Conservative Dad Hates Her Daughter's "Out Of The Box" Dress | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta 

Exactly!!!

Right!! Who designed that hot mess !

At all

The most ugly dress I have ever seen was princess Diana wedding dress,lett forgives me David Emanuel.

That first dress would look totally different on a average sized woman. I don't think Dad sees just how big his little girl is. That second dress was perfect. It hides her tummy and enhanced her curves.

Lighting and camera. The dress is probably a light/pastel pink which in certain lighting and camera settings won't really show due to how light the pink is.

@@fidelianerina true

@@fidelianerina ?

Maybe he wants to marry her

@@froggreen2067 um just no

For me it is so strange that He is more worried about the color but He is ok with the neckline! I think that that neckline is totally inappropriate for a church wedding and He has something to say about the color?

@@BLACHATBLA she can always get the neckline altered but if she doesn't want to then it's her choice and we will never know if it was a mistake or not. It's up to her

Yeah it didn't look pink to me more like ivory.

I’m a Christian and I’m getting married in August and I have a lot of purple in my dress yes it still has a lot of white but there’s also a lot of purple. Also back in the 1800s dresses used to be blue so.

As a Christian myself i agree with it's not in the bible what color dress you wear, but staying a virgin until your married should always be there

The Bible doesn't even insist on monogamy.

@@kathrinlindern2697 Bible Gateway 1 Corinthians 7 :: NIV. But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband.

He probably still thinks the father is GIVING the daughter to the groom.

Conservative people in the South are often pretty ignorant when it comes to what ‘tradition’ actually means. Biblical tradition? Okay, so when a bride was sold to her groom for five goats? Or when a king had 200 concubines? Or when the bride was also a slave? Which traditions are you talking about, pops?

⁠@@mimibee626I don’t think that concept is that weird or bad. As someone who loves her dad I would love if my dad “gave me away”. He raised me my whole life so he was the only man in my life and once I get a husband that will change. He trusting my husband to protect me and love me and he is taking the step back to being the primary person to do that. Idk I think it’s pretty sweet but then again my dad would never be like this man so I got lucky.

Tradition doesn't always look pretty XD

It looks horrible. Truly horrible

You have to give him credit for actually being nice unlike other parents who ridicule their daughters on this show

exactly, that dress look bad on her

in the words of Michael Scott from the Office, "Boom. Roasted".

I would have said like maybe light gold before pink XD

agreed

It looks like it’s tinted pink not full on pink

@@xxxconfusedidiotxxx Yeah, I was thinking "They keep saying it's pink. It looks pale yellow, to me."

It just looks like off White

It’s called the door in the face technique I believe

@@laurens3857 are you forreal i love that term

That works for sales too.

I have better advice; tell them that if they can't support you thay can stay home

Black actually. Purple was for royalty only.

And green, apparently, to represent fertility for the bride

Sadly people are ignorant to history

In most Asian cultures, white and blue are associated with death and they represent the soul leaving the body. Red is the favorite for brides, whereas gold and black is acceptable for guests.

@@gnarbeljo8980 sumptuary laws didn't actually mean you weren't ALLOWED to wear a certain color. And the "rule" only really applied to Tyrian Purple. In reality, there would be a fine for wearing clothes outside your rank and many paid the fines a flex saying "I'm so rich, I'll wear whatever I want". The main reason why white dresses became so mainstream was conspicuous consumption. All-white garments were very difficult to maintain.

Well, he's a man. He doesn't have to apply his ridiculous standards to himself. Controlling dudes never do.

😆 🤣 😂

@@jasminecollins897 well said well said👏🏻👏🏻

@@jasminecollins897 correction: because he’s not a *bride.* His opinion was that brides should wear white, he wasn’t that controlling, and I hope to god that you’re not making this into a sexism thing.

Hahaha

Hate the expression "jack her up". Sounds like a car.

The bottom part was pink the top was white

Like it wasn’t even pink

I didn't see any pink either.

The skirt had the TINEST HINT of pink to it. It’s off white

I said the same thing

Lol true 😂

Trueeeee

oh my goodness she does look pregnant.

