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Confidence and joy are the keys to a great sex life | Emily Nagoski | TEDxUniversityofNevada 

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Author of the NY Times bestselling book, 'Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life,' Dr. Emily Nagoski presents the research behind two keys to sexual well-being -- confidence and joy.
Emily Nagoski is Wellness Education Director, Lecturer, and campus favorite at Smith College, where she teaches Women’s Sexuality. She has a PhD in Health Behavior with a doctoral concentration in human sexuality from Indiana University, and a master’s degree (also from IU) in counseling, with a clinical internship at the Kinsey Institute Sexual Health Clinic. She has taught graduate and undergraduate classes in human sexuality, relationships and communication, stress management, and sex education. She is the author of three guides for Ian Kerner’s GoodInBed.com, including the Guide to Female Orgasm, and she writes the popular sex blog, TheDirtyNormal.com.
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@Michelle-fm8dg
@Michelle-fm8dg 3 года назад
Anyone here (and anyone period!), will greatly benefit from reading "Come As You Are". Deeply moving, highly enlightening, and so very inspirational. Words literally can't describe how this book has changed my life and rewired my brain and perspective. If you haven't read it, go read it!! 😀😄😁
@kdentertainment2002
@kdentertainment2002 Год назад
Me and my wife had heard about this book somewhere and ordered it tonight along with companion workbook. Her libido is much higher than what I provide so I’m curious what this book says on this. We have a great communication but she deserves to be happy and confident. I’d prefer to be there as her support as opposed to roadblock. Hoping we find advice and answers with this book.
@BretSimmons
@BretSimmons 8 лет назад
Masterful. One of the best speakers I've ever seen. Joy to witness this in person
@ophel1a
@ophel1a 7 лет назад
She wasn't giving advice on sexual orientation. She was giving advice on accepting your personal brand of sexuality, whatever 'orientation' it may be.
@kassies2832
@kassies2832 7 лет назад
Nico Val You should pay attention when you watch videos. It had nothing to do with orientation.
@joshualipovetsky2744
@joshualipovetsky2744 7 лет назад
This is a wonderful presentation. What a delightful woman!
@diaphanouswaffle
@diaphanouswaffle 7 лет назад
I read her book (it was excellent), got it from local library-only later did I find this video, someone posted link on FB.
@drewcress
@drewcress 6 лет назад
Even among all the truly great TED talks out there, this one stands out. Such a superb and joyful presentation! 'What's that?' leads so naturally to 'what might be' - that I'm curious to see what her next books and TED talk will go!
@BoopsNstuff
@BoopsNstuff 8 лет назад
This was incredibly powerful and gave me strength. Thank you for doing a Ted Talk.
@studywithharpal2998
@studywithharpal2998 4 года назад
Hey... I am Mavi from India I am searching for partner who can speak English and can help me so i think u r let's if u ready then say yes we can get connected on watsapp thanks❤🌹😊
@randallmcgrath9345
@randallmcgrath9345 3 года назад
Her Book Come as You Are is AMAZING.
@bearsuo1759
@bearsuo1759 6 лет назад
She actually said 1 in 6 men. Thanks for not being biased. Respect.
@rabbitofthefuture3234
@rabbitofthefuture3234 2 года назад
i love you have a hug bro
@josefineigert9273
@josefineigert9273 3 года назад
Her book Come As You Are is as amazing as this Talk!! Thank you for everything you do Emily! I have learned so much from you and will keep spreading it to all the people around me!
@csmith320
@csmith320 Год назад
Now I extra want to read it now that I know she wrote it!
@tommac21
@tommac21 Год назад
Why didn't you just ask your next door neighbor.
@keithklassen5320
@keithklassen5320 7 лет назад
Fucking love this speaker! Funny, personable, and inspiring!
@tootlem
@tootlem 4 года назад
That was hard to hear, but important! I'm in the middle of her book "Come As You Are" and I thought I'd give this a watch. So glad I did. She's changing my life
@pbm6263
@pbm6263 2 года назад
This woman is wisdom. She is humble as she is wise. She is amazing. Her books are solid gold.
@j4242
@j4242 7 лет назад
This needs more views, this is a great talk!
@zw7719
@zw7719 Год назад
Emily Nagoski has got such an endearing personality, and she delivered a great speech here. After listening to her narration of the book Come as You Are, I've been buying copies of it and sending it to friends. Truly amazing and life changing. Keep up the good work!
@veralevitt
@veralevitt 8 лет назад
Emily you were fantastic!!! Some of my favorite work in the field. You are changing the world, thank you!!!!
@contrafax
@contrafax 6 лет назад
First the talk, AMAZING. Second her. Wow, something about her just hits my gas pedal. Wow to both.
@JessBess
@JessBess 6 лет назад
to anyone who is reading this: your body is perfect EXACTLY the way it is!
@aurikene
@aurikene 4 года назад
One of the best TED talks. Has haunted me for years.
@NoAlbatross
@NoAlbatross 8 лет назад
Enlightened, beautiful and simple (a great great complement). So very well done!
