Bride’s Story Inspires Al To Make A Life-Changing Decision | Curvy Brides Boutique 

So inspired by Al's bravery and courage in this and her honest discussion of her struggle with weight loss, beauty, obesity, and health. Her description of being comfortable with yourself and your body while at the same time having to face the devastating realization that the body you have fought so hard to love has health problems really resonated with me. Wishing you a smooth recovery Al and the long life of joy that your kind soul deserves

Can we take a moment to appreciate this sweet nan?! So encouraging and supportive. I can see such a precious connection between this nan and her granddaughter

Glad you are finally at peace with a decision about surgery Al. Praying for a speedy recovery and great success with your future health.

Al just tore my heart out. She is so beautiful, kind, compassionate and brave. Wish her success and all the happiness in the world!!

These women are so supportive and build these brides’ confidence up so wonderfully! It’s beautiful to see and if I could I would travel from the United States to have this bridal experience. I think it would be incredible. 💕💕

"when you have been through enough heart break, you know what love feels like ..." You go sister!

I got married at 25 and divorced by 32. It was an extremely abusive and loveless marriage. I was constantly fat shamed to the point that I have no self confidence. Since then, I am scared of getting close to anyone for fear of getting hurt again and being judged (I am an Indian). But this episode made me have faith that I too deserve and will have a happy ending.

Al is such a genuinely kind woman. So loving. Wishing her the best on her journey because she deserves the best.

I had weight loss surgery in 2003. I think we all go through a "mourning " period afterward. But, i would do it again in a heartbeat. Hugs to you Al.

I just love these ladies. 💕 They are therapists disguised as bridal consultants.

You ladies are so wonderful! I had weight loss surgery 12 years ago. I went from 300lbs. down to 145lbs. I also went from a size 24 down to a size 6/8. And yes it’s just what you said “it’s a tool!” And a lot of people don’t realize just exactly how much work goes into it. Good Luck Beautiful Lady!! Post your updates for all of your fans to see😊

Amy has the perfect and sweetest Nan. She found the perfect dress, and it sounds as if she found the perfect man. Best wishes for having the perfect wedding. Best wishes go out to Al for her surgery.

So happy for AL that she's taking that step to get herself healthy!! So she can be around for her children and grandchildren one day and most importantly for HERSELF 🥰

Rooting for you 100% for the weight loss surgery, Al! I had to lose a lot of weight too, this past year or so, for health reasons rather than aesthetic ones, and I can tell you that yes, it IS hard, but it is SO worth it when those health problems lessen and finally go. (And it won't mean you can never eat cake again, either - not as much of it, and not as often as before, maybe, but it can still be an occasional treat. 😊)

I couldn’t stop crying throughout this episode. Everyone deserves happiness, support and health. I hope all these beautiful ladies get the best out of their lives and their children’s lives!

Al, good luck with it all, and when Jo Pulled out THE dress like a magic fairy godmother, more proof you two are the best!

Al wishing you a speedy recovery after your soon to be surgery. You are gorgeous inside and out 🥰 wishing the bride a happily ever after

Al - I know I am not alone when I say there is an entire community of strangers here in this channel and elsewhere who love and support you and NEED you to be healthy.

I love Al & Jo! Keeping everything honest & respectful with the bride. They're the bride's therapist, cheerleader, support team etc. Many blessings to Al & Jo 💛💛💛

Al, you have helped countless women on their journey to become happier and more accepting of their true value, now your decision makes us all happy for you as you deserve to live the healthiest happiest life you can, for yourself, your children, and for your many fans worldwide. We support you all the way.🌷

I just loooooove a show helping people build their confidence FOR ONCE instead of exploiting their lack of self confidence for views. So emotional, so nice to see 💜

I’m so happy for you, Al, you are such a bright light, so full of love for others, such an absolute expert at giving your love, your calm, your compassion, your support. You always respond to the needs of others with such grace and empathy, it’s your turn to feel our love and support, you will have it in heaps!