Same thoughts 😂

Exactly. It’s just code for male supremacy and control

Imagine how stressed out hes gonna be on her wedding night and during the honeymoon 😂

i swear. All men in general who preach this whole purity bullshit and call sex and dating as uncultured, then proceed to jack off to porn need to be banished.

Did he suggest that white wedding dress are Biblical? The tradition of white wedding dresses began with Queen Victoria, and only because white (undyed) fabric was cheaper!

@@sterjulie Actually white was the most expensive colour short of gold or silver. White was very difficult to keep clean and white dresses could hardly be reworn as often as black or dark ones. Women, who had to work for a living, could usually not afford the extra dress and wore the same dark dress to church on Sunday for years to come.

when is she going to tell him she is already pregnant?

Ikr!!

Did you not watch till the end?

@@bbbree1616 Even if the video is watched until the end an opinion can remain the same. She had to try 67 dresses just to please their dad while said parent making extremely heavy comments. Firstly, he was never a bride and never will be so why pretend he knows what it even feels like and secondly it.is.the. BRIDE'S. day. Not her relatives', not her friends' and not her father's either but hers and the groom's. No one else's. It's just an added plus that none of his statements are right. 1. White is NOT the tradicional wedding colour. (other commenters already said how white is originated by Queen Victoria) 2. White is NOT the colour of purity. The colour of purity actually is baby blue because of Saint Maria/ Mary Magdalene. White is the colour of CHASTITY. 3. White as a weddig colour NEVER orginated from the Bible. As far as I know in the Bible no marriages were ever written down. Also the style and colour of the dresses vary from religion to religion. So white is NOT an official colour of marriage either.

@@bbbree1616 the thing is even when you get to the end you have to remember most of these people give in sometimes cuz they’re on tv and because it’s their kids, regardless they sometimes might still be there

White wedding dresses aren't nearly as old a tradition as he thinks they are.

Exactly!

Omg 😂

Not a good choice for her body which was not his forte obviously.

Thats so rude. Dont comment on people's body

i’m sure he thought it was ugly, conservative dad’s just love to have control of their children.

Same, its never made sense to me. Why is it anyone else's business how "pure" a bride/woman is?? Creepy

Yeah it’s weird

The pressure of being perfect is scary

Especially since she’s a grown ass woman here

Yeah, the bride is a full grown woman it's her business what she's doing specially in that department!

Hi pretty lady. How are you doing today? And how is the father and the weather over there???

Right I went wedding dress shopping with my family recently and they took everything I said into account the moment I tried on the dress and actually cried they all knew that was the one that they didn't try to sway me a different direction it just amazes me how crazy these people can be

Honestly, I feel like this episode in particular was scripted as a lot of reality television is scripted and set up to showcase drama that isn't there. Sometimes it is, but in this case, I think the dad didn't really care and tried to half-heartedly act his way through the proposed storyline. He seemed like a real sweetie, who was acting.

It’s not even that pink though

@@candace200 I think so too

All I can tell you is that if a parent pays for the dress, in their mind, they get to make the final decision. Notice I said in their mind and final say - solve that problem altogether and pay for it on your own, and make the dress about you!!

Many conservatives aren't keen on facts and history 🤣

White evangelicals make stuff up as they go along

Exactly. They seem to live in an alternate universe.

I think it’s just the fact that white is symbolic of innocence, purity, and being virginal...which ties in with the Bible, ya know... granted I HIGHLY doubt this bride is a virgin. Most people don’t wait till marriage anymore. Depending on how religious you are, you aren’t supposed to have sex before marriage since it is considered a sin. ....this is how I was raised, but I don’t believe in all the religious mumbo-jumbo my parents tried to instill in me.

@@skunkie110 before queen victoria people just wore they're best dress regardless of the colour which was usually not white but queen victoria wore white to be powerful because she needed all the power she could get with being a young monarch

Lmfao. Exactly. Wtf is he using for a brain

Queen victoria

What "purity"? 🤔👀😳 😂

in the indian subcontinent white is for funerals. and red is for weddings.

