Bridget Kelly on the Dynamics of Black and White Women's Relationships with Black Men 

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Shoutout to grandad for that good game 💯

He meant American women because of the bad parenting here.

He was bitter 😂😂

Dad told me the same, there's a limit to trusting women.

That is such a generalization to which a more well round perspective would suggest that virtue and dysfunction defy racial categorization. Outside of our own sphere of knowledge we seem more prone to generalize. Give black people their flowers 🌹 just as you seen to throw bouquets at those who are not black.

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Living in Hawaii I see a lot of bm married to asian women. Just like in Seattle. The IR marriage rates have also increased. Seems as if bm tend to be more compatible with others

@@primeva7579yea we are. Sysbm

There's reasons why IR is pushed, especially regarding BM but can't talk here about that since it's a pretty heavy topic. Men and women in general have conflicts with each other, but add to that the social-economic status after slavery, testosterone difference, colorism & majority of black families being stuck in cycles because of the past it makes it worse for black people. Other races also has their problems, and I would arguably say even worse because of their recessive genes & the actions we see of them & what they've done in the past. For everything to start progressing, black men need to become conscious & start being traditional masculine, none of that complaining or redpill, mgtow stuff since these are full of males complaining about women while majority created their own problems with females & cope by circle jerking.. This is just 1% and basic stuff, the black men who are on their stuff & ain't no lame or thug knows whatsup.

Facts. Well said...

I don’t see them where are they..?

@@SupremeDynastyTV all black men have are excuses. Lol

@@LiterallyThoand all black women have is excuses yea very ironic

​@LiterallyTho people only make excuses for bw....that's the truth. Bm have improved despite obstacles placed in front of us. Stats from 2000 to now show that.

@@LiterallyTho I’m literally a black man… don’t generalize people

@@primeva7579 exactly

you men she was in denial the whole time...l

Facts don’t care about feelings. It may be an ugly truth, but it’s THE truth about human nature. Dogs aren’t even that agreeable if they don’t know you. 😂 Every smart human is calculating about everything and everyone they allow into their lives. There’s a desirability gap between men and women. 9 times out of 10, the woman isn’t attracted to the man as much as the man is attracted to her. That’s where the so-called “benefits” come into play. 🤷‍♀️

@@LoneWulf278 if a woman is not agreeable in your relationship, she don’t like you, she’s there for another reason….if you wanna be a trick go head and stay there. But Like the Pimps say “like who likes you” if a woman is always argumentative and always disagreeable but always looking for benefits you need to move the hell on…

@@LoneWulf278 I’m glad you brought up the desirability gap also….i call it “fuckability politics” a woman that likes you will give you whatever you want…if she sees you’re sweating her based on her looks she ain’t gonna give you nothing. The bottom line is don’t be thirsty I don’t give a damn how fine she is.

​@LoneWulf278 nope. Its only that way with you. Yall on attack mode 24/7

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A few of men like him Ive came across were very argumentative, loud, and combative. As soon as an issue arises, all those 3 traits popped up and there is no talking things out with guys like him. Almost like having to use therapeutic communication skills with a person having a psychosis episode

@@desdior1207 it’s showing real time in the video. Bridget is measured in her verbal and physical response but if she matched his energy it would be see all bw are the same just want to argue. This is why I don’t entertain ignorance but kudos to Bridget 👏👏👏

I find it funny AA men who are the most aggressive, violent , least conflict resolution skills compared to their Asian, white, or Spanish counterparts think there won’t be some type of rub off effect on the women in their community. Women and children are a reflection of the men in their community. So stop comparing yourself to black women compare to your male counterparts and find out what they might be doing different 🙏🏿

@@francisikwueme1688 😂 tell Sade Robinson about how wm are less violent.

This is just NY grime.

THIS!!! There is a HUGE difference based on how people were raised and the environment they grew up in. Yet, she isn't completely wrong that socio-economics does still play into that part as well. Yet...I agree it is NOT a gender issue.

