Be anxious for nothing! A problem will always exist, if you allow distractions to discourage you for solving it. #EmotionalStabilityTraining #SavingBoys
Cameramen are fvcking animals. They gotta lug those big heavy cameras around while running, sometimes jumping, sometimes turning them around real quick, and more. That sh¡t takes some serious muscle & fitness! Props to the cameramen! (This cameramen was probs just using his phone but you get my point. 😂)
I'd like to note his non-belittling and non-confrontational tone, and how he presents a mentoring father figure. This is how you grow boys into men the right way.
@@KydraExhale His teacher wasn't just talking about distraction in a fight. That was a life lesson applies to any distraction, like you were distracted
Nah, this is not real world, its just some dreamy shiet. Why didnt he fake after the lesson? Hey look, its a grizly bear, why are u scared? He didnt attack u yet, relax. Look, he moved toward u, why u runnin?? Run only when u need to.
@@Zelchinho I like how you trying to put some point. He doesn't train him for bear situations where bear will go in night club get drunk and start fight. Why you training box when kid with a gun can kill you
@@Zelchinho if a bear is moving towards you... Then the problem has already started🤦♂️ if he tries to block or dodge to early, especially to the extent he was doing it, he'd get punished immediately for it. Things like fakes exist and if a skilled enough fighter understands you flinch for every move they make they'd probably drop you. Your logic seems valid if you don't think but it's flawed since you won't acknowledge that the 2 situations are way different and that the bear approaching you means that you're in that dire situation already.
His tone and ability to communicate efficiently with him. His teaching deserves instant respect I think. Well taught and very genuine. Life lessons…priceless
@@DrippDroppz I guess it's just semantics, but I've always viewed the demand for respect as callous and indignant. One who commands respect need not demand it, as demonstrated in this video.
he's a great role model for teachers and basically anyone in medical/social services aswell. I've been watching him for a few years and tried my best to implement the communication style at the homeless shelter I work at, got to adjust it a little bit for the adult hood haha but it's honestly been amazing seeing how adjusting my approach has led to so much more positive results in their lives and mutual respect between me and the residents. this man's an inspiration on many levels need more like him.
“If you respond to the ‘what if’, you’ll get in trouble.” As someone who struggles with anxiety, this is probably the best advice I’ve ever heard. And from experience, I can confidently say that it’s 100% true
Bruce lee wrote " “Anxiety is the gap between NOW and THEN. If you are in the now, you can't be anxious because your excitement flows immediately into ongoing activity”
dude seriously, it's the crux of dealing with anxiety and says a lot more than it seems like it does. If you're constantly fighting and reacting to what-ifs, you just keep pumping out stress hormones and don't recover.
This Instructor is genuine, I’m not a fan of Karate, but this man is trying to increase this child’s awareness and to develop his instincts upon an attack. For each individual young child there has to be Perseverance and Humility. Well done !
Depends on the style and how you use it. Mas Oyama (father of kyokshin) sent three of his students to fight muay thai fighters and 2 of them won. Then you got Loyoto machida and wonderboy both karate guys and are considered to be elite strikers.
A lot of children go through panic and anxiety nowadays. This is GOLD for such children to regain confidence. Deep from my heart, Sir, i respect you for your effort. You are forging MEN. God bless you and may you live long.
And do what with it. Use it and nake other kids afraid? Perpetuate the violence. Get a grip ! And maybe the odd book to read. Jesus humanity makes me want to vomit . MEN ? You think this is what makes a man ?? Ffs sake you will leave this earth as stupid as you entered it. And i already know my words will make no difference at all . You have my pity as do your poor poor children.
@@veaceslavgoncharov it's not a pie dummie. If I cut of your hand, you lack a hand, regardless if I took your dad's whole arm or not. Kids can face a lot of anxiety regardless if their grandparents faced anxiety when they were our age
“Focus on the problem, not the distraction.” Very simple, yet profound! An excellent message to follow. Thank you, I love the mission of building men.🙏🏿
@Maria C. Yep women too. Girls boys heck even ALL KIDS should learn that. Because all genders would benefit from it. There are no mens jobs. I am a man I don't like martial arts yet i know girls that like them. If i like dancing why should i be ashamed(/called gay/never pursue my dream) because i shouldn't like dancing but liking martial arts just because i am a man. However i WAS told not to cry repeatedly for years cause i was sensitive, they told me to not be so sensitive because men should not be sensitive ( what the actual fck with that), so now i end up sensitive still (caring for others worrying for things, getting hurt sometimes) but i cant cry even if i want that a lot. I wish they never had told me, it ruined my cry. Crying helped me emotionally to get better. I don't have that anymore, it was forced out. It's way harder to break that and let it back in. Others were not as lucky. So i say a man must NOT be an insensitive gorilla that only know to fight or something. It is useful but if we teach that along with caring for others and other good values we would get rid of much of the broken men that only hurt others and women hate them or try and fix them. They wouldn't need fixing if they weren't broke in the first place. Fixing is so hard, for some people impossible. Let people be free to like whatever. Take care. Some great teacher of mine once told me that as businesses we have found great effectiveness from traditionally womens values when we adopted them into our marketing. Being sensitive shouldn't be a womans thing. It can have great benefit for men, and it makes life happier cause the opposite: depressing your emotions only breaks the person. Sorry for the long reply.
