Dad Kicked Me Out & Made Me Miserably Homeless Coz I Was Not Better Than My Brother 

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Do NOT bail them out. Their golden child is a HUGE failure and they want you to pick up the pieces of the mess they made.

Her family treated her more poorly than most decent people would treat a stray dog. Even if OP decides to help them financially, she should never give her dad a job because he'll lay waste to everything around him because he is the all-powerful dad. It would never end well.

That _“Father”_ Had Some AUDACITY !!!!

Like, seriously, I can't never understand parents like these, they always wonder why their children cut contact with them.

I would have straight up laughed in his face and regarded their suffering as the best news I heard in years.

The entitlement is ridiculous. He now gets to face the consequences of his own actions. I would laugh... Parents like this drive me crazy. Education just isn't for everyone and can be successful without going to college.. Thing is, they wouldn't have reached out to her if they weren't in financial need..

I lived that story..at 16 kicked out..I made it and the thing was..if I had died that first night..out there in the dark. A young girl alone..I wouldn't have been around fur them to ask for help..so my answer was no..and no regrets

Pardon my logic but it is the duty of the parents to take care AND protect of children until THEY have all the resources to start in life. Kicking a minor on the street with noting exeption of the cloths you are wearing is dispicable. NO, this lady is better without them back in her life.a narcissic father, a sadic mother and an addict brother??? They made their beds a decate ago.

Somehow I think quoting the mothers, "You made your choice," would be a good response and then see if a janitorial job is available at another company.

I used to support myself doing janitorial work. I had a sibling who was always asking for money but felt he was above doing the same type of work. I think that when you need to care for your and your family you do what you have to do to pay the bills. So expecting a ‘management’ job from family when you can’t get one elsewhere is wrong. You take what you can get, work your butt off and prove that you’re worthy of the responsibility.

He suddenly appeared in her office? I would have fired every staff member, from security to reception, that let him through.

It's actually illegal to kick out a minor child still in school.

Do not give that crap Father a job he will try to steal your company. It has happened to many well they tried and failed. Live your life best revenge is living your best life and leave them behind.

Story 1: Good for the OP for sticking it out. Sweet karma for the "smart" brother and whole sh***y family. Family is what is there for you during your hardest times. What family? Everyone's parents were rised in a different time than them. If the dad gets employed by the OP the fact that he's her dad might get to his head again and not respect her as his boss. Don't hire family. Imagine havign to fire your father for whatever reason and he refuses to leave.

This is the exact issue that my sons' friend is facing, his parents didnt even bother going to his high school graduation last month, they didnt bother to even get up to tell him bye the morning he left for boot camp 2 weeks ago, but my husband and I were both there for both days and I reassured him that we loved him and that anything he needed we would be there for him and that he always had a place to live if they were going to stick to their rule of he cant live there once he comes back from boot camp, since he isnt going to work at their restaurant. He finally told me the day we dropped him off and I hugged him bye and told him how much we loved him and were going to miss him, that he wanted us to adopt him, I told him I had to look into it because I didnt know how that worked since he was over 18. Well we have found out we can legally adopt him and there is nothing his parents can do to stop it or object to it. So when he gets home, we are going to sit down with him and ask him if that is what he truly wants or was he just saying it out of frustration, if he was serious we are going to move forward with it and legally adopt him and he can move in here with us and that will allow him to continue his education at our state university and his obligation to the military. As a military family ourselves, we understand having to join the military to pay for college, but since my husband is a disabled veteran, our boys will get to go to college for free at any state university and I am pretty sure my youngest will not use it as he is planning on going into a trade over going to university and that is fine with us, but its his best friend that is having issues with his parents and he wants to be a doctor and we know that his GI Bill will not cover all those expenses completely, so by us adopting him it will help him be able to go to medical school and not have any debt when he graduates and can start his residency after med school without any of that pressure to repay all those loans. What sealed the deal for us was the night of his graduation when I hugged him and told him how much I loved him and I was so glad that he was place as my youngest son's "big brother" in the ROTC program and that he took that role seriously because it not only helped my son make it through his freshman year of school much easier because he knew he had a friend he could really trust for once and that took the role seriously and it meant we gained another family member that we truly love and would do anything for. Well when he asked me "did you actually just say you love me?, Do you mean that?" and I replied "yes I said, and yes that is how we feel" he grabbed me and hugged me and said "that is the first time in my life that I have ever heard those words from someone that is a mother, because my own mom has never said those 3 words in my 18 years of life" I broke my heart, and now I make sure everytime he calls or texts me from boot camp I let him know how much we miss him and tell him we love him