Black is a description not a monolithic group nor a Lineage, you can't just flatten blackness. There is no ''black community,'' there is a ADOS Community.

Bro it's not worth it

Leave her king lol

@@DeathsInverse really not bro

@@mcphearson25 I may need too 👑

Leave

Was just about to say this. I HATE PEOPLE THAT GENERALIZE PEOPLE! It shows you are too unintelligent to treat each person differently. It's like homie never left his hood or something.

people generalize white women all the time in a negative way and no one says white women arent a monolith

@@7damon8ietheredge54 We don't have to. It's a given that they aren't. TV, movies, literature, kids books, toys, etc, have made that clear for us our entire lives.

Came to say the same thing.

Generalizing black women is not insane. We generalize every single day. It’s apart of our nature. You’re only offended because that generalization isn’t painting y’all in a positive light

Because bottom line, we Black men don't give grace to each other. 🤷🏿‍♂️

He's 100 percent right but it doesn't matter to me because I don't deal with any black women who don't treat or talk to me the way I want to simple

@@SuperBrianMak nor to ourselves

Same for b w

There’s more points that need to be talked about here!!

Nothing she said made any sense, she talked about white privilege, in a relationship? Is she serious? Trying to be a victim even in the sexual market place is disappointing.

Correct. They speak Ebonics and look like fourteen year olds they dropped out of high school... Definitely not equipped! Why would any would woman in her right mind want to be with this two goons??

Correct

Race discussions during a basic topic about love is crazy

That’s what I got, as if that behavior should be excused based on one’s socioeconomic status.

@@TheDTrine it’s sad that our people don’t travel like we should because if we did we would know that there are poor people all around the world that still treat people with respect

Thank you!

Missed the point by a lot

@@bandthoven175 not at all….I heard it all and it was nothing but excuses for poor behavior without offering solutions 💯

Unless they are from Spain then that’s Spanish men and women

Take it a step further because Hispanic was a term made up for the census. So-called Spanish people from "Latin" countries are actually Indian.

I've heard Hispanic is a derogatory term from multiple Latin people 🤷🏾‍♂️

@@tmac8604 Yeah because they don’t know any better, they barely speak the language properly and they definitely aren’t Latin (officially) neither

U ain’t from nyc

Then you understand perfectly.

Exactly

So you still mad about what a teenage girl did to you? Grow up....

@@ItzD stupid duck that never happened to me and it didn't happen to me ever in life but black men understand what I'm talking about so go listen to sexy red or something silly ass

@@ItzD Our brother sounded like he seeking a non-Black woman. Lets wait and see if he replies: "Love is love" or any anti-Black statement

Yeah what these women like to do is paint the narrative that bm with ww always have relationship problems when that's false. Ww tend to treat bm better than bw do. I grew up suburban and we had a rule to jot talk to white, asian, or mixed girls who had blk friends. For good reason

For us who date outside the black community we don’t see this as a problem. More so a solution 💯And those who cry about it are a problem and detriment to themselves. There’s a crabs in a bucket mentality going on here for decades that not many of us don’t want or choose to put up with so we move accordingly. I feel I don’t want to put up with bm attitudes and entitlement myself.

If you as an individual are getting treated differently by women you deal with, it is not because of color it's a direct reflection of you as a man.

You comprehend none of what she said. She explained so eloquently that race is not the sole reason for the stark difference. Social and economics (environment) is the reason why it's a difference. You didn't listen to understand, you heard to respond and still didn't comprehend

They are both bi-racial with yt moms……. Mandy is just mad annoying

Smart??????

@@Skinny_Pimp you may not agree but she articulate her points well.

@@TSteele718 So you judge intelligence by the way it sounds NOT by what is actually being said. Interesting.

@@Skinny_Pimp never said that at all lmao. Just because you disagree with someone doesn't mean they aren't intelligent.

