Bride Wants A Dress Triple The Cost Of Her Father's Budget! | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta 

THIS! Can't stand grown women acting like spoiled brats.

Nothing wrong with liking expensive things even if you can't afford them. Just don't expect people to use their own hard earned money to just give them to you! Save up or admire them from afar. 🤷🏽‍♀️

@@anitachakita - It's interesting when people say _"grown_ women," when "women" means they're _adult._ It adds an extra degree of derision to the user's opinion.

@@wholeshebang1 never thought about that... although it's kinda obvious. Good point

@@wholeshebang1 LOL it's exactly how I meant to portray it. Grown @ss women - 26 years old. She even started crying after trying on two dresses like a baby because she was afraid she wouldn't find a dress.

That's true and if she wants more than she should be able to pay for it.

IKR!

VERY 👰‍♀️ TRUE 👍

I wish I would've had $2,500 for my wedding dress, if my Dad was willing to spend that much, I think I would've passed out in pure appreciation.

Unfortunately it's these wedding dress shows convincing young women that 2k is the minimum to spend. I would want to stay under 500 and then would hope for minimal alterations and a bargain veil.

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That's what I thought 😂❤

I'm laughing for this comment over and over 😭🤣

Literally same thought

Exactly what I thought lol it was so obvious

When my sister got married there was a wedding dress shop in our town that was going out of business and she got a beautiful dress for $25 too. SHe looked amazing

I did theatre for a very long time, and the things I could find at a Goodwill when the costumer was stuck on what to put me in would shock you. It's the place where all disgruntled newly divorced women dump their dresses. I've found more than one designer wedding dress there, the best one being a Vera Wang for $30.

That is why I donated my wedding dress to a donation store also. I knew there had to be someone that would be able to use it.

I was in a charity shop the other day and they had some really beautiful wedding dresses. I would be more than happy to buy from there if a dress happened to fit me perfectly. I actually saw the identical dress to the one my sister paid £1000 for in a local charity shop. It was £25! It needed the big petticoat underneath but apart from that it was perfect. I do hope someone bought it and had a wonderful day.

Where do I find this place....? Im a single Pringle but I want a wedding dress to look pretty🥲

I'm sure she married a rich man. Just listen to how she speaks of him. Of what he's done for her.

Then her hubs will pay for it

But wears blue eyeshadow! Yikes!

Well, I like expensive things, too. I just don‘t buy them. 😂😅

Hopefully the husband is rich 😂

I think that a seamstress could make a beautiful, simple dress for $2000. A wedding dress is only going to be worn for a few hours and then boxed up. Another dress will be worn for the next wedding...

@@paulaltman9751 there are some women who actually have found ways to recycle their wedding dress to get their money’s worth.

So true. Some of the episodes where they go with an insanely expensive dress, the dress is hideous.

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Because people are shallow, that's why.

Ya, betcha‼️👍🍷🎉

Literally or he would say no or pay the difference🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

yeah, i feel like a big part of the reason why she was unhappy with all those other dresses is because they didn't look the same on her as they did on the models. i tried so hard to find dresses that were specifically designed for and modeled on plus-size brides for that reason but there's just not much out there. wish i knew how to sew, i'd start my own line 😂

True! When I went dress shopping, my sister pointed to a dress on a model and said "that's your dress"....I laughed, it was AWFUL. I tried it on to amuse her. It was like the 7th dress I tried on. The second I saw myself in it? I BAWLED. It was the dress. I was married in it. 11 years ago. It's still my dream dress after watching these videos.

touche!!!!! TOUCHE!!!!! model almost a foot taller than her, and slender, with copper skin.

@@inheritmyshoes9559 😍 WOW

Yeah especially when your more than twice the size of the model, not in a bad way but most models are very long and very not curvy

yes!!! I have always been unclear to why the bride doesn't just pick up the difference in cost?

I would never insist at all that my parents even spend a penny on my wedding. It is my and my partners wedding, not theirs

I always wonder why these brides don't offer to pay for the difference. I can understand you wouldn't be able to if you're 19, but if you're working already, be a grown up and pay.

I agree 100% Tonya

Yup. Ever since I got a job and start making my own money, I never asked anything from my parents considering how much love and money they spent on me just to grow up the way I am...Not saying you shouldn't ask for financial help from your parents but at least put a limit on it.