Think about this... would they have reached out to you if everything hadn't gone wrong in their lives? Nope. He only did now because he found out you were rich and famous. You noticed that, right? Make your own choice of course, but don't let them guilt you into ANYTHING! They deserve to feel guilty after their emotional abuse and then abandonment (BTW, to the best of my knowledge, here in the USA it's illegal to kick out a minor!) They should be ashamed of themselves! Do NOT give any of them jobs. They'll just damaged your reputation. None of them is qualified for a position in your company anyway. Send him some pamphlets of job hunting pointers if you can find any. That's more help than they gave you. You are amazing! Best wishes to you OP.

I THINK OP'S SO CALLED FATHER (WOULDN'T CALL HIM FATHER AFTER DISOWNING OP) DOSEN'T DESERVE ANYTHING FROM OP IN ANY FORM,NOT MONEY,NOT HELP + NOT A JOB.

The only reason he came begging forgiveness is because op is very wealthy. There is NO excuse for what the entire family did. Giving him a job would open the door for the brother to ask for a job, aunts, uncles, cousins, the neighbour who babysat once when op was 2 etc etc. The audacity and shamelessness of these people who literally Threw their daughter in the streets like trash. Never went out searching out of guilt, didn’t even give her a couple of dollars to ensure she’d have a place to sleep and eat for a week. They made no calls to family and friends to take her in until they could calm down. They did nothing and had no cares for her safety. Having loads of money doesn’t mean you must feel guilt and give till it hurts. It sounds like they actually poured all their resources into brother who really doesn’t give a sht or he’d get off his self pitying as$ and work till it hurts. Many cultures are based on guilting their children and humiliating them till they do as they told. Op dad actually asked for a high paying job LOL, what nerve. Taking the crap op gave him, deserved. That they are from another time/culture , funny how their son is still siphoning and living with mom and dad. Where’s the culture anger for him? I wouldn’t bother but I’d highly recommend op takes her time, lots of time to decide and maybe send some groceries if she needs to relieve some stress. Feeding people is the most basic of needs which is appreciated by all

Buy them a 1-way ticket back home.

What her family did to OP was wicked. Excuses of different times and cultures hold no water; this behavior was simply cruel by any standard. The father's tears are contemptable. After ten years he only reached out to OP when he was desparate, and even then was still sufficiently arrogant to demand a high level job in OP's business. She owes them nothing.

I wouldn't welcome them back. I'm also Asian and know the culture perfectly well. For her parents to kick her out when she was a child was just heartless and cruel just because she did not adhere to their decision. Parents are meant to be any child's protector and support, not enemy. I'll say do not waver. Family doesn't always necessarily mean blood.

The parents ceased being parents the day they kicked her to the street. Let them deal with the repricussions of their decisions.

You reap what you sow. My Dad has put up with alot and never abandoned me. I would take a bullet for him. He is the only person who has shown me unconditional love.

Forget that family and move on. All they want right now is money.

"WE HAVE A GREAT TIME HERE." Yes we do. Thank you Mr. Reddito.

OP should not give her father a job. He's already asking for an executive position, something he is not qualified for. And if she hires him he will probably decide that he's the boss and try to take over. She worked too hard to be successful to let her unreasonable parents take it away from her.

Come on man, give us the update!!!! I hope she told them to f off!

Um, the American Dream is to be whatever you choose to be, and to be successful at doing what you enjoy. A college education can be part of that, but it's not always necessary to be a successful adult. You do you, OP. Be well and happy, with or without your blood family in your life.

I'd cut him a check for $10,000 and make him sign a contract that he and the rest of the family is to never contact me again. This should absolve her of any guilt over completely abandoning them. If the father sinks or swims, it's on his shoulders. At least he was put into a better position than OP. I can understand her frustration. My mother basically abandoned me too. I was lucky enough to have a grandmother who did love me. I refuse to speak to my mother to this day.

