Being Sick Gives Me More Empathy for Mary

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[Vlog 8.1.22] - Peter getting a little glimpse into some of what Mary goes through.
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@patriciaconstantino4669 Год назад

Loved hearing Elijah play his little piano. He is so interested in his surroundings and really developing his own l precious personality 💙 Hoping everyone is better now as I realize this video was actually a month ago. Love to the Frey Family 💙💗💙💙💙

@natalieshuburte9484 Год назад

Love how Peter is still so kind even when he is so sick

@dorothydickson232 Год назад

YOUR LITTLE GUY IS A CUTIE PIE!!! HOPE YOU FEEL BETTER SOON PETER.

@penelopepolinsneemeyer4757 Год назад

Hi guys! So glad to see that Peter has started to recover xxxxx

@emmagracie3364 Год назад

Love you guys and your channel. Hope Peter starts to feel better soon!

@charliesimmons2312 Год назад

I just love seeing that little baby! He’s so cute. I hope you are all better now, Peter!

@maryfox925 Год назад

I love that you both can still smile

@vickyz188 Год назад

Hope you feel better real soon Peter and thankfully Mary is doing well and Elijah sitting up playing the piano is beyond adorable. He is the cutest sweetest baby 👶 💙

@elianauku Год назад

Hi Peter - I’ve been dealing with Long Covid for 2.5 years now (and vlogging about it on my channel!) and my #1 piece of advice to you is to REST as much as humanly possible. No intense physical activity until you are fully recovered. Too many people prolong their illness by pushing through the symptoms.

@annapotts2568 Год назад

Might have to follow you! I had covid in March this year. Sure I had chronic illness before that, but since then my body has been destroyed. The fatigue is what is getting me. Sometimes I cant even lift my arms! Many other symptoms. It really sucks!

@RedRubies02 Год назад

following

@RedRubies02 Год назад

@@annapotts2568 👍

@robynloaf4014 Год назад

@@annapotts2568 😮😢 I had it (again) in January and I feel the same way. I am exhausted beyond reason. I have a neurological disorder and Ménière’s disease, and now I am more exhausted than ever. My body aches so badly too. I’d love to be able to know how people with chronic illness are affected in the long term, but we won’t know that for years.

@cherylrhone3407 Год назад

I never even knew there was such a thing as long Covid. I'm going to have to read up on it.

@GoFishOffice Год назад

Please feel better 💗

@lilbopeep6457 Год назад

I love hearing Elijah cooing on your shoulder it is so adorable. I hope Peter feels better soon.

@andreanittel2240 Год назад

love him sitting up and playing!!!!!

@valentinacardona173 Год назад

That's true . I have had 6 brain surgeries , meningitis, intracranial shunt and brain hemorrhage and many times my family or friends have told me every time they get a headache they think about my pain and understands it more . It is beautiful to put yourself in someone else's shoes and feel empathy for other's struggles

@misspepe7416 Год назад

Elijah is just adorable. He melts my heart! 😍

@ronjalag9710 Год назад

Me too 😍 I wonder will they adopt another baby so he can have a sibling to play with

@cherylrhone3407 Год назад

Ok guys. You need to have a candlelight dinner with your piano player in the background. So romantic!! Peter, I pray you are better by now. Love all of you. Warm hugs & love. ♥️

@Joyce-dd3fm Год назад

I hope you feel better soon Peter! Stay well Mary! Elijah is so adorable!

