Date Someone NEW If You Want Your EX BACK! 

Exactly, I’m sure it’s a good tactic but I just can’t bring myself to do that as it wouldn’t be fair on the new person

We all use each other in our own ways...🤷🏼‍♂️

I already mentioned this strategy ISN'T about making your ex jealous @2:36 You know, active listening helps, especially in relationships!

I agree entirely. Not good behavior

"That is manipulative and toxic."

Good. There's no right or wrong answer when it comes to trying to get an ex back. As I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.

It’s fine to send a quick one-line Happy Birthday text (or meme is maybe even better actually) during No Contact. Stick to NC for another 15 days minimum though, even if your ex replies to your birthday text.

@@BradBrowning thank you so much for your help brad

Sorry to hear that. The distance has clearly taken its toll here and your ex could be rebounding and the other person is providing the physical companionship which you couldn't offer at the moment. However, you should not, under any circumstances, wait to find out whether their relationship works out or not. Focus on yourself instead and love yourself first. Watch and apply the pointers here, too: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-GQY4N04uvtA.html and ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-5nfWRJRrnAs.html However if you want to do something because you firmly believe there's still a chance between you two. but not sure how to go about it, then this is where I come in. Sign up for my coaching program so I get to know more about your situation and therefore be in a more competent position to advise accordingly, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

Sorry, no that wasn't a sign at all. For solid signs, though, here's what to be on the lookout for: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-CsVR7yV4X8k.html

Depending on what really cut the relationship short, it may be time to consider moving on from this. But don't rush. Always take the time to give each other space first, all right? Do a minimum of 3 weeks of "no contact" and see if you still want your ex and if your ex is receptive to contact AFTER that period. Watch this: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-zw0ChuXCEmw.html

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Do you think you're ready to give it a try? Watch this first to help set your expectations: y2u.be/82uUJ7kPXhE and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-9LC1ewgBkIQ.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working ONCE things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI and the golden rules here: y2u.be/1kJ1ybuFIHE

Did you tell her of your insecurities before dumping her? Try to apply the tips here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Y5jwPaxmJUM.html However, if their relationship gets serious, you may just have to chalk this up to experience, man as I don't recommend waiting around for anyone if her choice and who remains to be her choice is the new person. Whatever happens, be sure to live your life and heal from this as well as learn from the experience, yeah? Good luck!

A lot of people say to their ex that they left because they think their ex deserves better. No. If you love someone enough, you will step up and be the person you think they deserve, and not walk away and break their hearts

Dumpers go through these stages regardless of attachment style, assuming this was a serious relationship: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dqnqGWOk9NA.html

An on-and-off relationship often signifies underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. Read this first to know what to expect when you have this kind of dynamic in your relationship: bit.ly/1HjcagC But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot!

This is between you and your ex so getting help from friends isn't exactly the best move here. Any kind of needy behaviour will only alienate your ex. By begging, it shows how you're not respecting your ex's need for space and time at the moment. Can't you see? In other words, you're making it hard for your ex to be attracted to you again. Your best bet is still to cut off contact completely for around a month or even more in order to clear your heads. You'd increase your chances of getting your ex back if you've got your sh*t together than if you were doing the opposite of the no contact rule which is begging/pleading or negotiating/trying to woo your ex again. Well, there are a few rare who take their exes back if you beg/plead but it hardly ever lasts since these people are taking their exes back out of pity. So my point is, don't let your ex take you back out of pity, all right? Here are 5 keys you need to remember when it comes to this: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-eZ6niCLUU6E.html The best way to avoid that is to work on yourself and get your life together by having fun, hobbies, etc. and to stop chasing your ex. I've made numerous videos about the "no contact" rule and why it's important. Check those out. Also watch the stories here and try not to be a statistic: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-1U_IOm8ofFo.html

Hey brad thanks for the reply I just wanted to know considering my situation I have written above do i still have a chance with your guide ??

Ideally wait for her to reach out first about that. Keep your conversations and rapport going and build that to a point where she invites you to hang out instead of you having to do it all the time. There should be balance.

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How were you able to find out it was your ex for sure? There's really no way to know that. Also your ex could just be curious in general to see what else is out there which may or may not have anything to do with you. It's best not to assume. So just focus on you and try to get with other people for reasons I've stated on this vid, yeah? Good luck!

It's best you try to put your focus elsewhere (best to put focus back to yourself) because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-7KE6nb4-ndA.html Watch this, too: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-TBtb34gy6zw.html This should hopefully get you back on track with what you ought to be doing during this time: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-obBIttQSak4.html However, if the relationship lasts for 6 months or more, it's probably best to start moving on from this.

Sorry, but rebound relationships generally don't work, especially if she quickly moved on to potentially another rebound.

@@BradBrowning ok thanks for the insight. Is this even if I treated her well, will she come around after realizing that the grass is not always greener?

