CASUAL DATING NOT SO CASUAL ! 

Oh My God.. I can’t explain how much I appreciate your video.. you just Explain my current situation 😢.. thank you dear…🥺 love from 🇺🇸🇧🇩

Perfect…It happened to me, I stayed in a serious relationship for almost 5yr and then she left me without any major issue(Earning less that time) and she got involved in casual stuff with multiple people. After that, I never got close to anyone for next 4 yrs and during this time, my career got a jump and suddenly a lucky charm has arrived in my life and we married to each other. Just a month back, blessed with Baby angel 👼. Throughout the journey, 3 things I never left, my Family, My efforts and My Mata Rani. Jai Mata di🙏🏼 Moreover, that girl is still in search of peace.

my ex started casual dating a guy and also started live in with him just 1 .5 months after breakup from our 3 years relationship, as she left me once she thought she has this guy for her backup for fun. In start, she thought she did right thing as I was suffering alone and she was having fun whole day with him, but just after 7 months she called me n said sorry n realized that this casual dating gave her more pain n now she's suffering more coz that guy is bored of her. Whereas I recovered from breakup by studying hard n clearing CAT to get IIM Lucknow. This taught me that, all these casual stuff drains our mental energy and it destroy us in long term, better to stay alone than this casual stuff.

"Casual Dating" will be the downfall of our society.

She speaks with class and I can tell how much maturity she has❤

Talked to a person (monk) in Rishikesh in his 60's now about his first love and the glow he had on his face was more than 100 watt bulb as he smilingly answered jab paramatma aapko seedi de to us seedi k sahare oopar uth jao ..har kisi ko mauka nahi milta

Finally found a girl who is very mature and talking on the basis of energy, aura, elemental foundation... 👍You have such a deep thinking and understanding of life....🙏

4 years i still love her after her i never talked another girl

I resonate with your opinion a lot . Happy to see such mature and articulate opinions exist in our generation 😊

only a person who sits with himself and herself can come up with such valuable knowledge

शुरू में मुझे लगा कि आप बाकी लड़कियों का पक्ष लोगे पर बाद में आपने मेरे सारी आशाओं से परे जाकर मेरे दिल में आपके लिए इज्जत और बढ़ा दी। बड़ी हिम्मत चाहिए इन सारी सच्चाइयों को बोलने के लिए। ज्यादातर लोग इन्हीं सच्चाई को अपनाने से डरते हैं और जाने अनजाने ज़हरीली बातों का पक्ष लेने लगते हैं।

"you can take men out of army, but not army out of men ", I can still feel that army vibe in your voice, doing great work mam keep it up, you are inspiring a lot of people.

got the video on a right time, after such crazy journey and falling in love I realised that it was better to know person before getting into the commitment and that was taking me towards casual dating, but this video helped me to get clarity what i'm looking for and how to let the universe help finding the right one without going through all these things, grateful for the video :D

"Karna chahta Hu " is Not The Only Thing "Karna chahti Hu" is also the Reality !

I have never been in a relationship. I got chance but still I did not accept that relation as that girl had a promiscuous past. Is it wrong for guys like us to ask for a virgin loyal partner? Why does society shame guys like us? We want a girl just like us. Although the chance of finding a girl who never had any relationship till the marriage is slim to none these days.

Agree, future ki chahath h toh present badalni hogi, we become what we think. Stability is the major factor in life!!

I hope this video reaches to lot of people, I have this perspective since childhood

Mam i am continuous viewer, and i commented on most of the videos because aapke harek video bhut hi jyada achhi , mai aapko 2 wajh se follow krta hu 1. Aap pure soul ho ❤, ar mujhe lgta hai jo bhi aapke dil me rhta h wo aap hmlogo se share krte ho. 2. Aap ex army ho and mere pitaji bhi ek ex army hai . Salute you mam keep helping and motivating us

23 and never dated Because I believe man in love moves mountains if i don't find right man i am not going to waste my time

Casual dating is a chain reaction, it's okay to be the moon sometimes and seek nothing but loneliness,logo ke kareeb tabhi rahe jab apko bharosa ho ki aap unke jane ke baad khud ko sambhaal lenge

Woww!! I always said that i want to have casual dating, no serious relationships because "dil lagi ke kisse bahut badnam hai is duniya mein, ye aag ka dariya hai or doob ke jana hai" 😂😂 par i found your insights to be very thought provoking. You spoke naturally, from your heart and it connected with me

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Jai Hind Ma'am So ecstatic n electric to find such a meditative spirit in the form of Major Patani. I had discovered your channel today itself and it's fantabulous. BTW, fauji josh manifests through your words and disposition very abundantly. Mujhe iss video se Casual relationship k bajaye ek jyada zaruri cheez samajh m aayi that is live in the Present and devote yourself to your present!!!🥂 Thanks for your Kind words. Much power to you. Keep Rising! Keep Shining! Keep Smiling! P.S. : If possible 1 video apki fauj ki journey k upar bhi banana please.