@ezrareynosoo8716
@ezrareynosoo8716 5 лет назад
Wow she filled with love even in her voice I feel it
@elianese9319
@elianese9319 Год назад
Two words: JUST FABULOUS
@missiontocallisto
@missiontocallisto 4 года назад
This clarity and humor is blowing my mind, the content spreads like warmth through me. Made my week 😁🙏❤ more, Emily!!
@AmandaSiobhanLyons
@AmandaSiobhanLyons 6 лет назад
Emily, thank you for sharing your delightful insight. Powerful, witty & reassuring!
@dimitrachr4212
@dimitrachr4212 Год назад
Thank you so much for your amazing talk on such a sensitive topic for many people. Wow!!! 💖
@jc1636
@jc1636 5 лет назад
One of the best Ted Talks I've ever heard.
@traceynguyen6655
@traceynguyen6655 7 лет назад
Fantastic! Loved her knowledge, passion and enthusiasm!
@brandelynmarie
@brandelynmarie 5 лет назад
This is my favorite TEDx talk. 💙
@jasmineford8855
@jasmineford8855 7 лет назад
Emily is an awesome speaker !
@LynnOBrienLove
@LynnOBrienLove 7 лет назад
I appreciate this talk! Such important information expressed so thoughtfully. Thank you.
@itouchtheskyslowlifeitaly
@itouchtheskyslowlifeitaly 4 года назад
So relaxing watching and listening to you here at the top of the mountain of Italy. Thank you so much for talking of this argument. You make me in a good today.
@JuliaW888
@JuliaW888 7 лет назад
This is awesome!! Definitely deserves far more views!
@indigoblue4791
@indigoblue4791 5 лет назад
Such a fantastic talk with amazing, applicable content! This speaker really has something to offer and she delivers it so well. The Force is strong in this one!! 😃
@tanadarko6991
@tanadarko6991 4 года назад
This was so beautiful and eye-opening. Thank you.
@Velaya818
@Velaya818 2 года назад
Absolutely stunning!! So powerful and concise. Everyone needs to see this.
@SalaciousMess
@SalaciousMess 7 лет назад
This was fantastic. I want to learn from her.
@tomsmolen4490
@tomsmolen4490 5 лет назад
Hopefully, you just did.
@peacewayfateswayer530
@peacewayfateswayer530 8 лет назад
So incredibly good
@laetitiaderis7824
@laetitiaderis7824 7 лет назад
she is amazing
@jeannedd.2709
@jeannedd.2709 Год назад
She really shines! Loved this.
@ALEXANDRIAbouie
@ALEXANDRIAbouie 3 года назад
Girl she has me in tears
@poetfriend
@poetfriend 3 года назад
Wow...this speech is transcendent.
@CarmenElRose
@CarmenElRose 7 лет назад
I love Her :) :D made me laugh and made me reflect on what's true... Thanks, Emily!
@lauraheinen-potgieser8147
@lauraheinen-potgieser8147 10 месяцев назад
Thank you so much Emily, truly inspiring and touching, love your sense of humor❤
@alexandradeiseroth
@alexandradeiseroth 3 года назад
She is amazing! Thank you so much
@sarabojarski4601
@sarabojarski4601 8 лет назад
great talk !
@let_it_sin_kin
@let_it_sin_kin 2 года назад
Great ted talk, great in so many ways !
@ENOC772
@ENOC772 7 лет назад
Great speaker and great talk, so much good and practical information. Awesome, so much to do about knowing ourselves.
@honeytoes
@honeytoes 7 лет назад
Fantastic talk Emily. Humor, powerful human experience we can all relate to and science? The sacred trifecta of an impactful talk that will change people's perceptions and hopefully their lives. Thank you.
@dopehat868
@dopehat868 4 года назад
Damn... Sacred trifecta is so right! Well said ☺️
@pandealt.639
@pandealt.639 5 лет назад
Daimm what a talk!
@samso69
@samso69 3 года назад
Thank you 🙏🏾
@andreawashington4977
@andreawashington4977 2 года назад
She is FANTASTIC!!!! And BRILLIANT!!!
@user-bf4wr1tk9x
@user-bf4wr1tk9x 4 года назад
thank you!!
@isabeldemaria0303
@isabeldemaria0303 5 лет назад
This was great.
@leethalinfo
@leethalinfo 3 года назад
Great content, amazing speech!
@tm67245
@tm67245 6 лет назад
Good speaker.
@AleGaming14
@AleGaming14 7 лет назад
Awesome
@lottajarvi2907
@lottajarvi2907 5 лет назад
Amazing speech
@Ocker3
@Ocker3 3 года назад
Excellent presentation
@intentionalness2222
@intentionalness2222 4 года назад
Thank you 😇
@PianoLesson101
@PianoLesson101 7 лет назад
Aha! So that's the problem. Great insights.
@akshaykocharekar1295
@akshaykocharekar1295 5 лет назад
I wish my science teacher was this cool
@fiotheo3674
@fiotheo3674 6 лет назад
wonderful!!!
@brettany_renee_blatchley
@brettany_renee_blatchley 5 лет назад
Desensitization is a *GOOD THING* 😌 ( *Thank You* *Thank You* *Thank You* I'm one of the 2/3rds; I'm a trans woman.)