I swear it doesn't look like ots worth that much, you can find plenty of dresses within the budget

Both are disrespectful of him.

That’s OK just put it on a charge card🥴 I felt bad for her Dad but in the end they always cave. Spoiled Brat!!!

look at the father's face throughout this whole ordeal. he was sweating. not literally. but, he was concerned and uncomfortable. he did not enjoy the experience, because he was afraid for his pocket. shows are edited, but sometimes we read between the lines. mom was eager to get the $7,000 dress, even though she knew the budget. she and daughter totally disregarded it while going through the racks. mom was clearly disappointed that daughter did not like the dress, but couldn't put up an argument. this is not the first time they did this to dad. my feeling is, they truly wanted to hurt his pocket. ALL of them would know why.

Dad should have not caved!!!

Dad should have just not paid at all and just let her pay it herself since she wants an expensive dress sickening selfish brat

Ryt

I don't know why you said you were an Indian (as if that matters). I watched a video the other day of an American Indian girl who slaughtered her father-in-law's budget. It was their retirement money. I was abhorred.

@@amyblack9251 because a middle class Indian girl d appreciate the value of money and hardworkmanship: I worked with Indians in my construction sites, tough lives .

@@seda161 that didn't really answer my perplexion.

@@amyblack9251 the answer is not with me : she is highlighting the tough background: your comprehension is not my interest ; this bride is slightly 27years old (as she states if am not wrong): over budged dress /at least pay 💰 the half of it . As for Ms.Agarwal : she could bring up her ethnicity as much as she d like 👍🏻 as it’s relevant to define the degree of thoughtfulness & appreciation level: end of conversation.

The difference of someone having no taste but liking big price tags

Very easily. I mean I've seen people having no problem spending the money of people they don't even know, lol.

Or be willing to have a very simple wedding

Because they are our parents, that's their duty, tf is wrong with you ??? where are you from ???

She is used to do it for sure. The parents did not teach this air head the real cost of money.

@@lawtraf8008 it's not your parents duty to give you whatever you want with no limits. That's called bad parenting.

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It was quite hideous

I literally said to myself it looked like a cake lol

I was thinking it looked like a bedspread.

The second dress looks hideous and the bride isn't really helping the dress be beautiful, she looks like payton's mom from dance mom, but younger, and the third dress it was okeish, and what was the dress she chose?

You have a great head on your shoulders! It blows my mind how so many brides are incredibly out of touch/ unappreciative. Wishing you and your SO many years of happiness in your marriage. 💕

I mean yeah most of these are staged

LOL

That shouldn't matter. When I am looking to buy a new car I know I can't afford the $60,000.00 Corvette that's in the showroom. I look at it, sigh, and ask them to show me something in my budget.

Exactly 😂

I noticed that too 😆

Good comment.

Yes, I think she'd have been happier to find a dress shape that suits her curvy figure better.

She looked like Lil Bo Peep in the first gown.

I was thinking the same thing that she lacks confidence and her appearance.

The sales people should always bring bride dresses better suited for her body shape ( sale commission 101), along with the bride's fantasy one's she's picked out. The bride on her own will discover the sales person one's are the best suited & look fantastic on her ( if the sales person knows their job). ☆These sales people have to step it up.

The whole wedding wow that's crazy, like it's his hard work, crazy, I feel bad for her husband ,

Again, this is learned behavior. She has two parents. They taught her to be selfish.

It's how they're raised. Daddy's probably caved all her life.

Bringing up by her parents! The same ones you feel sorry for

I'm 19 and I feel bad when I ask my dad to get me a pack of gum at the Grocery store. You can tell that this girl has been SPOILED and her mom was too.

@@PassTheMilk14 You have a sane sense of duty and responsability. They are not spoiled, because it would take the whole responsability off of them and place it on whoever raised them up. But every man and woman, after reaching the age of maturity, which is 12, according to Jewish Torah and vonsequently the Bible, of a sane, responsible reasoning, owes it to him/herself to guard and guide their own person in the best possible conduct regarding their own being and the people around them! Therefore, I would not call it spoilt, just plain "slavery to their sinfulness". No respect to father or spouse that we whitness here is the essence of the mayor lack of reapect towards God Creator and Redeamer, which is the sole reason of ALL our SUFFERING here on Earth! So, to summarize - they are just very very IGNORANT. The lack of knowlege is the root of EVERY sin/crime!!! If those people knew better, they would have acted upon it! Even if that father himself knew better, he would have been the cornerstone, not the mere vallet of the family! And his voice would be heard, cherished and RESPECTED! We reap what we saw. But thank you for preserving your sanity and sounding it loudly in this insane, wrathful society lacking direction. You will be a leader in your community!

