Yeah all my life my mother has belittled me making me feel as if im the most stupid person in the world. its sad because it causes alot of low self esteem
Same I never mattered to my mum I was the youngest child that never received any love or emotional support she only cared about he work, status and my older sister who was a bitch just like her she's died now but I'm still bitter.
Me too but you know what having like this taught me was to be strong and to develop my own self esteem. Nothing anyone says to me can take that away. Remember we choose our parents so you chose her. So learn to see the value in it.. It will be the best thing you ever do for you... Staynlove
OMG...I have a Capricorn Rising and that thought was just hitting me this morning.....this question "Is there something I'm doing that's causing people to think I'm a complete idiot?".. I can be sitting there noticing every little game and or manipulation that's coming at me....but it's just as you said....I don't want to just randomly and unconsciously react....or make an ass out of myself when there doesn't appear to be anything of value in that. Half the time I'm telling myself "I don't need to oppose this person" I can see exactly what they're doing and therefore I can just step aside...or quietly avoid their "hooks". I do think this can "read" as if I have no idea what they're doing.
@@radzillaskateboards7064 I've noticed that. The question is, "does it matter if this person thinks I'm dumb?" The answer depends on whether that person is the type that will attempt to exploit the "perceived" stupidity. If they are, they can really turn out to be a pain in the a**, because they have already made up their mind that you're an easy target and they will therefore not give up easily. It becomes a matter of their ego "needing" to succeed at that point (The reasoning being...if they can't exploit a dumb person, what does that say about their own intelligence?) Sometimes I think we just need to decide whether it's worth our time/trouble to "show them we're not idiots" or whether it makes more sense to just "let them" draw their flawed conclusion and then, if it becomes necessary, turn their "exploitative energy" back on them (Aikido style) if and when it shows itself. Yes this is annoying to have to play this game, but I often feel it's my responsibility (Scorpio Sun, here...which may come into play) You can't exactly "defend yourself" against what people are "thinking but not saying" (because you don't really ever know for certain what they're thinking...and who really cares...Not me!)...but once they "show you" through exploitative actions what they think of you, you can feel completely fine about "showing them" they were wrong. Time consuming, but necessary.
@@macoeur1122Thank you I appreciate this. This is literally how I move. I observe and listen. I know when my intelligence is being insulted. Somethings aren’t worth my time. It’s in opinion. I react if it’s important enough.
Facts! It’s as if people assume if you don’t respond or react it’s because you’re too dumb to realize it’s happening. And I’m like “no I see it and I’m addressing it through my actions I don’t need to call out the bs verbally”
People think Cap rising are stupid??? I never felt that. I actually feel people thinking I'm some type of philosophical genius lol. But I have Taurus in the 4th house with a Scorpio midheaven. Aquarius and Leo intercepted in the 1st/7th houses.
Order helps Cap risings think clearly. We're more influenced by our environments than we like to say. Interesting about Aries in the 4th. I usually take the lead with family activities, emergencies etc. I don't have any planets there but my 2nd house in Mars is looking at my 4th.
Not you calling me stupid 😭🥴 Please don’t ever be fooled !! I LOVE playing dumb. I catch on to things quickly it’s scary so I play dumb. I pick the perfect time to call it how I see it. Wth
Finally found out my time of birth -Gem sun Leo moon Cap rising! I put my groceries in order to be rung up LOL . Much love love your style in this video! ❤
3:07 I do not have Cancer descendant or Capricorn Ascendant; but I have Capricorn at the cusp of 1st house. I relate to the Aries 4th house, people do want a lot of nurturing from me which I clearly don't have.
Your so appreciated n can't thank you enough for sharing yourself with the world as YOU! I first spent half my life smiling and nodding getting wide eyed looks by those closest to me... got my biz growing just at the cusp of huge growth on my mission bout to be seen n the cards fell..it was never about them... smh... @8:00 lol put all groceries in order.. .. aha.. I have 12 squares! Pisces Sun, Moon in Scorpio Moon, Cap Rising... 6 planets retrograde ...woo saah 💨
I got to organize my shit... Libra sun Cap Rising. The libra in me may throw it in the cart but the Cap in me have to organize it so I can make sure what I'm getting make sense cause my libra ass be impulsively getting everything.. #air/earth
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOO the first thing he said about us was "Capricorn ascendants are going to APPEAR to have common sense. A lot of Capricorn ascendants don't have it though."
hi flight boss wow u needed it man I'm always organizating everything from sock and tee shirt drawer I organize my hair products in one side vitamins on the other side all my shampoos and conditioners together very organized when I grocery shop and checking out my mom always ask me why u always searching and picking putting everything together in the cart she says just get all the grocery she said I take to long to check out when I write a check or money order I'm always double checking to make sure it's right
" Doesnt like to talk like a pisces" plot twist my sun, venus mercury, and north node are in the 3rd house. Also, what about capricorn ascendants that also have saturn, neptune, and uranus in the 1st house?
Capricorn is in my 1st hse but my sun and ascendant is in Saggi. Saturn is in Cancer in 7th house. Bit confusing. Aries in my 3rd and a little of 4th hse. Moon in Cancer. Mother Leo. Father Pisces. Sister aries. None of this sounds like me though.
by far the worst placement in astrology, this placement brings nothing but struggles, failures, restrictions, demands, loses and negativity. I along with another friend have this placement and both with saturn in aries and both are unlucky as hell.
Reasonable I mean, to you it might seem like a horrible placement, but it's the one you have, so I would try to embrace it, unless you just like always focusing on the negative. I have Cap rising, with Saturn in Aquarius (still in 1st house though) _and_ it opposes my 7th house Leo Sun, so that's a struggle there. But it trines my 5th house Gemini Moon. I'm sure you have other placements/aspects that are great.
I agree nothing but hardships when we think we up something in the universe fucks us up through people, work colleagues, family, money I dont trust no one or life anymore I actually dont like people good thing is I do put my shopping in order😒
You have to understand the energies that come with this placement. I have Saturn in Pisces so it isn’t easy to have a Cap ascendant. Caps are late bloomers so the hardships you go through now are teaching you lessons. And when you learn these lesson, then you will prosper. I also had hardships growing up and not as lucky. But when I put in the work, it all came naturally.
My son has Taurus in the 4th house & Aries in the 3rd. What does that mean for a young Leo? With a Virgo Venus & Cancer Mars. 10th house in Scorpio and he is a younger twin just 7mins apart.
I personally know a Cap Rising female. I'm also sensing that a guy friend is a Cap Rising as well. These two don't have common sense imo. They're not dumb but it's something OFF about tthem. I jokingly refer to CAPS in general as the copycat of the zodiac signs. I find them to be quiet when they can't relate. Whatever u eventually come up with is what they'll store within their database. You're right about them lacking emotion. Honestly, CAPS in general give me covert narcissist tease. They can't control their lives but need to find someone to manipulate.
@@cheeks6310 he's aries sun sag moon and leo rising The aries gives him that high energy, Leo probably makes him as eccentric as he is like he's performing while he's talking and that sag moon gives him the depth and insight for the higher meanings to everything he saying
He has his Pluto in Scorpio in the 4th house that’s what you’re picking up lol. We know fire signs don’t be this deep 😅 Coming from a Moon in Cancer, Venus Scorpio lol.
I think your usage of the words “status quo” was inaccurate. It made it very confusing. Status quo simply means “the existing state of affairs” but you made it seem as if reaching status quo is the action of one upping everyone around you...