Before Marrying Someone, ASK THEM THESE QUESTIONS - Deepika Bhardwaj

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Deepika Bhardwaj is a men's rights activist. Indian journalist and now also a documentary filmmaker. It was an absolute pleasure to be speaking to someone with so much depth and clarity about what one stands for.
Deepika talks about finding the right partner for yourself. She said, “There is no right formula for it.” She suggests it is important to have clarity on what you want from marriage for both men and women. I feel it is important to date people when you are young as it teaches you a lot about what the other person wants.
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@TheRanveerShowClips Год назад

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@poonamnaik3524 Год назад

But whatever you mentioned mam still it doesn't works, I have Intercaste marriage.. Bfr he agreed to everything thn he changed started dominating, his sister has taken charge of his life completely, every single details are shared with her, quarrel, fights was on rise.. Presently I came back to my hometown he is there but threat r given to come back, than suddenly he talks good n so on.. Marriage only works on truth not by Camouflaging it

@amardeepsharma8574 Год назад

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@shikharmartolia8026 Год назад

@@poonamnaik3524 yy

@sakshisingh2731 Год назад

♾️✨

@shrikaracharya1517 2 года назад

When you become more intellectual ,forget marriage, u r so done with people n world

@y17t90 2 года назад

avg 14 year old

@shrikaracharya1517 2 года назад

@dangy ho 🍻

@arjunaponchalil6947 2 года назад

😁 This is true.

@payalkakade 2 года назад

True

@ad8128 Год назад

Me in a nutshell.

@conor1241 2 года назад

Great one. But i disagree when you said men are less emotional. Being emotional is something which is subjective.

@dakshmore1383 2 года назад

Great Men are supposed to be more stoic( meaning ur emotions don't affect ur actions). But no one is perfect at it and everyone is trying it making it seem like Men are not emotional.

@fiveelementhealing6332 2 года назад

My mam is very emotional than me

@shivamiltiwari9541 2 года назад

You have no experience of dating any woman .......

@AmitMohantyYT 2 года назад

Brother, here What I feel emotional means. Most Men are only emotional when something bad happens in personal or love life. Or else they are focused on their goals. Where as most Women use emotional lens for every possible decision.

@aniketgonsalves1597 2 года назад

Thinking emotionally and being emotional are TWO different things.

@dnyanrajkale1496 2 года назад

One cannot change men / women when they are above 25 so you better have to observe things through their actions. Because saying something is very easy but one cannot do something they haven't done in their lifetime because behaviour comes from habits , upbringing.

@Akpandey69 Год назад

One should know how to observe what is good in person or bad in person

@entropymusicoriginals Год назад

very true. brain become resistant to change after 25. for majority.

@YashSharma-qo1sy Год назад

@@Akpandey69 What should we observe exactly?

@hemang747 Год назад

@@YashSharma-qo1sy search fresh and fit clips watch first video it explains everything

@kdjoshi726 9 месяцев назад

@@entropymusicoriginalsReally-?

@Bozojimmy 2 года назад

There is no such thing as "choosing the right partner". Obviously there are red flags, but you can never predict how someone will behave in certain circumstances

@sujatajhunjhunwala1590 Год назад

if you stay with anyone long enough you will find red flag for whatever reason you want it to be.

@garima_cherry24 7 месяцев назад

Well said It happens mostly in live in relations now a days

@heatsingh2205 6 месяцев назад

human beings are very predictable you can always judge people from your past experiences, you just need basic understanding how people work

@nishthagupta1357 5 месяцев назад

Ikr you only know them by spending time together

@rishisuk6239 2 года назад

I asked her all these questions (that concerned to my life and job, family): She said Yes, BIG YES (I was not compelling her to say Yes, but I was looking for someone, who is okay with all my concerns)... before the marriage! But just after marriage she did completely opposite to what she said. When I reminded her words, she told me, she acted as she thought I was testing her. Life is not a game, but she assumed it is. Unfortunately, it damaged my life too.

@sunnychoudhary1323 2 года назад

Women overthinks and trys to play games

@RishabBanotra 2 года назад

I hope SHE is not reading ur comment bro Otherwise aur damage ho jayegi life 😅

@manas7536 2 года назад

Bro in india you should avoid getting married.

@shilpar6506 2 года назад

(PS: I see you have edited the comment, after my reply and added that you were not expecting her to say 'yes' lol. This makes me doubt the authencity of your comment. Even then, I don't see the need for you to get sad if you are okay with someone not saying yes to your expectations. Even men make promises to us they will stop smoking or drinking or gambling money and they still do and we don't feel our world's crashing down.) Its sad you wanted a woman that said 'yes' to all these questions. I am going to get heavy blacklash over here but here's the truth.. women want partners that equally compromise.. and yes what she did was wrong but if you had told her right from the beginning where you are willing to compromise for her and where you expect her to maybe things could have turned better. It's utter stupidity to expect anyone to say yes to each and every expectation of yours, be it man or woman.

@omanmol9640 2 года назад

@@shilpar6506 mam with due respect I agree with all your points.... But if you won't mind I would like to ask a personal query of mine.. Going along with whatever one partner is willing is not okay at all but do you really think living with family affects or downgrades a women's career in personal? I am just asking it out of curiosity to know women's psychology behind this. I have a sister in law (Bhabhi) and bhaiya as well as bhabhi they live with us and my mother helps in her daily activities of family and bhabhi is still doing her job. My family ( parents, bhaiya as well as bhabhi too) are very close to my heart. Bhabhi maa treats me as her own son and things I feel I can't share with anyone, I share it with her. So,my question is...... Is it a rare case that women happily lives with family of husband (as in case of my sister in law) or it is a normal case? If women don't want to live with family of husband then what could be the possible reasons? Thank you for your precious time. Highly anticipating an answer.

