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Breaking Generational Cycles of Trauma | Brandy Wells | TEDxKingLincolnBronzeville 

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Brandy shares a personal story of how a 8 year old girl who felt abandonment begin her healing process because of the birth of her own daughters as an adult. She challenges the ideas and practices of generations before her, to show up for her younger self all while being conscious enough to raise daughters intentionally. The 8 year old girl as an adult makes amends with her younger self and encourages the audience to do the same! Brandy shares a personal story of how a 8 year old girl who felt abandonment begin her healing process because of the birth of her own daughters as an adult. She challenges the ideas and practices of generations before her, to show up for her younger self all while being conscious enough to raise daughters intentionally. The 8 year old girl as an adult makes amends with her younger self and encourages the audience to do the same! This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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26 авг 2024

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@jameslozano8323
@jameslozano8323 3 года назад
“Going back to the place in which I was wronged as a child, and telling her ‘I’m sorry that happened to you.’” Thank you for this. I can’t explain what this did for me as soon as I heard it.
@tyq517
@tyq517 2 года назад
Hit like bricks
@emilydavid3104
@emilydavid3104 Год назад
That just struck my heart. So deep.
@wellbodisalone
@wellbodisalone Год назад
It's time to break the cycle of generational trauma. You deserve something a lot better.
@christinea7092
@christinea7092 2 года назад
“You cannot pour from an empty cup.” Love this.
@hannahh5514
@hannahh5514 2 года назад
“I refuse to leave a story written of pain”
@choaticlifeofpurvi
@choaticlifeofpurvi 2 года назад
she was nervous but kept going such a brave person she went through so much
@cherhaffen-ut1xb
@cherhaffen-ut1xb 7 месяцев назад
It grows one up right! Children are wonderful teachers if people will listen? a beautiful masterpiece!
@Nikitaxo24
@Nikitaxo24 2 года назад
I love the poetic language of masking ourselves from trauma. Very touching.
@JanieandMuma
@JanieandMuma Год назад
3 Minutes in I can relate tremendously. The birth of my first daughter at 21 was so pivotal, never did I experience a love for another being the way I did when I first saw her. Forget "puppy love" boyfriends or "best friends", my daughter was the beginning of my healing journey and she has not a clue. I saw her look at me like I had never seen anyone look at me. She looked at me like I was the best thing God put on earth . At 21 I had such a low self esteem (of course I didnt realize it then), how could this baby think that of me. It opened up my eyes to see that I had in fact been in an emotionally abusive relationship with her biological father. She saved my life. Now, here, 8 years later I realize God put her in my life to remind me of all the suffering or traumatic moments I had experienced as a child in order to pave a new life for her and ensure she got what she deserved, the space to blossom and grow into WHATEVER makes her life fulfilling. Thank you for sharing this!
@TrueCrimeTales4U
@TrueCrimeTales4U 6 месяцев назад
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@eddiern
@eddiern 3 года назад
I needed to see this now. The universe sent me here🙏🏽
@malkahavah5853
@malkahavah5853 2 года назад
His name is YAHUAH! YAHUAH sent me here
@RestorationEdenMinistries
@RestorationEdenMinistries Год назад
When she said EPIGENETICS I could have fainted. Yeesss!!! Epigenetics also explains spritually inherited proclivities also.
@winnd44
@winnd44 4 месяца назад
She ate this whole speech 👏👏👏 A lot of things to thinks about
@alexisramirez9574
@alexisramirez9574 Год назад
I am no good to anyone if I am no good to myself!!! ❤❤❤❤
@TerrelleCheers1
@TerrelleCheers1 4 года назад
took me awhile to get to this video, but the moral of the story is generational pain runs so deep its internalized in order to survive. we fear whippings so much that we become tramatized from the degree of punishment over reward. ask the reason why? help strengthen within
@loretta10
@loretta10 3 года назад
Love this ... one question , why don’t we have cable shows all day everyday like this ? Keep on keeping on Brandy
@JanieandMuma
@JanieandMuma Год назад
I think because the TV networks can't profit if the viewers know their self worth. I am so thankful for youtube and it's content. It can be so educational when you are trying to improve yourself.
@scientificallysatvik1650
@scientificallysatvik1650 2 года назад
Dammm. I can relate sooo much. I am feeling and reliving every single word of hers. The - " I was getting triggered when I saw my husband being the best one. Because "I" Wanted that". Sooo true. I get trigger when I see my brother being the best Dad to her daughter. Coz I wanted that. Nd I didn't got that. That triggers me like anything while I love my neice with all my heart 🙏🙏
@user-xf4ze2zr4h
@user-xf4ze2zr4h 5 месяцев назад
I'm so glad you over came and thank you for sharing your story Brandee Hayes 🙏
@dmquinta1140
@dmquinta1140 4 года назад
That was beautiful and made me cry. Thank you for sharing your story!
@scientificallysatvik1650
@scientificallysatvik1650 2 года назад
It just 2minutes in nd I cannot tell you how relatable this looks like. Dammm😭❤
@melissasue3328
@melissasue3328 2 года назад
Girl YES! I hear you. I see you. I feel you and I am with you!
@eimyroman8879
@eimyroman8879 Год назад
To just know you’re not alone in this world and you can fix so many things within . So comforting 💖. Everyday I wake up and aspire to be a better person and to run into these types of videos it’s just so powerful . I wish my parents knew all of this .
