Coffee Talk - Reacting to Abbey Sharp & Feeling Sick | Sanne Vloet 

So, I think the reason Abby does what she does is because there is a TON of health mis-information out there and since she is a qualified professional she feels like she wants to help dispell some of that. However, I do agree her thumbnails and titles are very click bait/overdramatic.

I do watch Abbey Sharp and I can say for sure she has helped me a lot in attaining healthy relationship with food. I love your channel. You inspire me to better myself physically and mentally. No matter what is said about being "'that girl" I don't care because we all wanna be the best of what we can offer for ourselves. Both of you have a different journey and are in a different stage of life but it doesn't mean it's all "staged" for youtube. You keep doing you. You have a more healthy influence, creative cooking and real time presentation than some youtubers who have messed up the minds of young impressionable teens. Love you Sanne, from Hungary

Sanne, you are such a beautiful person inside and out. I love the way you responded with integrity, class, and kindness. Good for you girl ❤ We need more people like you online and in this world xx

You are literally one of the kindest people I know. Get well soon, Sanne! If I may add, I have been a subscriber of yours for quite some time and you have been journaling, trying your best to get to your optimum health before "becoming that girl" was even a thing.

Sanne, I follow and love your channel, and found Abbey only through your response video. I watched her video and frankly found it to be highly complimentary of you. If anything, she legitimizes the things you say and only takes a critical view of “that girl” culture to further the overall discussion. Her commentary reads more as an opinion and less as a criticism that brings awareness to the inclusivity of all aspects of wellbeing.

You're such a nice and positive person. Even in situations like this one you manage to find the good side and turn it into something enlighting and educational and, most of all, nice. it's such a pleasure to follow you, you are truly inspirational. I hope you have a wonderful day ♥️

One of my favorite things about sanne is how well she expresses herself, she’s such a happy person and could make anyone smile

I just wanna say that I have been struggling with an eating disorder for the past four years, and I’ve been on a long journey to get back my healthy weight in a healthy way that I enjoy. Your videos Sanne have made me like eating healthier food and enjoy and love the food that I eat. I don’t think I’m explaining it correctly but truly truly your videos have helped me with a big problem in my life. So thank you for all your videos and especially the “what I eat in a day” I hope you continue making them ♥️♥️♥️

I was waiting for this moment, since Abbey raised that video. Love u Sanne 💕

I feel like Abbey wasn't trying to be mean , she just gave her opinion and I know Sanne has been journaling for a while but a lot of people pretend to, that's why she said that.

I have a regular 9-5 (ok to be exact a 8-4) job and I still manage to do my matcha ceremony, stretching and a quick goal-setting journaling for the day in like 20mins. It only requires one to wake up A BIT earlier than would be otherwise necessary. Like you said, its not unrealistic to be that girl who wants to work on herself. Sure, some parts of "that girl" is toxic but if it comes from a genuine place (like using CBT techniques and wanting to improve your life and not just because of external/societal pressure). Glad you reacted back to her video and cleared the air. Proud of how classy you handled it!👑

Sanne you are doing a wonderful job and you're a delight on RU-vid, you are honest, inspirational, lovely and yes always positive and I love that about you ❤️ keep going!! ❤️

you handled this so well sanne, hope you get well soon as well xx

You honestly have such a pure heart. It's so inspiring to see how you handle negativity 🌻 People need to learn to be kind.

Sanne, you do not need to defend yourself, your popularity on this platform is testament to your legitimacy as someone who sets a wonderful example for all your viewers! I imagine I am not the only one who understands, that when you are recording yourself during workouts, cooking, meditating, journaling etc, you are sharing with us an activity you normally do by yourself in order to share with your viewers a behind the scenes look at how you achieve what you achieve in life! Please continue to share your behind the scenes content, you are an amazing, well rounded human being. You are an inspiration.

