Don't React to Disrespect-Respond! 

You can choose your ACTIONS but you can’t choose your CONSEQUENCES. THINK before you move.

Men like you is what all AMERICAN boys need in their lives. I'm 45 years old and grew up without a dad and now I'm a father of 3 and it's hard to teach what you don't know.

I just want to take this time to thank you Sir! You are an example of what masculinity and what a healthy warrior looks like for black men.

Love the work you're doing man. As a 21 yr old white male I'm just realizing this myself, learned from experience. Every male needs a mentor like you, thank you for your vulnerability and showing us the REAL definition of a man.

Chris handled that very well. I commend him for his control, cause I know a lot of men that would’ve been bumpin off rip.

"Whoever is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city." Proverbs 16:32

I’m 28 and I’m still learning how to respond to disrespect instead of reacting to it. I am rarely disrespected so when someone does disrespect me badly, I may react because the situation is foreign to me.

I'm 33 years old and all three of you guys taught me so much in this convo, thank you guys so much!!!

what you said at the end is so true. As men we can easily let our egos get in the way. We may mistake it as protecting the people or things we care about but really we’re protecting our egos. Controlling our emotions takes alot and its hard. lashing out like will smith is easy

I love their body language when they say, yes sir. It seems deeper than them just saying it because they were taught. It feels they are calling him sir out of honor and respect for him and that is a beautiful thing!!! This is such rich content. New subscriber here.

When you walked in self control it caused the lack of self control in the other man to be front and center. Walking in the fruit of the Spirit is soooo powerful!

Thank you! Thank you for speaking with young men, thank you for showing us how society has set us up to react instead of process a situation, and finally thank you for breaking down what possibly was going on with Will Smith's reaction. Hopefully, he (Will Smith) will see this, stop going around the world to medite, come home and talk to you. You help everyone men, women, and children.

Before Chris said the joke, he did say "Jada you know I love you" there for letting them know it's not personal what I'm about to say.

Thank You Mr. Wilson for being an inspiration, I can't express my appreciation enough for You teaching and respecting those young kids and showing them, that there is a different way!! Many blessings along Your way, may Your endeavours and projects be blessed always and in the Highest!! Thank You 🙏💖 Salaam

I do not even know what to say Sir! THANK YOU, Mr Wilson. THANK YOU, Sensei. Thank you brothers!

We need more open conversations between the older and young men!!!

We need more role models like you in this society! Emotional intelligence is important

Shalom brother. Thank you so much for this message. After listening I had to go and apologize to my daughter for handling a situation wrong with her after I felt that she disrespected me. I used my ego as dad to berate her and take all of things away instead of using it as a teachable moment. God is truly speaking through you brother . Thank you again.

You are not only helping the young boys but adults too. I am always on gusts about leading my emotions till I had an outburst at work, and straight away noticed what I had done and apologised immediately. But that was a shock to the system for me. Thanks for the advice, ‘process before reacting’.

Once again Mr. Wilson, you have taken the time to not just elevate the conversations surrounding this sad incident- you have taught us all how to be better humans for ourselves and to others. Thank you🙏🏽💙🙏🏽 #inspiring #wecandobetter #blessedLesson

Sooo good. Thank you for what you do! 🙏🏼

This is exactly the type of message that needs to become more popular. I appreciate your word 🙏🏾🙏🏾

Much needed and right on time…Shalom💪🏾

I’m a 24 yr old & I just found out about you Mr. Wilson through your book “Cry Like A Man” & literally a few days before I had gotten your book m twice showed me a video of you talking to the young man who was crying. God works in mysterious ways, I didn’t even know it was you who wrote the book until today of me looking you up. You’re a humble soul & I am going to soak up as much knowledge from you as possible. Keep going man we need people like you in the community of men. ALL MEN. God Bless you!

This type of podcast and real life situational information is so valuable. Love how your impacting the youth.

Aww, I love these conversations and I can tell that these young men truly respect you. Blessings!

I love this and I’m a therapist. This is wonderful work you are doing.