@indro14 2 года назад

When people date, couples meet, they put in their best "self" forward; they can be in this state till marriage and even till the honeymoo phase; after that the real person with his good and bad emerges and that causes all the issues. Main issue is not knowing the person in totality before marriage. Besides people change with time, environment & situations. One needs to know the other well enough to deal with such changes. Marriage is not like buying furniture... that one can change after a couple of years.

@DOCSRUCS4265 2 года назад

Good piece of advice sir👍👍

@umarekha8787 2 года назад

Do u think Indian parents will allow to check each other like this

@doctor2187 2 года назад

Well said.deep🙏

@mohsinshaikh2470 2 года назад

Acclimatization to the changing surrounding, environment is the key for sure but sometimes husband or wife dont want to get themselves adaptive to the changing situations they expect to remain the same it is like driving maruti 800 in the generation of Tesla. The point is if you see closely you will find that men suffer most than women in case of emotionally, financially, physically etc as compared to women. In this capitalized society people are becoming more financially dependent whether it be men or women. Marriage sustains on the trust, balance and understanding. Basically no one can tale how to sustain a marriage because marriage doesn't come with a contract of rules and regulations, if it goes well then it will go good for long time and if it doesn't then one has to face the situation whatever it may be. Man / women can change the breaking marriage scenario if they think closely and logically on it, if one don't want to be with her/him even after the close observation then it's her/his choice to do whatever they think is good for him/her.

@psaiprateek1417 2 года назад

Hey You stole this line from Major Sushant singh right.He said the exact same shit.😄😄

@swati-hy6uv 2 года назад

Just to let everyone know it is not that this is that straightforward. If you ask someone yes, no questions. And expect them to answer honestly. I find in marriage or before people lie a lot. Everyone should focus on their goals and if anyone helps them to be in that journey then you should marry. It works both ways!

@Jay_Kamle Год назад

Many man gonna die single in that case lol coz woman never make a 1st move if u know..!

@bangaloresatish6600 Год назад

@@Jay_Kamle better to die single than suffer a lifetime of misery and penury.

@low_key45-6 4 месяца назад

For arranged marriage their should be a lie detector test or handcuff each other ask the difficult questions

@lakshay5319 2 года назад

After listening to this podcast i have decided not to get married ... ❤️🤣

@shivanipurohit815 2 года назад

True❤️...beyond this pitty playcard love is the most cool

@arjunaponchalil6947 2 года назад

Good. 👍

@skttv4676 2 года назад

Go for it..🤣🤣

@manas7536 2 года назад

Well I have also decided the same

@sonubeta7938 2 года назад

It is the new normal bro , you are not alone !!

@srikrishnavasanth3895 Год назад

8:36 I would rather choose to make friends with opposite gender than dating because during dating people tend to show their best self and while in a friendship good is good and bad is bad. Dhoodh ka doodh, pani ka pani.

@sachinshetti4405 Год назад

I think its other way round

@siddharthsid3638 2 месяца назад

You can't just be friends for a long time with another opposite.. there is so much nuance and complexity involved . The idea of friendship kindly beware of it ..

@Gauravkumar-jm4ve Месяц назад

Ya doodh bi milta hai and Pani bi

@Himanshu_K17 2 года назад

"Men are blind by 'all women are good' that they don't want to see a red flag" This line was so correct by her, often I have seen my friends behaving like a complete idiots and go behind a girl while keeping this whole stupid narrative in their minds. They gotta have some questions and put in forward what they REALLY want.

@thecontrarycontrarian4230 2 года назад

Marriage is an outdated concept of society. Marriage has no place in today's materialistic, consumer driven, commercial society. Marriage is just a commercialized institution of society. Its all about money and social convenience

@ROMI909 Год назад

You talking about me my friend!! Ha ha. Yes. You're spot on.

@ueoelekeksoekek9280 Год назад

Biharis are vikharis

@sm24572 Год назад

Bollywood

@kikupandit6789 Год назад

Some just go blind with what they see.... Some choose people for temporary only few actually look out for a lifepartner.... This is irrespective of gender..... We find, explore, learn, understand and if you and ur partner are ready to make things work out for each other , it's great, if not its okay, moving on is better..... Coz life has many other colors....💕

@ashwinisv8899 Год назад

I told him, "I want to study after marriage". He said that he will support my education!! And after marriage, I was treated worst than a bonded labour... Now with two kids, I am left to fend for myself!! Best thing in life is to be independent - emotionally and financially...

@user-ue2vi2bz5r Год назад

Yes , I also have seen such cases.

@aena5995 Год назад

Can't trust ppl this is y marriage is joke nowadays the ppl r not worth it

@aena5995 Год назад

But career takes time what about baby 🤔 it will take 25 age to complete idk what to do

@varindersingh-pz3sr Год назад

Toh tumhe kisne kaha tha study krte huye shadi krne ko

@varindersingh-pz3sr Год назад

Pehle namoone ladko ke peeche bhagti hain ladkiya fir baad mein roti hain pehle hi kisi shareef ladke se love krlo

@pussycla Год назад

I just went through divorce and she spoke brilliantly about the mistakes about mistakes I made as a man. Hats off

@YashSharma-qo1sy Год назад

If you don't mind can you share what were those precisely, it could help many.

@catadventures.7201 6 месяцев назад

Ignore her comments. Self reflect and see what are the gaps in yourself, work on yourself, improvise. Thank her later for the comments. Dont tell her about her mistakes. Thats your revenge. Karma will take care of her.

@nishthagupta1357 5 месяцев назад

@@catadventures.7201what Karma bro? You don't know their situation at all. Chill. If she talked about his mistakes, maybe he made terrible ones & deserved it. You don't know who's the right person at all. And who's wrong & is arrogant enough to never admit. Mostly men. Stop wishing bad for unknown people.

@queen_3636 5 месяцев назад

@@nishthagupta1357 maybe you should first stop putting "maybe blames" on the man. You guys, marriages Don't always workout. And its okay. Life goes on. I hope for both the man and woman to find happiness and move on.