@juliefeatch1227 Год назад

Getting a man to go to the doctor is like asking fish to ride a bicycle!! My husband got an infection on his leg. Started off as a large scratch from doing the gardening.. I made sure it was bathed and had antiseptic cream on it. Apparently that was not enough. His leg as I said became infected. I told him to see a nude or doctor. He left it. Just kept cleaning it ect. Eventually be became really poorly. Shaking and high temperature..I told him I was fed up and if he didn't get medical help I would leave him. He is ok now thanks to seeing a nurse once a week plus strong antibiotics. Men!!🙄🤔

@Lyn4817 Год назад

We had good friends staying with us. I noticed our Man friend had issues with his foot but he said it was okay. Then the day before they left he showed me his foot. Boy! Was it red and swollen, he was having issues putting a shoe on. My immediate reaction was he needed to see a doctor asap. There was no evidence on why it should be red and swollen. Note, I knew he was a Diabetic plus he was carrying extra weight. A couple of months later I got an email saying he finally saw a Doctor and immediately referred to a Diabetic Clinic. The long and short of it was he was off work for 12 months, not permitted to walk on the foot and was being fitted for a special boot.

@BilingualBookworm Год назад

I’m sorry about some of these comments, friends!! Hope you are feeling 100% better Peter 💚💚💚

@WarmFuzzyVibes Год назад

Why? Seems to me the comments were about people being alarmed and seemed reasonable to me. Like we should all just sing "Lalalalala" loudly to drown out the alarms. I found it all very disturbing that he didn't get a chest x-ray (at the very least).

@Mrsgarthb Год назад

Good morning Peter, Mary and Eli. Let’s not forget Ollie and Harry

@arabellasplace3823 Год назад

You all are so beautiful, love you all so much. Still sending up prayers for you Peter.

@andreagarrison9614 Год назад

My family had COVID back in July and everyone got over it within 5 days, but it took me a month and I really am not fully over mine, so it may take you a little longer. My brother who has a bad heart and bad lungs, he got over it well before I did. Love and Prayers for a speedy recovery.

@sherryl1275 Год назад

Peter ur struggling bud... it's ok GO TO THE DOCTOR.....IF THIS WAS MARY WOULD U ALLOW HER TO WAIT SO LONG??! JUST A QUESTION

@misspepe7416 Год назад

I don't know what it is about hauls but I love it 😂 also the taste testing obviously! Thanks for sharing!

@deniselovelace3075 Год назад

Elijah’s speaking up!! 😂 That’s the loudest I’ve heard him yet. So cute! It’s tough to see Peter feeling so badly but knowing these days are past and he is doing better helps. 💖👍🏻

@janetmarceau2821 Год назад

I have been praying for all you. Peter, I am sorry you have been so sick. Today seems better so we all need to be praying for the continued good days. I am so happy, Mary, that you your body handled it so well. Little Eli just gets cuter every day. He has the most precious smile! Love to all of you and I pray you all stay well. Janet from Lake Placid, Fl.

@lovelyflower2762 Год назад

I just love your channel about you're very open honest and real. And I have listened to your channel for a long time

@Mike-wf1nm Год назад

Love you guys!

@shinebrighter3802 Год назад

Glad you’re feeling better Peter!!!

@carolyn9157 Год назад

I like the roll reversal Mary making sure Peter is taking his meds. Elijah I'm loving those sleepers on you. Take care and God bless.

@johnsonfamilyvidsvlogs3745 Год назад

Glad you're feeling better Buddy

@misspepe7416 Год назад

The Live on Instagram was very fun! Good idea to let people choose their painting and also a little online meet and greet!

@samgodkin4736 Год назад

Stay hydrated!

@maddieadams75 Год назад

Always enjoy your video ♥️

@annacooper1299 Год назад

have you ever considered making more of your stickers into patches? I would love to use some to decorate my wheelchair backpack but the stickers do not stay on that material. I have used a couple on my solid colored coffee tumblers

@courtneybrandt4603 Год назад

My husband is currently sick. We don't know if it's Covid or not because he didn't test and he won't (Personal reasons) He just has been sleeping the last few days. I check on him every few hours but for the most part I'm just letting him sleep. He feels miserable, Chills, feeling hot, fatigue and a little bit of a sore throat. I feel fine. I'm hoping that he gets better and I don't catch it as I take care of my 93 year old grandfather and he relies on me to be there. I'm praying that things improve and continue to improve for peter. Way to go Mary for taking care of Peter and Eli. You are all amazing.