Before that, brides wore a lovely dress that they could wear again for balls. But with Victoria wearing an impractical white dress, the dressmakers saw a market for a dress that would be worn only once, so they jumped on the 'white to symbolise virginity' thing. Then families wanted to show they could dress their daughter in a dress that could only be worn once. Bottom line, it's a well-documented human construct.

@@elizabethleyden892 i mean every tradition is a human construct. But I'm on the same page as you. The white dress is like a "gotta keep up with the jonses" thing.

IMO it's a 'dramatic setup' esp as 'purity' diehards don't generally get as upset over a slight colour difference as a strapless look/split to the thigh.

No one asked but pink actually was a traditional color for men to wear up until the holocaust. Homosexuals were made to wear a pink identifying mark and after that pink was associated with femininity

@@michaelawilson6938 that is very interesting! I never knew that, and I appreciate that you shared this😄👍🏻

The tinge of pink (I would love to see the dress in person!) makes the dress even more elegant than it already is😄👍🏻

You wouldn’t even notice the pink color

IKR it’s so weird

Facts. It's so weird 💯💯💯

It's a matter of family honor, especially in churchgoing families- "as for me and my house"..... A man who has a hoe for a daughter is viewed as a morally failing dad.

@@christinebutler7630 and what about the son? also its 2021 and she's an adult. its naive to think your adult kids havent had sexual experience at some point. id never consider what a dad thinks when it comes to what im wearing. old men dont know shit about womens clothing. hes a close minded old man, not a fashion designer.

@@christinebutler7630 That entire thought process sounds beyond antiquated & absurd. A man who has a "hoe" for a daughter - she's having sex with sons who aren't being held to the same accountability. It's ALL social constructs anyway.

exactly my thoughts🥴 wth is that train🤢🤮

Right

Hey... Some lady who is trying to look like a fluffy pregnant polar bear would adore that dress...bet 😂

May be for a .pregnant bride.

@@Adityavarna791 that would make sense, but I really think the dad shouldn't have suggested that for her non-pregnant daughter 😅

Seemed more like he weighed the pros and cons of how this was affecting his image and decided to look benevolent to maintain the image of control.

its enraging and all to common. backwards thinking.

Controlling father

I disagree

Good to hear Patricia. Hopefully whatever children you have are fully aware that your obsession with their virginity surpasses your concern for their wellbeing, and that they are sensible enough to cut you off for it.

@@RyuTama42 Nope, all my children love me and have also chosen to raise their own children the same way. :)

Maybe when you have your own kids you’d think differently

@@Icebluegel11 i have my own, it’s scary to think that you would have any !

@@Icebluegel11 Your kids or not, once your kid is an adult they’re allowed to make their own decisions. The only thing he even complained about when it came to the dress was the color. It was a superficial argument and it has nothing to do with how much you care about your kid, it only has to do with his own selfish preferences which don’t matter bc he isn’t ever going to wear a wedding dress. You don’t need to understand by having your own kids to not be against a colored wedding dress.

@@Icebluegel11 no cap, that's toxic asf to think of that you can control your kids lives. The fact that you think you need to dress your kid into a symbol of purity and innocence means that you are contributing to stereotypes and peer pressures that shouldn't even exist. Let your kids have their own life regardless of what you think and other people think

@@Icebluegel11 also women (and men/non binary/trans etc.) Should never be told on how to dress or conform into society norms or bullying them/slut shamming them too just because they want to dress a specific kind of way

I agree! It did the opposite of what a good dress should do! In her own clothes she looked like she had a medium bust nd smallish waist , in the dress she looked six months gone with no chest. Her mother's face said it all!

That’s because it didn’t fit. It was actually a similar cut as the last dress but the last dress actually fit her

Thats so rude to say what her body looks like in a certain dress

Well said Angelica, well said.

@@Moxxxix a toast to the grooom

And the designer of the girl's favorite dress is Lazaro!

why tf is the dad even there? most dads dont know shit about young women's fashion so who cares what he thinks. so fuckin creepy he's making it about purity and all about him. she probably wasnt even a virgin before marriage. just blows my mind how naive parents are. get tf over yourself

@@MsDudette21 With a normal dad, I would think his interest was sweet. This dad? He's here to control her. He's here because he thinks a non-white wedding dress will reflect poorly on his ability to *make* her follow traditions.

