Dating a Vietnamese Girl (7 Mistakes You SHOULD Avoid)!

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Vietnamese dating culture is definitely different than that in Western countries, as an expat, dating a Vietnamese girl can be both fun and challenging, and since you both come from different backgrounds, you may make some deadly mistakes that may ruin your relationship. If you are careful enough to avoid bad apples, then watch this video to the end to know 7 common mistakes foreigners make when dating a Vietnamese girl and how to avoid them. By the end of this video, you can avoid some dating pitfalls that may ruin your chances with a Vietnamese girl.
0:00 Introduction
1:36 Not paying for a date
3:25 Not setting expectations properly from the beginning
5:14 Expecting nothing from the family
5:58 Let her parents pay for the meal
6:59 Thinking that all Vietnamese women are too easy
7:44 Expecting privacy
8:52 Flirting in public
9:35 Conclusion
This video was filmed in Ho Chi Minh city, Vietnam.
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@jackg.4520 2 года назад

I am 70 years old and my Vietnamese wife is 66 years old -- and I can say that what you talk about is 100 % true !! Great video for those wanting to date a beautiful Vietnamese lady.

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting 2 года назад

Glad you like this video!

@giannilyanicks1718 5 месяцев назад

pffft.

@philipdrebin Год назад

Sooo... It´s all about money, anytime and anywhere. Having money (as a western guy) is the best way to find the heart of a vietnamese woman

@cgigammez5749 4 месяца назад

this is the same in every part of the world

@ZxSpectrumplus 4 месяца назад

Well, in the west, they will divorce you and get half of your house, car and money in the bank.

@isegard2957 3 месяца назад

sorry to tell you at this era you can't survive without money. No one would agree to marry someone who is jobless and homeless unless they are already jobless and homeless too. It's sad but it's the reality back in the day you still have a hut and terrain left by your ancestors to grow vegetables and survive nowdays everything belong to the governement and unless you buy a terrain you can't do that

@cgigammez5749 3 месяца назад

@@isegard2957 You say "No one" but men do it all the time.

@isegard2957 3 месяца назад

@@cgigammez5749 Funny you say that I didn't see a single person where I live do that neither men or women. First of all I said both homeless and jobless , there are more homeless men than homeless women you know why ? Women get more help by the governement to find job and a place to live than men, that's a fact. Most jobless ppl are not homeless they live with their parents . I was talking about ppl who have nothing going on in their life no home no job nothing ... Unless you have hero complex I don't see why you would willingly marry someone like that unless you are super rich and can afford take care of an extra person and you really love them which the likehood for that to happen is under 1%. you expect the eprson you marry to contribute in your relationship and not being a burder that's pretty fair

@artquez6069 Год назад

Very helpful! Thank you!

@clistens4102 2 года назад

You all did a great job in my opinion. Keep up the great content.

@catfindsmouse 11 месяцев назад

Thank you ladies, you presented professionally and the content was educational

@MalaikuZ Год назад

Great video! Thanks! :)😊

@mitchrblx631 10 месяцев назад

Thank you so much for the help!!

@MrJack63815 2 года назад

Be careful. She paid for the first date now I am paying for the rest of my life. 😂

@jervarolburke6315 Год назад

Same here 🤦🏽🤣🤣🤣

@travysnazzy 11 месяцев назад

@@jervarolburke6315 I am ViettKiue and I know this trap. Do not do it!

@relaxationstation7374 8 месяцев назад

🤣😅🤣😅😅

@baddonkey9322 6 месяцев назад

Not sure where they are getting the info that a man doesn’t pay for everything in America Women in America are, well I wont say it because YT is very, you know

@jonahmartinez104 6 месяцев назад

Woaaah same here she paid first date wouldn’t let me??!

@rexdinarocky Год назад

Thank you for you advice !

@patrickmctube 2 года назад

Good video Trang. Good to know the cultural differences. 👍🏼

@benquach9139 2 года назад

ur best video yet. fun and entertaining

@jaycarter796 2 года назад

Expectations are never a good thing, they lead to disappointment. Vietnamese feelings of insecurity also don't help, which, in itself, leads to expectations, not to mention jealousy. You cannot go with the flow if you have expectations.

@stevenscott9863 6 месяцев назад

Thank you for the information

@surfboy344 2 года назад

Excellent video. Thank you for helping men understand the cultural differences. This should help mutual respect and communication.

