Can Men and Women REALLY Be JUST Friends?? 

***** There's plenty wrong with you. I figured you could some honesty. Now you can take your RU-vid cancer comments to another channel. Thx

I completely agree with Alex F. He is so dead on about this subject.

Thank god there are a few exceptional men i.e. civilized men not neanderthals.

I'm really speechless, also kinda disgusted that 95% of men are incapable of seeing women in a friendly sense only. It makes me also feel kinda great, feel special that I'm part of the very very little amount of people who are the exceptions

Unless you're into incest

Eddie Wu First of all, you should probably keep that info to yourself unless you don't want a social life anymore. And second, how old was your little sister when you say you were attracted to her before college?

Condoriaano lmao your saying to keep the info to ur ur self while your asking for the age 😂

BLACKRED PINKVELVET well since he was so open to revealing his attraction to his sister, I thought it would be fine to ask how old was his little sister when he started liking her. But I guess he wouldn't reveal it anymore since I told him to keep it to himself haha. I was just curious if there was something more than incest. Like maybe him liking little girls?

Condoriaano There is a biological reason why siblings naturally aren't sexually attracted to each other and for that to occur siblings have to live together for many years. Turns out that the scent or pheromones of family members subconsciously repulse each other. Nature did it to prevent incest.

It doesn't matter because the woman chooses. A woman doesn't care how much a man is attracted to her; she cares how much SHE is attracted to HIM.

In my opinion women have it too. ;)

If a guy isn't attracted, he's off chasing women he is attracted to and not wasting time with the girl he's not interested in. Sad fact and the same with women who aren't using guys for perks.

@@celticgibson i personally think it's possible because i friends with 3 girls and i never once was attracted to them now obviously there are girls im attracted to but the the 3 i mentioned never once was into them

@@JariSatta that's true for men too

I know this is an old comment, but it doesn't matter if you "believe" in it or not, you just need an example to prove. And there's lots of examples, including me.

And this is ALL men except the kind that are hiding it from you and as a result are untrustworthy. Trust guys who are honest about this.

@@celticgibson don't automatically assume that, they could be gay

If in MY eyes she's not attractive attitude personality or physically...shes in the friend zone. I have no interest

Hamza Khairi yepppp same here

Very true. Women expect us to forget our animal instincts. And be soft as flowers. If that was it no babies would be born

@@Stephen-lt1tp you dont have to mingle romance into this, you can be just friends without any sexual attraction Plus no one needs a baby

Carleeto meepo I guess you missed the whole point of the video. Are speaking from a mans point of view or a women’s? And most men don’t want babies they want to have meaningless sex.... according to you millions of years of male and female evolution is out the window

@@Stephen-lt1tp I dont think ever man out there is going to be after sex, my point is that as long as there is no sexual attraction which there mostly isn't, then a friendship is okay

Cynthia Balfour-Traill more like women like being the attractive one to feed their vanity.

Very interesting and honest comment. So basically you felt the effects of being friendzoned from a male's perspective! Kudos to you for doing what was best for you and your peace!

It wasn't a real friendship then. You used the 'friendship' as a way of trying to get with him. That's not a friendship.

I have alot of platonic relationships with the opposite sex. Nothing wrong with that...however, i noticed men often think of serious relationship than I'd like. When I begin to sense this, I turn ignorant to dissuade it.

@@user-di2on5gl2d lol you need a Husband so you can move on because almost every guy or woman does this or have done this.

David Chang thankyou!! Faith in marriages restored!!

Osley Sallent so basically man also has unicorn right?

Would you categorize either of the two women as being unattractive? If you did find them physically unattractive would it change your enthusiasm to hang out?

IllumiNada I'm definitely not physically attracted to either one. I'd say one of them is attractive, and the other average, but it doesn't matter, they know me well and I know them well, and share a lot of history with me as friends. That's all that matters. Frankly, I have another woman in my life now who I'm very happy with, so my two female friends will remain just friends as far as I'm concerned, and I wouldn't want to change that.

Okay. But I'm not saying you have to be pursuing sex(and I applaud you for being faithful in your new relationship.) I'm only saying that either you're a unicorn, you do find the two women at least "do-able", or you're not allowing yourself to fully consider that you're just a dude and attractiveness matters.