Yes it is. You can see that in the children. Even when when it’s two parents. I get what she is saying

naa you’re just using your anecdotal experiences to disparage your own race of women.. you’re not a man and never will be

I can atleast agree with that. But I dont think the dude was telling any lies to begin with.

I'd say they exist more than people think.

is it like a full time paid job to denigrate blk women or what?

@@doshpits idk but it does pay. i blame capitalism.

Because White women are socioeconomically privileged. That's why.

Truth is that the average bm with a white wife was at his lowest when he got with that woman, and she built with that man. They never address that though.

cap

It definitely was a wow moment when she said that.

Theres a difference between Idk any And THERE ARENT ANY

She has to be in New York! She is crazy masculine!

@@djdarkphadorshe may not know any. Especially if she’s from the east coast. Shit I only know maybe 3 off the top of my head who are “soft” upon entry😂

I agree. I meet much nicer black women in high income areas. I stay away from the women who are from low income backgrounds. They definitely have attitude issues with random strangers, no matter how nice you are to them. Lol. It’s not politically correct, but it’s the truth. I’m sure it benefits them when navigating the mean streets of wherever tf they’re from. But it’s definitely unpleasant. 🤷‍♀️

Agreed

Exactly. Everything is going over his head!

Yea he is disparaging half of his own people dumb

Nope....He's saying what most....not all...but most of what black men have experienced from black women. Lets call a spade, a spade. My black male friends, their friends and their friends have said the same thing. This is nothing new.

@@djdarkphador Black women haven’t had good experience with black men either. Black women don’t benefit in anyway from having children or a relationship with black men. Black women do better in interracial relationships. So there’s really no need for BM and BW to go around and continue to make videos like this.

And like she tried to explain to him, it matters what circles u roll in. A Black Astrophysicist is not looking at the same pool of BW that Pookie at the local strip club is dealing with Guys wanna play in trash cans then complain that everything in there is GARBAGE.

word, i was really tryna break that down. she lost me when she said a white woman starts off with more privilege.

We already knew this tho lol

@@SolidSnake240 fr, have woman seek you not the other way around 💯

@@neutral6175 if you can explain to me how white women aren’t inherently privileged in “American Society” then you would be correct ?

You lack empathy which is why you can’t actually understand the black woman plight. I bet you can’t understand why men kill themselves 70% higher than women

I know a ton of blk women that dont come feom poverty. They still in most cases are not nice

Preaching the recipe on how to be ALONE only wanting county jail mf's wanting you

If you think what she said is preaching, or worse, wisdom to be followed....you are in for a RUDE awakening. No man of substance or value is accepting disrespect in his household. Yall can say an do whatever you want outside the home, an actual MAN, ain't dealing with that

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Its not stupid its sad blk women cant take critique

I mean, it's a lot of our experiences.

Well said. As I stated elsewhere, ppl play in trash cans then complain that its full of garbage!🙄 They go shopping in Monaco with 5 euros then complain everything is overpriced They shop on Canal street then criticize merchants for having cheap fakes They go to Save -A-Lot for groceries then say there are NO healthy food options in the world VET before u GET If u want a cat dont buy a dog then b*tch at it for barking Im no Chinese Philosopher but these are my 2cents. Makes sense? One love❤ 🇯🇲

I don’t see the correlation 😂 you’re too white for a hood dude but just right for a 9-5?

She's right only because Westernized Programmed Black Females make everything about Economics.When That is separate issue from Interpersonal And intimate Relationships and Duty to Marriages.

Not entierly it isn't because this is not found as commonly in the Mexican community. It does happen, but not nearly as frequently.

@HiHello-wz6bx That's fine. They're talking about black men/women as is pertains to how we operate in regard to one another

​@RyanMerch don't gloss over the fact that other groups face similar socio economic challenges but they still figure it out

​@@RyanMerch " that's fine"? If Mexican women are working with their men as they flee impoverished conditions, that means it is not socio- economic. Eboni k. Williams has the same attitude and disposition as the rachet hood chick.

