Competitive Bride Tries To Poach Venue Hall - Rich Bride Poor Bride 305 - Battle Of The Budget 

That wedding planner is so amazing! I could never deal with people like that, and so calmly. She even was willing to call and un-invite their guests! That’s commitment to your job!

I get what the future husband is saying about replying by the date. It is actually to respect the timeline on the venue. The bride was being ridiculous about some things. They both exemplify huge RED flags.

😳 This wedding is setting off... 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩😳 I'm with the groom on one thing, if you haven't RSVP'd or gotten back with the couple by the requested date then you should stay your butt at home!

I agree... being a guest is an honor. If you don't rsvp in time you lose you spot. And it's never polite to invite extra people if they weren't invited. That's why they add a plus+ option.

This guy is such a downer. If my guy barged into my dress shopping and started whining about prices I wouldn’t be marrying him.

Big weddings are for others to party on someone elses money!! My wedding was plsnned in 5 days, mom bought my dress, did my rose bouquet , sister got me cake, brother and wife were witnesses and payed dinner at italian rest by the intercoastal in ft . Laud , hubby bought 2 gold wedding bands and honeymoon night and family helped stay with our 3 small kids while we partied till next day . 32 years happily married .its about love forever

I have to agree with the groom about the RSVP. If you can’t pick up the phone or send a text don’t come. Too bad 😒😒😒

People are bashing the groom for being controlling. Come on! They started with a $30,000 budget. There is no reason why she had to exceed that. She was particularly annoying when she didn't want to sell the diamond ring. I thought it was a brilliant idea on Mio's part. It's outrageous what people spend on weddings. I had 100 guests at my wedding and only spent $1,500 on the whole shebang.

You can use a brown runner on a cream color tablecloth! It would be very elegant! Especially with the callalillies!

I agree with the groom! If they cant respond by a date they lost their chanse.

Is it just me? Why was the wedding planner paid so much less than what is paid those in other episodes? What's normally mentioned has been $2500-$3000. But this wedding planner was only paid $1600.

Actually, it is a rsvp, you can. And in my lifetime I've probably planned three weddings for others and attended 20+. If they did not rsvp by the date we figure that they are not attending. It is beyond rude to not rsvp and understand the logistic/budgets of such events.

I absolutely agree with the groom. If the people didn't bother to RSVP on time, they clearly don't care enough about the wedding. So they shouldn't even care if they get uninvited.

I’m only two minutes in and I don’t have faith in the future of their marriage. I can’t imagine how they’ll agree on child rearing.

Deinvite?! Lmbo. First of all...and secondly, it's not the wedding planner's place to call people to 'univite' people!

I also don’t see this marriage lasting long…. I’m always amazed at the differences of opinion on budget prices. Holy cow!!!!!

$37,000 the trip to Europe or Bora Bora or house down payment oh my god that would never be worth it to me

I don't have good feeling about the success of this marriage. The wedding is 1day, marriage is years and I don't see compromise in this couple.

I have not watched to the end but I predict the groom will be a controlling nightmare. And now I have finished, I believe I’m right. The bride could be more mature and realistic, but even then he would strong-arm every decision.

Doesn't she see all the red flags!? I would have dumped him and still be running in the opposite direction!

Somehow I don't feel a bad vibe about this union...they will be K...Gods blessings to their union

What an arrogant selfish bride! How dare she expect what she wants though she is not paying for all of it!

This guy is unbelievable! He got the plastic surgery for himself (!), he sold her ring and he wanted her to buy a 200 hundred dollar wedding dress ! And she puts up with him still. I`sure he`ll find a CHEAP divorce lawyer !

I’m afraid that if Mio was my fiancé, there would not be a wedding. If he is this aggressive and overbearing in front of cameras, imagine the conversations when they are alone. Yes, budgets are important, but when he said, “My money” I just about lost it.

As a bride to be, I cannot imagine brides who think they get to control and decide everything. Should be a partnership and compromising. Not giving into one way or another. Pretty sad. The bride doesn't seem to respect a budget whatsoever. People think the groom is demanding and controlling, but he's at least trying to be reasonable. The bride and her mother don't care about the costs of anything because they're not footing the bill.

hes a bit overbearing BUT SOME can go overboard. NO NEED To BANKRUPT YOURSELF FOR A FEW HOURS

What surgery? He look the same to me

Will never understand wanting to spend thousands on a one day event! Geez. My wedding cost $165.00. Made my own dress(es). Married for over 43 years until my groom passed away😢. Save the money for buying a house, education etc etc etc etc

Here’s a thought: he kept the free plastic surgery for himself and sold the ring that was her part of the radio station prize. Whoa girl. Look at the facts.

