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@dipu12341 5 месяцев назад

Thats why there was a gotra system in sanatan dharma .. never marry in same gotra.

@rutajit2000 5 месяцев назад

The gotra system is patrilineal, meaning the daughter's children are not the same gotra as the maternal grandfather. This is the issue Dr. Pal was referring to, he and his wife are actually closely related but would not be of the same gotra.

@gnaneshwarrao174 5 месяцев назад

Did someone tell you that is why we have Gotra system? Or did you come to that conclusion by yourself? I wish it is that easy to generalize the problem and solution.

@akhilmvs387 5 месяцев назад

@@rutajit2000 even then also, cousin marriages are prohibited, south does follow in certain remote locations rather than the norm. But not all communities. Gotra maybe patrilinear, but these all factorsmust be taken into consideration.

@dollysingh727 5 месяцев назад

True

@saicharaniitkgp 5 месяцев назад

You are right dipu but people not only see the gotra of the person they are marrying we also look into their mother's paternal side gotra so we avoid the chances of these things happening

@DrPal 5 месяцев назад

Thank you for all the love & support to our family. We are blessed 🙏🙏

@sudarmathikajandran8922 5 месяцев назад

Hi Dr Pal I love watching your videos because they're both funny and insightful. Seeing this side of you, Doc, was a pleasant surprise. Thanks for sharing. Sending lots of love to you and your wife.

@thikthik3629 5 месяцев назад

Sir neenga verum pala illa puti palla

@bow-bow7083 5 месяцев назад

Love from Tirupur sundari😂❤

@sreelakshmisreekumar2015 5 месяцев назад

Glad to see you here Dr. Your subscriber❤

@NoName-lx7bd 5 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing the personal story. My heart was aching when you paused and grieving for the lost babies. I pray for your healing and your wife's healing. You are one good soul doctor. God bless you.

@throughmyview8411 5 месяцев назад

Huge respect for him because way he said “we” had seven miscarriages and when “we” got pregnant, is something to be appreciated in him as a man.

@krish21456 5 месяцев назад

thum log idar bhi aagaye kya 🤦‍♀. Whats the big deal even if he said her instead of we? Do you really think he would be an abusive father/husband? Such narrow minded people trying to find faults with everything.

@AlexanderIsDead 5 месяцев назад

@@krish21456 Well said, buddy. These mindless emotional fools are everywhere. The sensible and rational world as we know it ended long ago.

@heroshe7786 5 месяцев назад

Here we means our community or like country not like some non sense of men can be pregnent. Just clearing it because it's not uncommon of having some rich kids with mental issues while understanding about the comman sense.

@throughmyview8411 5 месяцев назад

@@krish21456 Makes a lot of difference to a wife whose husband supports her in her time of losing an unborn child. I had two miscarriages and you can’t even imagine how much I was targeted by my MIL and there was practically no emotion support.

@slimshady8168 5 месяцев назад

Cringe

@ttaushu 5 месяцев назад

A note to TRS. It's not arrange marriage that is an issue. It is marrying in your own family. Nowhere did he say arrange marriage. I think if you marry in totally unrelated families, you should be fine.

@shashankmish 5 месяцев назад

I think the reason that mostly "arranged marriage" has this issue is because people mostly tend to ask their distant relatives whether they know someone who is gonna be compatible for a marriage and overall if you see there is a high probability that they belong to the same community. This can happen in love marriages too but the chances may be lower

@indieboy1033 5 месяцев назад

Most important comment here.👋

@akashtn6682 5 месяцев назад

Clickbait hai bhai

@song-mk6dz 5 месяцев назад

Exactly😊

@SR-mv2mf 5 месяцев назад

It’s for click bait

@bhavyasethi8247 5 месяцев назад

7 miscarriages🥺🥺 can't believe the pain faced by the both of you

@vijayrangarajanramakrishna318 5 месяцев назад

Ikr😢😢

@GURJARumeshkasana 5 месяцев назад

Thank god we in North have a better gotra system

@ankansenapati3600 5 месяцев назад

@@GURJARumeshkasanaabye saale gotra Mai 7-8 generation same hoga ancister

@takumiusui6667 5 месяцев назад

@@GURJARumeshkasana They also have gotra system - however matrilineal generations are not tracked properly, hence many telegu Hindus marry their maternal uncle and his family.

@GURJARumeshkasana 5 месяцев назад

@@takumiusui6667 yes bhai ...that's why I said better gotra system

@annamaangel6488 5 месяцев назад

I'm sorry I never knew Dr.pal was hiding so much pain behind his comedy and smile. Can't believe what your wife had gone through. So sorry for your loss. The pain always stays.

