My ex man too. And never ever again with Nigerian. He cannot to do anything like man , he can't even nail down a shelf. Can't screw in a light bulb either. but to argue sooo love. beautiful words and promises. nothing more.
Im malaysian indian married to Nigerian man, my husband help me with all the hse work, we share our work, sometimes he do more hse work than myself, also he take care of our 2 kids, we both share our part, he will do nigerian cooking n myself will do malaysian cooking. He don't allow me to do too much of work. Its been 10yrs we're together.
Yeah. Every man is different. Nigeria or no Nigeria. Thank God for your husband as well. In life don't generalize every man/ woman to be the same. Somebody is much much different from you or from him/ her. May God bless everyone with the desire of their hearts.
sorry but I think something is missing here, so what exactly are Nigerian man doing? Why do woman have to do everything, adjust, change, please him? what does he do for a woman? all I hear is change, change, change! why do I have to change if you are not changing anything about you,? what is so special about Nigerian man that woman needs to change if she wants to be with him? I will bring up my daughters to be themselves and be proud of who they are and to learn what they need to have a good life and be independent, to be good, honest, hard working and caring but never to change to please someone else, they will find a man who will love and appreciate them the way they are. if a woman has to change to be someone's wife it means she is not good enough to start with- what kind of beginning of a relationship is that? one has to compromise for another to benefit- it works both ways...in marriage you share and adjust together, you learn from each other and you progress as a couple...but it will not be a happy marriage if only one side is giving, adjusting and compromising...
A Nigerian man is serious about you when he takes you to his village. My husband is Igbo and I got married in my husband village with his family n my own. A Nigerian man especially an Igbo man appreciates his woman who speaks his language, especially if your oyinbo. I've lived in Abuja and Anambra state with my husband, I can speak Igbo, chukwu gozie gi my husband, a Nigerian man doesn't like a nagging wife, so abeg watch that oyinbo mouth eh or woze go finish u iswea.
I'm about to go to Nigeria and get married to my sweetheart and he lives in Anambra state I can't wait he's the greatest man I've ever known so caring and respectful a true man of God I can't wait I know he's going to be so good to me
That one before marriage U will see the reallity latter Igbo worship money The live money and nothing more Wish u d best Look for a better option not a Nigerian man
My favorite Nigerian man is Lamb and Ling. This Nigerian man Cooks always for his American wife. He is the Best husband ever. He has Love for his queen and she loves her king. He is an amazing cook
There's nothing wrong in a man cooking for his wife and kids. Neither is there anything wrong with a man doing chores like cleaning and laundry. All these can be done together, division of labour and that's how you teach your kids to learn as well. Your wife isn't your slave, but your partner. Yes a wife should do all these, but nothing wrong in the husband helping out sometimes too.
Well, you can do that if you want to.. but in Nigeria, the man is simply the provider, we do not expect the wife to provide for the family.. we can assist when we want to, but it's not a responsibility... The woman is totally in charge of the home, she gives you the bill and you pay..simple.. that's out culture.. ours is to respect and provide for our wives and Children.. mentor our boys to become providers in their homes when the grow up... that's out culture
In other words its about moulding women to be under their total controle. I can understabd moulding to turn bad habits into good but total controle to suit nija men ????
