You know what's crazy about this episode? The honesty that women want from a man isn't enough to win them over and it put the most honest dudes at the bottom. Yet the dude who "played the game" and said what the girls wanted to hear ended up at #1. I'm shocked. SHOCKED I tell you!
I would like to see what are the results between a bunch of conservative girls as opposed to liberal girls. If you get a group of conservative guys vs liberal guys, the results will probably be pretty close to the same, but if you had a group of conservative girls as opposed to this group the results would probably be very different.
Definitely! Conservatives view people based on how many fruits of the Holy Spirit they have. The things of the flesh will pass away, and therefore are irrelevant.
@@JazzyJizzyJohnson-og5sc I think we both are in agreement but just stated things differently haha. In the Bible, the things of the flesh definitely include things too much makeup, immodesty, etc. What I was saying is those things pass away, as in-they’re not eternal. When the apostle Paul says “crucify the flesh”, he’s talking about crucifying or doing away with what would be appealing to the flesh such as overemphasis on appearances, “flashy” things, carnality, drunkenness, discord, etc.
@@JazzyJizzyJohnson-og5sc guys like fit, feminine women who have the right curves for them over darn near anything else. And we'll just make up whatever story in our head we need to as long as we don't think she sleeps around. And that goes for 90% of guys. Liberal, conservative, atheist or a crazy christian. All the same.
@@topshelfdustin3060nah. A LOT of men like permiscuous women. Have you never heard of men being "p whipped". That doesn't happen with low body count women that are usually only low body count because they just don't like sex. Survey says 40% of American women aren't interested in sex. Ask most men over 40. They know it. Hence why they chase 20 year olds hoping that she will be the unicorn.
Conservative woman here. The girls asking the star sogns is an eye roll but guy knowing all his star signs was a big ick. Plus he was clearly saying what the girls wanted to hear, not what he ACTUALLY thought. He was physically attractive though.
I think you'll find that the women's choices are VERY different when they are together than when they assess independently. THAT would be in interesting comparison.
@@droolingpine9658I agree but I think that happens with the men too, I think just the whole system is not going to work because one person speaks louder in a video and if someone has a totally dissenting opinion they don't get factored in. This system is democratic and _assumes_ that women will think alike so it can't factor in the minority. This s is the closest I've seen one of these videos match my own opinion, and that's not at all with the looks aspect.
@sirskeptic that's a good point. I think they had the women rank them on the card anonymously at the end, so I think we got to see some genuine thoughts there
This reminds me of one of your older videos about how dudes are afraid to cry. Because girls insist on them showing their feelings, but when they cry, the girls call it an ick. The all hugged the blue shirt guy and thought he was attractive, but dropped him when he cried.
That wasn’t the reason. It was his other answers that dropped him lower. Losing a friend is probably one of the most culturally accepted reasons for a guy to cry. What are you on?
And this is why it’s hard being conservative in a world like this. I was shocked to find out that all these guys had a huge body count, like can we not?
@@zealrot4992no we don’t, I don’t mind a small number but higher one just tell me so much how they see others and life value they have. ( people are not object to consume for your personal satification)
@@Vooooots It's an observation. We don't have these ranking interviews to get to know the person irl. Guys like Kai get the first chance. Just like the initial ranking
@@zealrot4992 ew, no thanks. I really don’t see the appeal. I’d rather marry someone whole, not someone who gave himself away to x-number of women previously. It betrays commitment issues. If you’re willing to hook up and then leave, how can I be assured of your fidelity in marriage?
As a young woman in this time, I love your bit of common sense. We need more people like you. I have mutual friends with 2 "non binary" girls. I find it really hard to balance kindness and respect with not affirming it.
@@dayligs I'm against my "non binary" friend's foolish belief, but I'm not going to exclude her from my life while she respects my right to disagree. Friendship can be more important than ideology.
The guys seemed pretty good at ranking themselves for the most part. They had the exact same order for the 2 that moved down and the 3 that moved up. They seemed to know about where they "fit" in the scale. The only exception was they didn't know the setting. The first two were "players" and would NORMALLY (admit it guys) be the ones to REALLY get a "hook up." However, the panel of women seemed to be thinking less hook up and more "relationship" which then moved the other three up in the same order.
@@mikebalentine That's not a lie. They're still going to have sex with the two jocks regardless. The other ones are still going to be harshly filtered for everything else, because they're not _that_ jock.
uh it wasn't him being a player it's cuz he was the hottest guy there lmfao. And this was supposed to be about physical attractiveness idk why we're talking so much about personality.
