BLACK MEN HATE BLACK WOMEN. 

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Interracial unions create confused offspring. There's enough confusion to last us a while. Black men date outside due to self-hate. Black women have racial loyalty and date out by default. Plus we out-number yall, so we are more justified to date out.

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I hate that this is even a issue. Thank you for watching ❤️

Same with black men everyone hates a black man. Don't wanna hear it.

Hate the behavior, not you as a black woman. Black men and women, hate each other's behavior.

That's a sad truth and a hard realization to come to ☹️

@@bluejay9968 bm hate black women... Sugar coat it if u want. When u hate a woman's COLOR it's not about behavior.

I can honestly say that I was never aware that black men bashed black women this badly until recently. Of course I’ve always known about the way rappers disrespect women, but it never occurred to me that those lyrics were so damaging to y’all. I guess it was easy to overlook because we always see women turnin up to the very music that degrades them. It’s like we’ve been programmed to ignore venom as long as it has a nice beat to it. I woke up to that when my daughter was born. It’s hard to ride down the road with your daughter in the back seat and sing along to a song saying bit***s ain’t sh*t. That’s why I’m going so hard on this topic. Men have to do our part to reverse or at least try to see if we can heal the pain we caused. That’s how I sincerely feel. I just hope it’s not too late. I want my daughter to have a chance to have a loving husband one day.

@@TheShumakeWay how about all the songs, and celebrity that bashed BW on TV every chance they got??? Never did BM stood up against that.

@@TheShumakeWay Aww I didn’t know you had a daughter. She’s a lucky young lady to have such and intelligent and introspective dad.

@@jubilantsleep yea she got me wrapped around her finger too lol. I appreciate that

@@TheShumakeWay You are a good father.

Yes, BW should keep moving. But...... notice how in order to have a successful relationship with a man of any other nationality, BW basically have to become totally different ppl. BW aren't the loud, unpleasant, disrespectful, and masculine problems with those men as they are with BM. You can justify it however you like, say you're allowed to rest in your femininity or whatever nonsensical bs you come up with. But, just know, if you understand you had to change who you are to be successful, you also understand at some level, you were the problem.

Am so happy black women are getting smarter 😊

@@Blakkfoot We're not changing who we are if we're saying we're not loud and stuff, we are gonna perpetuate stereotypes anymore!!!

@@user-nm8sf2sy7q but BW do change who you are in order to IRD. It's usually easy to sniff you out because the vast majority of you take on this specific way of speaking - the valley girl, your white girl voice. It's ok. Go. Be happy. Just know that when you start throwing stones from over the fence, we see you. BTW, it's not a stereotype that BW are loud and stuff. It is a culturally verifiable characteristic. By comparison to women of other races, BW are louder, more vibrant, and possess greater life when in the moment. That is what attracts white girls to BW. They want to be you. They don't have that spark that BW have that make them just better. From a distance, BW are having the time of their lives; particularly when their in a group. So don't try to pass it off as a stereotype. I know better.

@@Blakkfoot Cut the BS! You make it sound forced that BW act differently. Please, it’s not that they act differently it’s that they are finally allowed to be their selves instead of dealing with struggle love with BM. That femininity has always been there but when BW have to always pull the chain to do most of the work in a relationship with a BM then what do you expect?

@MFS Lose what? Our high rates of single motherhood? Oh please do leave. Leave and take the rest with you.

@ MFS, I hear you sir but, you are terribly misguided. Black women have always been and will continue to be the Universal Gold Standard. Many want to be us, yet don't have the capacity to withstand the storms that come with it. You sir merely want someone who will put up with your B.S. and not challenge you. Hey, to each his own.

literally THE WALKING DEAD

@MFS lose what? we are the prize lil boy! we are the one with the FAVOR little BOY!!!! we are the one who give life to all LITTLE BOY!!!

@@monimoni305 thats EXACTLY what he wants baby a doormat a yes women 🤣🤣🤣🤣no backbone

@@brandongipson9552 I agree some black women need to understand where black men like you come from as well.

Men work as hard as they have to. They just don’t see you as you see yourself.