@realSamarthT 5 месяцев назад

What ?

@kgarodiya 5 месяцев назад

@@realSamarthT 7 miscarriages is no joke, and that too one after 6 months is insane

@realSamarthT 5 месяцев назад

@@kgarodiya omg May Shri Hari bless that lady

@kumaranvv3555 5 месяцев назад

Never thought this man had very hard time in his past, Appreciate his efforts

@sjp3765 5 месяцев назад

Now that is a real man right there, see that break and crackle in the voice when he starts speaking about his wife, that is where painful memories overwhelm you. That pause his him fighting those memories and in the end he said "people should know". He choose greater good that himself.

@sao_rav 5 месяцев назад

Dr. Pal is one of a kind of doctor in India. I respect his thought process and his way of educating people and young minds of this world.

@deepakbhuyan2467 5 месяцев назад

he lives in America !!!

@themilkywaygaming7453 5 месяцев назад

Yeah California

@deeptasuresh4434 5 месяцев назад

He’s not in India

@kirus4701 5 месяцев назад

From tamil nadu , in US

@debaprasad9379 5 месяцев назад

He is American

@kavyashree7104 5 месяцев назад

Its really true, In south india blood relation marriage is very common, even educated also doing same mistake because of parents emotional blackmail. Now younger generation are suffering from genetical problems. Plz don't do such mistake.

@usnasi4439 5 месяцев назад

In Kerala I personally haven't seen/know of anyone getting married to their relatives in the past 30 years, I see it s common in TN though till now.

@JustMe54328 5 месяцев назад

It’s declining rapidly in southern Karnataka, thanks to education.

@sai9209 5 месяцев назад

Now finally I understand the reason for asking or rather knowing the past 7 generations in our Telugu speaking states. It is commonly said to check the 7 generations of the boy's family and the same for the girl's side of the family. Intra family marriages are quite common still in Andhra Pradesh if not throughout South India, this video has been an eye opener for me at the right time, thanks to both ranveer and Dr.pal.

@thejaswitharajesh 5 месяцев назад

Throughout South India...still there are people who are going for it

@indranidutta1945 5 месяцев назад

This skipping of 7 generations in sanatana communities for choosing partners is perhaps a reflection of the most scientific temperament of our rishis and munis.

@gokulvrindavan1858 5 месяцев назад

It's true. I'm working in andhra pradesh im from karnataka. I noticed congenital and many birth defects in new born as well as many grown up.... it's quite high in andhra than in karnataka.

@preetijogi28 5 месяцев назад

It's also common in Tamil nadu, Karnataka and Kerala😢

@gokulvrindavan1858 5 месяцев назад

@@preetijogi28 not that much. People in karnataka now aware of the consequences and avoid marriage within family

@ayuship2022 5 месяцев назад

First south indian to accept this amazing doctor

@keerthiadimulam9319 5 месяцев назад

So probably you haven't met many other south indians with the same mind set. He's not the first

@Maratha382 5 месяцев назад

Definitely not the first.

@akshayganesh4144 5 месяцев назад

I am a South Indian and I suffered from epilepsy during childhood even I accepted this problem of my society years ago because I have noticed these kind of disorders have been increasing in our family all because their parents were cross cousins. I was right when I read a research paper written by a Bulgarian NGO which studied on qalachi community which came with same conclusion

@HarshitaDeshpande 5 месяцев назад

Felt the deep sense of pain Dr Pal and his wife went through when he was describing about the baby. My respect for him as increased even more for the kind of work he is doing for the benefit of society. Hats off Dr. Pal.

@alphabetagammahahaha 5 месяцев назад

Immense respect!!! To publicly discuss such a personal loss, for no personal interest whatsoever, requires huge courage. Hats off to this person. Everyone has a dark phase, but to 'not give up' is the key. Thanks Dr Pal for sharing, so that it becomes someone else's survival guide in their tough times.❤

@sumee5628 5 месяцев назад

The thing with arranged marriages in India is people look for a partner from the same caste, community, gotra etc. This has a higher chance of a problem.The further away you go from people related to u, the better the chances of healthy babies. So marrying from a completely different caste and state should be encouraged.

@MovieMatrix_11 5 месяцев назад

Not possible for everyone

@Bhakt-TheDevotee 5 месяцев назад

You are wrong about Gotra. People look for different Gotra because if you share same Gotra then you are siblings. Half knowledge is dangerous.