As physically attractive and financially stable Andros may be, he says what you want to hear. That takes him down to completely unattractive. He comes across as untrustworthy and a player, especially after his response to the body count question. His answer made no sense, if each women you slept with meant more to you than a number, you would be more likely to remember how many women you've slept with, not less. I don't want to armchair psychoanalyze him, but he comes across as a manipulator
aren't a lot of relationships about telling the other person what they want to hear instead of the truth? No honey those pants don't make you look big.
There is a difference between a white lie to make someone feel good about themselves (some people don't even like when their SOs ask questions like that) and a lie to deceive/mislead/obfuscate for your own benefit. When I tell my wife she doesn't look big in those pants even if I believe she does, I'm saying it to make her feel good about how she looks. It's for her benefit. When I pretend like I'm into astrology or refuse to disclose my body count when asked under the guise of caring so much about each woman I slept with, I'm saying those things, so you will think more highly of me or you will be more attracted to me. And at least, to me (and a number of others), when I see through the manipulation, your attraction drops to zero.
As a black man who loves black women… the fact that the only black woman on here is the one that kept Kai at #1 says SO much about where my culture’s women are today. Not sure about the demographic of viewers on this video & in these comments so you all may not agree with me, but I am VERY disappointed with her ranking him so high even after hearing his morals and values. Brett took a lot of general overall positivity from this, which she should have because this was definitely a relief to realize women overall still value monogamy & personality over looks, but as far as the women IM generally attracted to (black women), this sucks because even after hearing he has 30 bodies and doesn’t want to get married, she STILL would likely waste her time trying to be with him over a guy who is probably much better for her.
I noticed that too. Second most attractive at the start, but then he cried in front of the ladies. Attractiveness: GONE. It shouldn't be that way, but men tend to be stoic for a reason.
Probably because the rest of his answers were very "badboy". It was beautiful to see him be vulnerable, but then he basically told on himself to be a player.
Physical attraction will always be enough to score some one night stands or short relationships that are mainly based on sex, but once you get to meaningful long term relationships and marriage personality is way more important than just looks. After all, looks can be changed and will fade overtime, but your core personality will stay. This doesn't mean that you can't/shouldn't work on your personality as well or that there aren't people who can mask their true personality very well, but your core personality and vore values are what will come out eventually and are what matter most.
The guy who cried was immediately placed last on every girls list. This is the reason why men don’t show their emotions in front of woman. You gotta earn that privilege first
No. Take it from woman. He was put in the bottom because of that comment about his body count and then that long rant he went on to try to clean it up. Followed by the guy at the end of the line calling him out on it. If his comment about his body count wasn't so shady and he didn't have that weird response when asked about his zodiac sign. Him crying about the loss of his best friend would have likely maintained his ranking of 2.
@@francesnunez3426 bs, sure it placed a role but the primary reason why he was placed last is because he cried. Otherwise crying would have saved his weird acting and ranked him at least a little higher than that since woman like to act like they like emotional men yet when they find one they’re disgusted. Only the real once go through you with shit sadly you rarely find girls or ppl like that
@@GodfreyFirstEldenLord . Nope... I promise you it wasn't the crying. As far as crying goes, it's true that a man can cry and come off as a wuss in many circumstances. However, crying over the death of someone you loved and lost tragically is never in that category for the majority of the women on the planet. That comes off as authentic and genuine vulnerability. Yeah women definitely want men to be strong and stable but they also want them to be kind and to have a heart. A man who can balance that would make a good father and a loving husband. A man who doesn't show some emotion during a circumstance like that is in shock, possibly likely to blow at any minute or strange.
@@francesnunez3426 I’ve seen the opposite so I don’t believe it. Altough I’ve seen emotional men get wifes it’s very rare and often it’s because the woman is kinda masculine in that relationship and kinda bosses the guy around. We’re talking about first reactions here not if they’ve known each other for some time. Woman do get turned off if they see you cry the first time they meet you even if it’s at death
@@GodfreyFirstEldenLord well then I'm sorry to say that a woman who does that in that circumstance is hopped up on birth control pills or something because that is an unnatural reaction the moment she realizes the tragedy of the situation. No woman I know would do that but I'm not gen-z.
I think wanting a virgin is just strange at this point. There are very very few people left who are virgins by age 25, and most of those are probably not that way for lack of trying.