@@joewatts8018 yeah, clearly that’s true. I’m not mad at it. I’ve just filed the stop work order, accepted it and moved on. That by no means suggests that if the right man came along and he happened to be black I would reject him, but I’m no longer interested in going above and beyond to appeal to black men -or any man really -that are not interested in my brand of beauty. To him I’m not beautiful, but to another I’m a goddess. It’s as simple as that. I think many women might be better off to do the same. It’s been my experience that many black men hold black women by a much higher standard than other women. That’s just my personal experience-clearly not everyone has experienced that, but I’ve seen that. And generally I think all parties should absolutely bring their A game. But if you do and you’re still running into these problems and you feel forced to make choices that will do harm to you emotionally or physically just to appeal to specific men or women , it might be better to move on because all it establishes is that this is not about you, it’s about pander to their preferences. Pandering and desperation doesn’t look good on anyone. If his wants are not in line with yours, move on to a man who will look at you favorably. I just don’t look to black men first anymore because the men I would be open to dating typically are not interested. I would love to say it’s because I’m not feminine, sexy, fit, intelligent, confident, spiritual, successful or attractive enough, but that’s not the case. They just want something else and I just have more success elsewhere.

Well said

I absolutely agree. I see it all the time here in London. When you see a black Woman with a white man she is almost always in here natural state.

Right. What's even more funny is that the dudes telling women to change and submit aren't even dating. They're not on any woman's radar. Further, the ones leading the pack aren't dating black women in the first place--based on looks. A woman can't make a man date out. Sorry. That's a decision created by society long long ago. Ever since blacks were allowed to marry, they chose to marry *light and bright;* and now it's popularized by athletes and rappers to marry *white.* It has zero to do with black women, and everything to do with the status quo. Black men use whites to work their way up the social ladder. It's a status symbol. *Black must women marry out for their own good.* Another thing, they won't tell you is that marriage is common. Anyone can get married, rich or poor, 3rd world or 1st world, ugly or attractive. What isn't common is having a life for yourself, earning a living, and having freedom. I've watched families live on less that 5 bucks a day all over the world. And black folk in the Western world are worried about who submits to whom, and who's attractive. No wonder we're at the bottom.

​@@aubreyjames8795 Thank you Aubrey! And this isn't to discourage anyone but the UK has more mixed/bi-racial children at primary/kindergarten age than ever and the majority make up of their parentage is BM ! The genders just aren't getting along and BW are now accepting that it is the way it is. There are too many of us single and 30+ BW daydreaming about some monoracial society! You know I've come across a BM channel recently referring to us as "daggles" which is basically some entity to be "bred out." BW cannot do anymore, for decades we've been begging for attention, we tried to better ourselves through education but apparently that's not enough and makes us come across as facetious or better than. BW are attacked for weaves, general appearance, morals and attitude which is the whole totality of what makes up a person! Would still love to meet a marriage minded, normal, working BM, but yeah, for the majority of us it's time to go.

@@fi734 No prob! I'm 100% with you on everything except that "we tried to better ourselves through education." No, education was a duty unto ourselves for our own future because in *reality* no one is going to pay your bills. We were lucky enough that our parents told us to go to school instead of working in retail for the rest of our lives. The truth is that we tried to better ourselves through hair weaves, and nose contouring, and the reality is that there's not enough makeup to turn a black person white. The fact is that we tried to degrade ourselves to be accepted, and that wasn't enough. So this is actually why we have to leave. That path is the way to hell. Why change yourself for a man at the bottom of the international social ladder? Why better yourself, and change your looks for a man that refuses to build a family? Black men can blame the women, but the proof is in the pudding. White women get the same black men that the black women get. Iggy Azalea is a great example. Kylie Jenner is a great example. Khloe Kardashian is a great example. The men have no accountability. Daggles? Black men will be bred out as well if they keep having mixed babies. That's just logical. Not that they'd care, since they have a deep case of self hate anyway. What type of man needs a white chaperone to navigate through society? 😬*Some black man said, 'with a white wife, you get better loans at the bank'??* You mean a black man cant figure out how to look presentable and walk into the bank as a man, and convince the bankers that he's worthy of a loan. You can command respect with your own presence? Must have something to do with sagging pants. Black women are only attacked because black men who aren't dating are angry at black women for having better careers, and and not choosing them. Black men are attacking black women because we're easy targets. Why? You have to ask yourself why you were on those manosphere channels in the first place. Those channels play on desperation. You said, we can't be single in our 30s? Uhm, since when is being single in your 30s a pressing matter? Half of the women complaining don't understand the fundamentals. You can't get married in a society build on dating. You can't find quality in a society that doesn't value you. That's why you go to a different country, and put yourself out there. Get on a dating app, go to a bar, go to meetups. If you want to date, you date. If you want marriage, you don't date, you find a marriage market. This is why Candace Owens didn't date her husband. They were ready to marry after a month. Engagement for two years and living together before marriage is BS: Unless the goal is a lived-in BF.

