Becoming Dominant Men (w/ Kurtis Conner) | Sad Boyz 

fun fact Jim Carrey's Grinch costume was so horribly uncomfortable that a specialist whose job is to teach CIA agents how to endure torture was hired to help him make it through filming

"cock shame" and "pussy facing the world" made me laugh so hard

Kurtis (Jimmy) making random noises and everyone busting out laughing is insanely funny

5 minutes in and I just remembered my friends and I broke into my friend's house as a joke and just hung out for like 2 hours waiting for him to come back, not realizing that he may not come back promptly bc he doesn't know we're there, and then finally realizing "hey its maybe weird we broke into his house."

I love that the framing on Kurtis looks like he is getting interviewed for a documentary and he sounded very genuinely sorry. Banger episode as always

41:59 “How can a woman admire a submissive man?” Obviously they’ve never heard of a dominatrix

Imagine if every single time a man was frowning on a magazine cover, somebody unironically went on a tangent about how this proves he is unhappy because he has been forced to suppress his submissive and nurturing essence.

Glad to see the Sad Boyz bring on a true alpha male in Kurtis Conner to balance out the beta energy.

kurtis' tour being masks mandatory actually made it a lot easier for me as an immunocompromised person to attend !! my partner and i went to his nyc show and it was a lot of fun and wearing your mask makes events more accessible

I love the unilateral "ASAP has a soft face? yeah he's pretty, he's a good looking man, that's a good thing" agreement LMAO He is a pretty man for sure. Also he's always been stylish and a bit quieter than other rappers, from what I've seen. I'm not surprised he's confident enough to be Rihanna's husband and I'm not surprised she likes him enough to have two kids with him lol I AM surprised that they decided to label a baby's happy face as a signifier of a female-led relationship? Would ASAP look more masculine on the cover if his baby was visibly upset by him? Lmao

“I don’t want my free health care, take it back” lol that’s literally conservative Canadians take

"There's no romance to burning yourself out" LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!

When Jordan said he roommate was making a video on the vaccine shaking thing I thought “wow that’s funny Ethan just made a video on that” before remembering that Ethan is in fact his roommate

There was this really privlaged girl in my class until grade 6 or so, and she would constantly steal my drawing books, with drawings in them, and I would still be invited over to her house and whenever I'd ask for them back she'd be pissed off and tell me those were her books, and I must have had similar ones. And I'd be like "but the drawings in those books are mine. The stickers on the books are mine. I even have the rest of the sticker page and I signed some of the drawings." And she would still deny it. Like she came from our town's equivalent of old money, so she just owned the world in her mind I guess.

Jordans "two years in prison" joke didnt get enough laughs, I cried especially bc of his delivery of it 😭

Idk why but them just wearing socks is kinda adorable haha like its a sleepover 😂

Kurtis and Jordan need to do a collab, they have great chemistry. Omg.

awh i am in the middle of a massive major depression episode, and this evening is really hard on me, i just have to say thank you, this gal really appriciates the upload, and especially with the major of Kurtis town!! thank you for giving me something to smile about

I am stupid hype to have 3 of my favourite boys hanging out together in person

Dude, I didn't know Kurtis had a physical form. Can your confirm he is tangible??? (What a good combo y'all are)

Ahhh…He’s coming to Christchurch! I’ll come support you Kurtis. :)

I like how the podcast starts with reading notes from the last meeting

I think a big part of a podcast is getting to know the person a little better. It's not scripted and a lot more personal. Usually I listen pretty closely the first time, but for the second time it's great for sleeping. Don't have to keep your attention up, but still a nice thing to listen to. A conversation between friends. Also depends on the podcast, some are very informative, some are more casual.