I love your videos Sanne! They give me inspiration on healthy meals. However, I’m so glad I found Abby’s channel. I used to feel bad when I couldn’t eat like you and other vloggers. I’m a nurse and work 50+ hours some weeks and just don’t have time to put into eating all organic plant based and beatifically prepared meals. I think Abby just made me realize that there is no “bad” food and I’m just doing my best. I started giving myself more grace so I truly feel that her channel is important especially for young women. There’s an exponential growth in eating disorders and abbys channel really opens up a discussion on how negative diet culture is. Not saying your channel promotes it at all. I just think Abby tries to point out that it’s okay if us younger women can’t eat exactly like you. Whether you acknowledge this or not you have a large following of young woman that may try to mimic you. Love you content and I’m sorry you were slightly offended. Also the click bait is over the top. lol Continue being you!

I guess I never interpret Abbey as negative or judgmental just rather sharing her opinions in ways to be helpful. Even the journal comment was more so coming from a place of letting her audience know you don’t have to live this perfect, aesthetic life that we see online and that much of that perfection we see is staged - which is true. But it’s not in like a judgmental way, it’s just reminding people that real life doesn’t always look like a vlog and we shouldn’t compare ourselves to that. Creators simply don’t know how to not take that personally. Which I get, because it’s hard not to take something personally when someone’s commenting on your own life and all.

Sanne you are too nice!! I really admire your lifestyle and values, and I luv this community you've created sooo much. ❤️❤️❤️

Wow!! Class A in handling that with such positivity and class.👍👍 Get well soon!!

You’re really a genuine person; this is the way I see you since (!) I’ve followed you here. So thank you!

I love your confidence and positivity! This is the first video I’ve ever seen of yours and I’m really impressed with how well you handled being critiqued. I’m not a fan of reaction videos because they can be pretty harsh and negative. But you handled yourself very well.

I don't think I can express enough how much I look up to you whilst watching this video. I only found you a week or so ago but I am so glad I did! Keep doing what you're doing, ilyy

Fijn dat je zo relaxt reageert. Je doet t goed zoals je t doet ❤️

Sanne 💕 I love your reaction to the video you were very respectful and didn’t get offended.I also like how you respect everyone’s own health journeys and lifestyle’s!Yes you should collab with Abby!!!I love your recipes!Specially your chia pudding recipe!

Sanne, you are the epitome of style and grace as well as kindness. Take care beautiful Sanne, please feel better really soon xxxxx

You're so inspiring and beautiful! 💕 I must also say that Abbey has helped my relationship with food like no other professional has and I'm really grateful for her! I agree about the titles tho, but as we watch the videos, we can see she really means well! 🌷

You are such a gracious, graceful, kind person, Sanne. I admire you enormously, and applaud you for just being you. You are spectacular and such a pleasure to watch and learn from. You inspire all of us who subscribe to your channel and always infuse love and gentleness into all you do. 🥰

I'm so glad you responded to this Sanne, and in a polite manner too ❤️

I’ve not heard of the “Abby person” so I neither follow her nor place value on being negative about another. I am probably old enough to be your grandmother 😆but I follow you because of your lifestyle, solid nutrition/cooking from scratch, and what appears to me, a genuine kind positivity towards yourself and others! Your offer to do a cooking video with the other person is a lovely example of reaching out in a non-judgmental way! Keep doing “you!”🦋🎉🌷

I love following you, Sanne! You responded in such a graceful way. Keep being the wonderful you that you are. 💗

Oh my sanne, you are sooo kind love these positivities from you! Stay safe and well!!! Always supporting you❤️

Oh my gosh this video is BRILLIANT! LOVE IT!! You're very well-spoken, and you get your message across very clearly and respectfully at the same time. LOVE, LOVE, LOVE!!

Love how calm this video is and how Sanne responds in such a healthy way xx Was interesting to hear Abby explaining science but most important thing is what works for another person might not work for you 💕 Also 13.00! 🧐👶

Please continue to be that girl be YOURSELF❤️❤️ we love your lifestyle, your vibes, your meal prep, your cooking, your vlog, your everything！！！❤️

She makes herself look silly for putting you down for things (like the journaling part), & you of all people! Your responses are even so genuine and I love that you still give her credit where it is due.