@jamesconnors8095 2 года назад

Good editing! Cute! The ladies did fine.

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting 2 года назад

Wow, this is actually the comment I'm looking for. With this video, it took me extra time than normal videos to edit, so thank you for your appreciation in the editing part. (from Trang)

@BujangMelaka90 Год назад

I won't take full responsibility for her family's problems.

@Saltymen 2 месяца назад

I just broke up with my Vietnamese girlfriend the main reason is because she put pressure on me to please her family and try to manage my time and I’m someone that has a back bone and not afraid to hold back on my freedom at the same time I was giving her all she needed it and more but basically their relatives want you to hand over to every single thing that their culture demands and of course submit to it without any critical thinking at the end of you go along you will be mentally castrated

@danielallison2843 2 года назад

Thanks for the video. :)

@waylandledford5519 6 месяцев назад

Thank you for this informative video

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting 6 месяцев назад

Glad it was helpful!

@KelGhu 8 месяцев назад

These are not the 7 mistakes when dating Vietnamese women, but the 7 problems. Culture is not an excuse to continue adopting bad dating habits. Especially when it's all about money: paying for everything, taking care of her, taking of her family, etc...

@gs2tab 8 месяцев назад

There is give and take in this concept of fairness. The same culture promotes positive elements for women in a relationship such as care and family responsibility. Typically in Vietnamese culture the man is given, using your lens of fairness, much more freedom than would be fair, and a disproportionately low level of responsibility in domestic and family care. The point of this video is to try to understand the culture, so in the context of dating in Vietnam, these are indeed mistakes.

@KelGhu 8 месяцев назад

@@gs2tab I'm Vietnamese and I don't believe this is good culture. It's both retrograde and reductive.

@alfaromeo6985 2 месяца назад

@@KelGhu Perhaps you meant "reactive" instead of "reductive"?

@Cray2TheZ 5 месяцев назад

What a wonderful video by such lovely ladies! Thank you for helping me avoid these mistakes! Personally, I would have made the mistake of letting the parents pay if they insisted multiple times because I wouldn't want them to feel like I am rejecting their generosity and maybe even making them feel like I think they need my charity. Here in Switzerland, this could be seen as rude. Also, I heard that Vietnamese women like to always check where their boyfriend is and what he is doing and I don't mind that but I didn't know this extended to passwords of all kinds and I thank you for the warning too. I would have nothing to hide from my girlfriend but it would certainly be a bit surprising for me at first, even though I don't mind it and think it's cute. Great job to all of you, your English is marvelous and your enthusiasm is contagious! Liked and subscribed :)

@onetime5640 2 года назад

Thank you , I learned a lot from your video . 🌺. ❤️.

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting 2 года назад

Glad it was helpful!

@pentecostTV 2 года назад

good job thanks

@thegreat116 2 года назад

They did a great job! 👍🏽

@travelingjazzman117 2 года назад

Thank you Trang and the team at Duong Global Business Consulting Group. I think it's nice that this channel makes videos on a variety of topics. I feel that the topic of this video is very informative and helpful when it comes to intercultural communication and understanding different cultural dating norms.

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting 2 года назад

Thank you for your kind comment, we appreciate it.

@bufordard Год назад

Cute video. It was informative 👍

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting Год назад

Glad you liked it!

@freddypaniagua4626 Год назад

Thanks for all tgat info4mqtion . Some a learn for my next viet nam trip.

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting Год назад

Glad it was helpful!

@billharris3090 Год назад

Thank you very informative

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting Год назад

Thanks for watching!

@VK-tq4il 2 года назад

Interesting, thanks.

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting 2 года назад

Thanks for watching!

@cmax4488 Год назад

The girls interviewed on this video did a great job. I am considering moving to Vietnam and this is extremely valuable information to have. Thank you

@arashitohwa4047 2 года назад

Helpful video if Vietnam ever opens back up for regular tourists. Hopefully before I get old...

@rhinodavibe 2 года назад

I only have a problem with taking care of the family, and giving the girl my social media and email password😂🤦🏿‍♂️

@bodieb.1239 4 месяца назад

I enjoyed your video and explanations very much. I see this is a 2 year old video so will check for more recent ones. Thank you again and look forward to learning about Vietnamese women and the culture. I also hope to be able to use your tips and suggestions.

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting 4 месяца назад

Thanks for watching!

@selectivegrey1255 Год назад

I think they both presented well, and have adorable voices.

