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Caryn Kelley & Phillip Peatross | Murder or Accidental Death? 

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Комментарии : 6 тыс.   
@amyangerer6966
@amyangerer6966 2 года назад
I think her drunken, incoherent ranting was the most accurate description of what actually happened. It wasn’t murder, it wasn’t suicide. It was two very drunk people fighting over a loaded gun and she MAY HAVE pulled the trigger - but it is VERY likely that his hand was over hers basically saying I DARE YOU! HERE - let me help you! Neither had intentions of shooting. This is the NUMBER ONE reason not to have a loaded gun ANYWHERE near you!!
@amandar5723
@amandar5723 2 года назад
So was there gunshot residue testing?
@TimTamRipple
@TimTamRipple 2 года назад
Why did she make a point of telling him that she had a gun and not to come home unannounced??? That’s a bit suspish to me.
@CairnOwl
@CairnOwl 2 года назад
@@TimTamRipple It's to deter him from breaking into her house unannounced. I've had to tell people before that if they showed up to my house unannounced before that we had loaded weapons, and they politely backed off. It's a way of saying "I am able to protect myself from intruders, especially when I don't know who is on the house."
@kellyfelly6645
@kellyfelly6645 2 года назад
I agree with you.
@spookybaby7497
@spookybaby7497 2 года назад
MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY!!!
@whythenumber
@whythenumber 2 года назад
So bizarre when these relationships are like "they loved each other so much, they had so much fun together" and then 10 seconds later it's "they fought all the time, he was so jealous"
@nana-ix
@nana-ix 2 года назад
agreed. very toxic relationships seem to fluctuate like that.
@chloe_plays_roblox
@chloe_plays_roblox 2 года назад
Right !? Which is it ???
@arosas1994
@arosas1994 2 года назад
It often starts great until they start showing their true selves. Then it starts going downhill.
@amandar5723
@amandar5723 2 года назад
Exactly. It’s beyond dumb
@pri.sci.lla.
@pri.sci.lla. 2 года назад
Typical toxic behavior. Mistaking lust for love.
@Maristasia
@Maristasia 2 года назад
To me, the "Go to Disneyland." response sounded like sarcasm. Like a stupid answer to a stupid question because she was annoyed by the reporters.
@u-neekusername4430
@u-neekusername4430 2 года назад
YEP that was def a thing...what all the American Football players said...."What are you doing after the 'game'.....YEAH didn't see that as odd. Glad I'm not the only one (former American).
@The_1995_
@The_1995_ 2 года назад
Okay glad I’m not the only one that thought that too
@shortstuff1979
@shortstuff1979 2 года назад
Yep, I totally took it as sarcasm or her joking around. I didn't think it was weird at all
@tracywallace9117
@tracywallace9117 2 года назад
I knew that was going to be what she said before she said it. It’s just a saying.
@alexahowmanyhamsters1312
@alexahowmanyhamsters1312 2 года назад
I instantly thought it lol
@ketsueki
@ketsueki 2 года назад
Having dated someone similar to the way he was described with the other encounter with the ex, I believe her. I’ve had to wrestle my ex with a knife as he threatened to hurt himself after I had picked up my phone to call someone to pick me up to get away from him. Worst part was a neighbor called the cops, and the cops saw a scratch on his arm that I had did when I disarmed him and automatically painted him as the victim. I eventually escaped the abusive relationship, but I learned to never rely on the cops because all it takes is one charismatic guy to discredit your trauma.
@The_1995_
@The_1995_ 2 года назад
Om my gosh something incredibly similar happened to me with my ex but he was holding a box cutter to his throat and I was trying to take it away from him and it cut my hand this was in the middle of the street in broad daylight he also poured lemonade on me and the neighbors saw and called the cops I didn’t even realize my hand had been cut till I started walking back to my house which was about 10 minutes away so I completely understand being in a struggle and not really sure of who did what that was when I was maybe 16-17 and im almost 27 now and I still don’t know if he had meant to do it or if I did it to myself in the motion of trying to take the box cutter away from him. He did some other really crazy shit like pushing me out of a car and trying to run me over and stalking me after the break up so it’s safe to assume he probably did do it on purpose but I really don’t know.
@dawncraig3340
@dawncraig3340 Год назад
And it's so common for abusers to be described as big teddy bears by everyone on the outside. So yeah I'm with you. Most people don't understand abuse at all.
@HunterWoodlawn
@HunterWoodlawn 2 года назад
I think it likely was a drunken accident she doesn’t recall clearly, they both seem like they were troubled.
@nunya69business
@nunya69business 2 года назад
for real. it's so easy to pull the trigger when you're fighting over the gun, drunk, and in a rage.
@Travelingtck
@Travelingtck 2 года назад
True. They seemed to be drinking a lot from all the empty bottles, I wouldn't be surprised if she actually didn't remember any of the details clearly.
@HunterWoodlawn
@HunterWoodlawn 2 года назад
His alcohol level was pretty high, so I would assume hers would be much higher too if they drank the same or similar amounts. A sad situation all around, but definitely not enough evidence to convict her.
@cnsohm
@cnsohm 2 года назад
I think you're exactly right. They want the story of a drunk person to stay consistent? That's not likely.
@caseyw.6550
@caseyw.6550 2 года назад
This is why I hate guns. Way too easy to be in a bad head space and do something that can't be reversed. One stupid split second decision and someone is dead.
@punkcandy07
@punkcandy07 2 года назад
I want to know if officer Boop has trouble with people taking him seriously.
@brandiewilliams5395
@brandiewilliams5395 2 года назад
Yes! I'm working and listening and I heard Officer Boop and it was jarring... lol
@carsfan1995
@carsfan1995 2 года назад
Brandie Williams That's the sound I make lightly pressing my finger on a baby's nose: boop. And then she smiles with happiest face in the world.
@AmberWilliams
@AmberWilliams 2 года назад
imagine being pulled over and you roll down the window to “good evening I’m officer boop, do you know why i pulled you over tonight?” id LOSE IT
@juiceboxgoth
@juiceboxgoth 2 года назад
I was gonna comment this but I didn’t want to seem insensitive lol
@angelicaotero3298
@angelicaotero3298 2 года назад
I must admit that I giggled
@ilovebooksandmycats669
@ilovebooksandmycats669 2 года назад
honestly, if you’re drunk and fighting over a gun, both grabbing at it, i’m sure it’s possible to not know which person pulled the trigger and how exactly it happened also i think the disney world comment was her in a very emotional state after that, getting questioned and bombarded by the media, and she meant it as like she’s glad it’s over and she has freedom
@kristincantrill8874
@kristincantrill8874 2 года назад
I completely agree. Two people who are drunk, tired, angry with a gun involved…not enough evidence to be absolutely certain that she killed him. It could be that she was killed instead with the scenario. So sad.
@dorcamercado4608
@dorcamercado4608 2 года назад
Yes! I believe thar too!
@leahflower9924
@leahflower9924 Год назад
Guns and alcohol don't mix regardless of what people in the south Midwest and west will say lol
@sheriwl
@sheriwl Год назад
agreed. But the recording of her 9.1.1 call. Whoa. Seems like world's worst acting
@venusw4356
@venusw4356 Год назад
​@@sheriwl right ??? this is the only thing that made me feel a little weird. i feel like she shouldn't be put in prison for life or anything because they were both drunk and it was an accident, but doesn't even involuntary manslaughter get some kind of charge ? if someone hits someone drunk in a car they would still go to jail if they died, no ? so why does she get off with no punishment for killing him on accident ? in my opinion you just shouldn't be fucking around with a gun when you're drunk. i don't know if i personally think she deserves jail time. but i think she was lucky to not have any and i would be very angry if this happened to someone in my family and the person got off with no punishment. it was reckless for them to be fucking around with a gun while drunk
@tkdchic78
@tkdchic78 2 года назад
Threatening suicide is not only a trait of someone who is depressed, it is also a common abuse tactic. He sounds toxic and abusive using “I’ll kill myself if you don’t do what I want”. He did it before to his ex wife, he was likely doing it to her too. It’s a common manipulation tactic done by abusive partners.
@divinecommerce3912
@divinecommerce3912 2 года назад
They were both crazy alcoholics and I'm not surprised only one made it out alive. She should've put the gun down when she realized he was not a strange intruder, and he should've taken her deadly threat seriously and gotten the heck outa there instead of taunting her. No tears shed over this case, the world is a better place with one less abusive alcoholic in it.
@benjamen7118
@benjamen7118 2 года назад
THANK YOU
@leahflower9924
@leahflower9924 Год назад
I think suicide shouldn't be used as a threat it's like crying wolf and makes real suicidal people seem like drama Queens
@irelandgp
@irelandgp Год назад
EUPD or BPD
@scarletserena
@scarletserena Год назад
Yesyesyes I’m so glad someone said this. I’ve been in a similar situation with my ex-abuser before where he would threaten suicide if I didn’t comply, or if I tried to defend myself. I could totally see her trying to defend herself and him saying “oh you want to hurt me? Here let me do it for you.” I strongly feel she had a gun because she was afraid of him and he took it away and pretended to use it on himself to make her feel guilty for defending herself, but then in a struggle it went off accidentally. I don’t believe she is at fault.