I think it would have been better for Abbey to comment more gently on other people's diet and lifestyle. The way she approaches nutrition stresses me and I don't think it improves my way I feel about my relationship with food 😌 even if her intentions are good 🌸

Sanne, I love love your channel, I always look forward on watching you because you are so genuine and such a beautiful soul 💕it’s probably because your Pisces angel 😇🌸

You are one of the most positive people I follow on RU-vid. I watched Abbey Sharp’s video before this one, and it honestly made me feel a bit icky. I love your response and how graciously you have handled the situation. Thanks for being such a positive force on the internet!

My mom always had us so these type of steam facials when we were little and congested. We added a drop or 2 of rosemary and eucalyptus essential oils to the water and it really helped. Hope you’re feeling better Sanne!

I have VERY mixed feelings about Abbey Sharp. I think she can provide some great information and background behind nutrition, but despite this great information... I found myself being pretty unimpressed with how condescending and judgmental she can be. I completely support your channel; you have such a great energy. The obvious click-bait and pettiness of critiquing your journaling... yikes.

When Abbey got triggered by Sanne simply living her life, drinking a matcha and called that unrealistic..

Love how understanding and forgiving you are like when you said 'yeah....makes sense' I love your chill and loving attitude

Totally agree with you Sanne, i love spreading positivity and love too, if i don't agree with someone i'd just skip their video instead of posting a video and criticizing them for an hour. We love you for being beautiful inside and out ❤❤

Sanne, every morning the first thing when I wake up is to watch your vedio. I like them so much is not because what you said is right or wrong. It is the vibes that you transfer to everyone. Your vibes is my morning matcha.

Your response to the video is great and shows what a great, loving person you are. ❤️ You stay with yourself in your videos instead of using your videos to criticize others. Keep up the good work. 🥰

Go Sanne! I love ❤️ your personality. You always give me good positive vibes. Your videos are very inspiring and warm. Be yourself and keep doing what you’re doing. Love 💕 you!!

I love your coffee talks! I watch them when I’m getting ready and I’m already looking forward to the next one :) p.s. your parents home is gorgeous!! 😍

Miss the field! I studied in Utrecht for 5 years. It just reminds me of all things happened in the past five years in the Netherlands.

Yesss sanne I love the way you handled this situation, being the beautiful soul that you are I expected nothing less❤️

Sick or not you always look so beautiful. Hope you are feeling better and enjoy your time back home❤️❤️

Hee Sanne😊Super video, heel mooi hoe jij met deze situatie omgaat! Daar kan iedereen van leren❤Keep up the good work! Je bent geweldig❤Heel veel liefs uit Rotterdam😘

I like Abby because she is actively helping people sift through good and bad health choices that may land them in the hospital. So for that, she is very important and I am grateful that she exists. And I love your content because even though you are not a dietitian, you respect food and your relationship with it as well. Many models on here and influencers are so dangerous. Both of you are valid and it would be extremely nice if Abby could be kinder when your content is so free of being rude or being mean. Maybe after this Abby will understand where she was wrong. I have hope!

I never comment on videos. Ever. But I felt a need to reach out and reassure you that no one that watches your channel misunderstands your intentions. Abby is good when she sticks to providing helpful nutritional information and tips. I would watch her channel more often if she stuck to doing that. I don’t know why she feels a need to occasionally become a judgemental Mean Girl in some segments of her videos. It makes them hard to watch, especially when she tries to do a valley girl impression. You were very polite in your response, so I will say what you can’t: 1) you promote healthy, nutritious home cooked meals - it’s hypocritical of her to critique people’s diet and recipes while accepting sponsorship and promoting Built bars, the ultimate processed food. 2) you provide great free workouts on your channel, probably doing more for more people’s health than Abby will with negativity on her channel. 3) you are a businessperson and a brand and part of your brand is your aspirational lifestyle. Everyone understands this and we tune in to watch you doing things that would normally be done in private. Why should filming yourself journaling spark such a diatribe? That’s you creating content. Is Abby telling me it is normal for her to be eating Protein bars while dancing in front of a camera? Ahem…I think not. I know it’s hard to shrug off negativity but please remember that you have a lot of silent supporters like me who normally do not comment but come to your channel for your lovely personality and toxic-free zone.