The white isn't fashion, white was originally used to show a bride's purity (not the wedding's). Them giving their virginity to their husband, but most people aren't virgins when they marry anyway, so it's dumb to get stuck on white for a dress.

@@kellylee9892 in Roman times it was purity related, but since Queen Victoria, who wore white to be visible for the people in attendance, it's been more fashion related. However, either way your right, it's a silly thing to get stuck on.

She chose the last dress did you finish the video lol?

@@alaura.444 I lot of brides from SYTTD don't actually wear their 'yes' dress to their wedding! I was just wondering if she wore the dress here or chose something different :]

That's what I was thinking too!

So they have been traditional since 1840- there have been a lot of weddings since 1840. I get where he's coming from but the pink wasn't that outrageous. At least he came arounf

Thank You. Biblical my a**.

Exactly!

I’m not supporting the whole “you have to wear white” thing but a lot of people do it because they think a white dress stands as a symbol to show the “purity” of their wife since your supposed to “wait till marriage to hanky” but that’s why a lot of people are so intense about white gowns

That’s true, white is just a symbol of virginity but blue hits a home run with conservation.

@Tarsa Dennis yes! All over Europe. White was for funerals, purples reserved for royalty only, blue and eapecially Lapis Lazuli blue , made from the gemstone was only for the Madonna in paintings, and really blue dye was a later invention. White in most cultures denotes funerals, spirits of the dead, formality and humble attire and shrouding. Bright colors that weren’t derived from common plants and earthtone minerals were very expensive and came later with manmade synthetic dyes and colors. The whole white wedding tradition is very young, mid 19th century in many places! Also up until then, in most parts of Europe, commoners often wore home woven and sewn regional folk lore outfits that they’s worked on and would use later for all festive, formal occasions, colorful and precious, but not forreign silks or imported colors. In Scandinavia a bride tended a myrtle from which branches were used for the crown denoting her virginity. Non-virgins were forbidden crowns. Pure white (and bleach in general) came much later, all was governed by traditions but also strict rules of class. Breaking them was a serious crime.

White represents purity and blue represents fidelity. Personally, blue seems like a better representation for a bride.

Mother Mary who?? As in Jesus Christs mother? Super curious about your post.

White dress for a wedding was wearing, if I remember well, for the 1st time by Queen Victoria. It was a dangerous color, for the rich only, because it could get dirty easely (and maybe was hard to get, I'm not sure). Usualy the colors could be different depending time and places.

Most dads never fully get over the "my little girl, imma protect you" phase of their daughters life Hes overbearing and the things he says are saddening, but i dont think hes a creep Most dads want to jump at any boyfriend they find their daughters with, its mostly just fatherly instinct. But when its taken THIS far, yeah. Its an issue.

My dad used to be like that (he even bought me a promise ring!) but he's become so much more chill and accepting since I was a kid/pre-teen. He was raised very religiously and conservatively but he's mellowed out. He is the opposite of a creep though; he's an amazing dad and always has been. I don't think this guy is necessarily a creep. I don't think he's a bad guy, I think he's just stuck in his ways and was likely brought up in a very religious environment. Plus like someone else said, parents have an instinct to protect their children, even when they're grown, so his "obsession" might be tied to that.

I'm Romani American. She's lucky she was even able to show shoulders.

@@my_pan_self8045 It's more like than that. Some fathers think their dignity and masculinity goes away when their daughters virginity is taken away.. If you think about it, why they don't have that same attitude when their sons take someones virginity

Im sorry but I completely disagree. I think it’s sweet that this dad is proud of his daughters “dignity” and wants to uphold that. A dad like that and a “pure” daughter are rare to find these days.😢

I agree. The "girls" were really JUST hanging in there till they escaped

I think its because the size is too small. They had to put on clips etc on the back

Once they order it in her size, and alter it to fit her body, it will be much better.