@hinduGigaChad951 2 месяца назад

@@nishthagupta1357you mentioned "maybe..we don't know.. mostly men" all in the same comment. 😂 How do you know it's mostly men? What was your reference? Your personal experience? 😂

@impavanpk 8 месяцев назад

I was a Victim of False 498a and DV act. Fortunately all the cases (5) filed by her was dismissed by Karnataka High Court in July 2023 and got divorced in August 2023. What I learnt? Take care of your parents . Don’t be desperate to get married. Being single has more perks. Better to stay single than tolerate emotional damage. Either adopt a child or go abroad and get a child though surrogacy (Since India has banned that too). I’m not against marriage, if a genuine girl comes, i will definitely get married. But most of the marriages now have become a business.

@kavishwarmokal124 7 месяцев назад

Get married outside India.

@dailyguidance4u862 6 месяцев назад

Good luck

@Thewa.terguy 6 месяцев назад

Good luck

@malika5731 6 месяцев назад

Surogaccy also needs women and commercial surrogacy is banned in India which I think is right.dont. Go by single living idea otherwise our country will be like uk .

@malika5731 6 месяцев назад

@@kavishwarmokal124lol

@ksb4868 Год назад

Main points discussed were- Does she want to live with your parents? ( Yes/No) Does she want you to live with her parents? ( Yes/No) Will you be okay if she leaves her job for few years for baby?( Length of time, Yes/No) Will you be okay if you have to leave your job for few years for baby?( Length of time, Yes/No) Will she move with you, if you have to go elsewhere for job? Will you move with her, if she has to go elsewhere for job? Will you financially help her family members? Will she financially help your family members? (Brother/sister education, parents health expenses)

@Ashok-kw2ds Год назад

Thanks

@Eren-da-Jaeger 2 месяца назад

Faith in human kind restored, thank you sir

@AshTheDuke Месяц назад

the last two is a very hard decision - financially helping family members

@ksb4868 Месяц назад

@@AshTheDukeYES should be decision for both.

@nishantverma943 7 месяцев назад

All problems = One Solution...DO NOT GET MARRY AT ALL...That's it....sidhi baat...no bakwaas.

@johnnygaddar5742 5 месяцев назад

Running from a problem instead of facing it is not solution. It's a coward mentality

@saviofrancisfernandes413 3 месяца назад

It is better to learn from someone else's mistake than your own. Sometimes the rectification for the mistake can involve our whole lifetime until our death. So, I agree with the initial commentator and would summarize "Be very careful before you sign the marriage document". Problem will get far more expensive to solve when you also have a child with the partner (1st mistake = marrying the wrong woman 2nd mistake = having a child with the wrong partner 3rd mistake = child and wife will work together to destroy you). If this happens, you will be financially (current assets + future earnings) and emotionally exhausted.

@pranit_19 2 года назад

You need to be little open minded. Just ask question. Don't give answer in your question. Don't look for answer you want to listen. You are narrowing the view of the guest. I believe they have many more perspectives to share. And thanks for letting the guest speak more.

@ab_still_unstoppable 2 года назад

Bro he does this in his every podcast 😅 He talks more than the guest 🤦‍♂️

@peekaygaikwad4117 2 года назад

He is an interviewer and not a podcaster

@ab_still_unstoppable 2 года назад

@@peekaygaikwad4117 Bhai tu ja idhar se , tere se nahi hoga

@sachinshetti4405 Год назад

We still leave in a society where dating is not totally accepted. For arranged marriages, we get to decide in just one meet. And just to have a good impression, people tend to say yes for everything. Like RishiS UK mentioned problems starts later on. Its not about men or women, its the way our society is.

@shikhashukla6405 Год назад

True

@thatguy4010 Год назад

Come to Germany, people are very open and at the same time respectful here which I didn't see back there in India :)

@iamnoob7593 Год назад

@@thatguy4010 only priviledged people can go to germany.

@user-pc1pd7ub3q Год назад

Yah I talked to a man first time just for ten minutes and they wants me to married with him in next 3 days. But problem is I didn't feel anything from him, not positive or negative vibes. Nothing. I connect with the family even I met first time but not him. My family forcing me to marry him. He is a good person. But I don't feel anything. Am I a stupid , should I marry him, every thing is good in his family and him...

@army_774 Год назад

@@user-pc1pd7ub3q tf u just met him..nd they wanted u to marry him in just 3 days?..gurl Don't do that..u just only met the guy.. take a time to know him..

@punkaj Год назад

I have decided a long time ago not to get married but after watching this podcast I am more convinced to not get married. 😂😂

@ad8128 Год назад

Yes me too. This modern time is against good men.

@Pratchatt Год назад

Me too

@anjalisuresh9574 Год назад

Me2 😂 😂

@nayansarma9677 Год назад

@@anjalisuresh9574 bhai shadi mat kar benefit me rahega tips from a married man and regretting the decision

@lunacover020 Год назад

Oh my god bery bery fonny

@SB-ho3vt 2 года назад

relationships r fluid, continuously evolving...this is not a school admission tht you ask yes/no questions...rather focus on getting to know the person over time, and this also means working on your own self awareness levels, give time before committing to relationships or marriage.

@sagarpednekar7960 2 года назад

TRUE

@Manikarnika07 2 года назад

I think people have made it more complicated even if discussed you never know what situations will arise...only when love and understanding exist all such things will be easy to deal with

@Light-jk3ui 2 года назад

But these type of questions are important to continue the relationship . Something are not compromisable . These type of things should be cleared soon in relationship otherwise relations can't be evolved

@dr.akshayanarayana7984 2 года назад

Yeah if we had 500 years to live then yes we could do that , getting to know the person OVERTIME

@jayatidave2864 2 года назад

This is so true what me n my guy were ten years ago is not who we are now!! People grow and thus relationships evolve...