Love how you did the same thumbnail face as her 😂

Sanne you are so eloquent in your response, love this about you 💕

I love your channel because of how positive and genuine you are, and how you are always working towards being the best version of yourself. I never feel like you are giving health advice to your viewers - you're just sharing what you've learned and what has helped you. It never feels staged for views. It's just you bringing us along for an authentic day in your life. I struggle with depression and you've inspired me to love myself, be grateful for my health, and take better care of myself even when I'm feeling exhausted and unmotivated and hating myself and my body. From your example I learned to focus more on being healthy than on weight. I appreciate you being the bigger person in your response to her video. That kind of positivity is hard to find on social media these days. (although I do love Cody Ko videos too 😄) I'm so glad I found your channel a few years back! Keep being your genuinely beautiful self and don't let any negativity distract you from the positive influence you have had on so many people! 💕

Abbey always bangs on about diets not being perfect but then shades people for not having a perfect nutritionally complete day…

Hi Sanne! :) I just wanted to say that I enjoy your videos very much and I appreciate how authentic you are and how calming and positive. Especially that I am going through cancer right now, it helps a lot. I know this is not always easy, but I love watching your content, I love getting inspired with your outfits and recipes and whenever I feel a bit down, your videos motivate me to get back up and feel better. It is sometimes the simple things in life that can make us happy. Hope you have a good rest at home :) Greetings from Antibes :)

I follow Abbey’s Kitchen and follow you as well. I don’t always blindly agree with everything anyone says. We need to be discerning and not accept all on the internet. Stay true to yourself, Sanne.💕

I'm having SUCH a hard time watching the clips of this lady. It's sending such negative vibes through my skin, agh! Sanne, keep doing what you're doing! You are so genuine and kind and caring, we love you and the things that you share, it makes us feel good and happy! Sharing the activities that you do each day helps us find ways to incorporate them into our own lives when trying to find a more peaceful method of living, so thank you for that. We love how relatable you are, keep it up! ☺🌸🧡

Salut Sanne, get well soon. I hope you're feeling better?💕I love ☕ talk. 😍

I love how you handle feedbacks. Love from Philippines 💜

I write ALL your recipies down...you inspire me so much to be healthier and to practice self care. Keep doing you, love from Ireland 💖💖💖

I don’t think Abbey meant harm. I like u both. Also remember u. Don’t live an 8 to5 job. Some ppl don’t have that time.perhaps 95%. Of regular ppl don have thee means Orr the time. Ur wonderful as is she.

video suggestions: - living Max’s life for a day - workouts of the week - wedding planning(?)

Finally somebody calling out Abby! I 100% agree with you, there are better ways to address what she is saying about other’s peoples diet! We should all respect our way of living and eating!

Sanne, you are such a sweetheart💕 I think you responded to Abby in the best and kindest way. I love what you share on your channel and that you are always trying to be your best self. You stay in your own lane and you are such a great example!💖✨ I'm so sorry you're sick and I hope you get well soon! Sending you lots of love and good vibes✨💛✨💛✨💛✨

I love everything you put out. Always real and positive.

Sanne, your videos are great, and there is a lot of misinformation about nutrition between health specialists as well, many of the studies are sponsored by big companies. So, we need to do what feels the best for us, we are all individuals, and no single diet will be ideal for everyone, but you are here to inspire others and that is what matters.

One more reason to love you Sanne! Good for you!✨

Haha! Your reaction to her video of you made me laugh. 😆. I’ve watched you for several years now and you never seem inauthentic. And the audience will see through that if you were. Keep shining your light😊, you encourage me to be a kinder person. 💛

Te juro que tu bocadillo, és mi bocadillo favorito desde que vi tu receta 🤤 porfavor sigue mostrándonos recetas! Las amo 😍❤️

Yes! I would love to see that, and kudos to you for addressing the video.

You are so kind. The first time I watched you I made an unkind comment about you (based on fears about myself, and found later to be true). After a few videos I realized how kind you are, and never made another. You are young, but a great example to everyone of all ages, including myself. You are a good person. I love your food btw, and believe everyone has certain needs for their body that may not suit others. I need to eat raw and with little meat or packaged food to feel well, so I love your recipes.