Guest Not!

It's called Host privilege and that's how it works, one does not over talk the Host.

Naw, she didn't...they came from a little bit different perspectives...one side gave a little more grace to women, while the other gave a little more grace to black men.

cap lol

what was the purpose of this comment?

Hi neighbor rep Philly also She just couldn't get it thru his head He rather compare white apples to black oranges and say how come I can bite the apple with the skin on but I cant do that with the orange??! BECAUSE THEYRE NOT THE SAME Not even the 2 black oranges are the same There was a show Black AF that had a line " You can trace it back to slavery" 100% true statement BM were bred to breed WITH MULTIPLE WOMEN including sometimes the slave master's wife He wasn't afforded the luxury of being a loyal monogamous father to his enslaved wife.🙄 His Purpose was to be strong, work hard ( FOR THE WM FOR FREE) make lots of babies to work on plantations and be a sex slave for WW. BW were obviously inferior to slave master's wife and kids ( hell, even his dog) Think about basic psychology 101 Forget black and white Imagine a family where 1 sister is loved and the other is ignored. The ignored child obviously grows up with self-esteem issues. Self-hate. Inferiority complex. Now imagine ignoring their upbringing. 1 kid is favored, goes to private school, most ppl openly call her "the pretty one", she never gets spanked and is spoiled rotten The other is called ugly to her face, is in the worst public school, parents never attend her school programs, she wears goodwill stuff while her sis is in YSL etc. Think about how foolish u sound when u try to compare these 2 black sisters and asking her why arent u as sweet as your sister who got everything she wanted? How come u feel the need to prove your humanity. How come u dont know how to love and be loving like your sister? Where's ur confidence?.... Your experience growing up shapes who you become. Slavery has affected GENERATIONS of AA One black persons experience might not have been as toxic. So even comparing blacks is unfair let alone comparing a black woman to a white woman in america. Its just not comparable! WW by nature and historically have hated BM while secretly fantasizing about their strong bodies and penises. BW had a VERY different experience. She saw him as a tool for white master. Sometimes he looked " weak" bc another man had Rights over him. He wasnt exactly a prince charming with whip lashes all cut thru his flesh. He wasnt some "alpha male" or "high value man" he wasnt running the show. Psychologically trying to make BW not see BM as the kings they were. Understanding trauma amd perception is key. You cant keep focusing on the SYMPTOMS while ignoring the ROOT of the BW/BM and WW vs BW dynamic. These are obvious symptoms we see today that are rooted in slavery... 1) multiple baby mamas ( BM were bred to breed) 2) bp are lazy ( BP worked HARD for centuries for free 3) promiscuity( were used as sex slaves both men and women were SA'd 4) being loud( anger makes u raise ur voice BP had a lot to be angry about and they were constantly silenced) 5) illiteracy( was Illegal to learn or read) 6) fighting mentality( they had to fight for their lives and were constantly beaten and had no say) 7) anger issues(same as 6) These stereotypes are rarely seen for what they are and not enough Psychologists speak to the obvious impact slavery has had on the way AA men and women move with the outliers( the oprahs, tyler perrys etc) being the equivalent of the house ne**o back then. In order to understand ppl u need to ask WHY they do what they do...

Right.

Call woman chick's is telling........

Telling of what?​@@DAFGEEZY

Thank you, tragic mulatto thinking she’s depressed or relates to the life of a black woman in the projects.

I dont think she said you have never met them... I dont think she said they dont exist.. She said SHE hasnt met them..

@@sensis8036 I know that's what she said. But the way they both were talking, it was implied that these sort of BW and BM don't exist. I'm sorry you didn't understand that from what they and what I said.

I don't think they're trying to tear them down. We just don't understand why they're so difficult.

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Yeah get that passport & marry someone who needs a green card. And next thing you know her whole family living with y’all

@@nikkideevah most passport bros don’t plan on coming back, so a woman looking for a green card irrelevant to the discussion.