I think this is another great example for the current dating situation for men. There are so many men who may not be super attractive, who immediately get dropped on the totem pole compared to men who look handsome and fun to hang with...but later after learning more about the personality and traits that make up the individual, women find those less-attractive men suddenly more attractive than the ones who look good. It's crazy what you can see in a person if you give them the opportunity to get to know them instead of our current culture of one night stands with cute guys who find on dating apps.
the funniest part the choose the ones that have the largest body count and the ones who have bad boy vibes at the start. I am not trying to bring this as a race thing, but i cant help notice that in the beginning they all put the black guys at the top and the white guys at the bottom kind of weird. Then they reverse it at the end after asking questions because they notice they arent HUSBAND/MARRIAGE material. Quite poetic actually. This is why both men and women shouldnt choose their partner base on their beauty. I mean look at the men side, they choose the women who looks THE MOST CONSERVATIVE/TRADITIONAL by how they dress. The women side just feels like they only look at the guys base on their beauty standard, not the way they dress.
@@Cocoiland No it wasn't. They didn't care when they rated him by attractiveness. He was up there because they would have all been willing to get him in bed, not caring about his body count. It's because he cried. Women _do_ that by the way. "Awww, can we give him a hug ?", and then turn around and use that against him. Most men experience that, it's not an isolated incident.
@@lonewaerFr. Never show weakness. They’ll immediately be turned off and lose their respect for you. It’s not even their fault. They’re biologically wired that way
@@Cocoiland many women dont take objection with a guy who has run through because even though the actual count might not sound good to a girl but it contributes to a certain trait which women find attractive which is preselection. It is attractive to a woman subconsciously if he has had a girl before. Couple that with the fact that only guys that happen to be promiscuous are the top tier tall, attractive and rich guys which attract women a lot. on the other hand studies show that guy exhibiting signs of weakness is a turnoff for women. Women are sympathetic at best to these men, they wont date them as a rule of thumb
7:28 I didn't understand how they all had unanimous responses to the guys' astrological signs. My understanding is the signs are supposed to determine compatibility based on your own sign. Are all of the women celestial twins? They all align exactly for or against any of the guys' signs? But also let's be real, we didn't just learn all their personalities after base attractiveness, we learned their occupations. Are we surprised that the guy who owns a tech company, even with his blatent pandering answers to questions, got 1st place by a landslide compared to starving artists and models? Bro's got a bank balance and he gonna be spending.
What you should have taken away from that part was that all of the women there are ditzy morons who openly admit to believing in non-sense, of course it didn't' make sense that they seemed to all be thinking the same thing because horoscopes are vague trash designed to let you think what you want no matter the input. And also unsurprising the "most attractive" started out on top (even though most women instantly claim "looks don't matter", likely those would also) then the group of superficial women put the higher earner at the top when they found out because we know in this society that a large bank account matters more than a large anything else.
I mean, you don’t have to be a gold digger to not want to get kicked out of your apartment every few months while trying to raise kids. Woman want stability. Artists can rarely offer that. And what happens when a man who makes his living off of his looks isn’t so attractive anymore? Now, if he shows promise for more long lasting skills, like saving what he does make and investing it, we can talk. (Not really, I’m married!)
@@annahbranchmost of those women want careers and to be in clubs every weekend they don’t want kids until they’re to old to have some, so no even women who don’t kids still chase the bag Aka being a gold digger
@@annahbranch Except painter boy (Nick) was also a carpenter who made furniture. A man with a tradeskill like that is one of the most career-stable men you can find. Tradeskills are always helpful, always needed. Too few people recognize that.
This episode is the natural progression. The guys initially ranked at the top would hit on the first night. The guys initially ranked last would be in the friend zone. Then once the chicks were thinking with their brain instead of their eyes, they made their ‘marry’ choices.
@@kateayling987 lol oh honey. I could be wrong but it seems you’re upset because you ranked them the same way and are a bit flabbergasted that your pattern of behavior matches my assessment of it.
@@unlisted5152 Is she supposed to be ashamed of ranking the guys based solely on looks when that was literally the only thing to go off of? If your level of attraction towards a woman never changes from first seeing them to getting to know their personality then you are just shallow.
@@unlisted5152 honestly didn't rank them tbh. I don't really find men attractive because my man is just so attractive to me I've lost interest in all other men
There was a guy in my high school who was gorgeous. I had a crush on him until he spoke to me. No personality at all and he wasn't smart. I was shy so I just awkwardly smiled and walked away. 😂
"The first guy they were like 'ooooh, tall, tan' but everybody else I can't figure out what their reasoning is" That, Brett, that's it right there. You got it.
Over the years, I've had the opportunity to interact with people from diverse backgrounds, cultures, and various religious beliefs. Brett my sister, you, in my eyes, embody the essence of decency, wisdom, and sanity that transcends ethnicity and culture. These qualities are the universal core of humanity, and you exemplify them, even if you may not be fully aware of the fact. Bless you
@@mirks7929, she resembles a typical middle-class woman from any cultural background. In this context, "average" signifies a sense of balance and represents the majority. Being average means embodying the qualities that make us most human.