I’m confused when any bride or entourage mentions the word ‘traditional’ and promptly chooses a strapless gown. That is certainly not traditional but more like the current trend. Which again is gradually changing.

I hope that the right size dress fits the bust better. She was almost falling out when she bent over.🤯

It's a light pink it's the way the lighting and camera is

🤣

Same loiil

😂

It was literally the ugliest dress I have ever seen on the show

@@mrcleeves7106 you haven’t seen the one that someone’s conservative grandma made them wear. It was like a turtleneck. Truly horrendous

Yeah, I think he realized that he needed to compromise so that they could both be happy.

He got over it.

How many women have been destroyed by this "purity culture" nonsense??

Thanks for ruining it for me,😒

DarK AngeL you literally went tot he comments. It's your own fault.

why bring that many people anyway? id probably just bring two rly good friends. tf i need everyoen elses opinion for? im the one wearing it so fuck what everyone else thinks. thats their problem

@@MsDudette21 exactly

@@MsDudette21 for real when i bought my wedding dress.. I went with my mother in law and sister in law because i knew they would like anything i feel comfortable in... Who would even want 10 people sitting there and telling you what your dress has to be like

not all of them . a woman brought 20 family members to her bridal appointment and they all was supportive , no negativity or anything

It’s all for the show.

My husband and I did too. Well my parents paid for our reception. His mother was a bully and I stood up to her. Tell this day my MIL doesn’t like me. But who cares my husband has died.

@@patriciadeanes1469 this took a sharp turn there

@@patriciadeanes1469 I'm sorry for your loss

@@anand_ravindran Thank You so Much!!!

Yeah. Some people try to do it anyway. Because they are super controlling and manipulative. Smh.

Right! 8 could say to this “ purity” dad… pink for a man means that you are gay and not a real man”

I LITERALLY SAID THAT TOO

Hahaha

I know right

You need to read it! It’s in the Bible. The Bride of Christ wears white for the marriage. Revelation 19:8. It may have been popularized by royals, but they didn’t come up with the idea.

@@LoveBritishShows Yeah, but THIS bride is NOT the bride of Christ. She should be allowed to wear ANY gown she likes. She’s NOT a child.

@@LoveBritishShows amen

@@LoveBritishShows “Bride of Christ” since when did Christ get married?

@Gael ??

@@evelyndawn8159 she's not even fat 🤣 jesus.

@@evelyndawn8159 she's not fat, the dress made her look pregnant, and the back was like ab air bag from the car

And only in the 19th century too

I believe Queen Victoria was the the trend setter of the white gown

That may be so but purity is symbolised as white through the scriptures. I agree- the dress colour shouldn't matter however the bride of Christ wears pure white....hence his fascination with white. She looked beautiful and I like her choice :)

💀💀😭 stawp hahahah

I know right, blue was associated with the Virgin Mary, not white

I do too..ppl are annoying and rude

Unless it’s something like the first dress

@@justagirlfromphoenix1023 but it looks ugly on her that's why she said

I feel like people only say that because they feel like it doesn’t fit their body type. I don’t think I’ve ever seen an ugly gown or dress, only if it was made to look bad on purpose

@@wtf5749 she looked pregnant in that one, like...wtf? You wanna look skinnier on your special day That dress was doing the opposite, lol

Me too lol

Its technically blush which is more like a champagny-ivory tone.

That was my thought when I first saw it--apparently it was an extremely soft shade that looked white/ivory on camera.

@biyya khan dead lol even i don't see🤣

me too😆

It's making me question if the color settings on my screen are off. The "pink" dress looks champagne/has major yellow undertones on my screen.

Plus white was for funerals before Queen Victoria populaurizd iy

I’m guessing the camera didn’t capture it. It’s more of a off white color lol

It's probably scripted drama. Notice how many times they replay the dramatic bits.

The last dress was the prettiest imo

Only Klienfeld carries Pnina.

@@caroldehaven3847 are you talking about as in all Bridal shops in the USA or just the East Coast? Because few other SYTTD shops around the world have her gowns

@@Herbal_lotus I thought she was exclusive to kleinfelds. maybe I am mistaken.