Normally the parents pay for half the wedding and couple pays for the other half or brides fmaily and husbands family pay for half

Like mother like daughter

I wouldn't do this to anybody that is so disrespectful you never do that to someone you love especially your parent And honestly if my parent was paying for my wedding dress I would stick to the budget and not do this kind of crap that isn't right

Totally agree.

@@sowmyaaxoxo 😩😂🤣🤣🤣

and poor groom, he's in for a lot of debt.

My best friend rented her wedding dress. Just makes more sense. Unless you are looking up hand down your dress, it seems silly to shell out so much money. Her dress was 150 to rent and 75 to clean. That covered the temporary alterations too.

girl i think marriage is over rated. i am a senior level executive and paramount picture, and own 3 houses that i purchased all by myself. why would i need a man? not only is this girl a spoiled brat but she is not very smart from what i can see. i am the kind of person that even if my dad offered to give me $7000 for a wedding dress i would feel guilty spending that kind of money on a dress i will only wear once. i would probably spend around $1000 on the dress and put the rest of the money towards something useful like a new car or down payment on a house, or maybe buy myself a new gucci or prada bag that i really like. at least of if you buy a really nice high quality bag you really like you will get lots of use out of it for many years to come. i have gucci and prada bags that i purchased 20 years ago and i still use them and they are still in very good condition.

@@breebartkowiakova OMG I say the same thing about a purse. Because you can use it DAILY. I think people should only get married to encourage a unity between 2 people, all that superficial stuff is old

@@lexoxoxoxoxo169 OMG I have a girlfriend who is always telling me that it's ridicules to buy a Gucci or Prada bag, and be spending $2-4K on a purse. But when she was getting married she spent $8400 on a dress she only wore once, and her marriage didn't even last. She got divorced 10 years later. Where as a nice Gucci or Prada bag you can use regularly, and the quality of them is so good they last for decades. I have Gucci & Prada bag I purchased over 20 years ago and I still use them every month and they are still in great condition.

People can value different things. If someone thinks it's worth it to buy an expensive dress to wear for just one day, that's their choice. Also, it's not just any one day, it's their wedding day. It's a day that they'll always remember and cherish. So, there's nothing wrong with them wanting to look and feel their best, and if that's wearing an expensive dress, then so be it.

Right! Either stick to the budget or pay the difference

Honestly how I would probably do my wedding is buy asking how much they will pay towards the entire wedding overall and add that to my entire wedding budget I can pay. To me that would just overall make me feel a lot more in control because they can’t say anything about what I chose to spend more on. That may also just be because I know I won’t care about pretty much anything but the dress and food more specifically the cake. I’ll decide if alcohol is allowed depending on who’s coming.

That was my mum's deal. She gave me a budget of 1.5k and if I wanted something more then I had to pay the difference.

I know right!!

This is exactly what I thought! It looked like it was made to stick out on purpose. 🤔

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Lmao

They totally pulled it out for her

She was taking cues from her mom. The mom had no respect for dad's budget so why should the bride.

@@Suzu777 very true

It did look the best on her. I do blame the mom too. She was pulling some expensive dresses herself. But really, its the moms money too.She should know what they can afford. But, i also think she should have some respect for the dads budget.,

$2500 is not a big budget. We just bought my daughter's dress with that same budget and there was maybe 6 dresses in that price range. We walked out with a $7k dress. It us what it is

@@eringarcia5532 wow, it's so funny when i look at my wedding dress from 1975 . It was 80 dollars. Real nice too. My daughter in law was married in 2010 and her dress was beautiful and it was less than 500 dollars. I would never spend 7,000 in a dress. I don't care if i was wealthy or not. Weddings in general for the whole thing are outrageous! You can have a great wedding for a fraction of the cost if you want. I've been to many.

not their 1st rodeo

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Or let him pay 2500 and pay the difference herself 😭

She needed to be stood naked in front of a mirror with her eyes propped open for a while, so she could see all the pounds of flab that she has and the models don't. That's why the dresses don't look like she wants them to.