@abbykuusisto6417 Год назад

Hi Mary, and Peter!

@vickioliver7948 Год назад

You guys literally have the cutest baby ever omg!!!!!

@junethompson3291 Год назад

I really enjoy watching your videos You are great parents

@donnaloveall1470 Год назад

I remember last year, on a trip to your home, you got sick and were lying on the grass somewhere on the way home.

@irishgirl1753 Год назад

Praying for you Peter 🙏❤️❤️🙏🤗

@jdhenk Год назад

I received my two shirts I had ordered, I love them so much and will get more in the future.

@dalton102095 Год назад

I have long COVID. In rehab now 3 days a week. The sinus meds have been such a savior to me. Praying for you. I am 8 months out w several underlying issues. But that freaking headache!!

@joistevens4454 Год назад

Ice pick jabbing in the head headache 🤕

@BlueGrassLover45 Год назад

I can understand and agree that having your lungs bother you and be concerning must give you a good insight to what Mary must feel like.. Reminds us of that Scripture in Romans that says. Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep. I am glad knowing you are better now Peter. You have a beautiful family. Elijah is just adorable. He is such a delight. He is so precious. Praise God for all the joy he's brought to your family. God Bless you all. Prayfully yours J.D. 🙏🏼✝

@kellyconrad2751 Год назад

Eli finding his voice is just adorable!!!

@barbgregson Год назад

I've always felt peter doesn't take care of himself enough he must be exhausted taking care of the baby overnight his store and utube channel ect. he has so much on his shoulders he has always been a caregiver he needs to take care of himself.

@pamelacupelli3326 Год назад

I have been praying for you Peter! That kind of cough is so frustrating! I have an uncle who lives in Durham! I don’t know the population in Durham! He used to be a preacher years ago! Love you all so much ♥️💜🤍

@apohlson1 Год назад

Harry! I’ve missed seeing him. ❤❤❤❤

@california_grown_carissa216 Год назад

Just goes to prove that those who are blessed to be relatively healthy should not assume they will avoid serious issues with the Covid monster .

@california_grown_carissa216 Год назад

@@MyDreamIsAStory that is exactly what I am saying . Peter is proof that healthy people can struggle with it . So people should not underestimate this nasty virus . My verbiage is confusing so thank you I will correct it

@trishab2147 Год назад

Hope you feel better

@chrissymatia Год назад

Hi Peter and Mary, Peter please go to Dr. To get check my uncle had covid in the beginning of the year and then had a cough he couldn't get rid of and he finally went to the Dr. And found out he has stage for lung cancer with 4 to 6 months to live. Stay healthy

@tracyzabelle Год назад

A while back I started buying the white corn tortillas from Walmart and we use them to make all kinds of tacos or breakfast burritos with them we make a Scramble with onion zucchini eggs and cheese and put it in the toasted wrap

@jenniferbradford9304 Год назад

I thought I was the only one who tilts their head back and shakes it to take my pills!! My family 👪 laughs about it and teases me. Then I saw you do it!! 🙏 ❤️

@lamasfea9307 Год назад

I totally understand you Peter it happened to me too

@Sarah-tm4nn Год назад

The Gerbia Daisy is BEAUTIFUL as well as Elijah!!

@carolmoyers2713 Год назад

Would love to see more of Ollie.

@phyllisaleshire4460 Год назад

And Harry

@CloggingSweetyG1 Год назад

I love the state prints on the wall in the dining area. I need to do something similar. FL waiting to get a spot on the wall? Hope Peter gets to feeling better soon.

@Lma894 Год назад

We can’t live in fear and Peter to me has been nothing but amazing to Mary. Can’t avoid it and the fact Mary is doing so well. I totally get about the doctor. Mary can help and glad to see you let her when you were sick. You both compliment each other so well.