You should watch chrissie, the pink pill, and Cynthia g. They are great women!

Sad but true.

All of them. After one bw rejects them, they spiral.Don't forget the ones doing the most like working, going to school and raising their kids while the man is in & out of jail because of child support for his other kid(s).

To answer your question....the MASCULINE ones.

@@joewatts8018 that's another pathetic excuse. I see black men and boys on RU-vid Twitter and tiktok saying that black women are ugly ratchet and that no man wants to be with them but yet they sit here praise white women by putting them on the pedestal while bashing us. That's sign of self hatred! Now I'm okay with interracial dating as long as you don't tear the other person down.

Black Women is not victims,

All you see on social media is bw bashing bm .

This works 100%

So your dad taught you to blame your problems on the man? Interesting.

@@jbadams56 sounds like her dad taught her whose accountable. Who's supposed to lead? Who's the man? Tjats who's accountable

BS

Your father is 100% right!!

There are more women in careers these days. Men could try trade school and blue collar. They could make good money in mechanics, welding, etc

EXACTLY

And I oopppp

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Well said!!

This is a temporary solution. Seek God and He will give you a permanent answer. Jesus said without me; ye can do nothing. Have you ever considered why in spite of our trying to fix things it doesn't work nor does it last? It's because we are all to blame...yes I said it.....we are all to blame and the devil piggybacks off of our refusal to repent, our refusal to submit, our refusal to honor God, and our ignorance. We're the only ones who don't know it. The Bible says my people are destroyed for a lack of knowledge. You can't give what you do not have. Go back to the beginning people, learn about God and He will teach you about yourself......but only if you seek Him earnestly. God is not your problem.....sin is.

@@angelahepburn1524 Out of respect for others, I choose not to touch on religion initially, but since religion has been brought to the table, I will respond accordingly. The Most High has ordered His people from the beginning to seperate from the other nations. To not seek treaties or marriages with these people. As everyone can clearly see, we have done the opposite which is why we are cursed with curses and scattered to the four winds to this day. To acknowledge that we are in fact these people, repent and come together is what the end of my comment is referencing. The Most High coming back and finding His people behaving accordingly in what you are referring to as a temporary solution will be the beginning of the permanent solution. Remember, we are in fact in a temporary situation.

@@goldmedallion777 Sir, or Madam, I am not talking about religion. I'm talking about the plight of our people. I'm talking about what God has to say not what you or I believe. Remember God Alone is Sovereign and He alone is the Creator of all things. He has the last Word because He is the Word. Let us not use this time to give the adversary an opportunity to creep in and distort or misuse our plight. You have made some valid points and I agree and let's not inadvertently sweep aside each contribution based on the truth of the Word of God. We must be wise.

@TruJu 777 Exactly. I've come to the same conclusion.

@@goldmedallion777 Truth

Same here sis. I have no interest in dating at all and it is So sad

@@CookieH14 Be not discouraged though. We have to have hope and work. As long as we are teaching “get better” things can begin to turn around as we do that.

@jellingtonmellington they will if you're limited.

Same here...I just want to live my life in Peace..without men.

Same. What's the point.

I tell people this all the time! They manipulated our psyche to the point that we hate each other! It’s really deeper than the surface! It goes back to the breaking down the black family dynamic! I always ask people to educate themselves about themselves especially black people! We need it the most because we’ve been lied to so much! I love black men and black women! I love and appreciate my people! But we have to give the same love and compassion to each other that we so freely give to others because of the feeling that as black people that we have to minimize each other in order to feel worthy in someone’s eyes who is unworthy of us as a people! Let’s hold each other accountable while not forgetting to hold ourselves accountable in the process! We have to heal and it’s going to take having those painful conversations! Healing, Love, and Peace!