@imblueeyeboy1 2 года назад

3:14 "The idea is all women are good, so they do not even want to see the red flags". story of my life 🙂

@antrikshachatterjee368 2 года назад

All women good 😂😂

@sunnythakur6342 Год назад

😂ambe heard mil gyi kya.

@ad8128 Год назад

@@antrikshachatterjee368 u not good ? 😅

@satyajeetprabhu Год назад

First thing to realise is that all humans are looking for 'happiness' for themselves first. Whoever you meet, it's good to look at it like an abstract transaction and what is being traded. 'Unconditional love' and 'pyaar' are the the most toxic ideas created by humans.

@mitesine Год назад

yes, one smart comment!

@nehakulkarni7580 Год назад

Before asking questions to the other person, we should also ask the same questions to ourselves. What are the areas which we are ok to adjust? What is it that we bring to the relationship? How flexible we are to ever changing careers, passions, and lifestyles etc..? Once we are aware of what we want and how we want it, we can discuss it with the other person. Based on experience, during the first few meetings, we are so overwhelmed with the other person, we either give in to their expectations and suffer later or we just reject it all together with the fear of failure to meet expectations…

@NiteshKumar-mb1ni Год назад

Discussion and respecting those terms will happen when both are on same ground. First of all we need laws that protect men, then and then only those discussion be fruitful or else it’s just a trap for men in this gynocentric soxiety

@Unhealed_soul Год назад

@@NiteshKumar-mb1ni agreed

@happysoul_97 Год назад

On point mam

@reshmaraj3203 Год назад

What ever you said is 100% true. But sad thing what ever opposite person says they only don't keep their word. Especially in men case or I can say in my life.

@punittiwari212 Год назад

@@reshmaraj3203 even gals dont keep their words

@nickraja17 Год назад

She is absolutely right. I am 36 and unmarried. People blame me indirectly for this. But I figure out the big red flags of all the marriage offer I have received. I am only one to take care of my parents and they live in a very small place. So, I left my job from Mumbai and moved back once my sister got married. No girl would like to shift here after marriage.

@user-bw8yn3zr1s Год назад

She got her own parents too. If only your sister was not required by societal expectations to leave both of your parents, you could have been free to go and live anywhere. And if you want to live with your parents but some woman you meet and date doesn't want that, she should not be blamed too. But why do people blame you btw?

@Iamniyas17 11 месяцев назад

@M bhai/behen jo bhi tum ho. Just assume the same happens to your son/daughter you’ll get your answer.

@aquariusexpress 11 месяцев назад

@@user-bw8yn3zr1s if she doesn't want that then look for a different fish. There is a large ocean and there are different kinds of fish.

@gowriprakash5145 10 месяцев назад

You did really good by not marrying

@prashantkatti118 9 месяцев назад

Yes right thing to do.

@kaashwin3592 2 года назад

Finally someone is doing an effort to bring up these kind of topics to everyone. Great work. Keep it up👍

@sd8854 Год назад

Johnny Depp's case is the best example for what will happen if you go for a person only for their looks rather than their mindset. "Don't trust a woman's words trust her actions". A woman can move mountains if she is truly in love with you. woman's words are connected to her mood Once her mood changes so does her words. Sometimes They'll deny what they said. They'll put the blame on their period. Communication is never the key for a perfect relationship, both genders can lie without hesitation. Women think that it's okay to put blame on their mood for acting crazy sometimes.Find a woman who is mature, find a woman takes accountability for what she says or said, find a woman who accepts her mistake instead of arguing she's always right. Stop doing this social media shit "Miss always right", "women are never wrong".

@kartickdgp8 Год назад

💯💯💯💯 all women are same psychology.

@rishavburnwal6676 Год назад

Exactly

@exolovebambibambi1763 Год назад

He left his long time girlfriend( the mother of his children also) for this young women amber

@sd8854 Год назад

@@exolovebambibambi1763 wow!! this is news to me.

@suntzu1409 Год назад

But can you really trust a woman's actions

@rahulgopalakrishnan1892 2 года назад

Once married, make sure family stays away, from your marriage. Women have more levels of emotions but they have issues in communication. Men treat women like their guy friends... Parents are the main reason for most of the divorce cases, second is career.

@akashmishramgtow2361 2 года назад

I'll make sure HER family Stays away from our relationship. Not mine. I'll involve mine....

@thesublimesoul7231 2 года назад

@@akashmishramgtow2361 don't just DON'T either keep both or leave both .. there's no between Bro .. this idea itself is a Red flag

@Heartcutelittlethings12._ 2 года назад

@@thesublimesoul7231 absolutely true this happened with me. I never involved my family but since day 1 he has been involving his mum , his cousin , his aunt n uncle n now we r heading for a divorce.

@scalerup 2 года назад

@@akashmishramgtow2361 MGTOW men only get man to marry. No women of her same mind would marry a MGtow mf😂

@uditraj8290 2 года назад

@@Heartcutelittlethings12._ Mom & Dad are important part of lif of both person. How can someone Ignore them??

@agodha11 10 месяцев назад

I have passed long away from my teenage, you are next level bro, this podcast applies to not just before marriage, but also after. kudos to you!

@hiteshdua3746 2 года назад

This is very insightful. I hope this will help people a lot! Thanks, Ranveer and team.

@indranilbasu01 Год назад

It makes so so much sense that before marriage get your conditions right like what Deepika said. So so practical and sensible

@parthaprateemraychoudhury7689 2 года назад

Thank you Ranveer and your team for bringing up a very unique yet super important issue of how men should be emotionally aware about what they expect from their partner, especially after marriage. As a single guy, I feel that such deep dive conversation with experts would definitely provide a holistic view about how a guy can make himself emotionally aware about his aspirations and needs in life with regard to relationships. Thank you again.