@@caroldehaven3847 you’re good! Her dresses are carried in bridal shops all over, Canada, UK, Italy, Mexico, USA, Austria, China, Ireland ect. I think in the USA she’s able to be more hands on with the brides/ her dresses at Kleinfields and that’s why we see both her and her designs more there.

I don’t think Lori carries those trashy Tornai dresses. Ugh. Most of them look like stripper costumes

I've only seen worse in my nightmares.

It looks like something you’d find off Wish

That's the issue though: male ideas of women should wear literally fits Christianity and Islam and it's..... Problematic

Saving sex for marriage is the proper viewpoint all the time! God never changes.

​@@arcradire1559 but in Islam men have dress code rules they need to follow too. It's not just women, for example men cannot dye their hair black, they cannot wear gold or satin, and they cannot dress in clothes over knee length. I get what you mean for example in Saudi Arabia and other countries they force women to cover their faces even though it's not required by islam, so what you're talking about is the tradition and culture not the religion I'm not a Christian so I can't speak about it but I think that men twist the rules in the same way to take control over women.

@@konodioda39 there are actually very few rules regarding women’s clothing in the Bible. Some are in the Mosaic law, which actually had *more* rules for men. Christians are also not under the Mosaic law and most Jewish people do not abide by the rules strictly either. The only references to women’s clothing in the New Testament are warning against flaunting wealth, because there were a lot of rich wives in the church who adorned themselves in expensive clothing. St Paul warned against it to prevent division in the church. Nothing to do with “purity.”

I mean if he really wanted to go biblical, the colour Mary is most depicted in is blue (most likely inaccurate though as it was hard to dye clothes blue) as it symbolises faithfulness and fertility

i wanna like this comment but-

But he’s not in a wedding, being the PURE groom.

UNLESS there is a budget issue and someone other than the bride is paying for it.

@@arianekelly2633 Then they should have an amount agreed on, and what the bride chooses within that amount is her choice only.

Or try to say yes to a dress that makes the bride look like she's wearing a bedazzled white kitchen trash bag lol

"Things are going to be real conservative in the bedroom if you throw a hissy fit about that damn pink dress. Now SMILE!"

It looked peachy

Yeah the camera or the effects on the video probably washed away the actual color

In the underlayer, under the tulle overskirt. Just a very light pink, hardly noticeable.

@ғʀᴏɢɢɪ カエル Yeah, you should look at reds. They're awfully badly represented on "film."

Under the tulle, slightly.

plus how tf is purity represented by white. he’s treating his daughter like she’s stained black after getting married

...and you're MODEST?

@@horseman4now their nothing that is not modest with any colors ! queen Victoria had a white dress not because she was virgin (if she even was virgin ! ) but because she could afford it and make a fashion statement in history of Royalty ! It the church that are been a creep with Victoria and claim purity because it was white not the intention of Victoria.

lol literally me reading the comments then after seeing the first dress-

Yeah, looked like a candy wrap ... second was great!

When she came out I was like omg!!! No!!!

Same here hahHhaha

It looked like a giant bkanket around her

@Gael it’s their option about the dress

@Gael 😂😂😂 why so angry? Are you the designer of that monstruosity? This is hilarious

You stole my words Leo. That thing hurt my eyes 😣😣😱😱😱

The dress would look great on another figure type.

@@nellas1111 I can't imagine any figure type that would look good with a quilt on the back. 😂 The front might look okay on someone else

Oh no. I-

Lmao please

And gas prices go up too

Andromeda Galaxy Gas prices have been on an increase globally since December. Please figure out what a trend is, I beg of you - all conservatives, really.

@@ray6682 nah only in America lol. Seriously though most countries gas price is always expensive. When compare their price to America now, they said it is still cheap in America. How about you figure out who or what cause this? Also I heard the wall is still up. Oh? And the children in cages? they actually build more cages cause there are too many. How ironic 😂 Also did u hear his speech about black people lol He is worst than Trump. But I guess he got a pass cause he is “a can do no wrong even if he did I will still vote for him” democrats