@@queenedroe9811 I’ve decided to stop watching content where black people bash each other, and instead look at content for how we fix this collectively. We marched together in BLM globally but now things have gone back to how they were, if not worse. It’s almost like it didn’t mean anything. A lot of people in our community talk about dating out like that’s going to solve our issue. Black is beautiful and I can’t imagine being anywhere else. I’m not saying people shouldn’t date out because that their choice, but they need to stop bashing one another when they do and black people seem to be the only race that does that.

I agree but I would like to add to what you've said. Actually the beginning doesn't begin with the beginning of slavery; it begins with the fall in the garden of eden for mankind. satan hates/ hated Gods creation and deceived eve. If you really desire our problems to be dealt with you must go back to the beginning and seek to understand why the human race is is in a fallen state, how we got there, and how to get out. Try to understand why you are always cursing, where it comes from, how you got there and why you can't stop. You're tired???? We are tired too.

The movie Claudine , was the perfect example of the breakdown of Black families. They purposely removed the Blackmen out of the household. If you haven't seen it check it out. It stars, James Earl Jones and Diana Carroll. Wonderful soundtrack by Glady Night and the Pimps. Go check it out if you never seen it. One of my favorite movies.

They dont wanna do that bro.. they want to just keep blaming BM for everything, when we do things to uplift our community they dont even appreciate it, or its not good enough.. Black men have done fucked up shit but its a problem that is fueled by both BW and BM we need to come together

@Surisukii69 Mercy They have to forgive Blk women for something they never did and Blk women have nothing and are just surviving

So, if we have to "forgive" black women for surviving what do black women have to"forgive" black men for? Have we not been surviving as well? Theres plenty of shit I've been through and I'm sure other black males have been through and we don't get no passes, even if we are not the minority of guys passing you around like hotcakes and making children, even though we are not the ones with a criminal background or cheating, we still get told by these females that we need to Check other grown adult males, we need to protect a group of females who aren't even checking for us, we are told to provide for a community that is okay with saying they don't need us. Make it make sense, you push people away and then ask for allies and say we don't have anybody because. I have yet to see one black female in Shumake's or Derrick Jaxn's comment section say, you know what? When are WE as females going to get it together? Why are we so preoccupied telling men how to govern other men when we just want to be able to go around and make a mess and then be forgiven. Why is it so gosh darn hard to tell another black female to straighten the fuck up! You can't because you got black women who will shame you and call you a pick me, who will tell you to stay on code for bad behavior.

@@LukaDonesnitch Because statistically in society black women (generally) have it more together. Black women are not perfect but they definitely support their family, their men and their community.

@@filmadcamp1512 They do not have it more together, this is based on an individual opinion of yours. They are not supporting the community or black men a large swath of black women support themselves and the gynocracy.

@@LukaDonesnitch Actually it is supported by facts and statistics.

I understand that you did what you had to do. I don’t blame you sis. But unfortunately that’s the end goal to have us all divided. You can’t be expected to save the whole race and be single forever. Do you.

Yet your still watching these type of videos stop lying

Married to a family that dont want you in it. Your a stain on the family tree 😂😂.

@@living9377 Indeed. They're trying to take us away from the bigger picture. This is about our liberation. IR dating can never lead to our liberation.

@@youcantberacisttowardswhit3917, im telling you she don't have no man of any race and it's funny how they lie, and say they have a white man when they really don't.. And they are not protected by them either.. She's probably some very unattractive dark skin over weight Blk woman those are the main ones talking about divest and she's probably a foreign Blk woman at that..

@Info Tech Yes, you're right, some Black women have serious issues, but so do white girls, but Black men will take the ish THEY throw at them with no complaints! I'll never! forget hearing a little overweight Becky call her Black boyfriend the "N" because she was mad about something he couldn't handle inside the supermarket! When she saw me cut her a look, she changed her attitude quickly! I didn't cut her that look because she called her "significant other" the "N" word, no, I did it because I'm Black also, and if you'll call him that despicable name, you would call my brother, father or any other Black person that name if you were angry enough. Sometimes I think that Black men not only hate Black women but they hate themselves the most, and that's sad.