@sassensnatch
@sassensnatch 2 года назад
officer boop legit made me chuckle…i’m so childish 😭
@sarijuanah
@sarijuanah 2 года назад
SAMEEE LMFAO
@JennifuhhGilardi
@JennifuhhGilardi 2 года назад
I heard boop and I oop
@yessenianat1
@yessenianat1 2 года назад
I even rewind it to make sure I can laugh or not😂
@madethistocomment727
@madethistocomment727 2 года назад
Same. My cat is with me and I booped his nose lol
@blanktintin
@blanktintin 2 года назад
11:32 to boop Kendall
@jennie9634
@jennie9634 2 года назад
I love the way Kendall says "Officer Boop" with a straight face
@marywozniak7907
@marywozniak7907 2 года назад
Right? 🤣
@malllllll
@malllllll 2 года назад
I’m glad we are all focused on that name 😩🥺how cute
@sosweetmeanstreak
@sosweetmeanstreak 2 года назад
LOL!!!
@kyladio93
@kyladio93 2 года назад
I bet it took a few takes 😆
@jennie9634
@jennie9634 2 года назад
@@kyladio93 honestly, I'd be laughing the whole time😭😭
@ramenn00dle76
@ramenn00dle76 2 года назад
After struggling with alcohol for a while and being in a toxic relationship during that time, this story really makes me realize how quickly something like this can happen. I remember being confused during a lot of our arguments while drunk or waking up the next day not remembering anything. I feel bad for both of them.
@nunyabidnazz2311
@nunyabidnazz2311 2 года назад
I do too! So many people make so many assumptions that are incredibly unrealistic. Thing is, if you don’t go through a situation yourself, you can’t possibly understand it. I also think it was pretty dirty how the cops were going to speak to her when she was very intoxicated. The make officer was trying to coax her into speaking without an attorney. Typical!! Just crazy reading the comments and all the ignorance. I was so glad to see your comment. I believe the jury got it right. Too often nowadays we see people convicted, simply because the jury “doesn’t like them.” I’m so glad you’re doing better now. God bless you dear. Great comment! Thanks for sharing!
@ramenn00dle76
@ramenn00dle76 2 года назад
@@nunyabidnazz2311 im just now seeing this comment but thank you so much 😭 i needed that today! 💗
@Uchiha.Itachii
@Uchiha.Itachii Год назад
@@nunyabidnazz2311 yeah and people don’t realise what stupid stupid stuff u can do when you’re drunk, angry; depressed, confused… this is one of the reasons why alcohol is the most dangerous drug, not molly coke or xtcy💀 at least molly makes u happy and love everything lmao
@debbygriffin1243
@debbygriffin1243 10 месяцев назад
I feel bad for him. He’s the one that’s dead…..
@abigailkris4134
@abigailkris4134 Год назад
I've been in a relationship with an alcoholic. I've wrestled over weapons before. The suicide thing is also something abusive people like to use to scare others into doing things they want, which has also happened to me. In this case I believe her. I think it was an accident. She had the gun for a reason even after knowing it was him. Everyone describes my ex as an amazing guy who's not aggressive. Behind closed doors he's abused 3 women and has charges against him from two of us. Some may disagree, but no one knows you like your significant other. That's when the true evil comes out. Not guilty.
@jessicaparadis3331
@jessicaparadis3331 Месяц назад
Me too sadly
@eph2vv89only1way
@eph2vv89only1way 2 года назад
I think her “Go to Disney World” was her way of saying, “F*** off and get out of my face,” not a serious reply
@ellenmint
@ellenmint 2 года назад
The younglings don't know the "You just won the Superbowl, what are you going to do?" "I'm going to Disney World!" used to be a commercial/ very common reference at the time.
@jackielou68
@jackielou68 2 года назад
@@ellenmint Came to the comments to see if I'm just THAT old or not lol apparently I am!
@angelicacross7184
@angelicacross7184 2 года назад
i thought the exact same thing. it was a sarcastic the f away from me comment.
@gluvlyf
@gluvlyf 2 года назад
yes exactly, felt the same to me. It was an irrelevant question to ask someone who just got out of a huge mess. It was a silly question and they got a silly answer in reply. it wasn’t like she said next she’s going to vegas to have a blast.
@KatherineSundgren
@KatherineSundgren 2 года назад
Yeah, that's the way it sounded to me. Her tone of voice just screamed that she wanted them to leave her alone. She must have been pretty emotional and I doubt she had fully processed what had just happened.
@monicarenaud1276
@monicarenaud1276 2 года назад
Most trauma victims don't have the best recollection of what has happened in that moment, so her story being inconsistent in the beginning isn't that strange to me. I witnessed my ex being shot (not by me) and I could hardly tell the officers what happened when they interviewed me 20-30 minutes later because you have so much adrenaline and shock running through you and your brain wants to block that horrific memory out. It took me about 2 weeks to get the storyline straight of what actually happened that night and trying to remember what the suspect looked like. But on top of it she was extremely intoxicated, which just makes it even harder to remember you can hear how intoxicated she is in the body cam footage. I genuinely believe this was a horrible drunk accident on both parts, it's truly a sad case.
@in-self-sabotage-mode
@in-self-sabotage-mode 2 года назад
💯💯💯
@joshuabutler4301
@joshuabutler4301 2 года назад
Well said and totally agree
@aquariusashley94
@aquariusashley94 2 года назад
I agree. There just doesn't seem to be any other logical explanation.
@magpieplus259
@magpieplus259 2 года назад
I was going to say this same exact thing.
@magpieplus259
@magpieplus259 2 года назад
Also I'm sorry you went through that
@lolasbtch2216
@lolasbtch2216 2 года назад
It is insane that someone in that line of work that a drunk, in distress woman, not being able to keep to one story and changes, means she is guilty. Both distress, and alcohol, significantly impacts memory. I would be MORE surprised and think she was more guilty of making things up if she had provided one solid story in that situation.
@jernmegmom
@jernmegmom 3 месяца назад
“[Go] to Disney world” is a quote from a sports game where a reporter asked one of the winning players what he was going to do next and he said “I’m going to Disneyworld”. It was a quote everyone said for a while. Completely sarcastic but also relevant to the time period.
@WooHooCelery
@WooHooCelery 2 года назад
I don’t like the fact the cops were listening to her and openly stating that she was already working on her defence. The police need to learn to put aside their own bias when speaking with people who have just witnessed or committed a crime or incident. I mean, look at what happened with Gabby Petito when the officer couldn’t set aside his own bias when talking to her.
@kelseyleannebaldwin9628
@kelseyleannebaldwin9628 2 года назад
i absolutely agree with you. she wasnt starting a defense, she got in there to answer questions and srarted saying what happened????? like what do you even mean.
@lanavikadorothea1913
@lanavikadorothea1913 2 года назад
Exactly, I believe this was accidental and no one can change my mind! I’m starting to hate police officers myself and I’m a Republican.
@MalleableMetal1
@MalleableMetal1 2 года назад
Agreed
@Gabriellaella23
@Gabriellaella23 2 года назад
Exactly. It sound like he said she's already trying to make the defense that she's crazy. Why would he automatically come to that conclusion instead of trying to see if she was drunk, on drugs, or, I don't know, just shaking up about the fact that her boyfriend had got his face blown off? Like, tf. That part made me mad. I immediately reminded me of Gabby Patito.
@Hannah-gx4vq
@Hannah-gx4vq 2 года назад
Agreed! Completely inappropriate!
@veraellithorp6124
@veraellithorp6124 2 года назад
I think it’s so weird when people judge 911 calls. My husband passed out once. He hit his face on the floor. Blood was everywhere. He stopped breathing and then had a seizure. I called 911. I was screaming. I have no idea what I even said. I was just screaming to get the paramedics there. I remember she asked what happened and I literally just rambled. I don’t even know what was said specifically. I was just screaming for them to get there and screaming at him to please wake up. Like everyone is upset when people are calm and collected on the 911 recordings. But they’re also upset if they’re frantic. This 911 call is exactly what I would expect from someone that was shook at what had just happened. But it’s not accurate to decide if someone is guilty or not. And I am not defending her. I’m just saying 911 calls are too chaotic to be able to judge.
@tshiree2855
@tshiree2855 2 года назад
I completely agree. I work in the medical field, visiting people at their homes. I’ve had to call 911 many times before. Sometimes when I watch these videos I wonder if I ever had to be in that situation, would I be calm like I usually am or would I be hysterical? And if I weren’t hysterical would I be criticized for that? Ultimately I don’t really think you can judge someone on how they’re acting on a 911 call all the time.
