My partner is 48, He had massive sexual emotional and physical abuse as a child. I’m really committed to trying to make sure that he’s well in the future I love him very much. However I find that I have my own traits that point to borderline in some instances. And you’re certainly right about the therapists and hospitals and everyone else don’t want them especially a 6 foot three very fit very muscular man who can throw a tantrum and then actually disassociates and not remember what he’s done in that tantrum. 😞
What your mother did to you, that's worse enough. It sadden me very much that we lowered our standards of how people should treat one another, to a point that childeren are expected to be resilent to a parent treating them like this.
You are right, though intergenerational trauma is something that people fight against. I think more it's that there is no excuse to give up and not fight against intergenerational trauma. Thoughts?
