Bride Feels Completely Overwhelmed Trying To Pick The Perfect Dress | Say Yes To The Dress UK 

SoCalledKaty o agree with u 100% for that

She's beautiful. She just lacks confidence. Where is her Mother to reassure her and be there for her?

Agree

Stop virtue signaling

@@JustActNormal she looked gorgeous in every dress she wore.

The Daisy Jaynes soo true...!

I found it hard too when I was shopping. I was so not happy in my body and I’m sure I tried on at least 30 gowns too. Thankfully I had a really helpful consultant who helped me feel beautiful.

Fat people, fat women especially, are being very much sold the idea that all your problems will go away if you just lose weight. It's worth remembering that someone is profiting off it, whether through diet pills or having to buy less fabric. There's not a magical weight or size where you'll love and be happy when you get there, you'll be happy when you are love yourself regardless of how your body changes or what it looks like.

Aurora Häkli Confidence is everything, and nobody should feel insecure about their shape or who they are. I love self acceptance as long as it’s not to the detriment of self-improvement. You can look and should feel beautiful no matter the weight, just know that in the long term, excess weight causes problems, if not now, but in a decade or two. At the end it’s one’s choice and the more power to them. It’s not about being judged, but about living a fulfilled life.

@@alcyonae Can we stop adding that to the end of sentences when talking about fat people not wanting to hate themselves? They know, they are already told that every time they visit a doctor to the point where even medical professionals won't look at other causes for their symptoms. Especially when us skinny people don't get that half as often, even though weight loss and undernourishment are often more deadly than the same changes to the other direction.

Rashi Koranne amennnnnn loveeee that

Preach girl

I'll say - who gives a FUCK what men like. Look how YOU want to look and feel comfortable... if dumbass men have a problem with that, too bad.

If u are happy with your body, don't worry about men, because then you will attract the right one either way. He will like u the way you are, not the way your body is.

amen!

Ese Kanayo just loved ur thought...most of the body shaming starts at home.. So. That should be stopped.

Ese Kanayo 🙏👑

NO, SHE'S STILL OBESE. Look at those arms. HUge paddles of fat. no no no no no

noRebrand she’s not obese lmao

Ishani K If you think shes at a healthy weight right now then you're delusional. She is obese. The thing is, we're so used to seeing these whales that someone obese seems small. Shes obese and has a long way to go. She still experiences health problems like high blood pressure and increased risks for cardiovascular disease, cancer, birth defects if she chooses to bear a child, etc.

Heck yes! after being a size 22 and having weight loss surgery, I feel like all my friends are mad at me for being smaller than them. I HATE it!

Infinite Worlds you need some new friends! Congratulations on the weight loss!

I FEEL like they are, but they are proud of me in reality. Thanks so much!

Infinite Worlds keep doing what you’re doing! Congrats on the weight loss :)

Its hard to look at yourself after weight loss, because you see parts that needs "work" even more. I was a size 16(Canada) and I am now size 6, and in front of the mirror, many times, I still see size 16. Wishing for a more toned tummy and getting rid of the thick thighs. I feel her somehow, we are our worst critic.

Fazerella right, beautiful friends! !!

Martinitime She seemed like she could barely move. Plus, it just wasn't right for her. You liking that style better doesn't mean she would have loved it.

Even if she loved the way it looked, it's clear she couldn't move well in it. Who wants to shuffle down the aisle?

yes, this first dress was great! the point is, she could not move in it... so it was not comfortable to wear for many hours... - this is important, too

Maina woo bin I AGREE with you, if she would have been more confident....the 2nd dress looked GREAT ON HER!!!

We have the same thought

I agree the second dress was amazing, the halter neck was soooo her! It makes her boobs look fab x

That looked BEAUTIFUL

Agreed - the second dress was lovely and flattering on her.

Olivia Violet she's tried 2 there but around 1:38 she says that she's tried over 30!

They only show a couple of the dresses they tried on.

Olivia Violet Agreed, but I kinda understand her. I am also ashamed of my body (the only difference being that I'm really skinny and in my eyes it just disgusts me - not saying that skinny women aren't beutiful, but I just can't look at myself and go "wow, I feel confident in my own skin") and I can imagine how frustrating it is to be choosing the "perfect" dress for your big day. I would probably break down after two or three dresses as well... ^^"

True, and it seems they picked the wrong shape for her too, is not her fault

It sucks that society has made us hate our own bodies. Try to not think of how you look, but what you do. Go out and DO things you'd never considered. DO fun things! LIVE!! As you'd never allowed yourself to.

Jana 101 It was uncomfortable, and just not for her. To be honest, it made her belly more prominent. The others accented her slimmer waist without showing that little belly-bulge, and they suited her personality more.

She said it was too tight. I mean shes gonna be eating and dancing and sitting. That might be constricting

I think it was the bottom portion of the dress that she was unhappy with.

ThePOPDIVA24 And the fact that is was so tight she could barely breathe 💀

It looked like her boobs were gonna fall out of that one at any moment.

She said it was unconfortable, and I think I would feel the same. That kind of shape forces you to walk in small steps and is very weird if you are not used to it. Is like high heels, they are amazing, but if they doesn´t feel ok they are a nuissance

I thought she looked AMAZING in dress 1!!!

Catimus Prime I thought the discomfort was too evident to really say it was the best for her. I say the way the wearer carries herself accounts for over half the look, and she seemed like she could barely move.

She felt uncomfortable in it, its not about you its about her and her big day

I think she saw it, she even said she liked how it sucked her in. Some brides just don't like the restrictiveness of a fitted gown regardless of how they look. You have to be comfortable too! I love how that dress looks, but I wouldn't wear it on my day because its physically too tight around the thighs to be able to walk and move how I want to.

Snizz .I pretty sure it’s because of the glasses

Yea I was really curious about it, I kept looking at the eyes xD it’s so adorable lol

Erin x it's cause the glass in her glasses is really fat and is distorting her eyes to look like that

God damn it's her glasses the struggle is real with glasses

I agree!! I was shocked, that she reacted so negatively about it...Poor honey! She looked beautiful in all three of the dresses.

It's a dress from ASOS from about 5 years ago. I have it in my closet 😊

Sorry, can't agree.

😂I'm a bony one..Because I have super high metabolism..And this kinda made me sad🙂..I'm still a teen tho

Athanasia Art bonny ones LOL and no, men like whatever they want. Stop saying men don't like skinny women and get mad when someone says they don't like fat women. You don't need to put down skinny women to feel better about yourself.

AHALYA A S Girl, don't get sad. Men like whatever they want. Be happy about your size. I'm sure you're gorgeous.

Tate Sanders THANK YOU x

Kinda agree, but don't be a hypocrite. Realize that you just bodyshamed the skinnier women by (basically) saying that men would exchange them for more curvy women.

UltraCalibur was thinking the exact same thing lol

Sahil Khan yes I agree

Upset* Gorgeous*

Syeda Afsana Keya You want a cookie?

Gay Gallavich Love is he your boyfriend?

That's really sweet ❤

MAY Pornpan idk the first two were crap dresses

ratata I find the first one looks good on her tho

MAY Pornpan i don't think it was supporting her, tbh. And enhancement of the chest area is making her look overall bigger than she is. The third one is definitely the most slimming and elegant :(

MAY Pornpan Exactly! She finds fault with the dresses, but it's herself she's not happy with.

Karen Fuller The first one was too tight That not “finding fault” 😂 I’m pretty sure she wants to be able to breathe and move The 2nd one just didn’t look good on her And she right, it was ugly as hell 💀