I actually learned this in astronomy this year. Because of slight wobble of the earth, the dates of solstices and equinoxes will slowly drift around the calender. The original Roman Civil calender (Januarius, Februarius, Marchis, Aprilis, Maius, Junius, Quintilis, Sextilis, Septembris, Octobris, Novembris, Decembris with additional month fo the holiday of Satunalia) had to be changed multiple times because of the drift of seasons. Julius Ceaser, with the help of Cleopatra's astronomer Sosigenes. They didn't add a month, but changed the name of a month they already had "Quintilis" to Julius. Named for his contributions to the calender. Later Augustus Ceaser helped to improve the calender once again. The previous month of "Sextilis" was named for Augustus. Funny story. Later on when the Gregorian Calender was introduced, everyonce in a while they would have to remove days from the year in order to fix it. People actually thought they were losing these days and they would actually protest about "losing" these days.

i am incredibly happy to be a sad boy right now

"You just did that video where you cured blindness" wildly threw off my sense of time as I rewatched this just days after his most recent video

okay but jarvis’s outfit is so good

Oh god I'm gonna need a shirt with "pussy facing the world" had me crying with laughter, absolutely ridiculous

I really hope Jarvis gets the septoplasty it is seriously life changing and yeah I felt like an anti masker before I got it because I could not breathe with a mask on lol

Hey Jordan - I work for USCIS (not in anything related to visas atm, but I was previously a private immigration attorney) and I 100% agree with you on the forms. Everything is unnecessarily complicated, because all the policy is made in piecemeal, and every administration chips away at old policy and shoves in new policy, and half the time the government employees don't even know what the heck is going on because it changes like every week. I'm sorry your visa situation was so shitty, it really shouldn't have to be that way. Hope things are working out better for you now!

As a high risk person who really relies on masking I was so excited to see kurtis live when masking was mandatory. Its really sad that its gone and everyone is so lax about masking now because thats the only reason I was even able to see kurits live in the first place. Hopefully yall can have masking at future shows.

I love that Jordan and Ethan are now housemates. 🥺

I like the part where Jordan mentioned Oyster cards and nobody knew wtf he was talking about. I also super appreciate Jordan's rant about visa applications/taxes, because I know how hard both of those things are (even with guidance.)

48:15 Kurtis is a shy pooper, Jarvis uses the buddy system, And Jordan needs a crowd. But fr jarvis kinda using a body double is cool

As a guy who does testosterone shots for HRT, I highkey call it my weekly stab sesh, but jab is def dogwhistley. Stab is funny cause it's overdramatic and there's a whiplash to the necessity of a seemingly violent act, and dumbing down terms like that, but jab doesn't really hit that funny note cause it doesn't meet those same requirements.

I normally hate podcasts, but I'm actually loving yours! I'm all for emotionally intelligent dudes conversing about real life stuff.

cant believe you got mr. beast on the pod

Honestly, I want to know about Nancy Pelosi's Tamagotchi way more than any other news

Hey, accounting student in Canada here. I can confirm that the Canadian tax system is one of THE MOST COMPLICATED in the world, and I hate it as a future accountant. Thank you :)

I know you're unlikely to see thus but Jarvis might benefit from trying some different masks. There are a lot of options that are structured and will stay away from your mouth regardless of how hard you mouthbreath. They tend to be masks that offer much higher levels of filtration as well. It might be worthwhile looking into for comfort, even if you don't care about the spread of a deadly and disabling pathogen.

Omg i know this is weird but the way they are sitting and the utter comfortably in their body language makes me feel so happy like they are such good friends ekdnwknekwh

Ok, I love that all three of you are together again but, Jarvis. Your kitchen is distractingly well designed! Like, I am SOOOOO into the green cabinets! 😍

I literally spent an enitre night years ago falling down a wikipedia hole about the history of calendars and ever since Ive had hyper specific knowledge that Ive had absolutely no use for until Jarvis brought up his gregorian calendar beef podcast of the century

I am so incredibly early, can't wait to get sad with the boyz

I can't believe they are all in the same room

That edit of the vogue cover is insane. People are spending way too much time on the internet.

"You are not a permanent resident here stop poking the bear!" got me rollin 🤣

After that Matt Rife podcast this drastically different grouping of 3 men is a breath of fresh air, and I actually laughed at this one

This is one of my fave episodes of the sad boyz ngl, I feel like there were really good moments where our sad boyz were discussing being creators, therapy, advice on accountability and work ethic, personal experiences with burnout, etc. I felt like I really related to some of that stuff as a person that's very hard on herself. Thanks for the nice background noise as I do some work!

