Тёмный

Committing Career Suicide With Two Words 

Rick Beato
Подписаться 4,2 млн
Просмотров 2,1 млн
50% 1

In this episode I tell an incredibly embarrassing story that I have never spoken of on this channel.
📚 The Beato Bundle Sale - $99 FOR ALL OF Rick's Courses: ⇢ rickbeato.com
📘- The Beato Book Interactive - $99.00 value
🎸 - Beato Beginner Guitar - $159.00 value
👂- The Beato Ear Training Program - $99.00 value
🎸- The Quick Lessons Pro Guitar Course - $79.00 value
… all for just $99.00
Get it here: rickbeato.com
New Dates Just Announced!
Atlanta - Sept 28 Variety Playhouse - bit.ly/3OUMJsI
NYC - Oct 17 Gramercy Theater - livemu.sc/3CdE3pD
Stockholm, Sweden - July 22nd at the Södra Teatern.
secure.tickster.com/zz5ptehxe...
Berlin, Germany - October 28 at Passionskirche.
www.ticketmaster.de/event/ric...
My Beato Club supporters:
Justin Scott
Terence Mark
Farren Mahjoor
Jason Murray
Lucienne Kilpatrick
Alexander Young
Jason Wagner
Todd Ladner
Rob Kline
Nicholas Long
Tim Benson
Leonardo Martins da Costa Rodrigues
Eddie Perez
David Solomon
MICHAEL JOYCE
Stephen Stubbs
colin stead
Jonathan Wentworth-Linton
Patrick Payne
MATTHEW KARIS
Matthew Barouch
Shaun Samuels
Danny Kurywchak
Gregory Reedy
Sean Coleman
Alexander Verbitskiy
CL Turner
Jason Pappafotis
John Fulford
Margaret Carno
Robert C
David M Combs
Eric Flatt
Reto Spoerli
Herr Moritz Adam
Monte St. Johns
Jon Beezley
Peter DeVault
Eric Nabstedt
Eric Beggs
Rich Germano
Brian Bloom
Peter Pillitteri

Видеоклипы

Опубликовано:

 

20 июн 2023

Поделиться:

Ссылка:

Скачать:

Готовим ссылку...

Добавить в:

Мой плейлист
Посмотреть позже
Комментарии : 8 тыс.   
@KevinKeith
@KevinKeith 10 месяцев назад
I was a synthesizer repair tech in Phoenix, Az in the mid 90's. One day a guy comes into the shop stressed out because he had a session and his keyboard was down. I was completely swamped with work and was at least a week away from being able to get to it but I had been in his shoes before so I asked him what the problem was. When he described the problem I told him to hand me the keyboard because I knew it just needed a hardware reset. I reset the keyboard, told him no charge even though he insisted on paying. The next day he came in with a letter of recommendation but I didn't realize he was a major music producer. Three years later I moved to LA and was interviewing for a job with Neve Audio Consoles. I passed all the tech tests but I was unknown and they needed a character reference. When I handed them the letter they reached out to the producer "because they knew him very well". He gave me a glowing review and I was hired at Neve. That job changed my life because I met everyone in the biz. It led to mix gigs, tech work and a music production contract with Warner Brothers. Be good to people because it's the right thing to do. Follow that and everything else takes care of itself.
@harrisleck3960
@harrisleck3960 10 месяцев назад
"Be good to people because it's the right thing to do." Nailed it!
@Takyodor2
@Takyodor2 10 месяцев назад
Nice to hear a positive story, so many of the comments are filled with regret :)
@joshuabuena8049
@joshuabuena8049 10 месяцев назад
Your kindness is inspiring.
@TMats100
@TMats100 10 месяцев назад
Just. Right.
@martynh5410
@martynh5410 10 месяцев назад
Did you ever work on the Neve board at Sound City studios? I just realized you moved to LA way after that board was acquired by the Nirvana drummer guy.
@paulgehres2796
@paulgehres2796 11 месяцев назад
As a matter of policy - never trash talk anyone at anytime in public. You never know who is listening.
@BillPeschel
@BillPeschel 11 месяцев назад
And it doesn't have to be the person you're trashing. The story WILL get back to them.
@nielshoogev1
@nielshoogev1 11 месяцев назад
That's a good policy. I try to live up to this one as well: Never say anything about someone that you wouldn't say to them directly.
@Merseyrock
@Merseyrock 11 месяцев назад
True. Even if they choose not to take it up against you, it is still in poor taste to do so.
@HIGHHOPES
@HIGHHOPES 11 месяцев назад
LOL very weak policy
@pitpride1220
@pitpride1220 11 месяцев назад
Yup, free speech isn't freedom from consequence.
@diplenski
@diplenski 6 месяцев назад
Don’t trash talk, don’t get wasted, be professional, be more discerning about the company you keep. Plenty of good lessons.
@user-pm8je4fo7e
@user-pm8je4fo7e 5 месяцев назад
So, basically don't be a rock star. Got it!
@dad1432
@dad1432 5 месяцев назад
This applies to all of life, seriously. Speak whatever good you can about others, and word gets around.
@xrxs1020
@xrxs1020 5 месяцев назад
@@dad1432 A wise man, I forget his name, said ''Do unto others that which you'd like done to you.''
@RainbowGhostOverdrive
@RainbowGhostOverdrive 5 месяцев назад
Two words for carrer suicide? He could just have done it with one like N word lmao
@sideskroll
@sideskroll 5 месяцев назад
I always got wasted. ALWAYS. In fact, thats one of the things I miss the most about the "band life". That and chicks 😅
@Laura-lh6sm
@Laura-lh6sm 4 месяца назад
Trashing Creed was definitely wrong, but an apology should have sufficed. Seeking vengeance against a smaller band, hurting them every time they could for who knows how long is immature, it’s lame and it shows how insecure they were. What you did to them was stupid, but what they did to you was appalling and shameful.
@Dacre1000
@Dacre1000 Месяц назад
Yes. Thank you. Seems you are one of the few here who got that. Nobody came out very well here.
@OndaPiloto
@OndaPiloto Месяц назад
I was going to write something similar, one thing is not to help them and another is to hurt them at every time they could. Billionaires were immature and stupid, but the other were huge assholes. From one thing you learn, the other I don’t think can be changed
@RonJohn63
@RonJohn63 Месяц назад
Don't rely on other people's benevolence (especially if you've trashed them *multiple times.)*
@Laura-lh6sm
@Laura-lh6sm Месяц назад
@@RonJohn63 it’s not about benevolence, it’s about these guys making a mistake and Creed dedicating their lives to seek revenge and purposely hurting someone smaller than them forever and ever because they made one mistake.
@Laura-lh6sm
@Laura-lh6sm Месяц назад
@@metallikat05 I don’t remember him saying the Creed didn’t know anything about it. If you have your agent pulling this kind of crap on your behalf for years and you have no clue this is going on, then you have even bigger issues and you’re still responsible for what your agent did on your behalf. Edit: not “the Creed”, that Creed*
@MarkPossin
@MarkPossin 11 месяцев назад
Here's a motto to live by- "Be nice to people when you're on your way up and maybe they'll be nice to you when you're on your way down". Great story, Rick.
@Trepanation21
@Trepanation21 11 месяцев назад
Damn. That's something to really contemplate.
@theboomers420
@theboomers420 11 месяцев назад
Trombone Shorty sings a song about this very thing !!!
@c.d.woodbury7806
@c.d.woodbury7806 11 месяцев назад
The hand you bite on the way up is attached to the butt you have to kiss on the way down.
@georgehopper7310
@georgehopper7310 11 месяцев назад
The other one would be "Be careful. The toes you step on today may be attached to the ass you will be kissing tomorrow."
@NothingNowhere-vu5oq
@NothingNowhere-vu5oq 11 месяцев назад
That's an Ozzy Osbourne quote. Have the decency to give him the credit.
@ardeet
@ardeet 11 месяцев назад
This is not just a music story, it’s life advice.
@johnn.2017
@johnn.2017 10 месяцев назад
When a friend of mine was in Art school, they did a thing where the students critiqued each other's work. He apparently was so harsh that he made a girl cry. Years later, guess who was the curator of a museum that he had been (unsuccessfully) trying to get a show at?
@jamesslick4790
@jamesslick4790 10 месяцев назад
@@johnn.2017 👍👍
@dahawk8574
@dahawk8574 10 месяцев назад
It's more than advice. It's my creed.
@bryandale7125
@bryandale7125 10 месяцев назад
So what you're saying is the ego of the little immature boys from the band Creed got their feelings hurt from you telling the truth about them being alcoholics, so instead of accepting this reality and changing their ways, they took out their anger on you by trying to destroy your career? How pathetically sad little boys they are.
@america1st721
@america1st721 10 месяцев назад
If you believe what your saying then say it. If this was a drunk saying it, then the rest of the band should have stopped him or apologized on stage and spoke directly to "creed" to resolve any issues.