This would be the man I would try and exchange numbers with after this. I don't even know my zodiac sign let alone base my life decisions off of it. It'd be like taking a fortune cookie seriously.
In my opinion if you invite someone to go with you somewhere let’s say out to eat you should pay the bill there’s no splitting or asking them to pay. they’re using their time of the day to go do something with you they could’ve stayed at home but they decided not to the least you can do is pay for their meal. if they don’t want to do the same for you then that’s when you stop paying for them as well, don’t let them take advantage of you.
As soon as the two guys said they were models, I knew they would get ranked at the bottom 2 later on. Women don't like that type of competition, even if its from the guys getting the spotlight. This is why Shaggy moved up to no.2.
That was actually very interesting. I was honestly expecting it to be far more shallow, but I was pleasantly surprised by the ladies questions and reasoning.
So women said a lot, then ranked guys based on perceived income. Male models do not make money. The real test is did any of the girls leave with any of the guys?
I do feel a bit for Blue Shirt on the crying thing. My church group was putting on our annual retreat and part of the itinerary is giving talks about certain topics. Legit, all 9 of us speakers cried during our talks including the two dudes we had because they were quite personal to us. Even some of the guy retreaters and staff had a few tears. We did separate the guys and gals after a talk (my idea!) because we knew the dynamics and subject of the talk would feel different for a guy and a gal, and from what staff saw at a high level it seems there were some strong emotions going on. Then some events happened at the retreat where all of us got shaken up and it was touch and go on the water works for a while. Sometimes emotions hit and depending on the group, it will affect who ya let your guard down around. At the end we gave some final thoughts and I was laughing a bit as I cried, and some dudes also got quiet as they processed what they were saying. Admittedly, we were all friends before and got closer at the end of the retreat so there’s that. But yeah, losing a best friend is one thing I will never knock a guy down for cause I understand the feeling of being overwhelmed and/or losing someone close to ya. Also, I will NEVER answer the Zodiac sign nonsense. Technically there should be 13 signs anyway, so most people are wrong on what they are.
The girls are lying ....notice how the 2 guys with the way higher body counts at the end are at the bottom...wen girls talk they choose one thing in reality they choose another...thats why they said to eachother at the end i told yu so...notice how girls say they love guys who are emotional the dude literally cries real tears over real shizz and the girls laugh and vote him last...hopefully one guy learns with this comment...
@@israelisreallthat's a lie 🤣😂🤣 all men do is control their emotions till they reach a breaking point that's why tears are held in and alot less fight occur. Only crazy ones don't keep their emotions in check, that's what makes a man is keeping his emotions in check
Just by the way he’s reacting, that last guy’s a mood. He’s me. Like im straightforward, awkward, quiet & brutally honest in the face of bs. Although i will always pay for the first date just bcoz i want to personally albeit i do believe in equality in all spectrum of definitions. Im a communist in theory & capitalist in practice😂
If it is a good date you want to pay because you are happy! If it is a bad date you want to pay so you can get away from her as quickly as possible (Bring some cash so you can tip if good service) try not to tip on the bill though and make it so she can tell easy enough. If someone suggests a place that is much more high-end, they are either paying or paying their own share.
Interesting video. A tip for women; please do not mention star signs on a first date. Because it puts the guy in an awkward position. Now he has to pretend he doesn't think it is complete superstitious bs (I don't know any man who believes that stuff). Unless you are really into star signs, tarot and stuff. In that case, please tell... That way we know that we have to find away out of the date asap. BTW that guy being in tech and knowing that much about horoscope stuff... You just know he studied that stuff to pick up girls.
A tip for anyone should be to be themselves. And if a woman talks about that stuff just be honest and tell her how you feel. This is why dating today is terrible it’s just people acting and then they come together and break up quite quickly because they finally start realizing who the people really are.
@@weignerleigner3037 I fully agree, but not many like it when you tell them horoscopes are utter nonsense and most astrologist know too little about astronomy to even understand why.
And yet Kai had the highest body count. At the end of the day, the most attractive feature in a man, the thing that will get him the most success in the dating scene, is how desirable he is perceived to be, not how desirable he actually is
As a guy who's probably a solid 6 at best on the looks scale, I gotta say being funny and confident wins majority of the time. I've been dating outta my league since I started dating and it's always been because I get in the friend circle and my personality let's me shine.
@@waltermh111 Huh? That seems at odds with what this guy is saying. He is saying he can get dates with attractive ladies. Isn't that counter to what you're saying? Yeah maybe on dating apps people will pass you up, but even dudes who you could say are like 8s don't get matches on dating apps. The girls on there are shallow af.