@sphansel3257 5 месяцев назад

ur name literally implies who you are @@Bhakt-TheDevotee

@Anshul25 5 месяцев назад

Completely wrong first priority is gotra must be not same , caste and community is secondary

@pnaikalpa 5 месяцев назад

Even in Gujrati we see seven generation and don't marry in the family having blood relation We do have gotra system Our ancestors are most brilliant and wise who created Gotra😊

@parikshithegde7477 5 месяцев назад

Just having different gotra doesn't resolve the issue of genetics. According to gotra, Dr Pal's father marrying his sister's daughter is correct since they'd be from different gotras, assuming his brother in law is from a different gotra. It's more about not sharing the same gene for as long as possible.

@shubhikapant5385 5 месяцев назад

@@parikshithegde7477not really it's different in south n north in north mostly cannot marry cousins at all different people with same gotra only allowed.

@sanjanagupta4044 5 месяцев назад

In North we don't marry within same gotra. Be it from paternal or maternal. Every family has two roots, we call it mul. Before any marriage alliance we talk about muls fr both maternal and paternal sides, if any of the mul is same we don't proceed further talks about marriage.

@aravindchandroo 5 месяцев назад

Even in the south we have the gotra system where when we marry the cross cousin we don’t share the same gotra. Muslim communities marry parallel cousins though.

@goofyguy6954 5 месяцев назад

@@sanjanagupta4044 Whats mul? Can you please educate me on this.

@mamatapandey6073 5 месяцев назад

omg the immense pain his wife must have gone through both physical and mental 😥🙏

@HumansOfUPSC-ri1nu 5 месяцев назад

So much respect to Dr Pal ❤

@user-zt2lp6hq7l 5 месяцев назад

look at the pain he is going through, dr. manikkam pal thanks for sharing this

@DurveshSawant-he4we 5 месяцев назад

The topics discussed in these channel are so different and knowledge than other channels

@xclabbergaming6298 5 месяцев назад

True❤

@seemsaw3503 5 месяцев назад

❤

@Bharatverse308 5 месяцев назад

But people still troll him

@DurveshSawant-he4we 5 месяцев назад

@@Bharatverse308 the are C

@Anand2024 5 месяцев назад

5:02 I like the way how he dealt with this pain by reaseaching to know where he went wrong Brilliant Sir 👏👏 People often get vulnerable under stress and sad moments and loose their logic and rationale congratulations sir for going through these moments strong 💯💯💯💯

@Sarahwilliams567 5 месяцев назад

Oh my god i didn't know dr pal had gone through a lot, may good bless him and keep him away from problems!

@kalaivanig1883 5 месяцев назад

Dr Pal has always conveyed his medical points with a big sense of humour. First time seeing Dr Pal ,becoming to emotional & struggling to speak. Yet, was so nice that he shared his difficult times with us. Also, a great step to educate people on a very important issue to be taken care of. Dr Pal, doctor has blessed you with a beautiful child. Enjoy.....

@anuragsargam4360 5 месяцев назад

More respect to DR pal for opening up on such a personal thing

@jainamssj 5 месяцев назад

This man is something... It's not easy to talk about personal conception on a public podcast.. more power to you dr. Pal.. and yeah I'm your subscriber as well.. From way before i subscribed to ranveer

@rutajit2000 5 месяцев назад

Dr. Niraj Rai mentioned the Vaisya and the Palar communities in South India, not the TamBrahm community. Consanguine marriages are not as common in the TamBrahm community though it does happen. In the Vaisya and Palar communities as well it is less common nowadays. It used to happen primarily for protecting and consolidating generational wealth.

@mr.objective6936 5 месяцев назад

Beautiful 1970’s actress Parveen Babi might have got issues from her Pashtun Babi clan in-breeding with each other in Gujarat to preserve their heritage. She had to quit the film industry in her prime possibly because of those issues. Also, Syrian Catholics (Christian), known as knanaya community, started off with only about 35 families who moved to Kerala in year 345 AD. from Syria. Now there may be hundreds of thousands of them in-breeding within the same gene pool to preserve their supposed “heritage ”., which wasn’t even monitored until the year 1600. Genetic problems are high among children in that community.

@srijachakraborty8099 5 месяцев назад

And Dr.rai didn't speak a word about Bengalees being inbred😢

@user_proton 5 месяцев назад

Exactly! @beerbiceps please watch your own videos before stating something from it yaar 🤦

@ruhikapoor2181 5 месяцев назад

It used to be common among tambrahms also.. please don't lie.. bro.. i have myself seen so many tambrahms marrying their own maternal uncle's daughter/son and paternal aunts daughter/son.. But now they dont do it..