@tlb2732
@tlb2732 5 месяцев назад
I have an unrelated but heartwarming story. In the early 2000's, my band opened for Country artist Toby Keith at the county fair near our hometown. He was riding high on a string of hit songs and was very popular at the time. Our set went very well and was well received. We had learned a lot by then and knew how to get the audience pumped up for the headliner. We were flattered when we noticed members of Toby's band had came around and were watching us. As was usually the case, we had reserved stage side seats for ourselves and our families to enjoy the show. When the encore reached it's end, Toby left the stage as the band played on for several more minutes. After the applause, the musicians all proceeded backstage, except for one. Guitarist Rich Eckhardt placed his guitar on the stand and walked over to our side of the stage. He introduced himself and congratulated us on a great set and sat down on the edge of the stage and started talking to our three children. I think they were ages 12, 14, and 16 at the time. He noticed me looking at his gear and invited me to go up and try his rig out. By this time, I'd realized that he was homesick. Not wanting to be disrespectful of his offer, I climbed up and looked over his guitars and gear. But as much as I wanted to, I didn't play his guitar. I didn't want to interupt his conversation with my family. He was interested in their school experiences and the sports they were involved in, if they were in the school band, their interests and aspirations and such. After talking for the better part of an hour, the crew, having broken down and stowed the backline gear, yelled to tell him that they were pulling out. By this time, the crowd had all left and most of the lights in the grandstands had been shut off. He told my kids and wife and me goodbye, and I could see in his eyes as he turned to leave that while my kids gained a memory they'll never forget, maybe he got a much needed taste of home and family to raise his spirits for the rest of the Summer fair season.
@lifeinlimbo2186
@lifeinlimbo2186 3 месяца назад
Fantastic experience and thank you for sharing.
@nicodio2709
@nicodio2709 3 месяца назад
R.I.P. Mr. Keith ⛅🙏
@pbenson56fran
@pbenson56fran 2 месяца назад
Aw, that was a beautiful story.
@mv9787
@mv9787 17 дней назад
You are a good human clearly, because you value good things and share them ❤ God bless you 🙏🏻
@DodgeDartSongs
@DodgeDartSongs 6 месяцев назад
That kind of negativity never looks good on the person committing it and, as your story so vividly conveys, the consequences can be a lot worse.
@mayorofthenonsense
@mayorofthenonsense 10 месяцев назад
The one thing I really noticed about Rick’s channel is that he never, ever, ever says anything negative about anyone. Now we know why..
@SayAhh
@SayAhh 10 месяцев назад
He even says good things about Guns and Roses' music just that he doesn't understand why they refuse to allow their music to be appreciated by others.
@rexwave4624
@rexwave4624 10 месяцев назад
Watching Rick on David Bendeth’s remix contest of The Warning’s song, Money, I got the impression that Rick is underwhelmed by The Warning, but he never said anything negative. This video is a great lesson!
@pfelice157
@pfelice157 10 месяцев назад
Well... he did make a video called "The Latest Top 10 Is...Sh*t" and he was absolutely right. I think he calls it like he sees it but genuinely tries to see the positive aspects when it's feasible.
@tankthelord1178
@tankthelord1178 10 месяцев назад
Yup.
@dominikaksiazek7177
@dominikaksiazek7177 10 месяцев назад
@@pfelice157 even in those "Latest Top 10..." videos Rick talks about positive aspects first. He tries to find something cool in almost every song. I'd love to have the same outlook on life.
@KillerBill1953
@KillerBill1953 11 месяцев назад
I remember reading about Jimi Hendrix and his love for watching other guitarists play and hearing them. The writer stated that he always had something good to say about every one of them, no matter how bad they were. I believe the real take from your story is don't trash anyone.
@thabilsterone
@thabilsterone 11 месяцев назад
Right On!
@uremawifenowdave
@uremawifenowdave 11 месяцев назад
He also used to like to rip the piss out of guitarists too. He once singled out Eric Clapton and asked if he could come up and tune his guitar for him after he debuted a rendition of “Sgt. Pepper’s” on stage. And what about his run-in with Pete Townsend backstage at Monterey Pop Festival about who would go on stage first? Townsend told him The Who were going to “leave a wound” on the US music scene. The Who won the coin toss, went on stage and Townsend smashed up the stage. Jimi upstaged them by fucking his amp with a guitar and then setting it on fire. Baller move😂
@AC5SH
@AC5SH 11 месяцев назад
I suspect that Jimi honestly did find something good about almost every player to emulate. Being the guy who is always learning is the way a guitar monster's skills are built :)
@irubberyouglueonethousand5384
@irubberyouglueonethousand5384 11 месяцев назад
“dont trash anyone” 💯💯💯
@ltfringr
@ltfringr 11 месяцев назад
The trick is you just wait until you get home to trash talk, only nice stuff at the gig. Theatre people do this too I think.
@Spetsnazty
@Spetsnazty 6 месяцев назад
That’s actually awesome. I love that. I’m sorry it happened to you but the story is pure gold.
@danlentino5885
@danlentino5885 5 месяцев назад
Great Story Rick and equally great advice! Every band I manage, especially my own band, as well as well all the artists I have ever mentored, I have a saying or advice that I give them. "We never speak badly about, or criticize another entertainer, artist, musician or anyone associated with the industry." Love listening to you and watching your channel. Thank You!
@TheDeadTheories
@TheDeadTheories 10 месяцев назад
A couple of band mates blew our chance with two words as well. I was in a band in my early 20s and we did a battle of the bands. Turns out the whole thing was a publicity stunt for one of the bands which was signed. Well, even though they “won,” we packed the house and brought it down. After the show, the manager of the signed band(and father of the singer) approached us and wanted to get us hooked up with an agent from his company(Epic Records). He asked us one simple question, and I knew it was to test how well we could handle ourselves. “What did you think of the winning act?” And without missing a beat, one of the guys said, “they sucked.” I knew right there that he had blown our shot. We never heard from him again.
@kazkylheku1221
@kazkylheku1221 10 месяцев назад
This is not the same thing at all. That guy was just a wanker who couldn't handle honesty. From some rockers in their early 20s, too. He asked for an opinion and he got it, in a private exchange. Probably, you might have dodged a bullet there.
@ambientrelaxingandhealingm7552
@ambientrelaxingandhealingm7552 10 месяцев назад
Another great cautionary tale about not burning bridges (although, I hope you'll read my parting sentence/paragraph, below). I'm curious, not saying this would be the right answer, but I wonder how it would've went over if the dude who said "they sucked," instead had said something like "Well, to be honest, I can't speak for the rest of the members of my band, but I personally feel that the winning band had possibly won due to it being part of a publicity plan, etc. That said, however, their skills are damned excellent. They are indeed an epic band." I wonder if the manager would have appreciated the honesty and considered signing them. There is another point to the story though: this manager was part of this unethical publicity stunt. So would one want to do business with a manager like that anyway? Maybe your bandmate did your band a favor in the long run. Hard to say.
@michaelbacchiocchi8111
@michaelbacchiocchi8111 10 месяцев назад
Mama always taught me if you don’t have something nice to say about someone don’t say it at all
@wellesradio
@wellesradio 10 месяцев назад
@@ambientrelaxingandhealingm7552”This s manager was part of this unethical publicity stunt.” I don’t know what kind of world you live in, but “unethical” is a word best left to medicine, academia, and law. Not the weekly battle of the bands or pub quiz. The point of these events is exposure and this OP’s band got this, and it seems OP was even grateful for it. Fact of the matter is that any sane band would DEFINITELYwant that kind of manager. “You mean, he could set up exhibition events for us like this, too? Sign me up
@Imw101
@Imw101 10 месяцев назад
George Martin: " Is there anything you don't like?' George Harrison: "Well, for a start I don't like your tie." And THAT is why the world never got to hear of The Beatles.
@CaptainBakerJason
@CaptainBakerJason 11 месяцев назад
The lesson actually seems to be that professionals need never speak ill of their peers, no good comes from it. It goes along with other aspects of professionalism, and is too often overcome by ego, jealousy, resentment and other human frailties.
@RockandRollWoman
@RockandRollWoman 11 месяцев назад
A lesson John Lennon could have used.
@anthonyc1883
@anthonyc1883 11 месяцев назад
@@RockandRollWoman Right?!? lol. I'm from the classic rock era and always marveled at bands or individual musicians from back then that had bad things to say about others.Seems like Blackmore pretty much hated everyone, Zeppelin made fun of Jethro Tull, Joe Perry was dismissive of EVH, etc. etc. But I guess it's partly because they were young(ish), very competitive and had a lot of testosterone flowing.
@vitordelima
@vitordelima 11 месяцев назад
Creed still sucks though. I just listen to music so I'm supposed to be allowed to say it.
@stoneysdead689
@stoneysdead689 11 месяцев назад
LOL- This is rock and roll, not Dr. Phil. Countless professionals, many of which went on to become super successful, talked smack about their peers. I'm not saying anything great happened for them as a result- but it didn't derail their career or anything like that. This was a petty manager with an ego problem. Most managers would totally understand that you shouldn't hold something like that against the whole band- nor let it affect you to the point you would spend actual effort and time trying to harm them in some way professionally. Besides- Creed did suck- Rick's band apparently knew that before the rest of us- but we caught up.
@jonolacy2644
@jonolacy2644 11 месяцев назад
I don’t know, Noel Gallagher made a nice side career off it. It can work for some…but is Ill advised.
@jaijeffcom
@jaijeffcom 6 месяцев назад
Teaching through parable and with humility and candor. A generous and masterful telling of a story made unforgettable. Not only is it a watchword about grace and consideration, it demonstrates that after a lapse of those qualities it is never too late to make amends and to forgive.
@klikkr
@klikkr Месяц назад
The central lesson is probably: stay away from alcohol, no matter what.
