Before Your FALL IN LOVE With The Wrong Person, WATCH THIS! | Jay Shetty 

Just because they're smiling at you and having good times with you doesn't mean they're happy for you.

The woman who was getting married trusted her friend and look at how she repaid her ! It’s a good thing that her fiancé was loyal and trustworthy. X

Do not fall in love too quick Or get attached too quick Cause you'll end up losing yourself for someone who was may be just flirting with you

I don't know about you, but I just love how Ian did not give in when Aubrey was trying to steal him. That man showed so much integrity.

You can fall in love with anybody but don't stealing from others.

Wow. I thought this guy would betray Leah. But he didn’t. It’s so refreshing to see

Just because A guy is nice to you it doesn’t mean that he isn’t into you

Falling in love can either destroy you or it can heal you soul🙏

"Remember that you won't have to compromise your values for the person that's right for you." This spoke to me.

Know yourself and love yourself before you search for someone else! If you don't know your own values, how will you know if someone else shares them.

This is a whole movie in 10 minutes. amazing‼️

Ignore the negativity and the doubts people have on you. *Keep moving forward.* *I am cheering for your success.* ✋

Never fall to quick but don’t be scared to fall at all

It’s not about girl or boy, it’s all about person, you should be honest in relationship, that will last forever and will be happy too

Opening-up your heart and emotions to another person is risky, letting someone become one of the most important people in your world is even more risky, and when that trust is broken, it can feel the safest to not let anyone else in. But it's not your fault to trust people, it's the other person's fault to not realize your value. You shouldn't pay the cost by not letting yourself feel the love you deserve, because real love should always be a positive experience - a respectful, open and honest bond for both of you.

Wow she had the audacity to come the next day to the wedding but glad that the bride stood up to her and slammed her back to reality. What did she think was going to happen? That Ian won’t tell Leah and Aubrey can come to see the bride and act as if nothing happened? Makes me think of some of the so called friends I had in high school whom I did so much for them only to be betrayed by them in the end and yes they would act as if nothing happened and not apologize or anything which is why I broke ties with them immediately and sought out other friends who truly cared for me and vice versa. And it did hurt for a while but I healed after.

Ian was the full package. He was handsome, kind, and loyal. Good thing he didn't give in to any of Aubrey's advances and told Leah everything.

Her best friend is cold hearted. She would literally go for someone she who she found attractive compared to the other guy that has been with her seince day one.

Sometimes someone can misread someone that is simply being nice to them. She assumed that he was flirting, and she ended something real. Because she convinced herself otherwise. That was on her.

If this happens to you. Trust me None of them deserve you around. Move on. And never look back. It’s better they left you now rather than later on💛.

Jealous is dangerous

Girl was truly delusional. He was nice to her nothing more.

Remember that if they are cheating on someone with you today, then can cheat on you with someone else tomorrow. How can you build trust when the foundation is the one of deception?

Your friend's man is off limits! It's dead wromg!

“You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.” *- Maya Angelou* Decide not to be reduced by them my friend. 🙂

It's hard to judge whose your right partner either man or woman even same with friends. The world has become selfish.

*Loving yourself is vital for your happiness and well being then you can spread that love to others. Love to everyone...* ❤️🙏

Thanks, Jay. Good lesson there as usual. These ladies have swapped parts. The "usually nice lady" is now the "villain" and the villain the victim. Well done team!

You deserve the best love of your life.

LOL! She’s not in love with him. She is just having a dark jealousy based reaction to her friend having somebody on a serious basis. If she saw that same guy anyplace else she wouldn’t be thinking about him or feeling any attraction to him at all.

The loss of a good friend, a man who loved her dearly, she'll have a lot of pain, and regret to deal with. How could she have been so wrong?? When you make a decision, be sure you know that you have to live with the results of that decision. The two people that she hurt may not ever forgive her. Maybe she can pick up the pieces.

My best friend of over 30 years slept with my fiance 2 days before the wedding. I found out 3 months into the marriage and divorced him.

That's how you truly know that someone truly vanquished the temptation. Telling his partner about the situation and having her take the appropriate measures to handle that situation.

