Caretaker Keeps Trying To Stop 600+ Lb Woman From Getting Help | My 600-LB Life 

Nah it was a private company they don't do 911 calls.

But she is still an absolutely acts like an entitled spoiled child.

@@chefmesser420 Yep, just like an adult baby. I swear, some of these morbidly obese people are ridiculous.

@@notmebutyou8350 I agree. They act like victims and it’s infuriating to me.

I wonder what the bill was for that ambulance.

Reminds me of when I was working in the nursing home. We weren’t helping anyone, just enabling bad behavior.

Who would not be smiling at the people who just helped them save their life?

Sometimes people smile or giggle when nervous.

Disgusting

@@astherielleloella-ximena402 that's a whole different situation! The elderly are completely different.

I think they got confused. The carer who was caring for her was the one trying to stop her from getting treatment. She wanted to remain caring for her where she was but she was enabling her. This friend was desperate to get her away from that carer to get her real help. The friend referenced the bad carer near the end of the clip, saying she kept sending text messages to the obese one during the journey trying to get her to come back to her.

That’s not her caretaker that’s her friend actually trying to get her out before the caretaker shows up

Dude she just has problems stop judging people you don’t know

@@rachelb3196the way she acts in this clip is quite something wouldn’t you say ?? 🤔 I’ll let you take time to figure out

To threw

Trey: Exactly, she is a manipulative attention lover, I’m shocked that her friend puts up with this disgusting person.

@@rachelb3196 Problems she wouldn’t have if she wasn’t constantly scarfing down processed foods.

That's because the camera is rolling.

Lmfaoooo you know tlc

And they don't get paid that much (actually they make very little) to tolerate her nonsense. 😐😐😐

Kitten mittens yes! The paramedic was amazing. I was a care taker and I know what they go through. So kudos to you for pointing this out.

A true professional. I would have lost my shit and walked out after like 10 minutes

I agree .. lots of attention and she loved every second

This may be true, but that woman's sick mentally AND physically plus the aide is telling her not to go see Dr. Now

@@ctt7971 Yep, she sure did love it!

@@_smurfitude I don't care, she wasn't too sick to be laughing at her friend crying her eyes out. Plus she kept the ambulance waiting 3 hours! She knew what she was doing, I'm sorry

@@kanyebreast6072 I do understand your feelings and maybe my answer didn't convey it. After I commented, I found the entire video, and watched it just because of this clip we watched. There's many just like her. They're dead too. In many of them, the pain gets them. Of course she has her karma and that's what will kill her. I'm not nearly as big as her, but I'm ill. I'm also twice her age too. I value my friends and true friends mean more to me than anything here on this planet. She didn't know how to even treat herself right, so how could she treat her friend right? Below this I commented but it was about how aides had took my health and cashed in on it. Sandy's one of the good ones. She don't come around often but the predators are dime a dozen. This is fact and don't feel sorry about how you feel. I just looked at it all and my eyes didn't see it like you did but it don't make what you said wrong either. Sandy saw what I saw too. She's a mental train wreck and it will kill her. She messed up BAD! All the way around plus to be honest, it's too late. After she went to Houston, she ended up going home. Sandy can now put her mind at ease. She got Cindy to Dr. Now and if Cindy dies, Sandy shouldn't have any regrets. Everything said below your initial comment's true and what you said is what's killing her. Every observation and reaction is why she's like that in the first place. In all reality, she waited too long. Bad part of it all: She went BACK TO HOUSTON. And she don't know how to communicate either. She had other doctors! She should have been in pain management way before she met Sandy! And she eats too much. It is what it is, I know this. That's why we have professionals. Dr. Now focuses on his specialty. He's not pain management. And yes, it hurts like hell, my friend to carry that weight for some people. I can now do more thanks to my doctors and because of just ONE caregiver. Just one, like Sandy. But, she couldn't be with me. I accept that. And, I don't weigh nowhere as much as Cindy. I'll get up. Cindy just lays on her back, and she's been like that too long.

So disgusting

This is why anyone who deals with people like this should take a leaf out of Dr Now's book. He handles them perfectly, he shuts down their shit, doesn't tolerate bullshit or manipulation & he remains helpful & calm but firm throughout. If her friend had said, "OK, well we are going without you now" they wouldn't have wasted three hours of their time on her antics.

She doesn't Want to stop eating. AND HAVING PEOPLE TAKE CARE OF HER LIKE A BABY DISGUSTING PERSON

Ya “rude friend “ , drives over 3 hours each way, gives her a bath, arranges an ambulance, sets up her home for her and becomes her caregiver. BAD friend!!😂😂😂

Typical brown entitlement

She is getting off on it, while her friend was crying her eyes out, she was smiling playing her hair!. She was loving the attention!!