Good on you, Al! You’re such an amazing person. The world is a better place because of you and Jo, and we’re blessed you’ll be around for a long time to come, because you’ll have this surgery.

We're all rooting for you Al!! So much love and support coming at you always, and especially during your health and healing journey!

This is my absolute favorite episode of this show. The support they have for each other is incredible. The world needs kinder people like this.

Al, you can do anything. You have the heart, the will and the support of everyone who loves you. And girl, we who love you are legion! You are a light to all of us who share your struggle. You CAN do this!

196 pounds lost!? That's incredible! I only hope I can lose half that much after I have my sleeve surgery. You're amazing Amy! Glad you've been doing so well Al!

You deserve happiness , don't sell yourself short. You have everything going for you. Stand tall Aimee, and believe that you are deserving of much happiness 😊

I am so happy for Al and her decision; we can all tell her she looks amazing! But, I’m still convinced she and Jo can do Curvy Brides despite the weight loss. Who better than Al and Jo to know the journey of plus size brides.

My first time I got married, it was at a courthouse, so I really didn't care if I had a bug wedding with a dress, etc, but it was my second husband's first marriage and he really wanted the wedding, dress, reception, etc. So we did! That was 27 years ago and we're still going strong!! I married my best friend, we were friends before we dated, and we're different but we work well together!

I love the bride but also that nan is adorable ❤

Oh Al your beautiful and kind, you are so understanding and thoughtful. I hope everything goes well. The bride looked lovely. You and jo manage to make every brides visit special. ❤

That last part of the video when Al talked about surgery... so touching! I was about to start crying. Al and Jo are such amazing people, they deserve all the best in life! I really hope Al makes the right decision for herself and her loved ones

Awe Al. This brought tears to my eyes. You help so many brides through very challenging times and help them find their confidence and beauty. I hope you know how many people are sending you our love and support. We all wish you the very best through your journey. ❤️

Al, I think you are such a lovely, kind and supportive person. I hope others are as good to you as you seem to be to others. Weight loss surgery is a very difficult choice. I have been on the weight loss roller coaster all of my adult life. I made the decision to have a sleeve gastrectomy as opposed to the gastric bypass surgery. As you said, it is only a tool. I lost a significant amount of weight fairly quickly. Over the course of 3 very stressful years I gained it back and then some. I had the surgery but never really changed my lifestyle nor did I address why I was eating the way I was. Fast forward 10 years, I have finally changed my lifestyle and lost all of the excess weight. It took me almost 2 years but it has been a wonderful journey. It won’t be an easy journey for you but the surgery is a great step. I know you will be successful and happy with your accomplishments. Prior to loosing weight I was pre diabetic, had many issues with back and knee pain, my cholesterol was “dangerously” high. Currently, I no longer need medicine for the diabetes. My back and knee pain has decreased substantially. My cholesterol (although still high) has improved greatly. We don’t know each other on a personal level but I feel connected to you and Jo. Your stories ring true! If I can offer any words of advice it would be to just take one day at a time. You are strong and beautiful! YOU’VE GOT THIS!! Sending you a virtual hug 🤗

What a beautiful bride…so happy for her. Al, you are spot on, weight loss should not be about looks, it should be about getting healthy. We all need to be honest about this, obesity leads to many health issues. Wishing you Al, and the bride, all the best.

I just love Jo and Al. They are so respectful to everyone.

I've missed your posts ladies. I found your channel about 18 months ago & binge watched them so have had nothing to watch for the last months. I'm an average lady but love watching the joy you bring to your brides your channel so inspiring thank you.

Im so happy for Al. 💗 and wish her nothing but a happy HEALTHY life with her family.

Her Nan is just so sweet! I adore both of these lovely ladies!