@jeffreysalzman1497
@jeffreysalzman1497 11 месяцев назад
One of the best lessons I ever got at music school was in my music business class. The teacher had us name all the people involved in a live performance at a bar. The band, the owner, the manager, the waitresses the janitor were all listed as participants. Then he asked, which of these people is the least important. Some answered the janitor some answered the waitresses, but the music teacher said no. The band is the least important, a single word from the janitor or a waitress to the owner could lose the band any future gigs. It was a very valuable lesson in humility.
@Cobra-ky9bt
@Cobra-ky9bt 11 месяцев назад
Powerful. That's a good lesson to remember.
@pamelah6431
@pamelah6431 10 месяцев назад
That owner has a high opinion of his janitor.
@LoserHands
@LoserHands 10 месяцев назад
​@@pamelah6431if there were needles in the bathroom or some other incredible mess, the janitor tells you that... The boss associates the bands they invite with the crowds that come in to see them.
@adamabele785
@adamabele785 Месяц назад
Yes, that is absolutely true. There are so many things that a band depends on, especially when things do not work out as planned.
@JimVincitore
@JimVincitore 11 месяцев назад
My guitar teacher back about 1995, a 40 year old Italian guy that played clubs forever and I think still does, told me "Don't have drunks in the band because they only get worse when you start playing clubs."
@robertmessing6846
@robertmessing6846 11 месяцев назад
or Junkies
@dr.juerdotitsgo5119
@dr.juerdotitsgo5119 11 месяцев назад
As an alcoholic myself, this is absolutely true. I f*cked up my bandmates so many times I lost count, and that's when I actually showed up to the gig, and was not passed out somewhere. I would also add: never keep screw-ups in the band just because they are your friends.
@PaulXPZ
@PaulXPZ 11 месяцев назад
Idk, Metallica turned out alright :))
@JimVincitore
@JimVincitore 11 месяцев назад
@@PaulXPZ I read back in the 90's there are 10,000 bands in just LA trying to make it. Do you want to risk/ruin your music career because of a drug addict or alcoholic. Of course not. Would you pay a guy to fix your car transmission while he was plastered? Or worse yet, operate on your broken leg...LOL! Nothing wrong with partying, we all party, even those guys in suits party hard, but...big difference between partying and a drug addict or alcoholic. I partied pretty hard when I was young, but I always made it to work and gave it 100%.
@dangibb1329
@dangibb1329 11 месяцев назад
​​@@PaulXPZThe band is huge, famous, and successful, but I wouldn't trade my life for any one of those guys'. They are all phucked up! In the immortal words of Garth Brooks, " I thank God for unanswered prayers".
@MrTeamZissou
@MrTeamZissou 7 месяцев назад
The two words weren’t “Creed sucks”, they were “we can’t” when first offered the opening gig.
@Canleaf08
@Canleaf08 4 месяца назад
My recent carreer at a software project ended after three years when I worked during a in person event. Either my people would have rolled off if I hadn't worked and missed the deadline or they rolled me off for working. It is heart breaking. You can be very hard working but never ever disrespect your clients by working in meetings and try to leave with bridges intact as possible. It didn't matter that I was booked for another year. Currently recovering in Arizona from my mistake, next year will another chance in a new project. Being rejected last minute and "taken off the main stage" feels me like so many times. But mistakes are to learn from. Happy new year.
@hughmcevoy4119
@hughmcevoy4119 10 месяцев назад
I admire your courage in telling that story to 3.54M people.
@JS-jo3wj
@JS-jo3wj 10 месяцев назад
It really makes me wonder if he ever talked about this with Scott or connected with Mark Tremonti at any point
@jensenraylight8011
@jensenraylight8011 10 месяцев назад
@@JS-jo3wj should just gave the guy who trash talked the band as an offering, or let him do humilliating thing in public as an apology to makes things right again it just such a wasted potential and time from one single screwed act
@alexandermacdougall7873
@alexandermacdougall7873 10 месяцев назад
Technically he didn't.
@matteorebeschi6824
@matteorebeschi6824 10 месяцев назад
Courage? Ever heard of water under the bridge? Decades have passed, why should Rick care at this point?
@jlo9993
@jlo9993 10 месяцев назад
3.55 now
@markleigh530
@markleigh530 10 месяцев назад
I'm a bass player and a painter. Never, ever, criticise another artist. The world and the media will do that. They are putting it out there and that takes moral courage. Respect that, as a fellow artist who is doing the same and running the same risks.
@JHimminy
@JHimminy 10 месяцев назад
Mike Patton disagrees 😮
@DylanWOWilliams
@DylanWOWilliams 10 месяцев назад
As a fellow artist(filmmaker and music producer) I actually agree with most of what you said except for the moral courage statement. Most artists I’ve worked with are narcissists and put their art out there out of a sense of entitlement. I don’t respect that. To them moral courage would be staying with their spouse and raising their kids, or to call their mom or dad and save that relationship. There was a season where I had to put my art way out on the back burner. That’s more courage that letting my family starve while I try to make my career happen. I’m still struggling, but now I’m doing it with a road map and providing for my family.
@JamesRichardsPlays
@JamesRichardsPlays 10 месяцев назад
I don't agree. Constructive criticism is fine. Outright trash-talking and insults is unacceptable. I've been in a couple bands, helped produce demos for a few more and helped find talent for one. In my one failed band, I should have taken criticism to heart more. I would probably be more successful of it. Several local artists were always offering constructive criticism and feedback. We were all looking out for each other.
@DylanWOWilliams
@DylanWOWilliams 10 месяцев назад
@@JamesRichardsPlays That’s how it should be. Art isn’t as subjective as people want it to be. There is objectively bad art.
@maxi-me
@maxi-me 10 месяцев назад
Lets hope we've fully established once and for all what _IS_ objectively bad cause it's all academic now... AI is fixing to turn creative autonomy over to the talentless masses like it's candy crush
@LongDogRacing
@LongDogRacing 2 месяца назад
This is why your content is gold, Rick. I have no doubt that Billionaire would have been a great long-lasting band, but its the culmination of all our experiences that makes the man, and I, for one, am happy (in light of your current success, of course) to have your reflection as a lesson of my own.
@ThePopOptic100
@ThePopOptic100 11 месяцев назад
"It takes 20 years to build a reputation and five minutes to ruin it. If you think about that, you'll do things differently." - Warren Buffett
@mattcostello1200
@mattcostello1200 10 месяцев назад
Someone once gave me the advice, "Be careful what you say, you never know what job you're interviewing for." That advice has always stuck with me. Thank you for sharing your life experience.
@Eastsidetalker
@Eastsidetalker 10 месяцев назад
Excellent to keep in mind. Or, could someday be your neighbor.
@Vanity0666
@Vanity0666 10 месяцев назад
All this tells me is that I get to say whatever I want because I work for myself
@Dowlphin
@Dowlphin 10 месяцев назад
Investigative journalist maybe. 😉
@DirtyDan720
@DirtyDan720 10 месяцев назад
Always be nice to the people going down the escalator when your going up. You never know which side you’ll be on when you see them again. How bout people just learn to respect people just to respect people what the f**k ever happened to the golden rule?
@thedubwhisperer2157
@thedubwhisperer2157 10 месяцев назад
And never say or write anything in private you would not say to a person's face...
@nerkbaker
@nerkbaker 2 месяца назад
Rick, you are a teacher on so many levels! Great lesson !! No trash talk ….. you NEVER know who is listening!
@forestlittke4649
@forestlittke4649 4 месяца назад
I simply love these little stories.....keep them coming!
@fmmaj9noname332
@fmmaj9noname332 10 месяцев назад
One guitar teacher used to sell his Top Ten Tips For Guitarists on cassette (and then CD). One of his tips for guitarists was never to trash other guitarists. "If you're stabbing someone in the back, you're behind them. The guys in the front don't have anyone to trash." Insulting other musicians makes you look small, jealous and petty. True top performers aren't jealous, and don't need to trash others to make themselves look good.
@glentz716
@glentz716 8 месяцев назад
I will say this though. Eddie Van Halen is mostly remembered as a very sweet friendly guy, but I can remember him trashing other guitarists in the 80's in magazine interviews. It was always a bad look, especially when it was guys who idolized him.
@aldito7586
@aldito7586 7 месяцев назад
Very well said. What's the point anyway?
@AL_1991
@AL_1991 6 месяцев назад
oh so deep lololol
@GPS.GhostPirateSloan
@GPS.GhostPirateSloan 5 месяцев назад
Speaking of petty… how about that agent of Creed??
@Pocketnotes-sq2gk
@Pocketnotes-sq2gk 5 месяцев назад
Not true. Even Clapton admitted being jealous of George Harrison. Jealousy is around the corner in everybody, it doesn't matter who you are..... if one is big enough to admit it... that's another thing
@TimmBieryMusic
@TimmBieryMusic 10 месяцев назад
Great story, Rick! I can TOTALLY relate. In 1980, I was in a heavy rock group that was just starting to open for larger bands in arenas. We were always struggling to keep up with whatever tour we were on; we had a silver Econoline while the headliners had Silver Eagles. The road manager of one particular group really went out of his way to look after us, making sure we had good food, soundchecks if possible, and decent dressing rooms. One night, I asked him why he was so good to us when so many other road managers had been, shall we say, not good to us. He said "I'm nice to EVERYONE. The last band I fucked turned out to be Van Halen." Fast forward 2 years and I was now playing with a headlining band. One night, we were waiting at DFW airport for a new lighting designer to show up. As soon as he arrived, I burst out laughing - it was the aforementioned road manager, now an LD! We had a hug and I reminded him of what he told me. He said "See? If I'd fucked you then you'd make my life miserable now." A valuable lesson learned. A little kindness lasts a lifetime. Cheers!