SEEMS LIKE? She IS a TOTAL PAIN IN THE ARSE.

For sure 🤣

Imagine if a drop gets on a dress tho😭😭😭

Forget the beer and go with the hard stuff 😂

I think there should be a rule that says unless it is in the budget, you can not soil this dress. Every women who tries an a dress will leave herself as a part of that dress. If the budget is $2500, don't soil a dress that costs $7500. Its ridiculous. Of course if there's more than one daughter, you've got to build a relationship with that family, with hope that they will return for the next dress!!!

This dad was a hoot! My father passed away over forty years ago, but I can hear him saying the same thing this dad did, especially wondering if they had any beer!! LOL!!🤣🤣

You can have plenty of money, but not waste it. You are only wealthy if you earn more money than you spend. The dress is for one day, and she isn't playing for it.

I thought the same.

You can also save money elsewhere in the wedding.

Dad could be in serious debt. We don't know.

Especially considering so many marriages end in divorce..

Why? You have an amazing FUN with fools every day trying to proove their folly - to you, themselves, relatives and the entire world! That is like your own, personal psychology study group!!!

My daughter works in a Bridal Shop that is so popular they come from out of state--boy does she have stories but loves her job.

I actually want to be a wedding dress consultant. I think it would be so fun.

I've been there, done them both and still loved both jobs.

For a girl built bigger, the drop waist usually masks it.

AGREED! It takes a really specific body type to pull off a drop waist

I liked the first dropped waist dress best. I really didn't like Dad's choice. But, yeah, the whole process was disrespectful of Dad.

Good for you

I don't get why they only showed her trying on strapless dresses, when one with straps or cap sleeves might've looked better.

But it still did not look great. I do not like bare shoulders for wedding dresses ….

@@dianneanderson216 well it isn’t your wedding but it is yoru opinion and i will respect that

I agree. She’s lucky to have had this day with her dad so I was actually saddened a bit when she hesitated to go out in his first pick. She looked pretty.

True however it is her wedding and she should wear what she has been wanting for years, however she should pay the difference if it goes over budget

@@dianneanderson216 her pick was also bare shoulders

i don't think the groom sees that side of her... yet

I think maybe dad's aren't as involved in their daughter's upbringing so they compensate with gifts. Eventually they can't stop so they give into everything

Right

Hate to say it, but look at the mother's behavior. The mother completely disregarded the budget. I'm surprised the mom and her husband are still married.

Say it again oo my dear but our time will surely come 🇬🇭🇬🇭

Not a wonderful dad. Look at what he is teaching her. Whine just a little bit and daddy caves. Will anyone be surprised when she does the same to her husband?

Exactly.He should have handed her a check for $2500 and let her go shopping.

I completely agree. Its only fair for her to pay the difference. She wearing it not her dad.

you people, it seems to be your money she's spending, not her dad's!!! you care more about money, dad cares about her daughter!!

She didn't come across as a hassle to me. There have been much more bratty brides on this show. The mom seemed more of the problem.

Especially w it being on TV.

@@gittaraichmann2533 and she cares more about the dress than her dad

@@gittaraichmann2533 Yet his daughter doesn’t seem to care about him. Considering how her and her mother is talking

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@Na No Velvet, silk, linen, wool. Velvet can get up to over 100 Dollars a yard really quickly. There is no limit when it comes to expensive fabrics.

My car 🚗 didn't cost as much as that dress.....

I love ur show but my? Is r u marrying the dress or him / & besides will the marriage last / I got married in a very simple dress & was married 37 1/2 yrs till he died / was truly happy ! Good luck with ur wedding ! DJ

It’s ridiculous

But mom gave her the ok at home to the 7000 dress

that's pretty cool ☺️

i am the kind of person that even if my dad offered to give me $7000 for a wedding dress i would feel guilty spending that kind of money on a dress i will only wear once. i would probably spend around $1000 on the dress and put the rest of the money towards something useful like a new car or down payment on a house, or maybe buy myself a new gucci or prada bag that i really like. at least of if you buy a really nice high quality bag you really like you will get lots of use out of it for many years to come. i have gucci and prada bags that i purchased 20 years ago and i still use them and they are still in very good condition.

You go girl.....👈❤😎

Mine was $500 but on sale for $400 and I paid for all of it by working for it. So I understand what you mean.