@katiekuchen9694
@katiekuchen9694 2 года назад
I used to work 999calls (British 911) and honestly people can range from sounding abnormally cold to extremely hysterical. There are red flags in listening to these calls but lack or extreme emotion can just be how people handle emotional distress
@lindseystraley9596
@lindseystraley9596 2 года назад
I completely agree with you. I had to call the ambulance for my daughter when she was 3 months old because she couldn't breathe. I was hysterical. I was screaming, crying. The only thing I know for certain was that I kept screaming, "My baby can't breathe, my baby can't breathe, my baby can't breathe!"
@beckier.l7399
@beckier.l7399 2 года назад
There's people judging that? Like you said, this is the kind of reaction I would expect. People have lost their brains to social media wtf.
@veraellithorp6124
@veraellithorp6124 2 года назад
@@beckier.l7399 oh yes. They’re frequently used in court cases and often when youtubers do videos on them they judge them too. It’s crazy.
@Sophina_
@Sophina_ 2 года назад
That 911 call gave me chills. No matter what your opinion is of Caryn overall, she sounded extremely traumatized & distraught in that moment and I feel for her. It would be terrifying to watch someone you love die in front of you, especially if you were just living your normal life five minutes before.
@lyttletykes6614
@lyttletykes6614 Год назад
the dispatch sounds like a dick too
@brendaleepearson2509
@brendaleepearson2509 Год назад
Agree with 💯%
@ilonagasiorska7112
@ilonagasiorska7112 Год назад
That was pure ackt
@JohnnyBoy7267
@JohnnyBoy7267 Год назад
That sounded like bad acting to me. I get people act differently in traumatic situations but that sounded sooo bad to me that i'm surprised that the dispatcher on the line didn't just say ''that's the worst acting i've ever seen and i'm sending a police squad to arrest you immediately''.
@sankara5ever
@sankara5ever 11 месяцев назад
@@JohnnyBoy7267I don’t think acting while drunk is as easy as y’all believe lmao
@PeriLyons123
@PeriLyons123 Год назад
I was friends with an old Brooklyn detective, who told me that a lot of fatal shootings. follow someone saying “What are you going to do.. shoot me?” Because apparently, your unconscious hears “shoot me”, and, well.. does. I hope she gets sober. For the sake of everyone around her.
@ShannonFord1977
@ShannonFord1977 2 года назад
The first I’ve heard of this case and I truly believe a gun fell into the hands of two very intoxicated people who were not in the right state of mind. Tragic. I believe it was an unfortunate accident.
@mtpckets
@mtpckets Год назад
Agreed 100%
@I.pray.to.George.Carlin
@I.pray.to.George.Carlin Год назад
I concur 💯
@Jillian-Jill
@Jillian-Jill Год назад
Yes, I think that is exactly what happened. 👍
@alilovemee
@alilovemee 2 года назад
Caryn literally said he didn’t mean to shoot himself, and neither did she. I believe her. The lady doing the autopsy and everything she was trying to prove was based on him trying to shoot himself, which Caryn never said it was intentional. It was an incredibly stupid and avoidable accident, not murder. A sad tragedy really.
@joyhanson8654
@joyhanson8654 2 года назад
Exactly, thank you for putting into words what I was frustratedly thinking to myself. She was in her bedroom asleep, he shows up, then a struggle and the gun went off accidentally as he was gaining control of the gun. Alcohol and firearms don't mix.
@TheStar798
@TheStar798 2 года назад
Yes, one the more believable 911 calls I've heard. You can hear the alcohol and the shock in her voice
@FortuitousOwl
@FortuitousOwl 2 года назад
Thank you! Not to mention, of course her testimony was inconsistent, she was incredibly drunk! You can’t I feel gate a drunk woman, if she was drunk during the incident it’s likely even she doesn’t fully remember what happened.
@DutchessCharm
@DutchessCharm 2 года назад
@@FortuitousOwl I was thinking the same thing, I think she never remembered & when you're UTI your mind kinda fill in the blank sometimes. She asked for an attorney when she realized that it looked like she killed him.
@666ydney
@666ydney 2 года назад
agreed. i really think it was a fucked up, confusing accident. sometimes people downplay how much being very drunk affects what a person does, how they react to things, etc. she was not lucid, it isn't an excuse but it is an explanation. imagine being completely loaded and ending up in a situation anywhere near that. having been pretty damn drunk several times in my life, not only is it hard to remember shit, it's hard to think straight or do anything really. i invite those who think she was calculated and decisive to get wasted and put themselves in a high stress situation. to me that sounds like a literal nightmare.
@catmeow333
@catmeow333 Год назад
Glad I discovered your channel. I’m 70, and I remember all the Life magazine articles about your different historical reviews. Carry on, sweet girl.
@TigerRoseable
@TigerRoseable 2 года назад
I think the most incriminating part that makes her look guilty is that, by her own admission, she did not lower the gun when she realized that it was her boyfriend in the house.
@emilyengel6556
@emilyengel6556 2 года назад
I'm sorry but when someone close to a victim says "they wouldn't have killed them selves" I just roll my eyes. More times then most people who's loved one ends their lives had no idea they were struggling
@LeilaleilaZ
@LeilaleilaZ 2 года назад
Ugh, I know. You could never 100% say someone would never do that bc it's more than likely that they were just good at hiding it.
@briannad7702
@briannad7702 2 года назад
Most of the time those that are feeling that way will not tell anyone else because they’re afraid of what other people may think and they’re afraid that they’ll be put in an institution much like he was
@marymohr2799
@marymohr2799 2 года назад
@@briannad7702 I know when I was in a terrible place mentally I didn't want to make myself someone else's problem or worry my family. I also think generally recognizing mental illness can be hard because it often presents differently then we think it will
@riabouchinska
@riabouchinska 2 года назад
Yeah that is something that I 100% think shouldn't be brought into these discussions because it's really just pointless. It's worse than a polygraph test, given what is known about depression and mental illness in general it is not meaningful information in the slightest.
@Andreawbs
@Andreawbs 2 года назад
Right .. I struggle with depression and my entire family doesn’t know about it cause I’m still able to act happy in the presence of other people. It’s when I’m alone when my depression is on display (I live alone so it’s easier to hide it)
@joshuaferguson698
@joshuaferguson698 2 года назад
You should cover the case of Bobby Kent! He was a high school bully who was murdered by a group of his victims in 1993 - such a wild story!
@02puwina
@02puwina 2 года назад
that sounds interesting asf
@joycechi5005
@joycechi5005 2 года назад
theres a great podcast on this by crimes of passion!
@nicoleshan6410
@nicoleshan6410 2 года назад
F!!!!⚡
@joshuaferguson698
@joshuaferguson698 2 года назад
@@02puwina the plot against him is dark but fascinating
@heatherd.8783
@heatherd.8783 2 года назад
Sounds interesting!
@aliceemery4652
@aliceemery4652 2 года назад
Hiya my name is Alice and I don’t know if you’ll even see this, but I have severe anxiety and struggle sleeping most nights. I watch and rewatch your videos when I sleep because you’re a lovely human being and have such a kind warm energy that I find very calming. I just wanted to say thank you so much for creating content and being as respectful as you are.
@Daniela-Christianson
@Daniela-Christianson Год назад
I do the same thing! Every night ♡
@leahflower9924
@leahflower9924 Год назад
I have anxiety too but why are we watching murder videos if we have anxiety lol
@donalee1975
@donalee1975 Год назад
@@leahflower9924..... because the pain we see is so much worsen that we feel we are not so bad off... a former severely anxious person at 75 yrs - who questioned this very question to my psycholgist
@juzzzcarls
@juzzzcarls Год назад
@@donalee1975 this made me feel better. made me seem less crazy lol. hope you have an amazing and safe year :)
@DaniqueEmiliaSteinfeld
@DaniqueEmiliaSteinfeld 2 месяца назад
What is server anxiety?
@kukundasarah9734
@kukundasarah9734 2 года назад
This was an accident, kellen didn’t go looking for Philip, he was in her house. They were both intoxicated and the inconsistency at the time she called 911 is understandable,she was drunk and then the confusion of your boyfriend dying in your house!!!.... I believe her . May Philip’s soul RIP
@kristentrep5038
@kristentrep5038 2 года назад
The phrase about “going to Disney world” was said in sarcasm I believe bc it used to be a commercial in the 80s, and something about the super bowl.. it was probably bc the way the reporter asked it was very similar to the commercial. I don’t think they had enough evidence to convict her, and I actually do think it wasn’t intentional. I think they were both wasted, and a horrible accident!
@gingerray2834
@gingerray2834 2 года назад
I'm with you in that the "Going to Disneyland" phrase was said in a sarcastic manner.
@delivered.driver
@delivered.driver 2 года назад
That's exactly what I came here to say. The Disney tagline from the 80s commercials!