I cried along with this beautiful bride, because I have walked her shoes when it comes to being married several times. I don't understand why a man that has been married several times is looked at differently than a woman who has been married several times as well. She is happy, beautiful and definitely deserves that happily ever after❤️. God bless her union🙏💖.........Weight loss is about health reasons, but also about how you look at food (a crutch when depressed, anxious, etc). It's the battles inside ourselves that people don't see when they look at a person that is overweight, that's why making the decision to have weight loss surgery is so important to the individual. Good bless you and may you have a speedy recovery ❣️

I just love these two ladies. They are so understanding and kind with a great sense of humour. Thanks for sharing your process Al .❤

Thank you Al for explaining your decision a bit. You’ve shown that you can choose this surgery even if you already love yourself as you are, even if you’re genuinely comfortable and confident in your size. Thank you for acknowledging that there could be real health risks and it doesn’t mean anyone is shaming you about it. It means you’re being honest about what’s best for you and your family. We support you! Thank you for sharing.

Al, your vulnerability in sharing this had me in tears. One day I may be following your footsteps.

Congratulations on a gorgeous dress for a gorgeous bride! I had gastric sleeve in 2013 and I do not regret having it done but it is a lifestyle that you need to follow the rest of your life. It is definitely not for everyone but for those that commit to it I applaud you! God bless!

I love the mum's response to everyone's got their opinion, "oh yus haven't they just.." Those are words of both wisdom and experience. She rolled her eyes so hard lol. I loved it. Sometimes opinions are best kept to oneself and no one else's concern. She seems brilliant.

awe that's beautiful and Al Im proud of you for taking the steps you need for your health

Oh my. That last bit from Al gave me chills. I’m so glad she decided to get healthy for her & her kids. Not just her kids, but the world needs her around for an extremely long time! These brides need her special brand of support & insight along with Jo! They’re an amazing pair. And just looked up Al to see how she’s doing & OMD she looks incredible 😱

We are with you sweet lady!! Take care yourself and I will be praying for your success. Let me tell you...not missing those moments are worth it and grandbabies....girl they are the bomb!!! Lots of love and hugs! 💜💜

She looks absolutely stunning, that gown literally looked as if it were made for her. These ladies are absolutely amazing.

I At the end of the episode I was touched and impressed with Al sharing her personal feelings about weight loss surgery and the struggle. I admire her courage to say it out loud to the public . She instills confidence in her brides so I hope she has people who will be there to help and support her❣️

Sending all the LOVE to Al! Praying for a Safe and Successful surgery. Much Love to you and your family!!

Glad for you Al that you are comfortable moving forward with your decision. I wish you all the best on this journey. Enjoy so much the support you show the brides you work with. Sending love.

That’s a beautiful bride! This dress looks so beautiful on her! May she have her happy ever after💕

This is for Al. I made the same decision almost 5 years ago. I was a survivor of total kidney failure. i had diabetes, sleep apnea, and issues with my lungs. Thanks to a team of brilliant doctors I came back to near normal kidney function, but I was terrified what might happen in the future. Now, 100 pounds later, I can't tell you how fantastic it is to find clothes easily, move around with much less discomfort. But let me warn you this is a lifetime commitment. Whatever your doctor tells you to do YOU DO IT!! Ask all the questions you need to ask and don't budge until you're sure you understand. Your life will change and if, like me, you're a stress eater you will need some therapy to deal. But it is so WORTH IT! I can't wait to see you succeed! Congratulations. My best to you.

I love these women! Such fiercely compassionate queens! Praying for your good health Al.