@VietnamWalker 2 года назад

Nice video!

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting 2 года назад

Glad you enjoyed it

@MetaverseAdventures 2 года назад

My vietnamese wife (25) says these are generally true but NOT for all like her, so it is best to inquire than to assume. The video sort of touched on this around if they are educated etc. but I think it is more complex than that as not all have access to the education they want and need.

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting 2 года назад

Correct. Everybody is different, as mentioned in the video.

@dasse1588 2 месяца назад

This helped me out a lot. Some unresolved closure from a very painful experience

@joerodino 2 года назад

Vietnamese culture is very deep and profoundly different from Western culture. Great job of educating Westerners. Being aware and sensitive to those differences is an absolute. Love is love, and if it was meant to be, everyone will be happy.

@wtzan 2 года назад

until she ask you to buy her parents a house, then you say " do you want to leave through the door or the window "😂

@karlsonyap699 Год назад

I fully agreed with you. I know this girl from hcm known her one week she became my gf and tell her huge debts. When i became soft hearted to offer help, i am the one who took up the huge debts. But alot of my friends including my sister told me not to fall into it. I did not help in the end.

@jaws2003 2 года назад

I know this would be a hot topic!!! This is good to know. I wonder how learning Vietnamese will help you.

@jaws2003 2 года назад

@@altran1125 very true. I know Vietnamese isn't an easy language to learn but I already know Spanish. I know if I like vietnam then I will start learning it. Thanks to this channel Vietnam has a lot of things I like for southeast Asia.

@popskyi1 Год назад

I am not Vietnamese but I am an Asian. I feel guilty if I am not paying for food for my gf. I always pay whenever i go out with my vietnamese gf but my gf she sometimes paid in advance before me... This is not just with gf. Even If I go out with my friends, if I am the one asking them for an outing, normally I will pay or sometimes my friend will insist to pay. The most important thing is mutual respect and understanding.I treasure this culture as long as ones not advantages on each other.

@BeeNeeLimitless 2 года назад

I can see why Vietnam is Developing faster. Very honest and smart people. Thank you for sharing your knowledge 🙏

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting 2 года назад

Thanks for watching!

@Chr1s8o8 Год назад

“Honest” lmfao!!!

@queenmonkeyhead 2 года назад

number one mistake is taking advise from how to date on a RU-vid site.

@vinthevietkieu 2 года назад

i never expected this channel to have content like this. interesting video 🙌

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting 2 года назад

Thank you for your kind comment, this is also the first time we do some fun content like this with other team members, I hope you will continue to support us in future videos too. (from Trang)

@stevefrench7036 Год назад

Hello, I have a question, I hope you can provide me an answer! I'm chatting with a vietnamese girl at the moment (I'm in VN and plan on staying long term), but I am the only one initiating communication, her answers are more than just pleasantries, she asks questions back, shares pictures etc. but I have to open the conversation every time. Is it customary or am I wasting my time ? (In the West, I would be seen as clingy and needy, but here I just want to show her that I'm interesting in her well-being.) Please help me, I really don't like the uncertainty of chatting online so it's a bit challenging to be centered. Have a good one!

@elpyroholic 7 дней назад

This video is straight facts. 💯 💯 💯 Real! I am going out with a Vietnamese girl and this is all true. Heed their advice and listen well for they grant the adequate knowledge required for this journey. Happy relationships yall :)

@patrickrambeaux9796 2 года назад

I met my Vietnamese girlfriend 2 years ago and all is really nice. I hope to go back there very soon, because it's a long time we are separated, because covid. We are really in love and we are hurry to see both again. I hope to go back in Vietnam very soon.

@Atto9o5 2 месяца назад

Hows life with your lover now?

@patrickrambeaux9796 2 месяца назад

@@Atto9o5 Now i live in Vietnam, i'm maried, i'm enjoying my time with my wife, it's amazing 👍🇻🇳

@Atto9o5 2 месяца назад

@@patrickrambeaux9796 wow that's so great too hear, me(filo) and my gf(viet) meet online and we plan to meet irl with families too in the future, do you have any suggestions I've already have ways but I want to hear your suggestions

@patrickrambeaux9796 2 месяца назад

@@Atto9o5 Ok, what kind of suggestions ?