Well said , Lee Canalito told me don’t look at there eyes , focus on chest . Lee was trained by the same trainer of Ali , he starred in movie with Silvester Stallion
what I've came to learn here is that the weapon itself ain't the problem is the person who wields it you have to maintain you're focus & anxiety balanced in order to defeat this particular bozo or else there will be some serious injuries that might occur during that combat.
This dude has my respect. He teaches to act on a real threat, not a false one, one of the most basic concepts that a lot of good instructors fail to explain.
God, thats so true, why do the best football defenders in the world get faked then? Or the best basketball players? Yeez this guy should do it instead of them. Bunch of unrealistic bull****.
@@Mike-tv9rk It's not about violence. It's about teaching the child to face adversity. If the father teaches a child to smash someone's face in, then yes...you would be right. But this isn't about that.
he is part of the problem. he's not teaching him the right lesson here. the kid is overly trying to predict his move, which albeit a bad problem, trying to remove the entire thought process of prediction is much much worse.
@@Mike-tv9rk there have been many so called men who preached non violence (Jesus, martin Luther king Jr) and many others who met violent and horrific deaths. You teach them situational awareness and how to defend themselves if it's needed.
Ya, you have to make it real at a certain point. I would think to wait with full speed for a bit, but then again I’m not the teacher and it’s only a pool noodle.
He's not teaching about attacks.. He's teaching about discerning what is and what isn't a threat in life More metaphorical than actual physical. He's teaching the child how to be independent and free of manipulating forces intent on distraction and slight of hand, So he can walk the path of confidence and positivity...
whyd you have to go and make things so complicated? i see the way youre acting like youre somebody else. gets me frustrated. simply admit that i am the funniest and greatest and sm*rtest and coolest and strongest yout*ber of all time! admit it, dear qnti
If one has anxiety problem, one tends to get distracted by everything... including things are not really problems and things don’t even happen... to live in the present is not a second nature for many of us, we tend to live in the past and worry about the future
He literally summed up the art of Mindfulness. Focus on the problem, but don't let yourself caught up in the feelings that goes along with it (Anxiety) or else you are not gonna do it well. It is easier said than done though, lol
Thats why they are doing Martial Arts. It's easier said than done true but you have to start somewhere. I think thats what makes this video soo good. This senseis little teaching exercise can be applied to anyone and whatever you're currently doing. It's all about practice leading to experience.
Sorry this is wrong. Those reactions are biological and they've ensured our survival for hundreds of thousands of years. Training someone out of those instincts may look cool but it's not good for self defense.
@@shadmansudipto7287 it's not like hes teaching him not to dodge so he gets hit, hes only teaching him to dodge at the right time. Not "tRaIning hIm oUt oF hIs iNsTiNcTs" that's literally retarded. Watch the whole video its only a minute
"If you respond to the 'what if,' you'll get in trouble." " Respond to the problem, not the distraction." Oh boy.... the number of people in today's world that need to learn and apply those phrases....
I mean it's been this way since at the very least the 1950's, virtually everyone has been taught to treat symptoms of problems while ignoring the root causes. That's why the world is as F'd up as it is. Feed starving people, but don't address economic disparity Blame Politicians, but not the systems that allowed them to be elected Advertise for consumers to be more environmentally friendly, when it's corporations and nations causing the most damage Jail the criminal, but never ever address the reasons they turned to crime It's not exactly a new thing, at most it's just more obvious now that everyone's opinion is readily available to read at any time.
Hey Dad...just gonna start calling you that....just wanted to say. Fantastic message. Really really good message. best 50 seconds anyone can spend. thanks.
@the_bearded_schlub imagine fishing for negative attention online.. yikes Maybe a bit of an odd thing to do, but no harm was meant or done so there's no reason to take that tone
When someone asked mike Tyson: “why do you keep your attention on his shoulders and arms but not his head” Mike Tyson said: “because his face can’t hit me”
@@CaslavNorisavljevic Most if not all was accidental through. A clash of two styles. Mike was getting badly outboxed and demonstrated unsportsmanlike measures in response.