I hate to say this but it's the complete opposite. BW don't take accountability for anything, at least nothing that reflects badly on them. Not just in relationships but even with raising children. Think about it, whenever a black single mom raises a son and he grows up to be a professional athlete or entertainer she takes all credit but if that son grows up to be a felon then it's because "His daddy wasn't there." As much as BW say that they're the backbone of the black community they only want to take credit for all the good but for all the bad they blame it on BM.

@@mskfc1 Here you go repeating this tired old trope that has been disproven for decades. What you just said is some bullshit. 51% of black men are single and childless. 64% of black men are in the middle-class and according to the CDC black men make the most active fathers. Of that percentage of black males 85% are married to BLACK WOMAN. So black men haven't been running to non-black women, statistically speaking for the vast majority of us black women are our first choice. Everything I just said is a fact that you can check yourself with a simple Google search. Educate yourself next time before you keep spreading lies.

@@themaddogofcrenshaw7367 lol maddog will do🥰

Black women need to learn accountability.

Speak facts sis

I guess 🤷🏽‍♂️ who cares? Im a black man and I dont value marriage at all. I dont need it. Dont want it. But out of curiosity I looked it up. Black women are most likely to get divorced, least married and most often single. Interracial marriage or black on black. Folks just cant deal with you guys for long periods 🤷🏽‍♂️

@@naysaynetwork5271 they ain't tryna that part. And most of us brothers are tired of there bs, and they love the ray rays and pookies🤷🏿‍♂️

@@naysaynetwork5271 bro you toxic asf..

@@notasaint8855 truth is toxic 🤦🏽‍♂️ Im with a black woman btw. 7 years.

Exactly! That’s why the argument is going growing so much. Women have legitimate reasons for why they think the way they do and so do men. But I’m not seeing a lot of people talking about how to solve these issues. I’m seeing more and more that people think it’s best to leave black alone when you choose to find a mate. It’s sad.

@@TheShumakeWay Well bm divested years ago and you have seen the results of the situation right now. Now BW are choosing to divest from BM, now it's a state of emergency because it's affecting the BM. The BM didn't care that the BW was left struggling to provide and raise children alone. I have said for years, BW were tired of being disrespected,m and concerns pushed aside. BW have done the best they could to support and encourage even when it wasn't returned. It's bad enough BW are hated by so many and for the BM to hate BW is gut punching.

@@TheShumakeWay, the solution is quite simple. Work on yourself. When you want to change the world, you start with the person in the mirror. The thing is bw ARE working on ourselves. We're holding ourselves accountable, fixing our mistakes. We're seeking therapy. I've only seen a handful of men talk about going to therapy. Because of this, when bw come out on the other end with a brand new mind, there's no one to meet her there. The first person she looks for is the bm. He's still stuck on blaming her even AFTER she's fixed herself, not realizing that he himself is still broken. You can't date, marry or mate with someone that still has that mindset, otherwise, what was the point of you working on yourself? The bm's best option is to stick with the bw. However, bw's best option is to expand her dating pool. There's just not enough good bm to go around. You sir, are few, far and between. You're really a needle in a haystack and that's the sad truth.

@@bjmartin6684 no one wants to have that conversation. They began trying to divest 15-25 years before Loving vs Virginia. This was during the time when Emmitt Till was murdered. They just had to have a white woman even if it killed them 😳

Thank you baby for being honest

right keep it MOVING

There is no incentive in being with black men. Like none!!!

If you are done with “Black Men” then you are done with yourself, and anyone you love that is a product of the Black man and woman Union💀💀‼️

@@jady7559 soo true😂🤦🏾‍♀️I hate y’all🤧🤣

@@jady7559 LMAO AS IF

Talk to your brothers, be the change that the younger generation can look up too, check your brothers behavior when you see them acting and talking like degenerates!

Truth🙌

Exactly!

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Facts...problem brothas like this are far and few in between

Dating outside your race does not mean Dating "white" but this matter speaks to BM/BW with the introduction of ww into the mix

Is Rachel Naker your real name?

💯💯💯💯💯Right!!! I just clicked off a video (a black man in Colombia talking about how the women are the most beautiful... 👀🤔 have you even been all over the world?) and landed peacefully here...