People may take sometime to understand what love or actually to love or being love means: Love - 1. Attraction, 2. with or without that person/place etc u have same emotions, 3. no expectations or unconditional Love is the basis to reach to our maximum which is provided by the mother nature .. Many Bhakti Sadhus have described it as Precursor to Dhyan on Deity and its also a result after that Dhyan (meditation) .. Love -> Dhyan (higher levels of consciousness -> Blissed out .. People with casual relationship may not go deep within and feel the real love ..its like love is like a key to open the doors of higher consciousness level but people knowingly want to pick up a wrong key which will never open the doors :) .. After my meditation have felt the same most of the time .. empathy, gratitude, courtesy they all come naturally

I was confused, but this video gave me a complete clarity. Thank you so much..❤

I have this perspective since childhood... Surly u r talking on the basis of experience 🤞

I saw you at GE Panai, if I'm right. So happy to see you in different jonour. That time you were in uniform.

KP the video is too good in explaining the consequences of casual (not so casual) dating.. Even I had a heart break and wanted to go this way but I myself realised that it's not for me and I am not this type of person.maine apne aap ko samjhaya tha.I know I will cross paths with someone who will be better than the last one. Energy should be conserved so that it's spent on the right person.❤❤❤Keep guiding us ma'am.

This video was much needed...thank you for making this one❤✨

आपकी नासमझी आपकी परमशत्रु है, और आपकी समझ, बोध, बुद्धि विवेक आपके परम मित्र है। जिसको आप समर्थन देंगे वही प्रबल होता जायेगा।

Very grateful mam, for the way you speak about these small yet important topics, making them simple for us to understand...just amazing 🙌🙏

In today's time, one thing should definitely be kept in mind: if you hurt someone, it doesn't mean that their karma won't hit you back. And whoever you meet in life, whether you go on dates or just have normal friendships, one thing should always be remembered: they are also human beings with emotions. And those guys who engage in friendships just for passing time or for physical satisfaction, life is a long journey and there is definitely more to come ahead. So, the conclusion of this comment is that one should not think ill of anyone.

Thanks mam for this insights. It was very useful session for me.

your concepts are very clear, mam. thank you for sharing your understanding with us. and you look beautiful. i also have a similar dress sorta attire, will wear it again soon, been a while since i wore it, it has a beautiful silhouette.hehe

Understand the symphony of the universe. You are always where you should be. The past helps you explore the web of the present chronologically. In this matrix you will find the anomalies of the future. There your path is eagerly awaiting you.

you literally have the queen energy in you, hats off

Very nice speech, your knowladge about energy is very greatfull ❤❤❤

Mam please make a video on how to remove stress , tension and negative thoughts from our life . How to overcome guilts of things that we have done in our past.

kaha thi yaar tum ? it was spot on content

Itni maturity tab aati hai jab insaan kahi life me thokar khaya hua ho .

very well explained buddy❤😊 Thanks ❤

Hello friends I have something to share with you all that if you can't be the part of her/his life's part then please don't waste you time in the name of love because it will break you from inside and as well as outside. It is the time to focus on your future.

very welll. explained dear❤😊

Ma'am casual dating ka to mujhe nhi pta Pr aap ho bahut khoobsurat ❤ Mn krta hai aapko dekhna aur sunta rahu

Your words make so much sense! :)

दी बहुत से लोग जो दिल को हर्ट करते हैं उनकी बातों से बचने के लिए भी कुछ मोटिवेशन दीजिए ❤❤❤❤❤

Guys she is sister of Disha patani for those who dont know

your content is very spiritual, peace ❤️

starting main laga ki yeah kahani Khusboo ki hai. I like her personality and her thoughts.

11:55 nobody is so clear. After all we are human. If not ready for marriage then should not be anything casual. People should have respect for future permanent partner. For fun and relaxation hobby should be developed. Not attachment with people.

Maam being from armed forces bring some videos on DISCIPLINE BUILDING

Grateful vidio and courage to opening view' of people who dout to take relationship.

We are going through a very similar experience in life. Om Namah Shivaye.

