Dating Advice for an Asian Ivy League Engineer 

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Never ever simp! Better be egotistic and outwardy facade friendly.

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there is no money , status, ivy league for your face and height

Especially nowadays, women have far far far more options. Even if you're a great dude with lots going for you, it's very likely there's someone just as good or better competing with you for that same woman. I'm an old dude, been back in the dating scene recently and the difference between dating 20 or 30 years ago and dating now is drastic. Women are far pickier because they've got more success now and they have way more options.

@@Gnomesmusher 💯

I posted a random photo of an Asian girl on Asian dating site, my message box exploded. Thousands of men messaged me in a week. All high quality men pursuing this girl that has no intro but a photo!

Is it really success though? In terms of quantity of men, yes. But success in terms of well brought up children, stable families, marriages? We have record levels of crime, drug use, gang violence etc. Most is attributed to broken families. Because women choose wrong. That is not success.

What’s your thoughts on a guy working so much to become high value, and as a result, his lifestyle becomes boring because he’s grinding most of the time?

@@davidh7832 It comes down to how he manages his time. It's not like he works 80hrs a week annually. He has paid vacation time which he should use some to expand his attributes. There are also down time even if he runs a business. There are boring women out there as well. Imagine finally going on a date with a woman that's attractive but all she talks about is her looks, independence, and career the entire day/evening because she thinks that's what every man wants. High value is subjective and it varies by each woman's desires. Just because you see and hear a number of women on social media who prefers men with six figures etc. etc. does not represent other or majority of women. So don't wait till you've reach your "high value" goal to finally explore what the world has to offer. Instead, build your personal resume now because it takes time.

Definitely happens all the time. They’re actively dating when they matched with you so it really is a competition.

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Gotta think of the name for their kid after the first txt!

@@N5X1odQ4gTSiwPjSQsucxA ahah 😂😂😂

He might get friend zoned tho

They do love to hype up a lot of nothing

I agree with your comments. It will prevent future heartache 😊

generics buddy boyos not the type 🤣😂

@@clownworld360 What?

Being white with blonde hair was enough😂😂🥴🥴

theres not dating app for your face + height 🤣

Very true. I know this from my past mistakes and experience. Sadly, guys need to tamp down their enthusiasm and act almost indifferent.

This is true. But also, there could have been attraction at first and then he lost that attraction from her because he did something. That happens a lot. I would know. Haha.

@@Gnomesmusher After watchign the whole thing I have to assume that happened. My first thought was physical attraction and I'm like girl you met him online you been knew what he looked like.

huh?

He definitely does. There are thousands of those on dating apps. Ivy leagues aren’t even good at engineering (except for Cornell).