Black Cat and Golden Retriever Theory in relationships - Embracing Dark Feminine Energy 

I'm glad you found the video insightful! Focus on your internal healing, this is the key to everything❤

@@plantyoftime yes! I so love that you focused on inner work and building genuine self-awareness. I feel like these types of concepts quickly slip into advice on how to quickly perform an “it girl” identity. But your video didn’t do that, which I really appreciate

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Hi Miriam🌺Being the black cat isn't about being aloof but about exuding confidence and independence while still being approachable. It's finding that sweet spot where you're self-assured without being distant.

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Thank you, Annie! I'm glad you enjoyed it ❤

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Being a Black Cat woman is about confidence and independence. If he apologizes and explains why he was busy, it's totally fine to acknowledge his message and show you understand without making a big deal about missing him. You could say something like, "No worries, I get it." This shows you're confident and not too dependent on his constant attention. Keep the conversation light and positive to maintain the balance in the relationship. For the future, I suggest using your magnetism instead of messaging him while he's out. For example, before he leaves, wear something sexy like satin nightwear and give him a steamy kiss goodbye, wishing him a fun night. Then, try not to contact him and let him enjoy his time. Trust me, if you use your magnetism and wear something sexy before he leaves, he'll be eager to rush back home to you!😉❤

@@plantyoftime Wow what a wonderful answer! I was afraid to step into my black cat energy by thinking that he would see me as an easy person who doesnt care about him replying late and stuff but ur videos are chaning my mindset for good! Please make more such videos

Hi Ananya 🌹If the man leans too much into feminine traits, it might affect the chemistry between both partners. It can be reversible, but it requires conscious work from both sides to find the right balance✨

You're absolutely right-having traits like a 'Golden Retriever' is definitely positive. I intended to focus more on the dynamics of the relationship rather than personalities. Even if you naturally have a Golden Retriever personality, you can still embody the 'Black Cat' in your relationship, meaning you stay in your feminine energy and let your man pursue you. Thanks for bringing up such an important point!

Yea right? Show us how little you know about golden retriever gfs and they nailed it on this one -_- Everything was absolutely one sided and a diss towards the Golden GF. As a Golden girl myself (my husband is the black cat) I feel clarity is needed: We usually take initiative in communication and making plans because we are comfortable being the ones in charge of said things, but that doesn't mean we don't ask our black cats for their input and preferences. Being the first ones to call/text doesn't mean we're codependent on our black cats, It means we value communication and respect our black cats might not be comfortable initiating a convo first. We do not NEED a partner to feel fulfilled but expect a partner that loves and respects us the same as we do them. We are not "happy with the bare minimum" we just aren't high maintenance. We do not just roll over and lets people cross our boundaries because we are submissive, we in fact are usually pretty open and communicative with our boundaries and easy going but WILL clarify the line when crossed. Being emotionally attached to a partner isn't a bad thing, isn't that the point of a relationship?

@@raelynm3902 You've raised an excellent point. It's crucial to understand that embodying the Black Cat or Golden Retriever traits isn't about fitting into a strict category. It's important to recognize and celebrate the strengths of both 'Black Cat' and 'Golden Retriever' personalities in relationships. Many people display qualities of both, and the ability to set and communicate boundaries effectively is a strength often associated with the Black Cat mindset. Being emotionally attached and setting clear boundaries can indeed coexist, demonstrating a mature, balanced approach to relationships. And the Black Cat is not completely unattached either; she just has a healthier attachment style than the one typically associated with Golden Retrievers. Love is the most important thing in the world, and I did not want to suggest that Black Cats lack emotions. The video aimed to highlight dynamics rather than personalities, focusing on empowering women to embrace their feminine energy and recognize their worth. I've found it important to discuss this theory because I feel like women often neglect their own needs, prioritizing everyone else's. It sounds like you're blending the best of both traits, which is ideal for healthy relationships. Embracing this balance is key, and I appreciate your perspective on the subtle ways these dynamics can manifest. In my next video on this topic, I'll be sure to address the points you've brought up to provide a more balanced perspective.

The Black Cat mindset is about owning your worth and setting the bar high for the right kind of connections. It's better to focus on personal growth and wait for the right connection than to settle for less, don't you think?

I will take her advice and I'm comfortable being single for whole life💅🏽

@@plantyoftime same thing for a man then, don’t settle for a girl who doesn’t view you as the “prize.” Everyone would be single if they fighting to be the damn prize

​@plantyoftime I disagree. I think the phrase "settle for less" can be widely misunderstood and misinterpreted by many. Not prioritizing your partner, thinking YOU are the prize and making your partner "chase you" all sound like a recipe for a toxic relationship. I would hope that people looking for a lasting relationship are looking for mutual respect, love and reciprocity.