Be a priority. If you are dating someone and they do not make you a priority, it may be time to cut ties. Get Craig's help personally: www.askcraig.net/
I posted a comment which I later deleted on a video of yours a few weeks ago feeling suicidal about the end of my 6 year relationship in which we share our 4 year old son. I watch your videos everyday and I feel a million times better. Coach Craig you are an angel. I don't know what I would have done without your videos. Thank you. I now look at my life through a positive lense, I have bad moments but I always remember what you said: focus on yourself, self-development, NO contact. Thank you again. 💕
You are not alone, I was about to get engaged with my girlfriend of 6 years before starting dental school. She started treating me really poorly and pushing me away. Ultimately it felt like she forced me to break up with her. I came to find out she had cheated on me with a guy we both work with. I tried to win her back, was begging and pleading and ultimately got rejected by her. They are trying to keep their relationship secret but to no avail. I feel embarrassed and ashamed for even trying to win her back now. I am alongside you. Every day is a new day to keep a positive outlook on things. The good days will outweigh the bad. You have support in even the darkest of places.
tominthetux I'm so sorry to hear that. That must have been really awful. It feels like we are all a community here of heartbroken souls, trying to make it through, working on ourselves and sharing our stories. I wish you the best in healing and for your heart. 💕
Time to process emotions is okay, but not doing that while talking to another man. She's married, and you two have a kid. If she really wants to process emotions she needs to do that without committing emotional adultery. That's not a genuine approach to processing emotions.
This is really correct. My bf broke up with me in november. Im a psychology student myself so I knew what to do but also watched these amazing videos which helped me. I did the work and he did come back and visited me (long distance) but he hadnt worked with himself, therefore he made the same immature mistakes. So I told him that it is for the best to stop talking.I hope he will solve his problems and be a better man. As hard as it is leaving somone you love, respecting yourself is the most important thing ,so when they dont come back right you gotta let them go. Thank you coach Craig for your amazing work =)
Reflecting on the "only pair of shoes" metaphor: I would rather go barefoot than continue to wear a pair of shoes that was giving me bunions, bone spurs, nail fungus,etc. 🦅drunk with liberty!
Right now today has been such a great day I finally got a peaceful night sleep & today was so nice out. & as of right now I have no desire to be with my ex because I’m falling back in love with myself. You’re channel has been helping me a lot.
Wow, I can't believe it. This is exactly what is going on with my significant other. I've been very patient and not acting needy. Time to pull my head out and make some changes. Thank you so much for the wake up call !!!
My mom acted like I didn’t exist and when she acknowledged me was just to beat me up. Treated me so poorly I wish I was dead many times. Guess what? I married a man just like my mom he wouldn’t know I’m in the house even if I’m on top of him. I can tear myself apart and he’s there just watching tv. I do not exist to him and when he talks to me he hates me. Yup I need a lot of healing .. thank u so so much this information Craig thank thank u
Your own wife takes you for a back up. She needs to be forgotten. We all deserve bit more respect compassion. Im sad listening to some stories by the way human beings treat one another. Worse still are the fake gurus out there telling brokenhearted people can get their ex back using telepathy meditations etc.
I lost my Dad in 2017. I broke up with my girlfriend at the time just a few months later, I couldn't focus on her while dealing with such loss, we grew so far apart. I now wish I'd worked through my issues WITH her instead of AWAY from her. We've been broken up over a year, and my attempts to make it work again have been off the mark. If you have someone you really care about, please take it from me: Relationships are WORK, ALWAYS. Stick with it if they care for you and are there for you. You'll save yourself a lot of pain later on.
I could just picture my ex girlfriend crying to me like that girl did in the success story that you read in the beginning. Knowing her, she may not do the indirect/direct approach but just come right out and say that she misses me (us).
I know the feeling of losing a parent. My father passed about 16 years ago but when I lost my mother three years ago, I felt this sense of being cut loose but not in a good way. It was like I lost my moorings. Fortunately I'm close with my two brothers so we helped each other through.
Once again another great video Craig, I found you the hard way after breaking up with my ex ( over 3 weeks NC ) and then Coming across your stuff was like gold dust! She also was depressed and has trauma, I also was focused too much on my stuff, everything that I am learning watching your stuff and reading about attachment styles also comments are growing me into a better person... what if she reaches out to me and she sees I have done loads of work on me but she hasn't on herself ? Do you have any videos on when one partner puts in the work and another hasn't what the outcome could be? Thanks again from London UK
I was communicating with my ex shortly after the breakup, she thought I slept with someone and then sent me hateful messages a few days later. I told her I didn't sleep with anyone but she's still really upset. She has blocked me for a week and I'm unable to contact her at all. I just hope she unblocks me but it's looking hopeless right now. UPDATE: She's also in a rebound relationship, which is about 3 weeks long.
My ex told me she couldn’t make me a priority b/c her 2 girls (11 & 14) required her time. Her 14 yo is up & down emotionally due to limes disease. She left me in mid May the day after I took her to a concert for her bday. She’s an avoidant as well. Hurts!
Thanku thanku thanku so much coach,, i have found my answer in this video,, it was bugging me for so many days,, and if I had not seen this video i'd be continue to be ignorant in further,, so thanks to this video i now got the answer to my question!! Your videos are very Liberating,, Each video have different things to learn,, I am very grateful that i had come across your channel and now I better myself each day❤❤
The story feels like a fairy tale... I really want my ex back we were going to marry but I'm applying NC these days and also I'm improving myself and getting emotionally stronger than before because I was loosing myself. I used to cry alot too much attachment problem I'hv. I really love him
my girl is going completely cold on me. That's been going on for around a month. I don't want to lose her but I also and rather do not wanna stay in that situation where I don't get the appreciation and love I deserve. I told her already that I won't put up with this but nothing changed. Should I just walk and let her reach out when she feels like it (even though it hurts every day being her not attracted to me) or actively end it to prove my boundaries and regain the respect?
Well now I think one can throw the only pair of shoes after watching Coach Craig’s videos you’re aware that it has nails in it and would hurt you more than bare feet
4:43 Here's a song you can send to your ex when they try to get you back now that they see you're living your best life without them ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-cZaJYDPY-YQ.html . Must hurt to give up on someone and see them become something great ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ and at 13:50 damn that's rough but this dude should find a new girl asap ditch her ass lol I know that nostalgia feeling EXs have but every time I've done it it's never been what I thought. It's going to end with cheating so move on now and find happiness with a new girl instead of waiting around to get hurt. I really wish people would put effort into making things work but if they're low enough to cheat and/or do other cold stuff to you I'm sorry but you gotta press eject on them before they have the chance to.
I don't agree with you on the monkey branching behavior bcuz that encourages people to hang on to a partner and when said person gets dumped its especially hurtful. Get out and move on to someone esle instead while in a relationship. My ex cheated and this thinking encourages this behavior...IMO
Jonathan You wrote in the wrong email! I couldn’t contact you. I even wrote a message on a video for you a few days ago. Go to my website and email me please
Hi crag, It's been 2 months my guy stopped talking to me. He didn't tell me the reason and I did 1.5 months of no contact and after that I wished on his birthday, I called him from my friends phone, he didn't reply back to me. He was not congnaize me. He did not speak to me more than 2 months. Need your help.