@beatweezl
@beatweezl 10 месяцев назад
The sad part of your story is that the manager had learned to be kind 1. because it could benefit him in the long run and 2. he lost out on the benefit from the lesson itself. My point is, why can't we just be kind for kindness' sake?
@donaldaxel
@donaldaxel 10 месяцев назад
@@beatweezl :: Yes, I second that, even if we also don't die if we think how to earn money and stay afloat. Those two interests do not always align, but often do.
@albertdesalvo7273
@albertdesalvo7273 10 месяцев назад
What a great story. Thank you for sharing.
@MrJest2
@MrJest2 10 месяцев назад
Indeed. Just be nice to people; we're all in this together... something a lot of people never learn. It doesn't cost anything to be kind, and the benefits can be beyond imagining, depending on circumstance. Politeness is the lubrication that makes the gears of society run; don't neglect it!!!
@kevinohalloran7164
@kevinohalloran7164 10 месяцев назад
Your last line is a major piece of wisdom.
@glensmith7974
@glensmith7974 Месяц назад
TRUE STORY. In 1981 my band was recording a no-budget progressive rock album with a 'retired' major band lead singer down on his luck. Fast-forward six years and he became a member of one of the biggest groups in his genre, based largely on the guitarist hearing our recording. The singer was so grateful, talking about us opening for them, recording with us again, etc etc. Our idiot manager took an ad out in the monthly music mag that said, "Follow [my band], the band that brought you [lead singer] !!" Well...the big band found out and was livid...yes, the whole "it's bad" thing 😀 ...and even after firing our manager, all talk of helping us stopped. We eventually did open for them once, for which I will always be grateful to experience the big stage, but our band was essentially "Billionaire'd" by the industry.
@Kinger1625
@Kinger1625 6 месяцев назад
Don’t trash bands on stage period, unless you want that battle. Quite a story! As always, love and respect Rick B!
@tiagocreep
@tiagocreep 10 месяцев назад
I am a music coordinator for Disney, Netflix and Amazon in latin america for 2 or 3 years now. But before that, I had a band, and in some random festival, amidst tropical weather, we were late, and every other band were late. When I land on the stage, I thanked the producers, and everyone else. I'm employed to this day. Kindness, and professionalism goes a long way. I love being the nice guy in the business.
@ClassicConnectionsCa
@ClassicConnectionsCa 10 месяцев назад
I just clicked your picture and subscribed to track back to your channel after this video because of your comment, only to discover you have no videos (and I've only done my first weeks ago) Regardless, You are bang on in your response here. Cheers man! 🔊🌠🎶
@ThePlockets
@ThePlockets 10 месяцев назад
@@ClassicConnectionsCa I strongly suspect that most individuals in a public facing position who work for or with well known media companies would never make any kind of unofficial post from an account that could be tracked back to their work or employer, that is just basic Cover Your Ass 101
@dannycrockett9878
@dannycrockett9878 10 месяцев назад
Yes I have heard of you and your work with Disney and Amazon. I am not in the music business but do know a little about a little bit. My occupation is best described as being a person who does the things for my Island nation that no others are ... well, let us say, equipped to do. My name is Bond, James Bond.
@strangfangers
@strangfangers 10 месяцев назад
Even when ya don't wanna!
@davimadmac
@davimadmac 10 месяцев назад
é o resumo da minha vida enquanto integrante de banda
@Plisko1
@Plisko1 10 месяцев назад
We always had professional rule #1: Never trash talk other musicians from the stage. The world is too small and we all need help.
@UrbanGuitarLegend
@UrbanGuitarLegend 8 месяцев назад
From the stage, LOL, how about from "anywhere".... lol
@CNYProd
@CNYProd 8 месяцев назад
Also,don't trash talk your sound man while on stage in front of an audience.
@angelaandradeus6290
@angelaandradeus6290 8 месяцев назад
Professional rule is not to trash people helping you even if you don't like it music, their style, their looks political stance etc it about respect.
@Jason75913
@Jason75913 7 месяцев назад
Staying sober probably helps to avoid doing stupid things, too. Well, who cares about that? lol
@weareallbeingwatched4602
@weareallbeingwatched4602 6 месяцев назад
Heckling can be dealt with a number of ways. Confronting the heckler correctly and engaging them entertainingly is an essential skill for a front man. Look at how Bill Hicks would deal with them - back yard brawls, stand up comedy and Shakespearen theatre have the highest standards of verbal competence. The streets of London can be very hostile, and you need to know how to talk respectfully as well as disrespectfully, and to know the when and where of it. You will get tested. Trashing another band casually, it depends if you're making a point about artistic separation and distancing. If you're willing to eject all the fans of that music on principal, say your piece. Do I have somebody on the the list of fans to trip a new one for? Of course! Who kill jill dando? Jim'll Fix it and N Sync. Lou Perlman AKA big poppa. Backstreet's back, alright, with another round of ponzi, payola and something up the batty crease? Oh yes, we have all that and more round my ends. We got grenfell and kids who stab each other, and talk about murder on records. Yes bro. Seriously. Say what you mean, and mean what you say. Do not raise the beef idly, get your weapons ready for warfare. This is all very much for real.
@BrianLongava
@BrianLongava 7 месяцев назад
“Learn how to love and forgot how to hate” Ozzy got the message a long time ago.
@derekk9202
@derekk9202 7 месяцев назад
are the tenses mixed up intentionally?
@normie2716
@normie2716 Месяц назад
Ozzy teaching life lesson while snorting lines of ants. That's a real philosopher.
@johnhermanson5249
@johnhermanson5249 5 месяцев назад
That is a great story. Thank you for sharing. It proves the point to not get plastered before a set.
@tandycorbin5601
@tandycorbin5601 10 месяцев назад
I once had a coworker who was leaving her current job to take a position with twice the pay and amazing benefits. She did not apply for this position, it was offered to her because her future boss dealt with a problem with our organization through her. She told me " You just never know who is listening or watching." That has stuck with me for a long time. Perfect example here.
@Maxim.Teleguz
@Maxim.Teleguz 10 месяцев назад
Your example doesn’t make sense. She left but didn’t apply for it. Cause her future boss???
@tandycorbin5601
@tandycorbin5601 10 месяцев назад
@@Maxim.Teleguz Her future boss dealt with her at our organization and he offered her a position, after seeing how she handled his problem.
@Blayzed_247
@Blayzed_247 10 месяцев назад
Basically she was a customer service rep, helped a customer, and that customer liked the way she helped that he offered her a job with his business for twice they pay
@ambientrelaxingandhealingm7552
@ambientrelaxingandhealingm7552 10 месяцев назад
That is actually a great example of how this can work in reverse. You can sometimes BUILD bridges by being good at what you're doing and acting in a way to not "impress" but because you're doing the right thing.
@BigBlackBe4r
@BigBlackBe4r 10 месяцев назад
@@Blayzed_247 Excellent example of "You reap what you sow". Always be respectful in life. The opposite = bad reputation.
@tommeyer6033
@tommeyer6033 10 месяцев назад
I think the lesson is don't drink when you're working! Great story Rick. You've recovered nicely 😉
@AveragePicker
@AveragePicker 10 месяцев назад
Or don't be a d1ck band. Oh no someone said you suck. You're pulling 20k+ people...why give two sh1ts what some drunk guy says?
@internetguy8075
@internetguy8075 10 месяцев назад
@@user-ts5lz2fc7f Anyone so quick to jump to alcohol's defence probably especially shouldn't drink when they're working lol
@JeffMTX
@JeffMTX 10 месяцев назад
Or, just don’t be a dick to other people ;)
@buskman3286
@buskman3286 10 месяцев назад
A shot/glass of wine, etc before you go on is OK for most people. But two or more means that the only person who will think you were good is you! ;)
@wills2140
@wills2140 10 месяцев назад
This is exactly why just about every small band I have known takes the bulk of the "complimentary" intoxicants *after their show is done* . Anything heavy before performing is often bad news. 😉
@PaulGriffith
@PaulGriffith 2 месяца назад
My dad was pulled from a contract job and reassigned to another petrochemical plant because of a comment he made to one of the plant employees. Speaking before thinking may have been honest but sometimes it is better to keep your mouth shut. In high school I had a band director say "never burn your bridges, you may need to cross them again" I've remembered those lessons that others learned the hard way, and had to learn some on my own, the hard way. I have crossed bridges again because of my profession behavior. Word does get around.
@rebel-yell9453
@rebel-yell9453 8 месяцев назад
One rule I always have used is first, NOBODY comes to a gig trashed! If you work at a bank, will the manager let you come in to work drunk or ripping stoned? NO! Always take the attitude that a gig is your JOB, it's not a party, it's WORK TIME. So be serious, show up sober, and put on the best show you can EVERY time, and leave the stupid party tricks at home. AND when you do that, you don't end up saying the stupidest crap at the most inopportune time, because you are in control of your faculties. Friends don't let friends play gigs when high! PERIOD!
@yelnikigwawa1845
@yelnikigwawa1845 7 дней назад
Syd Barrett says high.
@rebel-yell9453
@rebel-yell9453 5 дней назад
@@yelnikigwawa1845 LOL
@professorronsprivateclassc2850
@professorronsprivateclassc2850 10 месяцев назад
Don't trash other bands, other people, etc--it's all ego talking. Just do your thing the best you can always. Don't compare yourself with anyone else. Comparison is the thief of joy. Great video, Rick!
