I really liked Jessica Chung. She was so honest and I really felt like I could relate to her troubled past. I come from a broken family and had the same messages relayed to me about the excitement of lust and chance encounters. I was also always drawn to bad guys and had difficulty developing attraction to good guys. I’m relieved to hear that sometimes it can take months if we are not programmed that way. Thank you Jess 🙏! This gave me hope!
Kait also has to stop saying she settled for JJ. JJ is super handsome, kind, intelligent, funny. He’s a 10/10. Many people dream of finding a man like that! She hit the jackpot. She didn’t have to settle for anything. It just seems wrong or ungrateful to phrase it that way and use the word “settling”.
Women say that and they never let the man forget it. They're still discontent and mask that discontent by trying to phrase it as a "virtue" that they "settled" and are "happy" now. But they're clearly still very aware, very much still thinking about how they had to "settle" to find a man. I don't feel bad for the women, its their own fault. I feel bad for the guys who accepted the women who settled for them rather than find a woman who had genuine desire for the man. Goodluck to them.
Um, this is some of the worst advice I’ve heard about dating/marriage. It’s a horrible idea settle for someone or have someone settle for you. Life and relationships are enough work as it is. And the person who “settled” will always think they could’ve done better. This becomes a problem when it comes to things like wanting to resolve conflicts and avoid infidelity.
I dont think this is at all what they were saying. What I heard was a woman's story of how God renewed and rewired her mind when it comes to men and dating to be able to recognize a blessing and a gift of her husband. Her heartfelt speech about how she feels so lucky to be with her husband was very moving to me and did not seem like the mindset of someone who settled ❤
