@@NH-tb2sm ikr.. But FYI I live in a Muslim country. Like majority of us are Muslim and this is very common and we can't question it. So I would see my alma mater peers marrying their cousins 🤮
Cousin marriage is actually legal in much of the country, not just in Alabama. Second cousins may legally marry in all states. First cousins may legally marry in AK, AL, CA, CO, CT, FL, GA, HI, MD, MA, NJ, NM, NY, NC, RI, SC, TN, VT, VA and Washington DC.
@JE Well, our genetics are only so varied. You're at least 50th cousins with everyone else on the planet...or something to that effect. EDIT: Nevermind, that's a myth 🙃 though every human on Earth is descended from one woman ~150,000 years ago. If we go under the assumption that 25 years is an average generation, that means we're all at least 6000ths cousins at the most distant.
There are charges pending against them right now because she's pregnant with her cousin's child in a state where it's illegal... So yeah doctor Sophie was right they were breaking the law
Nope, only Americans have this unique idea that cousin marriages is incest. In Europe, Africa and Asia, cousin marriages are neither illegal nor it is considered incest.
I love Dr. Sofie. I really do believe that they enjoy the taboo more then they love each other. I genuinely believe they love the reaction people give them
idk I think they love each other too. sometimes there are weird attractions neurological and biological. it's so creepy that some mothers and fathers who came into contact with children that were given up for adoption or never seen, end up in a sexual relationship with them
I saw a study about mothers/fathers reuniting with children they adopted out and falling n love with them. You are right there's different attractions stemming from biological n physiological reasons
"I don't know why people are against us marrying each other!" Well, the fact that you two are damn near brother and sister could have something to do with it, but that's just a guess
@@harrisn3693 i doubt the videos you're talking about actually have people that are related engaging in those activities. I don't think Hornpub promotes that sort of thing lol
My cousin married her first cousin. I'm Malaysian and sadly it's common in Asia though I think it's gross.She married before me and my mom said "see she's younger than you and married"..I told my mom she married her cousin .. she's desperate and do t count .I could have done the same thing
I am 34 now but I found out by accident at 30 that my parents are first cousins. It doesn’t matter that they have been married for 43 years, I am here to tell you the kids are the ones it does the MOST damage to. It’s not a joke. These people act like it is.
My parents are half cousins and my brother and I turned out fine. My auntie and uncle are cousins and their children turned out fine too Tbh it hasn't affected any of us although I don't agree with first cousin marriage myself
@@smallie210my sis in law even worse.Her parents are Uncle and niece . sick but she and her siblings are all healthy and educated.Also her mother wasn't educated and this still happens in Asia especially among Indians.Theres no law against it either
@@vickyswindoll686 _The risk in offspring of first cousin parents (4.5%) is only slightly higher than offspring of parents distantly related (3.5%) and the difference is not significant._ - J Zlotogora onlinelibrary(dot)wiley(dot)com/doi/pdf/10.1002/ajmg.a.30905 _"Consanguinity unions or marriages usually involve individuals who are cousin and they can be considered to be different from incestuous unions that involve primary relatives such as parent-child, siblings, or uncle-niece."_ - Consanguinity in Context. Cambridge Studies in Biological and Evolutionary Anthropology, Volume 63. By Alan H. Bittles. Cambridge and New York: Cambridge University Press. ISBN: 978-0-521-78186-2. 2012 _The report made a point of saying that the term "incest" should not be applied to cousins, but only to sexual relations between siblings or between parents and children. Babies who result from those unions are thought to be at significantly higher risk of genetic problems, the report said, but there is not enough data to be sure._ - New York Times 2002 nytimes(dot)com/2002/04/03/health/no-genetic-reason-to-discourage-cousin-marriage-study-finds(dot)html _That doesn't necessarily mean cousins should be banned from marrying or that a court would uphold a ban on marriages between cousins, said Joanna Grossman, a law professor at Hofstra University, who has written about incest. "I don't think there is a justification for the cousin marriage ban," she said_ - ABC News abcnews(dot)go(dot)com/TheLaw/story?id=4799115&page=1
Not that I agree with this but it's funny that people are somehow outraged over it with everything else people accept. People want others to accept children changing their gender at 4 years old but somehow this is a bridge too far even though it's between consenting adults? Hypocrisy much?
They are an annoying couple that we should all ignore. Just ignore them whenever they try to get a reaction by shoving their relationship in your face. They don’t matter and they’re trying their best to feel that way by annoying us all.
I just need to say that they look exactly like each other. If I didn’t know that they were cousins then I’d say they were brother and sister. It’s just really horrible.