You are the cutest! Love you Sanne and that video topic popped up on my feed I was sure I am not even keen to know what she said, get better soon xxx

I think people forget that the fact that being certified, a dietitian, does not mean that person is worth following/trusting. It’s about what the person represents with their lifestyle (including mindset), that matters, this is why I follow you and would rather take inspiration from you than Abbey the dietitian (being a nutritionist myself!) 💕

Thank you for being you and so passionate about true healthy and nature.

Good for you, we love you Sanne..keep doing you!!

The way you react, dear Sanne, is so mature and reflective !

I absolutely love you Sanne! You are so authentic and sweet so never change:)

there's something 'self righteous' about the way she reacts to people's diets. considering that her entire content consists of other people's content you'd think she'd be more respectful and less patronizing

I also caught the flu, I wish you all the best. Your house in the Netherlands is going to be amazing!

so homey and calm - really loved this video!! 🤍

I really wanna visit the Netherlands one day! Such a beautiful place! 🥰

Hey Sanne, I really appreciate your perspective and would love to have a professional light hearted conversation. I am always interested in collaborating and supporting other creators I respect. Please let me know the best way to reach you so we can chat! :)

Ah Sanne, je bent zo een fijn persoon om naar te luisteren en kijken, love je video's en het lijkt me echt amazing als je samen met Abbey de keuken in duikt! En blijf vooral lekker jezelf en deze fijne video's en weekvlogs vind ik altijd heerlijk om te kijken! Wordt er oprecht helemaal rustig van haha! Liefs vanuit Leiden!

You are just a beautiful soul, You handled this so well!! I love you even more.. best wishes

Ur perfect i share ur video with my kids all the time you are my favorite thank u for all the amazing recipes and tips 🙏

When she posted the video I was already a bit put off by the title. And in general I feel like she scrutinizes individuals so much on her channel while trying to tell everyone what is healthy when in fact I feel like it just is psychologically worse what she’s doing when talking about food… I don’t know just my opinion & great video!! 🥰🥰 and get better soon

Saane, Thank you for the support. It's so appreciated.😊❤

You are 100% class, elegance, beauty and everything else positive and beauty in this world! I'm SO happy to have found your channel. Your food is absolutely mouth watering! xo

I love you and your kind spirit! Don't let anyone - especially this Abby person - get you down!!! xoxoxoxo

Hallo Sanne, I am myself in Europe and sick for 2 days now, there must be a nasty cold going on and I am staying home from work as well. Wish you a speedy recovery, in between just pamper yourself!

I always steamed like that!Took me years back..Hope you are getting well very soon⚘

I completely agree about them starting their youtube video with a sponsored ad from a company that makes chemical filled protein bars! Very hypocritical and confusing for someone who is looking for diet advice! I love your response to this, so genuine and honest. You keep doing you!

I am glad you are addressing this person. I noticed a while back that she had posted some negative things about you, and I was shocked! A nutritionist who is a genuinely concerned professional would not have the time or choose RU-vid as a platform to trash someone. You are so graceful and sweet concerning this woman. She needs to find other things to do. God, she seems so unhappy-commenting negatively about you journaling?? Really??!! How absurd!! You are wonderful, sweet, beautiful and just precious. It really made me sad at my heart to know someone actually made such a video towards someone like you. Do not ever take anything she, or anyone like her says to heart ♥️

Love this video! You are such a class act. I would love to see a house tour! I am trying to get inspiration for my own place and it would be really helpful. You and your family have great taste!

Gentle, kind, and lovely. Feel better!!!!!

I also don’t understand why she is OBSESSED with making sure every single meal has the perfect combination of fats/carbs/protein. Idk everything about Abbey Sharp gets on my nerves lol

Yes you said what I've always been thinking! And what Abbey stands for is great, but publicly shaming for clicks is not it. Her reviews don't show consistency as well, she seems to pick and choose who she will side with regardless of their diet. No idea how someone could make morning journaling a negative thing too 😂