@VinodKumar-oh9du 5 месяцев назад

Bottomline...marrying within the same caste amounts to incest

@boawo 5 месяцев назад

I liked your message ranveer. I always looked at any suffering from my life as part of karma, but i will look at it as you said- hopefully someone else will not have to go through it.

@supersetia 5 месяцев назад

Great insight about genetic overlap and how to avoid it and nice to see that our ancestors were already practicing it.

@animetsystudio9841 5 месяцев назад

Now I understand even though I'm Buddhist, my mum is ok with love marriage. And personally I'm very picky in choosing people in my life, so arrange marriage is nightmare for me. God has given me brains to find my ideal type especially our personality should match and we must've vibe. Otherwise Idc being single for lifetime.

@kidoman7988 5 месяцев назад

Dr Pal is awesome. I love his videos which are full of energy, positivity and messages delivered via jokes. Today i learnt about this side of his life and my respect for him only grows

@rahuldeshmukh5440 5 месяцев назад

In Marathas also the custom is there to marry sagga mama's daughter ,, they were putting preassure on my elder brother to do it but we fought against it... the girl we considered as our dear sister since childhood how can my brother or even any other brother of hers can think of marrying her... we should stop all this bullshit traditions ,, infact everyone should marry intrascaste and inter religion also.

@aGiibb 3 месяца назад

Yes my mother also thinks that it's okay to marry her brother's daughter. Me and my brother always oppose her for this thought.

@MysticEagle-ex8wu 5 месяцев назад

I agree with Dr. Pal. It still exists very much in the Nagarathar (Chettiar) community which incidentally Dr. Pal also comes from in TN. I come from that community too, no matter how much we tell elders, they are blinded by caste and marrying into the community. The genetic diseases are very rampant and I know a lot of relatives like that. It is said that all the Nagarathars originated from 7 people who escaped flood in Kaveripoompattinam and settled in Karaikudi. It cannot be hard to connect the dots for the elders who still make it impossible to marry outside the community.

@Sathish_12 5 месяцев назад

Whole world has this mythology story where 7 sages or people came and re-established civilizations after the flood

@sowmyaathanikachalam1826 5 месяцев назад

I m also from the same community . My close relatives many were suffering from male infertility problems and several other genetic problems .

@sachinkhale7513 5 месяцев назад

I studied at CECRI in Karaikudi in the 90 s. Most people are staying and working outside India in Malaysia, Indonesia and Thailand. Huge mansions of Chettiar community made of pure teakwood. Allagappa University in Karaikudi I think inaugurated by PM Nehru then.Would love to visit again sometime in the future. Beautiful area covered by forests.

@kdjoshi726 5 месяцев назад

That story sounds very similar to gotra system. Gotras being named after the saptarshis (7 rishis) & there are us, their descendents

@inspiritingmindset 5 месяцев назад

There is also this blood disorder called "Thalassaemia" major which is caused by faulty genes that a child inherits from their parents. You inherit one set gene from your mother and one from your father. That is why in India, i believe it is more important to get yourself tested for Thalassaemia before matching your Kundli. Because even now after so much of advanced technology, people and specifically some Gynaecologist here are still unaware of this blood disorder. So someone who has already gone through so much of hardships in life has to alert people and request them to please get yourself tested before getting married. Thanks for sharing this video, you are doing a wonderful job. 🙏

@lovekdrama2085 5 месяцев назад

I agree cause once my doctor suggested to get tested for thalassaemia

@anonymousop6406 5 месяцев назад

Kundli means some religious practice right.. That's some non existing thing

@inspiritingmindset 5 месяцев назад

If two people come forward to unite despite all odds and challenges, then kundli matching hardly makes any sense, but it's important to match a kundli for biological compatibility to avoid any genetic disorders/ complications. 🙏

@anonymousop6406 5 месяцев назад

@@inspiritingmindset how can a educated person talk about kundli and all.. Where are we heading as a nation..