I love the animation and sound effects. It will keep your channel being the unique one. Have a blessed day

IF you forgive any of your toxic relatives, do it for YOURSELF, not for them. Forgetting isn't even a likely possibility. You already HAD the abilities, the drive &the self-awareness @ a very young age to be your own person &make your own way. It seems like your parents not only failed to provide emotional support but actively discouraged you. Cultural differences can only explain so much, not excuse their cruelty and indifference to a 17 y/o child. You've come so far, achieved so much and overcome their negativity. YOU did it. I'm sure there were those who assisted you, helped you and/or encouraged you but YOU did what you always felt you could and should do. I don't have any ownership in your success but I still feel very proud of you. Your 'father", however,has no right to feel "proud" of being your biological parent. He (& any relatives who enabled his horrid and negligent treatment of a child) lost any claim to that status when you were 17. I personally feel that IF you agree to facilitate his CHANCE to get any type of job in your company, he will try to use it against you. At best, he should MAYBE be allowed to APPLY for a position commensurate to his actual work experience and any provable ability to perform the duties of any such position. As such YOU should have NOTHING to do with him actually being hired. And make very sure you have as many layers of corporate hierarchy between the 2 of you as possible. Any employment requirements, conditions, even payscale must be entirely @ the authority of direct supervisors (& maybe HR?) If that's not possible in YOUR company's business set-up and environment- stay away from him. I seriously doubt he would even apply for or accept such a position. Hes looking for a hand-out. He doesn't want to "just support his family", he wants YOU to do it, after kicking you out of said "family. On a more personal note , if you haven't already done so, please consider getting counseling/therapy to help you recover from your trauma. From some of your statements, I suspect you maybe suffering from PTSD. Do this for YOU!! Nothing will change the past, but YOU can make the future yours.

Anxious for any and all updates 💜

I would diffinately like to hear an update on this story because I can relate on OP being an Asian culture myself,I had to go through a lot to where I am now and mostly I’m in less contact to some relatives back home and no contact to others. Good luck OP to whatever you’re going to do regarding to your father but I’d like to throw a two cents opinion or advice regarding your father asking about job; that if and ever you decide to give him a job in your company; you have to remember that he is from an old school,old belief that even knowing that he works for you,he will still think of you as his daughter and means you should abide by his words,in my opinion if I am in your shoes I wouldn’t take him in my company,I might find him a job somewhere else but not in my company,it’ll be disastrous and a headache waiting to happen not to mention that even now when he comes to ask help from you,he still dictate to what kind of position he wants from you,qualified or not,he has no right,if he is really serious in getting a job and is sorry; all he would say is”I’d like to get a job in your company in whatever position you deemed I can do” instead of high position and high pay, ughhhh typical Asian belief Once again good luck OP,just think it through carefully oh one other thing that f dad gets a job from you,what do you think brother will do? Scary thought

I do completely understand what OP is going through since I was so one who went through this at 15 yo and Caucasian American BUT to be the bigger person I would give him a job Janitorial position with just a small higher pay, BUT I Also would not let him forget the way he and the family treated me and give him his pay FROM your own hand each paycheck.

Dad need to do housekeeping for her Company.😃

I'd say, "I'll help you," and get them three tickets back to their country ASAP. Make them the problem of the relatives who abandoned you with insults and silence. Then, go and live your best life and forget them.

I would offer him an entry level position and make him sign an NDA about him being my father. That's all the help I'd be offering

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I have no experience with this specifically. I do think that I might be willing to put him through the application process or point him at a different company for a position he is qualified for. If he is too proud to take it, that is on him. My dad physically could not work in his chosen field and felt that 'flipping burgers' was beneath him (so he never had a job and we relied on my mother's work and credit card debt). Otherwise, maybe I'd cut him a check and tell them not to come to me for money again, I would reach out if or when I was ready to. I would also have a good long talk with the employees who let him through, and maybe add security to your business just in case.

I'm Asian but I don't force my kids to do what they don't want. I do not want to live vicariously through them. I know and understand how hard, frustrating and miserable it is to have parents like that. I let my kids pick and decide for themselves so they have no regrets and no one to blame but themselves. Lol. If I see my kids flourish in something, I nurture that and let it grow. Grades aren't everything. As long as they get passing grades, I'm fine with it. Being number 1 isn't everything.

Give him an entry level job. It will be humbling for him. He will have to swallow his pride. I like the animation. It makes me watch more.

She can help them financially but no job. I’m so sorry for what she went through, no young child should be put in the street in danger like that. This story touched me deeply.