@Atto9o5 2 месяца назад

@@patrickrambeaux9796 like Vietnam gifts or food suggestions so I can cook and impressed her parents

@brendanhayward 2 года назад

I’ve already made several mistakes that are unrecoverable 😫

@keyblades2 2 года назад

Im liking Vietnam more and more everyday. I have the bad habit of always paying for every date and I love to be a gentleman and take the lead. Much better than avg American woman and I live here. Honestly very educational and loved it !

@hught6885 Год назад

If the girl is pretty she’ll have 7 guys on the payroll. meaning they just call you up for a free meal for them and their friends. And every date they will recommend you take them to a $200 plus a night dinner/date. With a bottle of wine is $300 a night plus and they’ll ask to bring a friend Remember, your NOT a human being, you’re just a walking ATM machine

@kevbrown1867 2 года назад

The west was like that back in the 60s men would always pay now they go on dates and split the bill . They don’t get too far in Vietnam doing that ,they would be considered worse then a cheap Charlie. Girls any man that doesn’t pick up the bill run as fast as you can he isn’t worth your time

@miketran7243 2 года назад

NO MONEY, NO HONEY PERIOD ! : )

@gerritnhatrang3715 2 года назад

Hahaha yeah right! No money no honey, no **

@miketran7243 2 года назад

@@gerritnhatrang3715 : )

@ludoprovo 2 года назад

well, then try to improve your sex skills and you'll see you won't have to pay.

@ernestjoseph6219 Год назад

Great Duong Team . Great video and insight

@steadyeddy7473 2 года назад

Thank you so much Trang. Your friends did a good job, I hope they will make more appearances in the future. The video was great but I suspect there are a lot more than 7 mistakes foreigners make when dating a vietnamese girl. 😂

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting 2 года назад

Thanks for your kind comment Steady Eddy, Hoa and Ngoc Anh would be very happy to know that you enjoy their contribution to the video, and yes, there are definitely more than 7 mistakes, maybe we will do a part 2 for this topic someday. (From Trang).

@user-ww3cd7tk8n 2 года назад

One fact that became clear from the interviews conducted was that the double standard was still very much in operation. I agree if guys make more, they should pay more. But it simply sounds like expectations are set take care of her AND her family members.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 11 месяцев назад

That is why I don’t think anyone should marry a Vietnamese girl from Vietnam as they are greedy. I am Vietnamese American and am sooooo different from them. One of my brothers married a girl from Vietnam and is suffering now. They are so greedy.

@gs2tab 8 месяцев назад

The exchange is that Vietnamese women are expected to take great care of men and the man's family. For many women, it's practically slave level.

@bennyshaysevand5935 2 года назад

Trang and friends , I have learned so much information from you in the past few months about Vietnamese lifestyle and culture , thanks for great job and informative Videos .

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting 2 года назад

Thank you very much for watching this video.

@ash.ab.5575 Год назад

I like the video choreography planing

@mishomishev3283 2 года назад

as long time here and married for vietnamese i can say : different culture different understandings about life and living you marry viet girl make sure you got a deep pockets will support mother father sisters and brothers every month someone will need money if u cant give money food from the fridge will disappear its not what western belive she will stay home take care house kkkkk BIG NO. all he time she will show off she is married foreigner and she is rich that what it means firegner = unlimited money and this is the best the best scenario worse is she takes money from you and give it to young lover cheating in VN is very common you need buy new SH moto and gold diamands so she get the insurance incase you break up she can resell and keep living good until next carp :))

@boomerang1125 5 месяцев назад

I'm an American living in the US. There are a lot of Vietnamese girls who have immigrated here and have lived in the US for a number of years. (1) Do you think the expectations outlined in your video are true for expat Vietnamese girls living in the US? Or put another way, do you think they have become "Americanized"? I get the feeling, prior to going out on a 1st date with a lady in whom I'm interested that she still holds on to her native Vietnam values (she's from Saigon) and its customs and she isn't really feeling "Americanized". I want things to go smoothly. Do you have any additional thoughts on the subject matter? (2) I'm a generation older than she is. She's in her 50's and I'm in my 70's. I'm not feeling that the numerical age difference is any big deal with her. Do you have any thoughts about age disparity? (3) We're planning on having a nice dinner at a restaurant that specializes in Thai, Loatian and Vietnamese cuisine (as opposed to a 'fast food' fried rice and sushi place). I'm thinking she'll enjoy that. Any thoughts? (4) After a 1st date, would a kiss goodbye be appropriate? Or is that considered too 'forward'? Thanks.

