FOR REAL! And this is also the one reason I have for wanting to keep my phone private from my hypothetical partner. I've got nothing to hide, at worst it might be something cringe but nothing that would upset them. However, my phone does contain OTHER PEOPLE'S private stuff. My partner has no business reading what close friends have privately confided in me, you know? Those aren't my secrets, they're other people's. My friends deserve to have their privacy respected, and if I had anything of an ex the same would apply (but I don't, lol)
Nobody talking about cut not bluring out that pic of that poor girl who was photographed from behind and has no clue she was ever gonna have that put on the internet?
well i know they’re screen recording for this video, but i meant the reason cody pointed out like “why’d he screen record” is because i think that might’ve been from an earlier time, but i’m not positive (yeah definitely awkward though)
Cody: This was a hitter, idk why they stopped doing this series Also Cody: Ugh this is waaaay too intimate, i don't need details of peoples lives Never change Cody ahaha
That girl had about a million decent responses to "why do you still have pictures of your ex" and she went with "they're good memories", like the worst possible option.
Unless there's a fuckton of them I don't see the problem Especially if it was a long relationship it makes sense that they shared lots of memories! Can't really erase those I would maybe delete the ones where there's kissing or anything relationship-like involved Anything else is fine for a photo or two
Why is that bad? I was with my ex-husband for 8 years, I’m not gonna get rid of memories I had with him in it. We may have moved on emotionally but I still cherish the time I had with him. Maybe I won’t have his pics on my phone, but I don’t see the harm in keeping those memories.
@@lenerush1520 Laying in bed with him and kissing him? Like yeah going to an event is one thing but saying "it was a good memory I don't want to forget" about laying in bed with your ex is bizarre as hell and definitely not something you tell your partner. "Good memories" implies you miss that which you probably shouldn't say to the person you're with now.
@@Talia_Vantas Yeah I'm not saying all of them need to be deleted but saying that laying in bed naked with your ex is a "good memory" is just a recipe for distrust.
I met my wife 11 years ago, the only times we've touched each other's phones is to pass it to the other or take a funny or sexy pic and set it as the background for a laugh lol. 100% pure trust.
mbn, my gf will look through my phone at LEAST 3x a week while I’m sleeping. And also reads thru my personal notebook when we both promised I won’t read hers and she won’t read mine. Like I understand a little since she’s been cheated on before but so have I and I haven’t looked thru her phone once
@@mothhhey, I’m not a relationship counselor by any means, but if you guys both agreed that you wouldn’t read each others journals, and she reads yours regardless, I think maybe you should set a boundary there.
Im glad I’m not like you, I went through my ex’s phone cuz I was sus and he was cheating soooo ya no glad that’s over and I will with my current bf maybe every 6 months just so I know if he cheats on me or not im not getting stuck in something with no idea for years like last time
That guy said it best. Privacy is so different from secrecy. One is respect and trust and one is sneaky and deceiving. I understand that every relationship is different and people have different experiences but in the end trust is the biggest thing
the worst thing about this video is the limited communication. its not bad to have old photos, and its not bad to have loved an ex. but in a new relationship you gotta approach that the right way imo
its super normal to keep pictures with exs. like... that can be a huge chunk of your life and cool memories even if you don't love them anymore. Idk I wouldn't keep nudes or anything but pictures on a vacation or even silly ones are just memories of your life. I think if the relationship ends HORRIBLY then maybe you purge all photos but not all exs cheat or burn bridges.
Not only did she go through her 2 month BF's previous breakup texts, she also let his ex know she was doing it with the screen recording notification LMAO
That makes me feel so grateful because we have full reign over each others phone whenever we want honestly. And we both have never had anything as bad as these people. This is painful.
to vouch for the girl who said she wouldntve dated her bf during his addiction i would assume just stereotypically that he was probably more unhinged and mean which would be reasonable to not wanna date someone like that
Yeah the whole time I was like "Just move past them man, there's nothing in there that won't hurt you." But the girl said she was actively holding onto the memories, it sounds like she hasn't let go of the relationship yet. It's unfortunate that hes coming from a relationship where he got cheated on cause I feel like that may make it hard to move past for him.
@@nikafinesseYou... took a break and called it cheating when he exercised the freedom you agreed to? You need therapy before you try dating fr, you have possession issues.
Nobody wants to talk about how that cut employee planted the Halle Barry situation?? 😂😂 He types it into the phone on screen, I think it was a joke but funny that Cody also got pranked
@@imvenmous8991 projecting hard with your little Pokémon picture lol. You must be 12. And any comment like that is just fishing for likes, at least be honest.