In my martial arts school when I was young, people yelled at me, or were timid, so I never understood. Until a man explained things to me EXACTLY the way this dude explained things to this boy, and it was enlightening.. explain things patiently, and directly. Especially in martial arts
This is an ancient Japanese teaching. If you are alone and surrounded by enemies and anticipate them coming from one direction you focus on that one direction leaving yourself vulnerable to the opposite side. Don't anticipate. Practice your reflexes. Your peripheral will figure it out and your body will follow suit. Very very well taught.
This means a lot for me Master. For people with anxiety or panic attack this lesson is a gold to prevent the trigger which is usually unharmful but perceived as vulnerability which lands the person's emotional and mental stability in hot water.
I'm convinced that martial arts was born when a few wise men went up a metaphorical mountain to meditate and came back down with the conclusion that the best way to dispense wisdom is to teach people how to beat the living hell out of each other.
If you train in something like martial arts and become aware of how fragile life is, you become painfully aware of you and others' mortality. And that tends to humble people.
"It's not this; *I'M* the problem" TRUE WORDS! It's not the weapon, it's the wielder. It's not the firearm, it's the shooter. It's not the knife, it's the stabber. It's not the car, it's the driver.
Great lesson. That teacher communicates on a genuine level, and that kid just increased his evasive ability by %100 against an attack with some juice on it.
I seriously doubt that. He said "yes, sir" like he ducked at the beginning - reflexes. The child is too young to understand that yet, but probably he will remember that man who taught him that in his adolescence
It’s not just karate he is teaching, he’s shaping the minds of these young boys and girls..making them a better individual I’d send my kid to his academy
This might be one of the best teachers Ive seen on youtube because he implements actual practical life advice in his stuff for his students. There is a lesson behind everything. This dude is awesome.
"Keep your eyes on the problem, not the distraction" Whether the kid goes on to become a grand karate master, a CEO, or flips burgers for his career, these are the life lessons learned in martial arts.
I'm 41 and I appreciate the lesson you just taught. This information can be used to protect yourself, and also with everyday problems in life, thank you.
What a badass sensei. If every young boy had a teacher like this, there would be so much more confidence and self-esteem. Dealing with fear, anxiety, and stress is an important learned behavior in men, it does not come naturally.
When my son was about 11 years old he entered a Jaycee Relay Race. He’d never ran track before and didn’t know everybody wore shorts. He came in jeans, to everyone’s amusement. He ran the last leg for his team - and came away the fastest runner of the day, and made up considerable distance to win. This video made me think of that day. How I wish I had been able to see it, instead of only hear and read about it. I was a single mom and had to work. My son was an amazing athlete. ❤️
We should ALL take that advice and use it in EVERYTHING! Politics, relationships with fellow humans, finances, foreign relations, obstacles to our goals, spirituality... EVERY ASPECT👍🏻❤🦋
You know you are a deeply messed up grown man, when seeing a man in a calm and supportive voice telling a scared little boy "Relax. Nothing has happened yet, son.", makes you cry...
Helping boys become men. Biggest problem in America is a lot of men are weak and don't want to deal with challenges in life. Cave helping these young students on how to face challenges.
@CJ P. true, but i think its just as bad, because in the end, all those kids lose something in this process. Cheers to the parents that have and are nurturing kids into becoming people like Khabib Nurmagamedov, Muhammad Ali, Daniel Cormier, Cristiano Ronaldo, etc.
@@shadowboxkicker thanks to my dad kicking my arse as a kid I only made mistakes once. Smacking is a big no no now days but look at all the little shits we have as a result lol.
That is the true definition of a master/apprentice relationship. He’s teaching the kid in a great way he’ll understand, and the kid is taking in all the information and applying it. Truly amazing.
I love watching your videos and seeing the wisdom and survival skills that you bestow upon our young men. It's so beautiful to witness...bless you sir 🙏🏾!!!
This man is such a blessing to the most vulnerable population our innocent children who have been through so much because of broken adults who are severely broken children inside
If and only if it is from a genuine threat. The mind is constantly scanning the body to figure what emotion to feel. If you spend all your time taking quick shallow breaths through your mouth, then you activate your sympathetic nervous system, resulting in communicating to your mind that a threat is imminent even if everything is great. And you feel anxiety. For nothing. We are our greatest enemy.
Yep, pretty much on point. And it serves everything in life. It's like when we focus on the problems instead of the solutions. There's no point in worrying about something if it can be solved, find the solution and solve it. Also there's no point in worrying about something that it can't be solved, move on to what - can - be solved.
There is this guy and I totally agreed with his speech. Then I watched Tyson say "I look at his shoulders cause his face can't hit me." and I also agreed. Good thing I have two eyes...