@kdjoshi726 5 месяцев назад

@@inspiritingmindset bruh if you want to check biological compatibility then do the actual test, don't match kundli. Use some common sense yaar

@AnjaliVerma-bx6os 5 месяцев назад

Dr pal is great ❤ Thanks to Ranveer for calling him on podcast

@missfit6027 5 месяцев назад

🙏🏼🙏🏼 for sharing! Totally empathize with Dr Pal and his wife for they must have gone through! ❤

@archanabhadauria1507 5 месяцев назад

The pause that he took while speaking about his loss is so familiar to me. You can’t get over such things. May God give their strength to those who suffer this. Iam really sorry for them. Hope it never happens to anyone. 😢

@mr.objective6936 5 месяцев назад

A Syrian Catholic community, known as Knanaya, started off with about 35 families who moved to Kerala from Syria around year 345 A.D. Today, there maybe hundreds of thousands of them, all in-breeding to preserve a supposed heritage that wasn’t even recorded until year 1600. Genetic problems are frequent in that community and abortion is usually requested when they know the fetus has problems.

@JitinMisra 5 месяцев назад

That is interesting , is it considered a bad to marry outside of religion or kanyana community ? I knew some kanyana girls, they sure do like ti drink lol

@er.nitish7052 5 месяцев назад

Christians destroying Indian culture specially in Kerala

@mathai5456 5 месяцев назад

Knanaya are not just catholic. There is an orthodox faction as well. I come from the community and number of any genetic disorder is no more than any other community as far as I have witnessed in the community.

@haritham1060 5 месяцев назад

Kananaya is not only catholic they are also orthodox fraction

@anniethomas9178 5 месяцев назад

Knanaya culture is similar to Parsi community, if one marries outside their community they are considered out of the community and won’t be considered as Knanayans

@kumudadv2787 5 месяцев назад

I had 4 miscarriage, immune reasons pointed but there is no clarity. We went through all tests, but no use. Post 1st miscarriage i studied head to toe but couldn't get any solution out of it. I can completely relate to you dr. Thanks for showing up your natural emotions. I wish i could find out someday or have a healthy pregnancy n kid of mine.

@anootoshsarkar686 5 месяцев назад

That's why I Love watching Dr. Pal Manickyam, he is truly a Genuine man...❤ His blogs

@vedantjoshi1714 5 месяцев назад

Thankyou sir for sharing the experience

@shravanacharyaofficial 5 месяцев назад

can't even imagine the amount of pain this man and his wife have been through 🥺 huge respect for such a strong mindset. 🙏🏻

@logixwebmail2023 5 месяцев назад

@drpal appreciate you sharing your personal journey, it is a very brave effort and will helpful to the society

@darshdarsh886 5 месяцев назад

My respect for Dr. Pal just increased 10 folds watching this video ❤

@aimanzahid6167 5 месяцев назад

As a genetic counsellor, I can say that marrying in relation (called consanguinity) might increase your risk of having children affected with certain kind of genetic disorders that have not yet been observed in your family due to expression of "disease causing" genes that were suppressed by other normal genes. There are certain ethnic groups where certain types of genetic disorders are more prevalent as compared to the general population. However, as human beings living in a society with emotions, it can be difficult to restrict or choose your life partner based on their genetic makeup. With advancements in genetic testing which is more readily available now, options of Carrier screening is suggested to such couples before marriage or before planning for pregnancy, which detects presence of any common genetic changes that might cause development of serious genetic disorders in their progeny.

@XYZ88723 5 месяцев назад

Medical test before marriage where the bride and groom must undergo must be made compulsory.

@aimanzahid6167 5 месяцев назад

@@XYZ88723 it should be mandatory for common disorders like thalassemia and spinal muscular atrophy in high-risk population

@lsuvarna4077 5 месяцев назад

If wife and husband have a genetic problem can we overcome it by using any medication

@user-lehsun-le-garib 5 месяцев назад

@@lsuvarna4077I think we can Change/Cut/Modify gene from Embryo but it's not approved maybe a decade down the line We would be able to do that

@aimanzahid6167 3 месяца назад

@@lsuvarna4077 hi, the answer to your question isn't that simple since the treatment/medications depends upon what genetic problem does the couple have. Every genetic disorder follows a different mechanism of passing from one generation to another which is known as 'inheritance pattern'. Not all disorders can be cured, but can be managed (again depending upon the type of genetic disease you're talking about).

@DEFENDER1932 5 месяцев назад

This information is hell of a useful thing..Many people will be helped if published in NCERT books 📚

@santoshpatil9354 5 месяцев назад

We have always seen Dr smiling and with great sense of humour... First time seeing him emotional... Respect for you sir...

@sindhupradeepsr6298 5 месяцев назад

Great courage Dr Palani. God bless you n your family

@Nilakshi23 5 месяцев назад

First of all Thanks to Ranveer for bringing Dr Paul into your show, and this discussion was absolutely to the point and we are speechless.

