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Ive mentioned this a few times, and wanted to both explain because its not a known discription, jjust somthing from an old workplace, and because i wanted to link this in uture if people ask.
That last reason is because there is a shocking amount of it im witnessing and although ive seen it enough in real life for it to have a name, its taken me aback that there is that much out there.
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@dunovancarr4879
@dunovancarr4879 5 месяцев назад
It is called Stolen Valor in the US. I will never understand why people try to pretend to be something they are not when especially at that young age you could just step up and be whatever. Anyhow, I'm really impressed with the string of videos you have put our lately. Well done.
@aloneinfinland
@aloneinfinland 5 месяцев назад
Thank you, thats nice to hear. As for the stolen valor, my oppinion and experience on this is that the people who do it cant actually step up. maybe mentally (not dissability, usually kind of lazienness), physically or they have self esteem issues, so they fabricate to feel better and get some validation. I genuinly think its the same mental motivation that makes a lot of social media including myself, but the need dialed up to 11 for these people. I also think the a lot of 'influencers' have this exact same issue at the dangerious level, the partner shamers on tiktok, the instagram models that alter their photos, or the political podcast spewiers that are just lying their ass off, as opposed to the funny tiktokers, real models, and actual commentators that put out facts. Its all the same cause and problem, just the stolen valor is far more disrespectfull. In this kids case, he wasent doing it to one up people, he was doing it to fit in, And he was in a place with a LOT of masculine men and capable women, i can easily see why any person coming into that place felt like a child, and thig guy more so. By far he wasent the only one, i could do decades of stories on that place alone, but he was the most prominint example.
@Donathan1869
@Donathan1869 5 месяцев назад
I have to admit that I've been guilty of this. It's taken a lot of feed back to point it out to me. Thanks for the video. Hopefully it will help others. Being called out helped me to over come it.
@aloneinfinland
@aloneinfinland 5 месяцев назад
yeah i think that definatly dose help, i saw it with alot of kids, and then a few of the workers, and jumping on people did stop it. In this guys case thow he was never called out until the accident, and in part it was bullying, people laughing at his expence and him not realising, but also because he was a little special, so noone wanted to be the guy to dump on him, even if it was well meaning. Maybe its something we all have in the beginning and we grow out of, but we dont all grow the same way.
@BalefulStar
@BalefulStar 5 месяцев назад
I've similiar and probably just as pathologic story, relative worked at soviet printing factory mid 70's and one of the workers had a hand injury with a press, next day there's a huge number of security officials on inspection and they question all the employees what did they see and how did it happen, and one woman when asked goes "it happened just like that!" puts her hand into live press and pushes the button. It was compulsive, she was so moved by the gravity of the situation, intimidated by high level oficials and she wanted to make good impression so much that she lost her hand in front of shocked inspectors, having a lapse in critical thinking.
@BalefulStar
@BalefulStar 5 месяцев назад
Similiar in a way that some people are impulsive and want to be liked a little too much, the combination not compatible with good judgement, they arent bad or stupid, just can't help it
@aloneinfinland
@aloneinfinland 5 месяцев назад
well thats a mistake that i immagine everyone that saw it would never forget or repeat!
@Jaham32712
@Jaham32712 5 месяцев назад
I have a coworker who, while not really known for immediately saying "I also did that", is absolutely of the same general personality. He is fresh in the military, but believes himself to be the toughest/best trained person in the room. We live in a rural area, most everyone knows guns fairly well. But he is the only one who constantly has to talk about his "expertise" on the subject. Even went so far as to say he is the only employee who would be any good in a gunfight 😂 for one thing, what a crazy thing to even think about, for another he would probably curl in a ball and cry. There seem to be quite a few young men who are mentally much younger than they actually appear.
@aloneinfinland
@aloneinfinland 5 месяцев назад
We actually call that sergent syndrome in Scotland. Mainly someone who has been in the army, but never deployed, and then when they come out they know everything about everything. Its a Big problem here in finland too, because sometimes u get 20 year olds that have done their 6 months nationa servace and come out thingking they know how to do everything better than anyone else. However with the exception of automatic rifles and tracked vehicles, their actual training is on par with a scottish kid that went to the scouts for a few years. And funnily their shooting qualification is shorter range than my master at arms badge i got in the scouts when i was 16.
