I love it this I feel like waiting or being celibate is truly about taking control of your body and doing what you want when you are ready not society or anyone else..
What happens if we puncture a small hole in a bucket full of water, the water starts leaking and the level of water in the bucket goes down. Breaking vow of celibacy (Brahmacharya), indulging in kissing is like developing a leak in our lifestyle. Even a single kiss can arouse sexual feelings resulting in breaking of vow of celibacy
I personally would not recommend being super close with girls in general if you are a Christian. Especially if your first starting out. I avoided girls for a few months after I got saved. Then I was told by God to become friends with this one girl. She’s really committed to God and she’s awesome. But I didn’t want to. But God said he would protect me and to be her friend. So I did. We’re still friends. But if things are getting hard and one of us starts catching feelings... then we take a break for a while and don’t talk. All led by God when He says. But if your wanting to be close to a girl. I would pray about it... a lot. A lot a lot. I prayed about me and this girls friendship literally over 100 times. IM NOT JOKING. And God said this friendship was from Him. So pray and ask him if your supposed to be friends or not. If the relationship is from Him he will tell you
So celibacy is good.For the person and The Holy Spirit in them is in their body and in their Spirit.Yeah get to know them.Wait till marriage to kiss.Are to have sex.
Actually birth control does that. Studies show that men are more attracted to women when they are on their periods. I also understand that some women use it as a means for cramps but you could take ibuprofen or natural medicines instead
The reason is to honor your body and commit it to God by waiting to have sex in the proper setting that God intended. If you are left cranky it's because you're doing it just for the sake of it. When you pursue God you won't be cranky.