I thought the exact same thing! I don’t know if it’s cos I’m ambitious but I’m lazy so I think out of the box and how to do a task in the easiest way possible with minimal effort
@@sfeeges I'm successful so far even without trying hard. It's like you always know that you can do better still, but you have to find the motivation which is the hardest part.
Funny thing is, the solution is actually simpler than people think... The reason they are "lazy" so to speak, is because their endeavors don't interest them anymore because they may have encountered an intimidating obstacle or challenge, and so they are floating in the valley of despair, remaining indecisive. Key is to continue along their endeavors past all obstacles, or to retreat and find a whole new venture which they will again be challenged with an obstacle, testing their resilience... Simple fix, usual cause often "sales", or other actions they need to take. When they find interest, passion, and obsession towards their endeavors again, those challenges are actually just rusty "tools" they need to dust off and learn how to use them. Sales, marketing, objection handling, etc...
Oh my God, have I been at the receiving end of this! When I was abandoned by my ex without warning I threw myself into my corporate job (as you do) but those ghastly 48 hours - I think they’re called ‘the weekend’ - were too lonely to bear so I got an additional weekend job in a healthcare facility and boy, WAS I despised!!! I could never understand the animosity towards me but Sabastian hits the nail on the head - I represented a life these women knew they could never aspire to because they couldn’t be bothered to put the work in so week after week, month after month, year after year they reported me for things when I wasn’t even on the premises (!), found fault with everything I did or said (and made things up too) and the worst thing was that management took their side, agreeing with the masses because it was the easiest option. Never had I met such odd, insecure and jealous women and I’ll never work in that industry again.
I can relate to this so much, but now I am finally pushing myself on that ambition to do great things so that I myself can be happy and able to carry on my families legacy
No matter what I ever tried to achieve in my life, I kept it to myself in fear of jinxing it. At times I worked a full time job and about 2-3 side projects and no one knew anything. Turns out I failed on all fronts regardless. No matter how much time I put it, stuff did not work out as I had hoped for. I’m glad no one knows about these failures but these failures let to me no longer trying and accepting that there is no “bigger and better life” in store for me.
Vouch for this had two of them in my life. And they are ruthless. Your hard work and good ethics means nothing to them. They only care about what you can do for them and they would stab you in the back without hesitation while hugging you. If you are seeing red flags, never ignore them.. act immediately
It’s normal to feel like no matter what you do you can’t beat someone who is just more talented, but you’re not the only in putting in work, what you do is less effective then what they do, you don’t know your limits the only to find out is doing the best you can.
Why the hell should i be loyal to those who don't care for me, don't prioritize me , dont respect me ... loyalty is a gentleman's thing. In this jungle ( world ) full of wild animals , result ( success ) is what matters the most
Thank you , I always wanted to define or have a better word to describe such people. Mostly found in The corporate world and they hate hard working people.
I thought he was talking about me. I thought I was lazy, but I have morals. I don’t betray people. I don’t cut people down. I work as much as I can and I do my best. It’s just that I didn’t see myself as good enough and I thought I was lazy Still don’t see myself as good enough doesn’t change the fact that I’m gonna keep working. Work is important. Find what you like and do it.
I don’t blame other people, I blame myself, I quit my job, force myself to be productive at and an hour in I start to feel tired, angry, and trying to get myself back on track. I tried scheduling, prioritizing, setting goals, I wrote thousands of pages literally on scientific and business subjects. I used to think I was willing put the work, but I am scared of having a mental breakdown again so I don’t want to push myself any harder. As a kid, I never did my homework, I would bang my head against the wall and didn’t bother to talk until I was 5 or 6 years of age. I am extremely ambitious but never get much done it seems like, I have an IQ of 70, I am confused if I should work hard and have terrible mental health until I am 40 and probably burn out by then and fall off or if I should do nothing because my dreams are not worth that sacrifice. Working hard usually doesn’t end well for me so I may as well just be lazy or just do research in neuroscience since I like doing that, what am I supposed to do, I can’t maintain energy or functioning for long. I never put people down, it’s not in my nature if you are assuming that of me.