@clg68
@clg68 10 месяцев назад
"Comparison is the thief of joy"- That's fantastic
@jritechnology
@jritechnology 10 месяцев назад
Ruining the career of musicians for the trash talking is just as bad as the trash talking. It's all stupid ego BS.
@AdamRainStopper
@AdamRainStopper 10 месяцев назад
So you're definitely right on the comparing yourself and your band with some member of some other band or the other band itself. There is NO reason for the arts to become a competitive business, it's how everything and everyone become a bunch of uniform clones of each other and the entirety of the scene becomes monotonous and repetitive and boring. On the other hand, I can easily understand why a small bar band, who carry their own gear, who often play their hearts out for free drinks or gas money, might resent seeing a band like Creed getting rich for some of the least original (after all, they really did just copy that bubble-in-the-mouth singing style that EVERYONE did in the 90s) and most lyrically vaccuous tripe. It's like Green Day doing the thing that Berkeley bands did, where they basically faked british accents, in order to be more convincing to punks. It doesn't convince anyone, and the *fans* you'll wind up having to cater to are kids who just heard you on the radio and like you because they think they are expected to. Here's the thing. I bet you play guitar, you may be the same kinda "multi-instrumentalist" that I am, being slightly better than mediocre at drums and owning a bass and knowing how to do some decent stuff on it as well, but being that you're here, I am guessing guitar is your main instrument. If I am incorrect, just substitute your main instrument wherever I say "guitar" and everything still applies. When you got your first guitar, maybe from a parent or older sibling who already played, maybe you saw something on tv or heard a song that made you want to be able to play it and asked for a starter kit, and you got that thing and set about trying to learn, right? So as you were making your fingers *bleed* those first few months of learning, what was in your mind? What did you envision? Did you foresee crowds of hundreds or even thousands of people, hearing you play your heart out, imagining the looks on their faces and the interaction between you and them? Maybe you envisioned impressing chicks somewhere in there, that's not unheard of...... but mostly, you were thinking of that JOY you mentioned, right? You were NOT crunching numbers in your head, how much you'd spend on your first 'real' guitar and amp and how soon it would pay for itself, or how much you'd make once this label executive happened to get a flat tire out in front of the club you were playing and saw you and signed your band. You were *NOT* thinking about cashing checks. That ain't the dream, it's an obstacle to overcome. Mostly, musicians accept payment to make it sustainable. We want to be able to spend as much of our time and energy writing and recording and performing as we can, so it has to pay for itself. That's it. Stardom only even enters the picture much later, usually in the context of "I would love to be heard by a million people a day!" It only becomes about the money once you've already gotten taken aside by some vulture, and it being about the money is a surefire way to get you into that competitive mindset, thereby robbing you of most or all that joy. How joyful is the life of the washed up old rock star, who peaked 20 years ago, with "can you taaaaake meeeee highyyaaa"? Specifically, the artistic life, how much satisfaction is really in that?
@zk0rned
@zk0rned 10 месяцев назад
@@AdamRainStopper Competition is natural and is one of the strongest driving forces to be better than your peers
@AdamRainStopper
@AdamRainStopper 10 месяцев назад
@@zk0rned Natural? Poison ivy is natural. Alligators that will bite your dick off are natural. Competition ..... well, it's no less natural than cooperation and collaboration, but these things are morally neutral, and competition in the arts completely robs it of all its meaning. What does it it even mean to be "better than your peers" on songwriting? Can you measure that? I'll give you a hint: no. No go practice for the career as a rock star that you will definitely get if you are just competitive enough.
@joshfigueroa1705
@joshfigueroa1705 11 месяцев назад
You gotta get Tremonti on. It would be a great conversation.
@Cestariarts
@Cestariarts 11 месяцев назад
IMAGINE THAT HAPPENING!! HAHAHAA
@sethmeottel1658
@sethmeottel1658 11 месяцев назад
What makes this song great on "Tremati sings Sinatra "
@doublek321
@doublek321 11 месяцев назад
Would love to hear that interview!
@CharlesLeftwich
@CharlesLeftwich 11 месяцев назад
You do have a tradition of interviewing great Italian Guitarists. Also, Vito Brata is a good candidate too. Just saying!!! Love your work, Rick.
@doublek321
@doublek321 11 месяцев назад
I remember I used to think he wasn't a "real singer" but, wow has he ever improved!
@felipemarini7236
@felipemarini7236 4 месяца назад
Rick you have such a great vibe man, keep it up! your channel is great and interesting
@Techn0punk
@Techn0punk 4 месяца назад
New watcher here. Thank you for the lessons, saving me hurdles in the future for me probably more of the complex in ego. Also you are looking very good and healthy. Keep on vibing Rick.
@aleithiatoews6452
@aleithiatoews6452 11 месяцев назад
I think the main lesson here is be not drunk. Had Mark been sober, he probably never would have said something so stupid, even if he truly felt that way.
@nickwilkinsmusic
@nickwilkinsmusic 11 месяцев назад
absolutely right
@dixonhill1108
@dixonhill1108 11 месяцев назад
Seriously, would never have anything to do with a band who gets drunk on stage. Pretty sure even among alcoholics that this is a big no no.
@barbarusbloodshed6347
@barbarusbloodshed6347 11 месяцев назад
Yes, a thousand times yes. I don't drink, I don't do drugs and I've been in bands. If something went wrong it was basically always because of one guy being drunk or high on something. 90% of the time. If I ever start or join another band it will be under the condition that everyone stays sober until a gig is done and the gear packed.
@ivanbardov
@ivanbardov 11 месяцев назад
You know, there are people who do all sort of shi~ when they're drunk and there are people who *never* do anything like that when they're drunk. As much as I am against alcohol, you can't blame alcohol alone. It just removes certain 'safety guards': if someone is good person, he won't cause a problem. But also, perfoming drunk is just unprofessional.
@japhygoldman8856
@japhygoldman8856 11 месяцев назад
Drink AFTER the show, not before
@ricktaylor1548
@ricktaylor1548 10 месяцев назад
Priceless advice! My Dad told me something similar while I was growing up. "Dont say anything about anybody that you wouldn't say to their face." That has kept me out of trouble many times.
@cahg3871
@cahg3871 10 месяцев назад
My father gave me that exact same advice.
@badcornflakes6374
@badcornflakes6374 10 месяцев назад
I got "If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all."
@dooley9621
@dooley9621 10 месяцев назад
I pride myself on my honesty and saying what I feel and it has got me in plenty of trouble lol.
@rodneykingston6420
@rodneykingston6420 10 месяцев назад
I'm ashamed to say I learned that lesson the hard way! But I haven't talked about anyone behind their back or given my straight up opinion on a person since I was fourteen and you know what? No one has ever called me on it. If you don't gossip, or dish or talk smack, and you keep that as a policy, you just don't lecture other people about it, they won't notice, at least not consciously.
@PhilAndersonOutside
@PhilAndersonOutside 10 месяцев назад
Smart dad!
@valoisa
@valoisa 6 месяцев назад
Such a great story! 😁I've seen your videos in my feed for a very long time and never really paid attention to them but I should had! You're a great guy and especially a great musician, a great teacher and a great audio enthusiast. Your interview with Kirk Hammett was one of the most adorable thins I've even seen in rock world.
@keithtorgersen9664
@keithtorgersen9664 4 месяца назад
Thank you, sir for your humility. I am not a musician, but I have several friends and 1 or 2 family members who at one time or another were part of indie bands. It’s some great insight.
@livelongandprosper70
@livelongandprosper70 4 месяца назад
This reminds me of the time I sat on the couch for 20 years and did absolutely nothing 😞
@70mcnevin
@70mcnevin 3 месяца назад
I'm only on year 5 and I'm already prayin' for tidal waves.
@armlesswalrus
@armlesswalrus 11 месяцев назад
Definitely need to get Scott or Mark on the channel, do the interview, then hit them with this story right at the end!
@tribzman3977
@tribzman3977 10 месяцев назад
AWESOME IDEA!!!!
@andrewg5639
@andrewg5639 10 месяцев назад
would be awesome to see some of Mark T's guitar setup.. I'm not even a massive creed fan but the dude can play, & pull tones
@zubrycky
@zubrycky 10 месяцев назад
Do it! Now!
@shotakuervo
@shotakuervo 10 месяцев назад
@@andrewg5639 I'm a Creed fan lol, but what hooked me from the very beginning was Tremotti's guitar playing. That dude can play.
@andrewg5639
@andrewg5639 10 месяцев назад
@@shotakuervo 100% - Scott Phillips is a great drummer too!
@Charlie-Oooooo
@Charlie-Oooooo 11 месяцев назад
If that bad moment hadn't happened, the Rick Beato YT channel might have never been launched. So grateful for all the cool things you have given us!
@lindacowles756
@lindacowles756 26 дней назад
G'day, Charlie-Oooooo! In another video, Rick recounted that there would never have been a a Rick Beato RU-vid channel called "Everything Music" had it not been for his playing string bass in a chamber orchestra's performance of Bach's Brandenburg Concerto #3 in sixth grade.
@Charlie-Oooooo
@Charlie-Oooooo 25 дней назад
G'day yourself Linda! Super cool how it seems everything works out great in the end.... unless it doesn't ;-) I think the big takeaway from this tale, is that Rick never stopped because of these unfortunate events; and his life-long passion for music was not thwarted by the unfortunate interpretation of a band member's untimely drunken antics, by some important and influential people. So basically, most of the time, you're not defeated until you tell yourself and others that you are. Of course, there are many exceptions to that theory, but successful folks like Rick just keep on truckin'. ;-)
@robertiola88
@robertiola88 Месяц назад
My Mom told me when I was very young....if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything. She was a very smart lady.