@@hobosnake1 I don't know his particular situation to know how he's getting these girls but notice he's getting a lot of girls instead of one girl. Yes , if you're going to be a player and get the sluts , you have a greater chance of getting girls , but not all of us just want to play around. What I do know is that my experience in America has been terrible. But my experience in asia was great. I have confidence in both places, but girls in America treated me terribly and girls in Asia treated me great and I had two great girlfriends. (Not at the same time, just in different countries that I lived in). No , they didn't want me for a green card and they didn't want me for my money. And i'm still close to both of them to this day. So if you have great luck in america then go for it. If you just want to play around then go for it. Good luck to you. But for most men , that's not how it's working out , and it's just much much better overseas.
Somebody should have earned a raise for including a joe dirt meme in a modeling joke😂. Classic. Thanks guys. Keep it up Ps damn, that transition though
My wife models. She said they're taught they're supposed to be completely void of emotion because they're not modeling themselves, they're modeling the clothes. And you're not supposed to take attention away from the clothes.
That's fucked up. Then these companies shouldn't hire models, but use mannequins instead. A zombie death stare is no way to make me want to buy whatever they're selling.
aww, I feel so bad for Wes .. I lost my sister to suicide and I don't think I could go on from that question/response.. Much love to him. Also, I haven't dated in awhile is asking what your "body count" a typical thing.. ew
Blue beetle? Ya that one choked me up a couple times! And cracked me up too haha honestly like the biggest roller coaster of emotions from a movie in a minute lol
At the risk of being burned to the stake on the internet, I am going to play Devils Advocate. I can relate to where Kai was coming from regarding marriage. I am not sure if there are culture differences anywhere and what not, but in the US, marriage is a lot more complicated than just unifying two people. The legal shenanigans, financial risks to the parties involved, etc. I do not like. I do not like the idea of putting myself or my partner in a situation that could be detrimental like that. You can argue that these risks should not be an issue if you trust someone enough. And I can agree to an extent. The fact is, people change. We do not stop growing and changing as individuals as adults. This goes on for the rest of our lives until we are confident in who and what we are. Regardless of the chances, there is no guarantee that the person I fist devote myself to is going to be the same person years later. Now, again, counter argument here would be that in a happy life, those changes do not cause issues or cause a separation. But that happy life scenario is not a guarantee and if I and my partner ever reached a point we no longer felt happy with each other, I would not want to add legal stress on top of the emotional stress that comes with the situation. The risks of this get higher the more successful an individual is in their life. The risks to the common person are not as great to the risks to someone who has built or owns a company for example. There are varying degrees of risk. I am conscious of those risks because of where I am taking my life. I do not see there being a crime in two people choosing to forgo marriage but still live a happy life together. I do not believe it is right to have such a negative reaction to that. That all said though, in Kai's case, I think the real problem was less of his view and more of his attitude because to me the guy screams player and I do not get the sense he is open to or willing to have that emotional attachment to an individual. And it shows.
Some stuff I agree with you on and other stuff I don’t. My favorite thing about you though is that I genuinely think you want a better community and your opinions aren’t led by malice
Barely 1 minute in and I KNEW which guy would be moved to the front of the line -- the tallest. And even though tall, guy at the other end is just "too white." However, this is before the guys get to speak at all, but let's all be honest, that won't matter. And Brett finally, at about 18 min, hit on the truth -- Kai (tall black dude) can be a jerk but still gets laid more than all of the other guys combined.
These women should have been in the line up for the female attractiveness rating video because out of the 5 used before only one was physically attractive. All of these women are attractive.
Why y'all hating on Shaggy 😭 I actually think he's hot af. 👀🤣 I agree with the final ranking. My ranking for physical appearance ONLY would've been. 1) Andros 2) Kai 3) Shaggy/ Jack 😍 4) Nick 5) Blue shirt
Whenever I see genuine reactions to Jubilee videos, I can't help but think that they are obviously disingenuous and are on the same caliber as early reality television. I see them as only existing for entertainment and discussion. At the same time, I love the content of judging others that are judging others because the comment section is normally full of hypocritical hate, but Brett Cooper's Comment Section is filled with reasonable, respectful and knowledgeable people. This channel has reassured my faith in Humanity. Thank you for that.
@@HotSauce-fo6sf We’ve all sinned so it’s not about pride of being better than someone else, but it’s a very fearful thing to rebel against God and reject His conviction and mercy. Warning someone that God is a just God and they are in danger of hell isn’t judgmental