I know! She loves having people waiting on her to make decisions and wants to wait and wait until she says yes so they’ll all be so happy with her. She said herself she was going to go the whole time.

@Trinity M The medic is from a transport company. Real paramedics in an emergency ambulance wouldn't have stayed. If a patient says they don't want to go, they leave

Specially in this time we living right now

@Trinity M It is for “addicts” that don’t want help, there too many people who die everyday from things out of their control to worrying about people who cause their OWN health issues.

She knows she has to work for everything now. Specially food

bingo!

Even listening to her voice over shes so overacting, sounds SO mellow dramatic

EXACTLY, stick her in an institution, and she eats whatever they serve anyone.

I see the same. She looked like a demon excited at her friends misery

She feels miserable inside and this is the way to express it.

Of course she is, it's like a sadistic glee comes over her.

Lmao

Exactly.

Yasssssss

Yes. She reminded me of tammy from 1000 pound sister.

@@kristinahames7560 Similar issue. Everyone coddles these people.

Stop feeding her would be a good Start.

I noticed that too. It's duper's delight.

She annoyed me she was taking piss out of them by making them wait for her, just so she could feel important !! Did she ever lose weight ??

I saw that too.

@@kittykooky I double it. She needs to be centre stage

I'm getting queasy over this

I do agree: The good caregivers should be loved and supported, but the trash who 'claim' to be caregivers should be held accountable for many of the evil deeds they pull behind closed doors in a patient's home. Neglect or any kind of abuse against a vulnerable individual should be promptly looked at, and proper legal action should be taken. There's such a thing as the 'Americans with Disabilities Act,' and other laws that can be enforced but sadly many are getting off SCOTT FREE. If a patient or a family fires such people, the agency only place such trash somewhere else until too many complaints but by then many patients are left traumatized.

Kudos to you for dropping some truths here!

this is very good, succinct advice

Same, I'm a residential counselor and its this type of attitude that will burn your efforts out. This woman is so entitled and manipulative.

My mum always said she didn't want to be a burden to her children, and to put her in care, but be sure that her only visits are unannounced, so they never know when she is coming back.🎭

I saw this episode, her friend just wanted to use her for her disability check. She moved to Houston and her friend had her sleeping in a chair not a bed. She never lost weight and eventually moved out her friends home.

@@ilovesweetsalways8978 No, she did NOT use her for her disability check. She had a chair for her because she knew she would never get out of the bed if she had a bed for her. She tried to get her to walk, eat right, etc. and wanted her to lose weight but she sneaked food and refused. Dr. Now made house visits because she could not even go to his office. She went back home to the caretaker that DID use her by giving her the food she wanted to keep her obese so she would have not only a job but extra things she bought her for taking care of her. This lady is/was the best friend she ever had she was too self centered to see it!

@@lisathompson9198 Did you see the full episode? She told her she he had a bed delivered to her home once she moved in. She lied, she had only a large chair (AND SHE NEVER GOT OUT THAT CHAIR EITHER 😂) She had no handicap accessibility items plus she was still feeding her high calorie foods. How could she sneak food when she couldn't even get up and walk on her own.( she also never lost weight) and she wasn't taking her to her doctors appointments. She missed all her appointments however, she was collecting her disability check every month. 😂

@@lisathompson9198 Exactly! I saw it too.

@@lisathompson9198 yeah if she cared so much for her friend why was she feeding her bad food and lying to dr now??

It’s like she enjoyed having everyone fussing over her 🙄

They were paid to transport her to Houston more then likely this was their only trip for the day.

@@daniburke9452 still... just because they were paid for her transportation and, as you said, it was probably their only trip, it's very disrespectful to keep them waiting. They're working, doing their job. She's just making the whole thing more difficult.

Take her to the glue factory and melt her down!

@@daniburke9452 so what? Having people wait 3 hours is completely disrespectful and rude. Clearly she doesn’t care about anyone but herself Awful person

It's probably narcissism

And that’s why she’s 600 and more lbs. That’s why she’s a blob and a whole burden to herself and others.

It's not zero self awareness, it's not wanting to do anything hard, it's selfishness.

Narcissistic people. World revolves around them.

Yeah because if I was Cindy’s friend and she was acting like that I would have said, alright bye !

Same! I was looking for this comment. 😊

Me too, it’s misleading

Yes very gross and clickbaity 🙄

Yeah, ridiculous.