This guy was so controlling. 🏃‍♀️ away

Can't believe this guy, if he had his way he'd have went with paper plates and plastic spoons and coloring books as centerpieces.

We've been at this Reception Hall before . Many of these videos are using some of the same places and things . Its somewhat staged to make the show interesting . There's a capacity rate for how many people are allowed in the Hall . This is a Fire Ordinance .

I’m so happy the bride chose her own gown. I didn’t. My mother chose mine. I was lucky in that she graciously offered to make it (fantastic seamstress) but I hated it & it didn’t fit. It was the only bridal gown she ever made (& she made 100s) where the bride couldn’t lift her arms. I had chosen one in a store that I was going to pay for but SHE threw a tantrum. I did all my own beading (which I’m good at) & it was the only part I was pleased with

Everytime someone says "classy" you can guarantee it's not 😂 I hate when people say that word why does classy sound so trashy 😬 and those centerpieces we're so sad they needed greenery for volume and calla lillie's are such a funeral flower

First off I'm not a booshie girl. Having a small wedding or going to the JP and then having a nice reception is totally covering the basis. This way you can have your nuptials without all the extra costs. Get the dress you want, get the bouquet you want, and get the big package of pictures. Find outside areas for backdrop on pictures. I promise you there are areas around where you live that have amazing settings for pictures. Then get a bad ass venue for the reception again nice picture areas. Then throw the best party ever, your first as a married couple. Bottom line the general wedding church pictures wedding party decorations table settings flowers the dress the venue food costs an all these supposed wedding must haves doesn't make a wedding. You can have a wonderful day by selecting certain things to splurge on an remove all the unnecessary. Bottom line is spending money and doing everything possible for a wedding day doesn't ensure that this marriage will work out. And if it's so important to have everything on a wedding possibility checklist then postpone the wedding for 1year and get your ass a second job to pay for all of your wedding dreams.

This “husband” is infuriating. You can tell he gains satisfaction from depriving his wife. He seems like the type to spend money on his own interests though

Why would she take him dress shopping,? She should pay herself can't stand when person paying controls what she wears I bought my dress 47 yesrs ago. It was 75.00 beautiful then.haha. Now 2 sons brides dresses were about 500 00 today absolutely beautiful!! No thousand dollars needed.

Venues are tricky if you don't verify the parking, the restrooms, refrigerator and catering station. The wedding planner isn't offering any services but she should.

For $3,000 I also thought they were buying them!!!

Great to have an update on what happened with these people

The entitlement of all the brides….. “it’s MY dress… it’s MY day… it’s MY wedding. Next will be; it’s MY lawyer. The commentary person is priceless 😂

Between reading the comments and the start of this episode I didn't like this guy....but the longer I watched? This groom was doing nothing more than trying to keep a lid on his fiance's spending... Her parents are paying for a portion and he's paying for the rest .... She's not paying for sh*it, yet she keeps wanting to rack up the bill... In reality... He had to be overbearing and controlling of the budget or she would have spent $100,000 if she could get away with it ...

Time stamp 4:49, she says.....Unfortunately, he has really tight constraints on me.........HUGE RED FLAG RIGHT THERE., I would seriously reconsider marrying this guy.....good luck lady.

How embarrassing for the Bride to have her fiance' act so selfish and immature! I could never imagine being in the same room with that creep, much less sleep in the same bed with someone so AWFUL! The way he speaks to her is so condescending. Ugh. I can't stand watching his idiocy!!!

When booking a venue, or planning a wedding in general, or really any event. Never, never, never plan for people to not show up. Because of this. Exactly this. You don't know if all or 95% of your guests could show up. It is better to plan for all of your guests to show. Then to assume that some of them won't. But then the ones you didn't think would show up end up showing up.

Too controling, run girl!

It's about getting married Not the wedding per say. We told parents we didn't care about the food they pick. They took care of cake too. They decorated & all. If we would have eloped like I wanted We had dinner only. No dance etc never missed it

He cares too much for the budget and she does not care enough

Please stop saying 'deinvite'!!!

Will the bride be required to graduate from elementary school before the wedding? Also, methinks the groom has a teeny thing with control issues. If they are married in three years I’d be amazed. Crazy marrying Crazy is seldom successful. What time is Divorce Court?

Can you imagine what is going to when they have kids??

Everyone here is making out the fiance to be the villain but have you seen the other episodes! It's usually the woman and they are much worse!!!! This guy is just trying to stick to the budget, keep in mind the bride isn't contributing any $$

Selfish groom. Even got the plastic surgery. He did need it

He’s actually right about the rsvp. If they do not rsvp by the date then they indeed missed the window. The rsvp date is there for a reason to give your final count. Also, you don’t have to allow plus ones if you are short of space/money,

LACK OF RESERVING HOW MANY PEOPLE IN THE BANQUET HALL, IS LIKE OVER BOOKING A FLIGHT TICKET! SHAMEFUL ON THE BANQUET HALL MANAGEMENT!