@cielocleo1018
@cielocleo1018 2 года назад
Am with you on this one I truly believe it was an accident
@rj-err
@rj-err 2 года назад
Yes 🙌
@allyviens6022
@allyviens6022 2 года назад
agreed! came to the comments to see who else felt the same
@sooph1e
@sooph1e 2 года назад
The responding officer commenting on how she's "coming up with a defense" is disturbingly unprofessional. All it shows is that they had made up their minds before she even got to the station.
@e.w.coffey5551
@e.w.coffey5551 2 года назад
I know there are a few decent cops out there, but he is not doing the reputation of his comrades across the country ANY favors.
@katrinawelsh6627
@katrinawelsh6627 2 года назад
Exactly! She’s telling them what happened and they call it a defence?
@amywebb4586
@amywebb4586 2 года назад
It's a cynical response by a cop who has been through this type of situation before.
@Chachixo
@Chachixo 2 года назад
Exactly and that would be plenty of motivation for her to feel like she needed to defend herself more.
@tanbranwin6322
@tanbranwin6322 2 года назад
She was though! Just the way she was explaining things, to me, seemed like that is exactly what she was doing!
@ericabingham0417
@ericabingham0417 2 года назад
I think cases like this where drugs, alcohol, toxic relationships, and seeming mental instabilities are existing all together… are just tough. The story could be so much more complicated than we can imagine. As someone who has struggled with addiction, mental illness and toxic relationships Im so thankful that I never accidentally hurt someone or I was never hurt by someone. Im glad to be living a better life. So yeah… I don’t think we’ll ever know for sure with this one.
@patriciarhymes4492
@patriciarhymes4492 2 года назад
I do believe she was guilty of murder, but I do not believe there was enough evidence to convict her beyond a reasonable doubt.
@roxannedavies5690
@roxannedavies5690 6 месяцев назад
I think she was pissed at him and knew what she was doing when she had that gun in her hands.
@snowyskylines
@snowyskylines 2 года назад
the way this case was handled in such a black and white way is honestly infuriating to listen to. it being disproven that it was an intentional suicide doesn't suddenly prove that it was an intentional homicide. personally all the evidence sounds to me like it was a genuine accident - and sadly it isn't surprising that two very drunk people handling a gun ended this way.
@FortuitousOwl
@FortuitousOwl 2 года назад
The fact that they chose to interrogate an obviously incredibly drunk woman in her nightgown was the nail in the coffin for me. Then having the balls to say “her story was inconsistent” as proof of her guilt, as if her being drunk was not an explanation for that. Imagine a lawyer trying to use witness testimony from someone who was intoxicated. It’s be thrown out!
@jordansamantha1474
@jordansamantha1474 2 года назад
"her story is inconsistent" Yeah I think that's what happens when a severely intoxicated person witnesses/experiences something deeply traumatic and is asked to recount it. Like what did they expect? 🤣
@myt.crystal6702
@myt.crystal6702 2 года назад
omggg i love your pfp 🙌🏼
@BeautyAddiction87
@BeautyAddiction87 2 года назад
@@FortuitousOwl answbsjeishshshwkwj
@clcdiamondz
@clcdiamondz 2 года назад
💯 idk who held the gun but it is without a doubt an accident not premeditated murder. The motives she mentioned are not motives to kill Maybe more in line with her killing his wife Sandra than him. Still clearly two drunk people in the heat of an argument trying to have a power play with a loaded gun.
@Katiethewizard
@Katiethewizard 2 года назад
This seems like a complete freak accident. I don't think she shot him and I don't think he committed suicide, it looks like a drunken accident brought on by the passion of the argument. The gun went off in the struggle, and here we are. I feel genuinely bad for her... she realized the consequences of getting that gun out as soon as the shot fired.
@Liiimes
@Liiimes 2 года назад
Agreed, one of the few cases where no one really seems at fault, just a drunken freak accident... I can't believe how bad she must've felt when she sobered up, poor lady
@katherinerivera8061
@katherinerivera8061 2 года назад
Agreed
@leahcoscia4574
@leahcoscia4574 2 года назад
100% agree. We’ve all done erratic things when drunk… in the blink of an eye disaster happened. So sad
@kdz6501
@kdz6501 2 года назад
Agree, so annoying that everyone kept talking about suicide. She said he grabbed the gun and it went off. Kendall seemed to miss the whole point on this one.
@Liiimes
@Liiimes 2 года назад
@@kdz6501 yeah
@marinai3633
@marinai3633 Год назад
As a domestic violence survivor I could see all the red flags in Philip. If I hadn’t gotten out of it as soon as I did I probably could had snapped. I was suffering extremely mentally and even had violent thoughts about my abuser. My psychologist it’s completely normal and it’s called reactive abuse
@chrissy3875
@chrissy3875 Год назад
i agree !
@AntonDogg
@AntonDogg 9 месяцев назад
Okay.
@chicbxbecerril6985
@chicbxbecerril6985 2 года назад
The fact that the gun didn’t have no fingerprints says a lot🥺
@beccierae
@beccierae 2 года назад
How is it not relevant to say he had threatened suicide before but is relevant to say he never would have killed himself because he loved his kids?? Obviously he could have killed himself regardless of who he loved. It's so irritating when people use that line, as though people with loved ones never committ suicide.
@GenXfrom75
@GenXfrom75 2 года назад
Agreed. 💯
@Ezzzaaa
@Ezzzaaa 2 года назад
So true
@reabright7307
@reabright7307 2 года назад
Especially when the last time he threatened suicide he was drunk just like the night he was killed
@RKusmie64
@RKusmie64 2 года назад
That's along my thoughts exactly. Like people who do die by suicide don't truly love those they leave behind. WHAT?!?
@madethistocomment727
@madethistocomment727 2 года назад
And the fact that the one who asserted that was a doctor..... but NOT a mental health specialist. She should know better than a non-doctor that they have specialties and huge knowledge gaps between them. Very arrogant if her to think she had the knowledge or medical authority to say such a thing.
@sdawnstark
@sdawnstark 2 года назад
With the evidence available, they could not have found her guilty. Personally, I'm inclined to believe their relationship was toxic and this was indeed a terrible and tragic accident.
@_x..Jamie..x_
@_x..Jamie..x_ 2 года назад
I thought the same. Yes, there was circumstancial evidence that she may have had a motive to kill him (purposefully) but the evidence of the situation itself was not consistent with that being the case. I actually had to look up Florida law for manslaughter and manslaughter defences because I felt slightly conflicted as to if I thought there was enough to say that she was legally responsible and concluded that at least under Florida law she truly couldn't have been found legally responsible for manslaughter with the evidence being what it was.
@sandrapisani9225
@sandrapisani9225 2 года назад
I agree.
@Bigrlboi1
@Bigrlboi1 2 года назад
Agreed!
@najahbritt3718
@najahbritt3718 2 года назад
Same I truly think it was an accident and I normally don’t!
@reasonjo
@reasonjo 2 года назад
I agree.
@emilyshue1670
@emilyshue1670 2 года назад
I just discovered your channel a couple weeks ago after watching a colab you did with Eleanor Neale. I am so glad I did, I now follow your RU-vid channels and podcasts! You are so talented 😊
@sadlad2005
@sadlad2005 2 года назад
RIP Phillip. Sincere condolences to the family and friends. Thanks for good upload. Alcohol and guns do NOT mix together. So sad.
@lesliecampbell4657
@lesliecampbell4657 2 года назад
So focused on the “she said he’s shot not that she shot himself” but looking at everything and what she said it seems that they were struggling over the gun and it went off & hit him. Doesn’t seem like she meant to do it & seems like she doesn’t want to say he shot himself because of that. It honestly seems it was accidental.
@pugswbu
@pugswbu 2 года назад
I really really agree. I actually felt for her
@TallulahFoxxx
@TallulahFoxxx 2 года назад
I think the same. Even if she shot him in anger, she was absolutely drunk and so was he. People make split second decisions when they’re completely drunk and terrible things can happen. Her 911 call is shock to me. She’s not in her right mind and she’s dissociating from what she did. It’s really common when something traumatic happens to dissociate and subconsciously deny what happened 😔 Your brain unconsciously creates an alternative sequence of events to protect itself. She clearly immediately regretted what happened. This is what happens when there is a lethal combination of: loaded guns are in peoples’ houses, people who get angry drunk and they make split second decisions 😔
@chloewalden2856
@chloewalden2856 2 года назад
i agree i think the story is so hazy because she was so so drunk
@emilyzhou7443
@emilyzhou7443 2 года назад
Agreed completely!
@jmgajda8071
@jmgajda8071 2 года назад
I'm at a loss as to why her blood alcohol wasn't taken at the time.I think it could have shed a lot of light on the entirety of the situation. She's clearly inebriated on the 9-1-1 call and so she comes off questionably. He was also very drunk so he may also have been acting erratically. I don't think she could have had intent being as drunk as she was at the time, and I think her changing story is more likely due to being drunk than trying to change a narrative to fit emerging evidence.