CONCLUSION : TO MARRY A NIGERIAN MAN A WOMAN NEED TO CHANGE TO BE MODIFIED TO WHAT HE WANTS HER TO BE . SHE CANNOT BE AS SHE IS AS A PERSON INCREDIBLE . SHE HAS TO BE CHANGED MODIFICATION NEEDS TO TAKE PLACE OF HIS ORDERS AND HIS LAWS INCREDIBLE . MIND YOU THE WOMAN IN THIS VIDEO STATED THAT SHE WORKS AS A SCHOOL TEACHER . THAT MEANS THAT HE DOESN'T EVEN MAKE ENOUGH MONEY TO SUPPORT HER THE CHILDREN AND THE HOUSE YET SHE IS MODIFIED TO SPEAK SOFTLY TO HIM AND WHATEVER MODIFICATION SHE NEEDS TO DO TO BE NEXT TO HIM AFTER SHE COMES HOME FROM WORK SHE HAS TO PAMPER HIM ? INCREDIBLE YOU'LL NIGERIAN MAN NEED TO STAY WITH YOUR OWN WOMEN BECAUSE US WOMAN OUTSIDE YOUR CULT AND RACE WE ARE BORN FREE WE WILL MAKE YOU RUN AND CRY TO YOUR MOMMY LOL . A MARRIAGE SHOULD BE A UNITY OF TWO PEOPLE WITH UNDERSTANDING , RESPECT , LOVE FOR EACH OTHER . A MAN AND A WOMAN IS EQUAL . THEY BOTH PAMPER EACH OTHER . IN AN EQUAL MANNER THERE IS NO WORKING 8 HOURS AND COMING HOME AND HAVE TO EMPEROR YOUR HUSBAND BECAUSE HE SAYS SO ! THERE IS NO MODIFICATION OF ANYTHING YOU LEARN HOW TO BE WITH EACH OTHER AND LEARN EACH OTHER'S WAYS AND THEN COMPROMISE COMES INTO THE WHOLE MARRIAGE EQUAL COMPROMISE NOT THE WAY THESE TWO ARE LIVING BECAUSE SHE'S SHORT CHANGED . HOW SAD IS THAT TO SEE ? A WOMAN BEING TREATED LIKE THAT ? BUT AGAIN DO NOTICE THAT HE SAID SHE NEEDED TO CHANGE . SHE NEEDED TO BE MODIFIED SO HE NEEDS TO KEEP HER FOR HIMSELF FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE BECAUSE NO NO OTHER WOULD BE LIKE HER BECAUSE WE DIFFERENT CULTURE , MIX RACE WOMEN WON'T TOLERATE THAT BS .
Lols! You are missing the point. A Nigerian man wants to be proud to present you to his family. He doesn't want a junkie that will embarrass him before is family or ruin his future
A MARRIAGE SHOULD BE A UNITY OF TWO PEOPLE WITH UNDERSTANDING , RESPECT , LOVE FOR EACH OTHER . A MAN AND A WOMAN IS EQUAL. I totally agree with you. My husband is Igbo and international man...so he sees things differently. But he is also proud of his own culture and know I have my own. We want to be happy together so we build our own kind of marriage. But outside of house and Igboland Nigeria I will respect the custom.Cultural issues affect a lot and depending where are you living....how cultural/religious bond your husband is...is he or has he live abroad...his own family background and personality. Some women don´t want so called European or Western model of relationship, marriage. Blessings! You need to choose your own way and find suitable husband yourself :)
A queen will never give a man what a husband deserves before he has married her. So she should not cook for him or clean his home, before he has made her his wife
My Nigerian men Cooks clean thought it was normal for Nigerian men 😂😂😂😭😭 I'm Ethiopian so i know how to cook and clean but yeah he's so sweet feed me like it's my last meal, when i come from work he did some cleaning i never ask him to do anything..
Indeed. Nigerian men are trained in doing the chores and more. But if he is your husband it is not good to force him to do those things instead let him do what he feels like doing especially if your man is working for the family.
@@chinazorobianwu8399 yeah I noticed the Nigerian men i know around me don't see any problems doing household chores they just independent that's how i see it..I'm still doing the most because I like it that way.. But yeah he really good at it😂😂 At first it was very strange, i thought it was an insult 😂😂😂 I think it's because I'm not used to it really does it to show me love..
That is an incredible summary of what Nigerian man like in a woman. And I want to say thank you for understanding our brother. I really enjoyed this video. So many woman don't know this, some we know and they are not ready to change. Hmmm. If you don't change, the Nigerian will remove his shoes and run away from you. Then after that, the lady will start saying Nigerian men are not good. We feel very happy when we see a woman that understands us. Thank you my brother for speaking for us. Mama I greet you wela, you na our wife. May God bless bot of you and with a lot of honey in your matrimonial home in Jesus name Amen. I hail oooooo
All Nigerian men likes to go to the clubs without their wives thats a big no no no to me. Husband you want to go to the club, you better bring me with you.