@melindajohnson8586 Год назад

It’s odd how everyone responds to CoVid differently. I am 7 weeks post and I’m still struggling. I had similar symptoms . My husband said I moaned all night. I had a fever of 101… ended up in the hospital with pneumonia. I’m gradually getting better. I still do not have much energy. Sending prayers!

@stillMimi123 Год назад

Prayers for you 🙏❤️

@kathyloomis3107 Год назад

If and when you read post from people who think they matter if they quit watching you, just remember there are a whole bunch more that love your channel and will not stop. How many adults will not go to the doctor for different reasons. These people are so unreasonable.

@openlybookish Год назад

Not unreasonable. They are just hugely concerned and from their viewpoint it may not seem like Peter's health is being taken seriously.

@karendeakin9628 Год назад

He’s like a lot of men reluctant to go to dr my husband looks after me as I have fibromyalgia and he will continue however rough he feels ! He’s a nightmare but he won’t give in

@joancurry8258 Год назад

Hi!!! Truth be told!! Watching Peter and Mary since the beginning,with many years nursing experience, Peter and Mary chose to expose this on their you tube channel!! As Peter is into his thirties,as a primary caregiver to mary,to not say anything would be something I would ask myself,life is short!!! Peters could end before our eyes! I am not leaving here,however for those of us who spoke up!!! 😉❤👏

@Korkykork Год назад

@@openlybookish these vlogs are about a month behind so any comments about people being concerned that he isn’t going to the doctor are outdated because of that. He may have been to the doctor in the last month and I’m sure if there was any breaking news they would have let us know

@judithcobb4032 Год назад

Truthfully he looks sick. Pale and sick looking so it’s reasonable to ask him to go check it out.

@jenniferwolford4646 Год назад

I don't understand why you're not going to the doctor??? It could be something you're not even expecting or thought of.

@hawkswifeme Год назад

I'm not gonna stop watching because you know all of us have not went to hospital or doctors because umm it's supposed to be video chat NOT going in is WHAT ALL DOCTORS SAY unless you can not breath! But please when coughing stop kissing on Eli because you can spread to him! Love you guys

@denisejones1863 Год назад

He knows he is not active Covid, Mary said he was negative 3 tests. You do know this is a month behind also. So I'm sure he is doing better.

@hawkswifeme Год назад

@@denisejones1863 Yes I know that I was just saying that when he was coughing in video he kissed the Eli on cheek and was just saying becareful because whooping cough is dangerous

@beautificvision2023 Год назад

soooooooo cute!!!!! xoxoxo

@drcnty5462 Год назад

I am new here 😊. I have found your channel as I lay here with Covid. We are a family of 5🎉 and 4 of us have asthma . We are either running a breathing machining or cupping here at our home even when we do not have Covid. Blessings on your family✝️

@marleenhoncoop4188 Год назад

Thanks for leaving us in the fridge. Now I know fore-sure the light dims when the door closes.

@dorothycranfill3106 Год назад

Mary, the sad thing is that Peter as not gotten medical help with his condition. Peter, why are you being so stubborn.

@1handedmedia Год назад

I think its because that is nothing like what he's watched Mary go through her whole life and it's just a cough no fevers or anything yet and also remember their vlogs are a month in the past now

@Apate9842 Год назад

Plus this was a month ago. And they are better now as stated in last video or so in the comment section

@jasongates- Год назад

Oh, the Star Crunch. Peter, I hope this is not long COVID.

@3catmom844 Год назад

I have your diagnosis. It is the creeping crud! Hope you are feeling better.

@stjernoga Год назад

Im guessing you feel better now, but wow you men are really stubborn not going to the doctor, lots of love from Sara, Sweden💝🙏

@nathantatosian280 Год назад

Hi Mary and peter

@misscole82 Год назад

I'm always worried when Mary eats a snack while doing something else. Like the cookie at the end.... don't forgot your enzymes!!