The choice to have WLS is a really tough one. It took me YEARS to finally decide to go through with it. For me it was when my niece was born in February 2019 and it suddenly hit me that if I didn't do something, if I didn't lose the weight, then I wouldn't get to see her grow up due to my declining health. I cried because the idea of not seeing my niece grow up broke my heart as it had been the greatest joy of my life watching her big sister grow up (she's almost 10 years older than her younger sister). I was 392 pounds at my heaviest (389 pounds when I made the decision to have WLS). I'm two years post-op and currently weigh 179 pounds (I was 175 at my lightest, but you tend to gain a few pounds after you hit maintenance. I've been the same basic weight since September 2021. My weight bounces from 178-183 and I just lose and gain the same few pounds). I went from a size 34 women's jeans (in US size) to a size 12 (in US size). A 6xL top (US sizing) to a medium (again, US sizing). My feet even shrank! I went from a US 10W to a size 9. My ring size also went from a 10 down to a 5. WLS isn't an easy choice to make, and it really is just a tool because you have to work with it for it to work for you. It's a complete life change and the only thing I regret about it... is not doing it for myself sooner. I wish Al the best on her own weight loss journey in improving her health!

Al and Jo are amazing, they are so caring about their brides. They really seem to want them to look and feel beautiful on their wedding day. Most of these shows are interesting for the drama, and the obscene cost of the dresses. But these two ladies make me want to meet and spend time with them, cause they seem such beautiful, loving people. And good luck Al with your journey to better health. Grandchildren are deffinetly worth being around for. From a grandma of 14.

You ladies are amazing. The love and respect you show to all your brides is beautiful. Thank you so much for all you do!

Amy was radiant! As for Al, it's a difficult decision, but she's doing it for all the right reasons. If she were doing it for vanity, I'd balk, but she's doing it for health and longevity and doesn't have unreal expectations.

Congratulations on taking this step, AL. I pray all goes well for you and you achieve the health you're looking for. You have support from around the world, please don't forget that.

You've got this! We can't wait to go on this journey with you! Please keep us updated 🙏 ❤️

Two absolutely gorgeous, loving, caring giving ladies..........Every client is blessed to see them.......Helping others always........Love them both

Such a beautiful episode. I love how sensitive these ladies are with their clients they make each and every one feel special. Absolutely beautiful 💕😇

Good for you, Al! 💕 💕 💕 How beautiful, that one of the women who came to your shop helped put your mind at ease, when you have done just that for countless others over the years! I wish you all the best, and congratulations on your decision to pick up that tool out of the toolbox!

So good to know you've made your decision for your health, your family and your future! You have the love and support from a large community. ❤️

I've become a little addicted to this show. I love the accents and Al and Jo are the sweetest.

And how lovely is her nan, sweet ,gentle and supportive.

I want to wish Al the best of luck! You’re beautiful and strong and you do so much for others! You deserve to do this for yourself and your family! We love you

You are a brave, strong, powerful woman Al. You will surpass any expectations. 🌻

This was a tearjerker. I have lost about 45 lbs but with 35 more to go but I still beat myself up daily. I’m on a plateau of no loss for at least a month now. I feel no one will want me until I lose the weight. Jo’s testimony of her future weight-loss surgery at the end brought tears to my eyes.

The way Nan asked her if that was her dress just melted my heart

I had weight loss surgery 13 years ago. I lost 160lbs bringing me to 130lbs and managed to keep it off. Weight loss surgery is definitely not the easy way. It still took eating healthy and eating smaller portions. I know so many people who have had it and gained all their weight back, plus more. Its not easy and I didn't want to go through all that just to gain it all back. I don't deprive myself, so if I'm at a birthday party or a special event, I'll have a bite or two of cake and it satisfies me. Mostly I try to eat foods in their most simplest form and stay away from processed foods. It gets easier as time goes by to eat right. I wish you luck on your journey. Just remember, its not easy and not a cure-all, its a tool and if used properly, it works! All the best to u!

So happy for Al!!! I can't wait to watch her on this journey

Next to the word "empathy" in the dictionary should be a picture of Al. She is such a good listener and a comfort to the brides to be.

What a sweet nan, what a beautiful soul, she reminds me my late mum.. It brought tears to my eyes... Just the support of a few people in someone's life, can make the difference between being happy or not happy...

You ladies are so special, I’m so glad I started watching your channel.