The Nigerian man is an alpha male . He is a complete package He will protect his chosen wife with all his might . He will not tolerate any disrespect. He has a clear understanding of his mission and the qualities of a companion he needs for his journey. He is the best provider you will ever meet . He has no time to negotiate with those who don’t know their role in a relationship. Nigeria is not a place but a vibe .
I would say NOT all Nigerian men… Let me just say UNEQUALLY YOKED. To each their own but my husband is Nigerian and he loves when I express my feeling to him and he does not believe in gender roles, he believes in partnership and teamwork. He accepts me for who I am but we both also respect each other’s cultures. We have open communication and we both compromise.
beautiful princess how are you are you single?koz I am,am a Nigerian proudly igbo, can we chat private maybe WhatsApp or send me your email information so i can text you
Accept, change and learn from each other. A man/ woman need to accept, change and learn from each other to marry or be at peace with any man/ woman. Blessings on marriage.
Other thing you forgot to address, if you're boy friend or husband call you on you're phone and you didn't answer the phone the three TIME. Big No No !
The best way really in marriage to last is, your friends are my friends and my friends are your friends...nigerian men wants to be friends with their women's friends but you women no need to know their friends...so in that case you cant follow up when they go out and what they're doing and who they're with. That's not gonna work with me...i want husband and wife be equal.
Well it depends, cause my friends are not his friends and his friends are not my friends. But we live peacefully because he knows his priority which is not clubbing.. all in all it really depends in the guy you stay with if he’s matured enough to be a married man or still act like a bachelor.. cause in marriage it’s not all about friends but it’s between the two of you as a partner. If you plan together your future..
That’s tough because Nigerians seems to have all strong personality, it’s like their ways has to be the way, it’s like take it or leave it...in his case or else you’re not the only woman in the world. At least that’s how he tells me. I’m like seriously! I’m American Filipina woman I keep telling him please don’t treat me how you treat your Nigerian women.
Bernagen White well that’s how it is. If you are with a wrong person everything is difficult but if right one, everything is well but you can’t still remove the culture of being in charge as man. So if you are a woman that wants to be in charge better you get another man, not Nigerian man cause everything will not work for both of you.
My Nigerian guy is an amazing chef and loves to cook. When I tell him I should cook his Nigerian food, he tells me I dont have to, he can cook. He has had to change to my ways as an American to be more loose like showing affection in public.
Nigerian dont want to help woman in the house even if the woman go out to work a d aftwe work attended the kids. This us the complaints i have with my husband being foreigner. Rhen i must divorce because if u know all this things before i dont marry
If this were true of all Nigerian men, no Nigerian man would marry an educated American woman. My husband and I are partners and are happy. I feel bad for this woman!
I am educated as well even I am not an American!! As if big ITS A BIG deal to be an AMERICAN 😂I am a nurse and a teacher.. You don’t need to feel bad my dear. Instead feel bad for your so called American women that is being used for another thing🤪.. Being submissive to your naija man is a main thing in their culture. Submissive not to the extent of losing your self worth and your self value.. and if you are with a Nigerian man I hope ur leg step in naija land! If not u r an abroad wife and he still get naija wife🤪
@@elaandcj6264 Did you have to ask your husband if you could reply. And let's face it American education is very different than Philipino. That's according to my Philipino sister-in-law. Your education is about the level of our high school education according to her. You are staying all Nigerian men need a submissive women. It's offensive. Just because you want that. That is fine. Other people realize their worth and that they as a woman are equal to men in every way.
To each is on I think if a person can accept you for who you are then they need to move on.. but I can't watch anymore and why is she trying so hard to talk nigerian smh! Losing your own identity to please others feels worse. Smh!
Common Mistakes people make is stop using the word Nigerian it should be igbo men or Hausa or Yoruba or delta men Even we has the Nigerians they is some tribe i can not date or marry due to culture and religion differences
GOD bless you my brother. Nwannw I’m so proud of you. I love the solidity, your mindset. I rarely subscribe to channels, but just did to yours. I can’t wait for your next teachings.