@anhLe-hn3ig 11 дней назад

Be natural. Go with the flow. You got 70+ years of experience. Be courteous, be nice, be yourself.

@trickpa80 2 года назад

Same in Brazil, the man pay all costs on a date days ... at home when u merried still the same ... sometimes both combine to share monthly expenses

@gs2tab 8 месяцев назад

This is quite accurate. It definitely doesn't apply to all Vietnamese girls, but it's good to apply as a general rule.

@DrMRChef1165 2 года назад

I’d like to meet my girlfriend’s family 😂😅. I wasn’t expecting Duong global to give dating advice

@StockByte 2 года назад

I’m thinking this video was the girls’ idea as a PSA. 😆

@ricksanchezrosallini3482 4 месяца назад

Thank you! I'm Latino and we are very affectionate, and I've noticed the girl that I'm dating she's Vietnamese and she doesn't like public affection she had to explain that to me because I thought that she didn't like me because of that lol

@BreadNinja 2 года назад

If you're a gentleman you'll do just fine 🕴

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting 2 года назад

Agree!

@jomoautogarage8391 Год назад

Hello

@jomoautogarage8391 Год назад

How are you doing thank you for the update

@jomoautogarage8391 Год назад

Am coming to Vietnam hopefully we shall meet

@Robertmacmedia 2 года назад

Thanks for sharing, I invite I pay.

@fazolkhan2663 2 года назад

At the moment, the Vietnamese government has not given permission. The husbands of Vietnamese girls have been abroad for two years, and their wives are with them.

@hanglee5586 2 месяца назад

I know a man with cerebral palsy who married a Vietnamese-American woman and has a 12 year old son together.

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting 2 месяца назад

Of course, why not? His physical condition should not define his persona.

@Oh6Torch 2 месяца назад

I dated a Vietnamese woman. She was constantly accusing me of cheating. After 5 years with her, I found out that guys on FB were asking her to respond to their texts. They told her she was beautiful and they wanted to get to know her. She never told them she had a boyfriend. It was years before we broke up on an extra FB account she created. So, I'm certain she was the cheater projecting her infidelity on to me. But I'm not jaded. I'm being introduced to a couple of Vietnamese women this weekend.

@wtzan 2 года назад

CAN'T BUY ME LOVE - BEATLES

@justinbeau5913 2 года назад

Gimme some truth- John lennon

@vincetvvlogs5165 Год назад

Xin chao! Thank you a lot to made this video ,you know I'm a Pilipino so I have vetnamis friend that's why I learned a little vetnamis language

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting Год назад

Glad it was helpful!

@vincetvvlogs5165 Год назад

@@duongglobalbusinessconsulting absolutely!

@nysheet 11 месяцев назад

thanks

@louiskats5116 2 года назад

Goodday Trang, Congratulations on your new video & wish you & all the girls all the best going forward. Yes I was in a relationship with a Vietnamese girl for 2 years here in Australia. Very challenging, but also once you understand the Vietnamese culture it was a fantastic relationship with loyalty and honety. Unfortunately her visa ran out & returned to Vietnam & since married & has had 3 children. We are still friends secretly. One big deal about marrying a Westerner is having mixed baby which is highly regarded in Vietnam. Is this still true. Your number 1 Fan in Australia Louis Kats from Melbourne Australia ☺ 👍 ❤

@SlugsThaWarlord 2 года назад

so basically what i got from this is don't date a Vietnamese women

@vietkieu3275 2 года назад

Forget it! This Vietkieu is NOT marrying a Vietnamese girl if I have to be responsible for her entire family😅😂😂 Take care of your own family problems. Sheesh

@travysnazzy 11 месяцев назад

@Vietkieu3275 exactly since marriage is transactional why get into a business situation where you take on all liablities! Vietnamese culture has been consistantly poor through history becauuse of this. you have to continually give money to unproductive members of your family and society. Societies based on meritocracy like some in the west end up the richest.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 11 месяцев назад

Exactly! My second brother fell for it and now is suffering. My other brothers refuse to marry any girls from Vietnam. Two of my other brothers married a Vietkieu and a Chinese American. They are better off.

@gs2tab 8 месяцев назад

How about a girl from a wealthy Vietnamese family? But you have to be high value already, especially in wealth.