OMG he’s just absolutely embarrassing 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫 I’d die if my husband acted that way when I was planning our wedding

out of all of these I watched so far the only thing actually impressive about this couple is that they only went over budget by like 7,000,, everyone else always went wayyyyy over the budget by the end. I would be surprised to see someone come in under budget ever

I thought he wasn't paying for the entire wedding. The Mom should be able to pay for something.

Some of these are just too aggravating to stomach .

My venders handled everything on the wedding day. The florist usually sets up the unity candle at the ⛪️ church. I wish this couple all the best in their future endeavors.

who gives away cosmetic surgery for a contest winner for a wedding lmao I get everything else but that’s weird 🥴

I have so many things I want to say regarding red flags on both sides for the hopes or no hopes for the future of this couple especially if they don’t learn to give and take .. basically compromise instead of insisting on my way only, or they’re going to be very unhappy or end up in divorce! I don’t know where this man was raised, but I can’t believe that he thought he had the right to come into the brides gallon fitting and decide what she could or could not wear. Clearly he was clueless on the price of a wedding gown even a reasonable price which is not $200! You can’t even go to a cocktail party hardly for $200, so how do you expect to purchase a hand-sewn hand-beaded layers upon layers of fabrics and multiple types of expensive fabric for wedding gowns. He’s not educated about so many things and that was very obvious as he opened his mouth. He is clueless the wedding dresses on an average or $5000 and it was so offensive to all of the women but mostly his fiancé that he would show up at the shop. Sometimes I don’t know if things are done for RU-vid excitement or if people are really that way but I’m very worried for this bride. I have been married not once but twice two very controlling man and my life was hell with both of them. I was a middle child and I did not know how to stand up for myself. I came from a big family and I was criticized and put down by my mother and felt unloved growing up. With low self-esteem is very easy for men to treat you badly no matter how much you love them. This is something you should work on before you ever get married is finances and budget NO PARTNER SHOULD EVER BE TREATED THE WAY THIS GROOM TREATED HIS BRIDE!!!!! That being said, it is VERY IMPORTANT Both partners stay within the budget…Making every attempt to stay within that budget. You can cut corners in one area so that if something needs to have a little more spend on it say the wedding dress or the venue, you know how to control a budget. Many couples go right from their parents home into a marriage and have never handle money. He doesn’t respect any crafts or art in many areas of the wedding… The art of making a cake for example…My daughter was married 15 years ago approximately and her cake was $500 in the Midwest. We bought the Most sought out Cake Designer & Booked her 1 1/2 Year in advance; signed a Contract; & In the contract it stated you did not make any waves or make any changes or you lost all the money you paid down. She did not deal with conflict from neither the Bride Nor the nor the Groom! OUR Cake was four tiered & Artistically painted SO BEAUTIFULLY on the OUTSIDE&! I LOVED IT EVEN MORE THAN THE BRIDE & GROOM❣️❣️Each layer was its own flavor and people were talking about their cake and their wedding for years afterwards. The flowers she picked out were so reasonable and this groom had no clue. $65 for that simple arrangement was so reasonable. She only picked three flowers and granted, Cala lilies are at the High end of the spectrum, but that guy doesn’t even know that. She was so reasonable in many of her choices…I want to say GREAT JOB to the Wedding Planner, Who did a wonderful job regarding finding an extra table the night of the wedding when you had extra people show up; helping to keep the cost down on table linens etc. and also for standing up for the bride when it was necessary and helping the groom to say he was out of line or clueless at about the price of a cake or the price of a wedding dress….Which I would like to say the cake was very lovely and fit the Bride’s vision perfectly, and her dress was GORGEOUS♥️❣️❣️ The last thing I want to say is for all people who receive wedding invitations.… If you don’t respond by the RSVP date it is rude and inappropriate for you to show up at the wedding unless you have called the Bride’s family & Explain why you weren’t able to RSVP and get their permission to come. The food and venue are one of the most expensive portions of a wedding and I have extra people show up you’re not expecting is so costly and often times as we saw in this wedding. I have known parents of the Bride & Groom to either: a) send people away if they are not on the list the day of the wedding and they show up; or, b) charge them for the cost of meal & liquor IF the Venue IS ABLE TO SEAT THEM, as punishment for NOT RSVP IN TIME !!!! I don’t know that I can wish this bride and groom the best of luck because I’m very very concerned about their future. Narcissism is a big concern to me, especially with the groom. I don’t know if he can change his major control and I really am frightened for the future. I hope they can both Bend and grow and change so, IF THEY CAN , Then I wish them the Best!!!