I’m so glad there are other kids out there like me! My brother was the smart one, my sister was the pretty one, then there was me. My moms favorite saying.

Loving the upgrade to animation!!!! Please don't stop...Thanks for all your stories, look forward to them daily....

I was in the same position you were in. I was 18 ( like, the day I turned) when my mother told me I was never welcome home again. Yes, I was homeless, slept in really creepy places with creepy weird people. I struggle and clawed my way through until I finally was able to do what was always my dream job (that I created). My parents never talked to me again (even hung up on me when I tried to call them), but as much hurt, pain, and scars that I have - when I learned they were in a bad position, my father's health was bad and they were on SS - I did send money with no expectation of hearing from them. They did raise me, even if I was the child they kept saying 'What is wrong with her", "who does that?". I did have a roof over my head, clothes on my back, and food in my stomach growing up. For that reason I sent them money. never heard a word, but I'm ok with it.

Well well well looks like the family hitched their wagon to the wrong child. Guess it sucks to be you dad.

OP the fact you are struggling to make a decision means you have a kind heart. You do want to help an old man who provided for most of your life, but the same person who tossed you into the cold cruel world with no support from any "family". Your family were all closed minded and stuck in the old ways while you are adapting to the world and surviving. They could have tried reaching out or searched for you, but they only came looking for you after becoming successful and demand a job that was way out of his qualifications, I didn't hear once that this man apologized, just make excuses like, "I made a mistake" or "I wanted what's best for you." Just know whatever decision you make remember, even if your parents never kicked you out and supported your business, you don't owe them anything.

"I pushed for your education because I wanted a secure future for you." "Tell me how throwing me out of the family home did that." "I've seen the error of my ways and need forgiveness." "Would you need it if I turned out penniless , like you expected? "

I would love to see an update. Truthfully, the OP has an extremely tough decision to make and no one can make for her. I had to unpack years of childhood abuse with a Psychologist. It takes a lot of work to get to forgiveness. Only she can walk this path, make this decision and live with it. I pray she makes the one she can live with and not regret. I wish her the best of luck, success and happiness in the future.

Good story. Would like to hear part 2!

In a situation like this, the only thing you can do is to thank them for changing your life for the better. It's important to experience trauma and struggle to become a better version of yourself. It's only you who can funnel that energy into something greater.

I really love the new animations! They add life to the stories. As always I'm thankful that you read the stories to us instead of using a computer voice. This story reminds me yet again how lucky I am to be born into a kind, loving family. They're all deceased now (I'm old!) but sy least I have happy memories. Some people are just downright evil!

Be the bigger person and help your dad and give him a job. You've proved him wrong and succeeded in your goal. You won the tests of life presented before you, but you got a story no one can tell but you. Have a open heart and help your parents. Forgive them.

Love the stories and the animation keep up the good work

I think I would give him a chance of redemption. She doesn't have to forgive them, but an entry level job could be just what he needs - both for his self-respect and as a learning experience. It's not nepotism if she doesn't treat him differently than any other employee. And while she feels justifiably angry at his past actions, it won't help her mentally if she becomes THEM in the end. She's already proven herself to the world and I wish her the best no matter what she decides.

Oh I absolutely love the animation it makes the story more real. Please keep doing the animation.👍👍👍🥰❤️

If you DO feel that you need to find a position for your father, then,OP, make sure that he knows it WILL be entry level, and if he doesn’t “cut the mustard “, while being on a 12 week “approval” time, he will be asked to leave. Also you will let all your work colleagues and himself at the same time know he DOES NOT have any clout behind him,just because he is your father and you are his daughter. Let them ALL know that this will apply even after he may manage to get a permanent position in your company. If he stays with you, and manages to earn better positions THROUGH HIS OWN HARD WORK then you can feel justified to reward him, if that is what you want. If he doesn’t accept this, politely shake his hand,wish him “Good Day”and call security to show him the way out. Full stop. Good luck and Godbless.

When I was young I worked at a nurseing home. There was an old lady who bad mouth her daughters. Talking about how they don't care about her and never visited. Cold heartless children. Being we are all from a small town and I asked around about the family. I found someone who was good friends with the daughters and told me stories of their mother being a drunk and would beat them so bad they would flee to her house and hide under her bed so their mother couldn't get them. It really stuck deep within me you reap what you sow.