The way they’re sitting in this video reminds me of the “is Fortnite actually overrated - Plato,Aristotle, Socrates” meme

Love how after the green line segment all three of them were crossing their legs lol

49:10 jordan is sitting so elegantly here lmao

I'm an artist, and spend a long, long time, hours working on a piece- and that's what podcasts are for for me, I play them in the background to keep myself entertained

I had movers at my house in early 2021 who didn't want to wear a mask. Guy said, "the mask gets really hot." I said "I know, I gave birth in one. Put on the mask."

I've only been listening/watching for about 6 months and haven't been too far into the backlog, so hearing that Jordan didn't have tattoos 3 years ago was mindblowing. Congrats on all the ink dude! I know these things are sometimes too personal but it would be cool to hear the stories/inspo behind some of them.

Oh man when my brother was about 8-9 he and his buddies were so into Yu-Gi-Oh cards!!! He got a Blue Eyes pack from our parents at one point and it was a big deal because I think it only came in those $40 big packs…. shortly afterwards he couldn’t find it anywhere and the next day his friend (who had been over playing cards when it was lost) “somehow” had one, and wouldn’t say how he got it. My brother asked for it back and he denied taking it. I think my parents went over there and talked to his parents and then he gave it back… That Blue Eyes was causing DRAMA in elementary schools lmao

watched this with my shoulders back and crotch facing the world

In regards to exercise with masks, Jarvis you might want to try out a firm mask, they're more protective but for you it'll also keep it away from your mouth

i am very pro-vax and pro-mask but goddamn sometimes i am just so sick of wearing a mask everywhere 😔 however i am hesitant to talk about it bc i don't want anyone to think i am a full-on anti-masker lol

sending the best vibes to jarvis as he deals with chronic fatigue problems

I feel you Jarvis on masked PT! I did physical therapy in late 2020 and it was so much harder because of the mask. I’m a warm person in general and I would get so hot and sweaty under my mask, so uncomfortable, which isn’t ideal when doing exercises that challenge the body. Glad I finished tho! Still recovered since. Also wow I can’t believe this was 1.5 hrs, did not feel that long. I appreciate the length

I watched this video as I ate alone for lunch, and I looked like an absolute maniac laughing randomly by myself 😭 I got so many side eyes it’s not even funny

All of kurt boy's facial expressions within the first 65 seconds😆😆

this is healing something within me, thank y’all

the idea of getting a digital receipt from a train robber is so fucking funny

"Pu$$y facing the world" literally has me ☠☠☠

yooooo can't believe u guys got mr breast on the pod🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯

It's funny to me how every single guest episode that Kurtis is in Jenna is offscreen 💀

I was just wishing you had another video with Kurtis, thanks for the wish granted!

Im so excited to have another kurtboy episode. Thank you all for the content :)

jordan: "they had pauldrons bro" kurtis: "yea true, potions and shit" 15:31 dying

i feel like you guys did this just for me thank you

I feel so seen by Jarvis saying some people watch their videos for comfort or sleep

I remember battle city rules for yu gi oh in school. One of the main reasons my parents didn’t let me take my cards anywhere except for tournaments and some friends’ houses.

Obsessed with the cardigan and pearls combined with the sports logo t shirt, purely dominant alpha male move

It just clicked in my head that Jordan is housemates with Ethan. Holy shit. Two of my favorite creators, I mean, I knew there was some intersection and they probably were buds, but WOAH. Mind blown. Also I think I'm just slow, lmao.

Jarvis and Jordan sitting on a couch together with socks on and their feet on top of the couch has to be one of the funniest things.

Can we start a petition to have Very Really Good Boys collabs once a week at least

Me looking at Rihanna's family photo: Aww, sweet family. Rihanna is so gorgeous. Alpha bros: Wrong. Anyway, want to hear about my insecurities?

I’ve been dealing with chronic fatigue too and I’ve never heard anyone else talk about it!! Thank u

i remember them talking on an episode about how comedians hold the mic at the very base and that is exactly how kurtis is holding it.