@ardhenduchoudhury7807 Год назад

asking such questions won't help .. since females are emotional decision makers .. they will change their decisions whenever they feel like. So, as long as the female has respect for their partners .. they will stay around .. So, its best for males to maintain their respect by not tolerating bad behaviour and following their goals and ambitions

@sreevaishnavikommuri4253 Год назад

Ok your are right they should follow their goals and ambitions and their partners can't tolerate and leave them because they can't see themselves in your goals.

@hinduGigaChad951 2 месяца назад

@@sreevaishnavikommuri4253then be the better person and earn more than him

@truthtriumphs6744 Месяц назад

Really good point, however I believe we also need to deeply learn about the woman's past. It is extremely important, especially for hard working, well cultured gentlemen who wish to build a happy life with a good lady. In a hell lot of cases, really good men get stuck with absolute 3rd class W**res who have been screwed left right and center by random F boys/ bad boys during their youth and as soon as they approach 30s they want a 'WELL SETTLED, INNOCENT GENTLEMAN' to suck up and ruin his life with their used and abused bodies and mind🤢🤢🤮🤮Typical 'EMPOWERED MODERN WOMAN' in a nutshell

@MrAnshulk 2 года назад

These clips are so good♥️ thank you ranveer

@mrperfect3197 Год назад

3:14 "The idea is all women are good". Deepika's this word clearly makes her a legend. I was also delusional in past😅

@mrperfect3197 Год назад

Guys just don't get married, you will regret forever Don't believe in romantic movies🤠

@PRidzy 2 года назад

This was one of the best things I heard about relationships. Irrespective of a man or a woman's perspective

@raavanshivaa5243 Год назад

Hey Ranveer...thanks bruv. Your work and the kind of things you're bringing to us...its social service, brother. God will bless u in Infinite ways.

@sadikazam 2 года назад

No dating is the worst idea of all Get to know ur self first And know what u want and u can look for someone who matches with it Dating and living in before marriage is the most stupid idea

@preetsuri5604 2 года назад

I agree dating is a waste of time and money. Rather do hook ups

@upscworld8474 2 года назад

Bhai aapke to persnal law jindabad aap tension mat lo

@sanjayshorey4225 Год назад

Bhai tumhare Islam me to kulle langde ko bhi 2-3 aaraam se mil jaati hai. Tum mast raho. Hamare Hinduo me ladkiyo ke nakhre hai ab. Jitna freedom hai girls ko utna hi headache bhi.

@GoodSoul2050 Год назад

I am 20 yrs older than you but I agree with all conversation ….. hats off …. GOD Bless ❤❤❤

@vidhya4131 6 месяцев назад

I like the way she has been so precise with what kind of conversations couples need to have before getting married. Really enjoyed the show.

@rathwayash9203 2 года назад

Thanks Very Informative For Tennagers And Youngster's

@chiccharipidugulu1692 10 месяцев назад

Life is so unpredictable so you cannot ask all kinds of questions before marriage, only thing need to check is their family and values, how they are brought up, talk to friends

@KingKhan-123 2 года назад

Men aren't less emotional. Men have greater self control because of the training since childhood. Of course it can sometimes become too much in an unhealthy way.

@user-mv9tg4fe1f Год назад

but women tend to pretend even more about their emotions and desires

@sunnythakur6342 Год назад

That's why they suffer from heart attack

@amishrawat9753 Год назад

@@user-mv9tg4fe1f data says otherwise.

@user-mv9tg4fe1f Год назад

@@amishrawat9753 Even if such data exists, it pretentious.

@priyarajan5748 Год назад

Still in our society saying All Women are good human,they will do no any mistake.. I heard many times in my town.

@MySonu17 Год назад

But in metro cities many says that only few womens are good

@herculean6748 Год назад

No one told me this that DATE WHEN YOU ARE YOUNGER, I’m really agree with this we get to know what we want and what we do not want from relationship And I haven’t thought of dating as well, maybe because in my mind it was fed that it is not good, so I stayed away from dating/relationship It is so sad that I got to know at this point 😔

@kdjoshi726 9 месяцев назад

I dated. And I suffered. Welp atleast Ik now that I need to improve on my communication. And actions. But I did realized that dating isn't for me I really need a long term relationship. Also I usually try to be myself when it comes to dating, maybe that's what pushes people back? Idk

@ugenderr4913 2 года назад

I respect you a lot Ranveer... BUT... Please wear some Pants, Let the guest speak more... If u already have answers, make a Solo Podcast...

@bharatnaidu4785 2 года назад

Finally someone called this out!

@shravanburagapu8364 2 года назад

Very true man! And he also generalizes everything based on his experience and talks less about the reality without being prejudiced.

@johnydesparado123 2 года назад

i agree with the second part but what is the pant part ? god ! grow up

@akashmishramgtow2361 2 года назад

Pants? He'd wear what he wants

@amishrawat9753 Год назад

Pants? Why bro I mean let him be what he is

@jackwonder7799 7 месяцев назад

Not against women but the ultimate reality is only women, children and pets are loved unconditionally men will have many conditions to get love😢

@chetanj257 11 месяцев назад

I know an instance where a guy asked very specific question about living with parents. She said yes in their first meeting. When the wedding date got closer. She changed her words, her argument was " his parents are not educated", "I didn't mean right after marriage" and etc. 2 years after marriage still parents are living separate in their old middle class house. So the point "women knows what they want" is right but they don't want to face the difficulties or challenges and they lack integrity just like men as well. Men or women, integrity and living up to your words is crucial for relationship.

@alkasoli4002 8 месяцев назад

During dating time, everyone will show their impressive part... your real picture comes only after marriage

@sweety2913 2 года назад

When is the full session getting uploaded. Need more such talks

@rajuharry 2 года назад

There is Formula & it starts with Understanding & Staying Calm !