They seem to enjoy shocking people, they appear to get a kick out of it, with all the drama they pump into it, too. They're not sad about it, they're enjoying this. Takes away the sense of genuineness. I think it should be legal for them to be together, though - just should be extremely illegal for them to have children. Don't get me wrong I think it's gross, but I think if you can effectively take out the genetic risk element with a specific law, it's hard to keep arguing against two consenting adults of the same age with no signs of abuse. Should be they can be together, but if they conceive they lose custody and go to prison.
My grandparents were first cousins and had 3 very very intelligent children. Years ago it wasn't at all unusual for cousins to marry. Alot of royalty and wealthy aristocratic families married cousins as back then it was considered "keeping the bloodline pure". Obviously these days we know very differently especially when you see hereditary conditions being passed down throughout history. This couple i think love the attention more than each other. However i just wanted to point out its not illegal everywhere and in certain places and certain times it was likely even encouraged. X
Yeah honest to god, aside from the possibly genetic consequences of having children, I don’t really see what the big deal is....live and let live. They’re two consenting adults, and they love each other. 🤷♂️
@HelloKitty Comparing murder to having a relationship with your cousin isn't on the same scale. Murder, unless justified, you're literally destroying people's emotions and lives. Marrying or having a relationship with your cousin is mostly just an unpleasant and disappointing factor to people. You gotta remember, this was an extremely common practice in the past. Meaning, we all have some history in our family tree where people has married within our own bloodline. But my point is, it's not an uncommon thing. It's just that, most people prefer not to reveal it due to fear of being ridiculed and ostracized by family and friends. I guarantee you that if this subject wasn't ever a taboo, you would see a whole lot of cousins getting married to one another in the states and all over the world.
I used to have a crush on my male cousin when I was young.. our mothers were legal sisters. But biological cousins, adopted by the same family as sisters. So I guess my male cousins was my 2nd cousin? I guess. Whatever. There's way worse crimes people..
I don’t know if u know....but in India and many other Asian countries it’s a very normal practice...the amount of hate they are getting is really sad . Not that I follow their practice but neverthe less they are 2 adults who are happy why does public judgement come in here. And western media and pubic are the first to preach “no judgement “ policies for every frickin thing in the world .
I think the reason there is such an issue is because with first cousins having a child the risk of the baby having genetic abnormalities increases greatly.
From my stepfather side, his mom married her first cousin and still carry on their grandkids these problems in the blood, a lot of them where born with cognitive problems, autism, body deformities. I mean, even though is not that bad taken in Colombia if you fall in love of your cousin and start a relationship, there is certainly a clinical problem that they should consider for sure.
7 billion people in this planet. 7 ENTIRE BILLIONS OF PEOPLE in this planet and counting... yet this people go out of their ways to be with their cousin. Unbelievable
When she talked about her kids’ disgust at their incestuous relationship and the audience clapped in defense of her kids, she smiled like it was cute. These two are sick, selfish, abusive narcissists who use each other for attention.
they want people to say its ok so they can feel countable in their strange lifestyle Man thinks what he does is right?? in his own eyes God Ways are not our ways they are hurting their family and they want cheer leaders to say ok Not !!!!!
Okay let me preface this by saying I would never personally marry any of my cousins and I also agree that this couple seems very obsessed with the attention. However, I will just say in general that I think it’s a very western idea that marrying your cousin is immoral and saying it will lead to child abuse is also a generalization that I don’t think is fair. In many Asian cultures, this is very standard and results in many happy and healthy marriages and families. I’m not telling anyone what to do but I wish people would be a little more open minded and realize that the Western way isn’t the only way
I had an experience situation once. Ok here is the senario: I went to Kwanzaa at my older cousin's house and there was my male cousin. He looked at me, I looked at him and I guess he started liking me. So we went upstairs in the attic I also guess it was his room and we started to kiss each other. I felt a little strange and thinking to myself, " What am I doing? I am not in love with my cousin and do not like him in that way What am I doing? And so in conclusion, my advice is this Do Not Fall in Love With your Cousin or cousins! It just does not work. Do Not Do It!
In many countries, still 1st cousins getting married is a normal thing and followed normally.. 1st cousins r not considered as siblings atall in many parts of the world.. just bcoz these ppl r on dr Phil show dsnt by default mean it’s ok to mock them… they r happy n growing a happy life , n these ppl were dragged into d show by chance, so just let them live.. wen such a law comes in all parts of the world, that tym ll c about it.. if they r living healthily as a way of life, that’s the only thing that’s needed in the present world.. n it’s not ok to say that it’s child abuse n all unnecessarily wen their kids r happily supportive of their parents.. so just let them go.. I have seen gazillion ppl lik them in my country who r happier and sane than most ppl … genetically considered these laws were made, better to advocate for talks lik tht n not mock the rest of d ppl who r alrdy married n happy.. thts wierd, it’s actually showing bullying happy ppl r ok esp on a dr Phils show
Wow! Had no idea Angie got as far as Dr. Phil! I knew her when we did modeling and photography. Even interviewed her for a job while she was pregnant when she was in a bind. She’s a very kind and sweet human.