@alfaromeo6985 2 месяца назад

@@travysnazzy Let's face the reality here. 1) Most Vietkieu looking for a wife in Vietnam are due to the fact that they cannot afford Vietkieu females in the states, who have emulated their American sisters to be demanding and manipulating the legal system to clean out their soon-to-be exes. It is a mine field when things do not work out. 2) Many Vietkieu, due to their lower socio-economic, cannot find suitable partners among the local population who would meet their required age and look requirements. 3) Many other Vietkieu in their sunset years want to have a much younger wife....twenty to thirty years age gap. Paying for her family welfare is merely a business expense to make up for the age gap especially where they are well off and successful in the States. 4) Marriages in any culture/ethnicity are transactional as you pointed out. It is a contract between two parties. You give up this in order to get that. It is personal and varies from one individual to another. If the contract breaks both sides have their expectations which are not fulfilled either due to misleading and/or dishonest intention right from start.

@christianvelazquez6730 7 месяцев назад

im in love with a Vietnamese girl she’s pure wifey material very respectful very mature

@edoardoabeni6450 25 дней назад

Wow, so true! My Viet girlfriend wanted to check 2 hours my phone after the 3rd date!

@alew1133 6 месяцев назад

Practically all topics are ok for me. Except for #6 is a BIG contentious topic between my VN girlfriend and I. I tend to be extremely affectionate in public due to my culture & personal upbringing while my GF is reserved when she is outside. Flirting In front of Parents/siblings i can understand that would make her uncomfortable. However I feel no shame with a bit of flirting in public / around acquaintances. So basically I feel sometimes rejected even after all these years.

@HiPlayerProdigy 5 месяцев назад

I think you guys get the marrying the family thing mixed up with marrying into the family. You don't marry the family you marry the woman.

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting 5 месяцев назад

Different country, different culture.

@johnnysilverado3234 2 года назад

Omg it the biggest challenge of my life

@RickMichaels-if5eq 10 месяцев назад

I think that i’m going to stay single. It’s all the same everywhere.

@ahmedgaafar5369 2 месяца назад

huge respect to your nation people...god bless Vietnam .

@Sam-yj6br Год назад

Is there any vietnamese girl here in Kuala Lumpur Malaysia? i would like to meet.

@dinhscot 2 года назад

Haha.. what the hell? All I hear is pay this pay that, pay pay pay as its for gaining face. oh ok... But what kill me and is a major deal breaker. Your jealous GF need to have access to your smart phone.. and must know your password to your phone, FB, Gmail etc... haha. My financial life and net worth, access to all my stocks and banking is on "MY" phone, so Forget that.. all she get a a boot from me and me on to the next candidate

@gs2tab 8 месяцев назад

That's the one rule I think is actually not so common. I don't know any foreign-Vietnamese couples who are like that. But it touches on a major factor for the importance of transparency. Jealousy is wild in Vietnam. Girls are super super jealous. It's probably because cheating (of all kinds!) is so common in the culture. It's also common for 1) Vietnamese men to transition their perception of their wife to simply the mother/carer of the kids, and 2) be sexually inexperienced when marrying. This increases their desire to play around, whether it be paid or not. Divorce is uncommon mostly because of the pressure on Vietnamese women; they are expected to stay loyal and keep the family together. In a divorce, women usually get the blame. They can even be blamed for the infidelity of their husband. So this allows men more freedom to try to fool around. Prostitution is ridiculously common too. It all comes down to proving that you have nothing to hide.

@pagagaj Месяц назад

There are mistakes vietnamese women doing when dating western guy: - expecting man will pay all from day 1, aprt of that we want to test her she is humble and not only money oriented [this is TEST do not get trapped] - man will ask you what you want to do or what is your plan to see you are indepedent and have hobbies - we love showing affection on public - that means we really serious with you and want to show to public you are the ONLY one. - we will respect your privacy and expecting the same because we are raised in the way that "trust" is foundation of relationship - do not get into situation you in hidden check his wallet, phone or even corespodence etc.. You can ask him but respect refusal - Western man usually well educated and mannered ready to pay for lunch for you and familly - we straighforward - do not test us, if you want to pay and insist of paying we respect you and simple let you pay.

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting Месяц назад

Why should locals adapt in their own country?

@pagagaj Месяц назад

@@duongglobalbusinessconsulting what if such vietnamese women lives in his country? And further is love mutual or one side? Where is compromise?

@duongglobalbusinessconsulting Месяц назад

No. Our channel is about living in Vietnam and the video is geared towards people who are coming to Vietnam.