@falynoliver81
@falynoliver81 2 года назад
The “going to Disney world”thing was bc back in the late 80’s and 90’s super bowl winners used to say, when asked by reporters what are they doing next the response was “I’m going to Disney world!” It then become pretty much a meme before there were memes. It was used in commercials and in tv shows as punch lines. Was it tone deaf? Yes. But it wasn’t all that strange considering her age it would’ve been something she heard hundreds of times as a response to that question and it was just the first thing that popped into her mind and as her brain is probably going a mile a minute with relief and nerves and she didn’t think much before she spoke. I think it was incredibly insensitive but not intended to be.
@emmadrew3911
@emmadrew3911 2 года назад
Yep!!!!! I wasn’t around but have heard the joke. Plus it was in a play I was in once.
@lizchandler5140
@lizchandler5140 2 года назад
Came to say this
@CountStackula510
@CountStackula510 2 года назад
I disagree with it being unintentional. I think she's a smart ass, who had just outwitted the system (with the help of her lawyer(s), of course).
@falynoliver81
@falynoliver81 2 года назад
@@CountStackula510 a very valid opinion and very possibly a correct one. I just know I say stuff like that at inappropriate things because humor is how I handle uncomfortable or stressful situations. Also my mouth and brain work way faster than the brain to mouth filter lol. I probably shouldn’t have based her reaction on how I’d react though bc I would’ve put the gun down the second I realized it wasn’t an intruder and was just my drunk bf who had no history of violence toward me. I just don’t get why she was cowering in the corner with a loaded gun when she knew who it was. Even drunk that makes no sense
@nicholejones1189
@nicholejones1189 2 года назад
Disney is considered "one of the happiest places on earth". It's an expression to tell someone how happy you are. That's why football players continued the saying after winning the super bowl. They are extremely excited/happy and what better place to continue that euphoric happiness than going to the "happiest place on Earth". She was happy and relieved. I would've been too if I had gotten off.
@Journalist1113
@Journalist1113 2 года назад
This woman was my landlord when this happened. I can honestly say she was a real character. She was out of contact when my lease ended and we moved out without ever hearing from her. It was months and months later that I found out about this case.
@Foreverme764
@Foreverme764 2 года назад
wilddd
@mischiefroadtripadventures
@mischiefroadtripadventures 2 года назад
I'm amazed at the number of comments in defense of this woman. She is a grown woman, sounding like a child even in her police interrogation. During the 911 call, she may have been rambling but she remembered everything she said when she talked about it later. She said she didn't know what to do to help him, as in CPR, and asked the 911 dispatcher "what do I do?" I know well how a person can naturally react to a stressful, shocking situation. Every part of her behavior shows she was trying to sound flustered and incoherent. It sounds like she got away with murder.
@larsland
@larsland 2 года назад
Ok this is NOT an indication of how I feel about this instance (haven’t even finished the video) but I totally get wanting to speak with an attorney. I’ve watched too many innocence project docs/read articles to ever be willing to speak without counsel. I don’t think it’s an admission of guilt at all.
@just.R.A.
@just.R.A. 2 года назад
Agree 100%. Until watching a lot of true crime cases and interrogations, I always believed if you have nothing to hide, why not talk candidly to the detectives? Now I know, don’t say a word without legal counsel.
@larsland
@larsland 2 года назад
@@just.R.A. exactly! Can’t trust anyone. I always thought, “well if you didn’t do it, it would be better to help them out.” Absolutely not. And especially for BIPOC folks. 100000x more.
@madethistocomment727
@madethistocomment727 2 года назад
@@JohnSmith-bk6ec I know that wasn't what he meant, but kind of funny that he assumed there would be a "next time" 😆
@adrianmaxwell5857
@adrianmaxwell5857 2 года назад
Even as I was watching this, I commented to a friend that I'd get an attorney, guilty or not. I hear so many tactics used about interrogation to get a false confession and tricking people into saying stuff either in a way they can twist, or making them believe themselves they're guiltier than they are (ex: a detective *could* talk with Caryn and put the idea in her head that she shot him in the heat of the moment due to anger, even if that's not the case. And with the stress and exhaustion, her brain could take that and run with it.)
@kimmiekatkat
@kimmiekatkat 2 года назад
That would’ve been the first thing I’ve done.
@yeetskeet3959
@yeetskeet3959 2 года назад
**"Her story was inconsistent": She was super drunk AND she is clearly traumatized. **"He had suicidal thought 5 years ago so it has nothing to do with the case": People that go through the stress of being institutionalized against their will are a lot less likely to come forward afterwards if they never got the help they needed or was traumatized by that event. **"The shot distance was inconsistent with a suicide so that must mean it was a homicide instead": If they were wrestling over the gun in close proximity to each other, either one of them could have been shot at a very awkward angle. *It seems like Dr Gee was not looking at this from a neutral stance and was simply looking for evidence that would fit 1 narrative of what happened. This whole case was super sloppy, from not testing her alcohol level to trying to find motive and reasoning.
@pensacolian211
@pensacolian211 2 года назад
Yeah, I used to watch Dr. G's show until it became clear to me that she was incapable of being unbiased. It wasn't like that with every case, but there were certainly a few that really turned me off.
@Spooky-boo-
@Spooky-boo- Год назад
I agree!! I used to love her show but she’s just so ugh.
@hopelesslyhopeful4396
@hopelesslyhopeful4396 Год назад
I also agree with this comment 100%
@Uchiha.Itachii
@Uchiha.Itachii Год назад
So true
@laurairlbeck916
@laurairlbeck916 Год назад
I agree! Ive seen aot of Dr Gs episodes on TV. She started off as a nice person, who seemed to be objective on each case. But I think, (as happened with Dr Phil,) she let fame go to her head.
@skibunny1631
@skibunny1631 2 года назад
She was being sarcastic when she said I'm going to Disney world. She was probably so sick of stupid questions from reporters and she probably was emotionally drained too.
@too_tired_for_this
@too_tired_for_this 2 года назад
I’m sure other people have said this, but “I’m going to Disney world” is from an interview with someone right after their team won the Super Bowl, I think. They asked the player, “what are you going to do next?” And he screamed, “I’m going to Disney world!!” Something like that. It became a huge advertising slogan for them.
@K8YK
@K8YK 2 года назад
Dude killer lighting; you’re face looks like it’s glowing.
@cheepymcpeepy
@cheepymcpeepy 2 года назад
i was thinking - kendall is gorgeous but what is going on, how does she look extra lovely?
@naomicrochetcrafts
@naomicrochetcrafts 2 года назад
omg i thought the same ! she looks so gooddd
@cristinajaime361
@cristinajaime361 2 года назад
I honestly believe this was an accident. She doesn't say he shot himself because he didn't actually shoot himself because it was an accident. I believe they were fighting with the gun (both) of them...when they were drinking.
@katherinerivera8061
@katherinerivera8061 2 года назад
Agreed
@Psichotica7
@Psichotica7 2 года назад
I agree. She went with the "he shot himself" defense out of fear. They were both blind drunk and acted stupidly. I believe it was an unfortunate accident.
@americantoadsarecool
@americantoadsarecool 2 года назад
Exactly, if someone had a hunting accident was accidentally shot I wouldn’t describe it as shooting themselves. I think she was answering “was it suicide” question. I’d say manslaughter for being stupid but doesn’t seem like it was intentional.
@yourloveriswild7533
@yourloveriswild7533 2 года назад
Yea I kind feel that way to
@kaleidoscopekayley
@kaleidoscopekayley 2 года назад
And based on how hysterical she's acting in the interrogation room, I have a hard time believing she wanted that man to die. Unless she's the world's greatest actress? You can't fake sobbing like that.
@thequestioneverythingconfe9263
@thequestioneverythingconfe9263 2 года назад
Great show. Thank you for bringing this case to our attention. You know, without having been a juror and having the opportunity to hear ALL testimony, it just is fruitless to say whether justice was served. A man is dead! I do believe that the system worked. The prosecution clearly failed to PROVE their accusations/charges. That lands solely on them. Regardless, if I was in her position, on the night of the Phillip's death, I would have immediately asked for an attorney before answering any questions whether I was guilty or not. In my firearms training, during and immediately after a person is involved in a shooting, they are not truly able to recall details for a period of time and in the want to please the authority's a person MAY say something that proves later to be untrue/inaccurate. Not because they are being deceptive but due to the fight/flight response to trauma. I really "enjoy" going through these cases and drawing my own opinions on things. This channel brings attention and value to people who have lost loved ones and just want justice. Thank you Kendall!
@madelineelaine1288
@madelineelaine1288 2 года назад
I’m barely into this video but when she said he just turned 48 I was so shocked! I thought they were in their late 50’s 😳 Florida really toasts people’s skin man.
@dklee.01
@dklee.01 2 года назад
oh god 😭
@Daniela-Christianson
@Daniela-Christianson Год назад
Rotflmao 😂
@50sRockChick
@50sRockChick Год назад
Well if he was born in 65 and the 911 call was in 2011 he wasn’t 48. He was 46.