She had a good soulmate and screwed that up big time

Just because the person you think you love smiles and laughs with you doesn't mean that they love you as well, they might be doing those things just to be polite. So if you are not sure if a person loves you don't be afraid to ask them "prevention is better than cure". It is best to prevent yourself from being heart broken and lost, so that you can know for sure who to love.

Being in love can be both exhilarating and terrifying at the same time.

When one door is close is for a good reason.It may look and feel good but it is not.Move forward,love yourself and there is someone's else out there for you. Thank Jay for your video and having a good insight on relationships

Even though this video is a bit over the top, and I doubt (and hope) not many will do the same as the ''best friend'' I do agree with the message. I can relate to misinterpreting small gestures as something more, rather than what they are: only gestures, no feelings. Sometimes, when you like someone, it's hard to imagine they cannot feel the same about you. So in that part, I have experienced that you should never assume someone to feel the same way about you, unless they tell you.

I pray i never have to be in that brides or her best friend's shoes🙏

I she was jealous of Leah during their entire friendship.

I felt quickly for a man I didn't completely no but he knew a lot about myself I eventually seen signs I didn't like and I challenged him. The next time I meet someone I wount get wrap up into the charms whzt solee people give out to get what they want. I am normally a wairy person and like to get to know people before I take things further. But this is lesson for me to learn there is nothing wrong to wait and get to know a person more 🌈💐💙thank you

I love these re-enactments Jay. It's a really new and (kind of European) approach to self-development and mental health. I LOVE it. Very cool contribution to this medium.

Her other two bridesmaids are cute especially the one in the glasses lol

*Miles answers the door…* Miles: What are you doing here? Aubrey: I was wrong-he didn’t feel the same way. Miles: I know, and Leah kicked you out-I heard everything through the grapevine. Aubrey: Is there a chance we can try again? *Unknown woman emerges from other room…* Unknown woman: Babe, who are you talking to? Miles: She’s just an old acquaintance-she’ll be leaving soon. *Aubrey leaves in tears.*

the bridesmaids had me dying😂😂 6:13

She hasn't been happy in her own relationship that's why she hit on her friends boyfriend which is totally wrong. Plus she couldn't of been a good friend to do this 🌈💐💙

Just because someone looks at you and is nice doesn't mean they want you.

Amazing Actors!!

How can be this channel so Underrated ?? 🤔

I agree with this story. You don't just go cheating with another person, especially when its with the groom or bride of your friend right before their marriage!

I was waiting for your vids jay❤💜🖤. Thank you so much for giving tools to truly identify people that's really helpful 💫

"Such friends"

Moral of the story: just because a guy is making small talk with u doesn't mean he is into you. And it's impt to know yr boundaries, that yr friend's man is off limits. Don be a boyfriend stealer. Instead of looking for so called greener pastures elsewhere, appreciate the partner whom you alrdy have. Otherwise u will end up like the girl at the end, she lost everything - her best friend's trust, her boyfriend & could have been husband who has been loving and loyal to her since day 1, and her own delusional dream shattered.

choose your friends wisely, these people mostly have disorder personality and it's in their head. this video will not help them at all to fix their mind. this video shows how to select your friend or it could be a partner.

i like the way ian stays loyal to leah…

Why people do the dumbest things she literally setting it up 🤔🙄good for him not feeling the same way

This lady acting as Audrey is a great actress. Been watching her in your content and she's really good. Sad stuff to backstab your best friend cos U love her man while he doesn't love U.

I can’t believe that Aubrey did that by sabotaging the wedding

3:18 how many times have people heard that crap before. Never trust that! It never means what you think it does. Unless people don't live together or you see proof beyond a shadow of a doubt always believe they are still together.

Who is actually stupid enough to convince themselves that someone is in love with them even though that person is literally engaged to someone else?

True love sees clearly but lust will blind you to the truth it's a Magician and only an illusion

No one feels sad for mile, like literally he was so in love her , she let an amazing man go🥺

Don't feed yourself toxicity. Start doing and don't even think about it.

This wasn’t love Jay, it was lust the best ( ex) best friend had for her ex friends fiancé. She was blinded and burning with lust. That’s not love . I love your Chanel btw, everyone copied you with your RU-vid idea, but you will always be the best!!! Love 💖 your videos and messages!!!!