I hear you Markigirl, and I agree. But you must also agree that if attractiveness, money, status, prestige, etc. have nothing to do with your allure to a partner or enticement toward friendship, then you are in that "decent person" unicorn minority.

The problem is that usually it is attraction that brings two together in the first place. Men in particular do not go out of their way to make friends with a woman unless there's something that attracts them.

@@celticgibson I'm friends with a girl for the same reason I'm friends with all my guy friends.

Coolfred because you’re normal lol

No sexual atraction of different genders? only if one is gay

Exactly 💯..I'm having the same problems now with my partner and his female friend

Nathaniel Mills yh

mad dusa however theyr looking at all the opinions online but this is the general view

mad dusa 'all Dan's female friends are suddenly unavailable' lol

mad dusa Yes, generally we call them representatives. Their interpretation may not be the conclusive definition for all. However gives you a very good sense of what's applicable to most people in most situations.

Yes indeed

This is true

Moon Cake yh

I take it as "yes".

carmen leong He's saying that a guy will never friendzone you, as in he might not like you but he could if given the opportunity

i duno that it means that they are like obsessed with u or stay up late at night staring at a pic of u outlining the shape of ur lips with their finger. its more like they'll be normal friends with u but if one day u came onto one of them they'd easily go with it and get with u no problem.

carmen leong, Short answer from a guy: If you're a woman I will ALWAYS try and get you in bed. If you can live with that we can be friends👍

Yep I try to tell my daughter that but she won't believe me. I am not trying to scare her off of having guy friends but it is just something present that can't be helped.

and even then for some guys its not that they will TRY to get their female friends in bed. more like they're biding their time and if the girl happens to let things go in that direction, the guy will help it continue there. where as a girl in most cases would be like "oh no your my friend".

tiny but you have very big eyes... ;)

Mia is a true Asian girl, tough on the outside but heart of gold!

Think it depends on the country too 🤔 when I visited France for a while, I saw a LOT of guy-girl friendships and significant others didn’t seem to really mind, especially if the SOs knew the guys/girls they were hanging out with

That's a problem, you(and everyone else) needs to stop worrying about what others think, it doesn't matter what they think about you, you'll all end up dead eventually and then no one will care.

Easier said than done.

Not really, it's quite easy...probably helps how you are raised too.

it'll change when you graduate.

Just so you know, us girls can smell a douche who's only trying to get with us immediately. Stop being a jerk and actual be a person offering friendship to another goddam person.

probably because of 15:48

dayumn mia thursty fo dans body

YUP

Magician12345 let's be honest, dan also probably want Mia's body, she hot

Marta Cankova be aware

😆 He may of snuck his way closer He's cute hehe

Had a gay friend, he was a close friend. i knew he was attracted to me. I also knew he found every other male friend attractive. Had a lesbian friend in college, we were like brothers. She told me every lesbian girl she knew was attracted in some way to every female friend. And i found her attractive. Attraction doesnt mean romantic feelings, it just means you find the other person attractive. It doesn't mean you get horny for seeing them.

Neko McEvil correct

LordVader1094 it is more like yin yang becuz theres man and theres woman

LordVader1094 and if collapsed then it is not yin yang anymore

he is either just having a bad day, he's a jerk or he's pissed you can't see he wants to date or be a friend with benefits.

Singulitarian threesome

@Lipgloss 2000 yes, sounds like he wants/wanted a relationship. He was probably hoping you quickly broke up with your bf at least in the initial stage of your friendship :) Now after 7 years, its hard to tell if he feels the same. He could have simply: 1. given up/is on the brink of giving up hope by now(but still interested in a relationship with you), 2. has actually come to see you as a friend and as such wont want to think dirty of you, much less have sexual relations with you (generally depending on the stuff you talk about and how flirty or non flirty your convos are), or 3. might consider a friends with benefits relationship if you bring it up, because he still finds you sexually attractive. There are a few other possibilities for example 4. He could still be interested in a relationship with you but will readily accept a friends with benefits relationship as its the next best deal after a normal bf/gf relationship :). You may be confused as what to do now but I suggest you keep him as a friend if you cannot gauge his interest level or he tells you explicitly or indirectly that you're more like a sister to him

@@roderickobiri9075 thank you for your response 🤗

@@tiegz9770 👍🏽