Speaking as a girl who had who had to sleep outside after running away from broken family, I would suggest she connects him to one of her associate's businesses for a job instead. She'll be able to help her family while keeping him away from her. I can't forgive pain my father put me through but I would want to truly rise above him. I would want rise above him in success and compassion.

I read through some of the comments and agree with the one that said to not give him a job at your company but to maybe help him find one at another company. If she hired him, he would definitely try to tell her what to do and act like the boss to her employees. On the other hand, if she feels that she cannot help him because of how abusive he was to her by throwing her out when she was just 17 I can understand.

The moment they threw out their daughter, any and all obligations that she would have to them immediately became null and void. The parents deserve nothing. The "family" deserve nothing. I would have told the father that I would pay for his funeral, so he would, at least not have a pauper's burial.

He only saw the error of his ways when he saw you had made it big time. He made zero effort to find his daughter in all the tears prior. Seriously, he is facing the consequences of his actions and is trying to guilt the victim, OP, to give him some of her hard earned money. They aren't interested in her or what happened to her when they kicked their child our on to the streets, they are interested only in themselves getting a share of her money. It would be a hard no from me.

Story 1: Have father submit his resume and see if you have anything he could do but not a token management with a high salary

Wow just wow....love the animation

Having been abused physically, mentally and emotionally by my mother from an early age for many years, even when I ha been in the air force for six years. One day I walked out the door and never went back. Was sent a parcel after ten years, they had traced me through the military admin site. Sent it back with the message that I wasn't good enough for them as a child, and neither wanted me then, so they got their wish and leave me alone. You owe them nothing! Forget the tradition. The way that they treated you, they deserve nothing.

It may sound bad, but my mother has all but left me for dead twice now, so I’d go uber petty and tell them, “I hear China has some good resources if your failing here in the US, otherwise get out of my office or I’ll call the police.”

The parents are lucky to have avoided. criminal charges for kicking a minor out.

Good afternoon Mr Reddito. Thanks for the video. Have a great day

You owe them NOTHING. DO NOT FEEL GUILTY. Your hard earned success was all your own without any help from them.

This is awesome please don't stop doing the animation.

definitely do a followup to this story!

I do hope you are able to post an update on this. It was an AMAZING story!! 👍

Never give this man a job. He threw you away. IF you are inclined to help them, you might grant them an allowance for living expenses. As for your brother, he is on his own. He made his choices. He could have had a career and supported them. He chose differently. It's up to him to put in the hard work, like you did, and fix his life. If your parents push you to support him also tell them he must make his fortune as you did.

Yes Updates!!!

I love how the dad said she was given the opportunity for the "American dream" but really being a entrepreneur is the ultimate American dream🤣🤣🤣

don't lose any sleep over it my dad was the same way he said I would not amount to nothing I did more than he did all by myself don't forgive them you will survive without them

She doesn't owe her family a dime!! They turned their backs on her and did nothing for TEN YEARS but as soon as they see she's made something of herself (by herself) they show up with their hand out!! No, just NO!!

I live a simple life free from most dramas. Ive cut off majority of my family. Simple rule i live by is on or off. Once your off you dont exist

"Things are not going well for the family." "YOUR family. I don't have a family anymore, you saw to that."

As a stranger giving advice.... does op know anyone in the industry her father knows and can give recommendations to? Maybe support them as they retrain for another industry of their choosing? And give the same offer to her estranged brother? Maybe even support their visas back to America? Or just give them a one time payment with the understanding that you want to be left alone for it. Can do all this, or none. And still keep no contact with them. Helping them doesn't have to be money, or a do-nothing position. And probably a better positive Karma as well. OP, just decide what you need to heal. And then stick with the decision.

Have you been able to get your channel monetized again? Still praying you're able to appeal successfully. I heard another reddit reader had their appeal approved last week.

She should tell her father he must go to a trade school of her choice. She will pay for trade school as long as he maintains good grades.

My suggestion? Give him a position. Make him a janitor.