@maanyapathak3460 5 месяцев назад

Really dr.pal is an amazing man and so much courage he has, to tell his story to educate and aware the audience...More power to you😊

@ananyasahoo671 5 месяцев назад

Never knew the doctor who educates his audience through his comical videos has gone through such tough situations in his life😢

@chaitraprabhu7804 5 месяцев назад

It was a very informative episode...loved it..please so such more episodes..😍

@mentiaier9708 5 месяцев назад

Dr pal we really appreciate you sharing your experiences for the better understanding of this topic

@geethashetty7690 5 месяцев назад

Wow what a range ,did Ranveer really get Dr Pal on his show ? 👏 👏

@mverick5444 5 месяцев назад

Finally he did something correct. Late but nonetheless welcome.

@Dragonfly108 5 месяцев назад

Good god...who cud have thought ..behind all that humour...such a challenging personal past. Whoa. Saying it again we shud cherish this channel more.

@MohitPandey012 5 месяцев назад

Thanks for sharing your story Dr Pal❤ more power to you

@surojitsengupta 5 месяцев назад

Bengalis are strict followers of the Gotra system, while some small exceptions exist. Largely, people following the practice of arranged marriages, always check on the gotra before committing.

@mverick5444 5 месяцев назад

Bengalis are quite liberal and marry intercaste as well

@harshagrawal1056 5 месяцев назад

We marwadis also follow the gotra system strictly

@mverick5444 5 месяцев назад

@@harshagrawal1056 yes but not intercaste

@goofyguy6954 5 месяцев назад

@@harshagrawal1056 Didn't he mentioned agrawal's who marry in their community only.

@harshagrawal1056 5 месяцев назад

@@goofyguy6954 but we marry into different gotras. You can be from the same community or caste but gotra should be different

@rosanilebron1566 5 месяцев назад

Very interesting topic! Genetics is fascinating for me. I think if only we knew our own genetics in depth, we could make better decisions regarding our overall physical and mental health. Nature knows it better than us, and that "filter" is there, for the human race to be balanced and stronger. I feel we know so little about so many things...

@mcorilla 5 месяцев назад

Dr Pal has a good heart to share this with others so we’ll be informed about how this happens.

@akshaybawal007 5 месяцев назад

Really appriciate you opening up doc. Your experience will work as a guiding light for others. God bless you and your family :)

@Anto_Vlogs_1997 5 месяцев назад

Really a great interview with Doctor Pal . Thank you Ranveer. ❤ from Tamilnadu.

@Iamlucifeerrr 5 месяцев назад

That's in my community we have gotra system, we usually marry a marwadi partner only but different gotra is mandatory, maybe beacuse of this reason.

@ravaladitya6782 5 месяцев назад

Agarwal caste has same genetic issue which is most prevalent.

@kavithachidambaranathan5870 5 месяцев назад

Eye opening conversation u and dr.pal... simply great... thank u dr.pal for better understanding for not get marriage in same genetics...which makes this issues for next generation...

@balam7594 5 месяцев назад

Applause To Dr.Pal & Ranveer of course.... Right Questions & Responded rightly as a doctor & youtuber

@deepalazarus2399 5 месяцев назад

These kind of marriages within the family are still prevalent in many states of India. Hope this video can go viral to educate the seniors who are responsible for this.

@malathicotelingam9235 5 месяцев назад

Even totally unrelated marriages like mine turned out that we had a genetic probability of having Thallasemia Major child who is dependent on blood transfusion every 3rd week all their life and costly iron chelation treatment every day.

@arshjordan5455 5 месяцев назад

This isn't arranged marriage issue rather a regional cultural issue. In my region we don't marry in same Gotra let alone marrying in family.

@geetanjali.sp.singh0515 5 месяцев назад

Fabulous topic and knowledge sharing

@kishanpurohit2145 5 месяцев назад

Good content. Only suggestion is that title is little confusing. I think it would have been even helpful if you can bring someone to discuss on our Gotra system which was essentially to avoid such issues. I think its very interesting how old systems had logic.

@shrikanyaghatak 5 месяцев назад

Bengalis don't marry within same gotra. Bengalis are the only community where marrying outside the state and country is welcomed.

@ITAngelYT 5 месяцев назад

They do. Muslims Bengalis in West Bengal and Bangladesh do it all the time.

@Together.we.grow.better 5 месяцев назад

@@ITAngelYT how u can say this? I guess you are Bengali Muslim or Bangladeshi. 😮

@ITAngelYT 5 месяцев назад

@@Together.we.grow.better Common sense? Hello? Indian Muslims marry their cousins all the time. In South India, an uncle even can marry a niece (Hindu marriage).