@cgigammez5749 4 месяца назад

What happens if i dont help them out? i dont even help out my own family except my sister/mother

@stevenfisher2804 2 года назад

Where in Vietnam can one find single Vietnamese women? What about dating sites? Which ones are reliable? Very good video!

@wtzan 2 года назад

HCMC, district 1 bui vien

@stevenfisher2804 2 года назад

@@wtzan Thanks!

@dalexplym4882 2 года назад

@@stevenfisher2804 Bui Vien is fun to experience, but 1) It has been through some changes during the scamdemic, and may not be the same when you and I are allowed back in, and 2) Unless you're seeking bar girls and "Paid relationships" you'll do far better by looking in other places -- language classes/exchange, international gatherings, and even parks or shopping malls.

@stevenfisher2804 2 года назад

@@dalexplym4882 Yes, I agree! Thanks for the info!

@1519Cortes 2 года назад

good because I'm looking for a wife! Very helpful video. Thanks

@brad996 25 дней назад

Don’t pay the bill. Do a dine and dash and see who can run the fastest.

@H.G689 2 месяца назад

In terms of the mentioned trap on 6:50, frankly speaking I neither understand it nor appreciate it! Although being from a culture, where men MUST handle everything including payments. However, when someone invites me that means I am his guest. Offering him to pay the meal means that he has no money to afford such an invitation! In another way, it's a humiliation to offer someone paying the bill, when he's the one who invited you to be his guest.

@ludoprovo 2 года назад

First off, how it is related to global business consulting? Then paying for a girl?? Well, your audience is not all sexpat!! I really feel offended when I see that! And why not a video "dating a vietnamese man?". Oh yeah I forgot... sexpats, right? And yeah, it looks like everything is related to money when it's about dating a girl in your opinion!

@yungnguyen82 3 месяца назад

theres no mention between the different north and south women. If you want wife material marry a northern. If you want to have fun date a southern.

@luckysurfer9097 2 года назад

Your two new reporters are off to a good start. It seems to me that early commitment, family involvement, paying for everything, being the leader, and cell phone passwords also includes sex. Any girl who looks through my cell phone should expect a warm, loving night between the sheets. lol

@ChosenJuana Год назад

😔 so many regrets

@supersquirrel7546 3 месяца назад

So are you saying there's no such thing as casual dating among men and women in Vietnam? All the women are geared towards serious relationships and eventually marriage? What about after marriage? Do Vietnamese people still hang out with friends? Can wives go out "just girl's night out?" What about guys hanging out? Not everything has to be sexual in nature in Western mentality.

@r.s.1056 6 месяцев назад

Hello everyone. Good video and thanks for the instructions. I am 52 years old and divorced after 29 years of marriage. I would like to meet one such Vietnamese woman with whom I will spend the rest of my life.🙂. Which site can you recommend but that it is not just a scam.

@ngocmink5409 Месяц назад

you can find vietnamcupid

@brucechopstix8438 2 года назад

let me try Most likely I'll fail but it's ok 😂😂

@clintonroper007 2 года назад

Your guest visitors to the show were great! Thank you for the advice. Are they single? ☺️ just joking

@JD-hb5zc 2 года назад

Funny video especially for a channel such as this. But Foreigners don’t really need a “dating guide” from what I see. Even the low end ones (I.e RU-vidr Fat And Broke) who without any real jobs or anything special intellectually can score a Vietnamese girl.

@BlueGravity777 2 года назад

I'm guessing this is just the tip of the iceberg.

@kostarum 2 месяца назад

Well, to be honest, number 3 is completely no-go zone, are we westeners cows to be milked or what ? If I marry girl, I marry only her, why should I care for neigboors, or relatives ? Ok, for parents I care, yes, but not for whole family, that is way too much. Or this number 3 is more problem with families wihout education, or living on the village ? I am so confused, please help me out.

@stevenpan5800 17 дней назад

in the west, this is how it started. now most women work and demanded that things become 50/50. it is now happening in the east as more women enter the workforce.

@kostarum 2 месяца назад

Why I have an feeling, it is all about money ? Where is here TRUE, UNCONDITIONAL love, without these problems ? When I hear many of points....I see only greed and money, not true love !

@wintersheet Год назад

This video should be called: "how to follow generic gender roles" .......... This pretty much applies to most developing countries in the world, and it encourages the idea that any american or european foreigner have money. And the women that fall for that, (due to the power of the dollar, euro, or brittish pound) end up living on a trailer with their unemployed husband that took them to America.