The title is quite misleading

Look at Tammy on 1000 lb sisters. She had people pushing her 650lb carcass around and waiting on her. It's the same story with a lot of them

No one gives a damn if you hurt yourself hauling these obese ppl around either… it’s my fault for not “bending at the knees” lol 😝

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

😂😂😂😂

Right

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Exactly , she acting like Tammy

Like my good friend Iyanla Vanzant says"I am not going to fight you for your healing.period💯

FACTS!!!!!

I'll walk WITH you - but I can't walk FOR you!

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Ngl I was pretty appaled when they zoomed in on her brushing her 7 hairs

Exactly! The biggest problem here is that people waste too much time on these ungrateful trollops. The sooner they're left to fend for themselves the better.

@Trinity M Absolute and utter nonsense. She's being fed like a prize cow. It's the people around these gluttons doing more harm the good.

@Trinity M lol I don’t remember saying I was going to. My comment was basically me saying that I wouldn’t work with them.

@Trinity M what addiction? It's not hard to put food down. What they got is an addiction to attention. Look at the way she was sitting there smiling.

@Trinity M There's a difference eminent enabling for food addiction--no one is doing something illegal

Lisa in season ten also, all miserable leeches on others and society

@@cortneyrens omg she was so horrible, made me soooo angry.

@@cortneyrens we need to realize that some like this lady are terrible but some like Tammy have just gone through a lifetime of trauma and healing is NOT pretty. It's terrible you lose people you lose yourself. Tammy's finally doing better because of all the pain and torment Chris when through and he stayed by her side. Sometimes it just takes time and there's only few in this world willing to help like that. Tammy's down 150 now. Because of those who stuck around. Ik she'll keep getting better mentally too. I went through 16 years of abuse and I did bad things to my sister (as she did to me) but she still stuck around we helped each other and realized we saved each other's lives. As long as you're helping someone and not hurting yourself, keep helping. Don't give up on people who've gone through years of brain altering trauma. It's worth it I promise.

They just will not get off their ass, right?

OMG they both need to locked together in a 8x10 studio apartment with no windows and 1 door, and 1/2 of peanut butter sandwich. They deserve each other. Two of the biggest and most ungrateful women I’ve ever seen 🤬🤬🤬🤬😤😤😤 so many good ppl have tried to help them only for them to turn around and act like it’s everybody’s fault they are the size they are . 🤨

The caretaker was on the phone to Cindy . It’s not Sandy .

No her friends

YES the video title is lying.... this caretaker is trying desperately to wake her up and stop her from killing herself. She's clearly a good woman who is exhausted from serving an addict.

Wait nevermind I just finished 😭😭😭 Omg so so sad!!!😭 what evil....

@@saranohmusic57 lol thts y u shld learn to watch before u rush to comment🤣

She doesn't she blames that woman for everything the whole show... just a shame.

Ya gotta figure that people like Sandy, as loving and caring as she is, must have her own set of needs and a type of co-dependency going on here. Some deeper need to be constantly disappointed or let down or not respected, ya know?

@@govindagovindaji4662 yeah she seems like a good person she just needs some therapy

The whole new season (season 10) is just people that have excuses and play victim, I don’t think they want help at this point. I remember when the people actually wanted the help to lose the weight.

Some morbidly obese woman went off on my doctor and the staff because she couldn’t fit on the exam tables and chairs. She went as far as calling the news to smear him! Imagine expecting the world to revolve around you!

Thats how all the people on the show act, if the people just left them alone they would be loosing weight so fast, all enabling.

I agree with her.

I would leave her there

Real friends wouldn’t let you get to this point.

They are probably medical transport, not emergency response.

@@SharonVeeLee that's probably true, but still. There are plenty of people who need to be transported. I hope they got paid overtime.

I believe Dr. Now contracts his long-hauls.

@Mon, I'm an advanced EMT, you're absolutely right! Not only that, the private ambulance company would've been blowing up their phones asking why TF they weren't on the road yet. NO ambulance, private or 911 is going to wait around for someone to shower, do their hair, manipulate, etc... Even though they're not doing 911 calls, there's still discharges, wait and returns and dialysis runs. This was a huge waste if time and resources. Lol they also sent the skinniest crew to pick her up.l, they did a great job though.

@@SharonVeeLee even with medical transport, dispatch would’ve told them to leave her, esp with the shower part! I’ve never seen a transfer or private transport with more than one or two bariatric ambulances. Dispatch and mngmt would have been all over those EMTs to get back in service as soon as possible

Well that’s her friend she doesn’t want her to die

You can sure leave them to sort their own problems out though. The problem is that people pander to this shit.

@@tonimarx6405 manipulated because they care.. Just as you saw here. The friend cried while the other one let her cry. That is not friendship. What we see here is one way caring.