You truly amaze us

Mr Jay Shetty has put up an article via RU-vid advising people to be careful before your fall in love is old advice that have been recycled thousands of times, but still useful. Many people said love is blind. In my opinion, it is a “yes and no question. For a lady, if she easily gives up her virginity at the meeting will most certainly loose her boyfriend. If a clever lady she will carefully observe the behaviour of her boyfriend see whether this is a greedy sexual person before making her decision is the right way. But I may not be fully right. Thus, correct me if I’m wrong.

Let people go who don't show you respect or love find someone else

Aww😍I love Ian sticked loyal to leah even when Aubrey tried to hit on him.🥰🥰🥰 Wish Every guys and girls remain loyal to their partner like this🥰

~Your friends =your enemies ~

Sir, I just brought your book 'think like a monk' and it's amazing ❤️, it's really helping me out! U are awwwsome ❤️

And that's exactly why i don't have any friends i don't trust them 💯

Not everyone happy for you. So be careful

I had something similar in my life,I guess the ugly friend inside out is trying to compete with you sometimes...Disgusting

First jay shetty legend

I was and still in love with my best friend I meet him same yr as he is getting married but I told I am gay and that I fall in love with him but he told me he has a gf and he loves her they been together for long time so 3 months later he called me on N Y E and told he was getting married but it broke my heart so we were on the phone for an hour without saying a work than I said does she made U happy in long term he said yes so I gave him my blessing and told I love him but I want him to be happy that's all it counts and I don't want to lose his friend ship and we still friends for 20 yrs I still have the same feelings as the day we meet and to see him happy that's all it matters

No.1 rule of avoiding heartbreak: do not fall in love

I thought that it was going to be the bride that chose the wrong person based off of the title. I thought her fiance played her, tried to flirt with her friend behind her back, and lied about doing so. Based off of the title.

My mom always told me to never bring your girlfriends around your man!

So Aubrey was willing to throw away a 2 year relationship and break her “best friend’s” heart, lusting after Ian? Glad he set the record straight waking her from her delusion in the process.

Top notch acting!😩

He matched up better with the maid of honor, but she definitely shows psychotic tendencies. He made the right decision.

I had a girl who was like this to me, it was AWFUL...

Legend.

You shouldn't break people up even before their wedding

The look of disgust from her friends is spot on. 6:14

One thing we don't share is our partners

I think she just had a crush, she wasn't in love

This one was good, because we make to much assomption!!!

She isn't a bad person. She was just so delusional in her infatuation that she forgot what's right n wrong. If she's learnt from her mistake n feels deeply sorry..then she could be a nice person deep down. There r many layers to these things..never black n white. Like who knows if that guy did lead her on into thinking that he likes her (for all we know he could be a womanizer deep down, n probably'd cheat on his wife eventually) Or what if d guy whom she was with wasn't really compatible with her. Maybe she was falling out of love even before this new guy arrived. Her method sucked..for real! She was jealous of her bff from d start. She probably didn't deserve a friend like her. But most of d times these feelings come from our own day-to-day insecurities. If only we knew how to handle them..if only we knew how to control our emotions. If only we were mature enough to understand that something is off limit n not meant for us (no matter how tempting n inviting it may be), so that we don't let our hearts wander carelessly to forbidden territories, n have a better control on our feelings. It's very very imp to always carry our minds along with her hearts to prevent ourselves from heartbreaks n catastrophes like these. Its gonna be difficult..it'll be difficult to stay morally n ethically right in d beginning.u may feel alone or lonely for a while, u may remain single for sometime (or longer) but u never know what bigger heart break it has kept u from. Learning to control ur emotions can save u from a lot of things in life

the brown haired girl reminds me of one of my aunts

My Dad use to tell me not to look at another women's man, and for good sakes don't smile at them they'll think you're in love.

Sooo, I don’t have time to finish. Did he break up with her for the not-friend? Or did her true colors finally shine through?

Thank your for the subtitles too♥️

'Best friend' hell ya😂🤣

Wow nice

She wasn’t in love it was just a crush. Can’t believe she do that to her friend oh wait she didn’t care about anyone but herself

I am really emotionally attached to my male best friend but i don't love him... But i like to stay with him and speak with him I really enjoy with him bt i don't want relationship now...what I do 😞

I love you so much four 4⃣ person to watch

Really nice content. Beautiful see to watch.

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