Will The "No Contact" Rule Actually Make Your Ex Come Back?
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197.) Will The "No Contact" Rule Actually Make Your Ex Come Back?
What is the right way to use the “No Contact” strategy?
Does “No Contact” Always Work?
When is using “No Contact” a BAD idea?
Why do some breakup coaches advise against “No Contact”?
What mistakes do people make when using the “No Contact” tactic?
How can you tell if “No Contact” is working?
What is the right way to use the “No Contact” strategy?
So, essentially, the CORRECT way to employ “No Contact” -- at least, if you want it to work like it’s supposed to and help you win back your ex -- is to actually NOT contact your ex at all. If you only do a half-assed version of No Contact, if you give in and reach out to your ex or allow them to draw you into a conversation… then it’s not going to work, and you may as well not bother. Yes, there are a few situations where you can and maybe even should break No Contact, which I’ll cover shortly… but generally speaking, you really have to stay disciplined and avoid ANY communication with your ex during the No Contact period.
Does “No Contact” Always Work?
No. Of course not. There’s no strategy that will work in 100% of cases. But, for almost all of you watching this video, your best chance at winning your ex back will involve using “No Contact”. At the very least, even if you’re facing a unique or unusual situation, you’ll likely need to employ a “Modified No Contact”.
When is it a BAD idea to use “No Contact”?
#1 - When you broke up with your ex MORE than six months ago. In many cases, if it’s been a really long time since the initial breakup, No Contact won’t be necessary unless you’ve been talking to your ex frequently since then.
#2 - When you still live with your ex, work at the same office, or you have children together. Most of the time, situations like this require a Modified No Contact technique… again, please visit BreakupBrad.com/coaching to work with me so we can develop a strategy specifically tailored to your situation.
#3 - When your ex won’t stop talking to you, and/or when they become angry and resentful about your lack of replies. At first, you want to ignore your ex’s attempts to reach out during No Contact…. But very occasionally, an ex might start getting really angry that you keep ignoring their messages, and at that point you may need to break No Contact. This is pretty rare, and also ties in to the final reason you MAY not want to use the No Contact method….
#4 - When your ex says they want to get back together or asks you to take them back. This definitely DOES happen from time to time -- that’s how effective No Contact can often be -- but it has to be a very clear sign from your ex that they are 100% ready to get back together. If they simple ask to meet up and “talk about things” or if they send mixed signals and say things like “
There’s one simple reason that people claim No Contact doesn’t work or is a bad idea: to create controversy and generate exposure for their website or RU-vid channel. They’ll often even mention some of my related techniques like the Clean Slate Message or the Modified No Contact method… and tell you that these are dumb strategies that will hurt your chances rather than help you win your ex back. They do this because they know that people are searching Google or RU-vid for those terms after watching my videos or signing up for my Ex Factor program, and they want to capitalize on that search traffic.
Again, this is just a quick summary of a few signs that indicate ignoring your ex is working the way it should… don’t be alarmed if you haven’t seen any of these signs yet,though…. Sometimes this technique will be working perfectly, but your ex might just be particularly disciplined and not give in to their desire to reach out to you… in those cases, you won’t be able to determine how well it’s working, you’ll just have to have faith and know that you’re using the best possible strategy. Again, you can see plenty of comments here on RU-vid praising No Contact and testifying to how well it works and how key it was in winning back their ex…. And you can always get my personal help using No Contact and figuring out whether it’s working the way it should by be signing up for my 1-on-1 coaching. Get the details, see my current availability, and sign up at BreakupBrad.com/Coaching… I promise it’s a lot more affordable than you’re expecting.
27 июн 2024