Make some videos related to your ssb experience and life as an army officer

Soldier of Love · Sade

heartbreak are very important to check someone Purusharth someone capacity to heal , instead of Wasting that energy and time on casual person make your own garden ,invest in yourself, remember there is alywys fish in the water ,there are good people for uh alywys,so better Focus and Channelise this energy for constructive things of life ❤

Mam is all rounder ❤😂

Clarity 👍

Where do you get so much knowledge from? Apart from being beautiful, you are also very knowledgeable. May you always keep smiling in your life.

she literally opened my mind w this

Perfect video thankyou madam

I think 'Dil tootna ' is depends on the persons is How honest for that particuler relationship , if the person is Honest than He/she Broke..In My opinion ❤❤Love ❤❤

Shandaar Understanding 🔥🔥

Wow mam ..thanks for educating and promoting sensible content … youth needs this

Conclusion puri video ka ye nikla ki .. Casual dating is just spoiling the whole concept of seriousness in a relationship or in a marriage in the society .. That's why people nowadays are living more depressed life then the previous generation .. Is liya life ko clear rakho aur kisi ek ko he jiwan bhar ke liya apna banao trust ek baar ban gaya toh tutna mat doo aur naa he todo khud bhi ... 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Superb...u r telling true.....is it act of attraction?? I think... our culture ...we r acting on emotions ,so difficult casual dating is not common.

must needed video for these new culture pickers !

I would love to follow ur thoughts..thnks for clarity…🎉

Major.Khusboo you're really inspiring.

hiiii didi.... thankyou for being here ,,,loved the way you presented it , this gave me a clarity of thought why i was suffering ,, thanks diii always your brother

Meri aj tk samjh nahi aya. Log physical kese ho jatey hain ek se zada logo ke sath... Are they Robots? Feel kese krtey hain dusro ko... How they shift their memory from one person in past to other person at present! Man .. This is sick. .. I avoid physical intimacy... as i know its too difficult to play with the system.... and at the end... psychological trauma is all that we face. But, wait a minute... There's something more... we change our Spiritual path and trace. I'll not go deep in this but we destroy our LINEAR life path set by the Cosmos at the time of our birth towards Liberation. And thus our energy at the time of death will be Unstable which will result in worthless life as well as death will not be in peace.

“Aapki khwaishye bht acchi. But karma align ni ho rhe”😂😂😂

So true but girls in my experiences casual dating girls also love me bcz i accept them as they are . They are my friends but not girl friend as it is my decision

A lot of things you told are correct but I think expectation of human are not bourned from the source of relational facter only it can be adopted from the lot of other sources of factors like the atmosphere we live in etc.

Your voice is so so sweet.

Hey is it good 2 to do casual dating intially then taking gradually serious

"Hope" atleast ths video will change my mind set...😑

Ys right, present is very very importance in that case👍

4 years I am stay with one and only we talk each other but never meet ....

Truely agree dii...❤😎🌟 Sending you too much love from my side....☺️🌼

Thankyou ma'am for enlightening us...🎉❤

Pure soul❤

Why are you in my recommendation list😅

O wow what a video on this topic and what understanding mam 👏 🙌

She is a mature girl!!

Mai you tube mai sarai achai channels ko kaisai attract kar leta hu and in real life just opposite....

She is pure soul

The best video everrr

Mostly casual dating/hookups is a new age(Gen Z) thing, however not necessarily and the reason is more complexed for the latter. Times are changing. Kids today are not what we used to be, which is not expected too. Every generation think they are smarter than their previous and wiser than their next. Maybe its a part of human evolution too, who knows. Btw, retirement is suiting you well 🎉

Omg you are so versatile You are inspiration for me ma'm ❤ love to watch all your videos

Pure soul you are maam!!!❤

Proud of you ❤❤❤❤

Voice is very unique.

💯 Ma'am,Maturity level..👏🛐

I loved 3 girl one sided earlier but due to not getting job i did not proposed her in time.i propose very late so rejected.but that time I don't feel ,i am alone because i thought she also loves me but really they don't loves me . We only talk a time in a month in normal way. When i know she doesn't loves me then i hurted and was felling alone . Then i was searching any girl for friendship but till now i didn't find a good friend.

Khushboo Ma'am, besides all the awesome stuff you teach, the one thing I'm really aiming to emulate is your consistency. Big thanks for being such a great mentor! Keep leading, we're right behind you! P.S: With your amazing content, that Gold Play button is coming your way fast.

explained sooooo brilliantly❣

Can you make a video on fear of losing someone pls.

Same here but I want to be serious after 35

Khushboo I loved your thoughts and presentation.