don’t be a creep tho 😂 2.) Stop idolizing women. They aren’t special and they aren’t as hard to get into bed as you think. On that same note, don’t be afraid to bounce from girl to girl throughout the night (unless you’ve found one where the chemistry is that good), this demonstrates that you have options and women notice / like that. It’s pre-approval from other chicks. I danced with dozens of chicks this past weekend and had maybe a quarter trying to take it out of the club. Don’t be afraid of rejection and understand social boundaries. Too many guys don’t know how to be smooth and casual. Sex isn’t a big deal. If women feel a lot of pressure from you, they’ll bounce. Be casual about it and make it out to be no big deal. Also, don’t be afraid to exercise options. 3.) Women love sexy bodies. This whole myth of women liking dad bods… It’s all a lie. Get your ass in shape and get your style right. If you feel comfortable/ confident about your body and outfit, there’s not much that can stop you. Chicks literally ask for pictures with me and my buddies all the time. Our outfits get attention and we are all fairly built. You don’t have to be a bodybuilder like me but at least look like you are somewhat athletic. 4.) Take care of your grooming / hygiene. Enough said. 5.) A little trick of mine is, befriend a group of girls and seem sexually uninterested in them. Allow them to help you find other women. Best move out there. Bec after a while they’ll see you having all the fun and they’ll want to pull you in for themselves. I legit have chicks fighting for my attention in clubs. Work your way up to that. 6.) Don’t reply on dugs or alcohol. 7.) The goal should be to have fun! Stop making it your goal to get laid, that mindset puts too much pressure on yourself. If you’re having actual fun, women will see that and want to be apart of it. Obviously, don’t be a nut case but if you’re confidently having fun, chick looove that shit

Wow man! Your videos are literally one of the best on RU-vid. Factual contents and the way you present them. I will go even far to say: Men why would you waste your time in a nigh club, get some sleep, get up in a morning and pursue building up your dream. One night stand and all the nonsense fun is for low quality men. Stay focused building your legacy and you will meet that high quality woman to make your queen.

KEEP IT UP! will always be learning so much still wanna epxierence it as i love social experoemnts lmaoo

Wonderful video! Thank you so much for this! 🙏

The hard reality is there is not many women having of recreational sex. Ask any guy who know if they have gotten a girl to agree to a friends with benefits or fuck buddy situation. You have get through women having outercourse, one night stands, and having sex to get into a relationship.

You are destroying manosphere left and right in an amazing way. You are literally the embodiment of black pill. Amazing video!

I spent way too much money and brain cells going clubbing when I was younger and I concur, it’s a complete waste of time and I regret the damage I did to my health.

Once again, thank you for spreading awareness about the toxic club scene

Here is my opinion as a handsome tall bouncer. Don't go!

Never liked nightclubs and considered going there a waste of time, energy and money. Thanks bro, you just logically dissected what most of us here know anyway but kinda lack a skill to logically prove the point.

Don't overthink it. Go to clubs like me to dance to House and have fun with friends and meet new people.

You will also ruin your hearing if you visit nightclubs and conserts too often, unless you wear earplugs. Personally I got permanent tinnitus from nightlife, although it is relatively mild and manageable right now.

I have always said (and even FACEANDLMS said this) = I rather be in a relationship than be a player. Only long-term relationships build lasting satisfaction. But just make sure that the women is with you because she desires you, but women only desire good-looking guys. Make sure that shes not simply with you for the money or because she doesnt want to be alone since chad never wanted to commit to her. . The following 3 reasons is why most women are bitter or decide to date other women = When a guy Short-term relationships her (Friends With Benefits), or ONS her, or when she is dating a guy that she doesnt find attractive because she cannot attract a chad or make a chad commit to her. So what about if youre in a non-committal relationship with a woman (friends with benefits) = Its gonna tick the man off when you see that she is also playing the field with other men. If youre not the only men thats satisfying her and she feels like she needs other man asides from you to complete her satisfaction, then your male animal instinct will get angry, because shes basically saying that you are not enough. This is why Chads do ONS and rarely do FWB

Excellent breakdown! Older now, and have experienced everything you mentioned. Some good memories, but many negative ones. Can't get that time back - lived and learned. Advice is avoid, or make club outings an occasional occurrence with some good friends.

Bars and nightclubs are some of the WORST places to meet women. Try school, college, recreational activities and online. NO POINT 🤣🤣🤣

Watching your video after a long time and I have to say you've matured a bit and actually agree with your points especially the longterm relationships are much better.

people who get angry over someone accidently bumping their shoulder are either on steroids or cocaine

I am a 24 yr old KHHV mentalcel loner, went to nightclubs 2 times all by my self and normally i go there just to have fun. I don't waste my energy approaching anyone. The last time i went, there was this girl who cheered me with her bottle and was smiling, but she was with her bf (usually i am the one to cheer with random people). Things like this never happened to me before.

I witnessed a guy get body slammed on the dance floor in my 20’s at a club once. I felt so bad for the guy who got slammed but who knows what transpired. The worst is going to a restaurant just to eat and not drink but stay long enough for the place to turn into a club atmosphere. I was exiting a restaurant/club once and a young girl pushed me from behind so hard for absolutely no reason and turned around to see her and the guy she was with scowling at me. I figure someone else stepped on her shoes or something and thought it was me.

I couldn't agree more! Great video 👍👍👍