@mesij6798
@mesij6798 2 года назад
Well no matter how we feel, there simply isn’t enough evidence to prove she did it. Jury did the right thing
@Hey.itskailey
@Hey.itskailey 2 года назад
Agreed!
@jomami3704
@jomami3704 2 года назад
I agree
@lindsay33333
@lindsay33333 2 года назад
Did they ever check for gun shot residue?
@jomami3704
@jomami3704 2 года назад
@@lindsay33333 didn’t she say they were both holding the gun when it went off? so it would’ve been on both of their hands
@hubertcumberdale30
@hubertcumberdale30 2 года назад
I wouldn’t have convicted as a jury member. Despite the story being iffy: I don’t think it’s “beyond a reasonable doubt”. And the Disney World comment felt sarcastic like, “WTF do you think, sir?”.
@lunarbubu
@lunarbubu 2 года назад
When the world needed her most, SHE RETURNED!
@madelinelangford1169
@madelinelangford1169 2 года назад
Yes! So excited for the new upload 🙌
@addie5065
@addie5065 2 года назад
thissss
@thequeenofwitches7943
@thequeenofwitches7943 2 года назад
Im going to watch it again. I couldn't concentrate on the video because I couldn't take my eyes off the doggie. He is so adorable with his little sweater😌❤
@heatherbonelli
@heatherbonelli 2 года назад
@@thequeenofwitches7943 same. The sweater is adorable and that lil face melts my heart. Such a precious Lil floof 💕
@DogwoodPride
@DogwoodPride 2 года назад
@@thequeenofwitches7943 , right? I'm pretty sure I tune in to these videos about 20% for Kendall and 80% Bernie. 😊
@jillybean2928
@jillybean2928 2 года назад
I've heard of these kind of cases before and it's always said that guns cannot accidentally go off, because it takes some pressure to pull the trigger. Is this not always true of certain guns.? I can't imagine that someone "drunk" could keep the pressure on the trigger, especially if they were "fighting". I think she had found out he was going to finish with her (probably still in love and possibly seeing his ex) and wanted to hurt him, but probably didn't intend to kill him.
@alexiswhite1511
@alexiswhite1511 2 года назад
Guns actually don’t need that much pressure, all you need to do is squeeze the trigger once (not keeping pressure on it) and it will fire, the problem they had was being drunk and fighting for control of the gun, impossible to know who pulled the trigger but with the awkward angle of the shot itself and the fact that they were both just grappling for any purchase they could find on the gun it makes total sense to me that it went off without either of them intending for it to.
@charleneray8242
@charleneray8242 Год назад
I LOVE Kendall Rae!!! I’ve love the way she tells stories! Her stories are always loaded with information and is a very good story teller! Keep up the good work!
@bethanymyers2851
@bethanymyers2851 2 года назад
The phrase “I’m going to Disney world” was definitely sarcasm alluding to the famous NFL saying after winning the super bowl
@rbattaglia4318
@rbattaglia4318 2 года назад
Yup! Exactly
@melissanicole4357
@melissanicole4357 2 года назад
Yes think it’s just her weird sense of humor.
@Dannielle.S
@Dannielle.S 2 года назад
Why do police interview ppl who are wasted and then say “they’re obviously lying because their story changed/didn’t make sense.” Like yeah no shit, they were drunk smh. And even when she sobered up a bit, she only had a few hours of sleep at best, she probably didn’t even know wtf was going on. It sounds just like you first said, that she had the gun pointer at whomever came in, then held it up and he saw it and was sort of belligerent like “oh what, ur gunna shoot me?” And then messed around, struggled, and it went off. Hence the distance from his cheek, they were both pulling on it. Also sounds like he didn’t get divorced because he was still holding on to his marriage at least in his heart. Dating another girl for 4 years before this relationship shows that he wasnt in a hurry to change his marital status, but it didn’t hold him back from moving on either for some reason. Sad all the way around, they sound like they were terrible for each other and drinking way too much 😕 his poor kids man.
@WhydTheyChangeOurNames
@WhydTheyChangeOurNames 2 года назад
To counter your point, if they just hold them til they sober up, that gives them more time to construct and alibi or fabricate a story.
@FortuitousOwl
@FortuitousOwl 2 года назад
@@WhydTheyChangeOurNames bruh don’t start here.
@FortuitousOwl
@FortuitousOwl 2 года назад
Thank you for the common sense. Imagine a defendant trying to use witness testimony from a person that was incredibly intoxicated when they witnessed and gave the statement. I have no doubt it’s be thrown out.
@WhydTheyChangeOurNames
@WhydTheyChangeOurNames 2 года назад
@@FortuitousOwl you can plainly read my comment here was from 6 hours ago or you didn't read it. I commented here first so take that misdirected anger elsewhere.
@FortuitousOwl
@FortuitousOwl 2 года назад
@@WhydTheyChangeOurNames no, I’m justifiably angry that you feel the need to defend interrogating drunk woman.
@MsDeeGee101
@MsDeeGee101 2 года назад
there was a time when people saying they are going to Disney world was very popular, I think an athlete was asked what he was going to do now after winning a super bowl, when you grow up hearing that phrase, knowing where it came from it does not seem so strange to hear someone say it
@dianalopezvillegas4534
@dianalopezvillegas4534 2 года назад
I love your pup in the back, gave me peace ❤️❤️
@carola-lifeinparis
@carola-lifeinparis 2 года назад
I think they made the right decision. It was a weird situation but it feels like an accident, not suicide or murder.
@kadeelacayo4806
@kadeelacayo4806 2 года назад
It feels like murder to me , this is bad acting
@Swychek
@Swychek 2 года назад
So even if it’s an accident, are you allowed to kill other just accidentally? That does not sit right with me…
@kadeelacayo4806
@kadeelacayo4806 2 года назад
@@Swychek manslaughter the right word
@carola-lifeinparis
@carola-lifeinparis 2 года назад
@@Swychek good question
@NovelNovelist
@NovelNovelist 2 года назад
The inconsistencies in her story seem to stem from being drunk, emotional, and disoriented more than intentionally deceitful. Personally I'm not sure SHE even knows what happened. "We were drunk and there was an accident" seems true and is possibly the most details she can really accurately provide.
@Vicki781
@Vicki781 2 года назад
I agree
@frayasaucier1744
@frayasaucier1744 2 года назад
I think she is guilty!
@sue-annewalklett7960
@sue-annewalklett7960 2 года назад
Possible she was not invited to the wedding was to prevent her finding out that he was still married. In court, before sending someone to jail you need to be 100% convinced that it was a crime. They both drank to much alcohol and it could have been an accident
@Tacomaisalsonachomama
@Tacomaisalsonachomama 2 года назад
"What are you gonna do now? Go to Disneyland" was a popular slogan, it really seems she was just being dismissive of reporters. I believe he was challenging/mocking her regarding the gun and so said "I'll do it myself!" And tried to gt th gun from her. It was in that moment of no one wanting anyone to get shot, the gun did fire and he did die. It seems incredibly logical the way she kept saying "he was shot" and not entirely committing to INTENTIONAL suicide. It was an accidental suicide or an accident, it doesn't seem that she even knows for sure how it went off, it just did.
@FortuitousOwl
@FortuitousOwl 2 года назад
I’m sorry the police brought an obviously drunk woman in her nightgown for questioning?? Do y’all not find that incredibly irresponsible?? You can’t question any inebriated person and expect a straightforward true consistent story. The gabble petito case is a perfect example of why I do not trust police to correctly identify a domestic violence situation. The fact that they brought her in drunk should be raising a million red flags. She is not in a frame of mind where she can even consent to questioning. The detectives need to be charged for doing that, that’s despicable. Not only all of that, which could easily explain her changing testimony and possibly make her not even remember clearly what happened, he has a history of threatening suicide to his significant other. And he kept secret the fact that he was married the whole time, but doesn’t that reflect poorly on HIM? It seems like that fact was only used against HER. I think the jury was right to vote not guilty. Even if you think she is guilty, the case was handled disastrously and maliciously and there isn’t compelling evidence of her guilt.
@kellyfanello6716
@kellyfanello6716 2 года назад
I agree with you
@chit-chat007
@chit-chat007 2 года назад
💯 agree with you! Perfectly said! So many things about this made me irate!
@celinabryan8841
@celinabryan8841 2 года назад
When you are a possible murder suspect. Yes they will just bring you in. They don't want you to have a chance to tamper with evidence getting changed or move anything at the scene around. This is not unusual actually.
@FortuitousOwl
@FortuitousOwl 2 года назад
@@celinabryan8841 I’m not surprised at all that this isn’t unusual because the criminal justice system is terrible and so are cops. There was no middle ground between taking her immediately to an interrogation room in her nightgown and leaving her at home alone? Like do you care at all about civil rights?