This is kind of misconception, to my understanding, I believe a man has to please his woman, not begging for her Nigerian husband or boyfriend, it's like I'm begging for mercy in from of God marring a Nigerian man, understanding matter to any relationship not just Nigerian, it's funny listening to this video, I think I pass that, I'm married for 41yrs with my husband until the day his gone, no rules or regulations to please him our understanding that kept us that long not just him to please, it's not the way it should be, not a beggar, not worry of loosing him, feel free , the door is widely opened
Honestly I have already subscribed because it's so amazing teaching from everyone you guys are wonderful God bless you and mostly our lovely lady for you to understand us you will not have problems I hope I will find someone else like you
Love your topic ❤😂. Am igbo nigerian live in Germany and there was this issue I had with my white German wife. I made a demand of her for changes as my wife. When I said to before we were just dating but now we are married so you need to change and she was angry with me for try to change her life😂. It's because we don't befriend our wifes, we love our wifes and demand submission
I'm into a nigerian man!! I'm in the United States he want me to come visit so we can get married so he can come to the states. How do that process work? How much it cost so I can go get my man? Help im so in love 😍
You can get visa first . I did a video about things that you will do before entering Nigeria.. the cost will vary, depends on where you stay and places you go.. and also need to spend plane ticket if he levies far from the big cities.. Hotels in Lagos are from 13k up, foods are 5K And for your transportation UBER is safe cause you get the fix price. If your partner will spend for accommodation you don’t really need much But if you plan to buy gifts for your in law then you need to prepare more cause we almost finish $1k just for the presents So 2-4k$ will be okay
Thank you!!! My man lives 4 hours from lagos but he said he will travel there on the day of my arrival. So that helps alot. But my first step is to apply for a visa!! Thanks alot for this information.
This is crazy, sounds like control to me. He has you brainwashed! If you have to change to be loveed then your not happy with your self. No man will change me. Accept me as I am Or keep it stepping!
Tell her ooo That’s why they fail all the time cause they don’t understand anything.. all they can do is to follow people with Nigerian husbands and throw their frustrations 😂😂😂😂..
Hahaha sister today watch ko ung vedio mo naalala ko dti Ang date plng kme ng igbo bf ko ganyan plge cya nag luluto naglalaba p ngá e kaso ung nag kaanak n kme natutu n din aq ngyon apat n anak namin ako tlga nag ttrabaho Sá bahay namin natutu n din aq mag Luto pagkain nia pero minsan nag luluto p din cya kaso mdalang lang yon sa patak ng ulan nag aaway din kme plge kht hanggang ngyon pero 11years n kme fighting p din
I am Yoruba married an American and when l cook, clean he is just amazed, l thought all women do those things, he said most American woman don’t do those things, it’s culture thing your husband is the king, period
True A lot of American women don’t want to do those things especially when they work. So when there men find someone that will do those things for them is like a big deal to them..
@@elaandcj6264 because we American women feel that no one needs to change us . Why should we marry a man so he could modify us and change us that makes no freaking sense. We are who we are as American women yeah we were cooking clean but we're not maids . We American women are born free we don't need the BS so you stick to your own kind of women who are slaves to the T WE ARE NOT . EITHER WE DO EVERYTHING IN UNITY AS A COUPLE OR WE DON'T SO IF NIGERIAN MEN BEHAVING THIS MANNER THEY WILL NEVER MIX WITH OTHER CULTURES THEY HAVE TO STAY WITH THEIR OWN CUZ NOBODY'S GOING TO TAKE THAT BS LATIN WOMEN WANT TOLERATING SO NO PROBLEM LET THEM BE WITH THEIR OWN
@@abcbee1308za I personally feels it’s very nurturing and loving for the woman of the house to care for the cleanliness and upkeep of her home, as well as to provide wholesome meals for her family. However, a husband should support his wife and be happy to assist with these things as well. Especially if she is also working, how can she be expected to care for everything at home alone, work, care for children, and also cater to all of her husbands wishes with no willingness for him to be there for her needs as well? This can’t be true because I find that so harsh and unloving. Women are not slaves and our value should be appreciated and respect for what we bring to the table. Some men wouldn’t know what to do without a good wife holding things down the way we do. Both husband and wife should be acknowledged for what they do
The nigerian guy i fall in love with infact i considered as my true love is loud like talking to me like I'm worthless. Sadly i still love him but for some reason i just dont feel secure like i dont think hes the kind of man that will stay with me forever.