@atypicalmatias
@atypicalmatias 7 лет назад
Amazing!
@richardjchandler
@richardjchandler 2 года назад
Great Info. for my clients
@sizesmall1756
@sizesmall1756 Год назад
She's like a real-life Joy from Inside Out
@xLoveSparkle
@xLoveSparkle 5 лет назад
Awesome!
@kaleokaluhiwa2915
@kaleokaluhiwa2915 3 года назад
"normal" is not what people need or really even want. It has been used as a tool of social conformity and dominance. We want respect for who we are in all our abnormality. Normality as a gateway drug to being liked and accepted is a fallacy. Authenticity--being who we truly are--is what we're all hungry for. Self acceptance rather than seeking approval from outside is a much deeper ground to rest on.
@a12i9
@a12i9 Месяц назад
Yes but in areas that are strongly associated with shame feeling normal or not so different to everyone else will kinda heal us and take out the shame.
@MarcinHopa8
@MarcinHopa8 3 года назад
Wow, what a masterpiece ❤️
@amandaoreilly229
@amandaoreilly229 6 лет назад
Brilliant 👏
@sinafenty6417
@sinafenty6417 Год назад
Thank you. Remember people cared about your courage
@orionlynx.7592
@orionlynx.7592 6 лет назад
Love her hair and the blue shades she's wearing
@MLD.Ltd.
@MLD.Ltd. 5 лет назад
8:00 ish. Box 2 explained a few things to me lol
@db8562
@db8562 4 года назад
Amazing
@asstatedbelow9599
@asstatedbelow9599 2 года назад
Magnum opus in presentations... I tip off the hat to u!
@kwalombo_ta
@kwalombo_ta 3 года назад
This woman is so beautiful 🔥🔥❤ she's a beautiful human being
@johnofwallace
@johnofwallace 4 года назад
Excellent talk ♥️🏳️‍🌈
@priyapandey8623
@priyapandey8623 6 лет назад
@anna akana brought me here💃💃💃
@samuelurban5536
@samuelurban5536 3 года назад
Little late, but She IS excelent educator. She make s me joy confident.😉
@mihaicretu9190
@mihaicretu9190 5 лет назад
that is just beautiful
@rashmidas3979
@rashmidas3979 9 месяцев назад
The title piqued my curiosity so I am listening to this lol Inexperienced ones like me shouldn't be here 😊
@threat645
@threat645 Год назад
Im reading Come as you are and some parts feel unnecessary. Im around page 605, the weight part.
@MathiasJanssonD
@MathiasJanssonD День назад
The first blue hair woman I ever liked!
@nadinebelfrage5913
@nadinebelfrage5913 6 лет назад
beautiful
@mannygomez5367
@mannygomez5367 5 лет назад
Blu!
@deborahschwarzin5941
@deborahschwarzin5941 Год назад
Lovely perfect
@SonicVariety
@SonicVariety 4 года назад
wow
@grapeypear4558
@grapeypear4558 4 года назад
I love you!!!
@williehorstmann1784
@williehorstmann1784 3 года назад
The final solution......open the mind and create calmness... and then the legs will open....that is it.....no other approach will work.
@howtoaca7504
@howtoaca7504 9 месяцев назад
💝💝
@kevinsalazar1907
@kevinsalazar1907 4 года назад
Wooo wooo what’s that? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA BUENAZO
@antiheroine3611
@antiheroine3611 2 года назад
"Smells like your mother" would be a HARD BRAKE for me, boss. Great talk though
@mattjo5135
@mattjo5135 4 года назад
I saw the thumbnail and clicked to make sure it's not manmohan singh
@rashminarendra
@rashminarendra 6 месяцев назад
I already think I’m hot 🔥 took only 40 years !!
@JulietMcArthur
@JulietMcArthur Год назад
This is a lot of optimistic fluff that has all the structural integrity of cotton candy
@francescafasso8159
@francescafasso8159 4 года назад
thank YOU EmilY! to all native english speakers out there...nowhere on the dictionary..what does yopping mean? cheeeers
@d-ro3266
@d-ro3266 4 года назад
Francesca Fasso I’ve never heard of it. There’s “whopping”, but I’ve never heard of “yopping”
@MikeRoam2
@MikeRoam2 3 года назад
it's "yawping", meaning hoarse shouting. (at 16:37) It's very rare --I've only heard "yawp" twice in 50+ years. (Here and in a poem by Walt Whitman.)
@latinaalma1947
@latinaalma1947 2 года назад
@@MikeRoam2 Wow Whitman that was a lifetime ago....thanks!
@rudraom9
@rudraom9 5 лет назад
Hello dear
@McRemmyBaby
@McRemmyBaby 5 лет назад
So sad what happened to me
@tommac21
@tommac21 Год назад
No they are not. Its the 2 people involved that make it great. Stop making it sound like you know.
@sinajasminhess5004
@sinajasminhess5004 11 месяцев назад
And I thought I knew stuff 😅
@kraken6161
@kraken6161 9 месяцев назад
did she diss Lana del ray or am I trippin
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