@roostir1
@roostir1 3 месяца назад
Holy cow.... that was painful to hear. But, I have to say, I was glued to the story. Great delivery and storytelling!
@bradleyrembolt
@bradleyrembolt 11 месяцев назад
Playing in bands as a kid I never realized how much onstage gratitude can pay off. It took a while to understand that thanking bigger acts had a consequence in a business sense, as well as being the right thing to do.
@dabarnhoorn
@dabarnhoorn 11 месяцев назад
Being friendly to the sound engineer (if you don't have your own, or the venue provides one) is also the smart thing to do 😀 (And I'm not implying you shouldn't be nice to your own engineer lol)
@didybopintitys
@didybopintitys 10 месяцев назад
@@dabarnhoorndefinitely overlooked, tho I think you can carry this policy to a lot of facets in life, being thankful for thankless situations/jobs sometimes makes people’s days and that’s just a nice feeling in itself whether it pays off or not.
@crosswalklarry
@crosswalklarry 10 месяцев назад
Back in 2004 my buddy and I did a east coast to California road trip. We stayed with a guy who was an comedian(my friends cousin). He even did a bit part in Mind of Mencia. So the Comedian was the MC of a small comedy show in LA. I am sitting watching a comedian on stage and the MC walks up to me an asks if the guy thanked him for the set. He did not. Instantly the MC shined his blue light on him to end his set. Keep in mind the guy was on stage for about 2-3 minutes. I was blown away at how petty the MC was. Even the comedian onstage said on the mic..."Already?!"
@davidowens5898
@davidowens5898 10 месяцев назад
Duhhhh, ya think....?!
@clayhalvorsen4578
@clayhalvorsen4578 9 месяцев назад
Rick Beato has a lot of talents, but he is a great storyteller!!
@emilebensdorp1802
@emilebensdorp1802 8 месяцев назад
A great story! I have a friend, a film director, who met a lady at a party and he started to bash another film director whom he thought to be an irritating poseur. After he was done the lady revealed the fact that she was living with this poseur. Ooops!
@jrb2280
@jrb2280 5 месяцев назад
And he’s a very objective and humble gentleman.
@dinamoarg
@dinamoarg 4 месяца назад
WTF. Truly boring story, nothing happened. I was expecting a grand finale and his kid chipped a teeth, wow 🙄
@jrb2280
@jrb2280 4 месяца назад
@@dinamoarg Yes, I left that part out of my comment.
@Physics072
@Physics072 4 месяца назад
@@emilebensdorp1802 Sounds made up.
@technicolorProducer
@technicolorProducer 5 месяцев назад
LOVE this - I can't wait to play this for my entrepreneurship class next semester (high school level). This applies to so many situations besides bands. It pays to be nice (which helps explain Creed's massive success).
@monsieurcommissaire1628
@monsieurcommissaire1628 Месяц назад
Ouch... That is truly painful, but you've transformed the regrets into a blessing for all of us wise enough to heed your advice. I have never once regretted being kind or gracious. There's a lot of 🐂💩out there about "rivalries" between bands - Beatles vs Stones, Beach Boys vs Beatles, etc., but most of them had/ have great professional respect for each other, and are often ftiends.
@MichaelLewisMusic
@MichaelLewisMusic 11 месяцев назад
Man, this is such a painful story because it had such a devastating ripple effect on everything your band did for a long time. Those of us who've worked in the industry for a long time know that anything you say bad about another artist, musician, band etc... can and will be used against you at some point in your career. Note to self, do your best to always speak positively about others at all times. This is a great reminder that talking down other acts or players doesn't make us better. I'm so sorry this happened to you and by the way, kudos to you for being the sober guy that night.
@edisraf
@edisraf 10 месяцев назад
I spent 35 years in the music business. This lesson crosses every “industry”. Be very careful burning bridges. Years later you may meet a potential employer or business partner that if you said or did something to years before may be kill an opportunity later. Many young people learn this lesson the hard way.
@RKDriver
@RKDriver 10 месяцев назад
I don't know when or how it got instilled in me but for some reason I knew (kind of instinctively) that burning bridges will come back to haunt you. Karma will find its way back. When that inner voice (or angel) taps you on the shoulder and says "don't do that", you better listen.
@nilsbrown7996
@nilsbrown7996 3 месяца назад
This goes along with “Always be polite/don’t be disagreeable to anyone you meet around the music biz” You never really can tell who they are.
@el1414
@el1414 6 месяцев назад
You are an inspiring, gracious and giving talent. Thank you. I hope music , or poetry, some form of art or anything of sentience is enough to pull us all in closer to a realization of this infinitesimal tiny dot of time space we're sharing momentarily. Peace.
@trench1387
@trench1387 10 месяцев назад
Rick thank you for sharing this story. So many lessons to be learned: hubris, alcohol, regret, acceptance, kindness, gratitude. I'm playing this video for my teen. Life takes us on many turns and our choices really matter. You have a wisdom and kindness about you that is not so common. Take care sir.
@mattyobrown
@mattyobrown 10 месяцев назад
awesome!
@PeterTea
@PeterTea 10 месяцев назад
With a buddy currently in rehab for drinking, I think I can easily say that more bad ideas come from drinking than the reverse.
@AJ-yw7hf
@AJ-yw7hf 10 месяцев назад
Absolutely right.
@daviegriffin3539
@daviegriffin3539 10 месяцев назад
*Pffft, hold my 🍻 Beer... I saw somethin' on TV & I think I can do it.* 🥴 🤦🏽‍♂️ 🤭🤣
@drdabsmore945
@drdabsmore945 10 месяцев назад
I don't think I've ever had an above average idea at best while drunk. Lol
@henryve5625
@henryve5625 4 месяца назад
Its cool that youve finally come out, we all support you.
@raystinger6261
@raystinger6261 5 месяцев назад
The funniest thing about this story is the way that Rick tells it sounds like an episode of Seinfeld.
@todhannigan8779
@todhannigan8779 11 месяцев назад
We are opening for a band in Sep, and NO WAY we are pulling a Billionaire!
@dadonthetube
@dadonthetube 11 месяцев назад
Hide the beer!
@divisionofthenorth1
@divisionofthenorth1 11 месяцев назад
Pulling a billionare! LMAO
@JimBlakeLectures
@JimBlakeLectures 11 месяцев назад
Mark saved you all from the horrors of bigtime rock touring: drugs, exhaustion, estrangement from families, too famous to go to the grocery store etc etc etc
@randallpetersen9164
@randallpetersen9164 11 месяцев назад
Celebrity second wives, multimillion dollar estates, yachts, personal assistants and bodyguards. Yeah, who wants all that.
@alangil40
@alangil40 11 месяцев назад
Rock star seems like a dangerous occupation. Overdoses, plane crashes and guns. Seems almost every big band has lost at least one member. What is that, a 20% death rate? Off the top of my head: Zep, Stones, Pink Floyd, AC/DC, Hendrix, Joplin, Doors, The Who, Ozzy (guitarist), Pretenders, Chilli Peppers, STP, Nirvana, Lyrnrd Skynyrd, Allman Brothers (motorcycle crash), Def. Leppard, Sublime, Sex Pistols, Chicago,.... I'm sure there is many more if I looked it up.
@RockandRollWoman
@RockandRollWoman 11 месяцев назад
@@alangil40 Unfortunately, success brings enough money to self-destruct.
@MurphyKargesBass
@MurphyKargesBass 11 месяцев назад
I participated in ‘big time’ rock n roll touring. While there was drugs and exhaustion, I was never estranged from my family, they loved and supported what I did, and I was never too big to go to the grocery store. That sounds silly anyway. My singer, maybe. But he’d just wear a baseball cap low, like all celebs do. It was a wonderful experience and I’m a better person for going through it all. Plus, people still listen to our music and I still get paid from it. So I guess not all stereotypes of touring fit the cliche narratives - The takeaway is that everyone’s story is different. There are lots of us who didn’t OD, got paid, lived out our dreams, and had worthwhile experiences.
@danbardos3498
@danbardos3498 11 месяцев назад
Someone doing bad business is not good business.
@rickgallo4323
@rickgallo4323 2 месяца назад
Rick, Thank you for the enjoyable "regret" story. You took me back some 40 years to my own brushes with embryonic musical greats. Luckily I never trashed any of those folks, who I always have appreciated. Instead, my regrets ended up being things that were said within my bands. Those things changed the course of my life and are things never forgotten. Maybe we can all laugh now that we are ancient, but the change of direction for all of us means some of it will always hurt.
@whitinst
@whitinst 6 месяцев назад
I have a friend who is a world traveler. He goes to countries speaking languages he doesn't know with customs he doesn't know or understand. When he goes to a new place (he is a missionary and some of the places are rough) he always askes the same question. " How do I show respect to people here?". That is the skill to learn. What you have in your very well told story is the ugly underbelly of the converse. A great story and a great lesson.
@Zundfolge
@Zundfolge 11 месяцев назад
The huge irony is, much of the hate that Creed got was because Scott basically did the same thing that your friend Mark did. Definitely an important lesson for the young'ns out there. Don't throw shade on people you don't know because you never know when it'll come back to bite you. Great story.
@5roundsrapid263
@5roundsrapid263 11 месяцев назад
Yep, it’s well known that Scott was a mean drunk. I’ve known several nice people who flip like a switch when they drink.