@alkasoli4002 8 месяцев назад

Never lie .. make that as a condition...then only trust will grow within a relationship Give importance to open talk without hesitation... Have patience and be a good listener..both of them should be like that It takes time to know one's character

@Abhishekyadav-gf9dx Год назад

I really want her to walk the talk. 1. A women checklist of 100 boxes to see/expect in men is considered having standards but if a men expect his wife to cook he is considered sexist, narrow minded. 2. How can you meet all your questions in one person even when you ask them before marriage. He/she will say yes to some questions and no to some and even then some choices, likings will change with time.

@kumaramrania8889 Год назад

Life always surprise to both. Whatever clarity you make with partner, it changes time to time and how life goes. You cant say men are not emotional.

@sadhak36990 11 месяцев назад

This I did in my marriage. And always advise my siblings and others to follow this. Be clear with each other about each other expectations before getting into marriage.

@amitsardar4151 2 года назад

Being spiritual will really important to your mind & other person as well as their mind

@rajeshwarivasandani8305 Год назад

Spiritual =brahmacharya start of the problem

@HRHKamal Год назад

She's very right. One needs to lay it all out *before* marrying . If there are major differences in expectations, it's better to step back. But despite all such efforts, problems can occur after marriage. Chahe jitna bhi pehle dialogue kar lo, there is always the lottery factor. Make all efforts to resolve differences. misunderstandings, but if major issues remain , its better to end things, cordially if possible. Its very important to be be fully aware when the relationship has no happy future rather than continue & live in misery. And, wait till the relationship has settled down before having a child.

@prakashmallhotra6729 2 года назад

I really like your podcast . The guest are always somebody very incredible and have great knowledge of particular aspect . Related problems and their solutions. . You do fantastic work . Your podcast are really amazing

@UtkarshSingh_gt7 Год назад

I'm very grateful for my partner. For we have already discussed these questions in our first year of our relationship itself.

@ad8128 Год назад

But still be careful my brother. She might change her colours in ur bad times... I never trust women...after everything they did with me. Plz be safe my brother 🙏

@sidindian1982 Год назад

Bhai trust a snake 🐍 not a materialistic lady 😲😲😲😲😲😲😲

@anjali7926 Год назад

All relationships cannot be stereotyped. And everything cannot be planned on paper when it comes to human relationships. People evolve, and relationships also evolve. The baseline is to be self aware. When a person is aware of their own patterns and behavior, it's easier to understand others. But when they're not aware of themselves, it becomes difficult to understand others. At the end of the day, a marriage works only because 2 people refuse to give up on each other and they have the conviction to make things work. Choosing the right person depends on our own energy at any given point.

@akhileshsaxena9499 10 месяцев назад

Completely agree 👍

@sreyanshuchaterjee3962 6 месяцев назад

All these words are fine, but the legal system makes it impossible for a man to breathe if the woman wishes to. I dread the day a man stands nothing to lose and will take drastic measures.

@vasudevsarvam6912 4 месяца назад

@@sreyanshuchaterjee3962 You are operating from a place of fear. One should strive to operate from place of love and compassion. Also, start making personal relationship with God. "ONLY GOD" actually loves us, no matter what. And the good thing is, he has everything in control. Trust amd surrender. Let go.

@sreyanshuchaterjee3962 4 месяца назад

@@vasudevsarvam6912 it's not fear. It's about devoid of emotions and operate like scorched earth. Not all men grow up with the luxury of ease but a legacy of suffering just to keep things going. To be treated as a wallet and a means of social mobility, only to be destroyed over the whim and fancy of a woman, does permanent character change in a person. At such a step a man stops caring anymore. A society where men don't care about consequences is what you get in present day Afghanistan.

@deepikashrivastava2098 2 года назад

What she said was just COMMON SENSE!

@KingKhan-123 2 года назад

Most people lack it.

@deepikaguunti Год назад

Communication is a very very very important thing in any relationship.. So we need to talk about things instead of assuming that she or he will do as you want... Might not be all but most of the problems might be solved just like that...

@sanchitavaish28 Год назад

What’s said in podcast is absolutely correct but while sitting on the negotiation marriage table, one should not be putting too many straight questions about life after marriage, rather, the partners should judge the mind set of the other partner as in whether the partner is open minded, flexible, dynamic, is respectful etc. because with time people and their choices evolve. What was agreed before marriage might not be adhered to after marriage due to changes in circumstances and it can then become a point of clash. I would have just one advise for people getting into a marriage… Just have an open mind for your partner, respect them always, show some love and a lot of care❤️ Genuine Love and Care can only lead to everlasting happy marriages not formulas and rules! From a Happily Married Person 😊

@axelashu 2 года назад

I think...many many times..ppl don't exactly know what they want... like they aren't lying... just clueless about what they want.. who they are.. I have found we ourselves don't often want to live with the consequences of the life that we have chosen!

@anubhaaggarwal1409 Год назад

Superb podcast sir.... I learnt a lot...

@suchitrakambi7192 Год назад

RANVEER..very good..plz make extended episode of this podcast...lot of emotional well being is at stake right now , may it be of man or woman..this episode is like education pre-marriage , which everyone needs

@akshaytawar1294 Год назад

Dating multiple people when u r teenager , means u r killing the tendency of staying loyal to one partner from childhood itself . Also , Means u r dating people not to be with them for love but to know how can a gender behave in future . So u r from day 1 having something in mind that this person is just a tissue paper or a timepaas . Even in friendship all what they r saying can b learnt , one need not date and play with someone's emotions.

@jayeshchakravarty5379 Год назад

Agree with you brother but nowadays mostly girls only don't want serious relationships. That's where the term nibba nibbi 😂 came in. At this stage when they have not understood life, how will they understand love? For them love is just physical intimacy.