@Together.we.grow.better 5 месяцев назад

@@ITAngelYT then why to say to Bengalis 😂 then? Even ranveer wasn't confirmed.

@ITAngelYT 5 месяцев назад

@@Together.we.grow.better Cause you commented saying "Bengalis don't marry within same gotra" which is FALSE.

@Anand2024 5 месяцев назад

2:30 O my god I am sorry Sir you had to go through a lot of pain May God 🙏🙏 help you survive this pain

@uday9412 3 месяца назад

Thank You Very much Dr. Manikam I thank you Very much for sharing your story and creating awareness about the serious issues

@lailasiddiqui263 5 месяцев назад

you spared me in going researching. Thanks Dr. Pal.

@akshayganesh4144 5 месяцев назад

I am from South Indian Brahmin community from Karnataka we often marry inside the community. In fact, this has led to many genetic and neurological disorders in kids and elderly who are suffering with epilepsy, autism ( kids ) and dementia, Alzheimer’s and parkinson among the elderly

@goofyguy6954 5 месяцев назад

Don't you guys follow Gotra system in south?

@adghat7819 5 месяцев назад

@@goofyguy6954 Gotra system is not accurate, because it in 7 generations everyone will be related.

@JustMe54328 5 месяцев назад

I’m from Karnataka too and this generation of Brahmins are actually considering marrying outside the sub-caste which is a good thing. For eg - a sanketi person married a hubli madhva girl through an arranged marriage. My best friend is havyaka n she married a Karanth. So this generation is quite aware of genetic problems. And yes, inter-caste weddings do happen but in case of self-selected match, not much via arranged marriage.

@PKSD2019 5 месяцев назад

Yes. There is a community of vaishyas..they have lost a gene which responds to anesthesia. Doctors in my region ( andhra ) specifically ask the caste...to know if anesthesia works on him or not. Its bcoz of too much in breeding within caste. In many cases of arranged marriage, parents often try to find potential brides among close relatives. In my own family, i have seen multiple cases where partners shared a common ancestor some 3-4 generations back. Gotra system is actually very scientific. It prevents recessive disorders. But u get gotra only from father...but genes from both father and mother. If intra caste marriages happen for few more hundred years, younger generation will have to face lot of health issues. There must be genetic diversity. 2 healthy distinct genetics create a healthy, stronger, resilient child. In puranas we happen to see people marrying outside their community. And they produced offsprings of exceptional knowledge or strength.

@bucketlist7419 5 месяцев назад

I love Dr. Pal one of my fav docs, a gastro endrologist, who makes very informative videos.

@matheshbs 3 месяца назад

It's really use for everybody life thing. Keep it and Latest updates ...😊

@anilkumarkoppanati1250 5 месяцев назад

Both persons are great and good knowledge

@gaurav2k 5 месяцев назад

Dr pal ❤..ur a good man.. love your videos

@medico151 3 месяца назад

Ranveer, u doing such good work ❤ thnku

@manjunathnarayanaswamy3360 5 месяцев назад

Very good explanation by Dr. Thats the reason our ancestors follows check 7 generation on either side do check gotras, if same gotra of boys not matching with paternal and maternal side of girl , definitely the issues will not be arise, due to many unforseen conditions leads to marriage with in families which leads to this kind of issues

@harishsharma172 5 месяцев назад

7 big losses & still his laugh is so bright Positivity 👏🏻👏🏻

@drhouse392 5 месяцев назад

Marriages were arranged with utmost care in previous times But now only lust and greed overpowers and creates problems!!!

@drsandhyathumsikumar4479 5 месяцев назад

Very heartfelt..pain metabolisedto wisdom

@21.diyamajumdar2 5 месяцев назад

This is really so tough, when a still birth at that stage or advanced happens, for the whole family. U need to be real brave to speak about it!

@catchcs 5 месяцев назад

That’s why we check Gotra and verify seven generations to make sure no birth defects during marriage proposal. When people stopped following Gotra then we run into these issues. This is how our people prevented mixup

@iiTzKaran_YT 5 месяцев назад

The mental gymnastics involved in Gotra is stupid, just get your genetics checked now

@saketkumar4972 3 месяца назад

@@iiTzKaran_YT😂😂, i would like to know more about this gotra system people are talking about

@BhaaratMaataaKiJay 5 месяцев назад

Marrying in the same community and close blood relative may lead to miscarriages, specially challenged children, children with severe genetical diseases.. I have few relatives who are facing these problems.. Marrying in the same community, which are not related is an excellent choice..