@mvpautodetailing
@mvpautodetailing 10 месяцев назад
Excellent story Rick! Not music related but similar!!! I'm in the automotive business and a new customer came by with damage to his new Bmw I3 door. It took me 1 hour to fix. I chose not to charge him because I felt like it and he was very concerned about who would work on his car (trust issues). Same customer comes by 3 years later, he never forget me because of what I did for him!! So he brings me his car again for an insurance body repair because of the 1st deed. Last week, he calls me for a blown tire, I go to his house to help him and I tell him I have a son who struggles a bit with drugs to find out he and his wife run a rehab center and offers to gladly help my son. Always be kind, don't be rude and honor people with respect!! You just never know.
@ph03beuwu
@ph03beuwu 5 месяцев назад
wow!!
@xrxs1020
@xrxs1020 5 месяцев назад
As an appreciator of comment sections, this is one of the most interesting I've read.
@davidtingley9978
@davidtingley9978 6 месяцев назад
Similar story I heard in the 90's about a Seattle band (I think it was Green Apple Quickstep) After Madonna started her label, she sent a rep to Seattle (because every label that year wanted at least one Seattle band). GAQS was one of the first bands he talked to, and the negotiations seemed to be going good, but the band insisted on meeting Madonna before they'd sign. She agreed, and it turned out that the band really just wanted to tell her she sucked. So Madonna signed Candlebox instead, and GAQS went nowhere
@walisoliva
@walisoliva 4 месяца назад
I bet they still tell that story to their friends like it was a freaking achievement!
@Grimenoughtomaketherobotcry
@Grimenoughtomaketherobotcry 4 месяца назад
Why would it ever cross their tiny little minds that she might be just the slightest bit vindictive over something like that being done to her, particularly when she was giving them a leg up? Or that as one of the most powerful people in the business, she just might be in a position to act on her vindictive impulses? I don't like her either, but these boys would have made out better by jumping in front of a fast moving freight train. She could even see to it that their up and coming barista careers wither and die, too. Bad judgement's a career-killer!
@walisoliva
@walisoliva 4 месяца назад
@@Grimenoughtomaketherobotcry It's that mindless middle finger attitude that rockers used to have back then. Not always that rude like the Pixies being invited to Arsenio but refusing to play "Here Comes Your Man". But to be like that without a signed contract or something it's a first! A huge stupid one!!
@veltonmeade1057
@veltonmeade1057 3 месяца назад
@@walisoliva "It's that mindless middle finger attitude". Yep, perfectly said.
@nicholashouse4261
@nicholashouse4261 3 месяца назад
IDK man, that's almost worth it.
@shmuelgoldstein9020
@shmuelgoldstein9020 10 месяцев назад
The lesson, Mark, is don't trash anyone. I am in the performing arts as well, and there are no lack of people around me who are bereft of talent. Never trash them. They'll get the message when you say nothing. And when someone *is* good, praise them, and praise them well.
@barronfraker5116
@barronfraker5116 8 месяцев назад
I've learned the valuable lesson of you have no idea who knows each other and what history people have shared. Never trash talk anyone, ever. Praise often, and if you have nothing nice to say, be silent. That silence will speak more than any negative words you muster.
@qwipperty
@qwipperty 8 месяцев назад
@@barronfraker5116 well said.
@spambrando
@spambrando 8 месяцев назад
Yeah, NO. NOT when they decide to jump onstage to sing background vocals poorly. The proof is in the recording. Yeah, I was NOT nice with titling...
@canyonproductions7683
@canyonproductions7683 6 месяцев назад
Powerful words
@sophiemilton5939
@sophiemilton5939 Месяц назад
@@barronfraker5116 quote ".... if you have nothing nice to say, be silent. That silence will speak more than any negative words you muster." Oh yes. The term is "Damned by faint praise." 😀
@ArmenChakmakian
@ArmenChakmakian 11 месяцев назад
I was in a band playing at Madam Wong's in West L.A. circa 1992. We were working with A&M records at the time and their VP of A&R (Initials MM) was the older brother of our singer. MM had done some major things in the music biz like cross over Amy Grant from a Christian artist to a main stream artist and help Janet Jackson at her peak. So we play our set and hang out in an adjacent room (bar) to the room we just played in. A band goes on after us around 12:30am. There are only 2 people watching and you can see into the room through the doorway but can't see the state. So MM gets up, stands at the doorway to watch. These guys start acting like jack asses on stage because now they're only playing to 3 people, but MM is still watching. The jack assery didn't stop, they started f&^%ing around on stage so he came back to the table shaking his head. I said, "if they only knew who was watching them?" He kinda nodded. That was a big lesson to me. You NEVER know who's in the crowd watching you perform. Be at your best, always.
@playhooky
@playhooky 11 месяцев назад
Wow - also a very great story! And I just went & listened to Gypsy Rain & love it so I will be listening to much more of your music!!!!! Are you still a solo artist or in any bands or what are you up to these days?
@danielabilez3619
@danielabilez3619 11 месяцев назад
That is why you have to go for it: Every time. None of us has the luxary of time. You gotta love it just alittle more than anything else you're doing.
@youropionmattersnot
@youropionmattersnot 11 месяцев назад
The problem is that young talented artists who have either a personality disorder and / or an addiction problem are usually young and talented artists who have either a person.....etc
@xsbutter
@xsbutter 11 месяцев назад
Was it Max Martin?!
@ArmenChakmakian
@ArmenChakmakian 11 месяцев назад
@@xsbutter Mark Mazzetti. His brother was Eric Eden who was an A&M artist for a short time.
@madbug1965
@madbug1965 2 месяца назад
Great story! I love stories of how all my rock idols are friends and supported each other as they were coming up.
@raymondspagnuolo8222
@raymondspagnuolo8222 6 месяцев назад
What a story!!!! Thank so much for sharing it!
@maskkottube
@maskkottube 11 месяцев назад
Came to “make it” from Russia to LA in 2002. Tried to find a singer for my band or to find a decent band to play guitar in. After dozens and dozens of bands that i didnt like or that didnt like me i ve got this audition in an outstanding band and i played everything successfully and even managed to sing the backing vocals, everything seemed perfect , i was happy and the band leader asked me if i was available starting right now. I said yeah, sure, but i have a flight to russia in a couple of weeks. He asked me if i was going to russia for good and i said “yes” because i didnt know what the expression “for good” meant at the time. I thought "well, i am going to russia for a week to see my parents and girlfriend , and that it is in fact really good for me"))) i didn`t say it outloud, though) i still remember the expression on the guys face - “why the hell did you even come to the audition” was written all over it) at the moment i didnt realise the reason of his frustration, needless to say they didnt call me back, i was wondering why, and only a couple of years later i`ve got to know the meaning of “to go for good”, it was painful, haha. i still have the record of that band, its awesome, it still meets the highest grunge/rock standards but they didn`t make it, tried to shazam the songs and google the songwriter with no luck.
@sonador777
@sonador777 11 месяцев назад
I know you're really Russian because of this: )))) I lived in Russia for a few years, and I said to my girlfriend, what is that? She said "smiley face" I said nooo 🙂 :-) Must be this! lol Spasebo!
@roryasrorri701
@roryasrorri701 11 месяцев назад
oh, man....
@siggycertified
@siggycertified 11 месяцев назад
English language is so stupid, that's a pretty funny story in hindsight though.
@gerritsteenbreker4781
@gerritsteenbreker4781 11 месяцев назад
Great story about languages
@user-br9th4ei6v
@user-br9th4ei6v 11 месяцев назад
daaaamn, that's hard
@vincentjacobsmm
@vincentjacobsmm 10 месяцев назад
It isn't so much "don't trash bands when they're standing in front of you" - The most egregious part is that said band offered the smaller band a great opportunity. Can't really wrap my head around what made the singer behave in that way other than pure resentment and self destruction
@mrsherwood2599
@mrsherwood2599 9 месяцев назад
Alcohol, baby.
@chaallus
@chaallus 8 месяцев назад
For some reason he was resentful, and alcohol loosened his tongue.
@ectobluntus
@ectobluntus 8 месяцев назад
He just wanted a good reaction from the crowd. If people cheer when you say something, you'll probably keep saying it
@qwipperty
@qwipperty 8 месяцев назад
Well, you do need a certain amount of swagger to be a performer on stage, even more as a lead singer. But swagger is also a sharp knife, and can cut the wrong way if mishandled.
@AndresColumbus
@AndresColumbus 5 месяцев назад
@@ectobluntus but he could've easily rectified it by saying no...its just a joke guys 'we love creed' they've been good to us...he was letting his jealousy out
@davewolfe8033
@davewolfe8033 6 месяцев назад
Don't trash anyone unless it's really important to do so. When you slip on a ladder, you hit every rung you needed to climb to where you are. Modesty and humility are great characteristics in the music industry. We had a drummer who, after an otherwise perfect gig, randomly rang a venue and threatened to burn down the place... didn't go well for our prospects in that region.
@NeverTheSame
@NeverTheSame Месяц назад
One of the best pieces of advice I ever heardin this vein was "Don't talk trash about the other bands on the lineup. There's most likely a reason you're on the lineup with them."
@symptomofsouls
@symptomofsouls Месяц назад
If you gotta trash them, wait until after the tour, and you better have a point
@obgfoster
@obgfoster 11 месяцев назад
As a classical music free-lancer, I lived by the "creed" - always play your best because you never know who is listening, and always be a professional because there's always someone else who's just as good who can replace you if you're a jerk.