@@makemyday5920 what, because the lazy brat got her way.

Y E S

Yesss

Yesss!

That these brides are never offering to contribute the difference tells you they have either no shame or no money put aside.

Exactly. I mean, if you're able to get help, then get it.🤷🏻‍♀️ I've been married twice and bought my dress both times by myself. I'm sure if I had asked my parents for help, they might have given me *a little bit* but that's it. I definitely wouldn't have assumed that from them.

That shows they were raised to have good values. Good job, mom!

@@patirvin-bz9pg - Well thank you! What a sweet compliment. You made my day. 😊😊❤❤

I’m so sorry, I’m sure he would be proud of you, and your right. Some people really do need to grow up.

Use her dad ??? Y'all need to chill, it's her dad

@@lawtraf8008 Yes. She was using him and yes family can and does take advantage of each other and it's wrong to do so.

You said it right Victoria!

Sorry for you loss.🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

@Stellar Studios i can agree 🙁

Right! It looked tacky

YES.

she looked like a tree topper

nah cause i thought she looked like a decorated cake😟

It never crossed my mind to ask my dad to pay for the dress or any part of my wedding.

It's part of an ancient tradition, called a dowry. Where parents host (pay for) the wedding, and give the groom, and his family items of value. Look it up.

It's important to some dads. Also, some families just like the tradition of it and want to provide a big event to send the happy couple on their way without them having to worry about the bills so early in a marriage.

My parents paid for their own and I always expected to pay for mine (am still single). I am fine with parents who want to be traditional but don't appreciate brides (or grooms) who take advantage of their parent's generosity or who expect to get whatever they want. I don't think this bride overstepped. The dress was not twice the budget unless maybe the sash put it over. My budget would be nowhere near hers, so it's a lot, but some wiggle room was probably approved off camera.

Good for you some parents want to

My thoughts exactly !

She can just dab some Love's Baby Soft on and go scampering out the door in her platform shoes...

I love blue shadow, and I did a double take on hers, because it does look beautiful on brunettes with maroon eye colour, however NOT applied up to the brow...very '70's and hopefully not a trend that is back ( yet!) gulp.

Thank you! I wanted to say that, but never wearing makeup myself, wasn't sure if that trend was "in" again.

Exactly! She didn't say she liked quality things. Expensive can be tacky as heII.

Good for y'all! I had always assumed I would pay for my own wedding but I'm middle aged and still single. My parents would have wanted to help out, but I would have been pinching pennies as much as possible. They gave my brother some money for his wedding and he put it toward whatever he chose.

They payed emotionally and financially during your childhood becauss they HAVE to.

My parents got together when my mom was 22 & they waited till she's 30. They paid for the entire wedding & earned all the money! Will do the same. I don't want to put this burden on my parents

In my country, the couple pays for everything. If the parents want to help that is up to them, but the wedding is on you. The couple usually save money for it the moment they get engaged.

I love this.... good for you 👍👍👍 times have changed, people aren't getting married in their late teens very early 20s anymore, a lot of people these days get married older where both partners are working and earning steady incomes

lol right, lotta brides in for a rude awakening when they set out on married life independent from mom & dad and suddenly gotta foot their own bill for their expensive tastes.

Truth

Right! Like my mom says "You can't have filet mignon tastes on a hamburger budget."

I was thinking I hope she pays an expensive makeup artist for the big day. It would be a shame to wear blue eyeshadow with a $7K dress.

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Lol.. Expensive makeup with blue eyeshadow. Weird eyebrow

Doesn’t look like she spends lots of money on herself

The eyebrows were bothering me.

If you bought it online and haven't actually tried it on yet I hope you don't get let down. Because lots of times the picture and the actual item are two COMPLETELY different things! Hoping for the best for you.

@@sueparras6028 read her post again, she DID NOT go with the one she saw online. She said the dress she saw online was what she thought she wanted, but she chose another dress and she is thrilled with it.

Diana Celaya I hope your wedding is beautiful and magical and I wish the same for your marriage

Well done Diana!!! And congrats!

Why would u want that to happen wtf

@@sharnagrayson9649 well, I haven't said I 'want' that to happen. Not sure how you read that :P. The biggest problem with marriages is that people don't have their expectations aligned which is why I'm hoping that they've talked about it. She seems bratty but good-hearted.