@jorgeberumen751
@jorgeberumen751 3 года назад
This will help others in so many ways. Thank you for sharing!
@stellaforde8378
@stellaforde8378 4 года назад
Thank you, this was great. It really opened my mind and bettered my understanding of transgenerational trauma!
@rollavibez
@rollavibez 2 года назад
This is the most relatable speech I have ever heard. Loved this
@Healing_luv
@Healing_luv 9 месяцев назад
Healing in this message. Taking notes & putting it into action. Sonya.. I am proud of you for being such a dope mom. I went thru allll of the trauma at such a young age just to protect my lil princess from inheriting that trauma.
@XiomaraThaGoddessMeow
@XiomaraThaGoddessMeow 4 года назад
Wow, I NEEDED this... So many confirmations of my own story, told through another. ✨💚✨
@playsavedthechild.2848
@playsavedthechild.2848 3 года назад
I liked your talk. on many levels. Especially meeting kids where they learn. resonates with me. Thanks for your "witness" statements., and caring for community and children's development.
@nelsoncarreiro6099
@nelsoncarreiro6099 3 года назад
Thank you for your beautiful gift to the world. 🙏💕
@m.m.williams5776
@m.m.williams5776 4 года назад
Yes!!!! I’ve been waiting for this!!
@BeeYou369
@BeeYou369 4 года назад
Thank you for your bravery Brandy Wells
@YahuahIsKing1229
@YahuahIsKing1229 2 года назад
Absolutely incredible. Thank you, Brandy!
@MwapeLaxtone
@MwapeLaxtone Год назад
Profound!! It's worth the time thanks for sharing
@BritneyDearestFamilyVlogs
@BritneyDearestFamilyVlogs 4 года назад
Beautiful work Brandy. Since I began following you on Instagram, I have been inspired by your words and experiences you have been transparent enough to share. I hope you continue to reach many more people who are encouraged to take action. 👏👏👏
@gracevilla7916
@gracevilla7916 3 года назад
What is her Instagram??
@suzannesanders3286
@suzannesanders3286 3 года назад
Important work you are doing! Thank you for sharing!
@bradhunt9518
@bradhunt9518 9 месяцев назад
No facade,just the real you. Be proud,you are the only you on the face of the earth, make you as good as can be made. Its a short life.
@RR-pn6kf
@RR-pn6kf 4 года назад
9:24 Powerful!
@alexisramirez9574
@alexisramirez9574 Год назад
Teach and model the behavior I want to see !!❤
@christophersimonbrennan6479
@christophersimonbrennan6479 3 года назад
Thanks for sharing your process. So much for me to think about. C
@blueorion13
@blueorion13 Месяц назад
amazing, thank u
@littletiff1000
@littletiff1000 3 года назад
Beautiful words it almost feels like you’re speaking my story
@arlinegeorge6967
@arlinegeorge6967 3 года назад
Interesting n informative talk. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.
@stantonspoons
@stantonspoons 3 года назад
Watching this just in time. 👌
@alexisramirez9574
@alexisramirez9574 Год назад
Thank you this is so helpful and I appreciate all you taught me.
@mshannahloganshow
@mshannahloganshow Год назад
This is just gorgeous.
@funfrugalfly
@funfrugalfly 2 года назад
Wow. Just wow.
@QueenTenasia
@QueenTenasia 3 года назад
This was EVERYTHING! Give Thanks 👑💓💯🙏🏾
@oonajane6605
@oonajane6605 3 года назад
this is so important; thank you!
4 года назад
Thanks you, very inspiring ! 🙏
@tyq517
@tyq517 2 года назад
Im just at a loss of words..this hit hard
@bevanboth9125
@bevanboth9125 3 года назад
Brilliant, love you Randy 4rm RSA Cape Town ❤️👏💕
@jo1681
@jo1681 3 года назад
I'm surprised that this doesn't have more views
@santigabriel333
@santigabriel333 Год назад
This helped me so much
@lovealways2544
@lovealways2544 Год назад
BRAVO!
@reginab8145
@reginab8145 2 года назад
Put on your mask FIRST! Great job lil sister!
@Caliban201
@Caliban201 4 года назад
Very touching. ***An outfit
@lisagibuu498
@lisagibuu498 3 года назад
Me too I’m in out reach in urban
@santigabriel333
@santigabriel333 Год назад
Amazing 🤍
@bribriconte
@bribriconte 3 года назад
youre beautiful brandy
@racheal2036
@racheal2036 8 месяцев назад
Learned behaviours
@alexisramirez9574
@alexisramirez9574 Год назад
11:09
@firesign4297
@firesign4297 Год назад
🙏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🙏🏿♥️
@amber_toiletbowlfingers
@amber_toiletbowlfingers Год назад
7:50 There is no scientific consensus so far that epigenetics plays any significant part in cross generational trauma, let alone in a way that resembles ADHD, ODD, or bipolar (what???). We are in the very early days of understanding the consequences and extent of epigenetics. It _might_ cause extensive symptoms, but she should _not_ be this confident about this. We literally do not know these things yet. I think she's right about culturally transmitted trauma across generations, but the epigenetics stuff is bs and she should know better.
@Epicsburg
@Epicsburg Год назад
I hope she's not just talking
@penyarol83
@penyarol83 2 года назад
You had to stop... using a belt?
@salmyrle1920
@salmyrle1920 2 года назад
I think that was metaphorical 😆
@santigabriel333
@santigabriel333 Год назад
This helped me so much
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