I started watching say yes to the dress videos as I am searching for a wedding dress myself. I had seen clips of the Atlanta series here and there but never regularly watched. Now that I’ve started watching it on RU-vid ‘curvy bride’ is my favorite. I’m a size 4, definitely not a curvy bride but all I want is for Al and Jo to help me find a wedding dress! 💖

I got that tool 22 years ago and have never looked back. I had been so crippled I could barely walk due to hip displaysia, Best day ever after surgery and weight loss was when, walking my 7 yo to school and she said "Mama wait!" and I said," put a nickle in it little girl and catch up, we are WALKING!" It was a magical moment. Your journey will be so worth it and many years from now you will be so grateful to yourself for having taken the step.

I am so happy Jo is getting the surgery. She deserves every happiness. This beautiful bride also deserves her wedding day. We all deserve to be loved and to be happy.

So proud of you for sharing your story with us. We love you! Praying for you as you walk this journey. Hugs!!!

Al and Jo two beautiful lady's ❤❤

I wish I would have a Gary in my life. We all need a Gary.

That's the cutest Nan ever! She is so supportive and understanding but she is also seems very intelligent

Absolutely stunning and beautiful bride, and the dress is perfect. I've been married several times and I'm ALWAYS put down for it even though I was a victim with complex PTSD's from it all. I've been divorced for 15 years, very lonely but happy with myself. I pray for the right man for me and me the right woman for him but so far no one's come into my life. Amy, you're so gorgeous and you very much deserve the wedding with your most amazing man. Never look back, hun. You go girl! Hugz, Tree

Al you're making the right decision. I wish you the best and many blessings. The bride looks lovely. Best wishes. Love the bride's Nan, Queen.

Wishing Al the very best in her recovery. Everything that she has done for others should come back to her 10 fold.

Oh, Al! You made me cry. I pray that everything will go well and you reach your goal of being HEALTHY, because you are already a beautiful, loving, caring woman. And YES, you need to stay around for a long, long, time! Good health to you, Al. We will be right here rooting for you. God bless you! And to this bride, all the best as well. May you continue to enjoy this happiness. You make the dress absolutely beautiful!

Another happy bride Al. Good luck with your surgery x

I love these ladies they are so open and caring for everyone that comes there prayers for them both

I am so proud of you Al, there is not a word in this world that can even come close too describing it. Sending you massive hug, lots of love and I will always keep a little cake for you😉😉. Lots love and support from 🇨🇦

Al, you are breaking my heart. All of these women you and Jo have helped...you deserve to be healthy and I am praying for you, because you are someone who always gives and never expects for yourself...kindness itself. God bless you and keep you on this journey. You ARE doing the right thing.

Hi to both Al and Jo thank you both so much for all that you do and say to your brides. You know exactly where they’re coming from and how they are feeling, you make them feel so special and you make them feel so good about themselves even when some of their group are still being so nasty it’s a pity there are not more people like you in this crazy world but your brides know that they are safe and sound with both of you. Good luck Al and take care hope to see you back in the boutique soon

Lovely bride, lovely dress, and lovely Al…you have so many people in your corner! And anyone who says weight loss surgery is the easy way out hasn’t done any research on it. It is a different kind of hard, but it is just as hard as losing weight through diet and exercise.

I’m SO tremendously happy that Al opted in for bariatric surgery ...NOT because I think anything about her needs improvement, but precisely BECAUSE she’s such an outstanding human being, and this world needs people like her around a bunch longer! 😊

This made me miss my Grammy. What a sweet experience to have her lovely Nan accompany her for this emotional purchase.

Seeing these videos always make me feel so happy and pleasant, but it’s almost even more pleasant reading through all of these heart warming comments. What a breath of fresh air! 💕

You've been there for all these brides. Now, it's time for us to be there for YOU! You deserve the best life has to offer. Let us remind you of that as many times as you need. 💕

Ugh bawling my eyes watching this. This is by far my fav episode

I had weight loss surgery 45 years ago (USA). It was one of the best decisions I ever made. God bless you and continue to shine bright.💖💖