My brother you have been the single greatest influence in my Life. I'm 44yrs old and a father of 3 adult children. 27, 22, 20 years old and my son is the youngest, I have always used your words to relay a message to my son. Thank 🙏 you brother. My God bless your journey and keep you and your family in abundance. BTW love your books battle cry is my favorite. Thanks 🙏 again brother.

Thanks, Jason! This conversation was much needed. I found myself being challenged to rewire my thinking. I know it takes a lot of awareness and approaching with an open mind since society has conditioned us to retaliate and react in violence. I love how you pointed out there is a way to confront someone about a situation with the intent being not to have unresolved anger coursing through our spirits. Lastly, thank you for being vulnerable in your last story!

When a Man is fed up!!!! THERE AINT NOTHING U CAN SAY!!! THERE AINT NOTHING U CAN DO ABOUT IT! In the moment!! U gotta prep for it ahead of time!!! TOOK ME 32 YEARS TO CHECK MY PROTECTIVE IMPULSES

Shalom to all. Peace on you peace in your home. I'm very grateful to watch this episode. I'm a father, husband, teacher, Coach and truly appreciate your methodology Baba Wilson! Grateful today for these two young champions. 🙏

1:12 Really Like. 3:14 Elijah Sounds Confident In His Ability But Then It Sounded Like He Didn’t Underestimate Or Seen A Possibility Of Losing Against A Opponent (Story Of Him In Summer Camp Of Young Man Who Verbally Insulted Him.) 4:41 Excellent Response

Napoleon (interestingly enough) once talked about the inability of force to maintain anything at all. “There are only two powers in the world: the sword and the mind. In the long run, the sword is always defeated by the mind.”

Making a vow is like programming yourself to respond to a situation. What a powerful observation. Men are attached to out emotions while claiming we are unemotional

I think Chris Rock knew he crossed the line. There comes a point as a comedian where you know certain things are out of bounds and inappropriate. We talk about the physical violence, but Rock used "verbal violence", can be even more destructive.

One of the best videos I've seen in a long time. This is manhood, fatherhood, and leadership.

That's High Quality content. Thank you for your service gentlemen.

This was a insightful exchange with these your brothers. Emotional intelligence is vital to defeat fragile masculinity. Prisons are full of brothers who felt "disrespected" and over compensated by reacting in violence . Our culture teaches us to suppress emotions, ultimately stumping the development a Man needs to better himself and inspire those around him.

Sir, I thank God for you.....keep up the good work.

I respect ✊ this dialogue we need more podcast like this fr .

Subscribed within the first 2 mins, god bless you and keep up the great work !

Brother , the work and anointing God has giving you has been a true blessing to many including myself especially. I’m now on the second book Battle Cry , I’ve recommitted my life back into Christ and I am now actively in the fight . I am now facing the challenge of having a conversation with my real dad . To be honest , I am a little hesitant because I’m simply not sure how it will be taken or if he would care . I won’t back down from this fear though because I feel it will unlock some things in my life . I pray God continues to use you and that he gives you the fuel needed for this Marathon . SHALOM my BROTHER IN CHRIST. I praise God for your ministry

I Thank God everyday for you brother. Man like you is what we need. I relate alot to everything you said in your videos. Blessings. Just want God to continue to bless you and guide you.

Thanks i needed this Guard myself from Ego and false pride

The three of you Gentlemen make a GREAT TEAM!! I look forward to more of these types of videos!!

Thank you guys for sharing 🙏🏾🙏🏾

Thank you! Good work.

This is beautiful man. Grateful to have come across your story and content. Im leading a collegiate black male program at my school and use some of your teachings a videos during discussions. God Bless🙏🏾

On my school bus these fellas a bit older than me are always playing childish games teasing me.Often when they get on the bus or I get off one of them runs up to me and goes “got your nose!” Childish but it still angers me that they disrespect me like this.I often contemplate retaliating but I understand that is foolish yet I don’t know what words to say and I doubt if I had the right words they would even take me seriously. What am I to do?

Good way to explain to young people how to respond

Great dialogue brothers I absolutely love the wisdom that is being discussed

Beautiful conversation.

Let me respectfully say sir, Jada was not disrespected.