@biddiemutter3481 Год назад

I like the Elijah music. I do hope that cough goes

@evemcconell6963 Год назад

I had symptoms for 3 months with lasting effects with my lungs ever since getting COVID back in 2020.I do have bad Asthma so I'm thinking that played a part in my recovery but when I had mine I had a really severe headache that was worse than a migraine and almost 104 temp for the first week. I also had flu like symptoms for the first 3 days and it felt like I had a ton of bricks sitting on my chest for the whole time I had symptoms. Tha was the worst part was my chest. I also was taking care of my infant granddaughter that I am raising but myself and had no help with her for fear of someone catching COVID. She never did get sick or had any symptoms of COVID which I found crazy since she was with me 24/7 during¢: this time! I can understand where Peters coming from. So glad that you Mary were able to get over yours without any real issues and not needing to be hospitalized.

@robynloaf4014 Год назад

I feel like ever since the first time I had COVID, my immunity is low and I tend to catch other viruses very easily.

@girlsbasketballharvey2312 Год назад

I kno alot of ppl get bronchitis after covid that turns into pneumonia and get put on a Zpk n steroids for it aftr. My momma was sicker after covid than she was with covid. I have lupus n when i got covid last thanksgiving and was sick sick for almost 5 weeks. I still dont feel "NORMAL" My rheumatologist calls it a covid Long Haller

@vickioliver7948 Год назад

Elijah is a doll baby taking his baba omg!

@rachelh8611 Год назад

You ended with “see you tomorrow!” 😁 I’m sure that’s a hard habit to break!

@alyssawssinging4039 Год назад

hey i love yall feel better peter rest as much as u can and i had covid 4th of july this year wasnt fun and it made my asthma come back from when i was a kid had to use 2 enhlaers but now im doing better other than my gastroparesis is in full on swing its being mean my gastroparesis i actually have a procedure for my gastroparesis soon few weeks if yall could pray for me that would be amazing

@childofquan3362 Год назад

Grr Peter doesn’t need empathy he needs WISDOM to go to the doctor

@alli_went_bonkers Год назад

I know this comment is late, but I'm dragging.😉 I know on more than one occasion, Mary, you've identified as a "zebra." I think your body has lots of experience in doing what the body needs to do when a respiratory virus, like Covid, "hits it," and "horses," like Peter, have to learn coping mechanisms your body has already learned, and is even treating theough med/vest. Its a joy seeing Eli grinning from ear to ear! Hope all is well, present day. 💜 Love you all!

@gthornton3 Год назад

Hey from Tx

@moneysports1793 Год назад

GO TO THE DR. MARY AND BABY DONT NEED TO CATCH THIS. OMG.

@ernestminnix468 Год назад

Please everyone I no yall all concern but Peter this is pretap like back in July and he fine now I do agree he should have gone to dr but some people believe they can take care of them self with out dr

@lovelyflower2762 Год назад

You must shop at Aldi's I love that store

@debbywoodel9993 Год назад

Remember people these videos are from a month ago. They're healthy and fine now

@privatesuzie4071 Год назад

Peter, would be something to participate in some of research and data collection on long term Covid as they are finally trying to base recommendations for treatment and policies on patient reporting. Call CDC, or ask hospital where Mary goes.

@ef-v7896 Год назад

You should check your lungs. Lung pain is indicater of pneumonia you might need antibiotics and an X-ray. My parents gone through two Covids and after the second covid they still have scars on their lungs from the first one. You should check it.

@kittymervine6115 Год назад

Also know that many large medical hospitals, are studying long Covid. My friend had to deal with it, coming and going, for about 6 months. Going to the hospital with the study, he felt so much better by finding out there were others having his symptoms. He's feeling 100% again, but he said talking to the "experts" (as new as they are), helped him know it would come and go, and eventually GO for GOOD!