@OMGWTFLOLSMH
@OMGWTFLOLSMH 11 месяцев назад
This is true of any vocation.
@e.t.preppin7084
@e.t.preppin7084 11 месяцев назад
Really good creed to live by
@LRM12o8
@LRM12o8 11 месяцев назад
​​​​​@@irism903 so you're saying Creed (or their manager) should not only have accepted the humiliation, but also act like a little b¡tch with no sense of self-worth, by helping out (serving) people who mistreat them like that? WHY should they? 🤨
@meaninglessname123
@meaninglessname123 10 месяцев назад
They may even replace you with someone whose talent is *lesser* simply because they can't put up with your shenanigans anymore.
@ptms1232
@ptms1232 11 месяцев назад
Isn't it nice to have such great stories to tell? your delivery is so infectious that I could sit and talk with you for hours.
@obscaded
@obscaded Месяц назад
Dude... That's The Most BEAUTiful Double cut LP I've Ever Seen... ❤😳❤
@mc3666
@mc3666 3 месяца назад
Just a solid lesson in professional courtesy. Don't burn bridges... you never know who will be able to help or hurt you along the way.
@nbjohnson11
@nbjohnson11 11 месяцев назад
I love how Rick is always so positive about every band and musician he talks about on his channel. Good message.
@djdamagedome
@djdamagedome 11 месяцев назад
Learned his lesson.
@jonathanbeatrice8317
@jonathanbeatrice8317 11 месяцев назад
Because he doesn't get hammered like his lead singer
@realfingertrouble
@realfingertrouble 10 месяцев назад
Well apart from the Spotify Top 10 roundups... (I don't totally disagree but also those genres aren't his thing either)
@J56609
@J56609 4 месяца назад
Just goes to show that success is more than simply about talent. Making good decisions is so important.
@jessicasylvia4719
@jessicasylvia4719 26 дней назад
Rick I am so sorry you learned the "positivity" lesson like this. I am adopting a policy similar to yours. I may mention that someone is a great person but I will never trash anyone. Sometimes leaving something unsaid could say more than saying anything at all, but actively trashing people can hurt the one talking more than the subject of the words. Lesson noted.
@WhiteRussianrock
@WhiteRussianrock 10 месяцев назад
When I was in bar bands in my 20s, I was so ultra-competitive with ever other good band in the region. Treated them all like enemies. I got a little older and recognized how stupid that was. Recognized how anyone putting in the work every single day is worthy of respect. And that camaraderie with people in the industry can be helpful. It would have been nice to have had that mindset in the earlier days.
@user-wf4fv4oc1h
@user-wf4fv4oc1h 10 месяцев назад
Don't feel too bad. So many other bands were also ultra-competitive too, but did a phony "super nice dude" front. Later it was different. I was cool to all, but that two faced competitive thing runs deep. You are being honest and I can dig that. I did try to reach out to other bands, but found that I was naive. The 80's punk thing did have community, but in the more mainstream clubs, no way. It is stiff competition (as in the Cheap Trick tune : ))
@rwlane
@rwlane 10 месяцев назад
Great comment, man. 👌
@AdamWestish
@AdamWestish 10 месяцев назад
@@user-wf4fv4oc1h I have to second that thought - so many times people don't realize how destructive that competitiveness is, on both sides of the equation.
@user-wf4fv4oc1h
@user-wf4fv4oc1h 10 месяцев назад
@@AdamWestish It sadly is. The early punk scene (80's hardcore) did not have that vibe. So I left to play in those bands after jamming Jeff Beck and Mahavishnu stuff. Then once I got to know the guys in Black Flag well, I realized they were into the same stuff as me (King Crimson etc). They also hated the BS competition scene and cooked their own gumbo up. I joined in and has a a lot of fun. Cheers Mate!
@AdamWestish
@AdamWestish 10 месяцев назад
@@user-wf4fv4oc1h wow, very interesting...
@Studio-62
@Studio-62 11 месяцев назад
My great friend Jon Long (RIP) once told me the musician population in (our town) is small compared to the total population, so if you say something about someone or do something stupid, the word will travel around and other musicians will hear about it which will affect your ability to find people to work with. So true.
@cacwgm
@cacwgm 10 месяцев назад
This is true of most professions.
@rickstadel5285
@rickstadel5285 10 месяцев назад
@@cacwgm . . except that, fewer professions include nightly standing at a mic in front of a room full of people broadcasting their biases and other poorly rendered opinions . .
@xrxs1020
@xrxs1020 5 месяцев назад
A wise man, I forget his name, said 'treat others as you'd like to be treated.'
@TexLogan-du2yi
@TexLogan-du2yi 5 дней назад
That's what I call a life lesson. I've learned similar things myself. Now I'm happy to be nice to everyone, and it's just a better way to live.
@Donnybrook10
@Donnybrook10 10 месяцев назад
In my experience, it always makes you look bad whenever you dirt another band. Even your own fans tend to think it's douchey.
@comvoice
@comvoice 10 месяцев назад
That story is hilarious yet horrifying! Moral of this story: Don't drink with your friends before a gig!
@YourNickIsTaken
@YourNickIsTaken 10 месяцев назад
@@beatlesrgear, sure thing Honey.
@eddyvideostar
@eddyvideostar 10 месяцев назад
Dear Com Voice: The two words of career suicide should be -- *Don't drink!* One thing leads to another.
@mindquad779
@mindquad779 10 месяцев назад
​@@beatlesrgearpeople who actually perform live would say differently
@tmoore121
@tmoore121 10 месяцев назад
@@mindquad779 Alcohol makes people more confident in their abilities while also decreasing their ability to perform motor skills. Playing an instrument is no different. Maybe it gives you the confidence to play but it absolutely do not make you play better.
@mindquad779
@mindquad779 10 месяцев назад
@@tmoore121 people who actually perform live would say differently
@sikindahead370
@sikindahead370 6 месяцев назад
I really enjoy your channel and playing you rock!
@danielclemence3689
@danielclemence3689 4 месяца назад
Just wanted to say - great work in the band Billionaire! I really enjoyed the Ascension album. It reminded me of Jane's Addiction. It's got a thoroughly 90s vibe to it, which makes me feel good and nostalgic. Recommended!
@thecthonian4976
@thecthonian4976 11 месяцев назад
It happens Rick. I'm sure every band has an embarrassing story about one thing or another. You turned out to be a great producer with a nice degree of success. Thanks for being real and sharing that!
@WayneKitching
@WayneKitching 11 месяцев назад
This is one of those "Sliding Doors" type moments. What if Billionaire's Marc didn't trash Creed, and Billionaire became really big. Rick would have been a rock star, not a producer and not a RU-vidr.
@davehoward22
@davehoward22 11 месяцев назад
And where are creed now?😊
@franklincheney3653
@franklincheney3653 11 месяцев назад
@davehoward22 Busy as beavers, too busy to re-unite...but the future is out there, with an ample supply of sliding doors yet to open and close ;-)
@facelessandnameless
@facelessandnameless 11 месяцев назад
@@davehoward22They’re Alter Bridge. And they have been touring and releasing albums for about 20 years.
@alextownsend6662
@alextownsend6662 11 месяцев назад
Sounds like Ricks singer was going to take the band down one way or another
@DCJayhawk57
@DCJayhawk57 11 месяцев назад
More than likely, Billionaire would have faded out like a lot of bands from that era. Rick may have never moved on to a second career, but maybe he still would. He was already in his late 30s and had a family.
@JaySteichmann
@JaySteichmann 2 месяца назад
Great story, Rick! I have a good friend who had a power-pop band in the 70s and 80s (I met him/them im 1979). They were pretty big in our area, and had opened for Iggy, Pretenders, many bands coming through Detroit. I always wondered why they weren’t bigger. So my buddy told me: Their manager/agent got them a two week residency at CBGB. Not headlining, but opening or second bill. Long story short, guys in the band made cutting comments about labels, promoters, agents, and stars. Normal stuff for guys who hung out with MC5, NY Dolls, Iggy, but hey, if you are trying to get to the top, you can’t be attacking people who can help you.
@THEJOEDAVISBAND
@THEJOEDAVISBAND 5 месяцев назад
enjoyed the story ..keep them coming
@atlg8tor
@atlg8tor 11 месяцев назад
Rick...it's so crazy / awesome hearing your stories of the past. Rich and I worked together at Dark Horse ( I was the GM ) for years and it's so great hearing all the names from the Atlanta music scene back then. Love your channel and I'm sure our paths crossed at some point.
Далее
Almost Famous: The Cruelty of the Music Business
22:18
David Letterman Takes The Colbert Questionert
7:10
Просмотров 207 тыс.
Arabian Nights (electric guitar)
3:25
Просмотров 90 тыс.
TOP 20 ACOUSTIC GUITAR INTROS OF ALL TIME
13:59
Просмотров 19 млн
Ringo Talks About How The Beatles Didn't Get Along
9:09
The Unsettling Beauty of the Hungarian Minor Scale
7:41
Leland Sklar's Hilarious Studio Stories
11:28
Просмотров 166 тыс.
Things You Always Wanted to Ask a Guitar Store Employee
21:09
Why Gen Z Doesn't Care About Music
10:59
Просмотров 1,2 млн
This Insider Spotify Data Is MIND-BLOWING
7:57
Просмотров 845 тыс.
aespa 에스파 'Supernova' MV
3:14
Просмотров 40 млн
POLI - Mama (Official music video)
1:18
Просмотров 1,7 млн