@akshaytawar1294 Год назад

@@jayeshchakravarty5379 parents are to be blamed here that when a child becomes teenage parents are supposed to teach them things more important than just bookish knowledge and make them humans than just ATM machines ... I don't know what has happened to people, if we say child is a naive but are the parents also naive....

@tushar5332 Год назад

True 👍

@dnihalanis Год назад

Thanks for bringing up deepika mam' here, only unbiased lady and have so much of insights of the actual problem in society. I believe she should hold a place in politics and should get power to rectify the system and take country to the right direction.

@Veej77 2 года назад

I'm thankful I'm not married and don't plan to be married via a contract for life. I'm open to a live in relationship which suits both parties and this way we are truly truthful in the day-to-day relationship.

@ROMI909 Год назад

Yeah. Great idea till you're young enough and your needs have not changed/evolved. We validate our present needs but future will be one day a present too.

@Veej77 Год назад

@@ROMI909 The future is a paradox. Only the present moment is real. With meditation; if you persevere, life will take care of future life 😉😊

@aena5995 Год назад

@@Veej77 idk if I want a kid but the whole biological clock thing is crazy

@aditya-ml6km 8 месяцев назад

Live-in relationships = marriage Many matrimonial laws such as DV, Crpc 125 are applicable to live-in relationships. Plus, a girl can also charge you with rape and a false promise to marry. LOL Are you self aware?

@Veej77 8 месяцев назад

@aditya-ml6km ok, I'll pass on the live-in relationship. 😎

@IceQeen1011 Год назад

Great points! Create a safe environment as well-sometimes parents give untold pressure to get married and girls chose to say yes despite feeling like saying no. This is not a man's responsibility BUT unfortunately both people do not benefit from this interference by parents

@cd6602 2 года назад

These i learnt over the years.. though as a woman and being a high achiever i keep rather overtly demanding things bt that helps me avoid wasting time on ppl with whom there is no future so to say.. in the end we have so much time only..

@STP191 Год назад

Good points you mentioned it is important for both the person to discuss and then decide you want to be together

@rahul_yt615 7 месяцев назад

I completely agree with her ...even i always undertake everything in a practical and analytical way but when it comes to relationships of any kind with anyone I do let my emotions take the best of me....that's like my biggest weakness...drop a like if u have the same situation as mine👍👍

@EsoteriaHealing 2 года назад

apart from learning all this, please develop your intuition. it helps you navigate not just people but also other situations in a better way. I chose my partner intuitively and he is the best(he has his dark side too but we take responsibility and work together on improving ourselves). To an outsider, he wasn't even 5/10th of an ideal partner. I make all decisions in my life intuitively and I am very happy with what I have built.

@dhruvbhatia5737 2 года назад

How to do it

@sacchaSanatani459 Год назад

@@dhruvbhatia5737 its stupidity

@ad8128 Год назад

How to choose girl for marriage ? Plz sis help.

@EsoteriaHealing Год назад

@@ad8128 Can't tell you in a comment except that Focus on yourself, you meet people who treat you as you treat yourself. So treat yourself as you want to be treated and you will recognize a similar person when they come. It will feel like home with them.

@ankitmohapatra 2 года назад

It's about the evolution of the culture. More people are adapting the western culture , the hook up culture and they're thinking it's cool. They're thinking having multiple partners is cool, they're thinking cheating is cool. So many people end up destroying their relationship and regret later.

@wbcsexammentorship 2 года назад

Exactly my thoughts

@Himanshu_K17 2 года назад

Spot on! And, it's not just "Western culture" it's the movies and "Woke Virus" of people which made it so. As a relationship is a trend for people nowadays, they get influenced by Social media personalities & celebs, then try to follow their principles of life. Which makes it difficult for them. However, most people in India think, "in the west, it is normal to have hookups" tbh, it is to a very large extent. But, in many parts where Orthodox Christians live, it's a "NO" from them on these things too.

@chakravartin369 Год назад

Let's take sanyas together bro !

@ROMI909 Год назад

Date for (1 - 5+ years) and check if the person is right for you, with time we change, now at the end of that dating period we start doubting the "compatibility" and other shit, break up, find another one, date, this time we get married, after marriage when it takes real work to make it work, one or both chicken out, divorce and cycle goes on. How stupid waste of time. Hold hands and never leave, accept the person with their fault. Live a sweet and sour life, nothing is linear. It all takes commitment and lowering the expectations.

@chakravartin369 Год назад

@@ROMI909 but in this materialistic and intolerant world who is going to tolerate ? all are just running behind money and comfort. they divorce people to stay in peace for future but regret it later.

@rath_says1368 Год назад

This mam has always been taking a great initiative for us middle class innocent victims of *Violence from WOMENS*

@kanchi4568 Год назад

Great 👍.... It's never a men and women it's only about right or wrong which could be done by anyone just fight back

@tabtn6844 Год назад

Honestly upfront conversations don't help always. I had those conversations before marriage many times to get the assurance from the other person. The other person lied then outright and after marriage she turned into a very different person, a person that I don't know even. She wanted to get married to leave her job because her family didn't want her to leave job prior to marriage. Her family was the real culprit who just wanted to move out the problem from their life and now I am completely ruined.

@krish7109 2 года назад

Answers/perceptions/understandings/realisations/pressure/stress/ responsibilities/moods/ age/energy/frequency/vibration/time/beliefs.. everything changes with time even the time itself changes. You can ask several questions to understand the opposite person but the real question is will the answers remain same with time? Today i may like swimming tomorrow i may like painting. In my opinion no question or answer can validate one's true unchanged nature. In this case i would prefer to look for a spiritually awaken soul who knows nothing is forever.. and beyond mind, body, sensory perceptions, beliefs, dogma, fear, greed, right, wrong. Finding such personalities is going to be super hard but not impossible. Way to find such personalities is to join premium authentic spiritual groups or institutions to meet alike personalities.