@cherylrhone3407 Год назад

Wait, what?!?! Are people really saying they are going to stop watching if Peter doesn't go to the doctors? That's absurd!! Last time I checked he was an adult. I think Peter, has enough wisdom to know when it's time to go see someone. Also, Mary, is not going to sit there and let Peter, fall by the wayside. We get 15 minutes out of their day. Please just pray for The Frey family. Mary, & Peter, please don't stop filming. There is a hole bunch of us that enjoy watching you.

@jenniferpadden3320 Год назад

Yes that’s ridiculous!

@xdreamscometruex8266 Год назад

Myself and my friend had covid I like Mary has an underlying illness so expected covid to be worse for me but like Peter my friend got a severe cough about 3 weeks after covid and was really ill the doctor said it was probably another virus she had picked up but we are both not sure what it was still has a cough now 6 weeks after covid. Take care guys

@colleensmith8414 Год назад

Hve you seen the Dr Peter you hadrhe cough a while just to make sure your ok your family needs you to be well takecare love you Peter and mary take care

@arasor5570 Год назад

Their videos are posted a month behind. They’ve talked about it many times, and even mentioned it in this video.

@sarahrune5318 Год назад

Post Covid is real. My husband ended up with shingles bad immediately after Covid. My best friend had strange symptoms after Covid and lost a ton of hair. Covid can cause chaos for some people.

@sandyfreyman3501 Год назад

Oh wow I never heard of the hair loss thing! Scarey.

@joistevens4454 Год назад

Yes lost a lot of hair! Why!!

@sallyhuffman9571 Год назад

@@sandyfreyman3501 my sister lost a good bit and I’ve know a few others that did as well.

@BINNEO40 Год назад

was he vaxxed? Those are side effects.

@rheagalarneau1366 Год назад

@@sallyhuffman9571 My good friend, Chris Cuomo, once said women were sending him pictures of their hair in bowls 2 years ago. Yes, he was/is the original Covid long haulers, person.

@PatiencesMom Год назад

Jason from cog hill farms had to have a big round of strong antibiotics

@andreanittel2240 Год назад

headache can also be dehydration..................

@victorialehman6604 Год назад

My dry cough post covid was dry for a couple of weeks and then it like it broke up or something and then became a wet cough and I was able to kind of cough up the gunk

@pjmcgovern2277 Год назад

Poor Peter this was my best friend s journey through COVID - it just wouldn’t leave and finally he got a booster ( for a diff reason) and one day after booster it was gone , but did he have a rough time yeah , I hope Peter fairs better , it’s brutal

@huntsmanpixie3216 Год назад

Love your videos guys (I’ve purchased from your store). I would start thinking about real jobs. Such a great season with RU-vid, but it was always just a matter of time and people’s expendable income is drying up. God bless and keep you all.

@carolinelvsewe Год назад

So did Peter go to the doctor? What if he has Myocarditis ? This is a side affect of covid in youngish males. Praying for you. Mary needs you healthy.

@melissaallisontobin6607 Год назад

I was diagnosed with long-COVID a few months after I had COVID November 2020 and I’ve had bouts of issues and symptoms similar to Peter’s since to this day. It also made my autonomic disorder worse. It’s awful!

@MyDreamIsAStory Год назад

To the people who don’t understand these videos were pre-filmed a month ago and they are posting them now. They decided to do that after Elijah was born so they wouldn’t have to rush on editing. Peter seems fine now. They have been posting on Instagram and he looks a lot better.

@teijaflink2226 Год назад

And what says he hasn't went to the doctor, I don't understand?

@melcerra2375 Год назад

Seriously. Plus they are able to monitor his oxygen level and he stated that he didn’t feel like it was in his chest. They are smart people and pretty medically savvy. They would’ve gone in if they felt it necessary.

@valentinacardona173 Год назад

I've known many testimonies of people who had covid and fight with post fatigue, pain, shortness of breath and other symptoms