It is so nice to a black man speak highly about the sister on youtube and keep it real and calling out people who hate on their own people keep up the good work

@True Truth why are you being bitter

Why do you think he's a diet cola or something?

@@tjwalker1755 lol good one

And you want see other races of women step on their men even when they do step up. Our race is cursed, big time.

​@bryangardner2374See ya too fool.

...lol

@👑DonBossalini👑 Peace ✌ Good luck to you and bottom shelf Becky 😘

@👑DonBossalini👑 That was a good one wasn't it..😉🤣 Have a blessed night 🌙✨

Black women put here discussing the truth and they call it bashing. There is nothing to fix.

Same sis, look at these men on these channels arguing with women. If they don't care that we're moving on why be so hostile about it? All the "we don't care about you anyway, be gone" nonsense they carry on with. Sir, if you didn't care you would keep your mouths shut and carry on with your lives. Y'all sounding really bothered 🤭🥴

That’s why slot of black men act the way they do. Black women referring to them as kings. Kings build and they don’t won’t and never have.

What in the hell makes you think we want to deal with that high and mighty ish? Queen? Divas? We Hate It. Now wonder ol boy bounced. Respectfully mam.

@@joewatts8018 I have never once heard a black man ask a black woman to call him a king, NOT ONE SINGLE TIME. I have heard plenty of women call themselves and demand people refer to them as Queens, Princesses, Divas, Boss Bitches, A Prize, The Table, Goddesses, you name it. So, it's not the black man who's the problem a lot of these females are regular human beings, you're not a demi-god you eat, shit and sleep like the rest of us. You are not a person to be pedestalized and propped up on some soap box to be worshiped by a man. That is severe narcissistic behavior.

@@joewatts8018 they want sugar daddies 🤣🤣🤣

@@vinco4rilla so do white women as well

Right with you sista

FINALLY, someone who admits both sides are to blame instead of blaming everything on black men. Usually BW won’t take responsibility for anything.

@Surisukii69 Mercy I wish bm collectively felt the same way. They feel they have no duty to bw or black children.

I found out at the age of 18

I'm afraid so..he hates himself..

How is he hating himself, if he talks about why he hates YOU. He's not you. And you're not him.

No it's a response

@@newyorkfan16 Were all one, dude. If a black man hated black women in general, that means he hated himself.

This has been going on for over a century.

That’s crap!! YOU disrespect US, not the other way around! We put you in that spot to tell the white man to ‘Kiss your *ss, NOT to kiss and do more with white women! You tried it!

@dwight johnson lol 😂 we know brainwashing didn’t skip over you!

Yes, he did! It's time to have candid conversations like this with one another but everyone must come with open mind.

Yup and they’re going to continue serving they’re masters

@Thais Hayes what you mean

@Thais Hayes its both ways but I understand what you coming from

@Thais Hayes The BLM founders have said flat out they wish to dismantle the “nuclear family” (black mother, black father) & are an advocate for LGBT parenting lifestyle or and I quote. “Mother, PARENT and child(ren)

I agree

What have y'all done? Besides being non empathetic to other peoples issues besides your own? There is only one way this war will stop and that is when Black women stop being womanist & feminist and actually listen to other people's issues that they have with them. Not demand that men deal with their control issues, and bad behavior and lack of accountability. When y'all start really caring about what happens with others and not just taking what they say and using it to shame them or manipulate them then others will be receptive of what you got to say. Until then expect more of the same thing.

Right! It’s called polarity

But when a man acts like a so called hard female then hes abusive. So make it make sense you blk women are just idiots

You couldn’t’ve said it any better.💯💯🙌🏾🙌🏾

i agree.

You’re right.

Who the hell you fooling. You never was empathic nor sympathetic to the Black men's plight. Selfish by nature and almost all of you all think is about "me, me".

@@malachiy13 I can't speak to your generalizations. I will say that I don't recall ever "empathizing" or "sympathizing" with your plight. You do realize "apathy" denotes indifference, right ? Sadly, it wouldn't surprise me if you don't.🤦🏾‍♀️

@@malachiy13 Do you even know what "apathetic" means? Clearly not, cause your daft comment wouldn't be made if you knew the definition.

@@malachiy13 go away Tyrone

Imagine talking about BM’s so-called “plight” when, by almost every objective metric, BW are doing far worse in life than BM are. 😂 You Struggle Weaves are hilariously delusional.