@kesharservices4732 5 месяцев назад

Lekin jaat paat khtm honeka naam hi nahi le rha 😢

@BhaaratMaataaKiJay 5 месяцев назад

@@kesharservices4732 Apna apna jaat sambhalna sabke liye behtar hoga..

@harshitsingh12977 5 месяцев назад

same varna and gotra me problem hai same jati me nhi

@kesharservices4732 5 месяцев назад

@@BhaaratMaataaKiJay kese reference dijiye jaat kya hai ?? Jaat Jesi koi chiz hamare dharam me hai hi nahi agar aap jaante ho to reference dijiye...

@kesharservices4732 5 месяцев назад

@@harshitsingh12977 jaat kya hai ? Hamare dharam me to iska ullekh nahi hai aap dikha dijiye kidhar hai reference dijiye ye sab angrezo ki den hai ..

@YogaBhakti515 5 месяцев назад

U r doing a great job Ranveer! .. Keep it up.

@drmamtamishra6424 5 месяцев назад

Dear sir thank you very much for this wonderful presentation. Its amazing that in Ayurveda already it's really told that Atulgotriya should be seen before marriage and in Veda Upanishads vivid description is given.we are doing preconception as well as premarital counseling also for better progeny Supraja uttam santan..

@user-fq5xb4pb8t 5 месяцев назад

You are always smiling in your videos...never thought that you had such a dark history...More respect and love to dr pal n his family...may God bless you.

@shobhitanand945 5 месяцев назад

Very informative vedio, I am myself witness many kids during my rural posting,(I was posted in rural village of south delhi Primary health centre )and feel sad about them, when ever I asked them "apki shaadi ristedari main hui hai "(are you married in your close realtives or (cusion )in same community )the answer was always yes.Genes are important aspect... Hope we will have pre marital councelling services in our country, one day so that we can teach our masses... Shaadi se phele kundali ke sath sath medical & genetic report bhi milani chaiye 😅😅.... Hum same caste /religion /community toh match kar ke social compatibility toh check kar lete hai, ab humme blood sample se medical compatibility bhi check karani chaiye... Genes bhi aur diseases bhi... Like HIV, VDRL, HbAsg...etc....Desh ke Yuvao ko payar ke liye(Shaadi ) ke liye khoon dena (blood sample ) chaiye 😅😅.

@spanduntm8615 5 месяцев назад

Very Happy To See Dr Pal on your show, GG Ranveer❤

@gamechanger18jan 5 месяцев назад

Salute sir....also beerbiceips team

@Henry23487 5 месяцев назад

A note to TRS - not knowing the genome can happen in any marriage not just arrange marriage . On the contrary arrange marriage ensures we marry outside our gotra minimising the risk of having deformities and within the caste maximizing the benifits of strengths within the caste .

@ArthurJamesReal 5 месяцев назад

After Hearing this my belief for Gotra in Our Culture has increases

@td_2403 5 месяцев назад

not just clips but the entires shows you upload, are to my liking because of the knowledge being shared here

@tara7206 5 месяцев назад

Thank you for sharing Dr. Pal.

@TECHSPERT__ 5 месяцев назад

Never in, even in my dreams, I thought behind this smile and energetic presentation there are lots of pain you suffering... Love you bro dr.pal

@PKSD2019 5 месяцев назад

Our ancestors were really scientific related to this. There are references in puranas where distinct, healthy people gave birth to stronger,more resilient kids. They followed gotra. Not caste. Caste came later and it became soo rigid. Marriages in ancient India were based on varna and gotra...and not caste. They checked genetics through gotra ( 7 generation...bcoz after 7 generations , its affect will be almost 0 - concept of inbreeding depression and gene frequency ) They checked mutual compatibility by varna ( it was based on gunas, nature, temperament ). Now we are idiots who are marrying within families, within caste ( most irrelevant thing in this era ), and we frown upon people who truly love each other and are completely genetically distinct. Actually they deserve to get married happily, but society condemns that.

@priyanshisrivastava6551 5 месяцев назад

True

@Loveandlight428 5 месяцев назад

Very true

@poojasingare3412 5 месяцев назад

Agree with you...each word of what u wrote is 100 true..but now adays caste system has become so rigid n strong in India...on seeing this video...I am happy that I got married into a different caste totally...n it is an arrange marriage ...but still hv to hear from my mother in law about being from different caste.... But somewhere down in my heart ..I feel happy 😊