Everything you said makes so much sense, the only thing I'd add is that lazy ambitious doesn't necessarily mean lazy. There's some lazy ambitious people that actually work very hard, but they're not willing to do the work that it takes to get to where they want to get . Also, they might not be particularly talented or creative in any area. , so they use the people that are, and steal thier ideas and then abandon them later; also there are lazy ambitious people that end up being very successful and that is what the truly scary part. I think of Diddy who stole everyone's music from the 80s and 70s and sampled it in the 90s, and it was a hit, or carlos mencia who stole jokes.
i don't blame my world on other people, i blame my lazyness on adhd and myself. I Am envious and jealous of others though. Have no interest in cutting people down and doing unethical things. I suppose you could say i want the fruit of success without working to hard for it, yup this is at least 60% me.
What if you jst dont know how.. I had sucess but lost it during the recession and have a lot of bone issues, birth defects. I dont k ow how to get back on top with health issues. Im worth it, I could do it, I need opportunity but thst is tough with disability. I have been praying for God to give me an opportunity bcuz once I get a break, I will reach for the stars and give my all. I always have! Im a hard, hard worker.
Totally unrelatable to me, i am super ambitious, super lazy and i will rather have my loss than to pass it on to anyone else .. i make sure in my capacity to protect every innocent life.. work only with morals and ethics... always live life like a hero even if nobody's watching
Most of lazy ambitious people are intelligent, Smart and very good at visualizing. Though not really dangerous unless you give them a good damn reason to pursue their dream. Because they are so lazy to start pursuing it . Once they start they will do anything like villains. To get it done ✅.
I feel like that’s almost all of us in the low/middle income bracket… we are all dreaming about more money, and fantasizing about how to get it. He must mean be cautious of those engaging in criminal activity in order to get more income.
I am wondering, but maybe, they want to go from point A. to point B. they just don't know how to get there, I know he's talking about lazy people here, those who complain and get frustrated taking that out on others. and down with them yes. But being a devils advocate because, I might be feeling slightly called out, but I'm not lazy. I'm happy to put in the work, I'm just not sure, about what the work is. I only see vids with lambos, but few vids on; This is how I got here, and this is how you can do it too. (except if you pay a few hundos up front I don't have) And so instead of blaming, these people, Maybe show ehm how to shut up and do it. AND HOW YOU DO IT! Because I think they only complain and get frustrated taking that out on other is because they see the fruits of success, yes. they get jealous of that. BUT NO ONE, is actually showing their process, And their hard work that went into it. only more lambos And so you say, they're lazy, but I think for a lot of these people they just don't know how to do it. and no one is really showing them either.
As a lazy person who would cut corners and is generally just a loser this guy is one of us just look at him Stop pretending bruhh off camera he ain't got socks on
Lazy ambitious: talks big, and a lot, and quickly, uses many lies, to decieve, and is eager to get informations from everybody Else. Likes to talk one on one, but is weak talking in a crowd, he colects random informations and 'sells' them to his mafia boss, after that the boss organizes criminal activities that Hurt that person who naivingly spoke about himself. This is a joy for criminals. And a part time job.😊😮 Watch out who you talk to !!!
Well how do we know those people are bad though what if they had a way to be Entrepreneur? I feel like people dont know how to do that i sure dont i see them all on tv and im just like how did they even start that
Thats literally everyone. Every person you have ever met wants to live a big life but can’t or won’t put the work in. But if offered the chance, they’ll say some lies to get an easier life. Seems like you’re the narcissist here.
I naively let these people take advantage of me. They give great compliments. Now I quietly work on my own stuff. Not giving into distractions. It takes real time to build a business. These people will shame you for being honest about how long it takes.