@youheartmel
@youheartmel 2 года назад
@@FortuitousOwl Cops are not terrible
@darlingdeb7010
@darlingdeb7010 2 года назад
Gut feeling: her character - based on witnesses - tells me that it's entirely possible she had a "heat of the moment" type situation. As far as actually proving it...i think the jury ruled the correct way based on the charges karen had and the evidence they were presented with. Makes it tough to separate your gut feelings from the law, but it's necessary.
@courtneycella9277
@courtneycella9277 2 года назад
I think they were functioning alcoholics who were in a tumultuous relationship. Unfortunately he died. I agree that the jury was correct . I don't think there is enough evidence to convict.
@sharleneandchloe
@sharleneandchloe 2 года назад
I’m jiibil. I im
@helenchilds7719
@helenchilds7719 2 года назад
He was as drunk as she was, and why was he even DRIVING in that case? Disney World is better than she was "going out for a drink 🍸 "!!!
@MrsRubyblackmon
@MrsRubyblackmon 2 года назад
I just love how you tell a story and your such a beautiful woman thank you for your informative stories.
@williamspence1294
@williamspence1294 2 года назад
Amazing story really interesting
@elizabethkrueger7492
@elizabethkrueger7492 2 года назад
Idk what actually happened, but the jury really made the right call. They prosecution did NOT have enough evidence. There was room for reasonable doubt. They could not have found her guilty.
@jamesking1033
@jamesking1033 2 года назад
Two alcoholics in a toxic relationship fighting after a night of drinking, and high emotions. Honestly, she probably knew it was him, and wanted to act tough with the gun. He acted angry, and emotional, and wanted power over the situation, and grabbed the gun, and a drunken toxic fight ensued. At some point the gun was fired. I totally believe this was accidental for both of them. It's an unfortunate accident in a drunk and toxic relationship that probably had past fights of varying elevating levels. Not hard to believe honestly.
@Kandeekane-1
@Kandeekane-1 Год назад
I CANT BELIEVE YOU ARE A MOM NOW!! SO HAPPY FOR YOU, CONGRATS
@Mochalate
@Mochalate 2 года назад
The interrogator said she had the right to remain silent after she already told everything!😂
@Healthymuscles_gr
@Healthymuscles_gr 2 года назад
Loooooooool
@madethistocomment727
@madethistocomment727 2 года назад
I took the, "go to Disney" comment as a sort of tired, sarcastic, "just stop talking to me" response. "What are you going to do next" is a rather stupid question to ask. How would she know for sure after everything that had happened. Honestly, if I'd lost the love of my life, been accused of being the killer, had the prosecution parade a bunch of people who disliked me to bad mouth me to the jury, had a doctor with a bias try to condemn me with invalid testimony, and then get asked THAT when it was finally over........I can't say how I'd react. Her demeanor more reminds me of how I am when it's all too much and I just shut down. Maybe I see that because I have depression myself, but that ordeal can emotionally exhaust anyone.
@reneemayes421
@reneemayes421 2 года назад
Yeah, but..... She is so obviously self-important, obnoxious woman.
@sallyviolet13
@sallyviolet13 2 года назад
I agree 100%
@sallyviolet13
@sallyviolet13 2 года назад
@@reneemayes421 that doesn't mean much tho
@xsullengirlx
@xsullengirlx 2 года назад
In the 90s/early 00s, it was a popular thing for sports reporters to ask winners of big games "what are you going to do next" and they'd always say "I'm going to disneyland!", it ended up in some disney commercials and promos, etc. When this case took place, if you asked almost anyone "what are you going to do next", they'd respond that way. I agree with you that she just said it because it was the first thing that came to her mind and an easy way to dismiss the dumb question.
@barbi520
@barbi520 2 года назад
People on this board are giving such intelligent answers and yours is one of the best. Obvious her going to Disneyland statement was sarcastic. From the statements I heard her say, they did not seem to conflict that much! She kept saying it was an accident and not an intentional suicide!
@brandycarter9829
@brandycarter9829 2 года назад
Just wanted to clarify something for y’all- Caryn’s Disney World comment isn’t as weird/incriminating as it seems- in the 80’s “I’m going to DisneyWorld!” was a common & standard response whenever an interviewer asked you where you’re going now. For real- it was a thing
@lindseyloumarshall7976
@lindseyloumarshall7976 2 года назад
It was a song too
@maciechapman382
@maciechapman382 2 года назад
Also she literally lived in Orlando which is right next to Disney World... maybe that wasnt out of the norm for her?? Just a thought I had
@jdanyle
@jdanyle 2 года назад
More of a sarcatic way of saying F-Off. Felt that eye roll in her tone.
@VLparker18
@VLparker18 2 года назад
@@jdanyle this is exactly how I took it and it puzzles me that people would take that comment seriously…you can literally hear and see the sarcasm
@joannahathcock7429
@joannahathcock7429 2 года назад
I was thinking the exact same thing! And if you were being questioned like that, that could have definitely been the first thing that popped into her mind!
@debsivelja4475
@debsivelja4475 Год назад
I love your storytelling, the irony of the advertising on a case of wine for this one less so though!
@user-np5ig9qk7o
@user-np5ig9qk7o 3 месяца назад
100% she got away with murder her behaviour and reactions from start to finish are absolutely ludicrous. The smirk when she was found not guilty was proof and then the flippant reply to what she is intending to do next 'going to Disney' just shows what a cold hearted killer she is. The jury should be ashamed.
@pug_frost7246
@pug_frost7246 2 года назад
As someone who has lived through a pretty traumatic situation, I can say I really do think it was an accident just from how she was acting and the words she uses. I think anything can look bad if you look hard enough but sometimes it's actually more simple than it seems.
@djgray3393
@djgray3393 2 года назад
I agree.. If someone I cared about died like that and people are shoving cameras in my face. I would be telling them to f off! And i take her sarcastic comment as her way or telling them to leave her alone
@embadly
@embadly 2 года назад
“Anything can look bad of you look hard enough” !!!!!! EXACTLY this. And it can go for literally anything.
@im19ice3
@im19ice3 2 года назад
my thoughts exactly, when she said he got shot like that in 3rd person to me that sounded like she was dissociating hard, how does one even begin to process something like that anyways :/
@tiffanyrogue1329
@tiffanyrogue1329 2 года назад
Did she shoot him? Yes. Was it intentional? No. I believe he tried to get the gun, they wrestled over it and BOOM. An unfortunate situation gone bad. I can appreciate her Disney World sarcasm.
@sk8rchik1998
@sk8rchik1998 2 года назад
I couldn’t have said it better
@loribest6929
@loribest6929 2 года назад
This one needs an Academy award
@briannaveurink2599
@briannaveurink2599 2 года назад
I was listening seriously to the conversation until you said officer boop and for some reason that just really made me laugh lol
@sheilapotter3110
@sheilapotter3110 11 месяцев назад
😂 that made me laugh too. I thought she said officer poop 😂
@Wendilo2
@Wendilo2 2 года назад
I think analyzing someone's words to this extent "shot" vs shot himself is futile. I believe he was accidentally shot while they fought over thr gun although I'm no judge
@brootr223
@brootr223 2 года назад
Agree
@michellevickersdixon1141
@michellevickersdixon1141 2 года назад
I also think it was an accident. They were both very drunk with a loaded gun that they struggled over carelessly.
@itsqueencleopatra
@itsqueencleopatra 2 года назад
Same. There is too much reasonable doubt in this case to give her a guilty sentence
@kristentrep5038
@kristentrep5038 2 года назад
@@michellevickersdixon1141 I’m here to comment the same. They were both wasted! She was upset, drunk and certainly quite confused all around.
@charlotrisch5138
@charlotrisch5138 2 года назад
Londiwe i feel the same way about this case.
@carmenmendez3150
@carmenmendez3150 2 года назад
I don’t think that Caryn even knows what truly happened that fateful night. They were both so intoxicated. They argued, they fought and the gun went off accidentally. In my opinion
@bucketree
@bucketree 2 года назад
Good point I can remember being sound asleep completely sober and some friends from University came into the room in my hostel really drunk and dancing around with underwear round their necks and smoking a cigarette. I woke up the next morning thinking I had dreamt it all until I saw a cigarette in the pot plant .
@lindsaydottz463
@lindsaydottz463 2 года назад
You can’t always listen to what the family says. Sometimes the family doesn’t really know what’s going on when the relationship their family member’s in is toxic. They are only hearing one side of the story, so they think he was the victim in the relationship and that she was the evil one but I think it was both of them
@Terrbel21
@Terrbel21 2 года назад
She was clearly being sarcastic ! I’m sure come on Disney World 😂
@sass_afran
@sass_afran 2 года назад
I wanna know more about her habits and routine. Did she normally have the gun locked and loaded at her bedside? Why did she “warn” Phillip that if he came home unannounced she might shoot? Did he usually text or call when he came home late at night? Did she use their drunken night as an opportunity? When she recognized him did she question herself and that’s why she didn’t put it down? I believe she saw him, hesitated, seriously thought for a second about doing it, then they fought for it and he got shot. Then she freaked out and realized she never truly wanted him dead, she was just irritated as hell with him and boom. There you have it.