I think he is simply being realistic about not going broke over one day..

Watching 2 people argue about how much money to spend on a wedding, is NOT entertaining.

This guy is totally unrealistic about what things cost. If he thinks he can get a wedding cake that looks like anything for $200 he is dreaming. He is way too controlling but yet doesn’t mind taking things for himself that he wants. This marriage is in trouble from the start.

This is just sad this guy is overbearing

No way on earth I could marry him. Thank God my husband isn’t like that! I planned my wedding. I could’ve had anything I wanted but it only costed me a little over 6 grand.

‘De-invite someone’, surely it should be ‘un-invite someone’.

If you give the centerpieces away at each table, who decides who gets it? I see hurt people

He took the plastic surgery and forced her to pawn the ring 🤔

Those "walls" can be moved Remember it can rain by the way. People, its not this difficult. He literally thinks he can pick the dress. Yea right.

With budget being a big concern they could have saved a lot of money by not using a bridal planner/consultant however with this couple her psychological services were a huge benefit and probably worth it.

I would be going to the court house and go home. Then again I could get a dress, some fresh flowers as my bouquet, and those invited gonna cook and music. We gonna be alright. I will not go in any kinda debt whatsoever. That man is something else.

I can't believe these folks are not getting gifts of monuey from their guest to offset their wedding,

I like her groom

He is a joke that guy thier marriage aint gonna last he too difficult to work with and soooooooooo bloody miserable

red flag on this guy

Sorry, this marriage is not going to last!! I don’t know how she could stand him!! YUCK!!! Se truly walked into that marriage with eyes wide open!! She must of been desperate to get married, nothing worse then a cheap man!!!

This guy is ... weird

That's the point of An RSVP so that you guarantee a seat in it fits in their plans

Wow … Incredible!!! Where did this take place??? No wonder the parents had big smiles and comments about all that was going on, as well as the Bride. I’ve been to weddings all across this country or in our Culture “It’s the Bride’s family that pays for the Wedding!”! And at the famous Kleinfeld Bridal Shop ~ one of the 1st questions about the Dress is “What is the Budget?!?” And for all the Wedding Planner had to put up with and do ~ she was far underpaid!!! Also it is Proper Etiquette to RSVP in the time period requested. And if the Invite doesn’t have a +1 it means you are invited alone. And Who invites more people than they think are going to come??? There are Fire Restrictions regulating how many people can be at any Venue ~ here anyway?!?! This Groom and Wedding Planner are incredible ~ hats off to them for hanging in there. I have to stop… because it’s hard to be nice…

I've been to several weddings, including my own. I think one wedding a person took the table centerpiece. I had tall vases with fresh flowers at my wedding. I ended up with all the centerpieces at my home. If the bride would've stick more to the budget. The groom would've given her more freedom. She could've used fake Calli Lillies to save $. Fresh ones don't have a scent & there are some great looking fakes at Hobby Lobby.

Why does noone tell the bride to lower her bouquet, I always see that crap bring it down straighten your arms downward

I WANT, I WANT, I WANT!!!!

We women often spend an awful lot of time & energy creating and maintaining relationships. She doesn’t want to harm those friendship at any cost. And it’s her day.

contract is broken and that was being unreasonable, i agree with the husband or change the venue

If you cannot nor afford to pay for a wedding and control your finances, then people should not be getting married. Period. That is where the problems start!!!

How did you book a venue and then over invited people to your wedding? The RVSP issue wouldn’t happen

The more of these I watch, the more I've started noticing that some of the conversations and situations seem really scripted. I know a lot of the shows like this are kinda scripted, but one of the things I've noticed this time is the budget conscious one uses the words " In the poor house". Like its used in nearly every episode. Also the person saying it (usually the man) seems awkward and it doesn't sound like its a phrase the person would use judging by their speach pattern throughout the rest of the show. Just a thought. 💚

I never understand why there are so many people thinking the cake is just dekoration and noone ever eats the cake. Have they never been to a wedding? The cake very much gets eaten. Or is that an american thing that the cake won't be eaten or it is just for show?

There's an RSVP for a reason.... But they should've brought up the number of guests before buying the venue.

The wedding is supposed to be nostalgic and sentimental. They could reduce the guest list and reduce the plus one options.

He is starting to get on my nerves I want him to leave

are they still married? how long did it last?

Message to bride....RUN!!!

He is such a Scrooge. That’s a big Red flag. He is homely and classless. He is a Bully and You can do better.

These women are really something else I can’t believe how greedy they are and I want I want I want

Will he also tell her she can’t have anesthesia during the birth of their first born?

She can take off a tier but for 160 ppl and money is a lot 800.00 wow. I'm trying not to 400.00- 500.00. I'm trying to scale down do some things ourselves

Mio has me in stitches.