@Ironyko
@Ironyko 5 месяцев назад
I like what I hear, I listen when you talk about ganks, to understand what their mechanics are and I try to make a logic that I can take into account, in eve I only like industry, mining, inventions, I have 5 R&D agents lvl 4, planetary and from time to time I do mining missions :), yes I also have 4 ALT pieces :) The eve universe is very big, I haven't mined so far in the wormhole and the security mission, there is a lot to talk about and google translate can't stand me anymore :) Good luck, I'm waiting for the next video :)
@aloneinfinland
@aloneinfinland 5 месяцев назад
I live in finland my friend, google translate hates me too 😀
@tizzerpheonix7602
@tizzerpheonix7602 5 месяцев назад
So long as i can plex my accounts that's all i aim for in eve :P personally all extra's are bonus
@MassMultiplayer
@MassMultiplayer 4 месяца назад
buy plex if you want dont flex as noob game complex and long to learn and techincal, backstab lies manipulation, stealth, false friends, power trip buy plex, but get ready to lose alot early (anything you have in space, undock.. npc station!) undock t get ready to loose it dont ragequit losing your plex into bling ive done it! (i play since eve start, done many mistake, i still play!) good explanation of get plex but dont burn isk quickly so easy to buy stuff and shine and lose it, so ahrd to survive\wich make eve epic
@MassMultiplayer
@MassMultiplayer 4 месяца назад
24:00 i play 100% station trade after 20ish years of eve love your voice tonality, pace, precision of talk asmr and good eve content i know most of what you say but its fun to lisent ! liked subed commented i check older video for fun anything related to trade im down! specialy item information any module you talk about im interested
@andynewport3465
@andynewport3465 4 месяца назад
So did you lot actually spend any time doing the work you were getting paid for? ..must be an office thing
@aloneinfinland
@aloneinfinland 4 месяца назад
Interesting assumption, but this wasent in an office. i think your miss understanding the situation , this wasent 'at work.' We lived on site these things are what happened in yout time off, evenings , days off etc. The people there work 80 hours a week plus in the busy periods, 48 hours a week outside of that time. As an example, when i sttarted doing thir job, i was on a 48 hour a week contract, and had 6 weeks holiday a year, if i worked over i got my time back. at the 'end of the year' they had to pay me my holidays (they had refused them so i had to be paid in lieu) plus 2 weeks they couldent give in time, and i still finished on the 4th of october, while being paid the rest of the year in back pay.
@andynewport3465
@andynewport3465 4 месяца назад
Did ye aye
@andynewport3465
@andynewport3465 4 месяца назад
I’m only pulling your leg pal😄 keep up the vids , I find them interesting o7
@CruentusV
@CruentusV 5 месяцев назад
afraid you missed your mark because your story very much concerns EVE (maybe more so pearl abyss, though). they count on the "black belts", the "whales", and the host of other wanna be's. the game has always been more than what we fly - it's always been how we play. that's how ccp and pa slowly kill the game: squeezing out every spare penny the me too's will spend by limiting how the others enjoy themselves...
@aloneinfinland
@aloneinfinland 5 месяцев назад
i think / hope its more Hanlons Razor at work, and that CCP just arent considering or thinking about how most people play. The majority of eve players have been solo for along time, as it is for everyone in the beginning of playing. They realised this with abyss, but then steered back into the multi aspect with the later developments. But by their nature solo players have no representation. if someone dose represent them and become part of ccp, they then become more intergrated into the multi aspect by just being in the office and playing with others, they move away from the origins and forget it. They need some peopl to feed ideas from the quieter sides of the community, problem being if you ost any ideas like that on the forums or reddit the toxic side shouts them down. Ive made a fair few posts over the years, and every single one without exception that suggested any kind of change (some that eventually happened) always had agressive toxic replies from some people, people that dont get banned fromt he forums, just their posts removed. So people are less likley to comment a second time.
@CruentusV
@CruentusV 5 месяцев назад
that toxic crowd's shut down and turned off a lot of players who had good questions and points (that no one ever seems to hear) and not just in the forums and comments. i won't go near corps (except to cull a few of their chickens while flying cheap fits). also, won't spend a real penny on the game, or plex, either. love the game, though; and i'll be playing it till the day it shuts down (or they kill alpha). still, the sky's are emptier more and more. flying through a lot of lonely systems. so that toxic crowd (and hilmar's "vision") is continuing to drive away players...
@aloneinfinland
@aloneinfinland 5 месяцев назад
@@CruentusV yeah they are loosing players, and i think not talking about it is aslo part of the problem, the allience sheep are in their bubble and dont really care about the game outside their experience so they dont notice the quiet. even people that live in caldari space dont see it as bad because people migrated there. And thats part of the issue the most vocal player base in the game cant see the issue, so they deny it exists because 'ccp ihasent said that' even though by almost all metrict asside from new accounts opened, even is getting smaller. But new accounts opened isint the same as players actually joining the game. CCP them selves show in one statistic that over a third of new accounts never entered the game!
@CruentusV
@CruentusV 5 месяцев назад
@@aloneinfinland the simple fact we are having this discussion (and where) unmolested by the hate crowd speaks volumes...
@aloneinfinland
@aloneinfinland 5 месяцев назад
@@CruentusV not yet, I dont get lots of views. Maybe in the future 😀
@tizzerpheonix7602
@tizzerpheonix7602 5 месяцев назад
Takes me months and so much time to get 80bil i be lucky to make 200bil in a year if i am lucky and and i don't fuck up shit i lost over 100 bil last year there is no certainty in eve
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