I'm not being ignorant just a genral question we've seen what BM dooo but what have BW did that has effected them it's not as obvious as what BM has done, stupid question but yeah!!!?

God are you ok and you’re family

No blk men bashing bw. Bw is just responding.

We need to uplift each other to get past this impass that seems to be driving us apart. A lot of the tension stems from Men's perception of what how they want their women represent them. They want you to be submissive, loyal, homemakers and sexually available at all times for their needs, and dependent on them. They seem to chastise women that are independent, successful, speaks their mind and fail to accept that they are often that way because they had to be strong and take care of themselves and educate themselves. Instead of embracing those as positives men often see that as attacks at their manhood. I feel that men want to keep us dependent and under their thumb and controllable, when we don't have our own they treat us any kind of way, use o!ur bodies, cheat and often abuse us because we don't have an option. But when other submit to that lifestyle we are seen as so combative and difficult. Real men appreciate all we as successful women bring to the table and celebrate us. What more should a man want than a woman that is truly there for love and respect or one that is only there to get all she can from him😢

It’s nothing to talk about. Nothing to fix.

Please go away with your toxicity..if you don’t want to talk just go away and leave those who want to fix things

I’m good

Nonthing to talk bw will still be defiant and messy that will never change

Thank you

Well they're actually not doing well, but they're doing better than us in a lot of ways.

Well said!

It will never be fixed!!

@@IAimToTrigger we don't need your help to fix it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

That goes both ways you bw are not perfect but y'all have this accept me as I am flaws and all attitude that's the problem smh

From their mother's, having them out of wedlock, going from men to men, beating her son's, emasculating them, etc. Same with young black women. A lot don't get along with their mother's. We make poor descissions as a people.

@Marly B I said, "we make bad decisions as a people". It's the group as a whole. When women purposely pick a bad man, it holds hard on her, not saying the men are not at fault, but women usually discount the nerdy, decent black men, in their child bearing, or prime years, in our culture.

@Marly B One thing I noticed about women, they don't have accountability strongly. Yeah, they may raises the kid, feed them, or half way raise the kid, or the kid is stuck with her. The woman is the gate keeper to sex. When you tell her, your a bad mother, etc, she can't take it. Men, we don't argue against criticism like women, as a whole, but I think this is because the women are left with the kids, and they feel like, you can't judge them, but it's nature as well.

@@bluejay9968 at least the mothers were present.

@@floodworldwide5260 the fathers would be present too if the women made better choices. If BW would 'marry before you carry' it would reduce the problem by at least 75%

Real talk

Bye bye now.

Yes, tell them to disappear, so that we never have to see their back-stabbing faces again.

I know black women who are in healthy, happy relationships with Filipino men, too. I guess Filipinos are just more respectful then blacks in general huh? (Rhetorical question). There are whole threads of men of different races who love black women and who get respect from them. It goes to show that out of millions of people in every race of people, there are good and bad men and and women. Also the energy you take into a relationship will also contribute to the energy you receive. It’s beautiful that you have a happy marriage, but best believe it isn’t because black women are inferior to your Filipino wife… because conscious black men and men of a plethora of other races prefer us. Your marriage is happy because you met the love of your life. Nothing more nothing less.

@@ErinDeNis Get real. Only a tiny percentage of non-BM prefer BM. BW are the least desired and least married group in the US by a country mile. No one else is even close.

Thank you

@@TheShumakeWay you just want subscribers. Lame

These guys are far and few

Who told you to lay down and have 3 kids without a ring

@@kingmussalini2430 who said I didn't have a ring? Even if I didn't, it doesn't take away the fact that black men need to do better by black women and their children. Shows your ignorance and that maybe you fall into the category of these type of men. Totally missing the point. SMH

He wasn’t standing up for us. He was just not biased. But even that is more support than what we usually get.

@@1newwoman07 and who supports those legitimate good brothers who work and have the desire to create black families, settle down and be stand up men? Instead the brothers that are the opposite of whom I described tend to get less support from sisters. Just stating observations and I dont hate or dislike BW just calling it how I see it. If our community needs to have a conversation then lets have the conversation as this gets glossed over, again, and again, and again.