I was raised during that same time as her parents but in America. However I was raised in the Midwest, Iowa to be exact. Farming community, which at that time was very conservative. My parents had grown up during the depression and WWII. That made a big difference in my life. Like OP I watched the women on TV, but there were fewer then than now. To put it in perspective, Barbara Walters was still a local TV reporter. Not even an anchor yet. Unlike OP, I was an excellent student, but my favorite subject was history. So I read 📚 and more books while growing up. I focused on the women of history. I absorbed the stories of how life was and learned how strong the women were. I took that to heart and started to find that strength in me. But I also grew up in the 60s and 70s. Some people made huge impressions on me. One of the biggest, even though I was very young at the time, was JFK. And of course his wife, Jackie. His words and life inspired me, so as I grew I decided to "Ask what I could do for my country." I joined the US Army and spent 4 years serving my country. Unfortunately I never thought any further. I also didn't have some of the knowledge I needed to find my calling in life. A lot of the tools that OP had were not even in existence. The first computer was built around the time I was born. We still had party lines on the phones when I was growing up. I watched John Glenn circle the earth. And less than 10 years later, I watched as Neil Armstrong took that "giant leap for mankind". I have watched as technology outpaced anything my parents and grandparents could possibly imagine. Being a Science Fiction nut, I could imagine it. I am so very proud of mankind and this country's citizens and what has been accomplished in my lifetime. From a black solid dial phone to a phone in a watch, with video even. Dick Tracey was ahead of his time. lol. This doesn't have anything to do with OP's question, but I wanted to explain why I would be thinking this way. By my upbringing I lean toward taking care of my family, but the woman I am is more inclined to tell them to "F" off. So, trying to compromise, I would consider something in between. Offer your father a job as janitor or something comparable in your company. He is not eligible for anything higher. But, if I understand what your company does, you take women and train them to become a success. You give them the tools and learning to become their own boss. So, offer your mother that training. You are never too old to learn. Offer her the advantage that culture and upbringing never gave her. Your brother cam sink or swim on his own. I am so very happy that you have succeeded to this level. May your success continue for the rest of your life. Good luck and may you find everything you could imagine.

My parents Carrie and Jim threw me out.I had the last laugh because both died in misery.I smile when I think about it.

I was fine with the old format! Thanks either way!

I love the animation, that is the reason way I listen to you over others.

OP - let them be. It's not your problem. Wish them the best. Don't get involved in their situation. You can make your peace with what happened to you by seeing how karma came back and bit them in the ass. Just because they are family does not make them exempt from bearing the fruit of their actions. Leave yourself out of it. Don't let them put you through a guilt trip.

Love the animation

I think OP is completely correct in this situation. The thing about family is that they are supposed to be there for you in both the best and worst times of your life. You don't get to pick and choose when it is convenient for you to do so. Just remember that one single apology when the other person wants something from you is not a real apology. I would also not give him a job because he is already willing to pull the "But I'm OP's father" card to get into OP's office without their permission. I'd recommend talking to security to prevent him or any of the other "helpful" relatives from doing the same. After all you wouldn't want this to set a president to other employees that this type of behavior is ok.

Mr Reddito, I like the animation alot and would like it to continue, besides the like button I can't afford to help with a donation or Patreon but please keep the animation I really was glad to see them.

Hey Mr Reddito! Keep up the great work! Definitely enjoy your videos! I listen everyday. But that’s exactly it, I listen so I haven’t even paid any attention to the animation at all, sorry! 😭🙈 Not sure if the effort involved is worth it for your channel? Looking forward to hear any updates on this story too! 👍

OP is right not to give father a job especially when he's not in a position to dictate anything let alone what kind of job and salary. Who does he think he is Babe Ruth or Tom Brady at the peak of their careers?!?!?!? I also would recommend therapy for OP to heal herself and let all the past injuries and hurting go and move forward to an even better life.

Forgiveness is important for OP. She has to learn to forgive them for her own sanity. That doesn't mean she has to forget and bail them out by any means. She could give her father an entry level job at her company if she is worried about their finances but with the same expectations and demands she would of any new employee. If she does that her father will have to earn for his family and decide if the brother is just too much of a burden on them.

I wouldn't allow my family to be apart of my business, I would give the family the bare minimum and maybe help secure a better job, but on no terms would I support the brother to,You'd be surprised how quickly they forget and take credit for you success while finding another way to push there Golden Child Notice no matter how much he failed they never kicked him out .

I do expect my kids to graduate high school but after that it is up to them whether they work or further their education. I want better for them than I have done but it's ultimately their lives not mine.

Here because you helped out Lost Genre when he needed it

They stopped being flesh and blood when they threw her out in the cold, not caring what would happen to her. I wouldn't give anything. Her brother can work for them. I'm sure he has too much sleep as is... Another job wouldn't hurt.