Idk why, but there’s something about them all being sock footed that I find extremely comforting

BEST! EPISODE! YET! The entire first hour was just banger quotables lmao "AOC's 3DS" "Submissive baby" Jarvis's best line was censored so... 😬 Absolute hall-of-famer episode imo but that's what happens when you get together 3 of the funniest on RU-vid 😭😭😭

Listening to the Sad Boyz podcast is always so rewarding. Quickly becoming a comfort watch. Like I'll put it off until I'm in the mood for comfort if that makes sense

I'm a group fitness instructor and have been wearing a mask everyday while I teach for 4 hours. Its been nice to cover up my chin hairs (and also cover my open mouth breathing lololol)

to the tune of “doofenshmirtz evil incorporated”: kurtis conner in a cardigan

Power move: lean away from who you're taking a picture with

I want someone to draw those lines on the VHS cover of Airbud.

i love the julius caesar calendar discourse, definitely something i have been lowkey bothered by for years

yknow for the triumphant return of the sad boyz pod i was a dumb and kept starting it and then getting distracted, so when today i finally was like “yknow i’m gonna just start this while walking my dog before work” I queued it up before i went to bed (around 1pm, i work at 9pm) and went to bed. my sister got me up a little after 8 bc i hadn’t turned my alarm off yet and they were loud (duh) and i got up feeling surprisingly rested and everything, finished the last of the water on my nightstand and went to take my dog out. i walked out the door and saw a neighbor with their dog out by the back door, so i turned to go to the other bc even though my dog is v small, he’s super reactive and anxious. it is as i am almost at the other door that i realize i had neglected to grab my keys, which would normally not be a big deal but for my complex you need an rfid keyfob to unlock the door to the building at all and then you can get to your actual apartment door. i figure i’ll just call my sister when im out of the way of my neighbors dogs (who may i just add here add very big dogs. they’re mixed but they’re like not even on the smaller end of larger breeds. like im 5’11” and they come up to my waist if not a lil higher). i walk out the door while listening to the pod i started while still inside, so i’m a good 6ish minutes in at this point. i’m listening to y’all talk about the concept of master and crazy hand when i hear RUNNING at me from behind and barely manage to scoop up my dog who is just squirming trying to get out of my arms bc… duh. while these two giant dogs are jumping at me, a woman by herself now in the dark outside her apartment complex at night. the owner is running behind them yelling “i’m sorry” over and over for what feels like an eternity while chasing had dogs around me while im trying to maintain the loose hold i have on my own midair. these big dogs keep scratching and pawing at me trying to jump to my dog who i’m barely keeping out of their reach and when she finally gets control of her dogs i manage to walk away (i feared if i moved too soon she’d have taken even longer to get her dogs) and j just start sobbing, kurtis still talking about master hand. also fucking sucked bc i still had to call my sister to give me keys anyways this all goes to say, damn. accurate pod title lol.

soooo much sad boyz I love this

you laugh about the animator apology thing, but there was a star wars tiktoker who used a puppet in his videos a while back. Turns out he was super racist, and I kid you not he filmed his "addressing the allegations" video WITH THE PUPPET. Funniest thing I've ever seen

them talking about those guys that always comment shit like "that would never happen to me" under tragic deaths reminded me of this classmate of mine from high school who, after someone spilled their coffee all over the floor in class, announced, "see, i would never do that." and now i am a lesbian

Ordered a pizza and eating straight out of the box while I watch this

I’m always down for hour and a half of some Conrad Kurter content 😁

Unearthing the deep memory that is Super Smash lore with the boyz

Do you guys remember when the meme "whatever butters your biscuit"? My brother told his history teacher, " Whatever betrays your Caesar." 🤣😂

I totally get Kurtis's new approach to content creation, there has to be a balance between work/life and so it seems over time he's updated his priorities for the better. I'd rather have quality content instead of anything else.

kurt, jar jar, and jordie my parasocial pals 💕

I just want to say, I’ve been struggling a lot with my mental health lately and I’ve binge watched your videos (first one was the Eddie buttback video) and I so appreciate the candidness of your experiences with medication and therapy and all of it. ❤