@teddypeony185
@teddypeony185 2 года назад
I have the same questions
@DizzyDior12
@DizzyDior12 2 года назад
The whole "Disney World" thing was something people would say on TV after winning something. I think she said it here out of sarcasm because she was tired of answering questions.
@thebluewolf2472
@thebluewolf2472 2 года назад
Yeah, that's what I thought too... because honestly I would probably do the same... like seriously, get the fuxk outta my face with those cameras. I use sarcasm as a way to control my anger, and cameras +microphones being shoved in my face would make me very angry.
@rachaelbaker6864
@rachaelbaker6864 2 года назад
Agreed
@precioustorres7043
@precioustorres7043 2 года назад
it honestly gave me a good laugh! i said it before she did and i burst out laughing. definitely sarcasm
@thebluewolf2472
@thebluewolf2472 2 года назад
@@precioustorres7043 hahaha thats great, it gave me a bit of a giggle too since I could see myself in her shoes.
@ThisAlphaWolf
@ThisAlphaWolf 2 года назад
That's what I got out of it.
@stormyanngraves
@stormyanngraves 2 года назад
In this case, i feel like it genuinely was an accident… when a couple are both drunk and belligerent- it makes sense that she wouldn’t exactly be able to recall everything that happened in the moment, which obviously made her look bad cause she couldn’t keep her story straight. But I don’t think it was on purpose. She genuinely seemed distraught. This is simply what happens when you’re drunk, belligerent, and have a gun. Although, in the end- the only two people that will ever truly know the truth are her and him.
@bateslaura2737
@bateslaura2737 Год назад
I love seeing your dog in the background 😊
@rebeccaclark6
@rebeccaclark6 2 года назад
I agree with the jury's verdict. Her 911 call and actions afterward, including the odd behavior, sounds like she had snapped due to shock. When your brain experiences trauma, as others have mentioned, it does not always process in chronological order or in coherent detail. The Disney World comment, being that she is in Orlando, seemed like a snarky annoyed response to the constant questions. She probably hadn't had a chance to process her freedom completely and was hit with interview questions. In the 80's and 90's after the the super bowl the athletes were asked what they were going to next. They always responded, "I'm going to Disney World!" It became a tongue and cheek response to something good happening. Her tone of voice sounded tired and unattached as she responded. That wasn't a real response...just a sarcastic response to an annoying question. I actually believe this woman this time. 🤷🏻‍♀️
@2300VirgoAvenue
@2300VirgoAvenue 2 года назад
Yes, there was sarcasm all through that response. I honestly thought nothing of it because I myself would probably answer the same way lol.
@lonepinata
@lonepinata 2 года назад
Yeah, the Disney World comment reminded me of the thing they always did after the Super Bowl/ football games when they’d ask the winners what they were gonna do now that they won and the winner would always say “I’m going to Disney world!”. I don’t know if that’s still a thing, but it was a trend back in the day. That’s how I took her saying it. Playing into a common saying during that time period.
@lillymurray8408
@lillymurray8408 2 года назад
@@lonepinata omg I remember this. As a child. Such a iconic thing to see and hear! Lol
@jessicacalvin2855
@jessicacalvin2855 2 года назад
I agree with the disney world comment. I immediately took is as a sarcastic answer. I would be annoyed at being questioned like that
@teachhoustontoswim
@teachhoustontoswim 2 года назад
I do too. Which is bothering me for some reason, but i couldn’t even decide
@zsazsamorte
@zsazsamorte 2 года назад
35:10 There is an old tradition or commercial (?) Where a reporter would ask the captain of the winning team of the Super Bowl, “So what are you gonna do next?!” And the captain would reply “I’m going to Disneyland!”. It was some sort of advertisement for Disney ever Super Bowl. I think that’s why she said it. It was like, a common catch phrase in the late 80s/early 90s.
@PutTheShovelDown
@PutTheShovelDown Год назад
I thought it was so funny when said you watched Dr. G in middle school. That’s definitely foreshadowing for you becoming a true crime person. Love it ❤😂😅,
@Theneighborlywombwitch
@Theneighborlywombwitch 2 года назад
I’m with the jury I think. But also, let’s here more about the life of Officer Boop
@JennifuhhGilardi
@JennifuhhGilardi 2 года назад
PS she said “go to Disney world” sarcastically I’m sure, that’s the cliche response for winning the super bowl or whatever sporting crap
@catrinas6984
@catrinas6984 2 года назад
That’s what I thought too.
@scarymarilynn
@scarymarilynn 2 года назад
Came to the comments to say something similar. It's an much parodied (heavily in the 90s especially) response to the question "you just won ___ what will you do now" and considering the mental exhaustion that must come from being on trial, I can see my own brain uttering it.
@charitysmidutz498
@charitysmidutz498 2 года назад
yup...literally checked the comments to see if anyone else said it. I knew what she was gonna say the second they asked that question. It's so ingrained into our brains from back then. I definitely came off as sarcastic.
@Patience97
@Patience97 2 года назад
exactly!
@The_Alexandra_B
@The_Alexandra_B 2 года назад
I just commented the same thing lol
@staceyowens6700
@staceyowens6700 3 месяца назад
'Go to Disney Land' sounded so sarcastic to me. She sounded exasperated over the questions and just sprouted Disney Land as that kind of back handed way of saying 'what the f**k do you think I'm going to do?' A bit like when something bad happens to someone and you stupidly ask them - 'are you okay?' - most people would shake their head Sadley, others might sarcastically snap 'yeah i'm blo*dy lovely! Might throw party!' Whether she was exasperated because of the questions as a guilty person and more annoyed, or as a innocent who was just fed up ... who knows?
@squeekee35
@squeekee35 2 года назад
Luv Dr G. Great show
@hellosunshine305
@hellosunshine305 2 года назад
I can’t say why, but I believe her. To me, this seems like an accident-a dispute that escalated.
@rashmisewwandi9655
@rashmisewwandi9655 2 года назад
I too believe her.
@sweetcomfortscents9965
@sweetcomfortscents9965 2 года назад
I think so too
@angiej3127
@angiej3127 2 года назад
Same here. I don't have an issue with her 911 call either. Her story made sense to me if both of them had their hands on the gun.
@victoryoofhicuyutruyutrjgh1433
@victoryoofhicuyutruyutrjgh1433 2 года назад
I agree I do not believe she did it on purpose either , I guess I get the same feeling as you ..i think they fought over it an it accidentally went off
@victoryoofhicuyutruyutrjgh1433
@victoryoofhicuyutruyutrjgh1433 2 года назад
@@angiej3127 agree
@lydiakach
@lydiakach 2 года назад
I don't know why people thought it was suicide when it just sounded like an accident. Like suicide to me seems like an intention to kill oneself not accidentally kill themselves. Saying it was suicide because of depression even makes less sense because he was literally drunk no one thinks straight when they are drunk. I also understand the not putting the gun away because she had it up in the air to not point it anywhere. She could have been going to put it back but they fought over it. The police were definitely bias which led to tunnel vision. You could see it in the whole "sHe'S mAkiNg HeR dEfEnSe RiGhT iN fRoNt Of Us" statement
@dotkiarika1026
@dotkiarika1026 2 года назад
Right? She's also clearly super drunk so it makes sense that she wouldn't be acting rationally and didn't think to put the gun down when she first saw him
@lydiakach
@lydiakach 2 года назад
@@dotkiarika1026 I mean even if I knew the person but they were extremely drunk and I was extremely drunk I don't know if I would put the gun down because I don't know what they are going to do in their state. He obviously thought he could drive so he really probably didn't think he was that incapacitated
@twocents9816
@twocents9816 2 года назад
The police were unprofessional and communicated like ignorant, gossipy, nasty teen-aged girls. Cops are notorious for vilifying the victim as if it is fun sport to pounce their wounded and vulnerable prey.
@madethistocomment727
@madethistocomment727 2 года назад
I agree. I feel like Kendall presented that statement as if the cop saying that made it likely to be true. I saw it as evidence of the police having a preconceived bias before any autopsy was performed or any evidence had even been collected.
@Naturefan354
@Naturefan354 2 года назад
@@twocents9816 Victim? She wasn’t a victim and I believe she got away with murder.
@joostjellema4789
@joostjellema4789 2 года назад
See her smiling after the verdict!
@twillastacy1014
@twillastacy1014 2 года назад
On the "Disney World" comment, anytime someone asks me "What are you going to do now?" That is my exact immediate response, "Go to Disney World!" It's a really popular line from a Super Bowl Advert. and when I was in High School, everyone said. I even think it was in a few movies. --------------- Also, Officer Boop! I couldn't say that without cracking up! Kudos to you!
@nataliejones6816
@nataliejones6816 2 года назад
Personally, I think the gun went off in the struggle. Both had their hands on it, emotions high and alcohol thrown into the mix. I think the jury made the right call, I don’t think it’s a case of beyond reasonable doubt.
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