Getting marry to your cousin is illegal and disgusting in western society but two man getting married is not only Ok or legal but something to be proud of.
I will follow the crowds if these two guys were siblings or mother and son or father and daughter. I will give them the most harsh comment more than you can imagine in your head. Siblings are children who are exactly the same produced by exact same couple. Cousins are the descendents of two siblings with other two strangers. So, there is huge huge difference. I can totally accept if you guys regard your cousins as your siblings. Me, too. But, if love would be sparkled between two human between cousins is just acceptable. (Siblings is no no no no no. I can't even think about it) If my parents arrange me with a cousin and I will reject it because I don't like anyone of them. But if my other two cousins get married or some of my friends get married with their beloved cousin, I can accept it gladly. Given the fact that ancient cousin love stories are taught in school and a lot of huge figures got married to their cousin and we all know that we all know that, even Buddha got married to his cousin, and there are a lot of books you are enjoying are written about cousin marriage and so it is just a miracle that there are not a lot of cousin couple like that. It is so harsh for them for being treated severely like that for just doing something that is accepted for thousand of years underway. So, I can accept if you do not approve cousin marriage but it is not destroying humanity and so if you do not like, you can walk away. There is no need to unnecessarily rude.
How are cousins illegal one is adam and eve were cousins * just look at them * the other is how are french french and german and german * spanish spanish & swedish is swedish * I want to sighn the petition too * if you test a couple both german are going to be related somehow even 25th cousins * both french * incest is brothers and sisters Utah is ridiculous! cousins keep french french german german spanish Spanish anyone should know that Utah should know that Adam and eve were cousins * it keeps the bloodline pure * the only time its birth defects is when they are half brother and sisters there is a bone deficiency they think they are cousins and are half brother and sister and if there is a birth defect they should take dna to see if they are half brother and sister and didnt know there is another birth defect neice and uncle grandfather and granddaughter they say they didnt know maybe they did maybe they didnt * cousins make great children & it's so insulting to me * everyone talks about their feeling * what about people for cousins people like me that want to sighn the petition for cousin marriage our feelings insulting us for no reason bullying us about marriage to cousins * when there is nothing wrong with it * the children are great they keep there genetic line they keep hereditary * they keep traditions french tradition if they are french swedish traditions if they are swedish * if each swedish or french person or any other country couples from the same cou try took dna to eachother they would find they are cousins in some way * because it keeps the blood line pure * all french all swedish all couples that are the same country are related & are cousins whether they are first cousins or 25 th cousins * to know deep in my soul its vital for cousins to be married to keep the bloodline pure * the only time defects hapen brother sister or half brother sister uncle niece etc *granddaughter and grandfather some may know some may not know * and refuse to take dna and visit they are cousins and are not * Utah needs to take dna especialy if they are same nationality and they will see they are 1 st cousins to 25 th cousins then need to realise they are breaking the law * everyday * & divorce cause they are related 1st cousin to 25th cousin * they should know that by their ancestry dna * & are related especialy same nationality *
While this is disgusting - Psychiatrists aren't supposed to be judgmental and aggressive as he was being. Attacking somebody(ies) is not the way to get to the root of a problem.
“Live and let live” Nah, they went on national tv and aired their dirty laundry, we’re allowed to have an opinion. Besides, cousins marrying each other and people having incestual relationships, should never be normalized. If they ever decide to start a family, their kids are going to be born seriously messed up, all because they’re selfish. They need to get over themselves and have healthy relationships.
@@misssmisssymaria I completely agree! My cousins are like my brothers. That’s literally your moms or dads nephew! You guys share the same grandparents! What the what?!? How does that even happen?
That man is beyond annoying. He thinks he's so witty when in reality he's simply disgusting. I'm with Dr. Sofie, he loves the attention which makes this even more cringe.
I don't think the "Psychiatrist" is professional @ all. He comes across as a judgmental person with a "holier than thou" attitude. As for the cousins, Wow! These two are proud of what they're done, they're so selfish they don't care about anybody else's feelings or mental well-being. They put their own needs before her children's & that is Child Abuse as far as I'm concerned,(Abandonment/Neglect). Her teenager's have told her that her actions & behaviour effect them in a negative way & that they disagree with the situation yet she ignores & neglects their feelings. Another thing, how does the mother get to keep her 3 children if her & her "partner" are both breaking the Law by being married? It's all too weird, these are two very sick & selfish individuals with little intelligence nor self awareness, I feel sorry for the kids they didn't ask for any of this bs!
Why is it ridiculous to love your cousin but not ridiculous to be gay like the saying goes love who you want it doesn’t bother anyone so why does this bother you?