It's almost remind me when Moses hit the rock twice because of his anger over the people that cost him a miss out on the promised Land

How about a conversion with Jordan B. Peterson? Would love it.

Loved this. Very intuitive and this advice was great. 🙏🏽

This was so powerful. Thank you Jason

Life comes with and choices and choices comes with consequences. -RWA

Excellent

This is dope talkin to young men about this Much lovec

Jason...this is beyond powerful bro. Thanks for all you do G

Sensai, this was beautiful. Glory be to Yah! #keeppraying #keepgoingfwd

This is beautiful 🤩. Helps women get a healthy perspective of men and how we can work together to form a perfect union for the kingdom. Keep up the great brother 🙏🏾

Also Will did send a message to the world that he is fed up with having to have a HOLLYWOOD SMILE while people slam him via his wife! HE CAN BE SEEN AS THE NEW DENZEL AND THE WORLD IS TREATING HIM LIKE A SIMP BC THEIR FAMILY IS TOO FUCKING OPEN

These two young men were great. Keep up the good work.

I was looking forward to hearing your perspective on this.

This is gold 💯💯💯💯such wisdom and quiet strength

Part of the problem with Will Smith and this was made everybody's business but part of the problem with the situation with Will Smith and his wife is he was forced to be in a open marriage because that's what Jada pinkett Smith it. Pretty much the only type of woman that wants to be in that type of relationship is a covert narcissist. Most of the time there's only one personality type that is in a marriage with a narcissist. And that personality type is a codependent personality type. I want struggled with codependency. The way I deal with that is a man is through cardiovascular workouts six times a week two to three times a week I do weights I also do karate and I do boxing when I can. I'm a first generation Japanese American. I have two children that I raise I used to be married to a covert narcissist. I was once in that same position.

Thank you Jason for this video!

Thank you sir 🤲🏻

This was an exceptional conversation.

Very helpful. Thank you!

That Doctor Strange analogy is so good.

Mr Wilson is a great man!

Love the teaching 😊💯👍🏼

Thank you sir

Thank you Mr Wilson …this was a meal…I’m still processing and being processed

Fantastic episode 💯 👑

React vs Respond: They're spelled differently. Great content again.

Great episode. Wonderful insights.

Jason!! I WANNA COME OUT AND TRAIN WITH YALL ASAP LIKE ROCKY 🥊

Our capacity as women also

Beautiful conversation

Thx 🙏god bless you sir

He shouldn’t have been joking about Jada’s appearance, he wouldn’t have joked about a white woman’s bald head…but I think he should’ve just went up there and demanded an apology.

Checked this out b/c saw on the Tok, you said they took page down. I wonder why if you most likely followed guidelines. Very inspirational message and topics relatable to anyone, especially youth. What’s sad, is after I got off, I went back on Tiktok and two swipes up and see a woman, mature one like someone grandmother with nightgown on and she starts moving and I’m like how you try to silence someone spreading wisdom, intellect etc, take down the vid but allow some of this crazy, controversial content. No cap we shouldn’t be able to see a nipple imprint through anyone shirt. Anyway, great message

Unk, I’ve been following you for about 3 years I believe. I’m just finding out the cave was RU-vid channel🎉

Great conversation

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Can anyone tell me how to or practice Shalak meditation I still don’t understand it

I feel bro about no liking a step dad I walked away from a good woman because I don’t want to be a stepdad however now it’s like every you look there is family created there and I’m 30 no kids still building no record nothing and would love to be a husband I stopped looking and just focused on myself

Please watch like stories of old the myth of heroic male purpose, i think him and you really touching on something...his content and yours have really opened my eyes to how I've been dealing with trauma

Great podcast 👏

Dope conversation

I'm glad you made this, I was ready to beat tf outta someone til this video. Thanks man.

Big UPS Brother's

Great vid 🙏🏼

Any ideas for ways to guide a 7 and 5 year old in releasing anger other than working out?

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Respect goes both ways. Cause and effect. Putin invaded Ukraine. Somebody disrespected Putin by breaking an agreement. Men do what men do. Teach to respect each other. Anger is natural. If we respect each other anger is kept in check.