This is one of the reasons why I suggest you ought to date again... because 9 times out of 10, your ex is doing the same. It's her decision now but if she doesn't choose you, it's safe to assume she's choosing her current boyfriend. I suggest you stay away and consider moving on from this.

Same man. We in the same boat but unfortunately she's in a rebound relationship 😕

@@andrewrussell5925 yeah I know how you feeling bro but all we can try not talk to her and try giving her some time either she texted us again or not 😔

That's not good. I know it's painful but it's important to have a life outside the relationship. It's time to reconnect with family members and spend more time with trusted friends during this time. I mean, yes, I did suggest you employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM BUT make sure you don't make the number one mistake here : y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-XonMtLFo000.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!

@@BradBrowning thank you sir I'll try one of these following I hope my girlfriend back to me it's seems to be misunderstood by us she told me I had another GF 😞 that's the problem

Self improvement is always key. As to your ex, chances are you two spoke way too soon. So you may want to check which stage she's at, here's the vid for that: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dqnqGWOk9NA.html

@@BradBrowning thank you, I've been following your advices, she even greeted me on my birthday with a not so long neutral message and wishing me good luck... I'm still going on a date with someone, and travelling to different beautiful places.

Man, you got the upper-hand when she made the move on you as it shows she's at least physically attracted to you still and there may still be emotions linked during that time. Anyway watch and follow the tips here first: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-qoEZiPn9EH0.html AND ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-pXKPxAXaunc.html but at the same time, also employ the following suggestions to get the ball rolling: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-gUBNd6pDINM.html

If she's showing effort and you are open to forgiving her and working on your relationship, especially if you can see she's sincerely sorry, then you two can try to rebuild the trust lost in the process and communicate clearly again.

@@BradBrowning I feel I want her, but I can’t accept her as how she doing shit thing by cheating. I feel I want let her feel suffer more & more for losing me. I know it is not good, but sometime I do need healing thing to know if she worth it

This vid is for you: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-kdRB44Zvib4.html It's best you try to put your focus elsewhere (best to put focus back to yourself) because your ex is likely rebounding and you're only wasting precious minutes of your life worrying about something that's out of your control. If anything, your ex is suffering, too, even though it may not seem like it. Discussed that here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-7KE6nb4-ndA.html Watch this, too: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-TBtb34gy6zw.html This should hopefully get you back on track with what you ought to be doing during this time: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-obBIttQSak4.html However, if the relationship lasts for 6 months or more, it's probably best to start moving on from this.

What's there to be nervous about?

@@BradBrowning metting her parents

@@BradBrowning hey brad is this a good sign my girlfriend is talking about having kids getting married and moving to Vancouver on may 4

You know your ex better than the rest of us here. It feels like manipulation but if you think she's serious, it's best to inform her family members and/or trusted friends about it, even the suicide hotline, if your country has it. Good luck!

Well you are making better progress than I am

Send him a short 3-word message like "I dont know what to expect at this moment." It sounds very honest, but it's open-minded. The shorter the better. Then he is supposed to say something... there are many options for answers. If his behavior is avoidant or too casual, you may say I have too much work this week, it will make him think of much proper or accurate answer or be honest. You will know whether he is just flirting because it's Holidays time or whether he is able to think seriously. That you are not someone who buys a cheap product randomly bought in some street, for 1000 dollars. :) Maybe say I have to visit my siblings and their kids, or prepare some gifts something very joyful. etc. He will realize that you are very much family-oriented and that he probably should be family oriented if he wants to be with you seriously, because family is happiness. Teach yourself this mindset: wishing him happiness no matter what but not taking all his words to seriously unless he means sit seriously and wants to build a honest with you, not just have casual forgettable conversations, then he may eventually find himself in sweet spot as well. :) because our brain is too addicted to emotions without us realizing it.

How long has it been since the breakup? If it's still within 30 days, then that's what I call the "check-in" text and believe it or not, your ex is somewhat expected to send one or more of these sooner or later and I've got just the vid for that. Discussed that in one of the vids, including how to handle that kind of message and when and/or how to reply, including what not to text, (so watch to the end of the vid) here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-tev2-lrJq7o.html However, if it's past the 30-day period, then your ex reaching out to you is actually a good sign as that what would most people who are into their exes still, dream of. Take it one day at a time and try not to overthink.

That's totally unnecessary. I noticed a bunch of people having some problems reaching out later on because they've either deleted their ex, blocked (especially everywhere) or unfriended them, which creates an unnecessary dilemma really, if you ask me. The only reason why I suggest NOT to unfollow/block or delete an ex (that you want to get back with) is because you can, in fact, leverage social media to your advantage. Here's how: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-D1GpR5MApQk.html

Let the other guy worry about her. In this case, she's the other guy's problem now and it may be to your best interest to move on.