@@donn372 of corse she doesn’t want her to die! What friend would?!

Truth

She needs to fight too.

@@laurabarber6697 definitely or nothing is going to change

This reminds me of Tammy vs her whole family. It tires me just watching the effort these other people put in trying to get them to change!

She just wants the money she gets for caretaking. Delusional fans

@@lozzylols right

She and Penny Saeger should be bffs

If they are both still alive🤣

That's addict behavior. Their drug of choice takes over their mind...hers is food. She can't be helped until she wants it. An addict's family and friends, people who love her, just don't want to give up on her. Love is a powerful thing.

@@King_Barney Just like the Slaton fam. Tammy treats them all like crap. I couldn't have the patience to be abused all the time, fam or not.

IKR?? She'd much rather lay in that bed like fucking Jabba the damn Hut, and making people take care of her. 🤬

I wonder if she’d just lie there and die if ppl stopped feeding her and taking care of her.

"Some people" need to be booted out and left to their own devices. They're destroying their caregivers. Had a spouse like that.

Your interested in this career?

@@PennyMsElite huh ??

I agree!

Saw the smirk....not seen...

@@cheekypiper512 Thank you! The illiteracy, lack of education and intelligence is appalling!

@@misssophie7717 not everyone is a native English speaker jesus christ

I think that is just her resting face

“But if I don’t give her the food she wants, she’ll get mad!” How effing often have we heard this from enablers of people like Cindy? Get mad and do WHAT, exactly?!

It would be like trying to fill a bucket with a hole in it. It can never happen!!!

Do you mean food addict or other drug addictions?

Food addiction? Don't make me laugh

@@Cris-ky1mq well then start laughing because it’s real lol, I admit most people have bull shit excuses but it happens and if they don’t try to change it’s their fault

@@Cris-ky1mq Anything that triggers extra feel good hormones in the brain can become an addiction. Its why gambling addicts will keep going back chasing that win even though no drugs are involved. A lot of obese people start over eating in childhood because it makes them feel good, many come from traumatic backgrounds. It's no different than someone enjoying a beer or glass of wine to relax vs someone who is stressed/depressed drinking until they pass out because they are self medicating with alcohol.

@@lindazehnbauer5406 food

Such a drain on the health system. What an oxygen thief.

The sweet woman deserve a a sweet friend.Not this.

Omg! I SOOOOO FEEL LIKE THIS. I CANT STAND THESE PIGS

Agree obesity is not a disability. It is self inflicted. Disgusting these people get disability checks

Burden in the truest sense. Can you imagine the odor?

What doesn't make sense is if they let her stay as she is, then they will be out of a job when she dies!

The sad truth is probably that they know who and how she is. Does that make it okay? No. But sad reality is the misery loves company and people in the caretaker and patient relationships are often unhealthily attached due to socioeconomic status. I hope her the best.

Where are the caretakers that said not to go? Different clip?

More like stealing and sob storying their way into free gifts and cash.

Very interesting yes!

@@A212K keep staying soo soo strong 💕💕😊. I hope things get better for youu

She might have trichotillomania she was touching her hair alot

@@khadijaahmed1477 That's very true. Her hair is thin only in the front, which is different from other types of hair loss. ❤

@Cheyenne Hill It's literally disgusting .

Yes, once you reach a certain weight, your body starts to have inflammatory reactions to the fat. The deposits of fat near stomach and lower abdomen affect the endocrine system.

And I imagine with the level of junk food nutrients are lacking as well.

@@kinhahazevedoh thanks for the reply, genuinely learnt something today.

Could be thyroid issues... due to poor eating/lifestyle choices.

Tammy does actually have thyroid issues since she was a teen

I'm an addict in recovery. I feel that. I was killing the people around me emotionally, but I loved the drug more than my family. I understand that people say this woman shouldn't have had to neg, but thank God my family didn't give up on me or I'd be dead

So walk away and get on with living your own best life! They ARE doing what they want- so let them, don't enable them.

@@laurabarber6697 Yep I'd walk away and tell them to contact me when they're genuinely ready to commit to the hard work involved and then i'll help as much as possible. In the meantime don't waste my time and effort.

@Trinity M she’s literally a ticking time bomb the last that should be concerning you is whether or not she has a bed. bed or no bed she needed to get help.

@@kiaracolbert7996 if the bed can cause further injury on the way to the hospital before she even sees Dr.Now then yes, the bed could be a problem. It doesn’t have to be the most comfortable but it should at the very least accommodate her to lessen the risk of any complications on the drive to the hospital. That’s all the person was saying.