I'm a marriage and family therapist and I never recommend people share their passwords or accounts and especially don't secretly check each other's phones. Before you had to set a pass code on a phone, I never did and if I was busy, I would always ask the person I was living with to answer my phone. There's an old reggae song that says, "phone thing mash up life." Indeed. Thanks for doing this one. ( 2 months isn't even a "relationships", by the way. )
Girl that’s how I found out I got cheated on especially two months in better to know sooner people hide stuff . If nothing to hide then shouldn’t worry
cuz thats her bf and shes still has photos with her ex that "why do u care" was her way of being defensive but its like he cares because he's supposed to be her bf and she has her ex's pics so thats shady and she knew she fckd up so thats why it was so awkward between them.
@lovelysoullthe people in question was her ex. i think it’s safe to say anyone would be pissed if their partner still had photos & videos saved of them and their ex. like can we be serious
I've been in a relationship with the same guy for 4.5 years. We've been living together for over 3 years. I still have photos and messages from exes long before him because I was never able to stick to keeping a diary. I don't have a great memory, and seeing photos from when I was younger helps me remember things. It's helpful to look back and see how far I've grown as a person. I don't look back at those photos and messages with a fond "aw! miss it" feeling, but more like a "yep, that's a part of my history and I don't want to forget it." I see nothing wrong with keeping a log of your life on your own personal device.
Doesn’t have to be weird to keep them, if you don’t delete any picture and just stack them up somewhere, like Cody mentioned. I also do that, because I’m too lazy to go and filter all pictures. However, it is really weird to purposely keep them cause you don’t wanna forget these memories. That really makes you think she isn’t over him.
I think she could have meant good memories in general for why she didn't think to go delete them, meaning she didn't scroll through to delete any of them. Like Cody said if you just take more and those are in the past she may not even think to delete a silly photo in underwear (idk to me it didn't look too sexy?) if your ex cheats or dumps you meanly I can see going to delete all photos but i think an amicable one, especially if it was a long relationship, new photos just pile on top & you forget they're even in there. @@blue.berry.
Sometimes i Imagine Cody in court like "you're honor it was my editors, not me, i'm not like that" and the judge says "200 years, take him away boys" like chief wiggum
God this video makes me relieved I’m single lol 😂 technology adds a whole new layer of aggravation to dating that I can’t deal with. Need someone who doesn’t even like spending anytime on the phone and more time on things that actually matter.
I don't know man, I agree with Cody, who actually deletes photos? All her other photos you can see she takes like ten shots of the same thing and doesn't bother to delete the bad ones. I feel like obsessively deleting every photo of an ex sounds a bit psychotic, like the modern equivalent of cutting someone out of all your photos with scissors...
@@whoishazey the girl obviously hasn't moved on from her ex, this might be a rebound for her or worse, she might be just trying to run from her feelings of heartbreak by claiming to "love" him "so much". Ain"t no fucking way she loves him 2 months into their relationship ALL WHILE keeping photos and VIDEOS TOO of her ex.
@@boiwhatdahellboi69 I know it's halle berry. But I thought I was pronounced like Holly. Tbh I think a lot of people say it like him because they don't realize that's not the correct pronunciation. I mean I just learned that. And wasn't there a song about her that pronounced it that way? Lol
Did the producer fr go over to that girl and type in "halle berry nude" and then give the phone back to her as if her partner looked that up?? That's so fucked up to do. How did Cody not notice that?
I totally agree. The couples who demand their significant other's passwords to their social media is just doomed for failure. You shouldn't feel the need to share every tiny thing with the person you're with. Relationships are about trust. You shouldn't have to read your girlfriend's dm's, and if you do, that's a problem.
There should be no problem with a couple going through each others phones as long as it’s not a constant thing. If it becomes constant/there is absolutely no reason/the root cause is not being addressed then I think that is when it becomes a problem. I have no issue with my partner going through my phone.
After two months my ex didn’t want to be my bf yet, two years after he agreed we were dating, he still had pics of all the girls he’d hooked up with on his phone. If we were on this challenge it would’ve been so sad.
Any relationship that goes on to cut either has their phones completely cleared out and dedicated or they want to break up and this is the best way to do it....that's my opinion
All my exes cheated and the only way I would've ever known is by getting an ick feeling in pit of stomach around them and finally giving in to checking phone and finding damning messages
I think if you feel a red flag, the better thing to do is to just leave. Convincing yourself you “had” to invade someone’s privacy is not the answer. If someone makes you feel crazy and like you can’t trust them it doesn’t matter if they’ve cheated; They’re already a shitty partner worth leaving.
I’m not ace but MAN am I glad I’m Demi and find it rare to like someone romantically. Saves so much energy that I can invest in improving myself/my life
Started watching this on .25% speed (bc of the previous video I was watching) and legit didn’t notice until a few minutes in. I just thought “haha, typical Zade at it with the intros again. classic” and probably wouldn’t have realised if it hadn’t been pointed out to me
Well me and my boyfriend are close and know everything about each other's past. If we were to go through old shit on each other's phone, first of all we just wouldn't. Why would you need to? But yeah we understand that people change and evolve and that the past is important to us in our own ways amd we get to know each other for who we are today and recognize the past too.