Sister pls stop falling in love with him. Run for your life. As a Nigerian lady, I can't be with a narcissist...even when he is my fellow Nigerian. If you don't run away, it will end in premium tears for you.
@@XTIENNA I don't understand the question ❓ I am in Nigeria ( have been almost a year ) his mom lives in his house ( now our house cause I am his wife) a long with his autistic sister. The reason I asked what I did a year ago was because a lot of people keep saying red flag if he doesn't meet your parents, red flag if he doesn't introduce you to his family; red flag if he doesn't take you to his village. My husband not only took me to his village also I lived with the family, but it isn't a safe area ( no security) so we went to a safer more diverse area. It is definitely a different culture but I love it here.
Bro on your next video talk about how a Nigeria guy go take get a Filipino girlfriend in the Philippines, I mean the things the guy should do to win a Filipino woman heart so the girl we fall in love ,i think your woman know it all 😴😴😴😴😴
Why do o need to change in order to fit them, if the man loves you he will accept you for being who you are not a woman he needs, Why you should change for cleaning and cooking for them if both of you can help on each other, wake up girls in this generation we must love and respect our self. instead of pleasing them t
I've been to nigeria.. lots and lots of dirty filthy homes and places but the women there dress beautifully when they exit their nasty filthy homes.. My Mother always told us.. you may be poor but you do not have to live in filth.. CLEAN YOUR HOUSE, YARD, YOUR LIFE WILL BE BETTER. This is the truth.
You both are really cute. I did get involved with a Nigerian but he turned out to be a scammer. It was a long distance relationship and till date I have not seen him.
I'm so sorry you ended up with the bad kind of person and I'd say that's definitely on him and not the entire country, so you shouldn't let that deter you from giving another Nigerian a chance.
@@MariaRodrigues-mj6om I'm glad you're one of those fews that knows there's good and bad in every nationalities. And being a Nigerian I'd say some of us likes intercultural relationship, which I'm a part. Btw, where are you from?
Hello Im concerned, my boyfriend is Nigerian, im from abroad, we met when he was on holiday in my country, the first day we met i cook for him, but now his not here with me, we are in a difficult moment we wanted to get married in my country but immigration is not accepting any application for marriage. I need advice please!
I thinknimmigration are doing u a big favour. Why would you visit his parents in nigeria when you not sure this relstionship is strong nd geniune in the 1st place. Maybe the blockage is a message from heartbreak nd losses to come
What is your experience woman, I have many experience myself either, not worry of any man to keep its funny, looked like the Lady there is begging, oh wow rules & regulations sad
I'm a Nigerian woman and have Philippino friends. One of their friends wants to date me but he is too young. When I visited lots of guys were chatting to me. I'm still holding out for a Nigerian man but would probably end up with someone from elsewhere. .
Listen here I'm going to tell you the biggest secret in the universe women from other culture and race won't tolerate this BS . SHE HAS TO BE SUBMISSIVE EITHER IT'S HIS WAY OR THE HIGHWAY HE HAS TO BE PAMPERED . HE HAS TO BE SPOKEN SOFTLY TO IF IF POSSIBLE IN A WHISPER HE HAS TO BE TREATED LIKE ???? SO AFTER SHE COMES HOME FROM WORK SHE HAS TO FOCUS INTO PAMPERING HIM . HELL NO IF HE WAS ALL THAT SHE WOULD NOT HAVE TO WORK . BUT CARE FOR THE HOUSE THE CHILDREN AND READY TO PAMPER HIM WHEN HE COMES HOME BUT THAT'S NOT THE CASE SO SHE'S AN IDIOT AND YOU KNOW WHAT OTHER WOMEN FROM OTHER CULTURE WON'T TOLERATE THIS BS ESPECIALLY US LATIN WOMEN IT'S NOT GOING TO HAPPEN IT'S JUST NOT THAT I HAVE BEEN SO EITHER YOU NIGERIAN MEN WAKE UP OR STAY WITH YOUR OWN WOMEN CUZ WE'RE NOT GOING TO TOLERATE THE BS