@ad8128 Год назад

How to choose a girl for marriage ? Plz bro help

@Seedhe-Saadhe-Akshay-Akshay Месяц назад

People like Deepika are like a ray of hope for many suffering men out there and I am glad she's stood by and supported so many of them, Kudos to her spirit, and I also appreciate all her open point of views and helping men have clear directives of do's and dont's one needs to keep in mind before committing to any relationships to avoid long term issues later on, Deepika , Lots of respect to you.

@redguitarwarrior2179 2 года назад

for all the problems mentioned in this video: read the following books 1) "The Rational male" series by Rollo Tommassi. 2) "The Red pill handbook". 3) "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Dr. Robert Glover. 4) "The Ape that understood the Universe" by Steve Stewart-Williams 5) "Models" by Mark Manson 6) "The way of superior man" by David Deida

@psaiprateek1417 2 года назад

2nd one is most important

@redguitarwarrior2179 2 года назад

@@psaiprateek1417 true👍

@sumitsaurabh1137 2 года назад

yahi t issue h, u guys live in an Indian setting yet rely on western thought. 🤦‍♂️

@terencedsouza2885 2 года назад

@@sumitsaurabh1137 woman psychology is same everywhere

@thecontrarycontrarian4230 2 года назад

Lots of books on the fraud of feminism

@christopherjohn9074 5 месяцев назад

Just ask a girl if she knows to cook ...all your doubts will be answered 🤘

@kayan651 Год назад

How many questions ask your partner before marriage. Nothing will change your fate. We all are chosen to suffer unique and extraordinary fate. So Don't worry.

@handworks6477 9 месяцев назад

Well said ❤

@Mulmulmist 2 года назад

Never ever neglect red flags.

@moistkitty8081 Год назад

marriage can be the best or the worst thing a person can do in their lifetime

@adityabatman26 Год назад

Hey Ranveer, one question if you can circle back with, what if despite all the important conversations before marriage but ambitions and expectations change after marriage? Things and people change with time right!

@aajaykapoor Год назад

Don’t just have conversations, the key is to observe and understand the actions as actions speak louder, much louder than words. As human beings we have evolved in a way where speech is manipulated sense but the actions are still are true

@siddharthagupta3754 6 месяцев назад

@@aajaykapoor Wise comment. As goes the saying "Words are cheap"

@carrad123456 4 месяца назад

16 to 25 learn your own mind. Then once you wanna marry , make your other side to go through same if they haven’t. People going in relationship should have ability to analyse their own actions, thoughts, emotions from a third person perspective. Get horoscopes checked!! They also throw some light on personalities.

@prachisharma6353 2 года назад

this is a serious talk totally agree with her🙂

@magicalworld8360 Год назад

all the best for our man i am with u with all respect and love ❤❤ stay strong always💪💪

@dvine3488 Год назад

there is a difference between being less emotional and showing less of your emotions

@nihalmohandas8788 10 месяцев назад

Marriage is a big gamble for both men and women. But always check if their actions match their words. And how they treat people around. Never rush into any relationship or marriage. Give it a couple of months.

@poojabhogle9059 2 года назад

Thank you for posting this one 🙌❤️💯

@vipinbadge-ut7uk 5 месяцев назад

For guys don't forget to ask her about past because it can give you an idea about her personality and loyalty as well. You can ask questions like - How many affairs did you have in past? Have you ever involved in sexual relationship? Why did you left those guys and not selected them for marrying? Are you marrying me for money? Will you left me for someone else if you get someone better after marrying? Will you cheat me and ask me for compensation despite of knowing that it was your(her) fault to end the relationship and marriage?

@meghanarora4136 Месяц назад

Do u really anyone with bad intentions will answer these questions honestly?? I have seen multiple women getting stuck in marriages with men who lied and faked promises. 'We will live separately, will help and support u in household maintenance, will treat with respect' all these are just lies men casually say. So only marry if you have a girlfriend/boyfriend already. Otherwise don't get into arranged marriage

@dineshbugalia7297 Год назад

First thing and last thing..."There are no rules to establish a good relationship". Rest all is Moh-Maya. One need to keep evaluating n evolving whichever way it leads... Trust me, that's the best thing to happen in the end.

@sinshu5269 Год назад

The problem is not that a man wants to support his parents in oldage & stuff. The problem is that a woman's in-laws treat her like outsiders most of the time & still expects every physical labour and house chores from her and not their son. Women know this situation very well & so they mostly want not to stay with her in-laws

@TheMrchillz Год назад

That's one aspect and not general assumption

@kabirsingh9028 Год назад

If she is a housewife , why not ?

@Fashionblogger247 Год назад

@@kabirsingh9028 means you want a maid disguised as housewife?

@kabirsingh9028 Год назад

@@Fashionblogger247 and you want a free atm disguised as a man ?

@Fashionblogger247 Год назад

@@kabirsingh9028 I didn’t put across my opinion. On what basis you are asking me that question? Have the guts to answer the raised questions when you put your OPINION on the table. Be answerable rather than just being opinionated. Question for a question doesn’t work , sir

@11godstar Год назад

This is eye opening points, each and every man and women should talk and think this way.

@suyashsingh9456 Год назад

Most of the times everything was made clear before marriage, but after marriage anyone can make a U- turn, there is no estoppel.

@abhishektd2010 Год назад

Awesome content. Thanks Ranveer for bringing such quality content to us. This is really very informative and eye opening for many of us. Keep up the good work and wish you all the best.

@sumihazarika2060 2 года назад

Marriage doesn't guarantee happiness & getting married at a young age don't guarantee happiness at all....

@nidhiluniya6206 9 месяцев назад

This is one of the first sensible podcast I came across of yours Ranveer

@rajeshwarivasandani8305 Год назад

My experience i am the index like my mother, my husband is the index like his mother, it's not just about me and my mother the lineage trail counts. Most children behave like their mothers. But marriage is not just of two souls bur two families. One cannot ignore the families